Ladies- Would You Date A Man With No Job?
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- Опубликовано: 26 авг 2024
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"I don't care if he is flipping burgers or picking flowers"
Yeah what a load of crap.
That comment was made for tv
Right
Bruh who u telling
The Guy True...because as a grown woman, I don’t want a man that’s flipping burgers. Stuff costs money.😐
The Guy haha yea facts. You think a woman will be into a guy who works at McDonald’s or a guy who’s a CEO of his own company? Haha society huh
"Why are men avoiding marriage these days?"
Answer: These women
Anthony Kist yup
If you have a penis and you're looking for a woman to be the provider and take care of u, ain't there no woman who'll want to marry u anyway.
Exactly I’m good
@@sanghuloom6943 so are you my man
What's in it for us? NOTHING!
"If you lose your job you will lose your woman, not now...but eventually" - Chris Rock.
I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU SMH.
Just like if you get fat you will lose your man
Sounds like shes worth losing before it gets started. If she runs when times are difficult, shes a loser from the start.
I see
Sounds like a who're
"We're running the world" - coming from the citizen of a country with all 46 presidents who were men😂
44 presidents were men.😉
Dark Chocolate what
The us isn't the world, these ladies still wrong in my opinion just had to say something
@@nicholashayes5773 it's 46 to be precise
Well that's changing...we have a Woman Vice president.
These women are confusing me. They're contradicting themselves.
It isn't about coherence but the claps.
Lol, what else did you expect? They are wimminz.
They said they don’t mind that he’s broke if as long as he has goals, but they all know that the only way to check if someone has goals before getting closer to them is by looking at what job they have or how much is in the bank
Exactly, there's clearly 2 conflicting views on this couch and it seems every woman sitting there is extremely confused about which view they hold, constantly jumping back and forth between the 2. Steve was the only one that remained consistent in his view.
That's just how women are, they don't know what the hell they want
This 4 women represent why men don't want to get married
I think girl with blond hair is good person
White girls FTW!
😆😆
Cos they make their own money 🤔
@@mirandatwumasi exactly what i saw too but i guess some ppl ideas will always be their brain
“No enough men are teaching their sons to be a man.”
Yes well you can thank your family court system for that.
If that's the case then these "women" shouldn't be working since that could also be a thing a man usually does. That means a man can stay home and work on the house and still be a man. They're basically saying that he is only being used, not genuinely liked or loved.
Literally everyone on the planet at some point in thier life has tried to PREACH on "how to be men", but dare they say about "how to be woahmen" they'd get cancelled in no time
Being a man has nothing to do with providing for women
Too many women don’t know how to pick a good man then that’s their faults.
problem is not enough women are teaching their daughters how to be a woman
Women: What's mine is mine, what's his is ours.
Not quiet right. more like women: what’s mine is mine, what’s his is also mine
I heard this saying plenty of times
You said it beautifully.
Facts
lol yeah, a youtuber asked exotic car owners what they do for a living and the woman in a lambo replied "WE" own....
As if any of them would date a man who's flipping burgers.
thrilla72 hell naw that wouldn't
Million dollar question right here
thrilla72 I think they mean at least be active while you're trying to get your goaos
I bet if he was super hot then .. yeah
thrilla72 Right I agree with you on that
They don't even realize how terrible they sound
Daniel Rivera They will 20 years from now when they're living with a house full of cats.
Daniel Rivera it is called having Narcissistic personality disorder. Sadly, majority western women suffer from this.
they are famous and in their late 30's + and have spent a ton on plastic surgey.. You think they want to be with a balding dude who isn't successful in his 30's?
@@rosecapitalgroupinc hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh yea !!! right ! lmfao !!!
i’m a female and i’m like 😬
Woman: a man needs ambition. He needs to be moving.
Man: agrees and works 80 hours a week
Woman: how come you never have time for me?
Man: quits job to spend time with his woman
Woman: a man needs ambition. He needs to be moving
...
Gotta leave em wanting more.
@zadose :Asian men work hard and they are least desirable men in the world.
Most of these women are alpha. It's like dating a man with a vagina. They will treat you like a kid and scold you if you dont do as they say. Screw that!!...Look for a feminine - submissive woman.
@@littleboyboom_boom4726 stfu
@@rjdez3589 Screw that, don't look for any woman at all. MGTOW
Divorced twice. Seems like the perfect role model.
All i hear is "I want to be treated like a princess and you to be my servant."
