How to Handle Rejection
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- Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
- As Social Beings, Rejection is one of the most difficult facets of life that people can experience. The pain of rejection is compounded by the fact that when we get rejected, we tend to turn against ourself. In this episode, Teal Swan explains how to handle rejection and what to do when you feel rejected.
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‘People reject things every day because they can’t afford them’
This sentence has freed me from pain
Can you please explain this?
I don't understand this
@@Gabzoox when some things seems impossible to get, you tend to reject it altogether. Like when you like a boy/girl but you feel that you are "way out of your league" but the boy/girl actually likes you back, you reject it because you feel that it is totally impossible to happen.
Doesn’t sound like you’re free because it seems you’re still attaching rejection to validation
@@Gabzoox to understand this, imagine a super confident man like Jeff Bezos. Imagine now HE reads a profile with a lot.things.which HE doesnt fullfill or doesnt immidiately believe the other Person could authentically fullfill. Do you.really Think this man would then just not write him Back when he got written in a polite way? If HE doesnt believe him immidiately, OF COURSE.he would. Why? Because he has nothing to.lose becaues he showed hinself already he has the Power to build an Empire. A rejection from the other Person cannot take this believe away..so he would.give the other Person a chance to Show HE is really as competent as claimed.
So, what can we conclude from.this ? That this means of we are rejected although we have described ourselves with high Standards, it mostly means that most people just dont feel like they cant live up to us. Because if they would feel.worthy of us, they would kindly write to us that our profile Sounds hard.to believe to be true but still is interested to see if he might be wrong about this and the other Person reslly described himself authentically.
So if you want to have a really honest idea how much you are really worth,.only.confident people can estimate IT. The other people just project their lack of.worth onto you..
Being rejected was the best thing that ever happened to me. I'm reprogramming myself rejection is a good thing that propelled to a better future.
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True, sometimes you thank a person who rejected you for being honest with you.
"Love" is a freedom feeling. Let it flow freely
@@dinosaur0073kj kill😊
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Rejection is a protective redirection.
For the most part I was rejected by things deep down I didn't want.
I love this
True..we just dont wanna accept that fact tho😎
I felt that. So true
Every “no” leads to an eventual “yes”. I appreciate you, Teal.
Alexander Di Fiore Yes 😍✌️
Captain Capitalistic Coconut right ! 🙏💗
Every "no" leads eventually to "no way" :-)))
Welcome to reality.
Jan Balabán if there's a will there's a way
Only a certain type of people hate and rage at the word, "no."
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I was rejected and gaslighted since I was a little. I live in constant fear and confusion for the next years from that. I just realized that there is something not right within me when I was 18 years old, and it took about 12 years later for me to feel better of myself even though there's some pain still. What I want to say is please don't get discouraged if it took you a bit long time. Just keep going and you will find your answer.
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Just the right moment. Every time.
In right moment?
Do you have tolilet paper? NO! Pasta? NO! Desinfection? NO NO NO!
Ouch! I was brutally rejected.
Not for me, not at all. The world is in the middle of a freaking crises and she casually makes videos about extremely trivial topics that send passive aggressive messages to her viewers on top of that. Now is not the time for Teal to act childish like this. The pandemic crisis is an extreme physical manifestation of our collective relationship problems, since the virus affects the lungs. But nah, instead of actually making a helpful video about the current situation that affects ALL of us, Teal decides to be passive aggressive again and just calls us narcissists in the only video she made about the pandemic. I appreciate her work but sometimes she's just too blinded by her own personal issues with the world.
@@aight33 i dont see her as passive aggressive at all
@@ashleen7370 you haven't followed her long enough then, she always makes videos about what bothers her about people in her life or her viewers, she's said it herself multiple times
@@aight33 from my perspective, I think you are reacting with Teal affairs. She's another level of how to deal with the situation in general. Teal is not a sensational being. she's not being triggered by any circumstantial situation in the world . She deals with the source which is at the individual level not at the collectively level . Again its my perspective, take this as you which. Sometimes we become strong and wiser in silence introspective ourselves and not letting a situation annoying us.
Yes , rejection stings at first but after feeling it , working through it & realizing it is for your own benefit & you are being redirected into a better place in your life and ultimately you will gain strength and wisdom from it .. Sending good energy & health to all ❤️🙏
I feel amazing after she talks, even knowing that I was wrong 😝 😝
Did you come across Teal Swan via Telltale Atheist too?
