I feel the same as you , people say you should appreciate your mom dad because they gave birth to you but it would have been way better if I was not born at all
@@theultimatereductionist7592 dude I am from India, I wanted to get vasectomy for free as I can't pay for the surgery because I am an clg student and I don't earn.
@Shanti Sree but they can have just 1. If thats the case. There are many maids that i have seen who have 3-4 kids and still none of them are able to get good education or jobs and thats because of the atmosphere of slums, thats having a atmosphere of no eduaction, or good morals, but celebrating festiavls for entertainment (not understanding the signifigance behind celebrating them), having backward thinking, men being engaged in drinking/smoking/gambling, and they beat up there women, if they dont have s** with them, or dont earn as maids. They dont have knowledge about condoms, protection, they feel as they have no source of income in there oldage and no one to look after them, atleast there kids would earn and Give them food to eat. Thats the stuff. + Our stupid govt. Is more devoted into religious issues and wars with neighbouring countries, rich here want to be more rich (so even super rich people here need good morals, like feeding poor, building homes for them, not like having 2 kids and then making them rule this world and keeping money for generations!!)
I'm not saying all kids from poor backgrounds suffer alot, or they dont have good parents. I know a maid and she has 2 daughters and she sends them to school and tution through her hard earned money. I have respect for such people! But they are a minority. People have to understand (life is suffering : buddhism) and if the creator was a good person everyone in this world would be happy.
A man can only succeed through struggle. who said life is fair? Still, that doesn't mean procreation is not important. Just don't breed carelessly like an illiterate.
@@TheNarautube I am childfree and didn't marry. I hate responsibilities and being married along with a kid brings massive amounts of responsibility. With single life, i eat whatever i like, go to wherever i like. And amazed by how much money can be saved. So fuck this marriage child bullshit.
@Tyler Durden That's the point dummy. Life isn't necessary to go on. Certainly not in todays world, full of misery. Why would you want to bring another life here to suffer for your own selfish reasons?
@@whyrwehere8824 Yes,I'm a Muslim and I also support them because this is what time needs, the population of India is rapidly increasing and our resources are limited, so whats the point of creating a new baby,knowing that he will not have a good future.And if the increase of population doesn't stop now human will eat other human. And as for the religion, Islam gives us the flexibility to change with time.
Being in marriage for 8 years now people around me in my relatives family call me "baanj" and call my husband a transgender... Just because we dont want to have kids.... From last 4 years i am hearing shit mOre than this.... But still happy with my and husbands decision... Now i can see there are many people like me..
Late reply here, but seriously ignore what society calls you behind your back. You and your husband enjoy your life the way you want it. It's not like society is going to come and provide financial support incase you have a child. So it's better to just ignore them.
@@anupamaMall why are you thinking like this ma'am...you're a women right ????... Of course your parents will have that eagerness to see grandchildren right ???
Don't give a damn about people or relatives . Make your own world with your husband and live happily . Interact with only those who respect you the way you are .
I have the same philosophy. Life is a struggle which we should encounter from birth till death. So why should bring new life just to struggle? I believe it to be morally wrong.
It's wonderful having a child 🌻 the idea that both of you have made this entire new human being, I respect your decision but its the most natural thing ever!
@@josephbradshaw2240 what kind of logic is it ? Its wonderful creating a baby ? Wonderful for who ? For you ? What about the baby ? Does it ask you to creat it ? Well for me its wonderful killing a human being ☺ the idea that i myself inflicted so much pain that the person died ☺ how wonderful it is ? Should i do it ?
@@josephbradshaw2240 oh wow its so wonderful to create suffering. also its as natural as shitting or dying yet no one says these are great things only because they are natural
I second the topic. The world is full of tensions. Why should we bring another innocent soul to face this horrible world. Just to show that we aren't impotent.
Exactly....even I told my mom I will rather adopt kids than to produce my own..she said people might think that ur impotent...Like now we should produce babies for those gossipers or what?!! Jus to prove thatv aren't impotent??? How stupid!!
Reasons I don’t want children: 1. It’s my body my choice 2. Pregnancy freaks my out 3. Childbirth scares me. 4. World is already overpopulated overburdened. Humans are a danger to mama earth. (Bees are important than humans) 5. Future generations are going to suffer a lot in terms of clean water and clean air being Alive will be a curse 6. Human life is full of suffering 7. I don’t want to bring another human in a world full of rat race, racism, classism, castiesm and war. 8. If I ever feel like wanting kids in future I’ll adopt. (There are so many)
Even bringing a child into this world isn't a problem. But when the child says that you brought them into this world and asks how to leave this world without pain and suffering, if those parents have a perfect and straightforward answer to this question, I'd worship such parents as Gods and Goddesses. But this is Kali Yuga and not Satya Yuga. So, we can never find such parents. Maybe we can try to be spiritually advanced parents. But, we can't change the LUSTy and Greedy 8 Billion other humans who just keep producing more and more and more babies without realizing what they're doing to this planet and the species itself... Hence I feel humanity will go extinct anyway as it's more likely they launch world war 3 and destroy themselves. So, I can never leave my soul with negative karma by bringing a child into this world just so it suffers and dies. No way. I researched deeply into spirituality and it seems like if we reach higher levels of consciousness, we become immortals by leaving the body in samadhi state. This means, all those Lustful humans will be reborn, enjoying freewill in this world while we will have option to exercise freewill even in the incorporeal world.
@@aliengod2039 : You are actually forgetting that colonizers ruined the planet and still are destroying the ozone, rivers , vegetarian and livelihood of others. They were the main ones having 12 - 22 children while keeping human beings that are considered sub- par now still to this very day , in poverty centuries later ! Research eugenics and the agenda behind planned parenthood. Their lust and greed has made their pockets heavier while the brown species are taught to kill their children or better yet not have them at all because life is sooo depressing and all we do is suffer.