Once you have children the game changes. What these “GROWN WOMEN” are saying is I can do or pay for someone to do what your going, but if we partners hold me me down and I will hold you down.
Thats cause you dusty
@1964sleepy They can have all the money in the world and still that wouldn't satisfy them. Take Eve for instance...
No they just want men to do what they're supose to do, provide.
Yessssssss
I don't hear any of these women say what they give to their men! it's always about what they expect!!
That's what I noticed
NYC 42 well women never talk about what they do for their men
Imersiion Really?? What planet have you been living on ha ha ha??
NYC 42 I’ve never met a women anywhere where they’ve given something to their guy just about what they’ve been given
Women aren't really self actualizing. They really can't account to their character only if the end goal has a cake and eat it too scenario. They'll beat around the bush trying to make the world bend to their liking.
However, I have met women of good character but it's usually the older generations. Still, self actualization is hard for em.
I knew a guy who lost his job two months before the wedding. The recession was in full force and jobs were hard to find. His fiance still married him. That's a real woman, one who realizes there will be highs and lows in marriage.
She probably saw that he had the character of a man who was not a quitter. That even if he lost his job for a moment she knew he was the type of person who would continue to try to be the best man that he could for her. A man's character tells a lot about the type of husband, father, provider, protect her etc that he will be and if he has a strong character that is a lot more trustworthy than someone who gives up easily
Amen 🙌🙌🙌
Nobody would call off a wedding because thier partner became unemployed and they actually lived them. You don't get credit for not being a monster
Wow 👏... What a great social service she did
There's no way they would ever date a guy who bags groceries, makes sandwiches, stocks shelves.
And what if this guy ends up being a millionaire one day? That’s the annoying part is he could have goals set but women don’t care because all they see is a grocery stocker.
Just described my life😭😭😭
@YoMoma What's wrong with fat women?
Seriously, what's wrong with working stacking shelves, bagging groceries, or working at McDonald's and/or Wal-Mart 🤦🏽♂️.. At least they're making money and not sitting on their butts all day watching tv.
Lmao true
So what exactly do they do for their men? All I heard was "Me Me Me, what I want, What I need when I need it."
Lmao that’s the thing, today’s society tells women they can do anything they want and they don’t need a man but people like Steve tells men that they can’t survive without a woman. I think both needs to work together but If we’re going to go this route then I can stand up on my own two legs too.
Exactly a man is suppose to bring everything to the table, and these days all women bring is a knife and fork
@@GeneralG1810 The funny part is that these women are literally LOADED with cash, making more figures than the average guy will ever see, and are still expecting a guy to bring literally everything to the table to...get what in return? If I wanted a short-term hoe I'd go to a club.
So my ears didn't betrayed me I heard correct.
AintOP: Damn right baby
This is why the MGTOW movement is spreading like wild fire
Micah Mistretta 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 You FKN Right about that
Mgtows are extremely undesirable men who are driven to go their own way because nobody wants them.
Nova I read your comment and I’m like what? 😂 Talking about women then say men at fault.
@@RiruKrypto_ Nah
@@allisonmcinnis5929 I wouldn't say all MGTOW guys fall in that category. I would say that I do though. Sucks but, that's the facts.
"I've been married twice" bruh why she giving advice🤣🤣🤣
To help u avoid marrying twice too😂
@@snowiehadebe4305 lol!!!!!!!!!!!
It’s the type of women your attracting
OMG you just made me realize that LMAOOOO
Same reason Steve Harvey 3 times divorcy is giving advice. What a dumb comment 🤣🤣🤣
2:34 "We're running the world" HAHAHAAHAHA,that part had me dying..
Anonymous#Reuploads complete disconnect from reality
Who's the President! 🤣🤣
When will single women learn...... Advise from other single women will not help you.... There are reasons they are single........ Talk to women in successful relationships.........
Same with guys who can't keep a girl. Steve Harvey is the one who has them on here giving advice. No one asked them anything.
@@naturalkinkycurlymarie7496 But this advice is for women. And men never listen to men who can't get women, we're not like women. Everything does not have a mirror action, but women have a hard time understanding this.
@@naturalkinkycurlymarie7496 Men consider the source more than women do . Our friends do not talk us out of something we like.
Greg Nagy What a successful relationship is to one person might be a horror to another.
