I just want to make a comment here, that I felt so attached and close to my best friend at the time that I would spend literally everyday with them (while I was single) I was very jealous when they would be around other friends because that sense of potential abandonment kicked in. But I just wanted to know that if anyone else felt this way, I felt so intensely in my friendship that I thought I might even be in love with them at one point. I quickly realized I was not but was curious if anyone else has felt something like that? Just because my relationships feel so intense I don’t always understand the emotions I feel :)
This was really helpful for me. I want more content like this. Xannie, I don't know what life was like for you before treatment, but you are full of insight and practical wisdom that most people twice your age will never have. Good for you, and good for you for parlaying these insights and skills into a RUclips channel to help others grappling with these really tough issues. I also appreciate the diversity of the panelists and what they bring to the conversation. This is a truly invaluable resource. Thank you :)
This was such a valuable discussion for me! You guys really covered a lot of ground I haven’t seen discussed elsewhere, and it was helpful to hear about how you guys worked through all of it. Thank you!
Listening to all of you, this sounds so completely normal and a common experience to absolutely everyone. I hope one day BPD gets a new name, like in UK its called Emotional Regulation Disorder...( maybe drop the disorder). This is all being lived on a spectrum. We may react at a 10, when at times neurotypicals may respond at a 6. You guys are modeling learning, health and finding a middle way. People on the ADHD and Autism spectrum have to learn alot of these sensory regulation skills too. You guys are total proof we do get better regulating ourselves! Thank you.
Has anyone ever been set off when said by a friend or loved one to "mind your own buisness?" Not that I am intrusive, but i always respond with "i dont have my own buisness" which makes no sense. Its like sometimes I feel like others have an "actual" life? And mine isnt as significant? If this makes ANY sense lol. Plus, I also am an oversharer!!!
This was my first BPD Bunch video, and I think Xannie said things that were really, specifically in line with my experience. I thought that she is the female me, before I realized that she is the content creator.
Yes the extra mile the other person didnt ask for then resenting them for not reciprocating. Big lesson.
Yes I have been becoming more aware of this.
Yep
I just want to make a comment here, that I felt so attached and close to my best friend at the time that I would spend literally everyday with them (while I was single) I was very jealous when they would be around other friends because that sense of potential abandonment kicked in. But I just wanted to know that if anyone else felt this way, I felt so intensely in my friendship that I thought I might even be in love with them at one point. I quickly realized I was not but was curious if anyone else has felt something like that? Just because my relationships feel so intense I don’t always understand the emotions I feel :)
This was really helpful for me. I want more content like this. Xannie, I don't know what life was like for you before treatment, but you are full of insight and practical wisdom that most people twice your age will never have. Good for you, and good for you for parlaying these insights and skills into a RUclips channel to help others grappling with these really tough issues. I also appreciate the diversity of the panelists and what they bring to the conversation. This is a truly invaluable resource. Thank you :)
This episode is everything I needed to hear right now. Thank you fam ❤
This was such a valuable discussion for me! You guys really covered a lot of ground I haven’t seen discussed elsewhere, and it was helpful to hear about how you guys worked through all of it. Thank you!
Listening to all of you, this sounds so completely normal and a common experience to absolutely everyone. I hope one day BPD gets a new name, like in UK its called Emotional Regulation Disorder...( maybe drop the disorder). This is all being lived on a spectrum. We may react at a 10, when at times neurotypicals may respond at a 6. You guys are modeling learning, health and finding a middle way. People on the ADHD and Autism spectrum have to learn alot of these sensory regulation skills too. You guys are total proof we do get better regulating ourselves! Thank you.
Has anyone ever been set off when said by a friend or loved one to "mind your own buisness?" Not that I am intrusive, but i always respond with "i dont have my own buisness" which makes no sense. Its like sometimes I feel like others have an "actual" life? And mine isnt as significant? If this makes ANY sense lol. Plus, I also am an oversharer!!!
A beautiful episode. 🦄
Good information!
What a great idea for a channel. Really loving these episodes!
This was my first BPD Bunch video, and I think Xannie said things that were really, specifically in line with my experience. I thought that she is the female me, before I realized that she is the content creator.
Yesss!
Too late for me. I burnt all my bridges and left mines out just to make sure no one comes back.
Loving the cat ears. New to all of this. Thanks for the info. Def struggling with this right now.
Ugh. I’ve never gone anywhere by myself and I just went through a break up. I feel like it’s my chance to get to know who I am. I’m terrified.
Yes this is me I haven't been diagnosed for bpd but I know I have all the signs for bpd
I might ghost the person completely and forever.
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It's worse when the pwBPD was your intimate ex and wants to be friends with you!
Am over friendly with people I just met and putting them on a pedestal!
Oversharing with inappropriate people ..
There is a Taylor Swift song for every single situation. 😅
Yayyyyy I loved all of it…. I think y’all touched all the things, the good the bad the confusing and we’re totally open! 🫂🖤🫶🏽