How To Detach From People and Situations - Stoicism

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  • Опубликовано: 25 янв 2025

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  • @cslewislegacy1
    @cslewislegacy1 Год назад +374

    "We suffer more in our imagination than in reality." - Seneca

    • @krised2351
      @krised2351 Год назад +9

      How true is this phrase. Possibilities might be a positive thing to think of, but it's also too dangerous, for the reality is now living in lies.

    • @northstarmn
      @northstarmn Год назад

      Hence religion. Gods, especially jebus are all made up myths.

    • @LamondoHillII
      @LamondoHillII Год назад +6

      When I first read this quote about 2 years ago now, it shifted my entire outlook on life.

    • @CherieChrist
      @CherieChrist 10 месяцев назад +1

      So true !!!

    • @Stevenisswarming
      @Stevenisswarming 9 месяцев назад +2

      Imagination is reality. Reality is the content within consciousness, that beings are experiencing . Everyone is imagining everything that goes on all the time , because consciousness creates reality.

  • @Morpheus1128
    @Morpheus1128 Год назад +170

    "to get something you never had you have to do something you never did."

  • @gissensials2194
    @gissensials2194 Год назад +184

    “the root of suffering is attachment.”

    • @ladyd1614
      @ladyd1614 Год назад +17

      Exactly !! Let them go , if they want to go!!! Bye 👋

  • @gissensials2194
    @gissensials2194 Год назад +74

    Self worth, respect, values.

    • @conorscott-x2r
      @conorscott-x2r 11 месяцев назад

      Wgengnagjagaghaja glad gakdghakegegjaakegjrtu we’re😢😮🎉😢p

  • @louiseelliott6404
    @louiseelliott6404 Год назад +51

    Spot on. Point 6 I’ve just gone off most social media as much as possible except for videos like this which help with personal development and growth.

  • @ISEEKSPACE
    @ISEEKSPACE 9 месяцев назад +6

    I've been dealing with a car situation for a while now and also been going out a lot with my friends. The amount of stress I feel is becoming too much. I'm very introverted so I know I'm drained. It's good to come back to this vid to center myself because it's so easy to get up on the attachments we have to things and people that we forget ourselves. It's been a pretty hectic year so far just because I feel I haven't stopped "dealing". It's absolutely time for a break.

  • @amdeko
    @amdeko Год назад +40

    I will keep clapping for people until its my turn 🎉🎉🎉

  • @OnStoicism
    @OnStoicism Год назад +69

    "The soul becomes dyed with the color of its thoughts." - Marcus Aurelius

  • @KnowledgeWisdomLife
    @KnowledgeWisdomLife Год назад +47

    Detachment - a powerful tool for navigating life's challenges

  • @StoicEvolution1
    @StoicEvolution1 Год назад +36

    "Anger: an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured." - Seneca

    • @gloriabitutu8776
      @gloriabitutu8776 Год назад

      That’s deep. Thanks

    • @batterbatterswing
      @batterbatterswing 8 месяцев назад

      Is it okay to let it out? Seems like there's no answer for the pacifist here

  • @stoicethics_stoicism
    @stoicethics_stoicism 9 месяцев назад +1

    Engaging in open and honest communication with trusted individuals is advocated as it strengthens social bonds and provides valuable insights.

  • @StoicInYourLife
    @StoicInYourLife Год назад +20

    "Fantastic video! It offers a profound insight into the Stoic approach to detachment and maintaining inner peace. As Seneca once said, 'We suffer more often in imagination than in reality.' This video beautifully encapsulates this philosophy, showing us how to navigate our emotions and relationships with wisdom and composure."

  • @TheThoughtCompass-vnm
    @TheThoughtCompass-vnm Месяц назад

    The combination of visuals and narration in this video is absolutely amazing. Your attention to detail makes philosophy feel so much more accessible to the audience!

  • @miriamha970
    @miriamha970 Год назад +11

    Yes I agree with stepping back to figure out what to take in and what not. How about charging after what you want rather than not knowing what you want and having circumstance and people choosing you. Of course not the later.