Or listen to broke entitled men
"I wanna see ambition", you mean their paycheck lmao
Exactly. 🤦♂️
Your only job is to provide and protect can't even do that loser
@@allisonmcinnis5929 who are you talking to lmao
@@allisonmcinnis5929 Yeah, then what is your job? From your comment alone, i can see you are not good at raising children or giving a good example to them as a parent and by the way that's your job. From that mindset alone and your attitude, i can imagine how your child can grow to be a fully grown ass jerk.
Stealth Spider Yes. Precisely
A few years back, my friend lost his job.. It was a job way above his pay grade and it was hard to find another job at that level. After 4 months of this, his wife of 7 years left him. Everything was great until the money was gone. The ironic part, she never had a job in her life and spent her unlimited free time spending a good portion of his money. Now she receives half his earnings and her life of doing nothing can continue til the end of her days
That's what he gets for marrying a shallow women. Next time he shouldn't just focus on looks ,he has to focus on personality too
Aww man smh that's not right!
I'm so sorry to hear that 😔 it's a damn shame that she would do that to him
Prenup needs to be normalize for marriage. Divorce only favor the women even the law.
@@gatestimonymiracle1302 How do you know what she looks like? Let's assume you are correct: If he shouldn't focus on looks, she shouldn't focus on money.
Hypergamy exists; whether you want it to or not.
"I've dated a bunch of musicians". Translation = I've had sex with tons of "bad boys" and wanna settle down with some chump.
So, In other words, women can't win. Might as well go for money if dating the unemployed guys is ALSO held against you. Either money doesn't matter, or it does. Pick one. (And before you throw accusations my way, I haven't done either. I've checked out of the game and support myself. Dating is not worth the headache. )
@@amandaforrester7636 how about go for a guy you love rather then his wallet 🤷♂️
@@amandaforrester7636 strange that a man provides and take care of a woman but women won't do the same for him so selfish
People still bully Nicki Minaj for getting married to a bum with no car or job. So yes.
@@meep_murp8758 there is far more bum women that men have to take care of men shouldn't marry a woman that's not working
To be fair, I don't wanna marry a broke unemployed woman as well. 😉
Facts
@karma tam also true
Most successful men don't care if a woman is broke or not, as long as she is smart, nurturing, and a great mother.
Which woman has money though???
"w0W THAT'S s0 S3xiSt"
All of them are single on that panel.
Moses Small The irony huh.
Marcus Graves this is true comedy.
Moses Small this should be top comment
Moses Small Lol
All the single lady's all single lady's hahaha
A man is a real Man when he walks his own path and not listen to anyone, specially these lunatics.
I believe when a man is trying to get a wife he hopes that she adds to his life not subtract from it.
💯
These women made me cringe the entire time smh
Cithrah Henderson me too
Oh So much! They're contradicting their own beliefs
#MeToo
Cithrah Henderson They are celebrities they don't speak for the average woman with their income
They are single. Enough said
Why do we believe in equal pay if we feel that a man should provide?
Lo Oo Billion dollar question
Lo Oo women wanna b independent and want a guy to take care of them also.. which 1 is it. U can't b independent and then turn around & have yo hands out. U can't have it both ways
Equal pay when we both have the same job, experience and education
Sade_Ashley equal pay when you have identical track records and applied for the same position at the same time.
Good question
Having money is nice
However the most bitter people I've ever met are people that are rich
Steve is right ladies....
zadose I understand what you are saying, I would want a girl that brings positive energy to my life, it’s definitely ok to have standards only animals don’t, I just don’t like the fact people are labeling you sexist when you do, both to man and woman.
@zadose can't afford you 😂😂😂.... Its prostitution... Just say it clearly.. No need to play with words girl.... You want a rich man and want to sell your body to him... You are not smart.. Don't try to
Niki Lyons Nope
Well thank you for making relationships less desirable.
They said they are independent “women” yet they want a man that will provide for them. These women are hypocritical lol🤦♂️😂,
Exactly! Why dont they look for the man they love, marry them and provide for them?
Female's like them are the worst these days when it comes to dating, avoid them like the plague.
Sorry I’m a man with a great job but I will not get married just to have a house wife that I have to work myself to death to take care of
Antwan Myers Straight like that my King!!!
While she out shopping spending all the money
Maurice Williams You already know...lol
I don’t think it’s about any one person taking care of the other financially. It should be two people taking care of each other and contributing to the relationship.
Goaty Gal&Family totally agree you will get much more from each other working together to better your lives
Notice how when each of the women talk.... the one talking will look at the others to see if they are approving of what she is saying. They can't think on their own.