We always improving we are always learning.
REjection is the best thing that can ever in someone'S life! How many time have you been declined or rejected by something only to go for something else and thinking in the end, if the 1st one wouldn't have worked out, I would've never found the new one... How many times!! Be honest people!!
I get rejected, but the better thing doesn't always come along. I just accept it.
so true
Never.People still reject me.
1. Rejection is not validation
2. Face your emotions about it
3. Self acceptance self love self compassion
4. Who needs me ? What do i need about me ?
5. You are stuck in resistance to futility
6. Feel into see into the person that rejected you. Get to know them, without judgement. You may decide to change based on their judgement or you may decide to commit to yourself further. Be brave enough to ask why
8. Out of rejection can come your strongest sense of direction (a thing people that dont face rejection know, but people who do ont know)
9. Don’t confirm the rejection by isolating yourself. Seek relationships that are soothing
10. Deliberately seek belonging relationships
(Follow up question… how to match the vibration of belonging)
11. What determines if pain becomes suffering is the actions you choose
Are you goin to suffer? Or will you take this opportunity to learn about yourself or find soemthing better ?
Being rejected by a dysfunctional parent, a toxic partner, or jealous associate....stings superficially, but is absolutely necessary in the grand scheme of things. Great video.
It doesn't sting nor faze me at all.
It only stings when I feel like I lost something I was actually fighting for. Everyone else who rejects me is a relief when they finally leave me tf alone.
Well said. It almost always has everything to do with their issues. Really, the people who reject all the time are really rejecting aspects of themselves!
Could you give us some examples? For some reason, I am always convinced that each rejection was my fault, and can't accept the opposite argumentation.
Nooot really what she said though. I mean I just rejected my friend who keeps wanting me to drink and I am sober.. I had to walk away. And they keep lying to me and hurting me. And they rejected me in a way by not respecting me.
I agree and are these people who we ask why they are rejecting us? I think we will get more BS from them. Opinions? Im talking about a work setting.
You don't have control over who rejects you but you have 100% control over how you respond to it (with practice).
I’m in the middle of the job search, this comes with a lot of rejection, hits my self esteem big time. Thank you for this video and a different perspective
"Out of rejection comes a strong sense of direction." - I felt that. Thank you Teal. 💖
The worse advice I ever got was
"The best way to get over someone, is get under someone else"
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hahaha :D
The advice works better if they’re twins.
My EX Fiance left me a week before our Wedding! Happy Days ! I was a chef, she was a nurse. She would often come home and tell me about the Intern Doctors(training) would try to "CRACK-ON" to as many nurses as they could, while they were at the hospital for a short term. She used to say how dISguStinG they were. We were going to the Maldives for our Honeymoon, of course never got there but I found out about 2 years later that She went to the Maldives with GUESS WHO, YEP, an Intern Doctor !!!! That was over 30 years ago and Im BELLY Laughing now Telling you!!!!! Happy Days111
That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard.
Then that person you get under, has to get over you and then the cycle continues...
I literally asked the Universe an hour ago to give me wisdom in navigating through my rejection. Thank you Teal
Listening to you while drinking is a true healing process.
*Rejections are normal....they are a part of life.*
Rejection is easily the most difficult aspect in my life. The reaction in the gut is extremely difficult to bear.
Yep that is what humans are working on, our own self love that keeps you strong in appreciation of your own greatness. How do you appreciate you?
It's an inside job not provided from the outside.
Never had one sec felt being valued in my family and childhood still healing from this..
You're not alone.
@Lorraine ouch
I love this idea as rejection as a compass. I never thought of it that way. I’m starting to look at things in my life I have felt rejected over through this perspective and it’s kind of inspiring. I’m glad Teal followed her authenticity and became who she is today. It’s her telling the honest truth when it seemed like no one else was that drew me to her.
Fior ❤️🙏
Me too . I feel the same I think authenticity these days its far away from people's lives there's not authenticity in them and therefore people are so lonely and feel so rejected by society and general. I mean its my humble opinion. Thanks for sharing. We need more people like Teal that hammered us with the real truth of what's going on at the individual level so we can wake up, we need real authentic connection with one another . Oneness is the solution of all the suffering around the world.
Rejection lets you know that you either need to heal something in yourself, or that the people outside you need healing. Either way, it is a gift. Rejection , more often than not, has almost always been, the best thing that has ever happened to me. Be honest with yourself, and see that often it is the best thing that has ever happened to you as well.