  • @TheStoicStrength
    @TheStoicStrength Год назад +58

    "No man is free who is not master of himself." - Epictetus

  • @KimNgan-uz4si
    @KimNgan-uz4si 2 месяца назад +1

    Focusing on what we truly need in life-emotionally and mentally-feels like such an underrated concept. In a world full of distractions, it’s so easy to lose track of what we really need to thrive. This video is a great reminder to be mindful about our choices, and align them with what leads to true fulfillment!

  • @victorystoic_channel
    @victorystoic_channel Месяц назад

    This video is such a powerful reminder of the importance of inner peace and self-mastery. Detaching doesn’t mean we stop caring-it means we free ourselves from unnecessary suffering and focus on what we can control. Thank you for sharing these timeless Stoic lessons!

  • @wisdomhistoryphilosophy
    @wisdomhistoryphilosophy Год назад +20

    Even the smallest gestures of compassion can have a profound and lasting impact on the world around us

  • @StoicismAZ
    @StoicismAZ 19 дней назад

    How I wish I’d discovered Stoic lessons sooner! Helps so much with controlling my emotions

  • @NGHE_KINH_PHẬT_HAY
    @NGHE_KINH_PHẬT_HAY Год назад +9

    I love this!! It spoke to my spirit!! Let's get it done!!!

  • @StoicEmblem
    @StoicEmblem 3 месяца назад +2

    "Life is a journey, not a destination"
    Experience all you want

  • @ammoodz2313
    @ammoodz2313 Год назад +6

    I love listening to Kevin Conroy talk about the "stoic dudes"...Gotham will sleep well this night

  • @StoicHabitsss
    @StoicHabitsss 23 дня назад

    At [22:50], your conclusion tied everything together perfectly. This is a masterpiece!

  • @God-Wisdom-Daily
    @God-Wisdom-Daily Год назад +16

    ""To live a good life: We have the potential for it. If we learn to be indifferent to what makes no difference" - Marcus Aurelius
    Your video is very interesting, thanks!

  • @StoicHabit101
    @StoicHabit101 Год назад +8

    " Live a simple life and do not enslave yourself to temporary possessions." - Seneca

  • @LamondoHillII
    @LamondoHillII Год назад +7

    Really needed this, this morning. Thank you for a great lesson. Rules 3,4 and 7 spoke to me as if they were on a loud speaker. Having a philosophical friend to consult with, controlling how much of your emotions you reveal and focus on what is needed not the want. Won’t forget this.

  • @darrellborland119
    @darrellborland119 11 месяцев назад +4

    A rather difficult balance comes to the fore, when we consider a friend who means well, but engages in conversations that are a bit demeaning. A power imbalance can occur, creating tension. Therein lies the inner challenge...how to tell them, but leaving an opening for a better friendship. Thanks. subscribed.

  • @shirleyac12
    @shirleyac12 Год назад +9

    I appreciate this solid advice

  • @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L
    @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L 2 месяца назад

    @THE LAW OF DETACHMENT .. BEAUTIFUL TEACHING .. SALUTE 👍🏾 💯 🫡

  • @Mickey-v9p
    @Mickey-v9p Год назад +3

    TRULY VALUABLE INFORMATION & ANALOGIES…..
    🌟🌟🌟🌟⭐️

  • @stoicdna101
    @stoicdna101 7 месяцев назад +1

    Silence is really power. This is the best video I watched about stoic happiness this year so far...I will certainly watch this wonderful content again. I learned a lot. Thank you indeed.

  • @ShaazStoic
    @ShaazStoic 25 дней назад

    This article offers valuable Stoic insights on detachment, emphasizing the importance of focusing on what we can control and letting go of attachment to people and outcomes. It’s a powerful reminder to cultivate inner peace by embracing what is within our control

  • @Brd3p
    @Brd3p Год назад +6

    Thank you.

  • @Jesusisking235
    @Jesusisking235 6 месяцев назад +2

    Humans are repelled by clingy people. Learning to detach FROM EVERYONE not only attracts the right people into your life who will SHOW YOU RESPECT, but also repels people who are not healthy for you. The secret is to never chase ANYONE. This is what makes a man attractive because of the inner confidence that is noticed by others.