I'm just blessed my wife and we started dating when I basically had nothing (highschool). Had rough times but we got through it, and now we have 3 kids, and we're about to be grandparents 😊
@R Cruz He still has a woman, right? Lol.
Yet they expect men to be with unemployed women!
jonny davis See the double standard there?
In my country men always marry girl with same degree/salary cause thats how we are raised
jonny davis men don't mind it. It's not like most men expect their woman to be a provider instead of a nurturer.
Some men do not want their woman to work. They want her to take care of the family and home. Nothing wrong with that 😂y’all have an issue with being a provider? Find you a woman who is OK with that. Everyone isn’t going to do things YOUR way
There are men who choose to be with lazy ass women so they get what they get. Regardless of gender, no one should settle for less.
Where my MGTOW brothers at!!
@zadose Where's the logic in that argument? 🤔
@@CLU7CH3R where is your money and good personality. You're worthless
mgtow!!!
@@ggpz1979 brokeuglytow
They are unemployed and couldnt pay the internet bill 😂
Thanks for reminding me why I’m happier single.
So all the women here giving advise while they all have second marriages 😂😂 good luck for the audience
What?? So basically they see men as their voluntary servant... -_-
Yes. Because men are suppose to provide
@Bruce Wayne your mom
@Bruce Wayne we know bruce, we know.
@@mangkanor9403 A troll? So i guess this is why we don't like unemployed people. They turning into a jerk with nothing else better to do except trolling on internet.
@@danielpradhanasaputra7956 bish I can program better than u indian boi
Stopped watching at "I started modeling when I was 17".
I stopped watching as soon as they cut the first lady off in trying to giving her point of view, how rude :(
Kevin Laurendi i stopped watching after she said "when i waz 17" what a load 😖💩😃AHHH
she look like a model for crocs
That's why she's a millionaire and you are complaining about her lol
She's ugly af to be a model!
I dated a guy once who was jobless while I was in college and barely making it myself. I helped him out from time to time with some cash and paid his phone bill for a couple of months. Found out that this guy cheated on me with like 3 girls. Out of all of the guys that I've dealt with the broke one is the one who did me the worst! I never felt so stupid in my life. How do I get cheated on by a BROKE guy?? Lmfao never again. Hell will freeze over 😭
A man would look after woman with no job to the world that's his duty but if a woman looks after a man with no job for a few days the whole world would think he is lazy.
I feel like dating is harder for wealthy people because you'll never know if the female likes you for who you are or your financial satus.
That's why wealthy people generally only date and marry wealthy people. Even then though, it doesn't work out often.
Just don't spend money on them, the money you have can attract them to you, but that doesn't mean you have to buy them things.... the only men who can take advantage of good looking women now a days are rich men believe it or not
@@michaelangst6078 Women with high standards can't get played with a promise. If you ain't spending and investing they're not even THINKING of giving you anything and won't waste their time.The RICHEST man in the world divorced his wife of 25 years wife for a so called gold digger that he's spoiling like crazy. Most men with money want a woman that they find attractive by their side and will do what it takes because they can AFFORD to. Broke men and established wealthy men think completely different.
There’s nobody on this earth who will love you for who you are. Only a few which is rare and you shouldn’t take them for granted.
Just fake being broke for a week, or a month.
Women request so damn much but give very little in return
No it's the other way around.
@@allisonmcinnis5929 Only in your delusional world. Women are literally good for nothing but a hole.
@@firstlast5630 hahahaha a hole you can't even afford. Wonder why you're lonely and embittered.
@@tracibenett4497 So you're admitting women are literally nothing but a hole for sale?
@first last.... so you're saying your mother is a good for nothing but a hole.... ??? Got it! Yup! You're absolutely right.... what a wonderful sin you are.... pos
Chicks wont date an unemployed man, but we're supposed to throw ourselves at "Stay at home mothers"
So you don't work and you want me to help pay to raise a kid that's not mine.....I don't think so
This ain’t it 😂
At first your profile pic looked to me to be myron from fresh and fit lol
"A broke man is like a broke hand, can't do nothing with it" Chris Rock Grandma
All I heard from all these women was "Show me the MONEY!!"
@@allisonmcinnis5929 lo you are one bitter expired crazy cat lady who hasn't had a date since prom
@@allisonmcinnis5929 first, you missed the point. second, virgin till marriage so no this 'useless dog' never touched a woman or felt entitled to anything. third, the point i was making is that no woman on that panel is going to take a man 'picking flowers.' Women date up not down. even if it's a perception that he's below her. guy could have his own plumbers business with twenty employees, making a million plus a year. but on a first date when she asks him what he does and he says hes a plumber, she's already out the door. finally, 'standard that you can't meet'? really? let's see. College degree? Check. Six foot plus? Check. Job? Check. Commits to one and only one woman? Check. Works hard to provide for family, loves and respects her in all areas, listens to her concerns and input? Check. Now tell me again about those standards I can't meet.
