13 Lessons On How To Use Rejection To Your Favor | Stoicism

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  • Rejection can be tough, but it doesn't have to hold you back. In this video, we'll share 13 lessons from stoic philosophy on how to use rejection to your favor and grow from it.
    These stoic principles for personal development can help you embrace rejection and turn it into a positive force in your life. From reframing your mindset to facing your fears, these stoic rules for life will help you overcome rejection and become a stronger, more resilient person.
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    Learn how to use rejection to your advantage with these 13 lessons inspired by Stoicism. Rejection is a normal part of life, but by applying these principles, you can turn it into a powerful tool for personal growth and resilience.
    Whether you're facing rejection in your career, relationships, or personal goals, these lessons will help you navigate through it and come out stronger. Embrace the power of stoicism and use it to your favor.
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    Key Points 🎯
    00:00:00 Intro
    00:01:52 1. Disregard Them Too
    00:03:33 2. Don't React Emotionally
    00:05:15 3. Remove Them From Your Mind
    00:06:33 4. Demonstrate Your Value
    00:07:41 5. Cut Off Contact
    00:08:42 6. Prove Them Wrong
    00:09:48 7. Go Out And Have Fun
    00:10:56 8. Build Your Social Status
    00:11:56 9. Act As If They Don'T Exist
    00:13:00 10. Give Them The Silent Treatment
    00:14:12 11. Don't Beg For Attention
    00:15:16 12. Be Kind But Emotionally Distant
    00:16:21 13. Don't Reveal Your Struggle
    00:18:54 Conclusion
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Комментарии • 379

  • @StoicismDigestYT
    @StoicismDigestYT  4 месяца назад +86

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  • @stillme7535
    @stillme7535 3 месяца назад +418

    1. Disregard them too
    2. Don't react emotionally
    3. Remove them from your mind
    4. Demonstrate your value
    5. Cut off contact
    6. Prove them wrong
    7. Go out and have fun
    8. Build your social status
    9. Act as if they don't exist
    10. Give them the silent treatment
    11. Don't beg for attention
    12. Be kind but emotionally distant
    13. Don't reveal your struggle

    • @rosalinealoy6162
      @rosalinealoy6162 3 месяца назад +3

      What if it happens one's husband is the one rejected the wife

    • @stillme7535
      @stillme7535 3 месяца назад +3

      @@rosalinealoy6162 I don't believe I am the one to respond to this. Only posted the resume of the video

    • @shsh-lv3wh
      @shsh-lv3wh 3 месяца назад

      This days we all get negative advice there family live are gone and people staying single so ignoring and having fun while you ruin some else life is not a solution. We should learn to care about other people. I hate like this videos I don’t know why I get this

    • @ursulareeg1171
      @ursulareeg1171 3 месяца назад

      Ah, but there is more to all of the point. I love the additional comments/ insights/ explanations.

    • @ChildofGod1792
      @ChildofGod1792 3 месяца назад

      reject him as well and he will come around, act like his actions not affecting you or just find another husband ​@@rosalinealoy6162

  • @beautyshines2124
    @beautyshines2124 3 месяца назад +163

    people will miss you because you're unique and incomparable.

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 3 месяца назад +8

      Or maybe they won't, but does that matter?

    • @spmoran4703
      @spmoran4703 2 месяца назад +3

      ​@@charlottebruce979They dont matter

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 2 месяца назад +3

      @beautyshines2124, your words resonate deeply, reminding us of the intrinsic value each individual holds. In a world where conformity often overshadows uniqueness, your insight shines brightly, illuminating the beauty in our differences. But behind this sentiment lies a tale of personal discovery and appreciation. What inspired you to recognize the irreplaceable essence within yourself and others? Your perspective offers a refreshing antidote to the pressures of conformity. How do you nurture and celebrate your own uniqueness amidst societal expectations?

    • @ursulaschlapbach311
      @ursulaschlapbach311 2 месяца назад

      Exactly 😮😢😅

    • @bettydoughtery3920
      @bettydoughtery3920 2 месяца назад +1

      YES

  • @celeste3100
    @celeste3100 4 месяца назад +207

    Rejection is protection

    • @april9037
      @april9037 4 месяца назад +4

      Absolutely ❤️

    • @ND-or5so
      @ND-or5so 3 месяца назад +1

      @celeste3100
      Lol, like it!