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my RUclips channel 9 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,794 subs and > 1k hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.
I prefer honesty and authenticity more than feel-good speeches, so that’s why you’re one of my favorite spiritual teachers alongside Luna and Sol from lonerwolf
Ironically you are the only spiritual teacher that makes me feel amazing ❤️
Truth is freedom
Here's how I feel after watching your videos. I feel hope. I feel positively entitled to feel what I've been feeling. I feel inspired to feel better. I feel less lonely and more connected to source . I feel more love and compassion for myself. I feel empowered to learn more about my truth, my wants and most importantly my needs. I am grateful to have access to all of your healing messages. Bottom line you assist us in healing. Love you❤
This reminds me of the Star Wars series The Mandalorian. "The Child" is constantly rejected yet he is my favorite character. The universe always directs "The Child" straight towards something better. 19:34
One day comes, that every truth feels amazing. Even when it hurts at the same time it gives one insight. If the grieve of daily life is big enough the hurt of the truth is just a tiny pain.
Great contribution, if we remember that we are whole within ourselves there is no possible loss, abandonment or rejection. peace and love
There are valuable things that people reject everyday... because they can't afford them. I feel so much better now ☺️
Thank God you decided to go against the feel good nonsense spewed by those who are more interested in marketing than in genuinely helping people.
And this is the reason why Teal needs security guards too. :-D
"if you deliberately initiate seeking out the people in your life who actually might value you, you're gonna re-tabilize the sensation of beloning"
I just experienced this and didnt know why is that. Your videos always pop up in a divine timing. Nobody has ever told the important yet subtile things as you did. I am so grateful that you videos appeared on my RUclips page.
We experience rejection to understand that we don't need other people acceptance to exist. But it goes counter to the hard wiring of the body: reliance on others' acceptance to survive. So it is difficult to break this chain. But necessary.
She is so giving... has she a Patreon account?
It would enable us to give something back to her and her work.
Wow, thank you, Teal. Your point about why you were ostracized really helped me. I come back because you tell the honest, brutal truth. I learn and grow more because of you than the feel good people.
To me, rejection is personal, since it stems from my mom rejecting me for who I am. And so I figured that if I wasn't good enough to be accepted by my mom, then I wasn't good enough to be accepted by anyone else. And so I've went through life trying to be whoever I thought others wanted/needed me to be in order to be accepted.
I just realized acceptance is what I came here to experience.
Truth is freedom. Thank you Teal! Ur amazing 💚
Oh god this is ominous. I just received the notification right after getting in touch with my crush.
Thank you, and god help me xD
sending you love
@@DreamRealityMeditationMusic thank you darling! I'll be sending you also!
In a deep booming voice; "The omens are not favorable, the ides of march have fallen... Well, not directly on you, maybe on your neighbors super barkey dog that won't shut up at two in the morning." Anyway, tis the season, maybe you'll have puppies in your future. Hope you like it's breed cause you get one too. Turns out the bad omen wasn't that you're not gonna get your crush, but rather, your neighbors dog had puppies that you think are hideous, but since you're a nice person, you can't reject that disgusting little mongrel... And now you've got an annoying, ugly, puppy. Oh wait y'all call 'em floofs now days huh? Hey give the dog to your crush... Then when your crush pisses off, they can take that shitty little mongrel too...
@@jeremiahlarkins618 hahahah! We call them mutt dogs here xD thank you for the kindness
Hell yeah. I hope your crush works out for you mah..
The most important thing we need to do to heal the emotional wound rejection creates is to revive our self-esteem by focusing on what we do bring to the table, whether the rejection was by a romantic partner, a prospective employer, or a neighbor. Some rejections truly aren't as personal as they feel. Love rejection on Tinder, for example, simply means that some stranger took all of 20 seconds to make a snap judgment based on criteria you'll never be privy to. If we get rejected by our date, the last thing we should do is to review all our shortcomings in an effort to understand what went wrong.
woah 20 seconds, thats pushin it
You should try being a guy on Tinder or another dating app. Soul crushing rejection.
@@LGDarksteed yeah I think the apps are inherently wrong way to meet people
Rejection is protection for something greater that is to come 👌
No one makes me feel better than you teal
just in time for my college admission decisions :)
AUNT TEAL IS BACK, YEIII!!!