@@aliengod2039 I asked this to my mom.. She reads Geeta etc.. She said u r Born Cz of ur pending karma, finish ur karma and u will attain salvation which is true.. Even I have done research..
@@creativeaarts4023 She is right. Sanatana Dharma supports progressive evolution. But when you examine carefully, you notice right after Lord Krishna's death, Kali Yuga started. The quality of individual human decreased as the quantity of individuals in the species increased. Mankind fell into the trap of beauty of outside material world and lost the true purpose of existence. And thus Abrahamic faiths got started from Brahmic roots who migrated to the Middle East. Today we see every child is born only to experience sensual pleasures and material comforts and not seek higher truth and purpose. Today, almost all humans have their sexual chakra / root chakra as the most active one and so they cause all the sin to animals, plants, nature, etc. for enjoyment of their own selfish pleasures which lead to overpopulation, industrialization, pollution, competition, crimes, etc. Many children are born with diseases, defects, disabilities. What sin did they do? Explanation is Karma from past life. Everything is connected. You can imagine the universe like a virtual AI program that spawns infinite threads when consciousness / computing power gets trapped within a material body in the brain / pineal gland. All the life's actions are recorded and the actions of this body transforms the consciousness / atman / soul of that individual. Now if that individual had done too much bad karma, then they will get a future body which has more pain and suffering than a normal healthy body ( which itself experiences pain and suffering at some point in their lifetime ). So, at the very least, even if one has a child, it's best to raise them spiritually if not altruistically. Detachment from money, material things and pleasures is extremely good for the soul because next birth may not be as good as this one. This itself is a reason for desire to attain moksha for many. In Satya Yuga, all were Gods and Goddesses and they didn't multiply like insects as their default active energy center was the crown chakra. They never had selfish desires and they always shared their pleasures with their entire species and also with all other creatures. This ensured that wherever or as whatever they are reborn in their next life, they are treated the exact same way they had treated others or other creatures. They only "Created" a child when the entire species were in need of a human resource. They were conscious and not let sub-conscious mind control their animal instincts. They realized the effects of karma from selfish pleasures. So, they even sacrificed their lives for the pleasures of entire species and all lives. This is the height of altruism during that time. There are few videos on RUclips describing how technologically advanced Satya Yuga was. Spiritual technology is infinitely superior to material technology as the former can last for eternity such that they won't need any material things to survive and can stay invisible to our material senses as long as they wish to. Actually I can say that this is one of The best moment in human history where this species can reach a spiritual utopia where they can easily eliminate all pain and suffering and progress to a super human or divine species. It's like a now or never moment in time. Education on specific subjects is very important to reach this level of consciousness or understanding. But how to educate 8 Billion humans about spiritual truths and how Karma is deeply linked with desire and how Karma can be logically manipulated through yoga and meditation is the biggest challenge. If all couples are encouraged to restrict to just 0 or 1 child per family and for a higher altruistic and spiritual purpose, then we can see population drop from 8 Billion to less than few millions. This will heal nature and improve quality of DNA of future generations as climate, water and soil would be repaired and then using proper yoga and meditation, they can stop "Producing" and start "Creating" super human children of the future consciously. Those children will never feel any physical or mental pain as they understand the highest truth and work for higher purpose rather than selfish interests.
This is called being highly matured and having very high thinking. Stop Saying depressed people think like this, the answer is NO. Bringing kids in to this world is the most selfish act. Period!
@@shonashelar78 exactly.. What astonishes me is even during this pandemic people are having kids.. Aren't these people scared of their kids future? bringing kids is the easiest task than making sure they survive properly and have better quality life in this world.. There is so much uncertainty.. few years back no one expected that there would pandemic and it would cripple the world for 2 years and would still continue. If current situation can't bring change in people then i don't know when
I know a family having 8 girls, trying to have a SON! I was an unwanted child born to 45yr old mother. Later, My mother had refused to hand me over in adoption to a childless woman. Now after 40 yrs I regret my birth leading miserable life!!
I'm so sorry. I just want to say that you are your own person and you deserved better in life. I hope you can love yourself better than your birth mother. I'm from the US but I live in India and I've seen these kind of atrocities that are happening here and it makes my heart ache. People being forced into unhappy marriages and old fashioned traditional roles and being disowned by family for not following these stupid rules and the lack of respect for women etc. These barbaric outdated traditions need to go because they're hurting people and causing too much unnecessary suffering. 💔🥺
Unfortunately, most Indians won't be able to understand what you are saying. They will call you depressed, pagal etc., but won't make an effort to understand your PoV.
@@AM-yj8dy Existence is dissatisfaction. If your life was resolved you would die. You live to be perpetually in chase of satisfaction like a junkie. That is the sum of your experience.
In India we have no control over our lives.. that leads to people realising that what is the point of life.... We have no control over our: Birth, education, career choice, even marriage if you remain single for a longer time and death. It's really sad... There might be so many people depressed with their lives. It will be good to have people with such realistic mindset questioning the logic behind everything.
Living beings can never have control over their birth. That's a fact. Cosmos itself doesn't have control over its birth and survival. However, human beings can have an explicit choice of life & death.
@@usergmail4272 yup we have to see the positive side, if we are born here😊😊. Think of those women who live in Saudi Arabia, syria, north Korea, Iran, iraq there condition is very bad. Atleast in India we have freedom to express, educate and rear our profession. Ya but our society sucks on so many levels. They have so many stereotypes attached to women which is kinda sad, but I hope these conditions will eventually become better. 🙂
@Suman Kundu Please go through this book Sapiens. And please read Niti aayog reports on the upcoming disaster of common ground water decline in India. I will never give birth to a child to face all these stuffs. May be I would adopt someone as there are still 29 crore orphan in India.