    • @ND-or5so
      @ND-or5so 3 месяца назад

      ​​@@april9037
      Positive

    • @orangetabby445
      @orangetabby445 3 месяца назад +4

      Ok but it still stings awful especially if you aren't prepared geeee

    • @spmoran4703
      @spmoran4703 2 месяца назад +3

      Yes these people could be toxic

  • @haitiqueen0119
    @haitiqueen0119 3 месяца назад +56

    Just cut off a one sided friendship of 20 years just recently and feel a sense of happiness. As we go through our journeys, it is perfectly healthy and necessary to cut ties with meaningless toxic relationships. Part of self care.

    • @StoicismDigestYT
      @StoicismDigestYT  3 месяца назад +6

      It's important to prioritize your own well-being and mental health by letting go of toxic relationships. Good for you for taking that step!

    • @MrJackson100587
      @MrJackson100587 2 месяца назад +1

      Can we be friends

    • @AfricanWifeinPakistan
      @AfricanWifeinPakistan Месяц назад +1

      Me too. I said enough is enough. Friendships, don't always have to last. Sometimes, people grow apart and mature in diff. ways. Definitely need to realize. Esp. those friendship we keep clinging into from childhood or younger years.

    • @StoicSpirit101
      @StoicSpirit101 21 день назад

      Thank you for sharing your experience, Haitiqueen0119. It sounds like a significant step towards prioritizing your well-being. What signs or realizations prompted you to recognize the toxicity in the friendship, and how do you plan to nurture healthier relationships moving forward?

  • @martiemc8398
    @martiemc8398 3 месяца назад +94

    I loved him so much, but I love myself too.

    • @truthseeker5941
      @truthseeker5941 2 месяца назад +2

      @martiemc...once upon a time I had his baby and loved him deeply and profoundly BUT not more than I loved myself.

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 2 месяца назад

      @martiemc8398, your heartfelt words encapsulate a journey of self-discovery and empowerment. To love deeply is a profound experience, yet to also recognize and prioritize self-love amidst such emotions is a testament to your strength and resilience. Your comment hints at a transformative process, where the balance between loving another and loving oneself is delicately navigated. What insights did you gain during this journey of self-love and acceptance? Your acknowledgment of self-worth is inspiring, prompting reflection on the importance of cultivating a healthy relationship with oneself. How do you continue to nurture and prioritize your own well-being while navigating matters of the heart?

    • @truthseeker5941
      @truthseeker5941 2 месяца назад +1

      @@StoicHabit101 only the worthy deserve that type of deep love and loyalty. Once they show you their not worthy you become an alchemist and transform. You shower yourself with all that love that you gave to the undeserving. You pick yourself up by the bootstraps, gather yourself, and become your own very best friend.

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 2 месяца назад

      @@truthseeker5941 Your comment beautifully encapsulates a profound journey of self-discovery and empowerment. It speaks to the transformative power of resilience and self-love in the face of disappointment and betrayal.
      The imagery of becoming an alchemist, transforming pain into strength and self-love, is both evocative and inspiring. It conveys a sense of agency and empowerment, suggesting that one has the power to shape their own narrative and redefine their sense of worth.
      By emphasizing the importance of recognizing when others are unworthy of deep love and loyalty, you underscore the value of setting boundaries and prioritizing self-respect. Your words resonate with anyone who has experienced the pain of betrayal, offering solace and encouragement to those who may be navigating similar challenges.
      Intriguingly, your reflection prompts one to consider: How can we cultivate a deeper sense of self-love and resilience in the face of adversity? What practices or mindset shifts can empower individuals to reclaim their worth and embrace their own inner strength?

    • @lucianaschroder6127
      @lucianaschroder6127 2 месяца назад

      I love him so much… and I think everything is my fault… that for 13 years I was the one who was always good for nothing. We are taking a break but it hurts.

  • @georgiafrancis9059
    @georgiafrancis9059 4 месяца назад +117

    It their loss..... rejection is a sort of affirmation that you are on the right track for your own life. It may sting a bit at first......but......you WILL get over it in time. NEVER BEG for anyone's attention, it wreaks despiration. Stand tall and be a success in all that you do. They will notice your success and how they had nothing to do with your future.
    THIS ONE LIFE IS YOURS-----NOT THEIRS------they weren't born with you and they don't die with you, they simply came into your life somewhere along the way to either teach a lesson or learn a lesson.
    They are on their own journey in life as you are.

  • @StoicEvolution1
    @StoicEvolution1 4 месяца назад +54

    "True happiness is to enjoy the present, without anxious dependence upon the future." - Seneca

  • @cherylnathanodette
    @cherylnathanodette Месяц назад +9

    If you are rejected don't dwell on it, lifes too short. Been used to rejection and it's no biggie. I used to let it bother me but realise lifes too short to dwell on disappointments. Hope you are all well and live your best lives.