@@Raniko2020 Its funny how most girls upfront wants a 6 foot tall+ guy, I obviously get that women are attracted to taller guys and some of the other requirements, but the moment a guy says in their Bio or alike says " No fat chicks or single moms" they all get crazy and offended lol. Why women can have upfront preferences and guys can't. To be honest, these discussions are useless and the topics in these shows sometimes are stupid. Of course a women won't be attracted to guys that are jobless and with nothing interested going on for themselves. Girls might get away with that it if they are pretty but rest assure that the clock is ticking. Also the fact that women usually date up, not down it comes to an end when they reach 35 or so, beauty starts to fade and their list of requirements although is now even longer, usually will have to settle for less or stay single. The amount of guys waking up and learning that marriage is little to no beneficial to men is going up, and more and more guys are finding out that sometimes the juice doesn't worth the squeeze.
@@allisonmcinnis5929 why a loyal dog should put all is money in 1 black hole.
@@allisonmcinnis5929 I bet you're single and lonely af!
"If you have a goal, not having a paycheck is okay...." Give me a break!
Friend of mine said it best" A relationship can survive infidelity before it survives the bills not being paid. Being cheated on is a matter of pride, the bills are a matter of survival."
Being cheated on is a matter of health too a.k.a. survival.
They only mean male infidelity, Agatha. No man puts up with a woman sleeping with other dudes, but they expect that their wife will forgive them for "making a mistake" with their coworkers or girls from Tinder 10 years younger.
These gold diggers will surely marry a man who does nothing but has a millions of dollars came from the daddy and grand dad.
How many women build houses from the ground up in skyscrapers, how many women worked in auto mechanic shops, how many women are plumbers and electricians, how many women know how to replace the roof on a house? Is it really a matter of equality or is it really a matter of mutual respect? Men and women are different one is not more valuable than the other, we each have our place, responsibility, and functions in this world and we can complement each other. God created man, and then he created the woman as the man's help, who ever has a problem with that can talk to God about it.
Amen!
I agree with Mission Impossible; women are just as blessed to be able to do all they can, but men and women each have their place; and if they can work together as one, great things can happen.
Amen.
You are so right my friend. Incredible I could not have said it better myself.
Agreed!
She said “women today are running the world” and that right there lady’s and gentlemen is the worlds biggest problem
I agree
I was thinking about this the other day when watching parliament. Though I agree we need women as part of government, the whole thing is going to end up a disaster if women are allowed to take it over
I couldnt watch all of this...gotta go back flipping burgers or i will lose my job
These videos give me my daily reminder to stay single and focus on yourself and buy stuff for yourself, they only want your resources.
What do women do for men?
I'm reading book to find out. Still no clue
nothing
beebobox Women carry babies for nine good months and birth and nurture the babies
nurture the babies? in this generation? are you kidding me
Victoria Obiadazie how are they nurturing the babies when they are also working?
Whoops
And this is why, i stay single. I don't need unneeded problems.
By choice or by no choice? 😂😂
DONT GET WIFE.
More money for you if you stay single lol.
@@mangkanor9403 every choice that involves a woman is a terrible or in fact the worst possible choice.
You’re the world a favor,every woman needs a good man.
Woman: I want my man to get off the couch and work to provide.
Also woman: Why aren't you spending more time with me?
If a guy loves you he'll make time for you I work full-time and have chores and still have time to speak to people I care about
I know, this is why I am focused on establishing my life first and fulfilling my dreams and goals first. Not the women.
Men- Would You Date A Woman With No Weight Loss plan?
lextacy2008 NO
Erin Rockefeller Aldrin rotf! Yes! Lol i was like huh??? Lol
Lol
Jeremy Honeycutt is someone forcing you to pay child support??? You seem mad at women.
Lmmfao
When I watch his video I feels mgtow is coming.....
JIGNESH BUNKER Bingo!!! Lmao
JIGNESH BUNKER
Like a dark cloud because new Steve just panders to women now.
MGTOW for life
We here baby! MGTOW
Yep by choice3😭😭😭😂😂
"Get your toosh off the couch"
Well, that didn't age well in the era of pandemic and working from home.