@Suman Kundu parenting instincts are the strongest when they're most fertile. We always have the option of adopting kids and rising them as our own. There are so many children who haven't been loved. Also how is anything better if you're married within your own community? The only way to abolish religious discrimination is to encourage more inter community marriages. Also from an evolutionary point of view, a species is more benefitted when there is a larger gene pool.
What's noble in this ?? You think the world would be better without humans and you know what, Muslims won't buy this bullshit. They'll reproduce even more.
I am a lady of this view and people treat me like I'm crazy not to have kids they keep asking me who will look after you or go to some temple or fast on certain days and u will get a baby boy I honestly believe anyone who will be born now will have very tuff life no clean air water crisis job crisis I wish Indian parents would stop treating there kids like insurance policy
Insurance policy!!! Lmao that's so true!!! Majority of people are hella ignorant and selfish...they give birth to children for every nonsense reason ...
@@CarolineAnandSiddiqui No but like that's the only option left now...If people don't take responsibility then we only have to come to the forefront.Although even if I would want to experience motherhood once but there's no point in bringing another life to this tyrannical and barbaric world...
@YurururuY we are meaning seeking beings while nature is inherently meaningless, doesn't mash up well together, and it is not okay to gamble kn someone's life, no matter the outcome of the gamble
@@vanibandodkar31415 I think it's true that all atheists are moral nihilsts, because almost all atheists believe that life is an accident & life is meaningless ( including Dawkins ).
Nothing wrong in not wanting to be a parent. Its a purely personal choice, you want to be one? Be a responsible one. Never ever make children your "investment" or "pride".
U r right. Be a responsible one - well said. No parenting is the sad thing all around bcoz of nuclear families. Children are almost orphaned since parents r busy in their profession
The ones who can afford to raise kids are having 0-2 kids, but the ones who can't feed themselves go ahead and produce multiple kids, who ultimately may turn out to be a burden to the society and country.
I agree with this take. Only people who are emotionally and financially stable should take up the responsibility. Even rich and mentally unstable couples shouldn't be allowed. There should be some formal way to conduct checks.
Mansa Eve Exactly, even I have such beliefs but never knew that it really exists. Antinatalism is the ultimate solution to be actually free from everything ( free from good nd bad game, from dramas, pain nd pleasure)
@@FestivaLagoon People can't stand the fear of loneliness. They reproduce to invest on a staff for old age. But I've come across so many who still are insecure after having children. Hence derived that fear is only in the head. It is an imaginary state of mind. Ppl have this mindset that women who dont want children are selfish. And I feel it's rather selfish wanting to have only yours when so many are abandoned in orphanages. Being childfree is only a choice that's all. Like how we choose between careers, dinner options ...ice cream options ...that's all that it is. I'm amazed how ppl judge the ones who don't want children more than the ones who don't wish to marry at the first place. That's illogical
@@shayonimukherjee7303 the problem for us rational thinkers is that we are dealing with a whole bunch of illogical people who have such confidence that they can make us second guess our choices with their foolish arguments.
You presented an interesting point. The old ones are still insecure even after having children. Can you please provide some insights about their thinking? I can use it to form my opinions and use it in debates.
@@FestivaLagoon I just feel that having children doesn't combat loneliness. In many cases they rather become the cause of grief because children many a times hurt their old parents. To this these so called righteous ppl say that it all depends on their bringing up so does that mean all these parents have not brought up their progeny well ? All parents try their best to bring up their children well. Besides old parents are still not tension free. They keep the money they've managed to save to give to their children after they die. They don't use their own money enjoy their life.
The most annoying thing to hear from parents is that they gave birth to us because it was their duty and getting us married & have kids is also their duty. They want support during old age. If they never had kids, they wouldn't have to go through mental and physical pain that adds up to the ageing ailments. Ultimately they wouldn't need their sons/daughters to take care of them during old age. There are many old aged people in their 80s who are hitting the gym and are quite strong physically.
In India ur kids r ur social security I’m sure a few crores would happily choose a childless life if they r guaranteed some social security during their old age/when they fall ill..people just want a dignified life y would they live in hope that their kids will tc of them, the fact that they r becoming a burden also stresses them..that’s y many flee to EU
But some want to have a company.. My mom still spends on me, brother lives in different home as he is married.. My parents only have me now as a company.. Everyone feels for their child..
No existence = not having to deal with useless and overcompetitive school system No existence = not having to fight for good colleges, which have less than 1% selection rate No existence = not having to fight for exploitative jobs, and be overworked and underpaid No existence = not having to deal with unemployment No existence = no possibility of meeting with an accident and getting your limb amputated No existence = not having to deal with diseases like asthma and diabetes, which degrade quality of life No existence = not having to see your loved ones struggle with terminal illnesses and die No existence = not having to die a slow and painful death due to cancer, paralysis, etc. *NO EXISTENCE = NO PROBLEMS*
Yes I also want to be child free. Instead of spending my earnings on children. I rather spend it to help poor to satisfy their basic needs of food , clothing and shelter. There are many poor children who just struggle to get a proper meal once a day. Instead of reproducing new ones if we focus on these poor children which are already there we can make our India a better nation. ☺
Good. I like babies too but I don't think I'll ever want to raise my own. Nothing wrong with these people as long they don't end up marching on streets claiming they are better and impose their thoughts.
kou shik • 9K Views there is no relation between baby and children ,, if u want some emotional support or partner u can marry having kids or not its ur choice same way marriage ,,
Seriously, population needs to be in control...Even I'm gonna adopt kids rather than producing my own...A child is a child..It anyways comes from it's mother's womb so doesn't matter if it's biologically mine or not...There are so many innocent kids out there craving for love and nurturing of parents...Those poor little souls have to face this harsh and cruel world all alone jus coz their parents abandoned them..My heart breaks for them!!! I would be glad even if I could give a bright future to two babies...I can live a contented life then..!