  • @nitaunadkat9514
    @nitaunadkat9514 Год назад +5

    Amazing wisdom ❤

  • @bettybella2417
    @bettybella2417 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing.

  • @LongNhật-u1o
    @LongNhật-u1o 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for this teaching
    keep it up!

  • @geroldcoleman1845
    @geroldcoleman1845 Год назад +4

    This is good for your self

  • @georgeandrews2839
    @georgeandrews2839 9 месяцев назад +2

    Good one . ..

  • @BarnYardBronco
    @BarnYardBronco Год назад +18

    I love how it says "the ancient wisdom dudes" 😂

  • @StoicStrengthUnleashed2024
    @StoicStrengthUnleashed2024 7 месяцев назад +1

    This video brilliantly explores Stoic principles to help us detach from people and situations, fostering inner tranquility and emotional resilience

  • @Maria-jo6nn
    @Maria-jo6nn Год назад +1

    Thank you 🙏 take a break sounds good to me right now 🖐️

  • @QueenofKyagwe3257
    @QueenofKyagwe3257 Год назад +1

    Thank you for this yeaching

  • @shanhans3945
    @shanhans3945 7 месяцев назад +1

    I really love stoicism. I hope I can become stoic❤

    • @scentsoftravelmeditation
      @scentsoftravelmeditation 2 месяца назад

      There is no destination in becoming a stoic. You need to believe that you are a stoic and start practicing it. Gradually you improve if your intentions are profound and sincere. The ego wants us to be attached to a goal and that’s how it makes people stuck.
      Buddha said “there is no path to happiness, happiness is the way”
      :)

  • @pewrumalnarayanan3477
    @pewrumalnarayanan3477 Год назад +2

    Good

  • @linhtholuu8926
    @linhtholuu8926 5 месяцев назад +1

    So true 🎉

  • @stoicforlife101
    @stoicforlife101 7 месяцев назад

    "Within you, there is a stillness and a sanctuary to which you can retreat at any time and be yourself."

  • @StoicMaster.
    @StoicMaster. Год назад +19

    " Live a life of meaning, not a life of luxury." - Seneca

    • @Evaselfmade
      @Evaselfmade Год назад +2

      You can have both, one is not better than the other it's preference

  • @scentsoftravelmeditation
    @scentsoftravelmeditation 2 месяца назад

    That’s cool 💙🦋

  • @TIMETESTEDADVICE
    @TIMETESTEDADVICE Год назад +4

    "The obstacle in the way becomes the way." - Marcus Aurelius -

  • @darnellmitchell9357
    @darnellmitchell9357 11 месяцев назад

    O good advice p good advice I do it all the time I'm a chess player and I teach kids how to play chess and I pulled back all the time and let me let me think and sometimes I make mistakes but you got some God bless you in the universe bless you I wish I had known this about 20 years

  • @JoyWaweru-kf6cd
    @JoyWaweru-kf6cd Год назад +1

    Wow i love this

  • @beautyonabudget3238
    @beautyonabudget3238 6 месяцев назад

    This has helped me so much thank you

  • @ChuNghiaKhacKy_ConDuongTriTue
    @ChuNghiaKhacKy_ConDuongTriTue 9 месяцев назад

    Stoicism teaches detachment from people and situations by focusing on inner tranquility and accepting what cannot be changed while controlling what can be controlled.

  • @faithmurithi4036
    @faithmurithi4036 9 месяцев назад +1

    It's not that we have a short time to live. it's that we waste most of of it..profound

  • @thomassquad4669
    @thomassquad4669 Год назад +7

    ❤ #Step #Away #ModelwithPurpose

  • @Stoicism4myLife
    @Stoicism4myLife 10 месяцев назад +1

    A great Video about: The document discusses the principles of stoicism, a philosophy that encourages individuals to cultivate inner tranquility by focusing on what they can control. It outlines four steps to detachment: taking a break to gain perspective, considering whether to distance oneself from a person, and establishing limits for emotional responses. The document emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, self-awareness of emotions, and the ability to make rational choices based on reason rather than emotion. It also highlights the role of friendship in the pursuit of virtue and the importance of open and honest communication with trusted individuals.