  • @marianicolepappadakis8880
    @marianicolepappadakis8880 29 дней назад +4

    I have never been so disrespected and degraded and treated so badly in my entire life.

  • @galeretacco8537
    @galeretacco8537 3 месяца назад +46

    These stoic philosophies are so valuable. I send them to my grandchildren every day. They are lessons in life 100%!

  • @sanetterobertson6085
    @sanetterobertson6085 Месяц назад +4

    I have practiced most of these and must confess that I now have so much more peace.

  • @marievandermerwe3160
    @marievandermerwe3160 2 месяца назад +28

    I was married for nearly 42years. It was the most lonely journey. My husband died a year ago. We had no emotional connection. I don't want a man in my life anymore. I am too used to be lonely.

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 2 месяца назад +2

      Your resilience after such a long and lonely journey is truly admirable. What new experiences or pursuits are you exploring now that you're embracing solitude?

    • @data1656
      @data1656 2 месяца назад +3

      Beautiful peaceful alone

    • @LoveFishing51
      @LoveFishing51 Месяц назад +5

      I'm sorry to hear that, my dear. But there is the possibility that your husband [did] want to communicate with you emotionally but did not know how to. Some people have a hard time with this. Lift your head up high and have positive thoughts as you move forward.

  • @datgurlangel8319
    @datgurlangel8319 Месяц назад +5

    This is so refreshing! I'm so ready to love myself even more. ❤❤❤

  • @achamangabat1807
    @achamangabat1807 4 месяца назад +34

    This video is very timely for me cos I'm experiencing rejection right now. I'm now in the process of healing and slowly detaching myself from my boyfriend.

    • @beajohnson2668
      @beajohnson2668 3 месяца назад +2

      Me too😢

    • @user-om9hh5ig4k
      @user-om9hh5ig4k 3 месяца назад

      Good For You ! 🎉

    • @user-om9hh5ig4k
      @user-om9hh5ig4k 3 месяца назад

      @@beajohnson2668
      Don’t Ever Look Back.

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 2 месяца назад

      Your resilience in the face of rejection is commendable. What strategies have you found most effective in the healing process and detaching yourself from past relationships?

    • @VirgotheHermit00
      @VirgotheHermit00 2 месяца назад

      Good on you. Heal, love yourself more, and put yourself first. ❤

  • @nancytorres2564
    @nancytorres2564 Месяц назад +4

    Thank you for your advise. I've been in a relationship for 15yrs and I still feel lonely and rejected and verbally abused. It's hard because I still love him.😢
    7:29

  • @interfluve
    @interfluve 3 месяца назад +25

    Thank you for this, I got out of a very serious relationship and I needed to hear this. Bless you and all the stoic philosophers who have showered us with all this wisdom.

  • @georgiafrancis9059
    @georgiafrancis9059 4 месяца назад +296

    Let go and let God....... you don't have to do a thing - Karma will take care of it for you.

    • @palmbaytyranthunter1913
      @palmbaytyranthunter1913 4 месяца назад +6

      Krama is not. Taught in the Bible nor in stoicism

    • @counterintelligencereports7867
      @counterintelligencereports7867 4 месяца назад +8

      Wanting karma means you are back to square one.
      The purpose of stoicism is to be totally indifferent to others and situations.

    • @gerie7115
      @gerie7115 3 месяца назад +3

      Amen !!!

    • @gerie7115
      @gerie7115 3 месяца назад +16

      @@palmbaytyranthunter1913 It is in the Bible, it’s just referred to as something else.
      “ God will prepare a table before you in the presence of your enemies”
      “You will reap what you sow”
      It’s just worded differently, but same meaning

    • @ND-or5so
      @ND-or5so 3 месяца назад +1

      @georgiafranci...
      Good comment 👍

  • @DanielWalker-ci7fo
    @DanielWalker-ci7fo 4 месяца назад +42

    Don't let idiots rent space in your head... 🤔🤠🎶

    • @spmoran4703
      @spmoran4703 2 месяца назад

      That's a good one Daniel

    • @DanielWalker-ci7fo
      @DanielWalker-ci7fo 2 месяца назад +1

      @@spmoran4703 Well thank you... it just makes sense if one can hold their tongue 😛🤣

  • @shirleykamm7819
    @shirleykamm7819 3 месяца назад +19

    I was in deep need of your wisdom many moons ago. How unfortunate for me to discover you late. My marriage has dissolved. The love of my life of many years has ended. However, I love that your videos have come to me now in my life as I move forward. It gives me hope to move on with better choices. The proverbial lightning strike hit me too late to save a marriage, but since it was toxic, I feel more equipped to engage in new relationships. Thank you!!