This video was very valuable for me. Thank you Teal for breaking down all emotions and feeling, even those against myself, I had when my ex suddenly broke up. The pain in my gut and in my whole body and months of suffering emotionally and mentally were unbearable. I made notes from this video and will treat it as a therapy going forward. After that break up I now believe that someone you love and care can destroy you emotionally... and your body can go very sick physically from those negative feelings/emotions... For real and it applies to women and men
I couldn't have come across this video at a better time.
Thank you Univers for letting Tael Swan making that video right now 💜🙏
Kimala Chandra ❤️🙏
Rejection often times means that we haven’t matured for the experience we are going after. Taking it as a motivation for improvement is the best thing we can do.
I don't agree, that's actually what leads to rejection having a negative effect on the rejected. Thinking you're not good (mature) enough for what you are pursuing. It's just not meant for you, simply.
It can also mean that you're too mature for the other person, and that's not what they wish for... whether this is in reality right or wrong.
@@empressed6763 That's complete bs. Everybody can learn the skills for anything including dating women.
@@sebastianwrites Very true.
@@clayandputtyvideos1647 huh? What are you talking about??
I would rather have someone tell me the hard truth that will actually help me than being sugar coated because reality can hit hard but it surely will help when you are striving to be much better.
Just say ok and move on. Trying to take something so simple and complicate it just makes it worse. Every one goes through rejection. The idea is to just realize that this just happens in life. Don’t unpack and move in. Pick up your bag and on to the next thing.
I'm always blown away by your depth. Thank you.… Been facing so much rejection the last few years, especially hurts when it's from people you love. Been really allowing myself to really have my cries and emotions.
Dealing with reality is painful, but worthwhile. Thank you Teal.
No one can cover a subject like you Teal Swan, thank you.
To end any frustrated moment with clarity = understanding many triggers that cause you to feel rejected, to the point of change, is an awesome experience, thank you for being you, trust the univers kotuku, one love one family.
Teal there is no one on this earth that is providing me with such life saving advice. I feel bad for millions of people stuck in the labyrinth of their mind and with no access to support. You are a light bringer.
If you would have listened to those people and altered your approach, I wouldn't have found you and you changed the trajectory of my life and i'm sure thousands of others too. This reminds me that just because i'm not someone's cup of tea is not an indication i should alter myself. I am who I am for a reason. I'm perfect for those who align with me.
I had noticed severe feelings of futility after certain seemingly "harmless" situations but a part of me was really being rejected. It all makes sense now.
I always want to know the truth! If I'm going to spend my time learning about something, it seems much more beneficial to know what is true. But I don't have a need for "feel good" truth. Authenticity matters, and I appreciate your straight forward videos, Teal. They are forthright and direct. Thank you.
Bursted into tears in the end. Thank you Teal for this deep message.
Teal smashes it out of the ball park, once again. Amazing from start to finish.
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oh Teal, your videos lately have been so human and practical. I am loving them, and feeling they're really helping. Thank you 😘
I can’t believe you uploaded this on the same day I needed it! Love the sync ❤️🌹🌈🌤
Needed to hear this. Thank you very much lovely 😊 and to the universe
Teal, everytine I finish a video of yours I do feel amazing, because your words make me feel closer and closer to my own essence and deeply connected to everything. So thank you, immensely, for being so brave and telling us the most painful truth, which is the only way for us to evolve...
Thank you Teal, you put the rejection in a completely different perspective for me, I'm glad you decided to be true to yourself and tell the truth even when it hurts. Your videos help me a lot ❤️
And thank you SO much for taking that rejection and telling the truth! We need more people like you in the world.
Thank you Teal I am so glad we are here together I would love to give you a hug!!!
Teal. your sage knowledge is greatly needed and appreciated. I know I do. I LITERALLY leave your videos feeling GREAT. TOUCHED and INSPIRED. Relieved, even. May great things continue to come your way to you and ALL yours and the entire Team Teal. I'm glad you led with what advice was in alignment with your gift. That maybe the decision I need to do, because I'm experiencing rejection a lot lately. It's teaching me to love myself MORE, but I still feel the sting at times. At any rate, your videos are making a difference. Keep doing what you are doing. Thanks, Teal.
Wonderful message! Thank you, Teal! May the universe always direct you toward the best!
Wow Teal the synchronicity is off the charts here.
I had a great exemple of this with my girlfriend yesterday and this morning.
I am grateful that we were able to watch your video on rejection because it allows me to help my girlfriend the concepts I have learned over the years.
To me it all started with accepting that what I belief I am, is only just what I have learned to believe just up to now. From the moment I start accepting what I feel right now I start growing and changing.