  • @davidcoupal8083
    @davidcoupal8083 Год назад

    awesome

  • @amassleadltd
    @amassleadltd Год назад +14

    "When you lose your temper, you lose your power. You can control any situation if you first control yourself..."
    | Florence Scovel Shinn |

  • @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L
    @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L 4 месяца назад

    THE LAW OF DETACHMENT .... VERY INTENSE SALUTE ... 🫡 👍🏾 💯

  • @ladyd1614
    @ladyd1614 Год назад

    Only You { Holy Spirit ,The Creator , THE True And Living GOD }.. can I trust as A FRIEND … !! Point , blank and period !! ❤❤❤❤I decree n declare HE IS MY REFUGE !! Life has taught me to much to trust man , mother , father , sister , brother , children .. no thank you !!

  • @johnpaulino5494
    @johnpaulino5494 7 месяцев назад +1

    Nobody has power over you, but if you’re not aware of your own inner peace, your involuntarily allowing them to disturb your inner peace! 😊
    HERE A TIP: The next time someone bothers or disrespect you, you can respond by turning what they doing into an exercising facility and still stay true to yourself!!! 😅

  • @westonlittle7300
    @westonlittle7300 3 месяца назад

    Very informative. These are the pathways of life's blessings 😂 Enjoy.

  • @belong53
    @belong53 5 месяцев назад

    This is what I do alot

  • @georgegates526
    @georgegates526 Год назад +1

    Could have REALLY used this one when I was young.. Too late now.

  • @priddy7456
    @priddy7456 7 месяцев назад

    I needed this

  • @Krathon-i2p
    @Krathon-i2p 2 месяца назад

    What’s one life lesson you learned the hard way? Would love to hear your stories!

  • @RohitKumar-ig8jo
    @RohitKumar-ig8jo 6 месяцев назад

    Its . D trick..
    Dont try to deatch . Dont try to attach .. not try... U just fly .
    Kerp in mind. Wt u want!!...
    ❤❤

  • @paulinkayukwa1493
    @paulinkayukwa1493 Год назад

    Definitely

  • @joannetuinstra1472
    @joannetuinstra1472 6 месяцев назад

    ty

  • @MarioMontalvo-p7d
    @MarioMontalvo-p7d 6 месяцев назад +1

    Im so detached that you got what you wanted

  • @IcyRolling-i6d
    @IcyRolling-i6d 9 месяцев назад

    Truth facts

  • @Stoicism-wr5nb
    @Stoicism-wr5nb 8 месяцев назад +2

    I cannot believe this guy just said "dude" took me right out of your video...

  • @Red23165
    @Red23165 Год назад +4

    ❤❤

  • @Lmorales43
    @Lmorales43 Год назад +1

    I believe there might have been a misspelling in the earlier dialogue regarding the term. In Stoicism, the concept you're referring to is indeed "oikeiosis," spelled as such. It represents the idea of natural affinity or familiarization, particularly in terms of human beings' natural inclinations and the development of a sense of self and community. Oikeiosis involves the natural process of an individual's expansion of concern from oneself to encompass family, community, and eventually, humanity as a whole. It's about the progression from self-interest to a broader perspective that includes caring for others and cultivating a sense of social responsibility and virtue.

  • @Jenistheone
    @Jenistheone 8 месяцев назад

    This is much more difficult for certain people. Wish it did work for me.

  • @yemenniru7738
    @yemenniru7738 Год назад

    First of December ❤

  • @Mike-os8lv
    @Mike-os8lv 8 месяцев назад

    What if you can’t step away from them because you live with them?

  • @ShaibuBukar-zi7co
    @ShaibuBukar-zi7co Год назад +4

  • @Michael-kf8ji
    @Michael-kf8ji 7 месяцев назад

    I want to do

  • @sikotatzfrmv-town9273
    @sikotatzfrmv-town9273 5 месяцев назад

    i miss her guys idk what to do anymore

  • @marilynruiz746
    @marilynruiz746 Год назад +1

    There aren't a lot of people who resemble sunshine to me.