I've been married for 26yrs. No plans for divorce. Knowing what I know now? No way in hell would I do it again
Yes, why not, if he's willing to work. It's not a crime, love conquers all. 🤷♀️🇦🇺 married a man who had nothing, still married 46 yrs later.
You the real MVP 👏👏
True respect not many people do this in the u.s.a
Like you had options, go ahead and lie 😂😂😂 if he had money would he be with you or are you all he could get?
@@allisonmcinnis5929 Seriously, it seems like everything happen in your life are only bad things and you don't want anyone else to be happy. Even a good news such as this you consider as a lie or too good to be true. I am very sorry to hear that.
@@allisonmcinnis5929 It's hilarious how all the comments I've read from you were projections 😂
I hate how people assume that your sitting on the coach if you don't have a job.. People shouldn't be so black-and-white its a tough world we live in and people can go months and months without work doesn't mean there not looking for a job though
Vincent Andrews True
I think that's very true but while it may not be fair, if you want the additional responsibility of a relationship you need to first be self sufficient and build some equity to be an attractive prospect .
celestialcircledance
True
That is true! But either way if you are unemployed, male or female, you shouldn’t be dating. You should put your time and energy into making money.
@@thekailashow7687 Yes!
Its so hard for women to admit that they need NEED the protector and provider. They are attracted to the protector and provider.
Independence has NOTHING to do with this
We are attracted to a provider and protector. That attraction doesn't stop women from working and bringing things to the table. God intended for the woman to be a helpmate. But too many men these days want the woman to be the provider and protector. Men are becoming too feminine.
@@anniealexander9616 and women too masculine.
I wouldn't say need. I would say want. Fact is very few men are providers or protectors anymore.
@@cooljool1 Women are forced to take on masculine roles. For instance, I've done the yardwork all these years because no man would do it. My exhusband was hunting, sleeping, watching porn; while I was being the "man" of the house. Just last fall, me and my daughter were replacing window panes on a rental property. She had just spent the weekend before with her dad at the Harley place. He was coordinating a new outfit. 😂
Everything became so wrong in this world when men and women decided to take each other's role in life.
Society in my opinion has failed men to thinking all they have to do for so long to be able to be considered a man is go get a check and pay bills. Paying bills is what grown people do not just men. Grown folks pay bills period. Manhood needs to be redefined in my opinion nothing special about paying bills every adult does that.
Study after study shows men need to be providers. Relationships where the woman is the breadwinner have higher divorce rate.
JamericanDC1 YES....YES! I am in agreement with you😀😀😀
ShonMuzik Productions I think paying bills is very special. And one of the marks of a real man is stepping up to the responsibility of taking care of his family. Manhood is certainly not driving her car around all day while she's at work and then having sex at night. I work because I don't trust like that, but he is still going to work AND he is going to pay bills like a real man should.
Che M AMEN....AMEN...AMEN! Now I am glad to know that another person gets the point!😀😀😀 Thank you....THANK YOU!
j Matthews One thing is for sure, I'm NEVER going to marry or even date a woman who can't get a decent job on her own merit. If I turn out to make A LOT of money I don't think it's necessary for her to work, but I'd still want an ambitious woman who doesn't have to rely on anyone else or me to get her where she wants and who'd still want to pursue her own carreer. Kinda like my mom now that I think about it. Both my parents have good and stable jobs, they share chores and pretty much everything and it's been working out very well from what I've been seeing all these years. A marriage is supposed to be a partnership, not a parasitic relationship where one does all the work and the other stays at home doing virtually nothing most of the time - and don't come at me with the "oh, but the house chores and kids are as hard as any job or even harder" - stop patting yourself in the back so much, any job you can do in your pajamas is NOT a hard job. Single people have jobs and also do the house chores and you don't really hear them complain. Also, to the stay at home mothers out there saying they have the most difficult job on the planet should open their eyes a bit and have some respect for the people who actually work hard. You don't see a lot of mothers dying from lung cancer from inhaling coal dust from the mines do you? -_-
I still like Steve, but I personally disagree with the way he views marriage as such a one sided relationship where he does EVERYTHING and his wife just does whatever she wants all day and spends most of his money on entire rooms dedicated to clothes. His wife seems nice, but she's a bit of a gold digger piggy backing on Steve's hard earned success... Want proof? Who was she before she married Steve? She would never have had anything remotely close to what she has now if it wasn't for her marriage with Steve. And she probably couldn't even have her own carreer before that either.