    • @rogue_spirit
      @rogue_spirit 3 месяца назад +1

      Stay strong! ❤️🌹

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 2 месяца назад

      Your journey toward healing and growth is truly inspiring. How do you plan to apply the lessons you've learned to cultivate healthier relationships moving forward?

  • @fivedotsixfourthreetimes
    @fivedotsixfourthreetimes 3 месяца назад +10

    love these!
    rejection has been coined as too negative,
    now Im seeing rejection and molding it to a positive power, it is tough to do but worth it.❤

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 2 месяца назад

      These insights are truly empowering! 🌟 How do you approach turning rejection into a positive force in your life?

  • @QuotesS7
    @QuotesS7 3 месяца назад +15

    These 13 lessons on using rejection as a tool for growth are invaluable. Stoicism offers such a unique and empowering perspective. Grateful for the shift in mindset this has sparked in me. Thank you!

  • @DanielWalker-ci7fo
    @DanielWalker-ci7fo 4 месяца назад +16

    It's amazing how a smile and a helping hand will make one popular and respected... 🙄🤔🤣

  • @thelmabayot360
    @thelmabayot360 Месяц назад +2

    A philosophy that will help us survive in this somewhat cruel world.

  • @knowledgejourney2888
    @knowledgejourney2888 2 месяца назад +8

    Stoicism offers a profound philosophy of resilience and inner strength that resonates deeply with me.

  • @RWM-ReligionWisdomsMotivation0
    @RWM-ReligionWisdomsMotivation0 2 месяца назад +7

    We are rich only through what we give, and poor only through what we refuse.

  • @timmyfosho
    @timmyfosho 3 месяца назад +24

    Practicing my resolve to not react emotionally to the horrific ai reading of this 🧘

  • @valencia9992
    @valencia9992 2 месяца назад +3

    I don’t believe it was a coincidence your page came across my feed. Your messages are profound. I’m taking things day by day. The pain is no joke. I’m trusting GOD to show me the way. Just pouring goodness into me is helping me become stronger.

    • @terri5624
      @terri5624 Месяц назад

      No such thing as coincidence. I love it !! 😊❤🙏

  • @franciaperiabras1037
    @franciaperiabras1037 3 месяца назад +14

    I'm so thankful that i found this channel ❤

  • @StoicZone101
    @StoicZone101 3 месяца назад +7

    " A person's worth is measured by the worth of what he values." - Marcus Aurelius

  • @sgg3103
    @sgg3103 3 месяца назад +5

    Greatest source and lesson of knowledge and greater wisdom. Blessings in disguise and it’s always greater in the end for my narrative. Looking forward to expressing myself in my public speaking and sharing some of these lessons. Freedom is ringing, so let it ring.

  • @evypettersson6513
    @evypettersson6513 2 месяца назад +2

    Saying No sometimes saves yourselves.
    Don't always say Yes to everything.
    There is a limit for all of us.
    Love and best wishes .
    ❤️😊🙏

  • @yadip65
    @yadip65 4 месяца назад +18

    Thank you Lord ! I have been doing this fir years and didnt even know this lesson. Thats just how God created me , thank you Jesus 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @ND-or5so
      @ND-or5so 3 месяца назад +1

      @yadip65:
      Great

  • @nimranazir7360
    @nimranazir7360 2 месяца назад +6

    Gosh one of my friend start to ignore me without any reason nd subconsciously i did the same things as described in the video 😂😂 so proud of myself after her i started interacting with others nd find so many beautiful souls worthy of my time and love so guys
    Never giveup for one person♥️

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 2 месяца назад

      @nimranazir7360, your journey of self-discovery and resilience shines through your heartfelt words. It's truly empowering to witness how you've navigated the complexities of human relationships with grace and determination. Despite the pain of being ignored by a friend, you didn't succumb to despair or bitterness. Instead, you found strength within yourself to prioritize your own well-being and seek out connections with others who appreciate and value you.
      Your ability to adapt and grow from challenging experiences is commendable. By embracing the wisdom shared in the video and applying it to your life, you've transformed moments of uncertainty into opportunities for personal growth and renewal. Your resilience serves as an inspiration to others who may be facing similar struggles in their relationships.
      Your story leaves me curious about the beautiful souls you've encountered on your journey. How have these new connections enriched your life, and what valuable lessons have you learned from them? Additionally, what advice would you offer to those who may be struggling to overcome similar challenges in their interpersonal relationships?

  • @noreenryan7487
    @noreenryan7487 4 месяца назад +10

    True words of wisdom. Thank you.