  • @CiaofCleburne
    @CiaofCleburne 11 месяцев назад +5

    I don’t have ANY friends. Well, one real world friend but she certainly doesn’t bring sunshine into my life. I cringe when my phone rings n its her. So is it me because I am a magnet to Debbie Downers and repel Mary Sunshine. I would love just one friend who could even talk about life a d deeper thoughts instead of whining about their life yet here I am, whining about mine. Im stuck in a paradox to which I see no happy ending. 😢

    • @binathere2574
      @binathere2574 10 месяцев назад

      I feel you.

    • @CiaofCleburne
      @CiaofCleburne 9 месяцев назад

      @@Delphius- and you need to learn how to talk to people.

  • @sanjanakushwaha5263
    @sanjanakushwaha5263 5 месяцев назад

    Is there any one who can talk to me temporary so
    thatI can deatched from that person as a help 1
    want it.l want to diverte my Mind...Please help
    me!!!

  • @forgethebind
    @forgethebind Год назад +1

    I feel like this dialogue was created by Bill S Esquire and Ted T Logan after time traveling to Ancient Greece

  • @Ommm2z
    @Ommm2z 9 месяцев назад

    It's interesting seeing how people interpret what is being said.
    Here's mine:
    Listen to the video

  • @buithanhthuy1002
    @buithanhthuy1002 Месяц назад

    Tales of yourself

  • @UnityLove-tj3qg
    @UnityLove-tj3qg 2 месяца назад +1

    Nothing about not being able to afford leaving the toxic person!!! IF I could, I wouldn't be listening to this, I'd be long gone from this monster! There's no friends and no one is to be trusted! Duh!

  • @rawveganfoodforthought2333
    @rawveganfoodforthought2333 Год назад +1

    This is really great stuff (but using the word “dudes” and “it’s cool “ takes a little bit away.) Thank you!

  • @Aria-nl3xp
    @Aria-nl3xp 8 месяцев назад

    Already have

  • @MsGechi77
    @MsGechi77 7 месяцев назад

    Why do you repeat the content in a loop?

  • @elizabethrecco8485
    @elizabethrecco8485 Год назад +3

    My sister and her husband came to visit us, it was the summer before elections. They kept badgering us to watch certain shows on t.v. If we wanted the truth. They also told us who we should vote for. When my husband argued with them they packed their bags and left. They then sent me a message saying they were concerned for my safety because my husband was out of his mind. Lol! I told her I needed a break from them! She said how long, I said 1 year. She stopped talking to me and then died within the year of pancreatic cancer, her husband died 2 years later from cancer. The end.

  • @soniczforever5470
    @soniczforever5470 10 месяцев назад +3

    I was told i ruined everyones day tortured around im a 4 stone 12 anorexic im dying. I wont talk anymore. I was told this morning i wasnt good enough because i forgot someones mother. My memory is bad because of my anorexia. I left my intake at 100 calories that walked 70 of them of already. Not eating anymore today. Always bullied in kitchen and not allowed eat outside. What's a barbeque i get yelled at for my morbid terror of eaying. really dont care if i end up somewhere else as this isnt working.

  • @MichaelAlbrecht-jx5cp
    @MichaelAlbrecht-jx5cp 8 месяцев назад

    No I step away permanently.

  • @HarmonicsAI
    @HarmonicsAI Год назад

    Can you monetize this channel bro ?

  • @CasaNova-dl5vj
    @CasaNova-dl5vj Год назад

    I would say all these video on Instagram and RUclips is ruining relationships and getting into people's mind and making them think detachment is real and healthy

    • @binathere2574
      @binathere2574 10 месяцев назад +1

      You misunderstand the meaning.

  • @ariues
    @ariues 9 месяцев назад

    woah that guy has thumbs on his feet.

  • @Groundhog262
    @Groundhog262 10 месяцев назад

    Wow, these mass-produced AI videos sure suck. They didn't even watch it themselves before uploading :D

  • @brotherandros
    @brotherandros 10 месяцев назад

    Okay, so while I appreciate and understand the premise of this video, it is clearly just an AI generated dialogue. I mean how many times are we gonna hear the same message but put in different words? Lmao

  • @BonefastKharkongor
    @BonefastKharkongor 7 месяцев назад

    I.hate.the.world.🎉