I think our generation still don’t understand that a women can choose not to have kids. We are not in 19th century when we were not having that choice. Really happy to see this video and relieved that we are there to understand each other
I once asked my grandmother that why did she have 8 kids with my grandpa. She could have easily done away with 2 or 3. She said, " In case one of them doesn't look after us in our old age,there will be 7 more of them we can impose our expectations on. " Damn!
and that is the reality that people do not know or just choose to ignore. that is all we are . a fucking retirement plan, someone to take care of them when old. to buy them medicine, take them to the doctor. pay for people to take care of them. what a piece of shit reason to be forced to come here.and to think that most of the idiots out there put parents in a pedestal. they all are garbage. people have no idea of how this world really is. wishful thinking is preferred at all times. back then they also had another reason, cheap labor to work at the farm.
All with some motives already attached and in case it is not as per expectation then quarrels fights in family. Earlier life was little better raising child required limited reaources ,less of social pressure ,limited social circle,cost of education was less.parents were happy sharing their struggle story and how they managed to raise and we should be proud about it.Can we say this now?Can we ask todays child to keep quiet,we used to be quiet just glance of father.We could wait for laptop for years but can we do that.If we are running behind money..both mother and father,then who is spending time with child.There was not this much rush in train or traffic,moms mostly used to homemaker but now look at working mother,she sacrifies her sleep to be attentive and play with child not full heartdly..plus health..due to all climate and bad food ,our health is already compromised..so do new borns..popping medecins...what quality of life?they will enter depression at the age of 10..we heard and few entered at 20.
If all people think like this, yes later there won't be anyone to say that once upon a time there was a species called 'human',. We say about Dinosaur Age. But there won't be any one to say "Human Age". 😄😄
last month i was travelling in kolkata suburban local train and i saw a couple with 6 small kids...yes 6..the couple sepecially the wife was so puny and thin and malnutritioned.....i felt disgusted........people need to understand what limit is...
This couple has put themselves in a trap that will remain as long as they live , feeding them , raising them (somehow ),and marrying them off so that they can have 6 kids each(😅)
Yeah right... they feel that producing more children will bring them more money.So they keep on producing kids without thinking of their future...Now who will educate them, universe only knows!!!
Child is not an investment.Having someone to share happiness and love is not at all a bad idea.If they don't want to let them stay away from having one.Love and getting loved is not a selfish thing.Its basic animal nature. For saving earth,controlling child population would be better than this.If ppl are emotionally matured enough to provide a better life for their child let them make babies(in a controlled way) and live their life as per choice. Honestly i don't think anyone of this so called forward thinking ppl are 'regretting for being born'. It's kind of being pseudo intellectual for making ur theory more appealing to others.. And if ur point is adopting a child,its also a good idea.But emotionally some women may have this feeling of having baby,taking care of it.Though it's not a mandatory thing,its just a part of life..and I think those who have these thoughts shouldn't be barred from experiencing all these
Joey Tribbiani bringing a child into the world just because you want to be loved by them is selfish. Everything you said is still selfish. if anyone wants to have kids, fine that’s their business, not mine. I’m just asking for non selfish reasons for my own sake.
@@venugopalck4280 you can have a child for any number of reasons but it cannot be in the interest of the potential child, one can't have a child for the child sake. Because their is no one exist who needs your love, so you are creating another person to fulfill your own selfish desires.
I tried convincing my maid who has 2 daughters not have any more....she still went ahead and produced another girl in desire for a boy.....there r way too many pathetic people who wont comprehend to any advice.....nevertheless this is a good start and need of the hour
Damn!! Why did this got recommended to me after a year, I thought I was alone with this thought in India, it feels good to know some people share my thoughts on this matter.
🙌🏼 yasss!! Married since eight years, child free and whenever the finances allow maybe will adopt a preexisting child. Not selfish enough to create one out of nothing only to add to this planet’s burden. My unborn biological child doesn’t even exist right now, why even make it, whyyyyyyyy?
One thing you can do is you should donate some money to old age homes if everyone will start doing this the problem- who will take care of u when u will become old will get solved
3 years ago when i first watched this video i was still in college, not knowing anything about stressful real-world. I even made fun of them. Now i completely understand why would anyone oppose procreation
@@creativeaarts4023 Gita is self realization.... Immature progeny like you really needs a session to be mature..... The way you're talking and disrespecting your parents are henious.... Parents are your responsibility.... Otherwise take the burden of the cur$e of the parents, they won't say anything but their negative vibe is enough to end your g00d days ...... If everything is your wish then , if I was there near you , I would have requested armed Force to ex€cute you immediately.... Bcoz it's their wish..... Good luck for your arrogance.... And Make your parents happy and proud, you immature progeny... Namaste 🙏🏻🌸🔱
There is a Mumbai chap who sued his parents for bringing him to the world without his consent.😆 (I was typing this while watching, half way learnt that they mentioned him in the video) In a way, I agree with his sentiment. The world we are born is getting saturated. The children born to economically weaker parents are facing the brunt. The world is getting hotter. The earth is decaying one year after another. Unemployment is on the rise. People are becoming lonelier. Why the hell would anyone bring children to such a world?
That boy's story was hilarious though...Lmao But like seriously this human population is paving it's way towards destruction!! And people go on producing kids like a baby producing factory...nonstop!! Why are they like this???!!
@@sacredheart7962 He was really semi trolling to get publicity and make a point. Why you ask? Because we are born selfish with unlimited desires. That's the nature of the game.
Sacred Heart We can’t ask babies if they want to be born or not so it would only be right to not have them. Everyone was born without their consent. If a baby is denied life by never being created, then it’s impossible for them to want to experience life because they were never consciously aware that they had potential to exist.
I also think ,,what type of life this is ,, struggling for job...then housing...then child bearing...at last a miserable old life....where is my happiness in this... Better to either have one or none
And no guarantee that child will take care of you.. I saw boys especially enjoying life and after marrying doesn't even look after their parents, they enjoy life, they go abroad..