The only reason why women are so independent now is because they're aren't enough men around helping out
joseph robinson Nope, it is because women have bought into this feminism, empowerment, independent, women run the world bs.
Awesome Car Society has told women that they don’t need men anymore, that they can have the family, the great career and still have it without a man and the question that I have is it true and the answer is no. Studies have shown that more women are more unhappy today and it’s because they have brought the idea of having the education and career and still be happy single and it’s simply not true
Erin Rockefeller Aldrin yes but most of them are dead or in jail meaning females are basically forced to be independent because no man is there helping them
Jeremy Honeycutt these women are on welfare????
Elle D yes and their health declines after marriage too
But if it was the other way round "HOW DARE YOU DISRESPECT WOMEN"
Well no smart men ain't marrying any of these chatter mouths here
I personally wouldn't date a guy who is unemployed, but if we dated then he came up on hard times that's different.
Quita Diggs alot of those unemployed people looked over cux they situation end up bein the people we c on tv or hear on 📻 n end up makin enuff money to employ everybody tht stepped over em..
Quita Diggs Yea for a while anyways..
zadose What if he got into a car accident and was paralyzed for the rest of his life? It's unlikely but anything can happen at any time. What would you do? Not love him anymore?
That's why women are the most shallow species in the world.
If he's been laid off, is *actively* seeking re-employment, and has *no problem* paying his bills then what difference does it make if he doesn't have a job yet...?
"I've dated every musician ever", music is a very valid career... it's being self employed not unemployed
Exactly.
If you're not making money, you're almost as bad as unemployed. And before you disagree, ask the rent man what he thinks. He wants his money every month, he doesn't give a damn about your dreams.
@@AllPro777 Bruv... soon as you get any form of exposure and hit 3 venues in a month with 2k for each venue, you think you can't live off of that??
@@iamdannyel3285 A person could, but that's not typical. Most of these people are struggle artists going nowhere, making nothing.
Getting $30 per gig lol wow
These ladies: I wanna be independent, I wanna make my own money, I wanna do this by myself, i wanna do that myself, me me me me
Also these ladies: I wanna strong man that can lead.
I think I'll go ahead and focus on myself and remain single until their ego erodes with age.
It’s good to a certain extent for the woman to be independent as it takes off a lot of financial stress from the guy
A man shouldn’t worry about what a woman thinks he should be doing because a man should be marching on the sound of his own drum .
Met my now husband when he was unemployed 13 years ago. He moved in, I supported him for a couple of months...then he got a job. Now he works about 60 hours a week and makes mad $$. Plus he's awesome.
so u supported him for a couple of months and he supported u for at least 13 years...and u r boasting here about that couple of months!!!!
And if he is unemployed again you’ll find someone else 🤣
Well she should...cause she met him that way and he improved with her support
so u want us to have no Standards because you have no standards ?
@@infinityloveharris492 hahaha - oh Honey. Clearly, it's YOU has no standards. Now go flash a little more of that fat cleavage. ;)
Steve had no job. For 3 years, he was homeless and had a dream.
Sometimes having a job will cut SIGNIFICANTLY into the time that you need to work on your craft.
I've never seen myself working for someone and I know that God is gonna carry me to amazing places. I have a dream and I'm gonna get there. Period.
firstdon How’s it going 6 months later? 😂 Before getting offended, I liked your comment btw.
I hate working for bosses at jobs being told what to do hate that rather create my own job.
Amen
@@Mr.Honest247 still not where I want to be 😂😂 but I'm not where I was last year so.. baby steps
@@cryptojonny6837 I fw it man 🙏 keep pushing
These women on their panel and their thinking is the reason why women are more disenchanted today and initiating divorce at 90 percent rates.
I always say women have the option to work or stay home... not men.
This is just appreciation for women. The question isn't even about women yet they end up talking about women. 🤦♂️
It is about Women. Women not wasting their time on Mr DUSTY that leaves you with bills and three kids one day!
@@CrystalDatingCoach it is about women being shallow 👍
@@mrreddy120 Or about seeing what there MOM'S went through. Sacrificing for Partners that...left them with no money and kids.
@@CrystalDatingCoach I'm sorry about that you went through that, but it doesn't justify being a shallow piece of trash :/
If men said they wouldn't date a broke woman, those would be shallow men. And I certainly wouldn't make excuses for them like you are, for these fools.