  • @the_Success_Experiments
    @the_Success_Experiments 3 месяца назад +12

    I'm dropping more GEMS for you all!! These suggestions have made me the person I am today. So take one or two or all of them and transform yourself to a super being. Thank me later. I personally did and do everything listed below and I got massive results.
    1. Write out a statement of your Short Term Goal AND your Chief Aim/Main Goal... on a "goal card" or paper.
    2. Write it out 50 times a day for 30 days preferably around the same time each day. After the 30 days, you go back and write it out ONCE a day. This is your compass in life.
    3. Set your phone alarm to go off every 3 hours (to disrupt your daily routine) and when it goes off write down your statement and then close your eyes and see yourself with your goal for 2 mins.
    4. Record your statement in your voice on a voice recorder on your phone, and play it back to yourself on loop while you sleep and as often as you can daily, example... in the shower or when you are using the rest room.
    5. Find an accountability partner. If you cannot find someone, then you MUST write out your statement DAILY. By doing this you make yourself accountable to YOURSELF.
    6. Find a community or FB group/group chat, etc and from that community form a Mastermind with one or two people who have studied from REAL Mentors and are giving VALUE. There is a "Law of Giving" and many people are using it. Andrew Carnegie told Napoleon Hill this back in the early 1900s. Its a LAW and it works. Its what I am doing with this post.
    7. Auto-Suggest (Think and Grow Rich Chapter 4) to yourself in front of the mirror in the bathroom at least twice a day. Look directly INTO your eyes OR one eye and recite your WRITTEN statement. Then splash cold water on your face. This sudden shock seals the thought into the subconscious due to emotional and physical shock from the cold water.
    8. Write out ten "I AM" statements a day. example. I AM happy, I AM more confident. Use the word MORE; implying you already have it, but want more. You trick the brain.
    9. Write out 5 things you HAVE that you are grateful for and 5 things that you are grateful for that are coming to you. Mix up the list one after the other.
    10. When in public tell people you see that you love them in your mind. Simply say "I LOVE YOU" to them as you pass them, especially when driving, because their subconscious hears and FEELS the intention. Say it to about 10 to 15 people daily. This increases your Good Karma.
    It might seem like a lot. But it took me less than two weeks to incorporate the list into my life and 32 days later I started getting massive results.
    What have you got to lose, try some or ALL and see your results. Let me know know too.
    Have a great day... and thanks for reading.

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 2 месяца назад +1

      Wow, what an incredibly detailed and heartfelt message! It's evident that you've put a lot of thought and effort into compiling these transformative suggestions. Your commitment to personal growth is truly inspiring.
      I'm particularly intrigued by the idea of setting an alarm to disrupt daily routines and visualize goals every three hours. It seems like a powerful way to stay focused and aligned with one's aspirations throughout the day. How do you maintain consistency and motivation while implementing these practices?

  • @StoicWisdom135
    @StoicWisdom135 25 дней назад +2

    "Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears." - Marcus Aurelius

  • @IamGODchild
    @IamGODchild Месяц назад +10

    Father GOD remove them all from my life - they don't deserve my love, time, patience & blessings I used to share with them! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I really really really love myself too 💚💜🩷❤️💙😇 thank you, LORD for my strength, power & decisive attitude 🙏🏻 I bless them all but I let go of all negative snakey people.
    I am sol happy & grateful that I always can count on GOD - HE is the one who comforts me in the last years, gives me peace.. I am enjoying my own company & with my Baby boy, dearest Fam & some few friends 🎉🥰🍀👍
    Thank you, GOD for my peace, time & financially freedom 🌺

  • @traceyross8528
    @traceyross8528 Месяц назад +1

    Thoroughly enjoyed this powerful message. Given me strength to keep battling on with dignity and poise.

  • @jegsthewegs
    @jegsthewegs 2 месяца назад +5

    After years of being "black sheeped" by my family, then dumped by partner of 7yrs, losing my home. I had an emotional breakdown. My family "helped by not talking about it" my isolation was unbearable. I moved 70miles away. Then followed many years of my very existence being ignored.