Most of the people who say otherwise, have babies to avoid social stigma ....sort of hypocrites....If the same society starts appreciating childless couples...they will join that bandwagon as well.....If its a natural thing like most of them said, its different.....spending lakhs to have a baby is not natural.... Life should be more of free will....
Only 3-4 percent of rich population is having good times in their life , rest are just surviving ,working endlessly to make their ends meet.fighting lots of competition , giving and failing exams just to get in middle class/ lower class wage salary, and getting depressed day by day with so rotten environment
It's quite amazing that antinatalism's finally started to emerge from being a niche philosophy and begun to infect mainstream consciousness as a self-evident conclusion. It's just utterly disappointing that we've had to reach such a horrendous dystopic existence for that to have happened.
Anti-natalism is real intelligence. We should only bring our children to this world if it's a better & safe place. I don't understand Why any parent wants their precious child to suffer what they have suffered. We must change with time.
Ai can handle most of the heavy work everyone go childfree Also for india right now being childfree for some time is absolutely necessary or this population is gonna choke us
@@saibusd hunger game hoga 😆 log squid games jaise games banyenge aadhe se jyada toh bhukmari se marenge yahi ek tarika hai population handle karne ka for nature
Japan's birth date is lower than death rate. Japanese people don't want to have kids in this bhagam bhaag life. Good for them.. but in india its opposite. Poor are having more kids than rich.
From a month ago this thought is circulating in my mind. I thought I was alone with this mindset. Now I m really glad to see this community with same mindset.
I did not want to have kids as I think it is a big responsibility to bring them up. I made this clear to my wife before I got married. I don’t regret that decision at all.
My boyfriend is forcing me either to have kids with him or never marry him...I love him so much at the same time I don't want kids...I just feel I'm only suffering why to make others life to suffer as well
@@Ipluuu Get lost you male chauvin!$t Heartless creature.... That person is asking for a child... He wants to be a parent.... But if a wife is fem!n!st then what to do..... And love is not temporary you Bow Bow 😡..... Gen Z is the most c0rrupted generation in this Era.... Namaste 🙏🏻🌸🔱
Completely agree.. Living happily ever after is our ultimate goal but its very temporary.. Everyone has to go through all the emotions its how life is and which should not be enforced.... Parenthood is not for everyone its a choice.. Why do you want to bring someone into this world where there is already enough misery and go through the cycle of life and death ..
Right now the situation gets even worser Both parents and children are struggling hard physically and most importantly mentally to cope up with the world. It's good to have such an initiative of not having a child. Every parent working hard for their child to happy all the time. It's better not to have kid and make them see this broken world.
No pets and no adopting kids or anyone or anything for me. Doing all this would mean that I had owed them big things in past life... what sin did I do to handle the responsibility to raise the by-product of pleasure of a boy and girl who enjoyed pleasure and dumped their accident in garbage as orphan... It's all karma. Those who produced orphan child will suffer grave pain as well. All pleasures lead to pain and suffering with the exception of none.
I also don't want kids because there is already a number of people in India I mean population is a big problem and I don't want this type of problem for my child
"I won't say that I regret my life but it was unnecessary." Brother, I feel you.
Meera do u have 1 ?
Meera it's was neither unnecessary, it's actually the worst possibility you could get.
I am on yourbside
I feel the same as you , people say you should appreciate your mom dad because they gave birth to you but it would have been way better if I was not born at all
@@swagatmaharana3131 true nothing to appreciate
You know what's a better idea....Adopting children in need
Adopting endangered species in need would be better
That would encourage poor people to breed carelessly.
Well said. So many abandoned children out there looking for homes already. Plus resources are finite.
The problem is that they dont want to have kids both biological and adopted, free of parenthood.
Only smart talk I heard so far.
Me too not want to bring a child in this world and then leave him to struggle against Unemployment, Stress, Climate change.....
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Fellow childfree antinatalist here! I proudly support mandatory antinatalism: mandatory vasectomies + mandatory vasectomies.
I salute you!
@@theultimatereductionist7592 same 💯
@@theultimatereductionist7592 dude I am from India, I wanted to get vasectomy for free as I can't pay for the surgery because I am an clg student and I don't earn.
Iozilto ,,, appreciate that dear,, enjoy your life in your own ways......
Sleep is good, death is better; but of course, the best thing would be to have never been born at all.
Heinrich Heine
Have never been born = moksha
Who h is very very difficult to achieve according to our scriptures
@@rajeevprasad3668 It's only difficult because of all the breeders that exists in this world
@@rajeevprasad3668 Moksha is probably not even a real thing . We are discussing facts here
@@rajeevprasad3668 keep your religious bullshit to yourself. There is nothing called Moksha, it's all plain bullshit.
@@Slade69 yeah, don't argue with religious nuts. Religious people breed the most.
"There is no chronic happiness, but there is chronic pain"
It is the Central Idea of antinatalism.
I wish there was chronic happiness.. but life is nasty, brutish and short
Attain liberation.
This line hit hard
He says happiness is temporary but so is pain
I am antinatalist but never thought there’s a community .. wow .. it feels so good ..
Same
There are lots... More you are educated, more you can think and rise to spiritually higher conscious levels and think like a saint.
There should be a different social media/dating app for these people
I did not even know there is a term (antinatalist) to this
Same here
Finally found a club which I should belong to.
Please get in touch with us via facebook.com/childfreeindia/
Grow a pair you pansy.
My friends laugh at me when i said i don't want to get married and have kids. Even daily wagers and poor people need to stop making 3-5 kids.