Namaste 🙏
Yes! Thank you Teal I feel so much better from watching your videos. It’s so refreshing to hear such honesty and insight. 🙏
Thank you so much for this message Teal. It really spoke to my spirit. Every word was on point! I love the way you crafted this message. Very good points.
Thank you for this video Teal! Rejection affects me deeply and I'd been trying to figure it out on my own.. now this helps a lot! Thank you!
Thank you for telling us the truth. I appreciate it.
Even "revolutionary" is an understatement.
This is pure gold. Teal I love you.
Honest truth is the way forward, I will speak up from now on and also live my truth thank you ❤❤
Your videos are helping me along my path. You are helping me get my head together. Thank you, Teal.
Love this! This is one of the strongest ones I've watched. Thank you for this!
Thank you so much Teal, I love your teachings and appreciate your honesty, and authenticity xx
This is CLASSIC Teal. Gotta watch twice.
Your truth is a huge blessing. All healing comes from truth.
I'm so glad you have stayed true to yourself and teach the way you do 🙏🏼 so thankful for you and your honest work. I'm learning so much - and have so much more to learn. Oh how these could have saved me some heartache had I found you sooner.
Teal, you always know exactly what I need, EXACTLY when I need it. Thank you so much.
You’re great Teal. I love the honesty.
Kudos to you, Teal, for maintaining the authenticity of your message, despite the rejection you experienced from other spiritual teachers. I'm so grateful for your honest approach to healing 🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽
For "those" who make someone cry, I wouldn't lift a finger if they ever need anything, ever, ever!
Man sometimes RUclips's wacky algorithms truly redeem themselves.
Thanks for going through everything that you have to go through in order to be able to share your myriad and compelling thoughts with the world, and with me. _/\_
Most people these days are walking around in an illusion. The painful part is if you create an illusion around someone, and they pop your bubble with a rejection.
This video is so on point and thoroughly explained. Love you, Teal. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
You are extremely pleasant to listen to and I much prefer the honest truth even if it hurts. Thank you Teal for your words of wisdom you are a very very clever lady
Thank you Teal🙏 straightforward as always. It is what it is.💗
I love your commitment to your audience to commit to reality I am so proud to be under your love
I feel amazing after your talks because I’m like “yeah, finally the truth”. Thank you for not settling.
The universe’s directing you straight toward something better.💚
I just realised that rejection I got from my teenage relationship is actually a gift because if I did have a relationship with him and then seeing and comparing on how he live nowadays.. I really grateful that we never be in a relationship. I changed my direction for far better way of living. And that I found the strongest direction at that moment when he rejected me
I like the way teal carries herself while she does her presentations & I GOT AN IMENSE HIGH WHEN SHE SAID ALMOST AT THE END REJECTION IS LIKE A FORM OF THE UNIVERSE REDIRECTING YOU 💌🤍📭
Your sharing is like sending me a life raft in a bad storm! Thank you 🙏
Thank you Teal... It is exactly what I needed. You are so brave. I'm looking for meet you in this experience for sharing thoughts.
With much love 💕
Camille
Teal, I thank you so much for what you do and the light you bring. I purchased The Completion Process when it came out and have regularly practiced parts work since. I have spent the last 20 years on a path of consciousness and living my awareness. This path has helped me ask constructive questions and shift much. From around the age of 8 my sister and I were brought up in an unaccepting environment, an environment in which our two step-siblings were and continue to be accepted. I was rejected due to embodying and favoring much of my biological father, and later living as a lesbian and bi-sexual. It took me a very long time to realize that for whatever reason, considering my sister is traditional and still not accepted, that it would not have mattered. Just my being “different” made for easy “reasons”. I, and my relationships, suffered for a very long time from my deep wounds regarding these things. While I no longer have the love/hate for my mother that I once did, and I no longer have the same love/hate with myself nor the same need or desire for approval, my last intimate relationship was extremely short lived. And-consciousness helps me see some multiple truths as you mention. I understand this gentleman, as caring as he is and could be, that our needs quickly shifted. And he used my feelings of rejection to further validate/justify his rejection of me and parts of himself. This has been very painful, as for a moment I went into such a childlike state of indignation that not only did I not recognize myself - I certainly could not blame him. Yet at the same time out of this I have gained such INCREDIBLE insight and a staunch sense of what I am deserving of and what I am not deserving of that I feel...reborn.