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 2 месяца назад

      @jegsthewegs, your resilience in the face of adversity is truly remarkable. It's heart-wrenching to hear about the challenges you've endured, from feeling marginalized within your own family to experiencing the devastating loss of a long-term relationship and home. The emotional toll of these experiences, compounded by the lack of support from your family, must have been incredibly difficult to bear.
      Your decision to move away in search of a fresh start speaks volumes about your strength and determination to reclaim your life. Despite the isolation and years of feeling overlooked, you refused to let despair define you. Instead, you embarked on a journey of self-discovery and healing, bravely carving out a new path for yourself.
      I can't imagine how daunting it must have been to rebuild your life from the ground up, but your resilience shines through in every word you share. Your story is a testament to the power of perseverance and the indomitable human spirit.
      I'm left wondering about the moments of hope and resilience that sustained you during your darkest days. What kept you going during those challenging times, and what advice would you offer to others who may be facing similar struggles? Your journey is a testament to the fact that even in our darkest moments, there is always a glimmer of light to guide us forward.

  • @ChangeYourLife-bl3gj
    @ChangeYourLife-bl3gj 2 месяца назад +4

    Intro
    00:01:52 1. Disregard Them Too
    00:03:33 2. Don't React Emotionally
    00:05:15 3. Remove Them From Your Mind
    00:06:33 4. Demonstrate Your Value
    00:07:41 5. Cut Off Contact
    00:08:42 6. Prove Them Wrong
    00:09:48 7. Go Out And Have Fun
    00:10:56 8. Build Your Social Status
    00:11:56 9. Act As If They Don'T Exist
    00:13:00 10. Give Them The Silent Treatment
    00:14:12 11. Don't Beg For Attention
    00:15:16 12. Be Kind But Emotionally Distant
    00:16:21 13. Don't Reveal Your Struggle
    00:18:54 Conclusion

  • @girlynyachiya246
    @girlynyachiya246 Месяц назад +1

    Powerful, I really needed this.

  • @VirgotheHermit00
    @VirgotheHermit00 2 месяца назад +2

    I have been practicing this for a long time. I’m a sigma female. I don’t care about anyone’s opinion and focus on myself and the things I need to do for my life. I march to the beat of my own drum and don’t seek validation from others. I’m important and so are you.

  • @revathimkulkarni
    @revathimkulkarni 4 месяца назад +4

    Grateful for this. Thank you!

  • @odile772
    @odile772 3 месяца назад +5

    Brilliant.

  • @mindmaxus
    @mindmaxus 24 дня назад

    This explanation of stoicism is spot on. It's fascinating how relevant these ancient principles are today!

  • @brandonmohammed3738
    @brandonmohammed3738 3 месяца назад +2

    All powerful advises, Thanks for those benifits , advises!! This will help many!💯

  • @maryamallahverdian3753
    @maryamallahverdian3753 22 дня назад

    More incredible lessons for me thank you very much lord 🙏❤️

  • @praisedouglas-wr9sr
    @praisedouglas-wr9sr Месяц назад +1

    Thank you 😊

  • @sharlar3300
    @sharlar3300 Месяц назад +1

    Amen ❤

  • @AYUSHKUMAR-xj4wc
    @AYUSHKUMAR-xj4wc 3 месяца назад +3

    A video I needed so much❤❤❤

  • @user-cz3xn1wm7s
    @user-cz3xn1wm7s 3 месяца назад +1

    The answer is YES thank you for this

  • @winstoic_offical
    @winstoic_offical Месяц назад +1

    Thanks for sharing with us.

  • @FluencyAccentCoach
    @FluencyAccentCoach 2 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for your advice.

  • @debo1301
    @debo1301 3 месяца назад +1

    So powerful

  • @mirkogiljaca1051
    @mirkogiljaca1051 4 месяца назад +7

    Thank You.

  • @debbielightmillercurtisaut9631
    @debbielightmillercurtisaut9631 Месяц назад

    Powerful material, I have been practicing some of these techniques but didn’t know they are before my time.
    One thing I do know is that self growth is inevitable and will come to you as a gift to self.
    Stoicism works for me and broaden my knowledge of the why behind my actions to be a better version of myself daily ❤

  • @ramaaboge5354
    @ramaaboge5354 Месяц назад

    Powerful and credible message

  • @mariab4905
    @mariab4905 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you

  • @hindwidad2723
    @hindwidad2723 3 месяца назад +2

    This is some good stuff! You deserve more followers ❤

  • @kionvaliant6286
    @kionvaliant6286 3 месяца назад +4

    Solid video, thank you for the new perceptive. o7

  • @sorahbrowne1534
    @sorahbrowne1534 3 месяца назад +2

    Thank you so much. I do have some of those good qualities. I sen

  • @patriciaoreilly8907
    @patriciaoreilly8907 4 месяца назад +1

    Really appreciate 😊

  • @alasanbah9509
    @alasanbah9509 4 месяца назад +5

    Wonderful

  • @ShayMuzikk
    @ShayMuzikk Месяц назад

    I have the same feeling, but I never showed my weakness. Unfortunately I’m quite experienced in this thing, but you never get used to feeling this way. The Stoic philosophy helps me as I have enough going on in my life and I’m steady on never showing weakness. Ofcourse I want to call her, ask her why, get her back, scream my lungs out, but in the end they don’t posess you. You were, are and always be assigned to direct you life by God. Respect that life was given to you, not to be dependent on someone else. You can become better out of all of this, do it. Trust Gods plan, trust the process, time will show you.