@Shanti Sree but they can have just 1. If thats the case. There are many maids that i have seen who have 3-4 kids and still none of them are able to get good education or jobs and thats because of the atmosphere of slums, thats having a atmosphere of no eduaction, or good morals, but celebrating festiavls for entertainment (not understanding the signifigance behind celebrating them), having backward thinking, men being engaged in drinking/smoking/gambling, and they beat up there women, if they dont have s** with them, or dont earn as maids. They dont have knowledge about condoms, protection, they feel as they have no source of income in there oldage and no one to look after them, atleast there kids would earn and Give them food to eat. Thats the stuff. + Our stupid govt. Is more devoted into religious issues and wars with neighbouring countries, rich here want to be more rich (so even super rich people here need good morals, like feeding poor, building homes for them, not like having 2 kids and then making them rule this world and keeping money for generations!!)
I'm not saying all kids from poor backgrounds suffer alot, or they dont have good parents. I know a maid and she has 2 daughters and she sends them to school and tution through her hard earned money. I have respect for such people! But they are a minority. People have to understand (life is suffering : buddhism) and if the creator was a good person everyone in this world would be happy.
@Shanti Sree Yes. Escape from the trap.
bro same conditions are here
9594107054 is my number please be my friend ❤🖤
see this short film "thank you for not breeding" . You aint alone
I thought I was alone with this ideology... Nice to know there are people like me
somnath1235 me too brother I thought I was alone with this ideology atleast in india. But this is 👏
Me too
you are not alone
Join us on reddit at r/antinatalism and r/childfree
So you want to tell ppl what to do with their life that dosen't involve you
This is exactly what Buddha said 2500 years ago about life 'there is suffering '.
U understood like that . There is suffering doesn't mean life is all suffering. Few pessimists are enough to spread menace everywhere.
He said Death is also suffering
A man can only succeed through struggle. who said life is fair? Still, that doesn't mean procreation is not important. Just don't breed carelessly like an illiterate.
@@gogoi.p brainlet
@@TheNarautube I am childfree and didn't marry. I hate responsibilities and being married along with a kid brings massive amounts of responsibility. With single life, i eat whatever i like, go to wherever i like. And amazed by how much money can be saved. So fuck this marriage child bullshit.
I'm an anti-natalist by choice in a pro-natalist country like India. And I'm not ashamed of who I am.
Same here and being an antinatalist is something you should be proud of.
Same here!! 🔥 It would be cool if we all connect together on social media by any chance.
@@Prateekreactions yesss
"Stop making babies" best way to go!!
@Tyler Durden That's the point dummy. Life isn't necessary to go on. Certainly not in todays world, full of misery. Why would you want to bring another life here to suffer for your own selfish reasons?
"Stop telling people what to do" an even better way to go.
See this is the eternal struggle of the world.
@@Abhishek-sh6ls Hypocrisy is you telling people to stop telling people what to do! XD
So you want to tell people what to do with their lives that don't involve you. Ok
I just can't believe that there is a community with my ideology. Thank you, for giving me moral support witg the video
Certainly, I will join the Facebook group. Thank you for the link to connect
Actually I can't identity the group, can you give me the link please
facebook.com/groups/1048196561953056/?epa=SEARCH_BOX
I m surprised. R u a Muslim? You don't know the purpose of life?
@@whyrwehere8824 Yes,I'm a Muslim and I also support them because this is what time needs, the population of India is rapidly increasing and our resources are limited, so whats the point of creating a new baby,knowing that he will not have a good future.And if the increase of population doesn't stop now human will eat other human.
And as for the religion, Islam gives us the flexibility to change with time.
Being in marriage for 8 years now people around me in my relatives family call me "baanj" and call my husband a transgender... Just because we dont want to have kids.... From last 4 years i am hearing shit mOre than this.... But still happy with my and husbands decision... Now i can see there are many people like me..
Late reply here, but seriously ignore what society calls you behind your back. You and your husband enjoy your life the way you want it. It's not like society is going to come and provide financial support incase you have a child. So it's better to just ignore them.
They are just jealous that you won't suffer like them 😂
Always trust your instinct. Lean in into your decision. You choose what should happen in your movie aka "life"
@@anupamaMall why are you thinking like this ma'am...you're a women right ????...
Of course your parents will have that eagerness to see grandchildren right ???
Don't give a damn about people or relatives . Make your own world with your husband and live happily . Interact with only those who respect you the way you are .
I have the same philosophy. Life is a struggle which we should encounter from birth till death. So why should bring new life just to struggle? I believe it to be morally wrong.
It's wonderful having a child 🌻 the idea that both of you have made this entire new human being, I respect your decision but its the most natural thing ever!
I feel the same way. But I don't like babies either
@@josephbradshaw2240 what kind of logic is it ? Its wonderful creating a baby ? Wonderful for who ? For you ? What about the baby ? Does it ask you to creat it ? Well for me its wonderful killing a human being ☺ the idea that i myself inflicted so much pain that the person died ☺ how wonderful it is ? Should i do it ?
@@josephbradshaw2240 oh wow its so wonderful to create suffering. also its as natural as shitting or dying yet no one says these are great things only because they are natural
@@Alex7Manu You were once a baby
I second the topic.
The world is full of tensions. Why should we bring another innocent soul to face this horrible world. Just to show that we aren't impotent.
I feel the same..
@Bharatdarshantube Viewtube Can you comment on a loss of innocent lives in Siria ?
@Bharatdarshantube Viewtube I saw kids , babies being killed and injured ... In thier attact ... Which law / justice gets applied there ?
Exactly
Exactly....even I told my mom I will rather adopt kids than to produce my own..she said people might think that ur impotent...Like now we should produce babies for those gossipers or what?!! Jus to prove thatv aren't impotent??? How stupid!!
Too bad it's mostly upper class people that bother to reflect on this.
Poor people just "do it".
Not upper class people, educated people.
@@thefantasticcreator1 or maybe people with some awareness
That's why they are still poor
For poor people its best to have kids bcoz they will start working at 10-13 and provides for families, govt should implement one child policy
"I do not want one more human life to suffer"- Nice one......