1:10 That’s a lie...For starters a woman don’t care about a dreamer, ambition and etc. (not the come up), a woman is attracted to money and power (The present) 🤭
Its true. When i was in college, these chicks dont give a damn about your goals or the future. They can't process the future period.
I’ve had the same experience. It’s hard to understand the amount of sacrifice it takes to actually make it
@n cw Women don't care about mens plans, even their own sons. Men have to care about and advocate womens though, otherwise they're sexist. I hate the way women manipulate society, they're just selfish
so true
Thats where you are wrong. Its not $$$ that women look for, its a mans ability to climb hierarchies and his ability to procure FUTURE resources that matters. This is true cross culturally across all of time.
This are the women who say "My husband's money, is ours. But my money is mine." They have to be avoided at all cost because they will show you their true colours when you're at your worst.
I work as a Janitor, and saving money for my college education and for a future marriage with a Real Women, not the fony types like these.
They want man with job so they can cheat on him when hes gone
Jesus isn't a loser.
In most decent size cities with a good job market, the cost of living pretty much require two salaries unless one person makes over 100k. Even then it can be tight when you add in kids.
What if he makes $50K but spends $40K frivolously?
My bf when I met him worked in an oil field for 12 years crazy hours and so when we met he was unemployed but had money to not work for a while and still treat me well and take me out. He ended up working for the top hospital here in our city after a few months of us dating. He is and was anything but lazy very hardworking and loving man. We are getting married soon and works overtime every time they needed someone and always supports and treats us my son included. I think in my case he is a rare one indeed though ;) I always stuck by him though and suggested we go for interviews. What makes a man is the woman I believe!!!! You go through good and bad times, hard and good together....
Met my boyfriend, he had two jobs, an apartment, a car.
3 months later, no apartment, no car and down to one job. Used my car to deliver pizza for two months and lived with me.
Broke up, back together, no job, no car, living rent and utility free in a house run by an agency.
I've waited over a year for change. It's not coming.
I don't want anyone's money, just something more stable.
Keri Hilson looking goodd😍
She is beautiful
Not that hair.
that weave is a no no though
She got a big wig but i can't choose what parts of her I like to be bald, not saying she's bald under it.
Warda Elmas lol, put your glasses on.with a plaster of make-up, my pitbull looks better than her.
Women want their cake and eat it too , it is that simple. It is not about equality for women it is about advantageous opportunity that's primarily in their favor.
huh? sounds more like a man to me
Precious Well? Are you going to answer the question?
Precious thats funny lol last time i check a man would date a woman without a job but a woman wont do the same
Precious Just Foh
Maxantium So we as men need to make the cake! I like how steve said women wantca shoulder to lean on. Men, also, want to be the shoulder she leans on!
That's another prove that goals and ambition career money is way more important than that so called love facts not feelings.
We can certainly have all the love we want at the homeless shelter!
Warning for the people in the comment section. There is a woman called Allison McInnis who might've been a bully in school who is wrong about her perception of men.
Steve Harvey is such a panderer. He'll say anything to get validation and applause.
Ocean Hedonist
That's what he paid to do.
Or maybe he wasn't raised to be a lazy entitled bum
LoL...they want a second father!
I could date someone without a job, no problem there...i mean, anyone can fall on hard times.
These women are just vain.
Good
Denis Aziz Your dating not living with each other shouldn’t be about money just enjoy each other’s company. If you where married or living together yes but even then it’s still hard to find jobs
Will you pay for the date tho?
u have no standards
@@infinityloveharris492 If you had a man who had a job then lost it , you would leave him ?
I know a woman who took a chance on her current husband. He was divorced, about age 35. He did not have a lot of money and was a musician. He had a goal to be a jazz musician, which is a tough career choice. Now 26 years later he is successful, has toured the world and worked with top names in the business. And he does very well financially. So taking a chance pays off for women who want to take a risk.
The value of any person is not in the money they make but in the content of their character. Loving, considerate, generous, kind, loyal, and goal oriented. Sometimes you have to invest in the right person from the ground up. It's good if a man is already financially stable when you meet him but that should not be the basis of your interest in him. The greatest relationships come from seeing the real value in each other.
The same goes for women , I wouldn’t date a woman who is unemployed.
AmeriKan women shouldn't even be ON that list TBH...
Big facts
This is incredibly sexist.
Erik Balayan
Ironically they don't realise their being sexist
@@DC... It's never sexist when women do it...
I dont want a woman even if she has a job, ambition, yacht, bmw & a villa.
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From my opinion both woman and man should be independent