  • @Life_Student2
    @Life_Student2 Месяц назад

    Strength and Adversay❤

  • @user-fo1sw6ie3t
    @user-fo1sw6ie3t 4 месяца назад +1

    ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏 Thank you

  • @WisdomWords-sf2if
    @WisdomWords-sf2if Месяц назад

    lots of lessons for me, thank you

  • @josephpalumbo1811
    @josephpalumbo1811 3 месяца назад +2

    Excellent

  • @asherafmm734
    @asherafmm734 Месяц назад +1

    Superb...

  • @stoicismvictory
    @stoicismvictory Месяц назад +1

    Marcus Aurelius once said, 'The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury.' 🌟 What’s your story of turning rejection into a stepping stone to success? I’m really curious to hear how others have used the principles of Stoicism to transform their setbacks into comebacks! Let’s share and inspire each other!💪

  • @Christiankrez
    @Christiankrez 4 месяца назад +9

    ❤ I really needed to hear this. Thank you!

  • @Marywhite-pd1hw
    @Marywhite-pd1hw 3 месяца назад +4

    A very fascinating video , this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me , I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him , but I can’t , I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him...

    • @Marywhite-pd1hw
      @Marywhite-pd1hw 3 месяца назад

      Amazing how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @Marywhite-pd1hw
      @Marywhite-pd1hw 3 месяца назад

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impresive

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 3 месяца назад

      I didn't see my life with anyone else, I thought I couldn't love like that again, but you know what? I did, and it's even better than before!! Go fearlessly out there again and love ❤

    • @CITYBEACHTV
      @CITYBEACHTV 2 месяца назад

      You’re Addicted - thats not love. If you truly love them let them go and find their happiness.

  • @DanielWalker-ci7fo
    @DanielWalker-ci7fo 4 месяца назад +7

    If it doesn't feel right to you then forget about it! ✌️

  • @tayrene8688
    @tayrene8688 3 месяца назад +2

    Some good books you could read to lean into these ideas:
    You Are A Bad As - Jen Sincero
    No Excuses - Brian Tracy
    The Power of Now - Eckhart Toole
    and if always suggest Marcus Arelious' - meditations

  • @ursulaschlapbach311
    @ursulaschlapbach311 2 месяца назад

    This is very important and helpful 🎉❤🎉

  • @nicholasbrajkovic1710
    @nicholasbrajkovic1710 7 дней назад

    Amazing

  • @user-ye1kc2ff2b
    @user-ye1kc2ff2b 3 месяца назад +1

    Amen❤😊

  • @MarlonMobley-ki1uh
    @MarlonMobley-ki1uh Месяц назад

    Thanks

  • @doctorkrf
    @doctorkrf 3 месяца назад +14

    The AI Voice over on this one mispronounces so many words.

  • @StoicValuesyt1
    @StoicValuesyt1 3 месяца назад +1

    good to use

  • @ND-or5so
    @ND-or5so 3 месяца назад +4

    A blessing in disguise

  • @Jazz-pg9xb
    @Jazz-pg9xb 4 месяца назад +1

    Very good 👍🏼😊

  • @maryhartley512
    @maryhartley512 3 месяца назад +8

    But its so painful i love him 😢

  • @OliviaHill-tq5ii
    @OliviaHill-tq5ii 28 дней назад

    I love this link

  • @user-kz1zx6eh6s
    @user-kz1zx6eh6s 4 месяца назад

    Awesome very interesting

  • @user-zj1kz6mh6g
    @user-zj1kz6mh6g 2 месяца назад +2

    I never want to be in the minds of those toxic people. Let them wonder why their life is downturning, as there is a transmutation of their poised success to my greatness

    • @StoicHabit101
      @StoicHabit101 2 месяца назад

      @user-zj1kz6mh6g, your words resonate with a powerful sense of self-preservation and determination. In recognizing the toxicity of certain individuals, you've made a conscious decision to safeguard your well-being and distance yourself from their negative influence. This act of self-preservation is not only commendable but essential for nurturing your own growth and prosperity.
      Your mindset embodies resilience and an unwavering belief in your own potential. By refusing to be entangled in the webs of toxicity, you pave the way for your own ascent to greatness. Your comment sparks curiosity about the transformative journey you're undertaking. How do you envision your path to greatness unfolding amidst the challenges posed by these toxic influences? And what strategies do you employ to maintain your focus and resilience in the face of adversity? Your story serves as a beacon of hope and empowerment for others navigating similar terrain, inspiring them to reclaim control over their lives and pursue their own paths to greatness.