Reasons I don’t want children:
1. It’s my body my choice
2. Pregnancy freaks my out
3. Childbirth scares me.
4. World is already overpopulated overburdened. Humans are a danger to mama earth. (Bees are important than humans)
5. Future generations are going to suffer a lot in terms of clean water and clean air being Alive will be a curse
6. Human life is full of suffering
7. I don’t want to bring another human in a world full of rat race, racism, classism, castiesm and war.
8. If I ever feel like wanting kids in future I’ll adopt. (There are so many)
Why are bees important than humans??
@@rithiknarayn6715 read science ....its called pollination..google it..
@@rantsandreviews5498 ohhk thanks😁
Plus there are already enough children without a parent. We can help them instead
@@anoushkasharma3540 People are selfish in nature. They rather have a child that would carry their genetic lines than raising an abandoned one.
Agreed...india is overpopulated n unemployment is so high, logically its a better movement
Yeah in west it might choice of the person but here it is need of the nation.
Even bringing a child into this world isn't a problem. But when the child says that you brought them into this world and asks how to leave this world without pain and suffering, if those parents have a perfect and straightforward answer to this question, I'd worship such parents as Gods and Goddesses. But this is Kali Yuga and not Satya Yuga. So, we can never find such parents. Maybe we can try to be spiritually advanced parents. But, we can't change the LUSTy and Greedy 8 Billion other humans who just keep producing more and more and more babies without realizing what they're doing to this planet and the species itself... Hence I feel humanity will go extinct anyway as it's more likely they launch world war 3 and destroy themselves. So, I can never leave my soul with negative karma by bringing a child into this world just so it suffers and dies. No way. I researched deeply into spirituality and it seems like if we reach higher levels of consciousness, we become immortals by leaving the body in samadhi state. This means, all those Lustful humans will be reborn, enjoying freewill in this world while we will have option to exercise freewill even in the incorporeal world.
@@aliengod2039 : You are actually forgetting that colonizers ruined the planet and still are destroying the ozone, rivers , vegetarian and livelihood of others. They were the main ones having 12 - 22 children while keeping human beings that are considered sub- par now still to this very day , in poverty centuries later ! Research eugenics and the agenda behind planned parenthood. Their lust and greed has made their pockets heavier while the brown species are taught to kill their children or better yet not have them at all because life is sooo depressing and all we do is suffer.
@@aliengod2039 I asked this to my mom.. She reads Geeta etc.. She said u r Born Cz of ur pending karma, finish ur karma and u will attain salvation which is true.. Even I have done research..
@@creativeaarts4023 She is right. Sanatana Dharma supports progressive evolution. But when you examine carefully, you notice right after Lord Krishna's death, Kali Yuga started. The quality of individual human decreased as the quantity of individuals in the species increased. Mankind fell into the trap of beauty of outside material world and lost the true purpose of existence. And thus Abrahamic faiths got started from Brahmic roots who migrated to the Middle East. Today we see every child is born only to experience sensual pleasures and material comforts and not seek higher truth and purpose.
Today, almost all humans have their sexual chakra / root chakra as the most active one and so they cause all the sin to animals, plants, nature, etc. for enjoyment of their own selfish pleasures which lead to overpopulation, industrialization, pollution, competition, crimes, etc. Many children are born with diseases, defects, disabilities. What sin did they do? Explanation is Karma from past life. Everything is connected. You can imagine the universe like a virtual AI program that spawns infinite threads when consciousness / computing power gets trapped within a material body in the brain / pineal gland. All the life's actions are recorded and the actions of this body transforms the consciousness / atman / soul of that individual. Now if that individual had done too much bad karma, then they will get a future body which has more pain and suffering than a normal healthy body ( which itself experiences pain and suffering at some point in their lifetime ). So, at the very least, even if one has a child, it's best to raise them spiritually if not altruistically. Detachment from money, material things and pleasures is extremely good for the soul because next birth may not be as good as this one. This itself is a reason for desire to attain moksha for many.
In Satya Yuga, all were Gods and Goddesses and they didn't multiply like insects as their default active energy center was the crown chakra. They never had selfish desires and they always shared their pleasures with their entire species and also with all other creatures. This ensured that wherever or as whatever they are reborn in their next life, they are treated the exact same way they had treated others or other creatures. They only "Created" a child when the entire species were in need of a human resource. They were conscious and not let sub-conscious mind control their animal instincts. They realized the effects of karma from selfish pleasures. So, they even sacrificed their lives for the pleasures of entire species and all lives. This is the height of altruism during that time. There are few videos on RUclips describing how technologically advanced Satya Yuga was. Spiritual technology is infinitely superior to material technology as the former can last for eternity such that they won't need any material things to survive and can stay invisible to our material senses as long as they wish to.
Actually I can say that this is one of The best moment in human history where this species can reach a spiritual utopia where they can easily eliminate all pain and suffering and progress to a super human or divine species. It's like a now or never moment in time. Education on specific subjects is very important to reach this level of consciousness or understanding. But how to educate 8 Billion humans about spiritual truths and how Karma is deeply linked with desire and how Karma can be logically manipulated through yoga and meditation is the biggest challenge. If all couples are encouraged to restrict to just 0 or 1 child per family and for a higher altruistic and spiritual purpose, then we can see population drop from 8 Billion to less than few millions. This will heal nature and improve quality of DNA of future generations as climate, water and soil would be repaired and then using proper yoga and meditation, they can stop "Producing" and start "Creating" super human children of the future consciously. Those children will never feel any physical or mental pain as they understand the highest truth and work for higher purpose rather than selfish interests.
This is called being highly matured and having very high thinking. Stop Saying depressed people think like this, the answer is NO. Bringing kids in to this world is the most selfish act. Period!