  • @carlosalugo1648
    @carlosalugo1648 4 месяца назад +6

    This is the truth , being explained in many words what to do if anyone rejects you is helpful specifically to those that don't understand y others do this thing, IF YOU BELIEVE IN GOD I SUGGEST YOU READ THE BIBLE, BECAUSE WHAT THIS VIDEO IS TELLING YOU, GOD SAS IT IN THE BIBLE LET GO OF FAMILY, FRIENDS, THAT BRING YOU DOWN AND DON'T SUPPORT YOU and all they do is bring you bad negativete, God says CAST THEM OUT IM WATCHING OVER YOU , I'M SAYING THIS BECAUSE I HAD WHENT TRUE THIS 2 YEARS AGO I EVERYONE EVEN MY BROTHERS REJECTED ME EN EVERY WAY, I WAS LOOKING FOR ANSWERS THE BIBLE READING IT ONE DAY I RAN INTO THAT VERSE THAT GOD GAVE US THE POWER TO , BOUNSE ON PEOPLE THAT DIDN'T HELP US FOR GOOD ONLY TO DO US HARM, GOD SAID HE WILL NOT PUNISH YOU FOR DOING THIS , MY ADVICE TO ANYONE THAT READS THIS COMMENT, BECAUSE I WHENT TRUE THIS REJECTION THING AND IT HURTS UNTIL YOU DO WHAT I DID. GOD BLESS 🙏

    • @sheilanewcombe
      @sheilanewcombe 4 месяца назад

      God is good. A lot in this video is scriptural. Good tools for changing negative mindsets. Holy Spirit brings us into all truth, that leads us to salvation....from death to life!

  • @nanetteking12
    @nanetteking12 3 месяца назад +2

    Excellent message, hinky AI. Thanks

  • @BlairyBlair222
    @BlairyBlair222 Месяц назад

    When my classmates diss me I love it ❤ it makes me stronger and wiser. My own company is the best anyhow.

  • @EkspressNovosti
    @EkspressNovosti 3 месяца назад +2

    Good luck 👍 💓 ✨️ 💗 💖 💜 👍 💓 ✨️ 💗 💖

  • @giovannipalma1084
    @giovannipalma1084 4 месяца назад +3

    Interesting

  • @StoicSpirit101
    @StoicSpirit101 21 день назад

    "Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears." - Marcus Aurelius
    Thank you for watching! How do you think the Stoic philosophy can help us reframe rejection as a tool for personal growth and resilience?

  • @bytethought
    @bytethought 3 месяца назад +1

    our consciousness is the ultimate reality, the very foundation of everything we experience. Think of it like a stream, with the conscious and subconscious as its two parts. Understanding how these parts work together is key to harnessing the power of our minds. The conscious is like our personal filter, while the subconscious takes in everything. And while the conscious shows us the effects, it's the subconscious where the real causes lie. It's a bit like the conscious being active and assertive, while the subconscious is passive and receptive - like two complementary halves of the same whole

  • @ladidi4955
    @ladidi4955 4 месяца назад +3

    It highlights the like button😮when the a.i mentioned it

  • @ursulareeg1171
    @ursulareeg1171 3 месяца назад +2

    When relationships become a painful experience there comes a time to delete or block such contacts. I have and I felt better for doing do.

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 Месяц назад

    Greater

  • @StoicVirtuesyt1
    @StoicVirtuesyt1 2 месяца назад +1

    great 😁

  • @lisaammons4655
    @lisaammons4655 2 месяца назад +1

    my children wanted me to think my birthday was really special until i watched the video and listen to the bday song my daughter jumped in and said think as i was rejected

  • @shanchaii7976
    @shanchaii7976 3 месяца назад +5

    12 years of relationship and its hurt that he Reject me without any valid reason😭😭

    • @taymicastro2749
      @taymicastro2749 3 месяца назад +2

      There’s a reason for everything,u can’t see it now ,but later you will and it is always for good 👍.You have to make the call

    • @antoniagiffard7596
      @antoniagiffard7596 3 месяца назад +4

      I just broke up a 12 years relationship also, which was long distance, i just found out that the bastards was living a double life. I was always the one doing all the travelling.