Exactly ❤️
Especially now..when there’s so much uncertainty..suffering... & a planet on ventilator!
Well put
@@shonashelar78 exactly.. What astonishes me is even during this pandemic people are having kids.. Aren't these people scared of their kids future? bringing kids is the easiest task than making sure they survive properly and have better quality life in this world.. There is so much uncertainty.. few years back no one expected that there would pandemic and it would cripple the world for 2 years and would still continue. If current situation can't bring change in people then i don't know when
at least in India. I am 100% sure an average kid will have to compromise on his dreams in the coming future. The competition is immense.
I was forced to have a kid. Worst thing ever. I don't care if anyone hates me for saying it
And yet, I urge you not to take your anger out on the child. I wish you peace. What is done is done; hope you make the best out of it.
Same here, pressure from parents and in laws.
I am so sorry !
That's okay to speak what's really on your mind, personally even I don't like kids much
@@mr.gaming6277 They did not force , like she said they were forced to have a kid. Read her comment and then comment.
I know a family having 8 girls, trying to have a SON!
I was an unwanted child born to 45yr old mother. Later, My mother had refused to hand me over in adoption to a childless woman.
Now after 40 yrs I regret my birth leading miserable life!!
🥺🥺
😑
I'm so sorry. I just want to say that you are your own person and you deserved better in life. I hope you can love yourself better than your birth mother. I'm from the US but I live in India and I've seen these kind of atrocities that are happening here and it makes my heart ache. People being forced into unhappy marriages and old fashioned traditional roles and being disowned by family for not following these stupid rules and the lack of respect for women etc. These barbaric outdated traditions need to go because they're hurting people and causing too much unnecessary suffering. 💔🥺
I'm so sorry to hear that.
Do a battle against this BASTARD human race!
Unfortunately, most Indians won't be able to understand what you are saying. They will call you depressed, pagal etc., but won't make an effort to understand your PoV.
*Man* They are *Awake*!!!
We are still living in the Matrix.
They are stuck in a matrix of their own
@@morgothbauglir3609 Nope. They've unplugged themselves from the Matrix!
Do they have pets?
@@abishekkumar2826 how should I know?
@@AM-yj8dy Existence is dissatisfaction. If your life was resolved you would die. You live to be perpetually in chase of satisfaction like a junkie. That is the sum of your experience.
I don't want my children to have my depressive and bad genes. It's as simple as that
Love ur honesty
True.
I AM WITH THIS MOVEMENT.. anybody like minded would love to get along😊😊😊
ruclips.net/video/IfXJCWWZiiM/видео.html
Frankly speaking this kind of movement is needed in some districts of UP n Bihar
Yes and Delhi NCR, especially male babies from that zone could be avoided.
😂😂😂
Specially in some communities.
^yes illiterate communities of India, bhakth.
Exactly
i thought i was alone,seems like iam not.the comments are positive for a change.
Children are seen as an investment for your future in our society, which is morally wrong
Today i become the antinatalist , and i feel liberating, free and right...
How? Do u live in India?
Same bro
@@shonashelar78 what???
@@shonashelar78 yes i live in india... so what
@@Ipluuu I appreciate...
In India we have no control over our lives.. that leads to people realising that what is the point of life.... We have no control over our:
Birth, education, career choice, even marriage if you remain single for a longer time and death.
It's really sad... There might be so many people depressed with their lives.
It will be good to have people with such realistic mindset questioning the logic behind everything.
Living beings can never have control over their birth. That's a fact. Cosmos itself doesn't have control over its birth and survival. However, human beings can have an explicit choice of life & death.
Yea... being born as indian is very bad luck 😐 even more if you're a woman
winnie pj truee
@@pearl3334 😔ya.. we can just be glad we weren't born in much worser countries (where there's always war or natural disasters etc?
@@usergmail4272 yup we have to see the positive side, if we are born here😊😊. Think of those women who live in Saudi Arabia, syria, north Korea, Iran, iraq there condition is very bad. Atleast in India we have freedom to express, educate and rear our profession. Ya but our society sucks on so many levels. They have so many stereotypes attached to women which is kinda sad, but I hope these conditions will eventually become better. 🙂
Thanks for talking about this. I have been judged by my own friends for discussing this. So refreshing
@Suman Kundu Good points.
@Suman Kundu Please go through this book Sapiens. And please read Niti aayog reports on the upcoming disaster of common ground water decline in India. I will never give birth to a child to face all these stuffs. May be I would adopt someone as there are still 29 crore orphan in India.
@Suman Kundu please enlighten us on the purpose of same religion
@Suman Kundu parenting instincts are the strongest when they're most fertile. We always have the option of adopting kids and rising them as our own. There are so many children who haven't been loved. Also how is anything better if you're married within your own community? The only way to abolish religious discrimination is to encourage more inter community marriages. Also from an evolutionary point of view, a species is more benefitted when there is a larger gene pool.
Don't marry just because of sex
live like a dog then
Can Bollywood make a movie on this topic and cast an A grade actor so that they can get this message across the rural Indians??
lol they will ask why the actor himself has kids 😂
there's a movie named Capernaum may be .
@@netajithevar296 If they know the concept after having kids so they can't do anything but they can make a movemonet so that other people can't.
@@philosopherguy4559 they will just be called hypocrites man. You don't know Indian mentality
@@netajithevar296 shitty people is everywhere. They'll say always better not caring them :D .
Seeing an Indian crowd with such noble thoughts is amazing. 🙂...Would love to be part of this movement.
I too decided to be childfree even my husband also agreed
What's noble in this ?? You think the world would be better without humans and you know what, Muslims won't buy this bullshit. They'll reproduce even more.
Oh my god, I'm crying never thought that no one will ever support this thought. I support this movement
I am a lady of this view and people treat me like I'm crazy not to have kids they keep asking me who will look after you or go to some temple or fast on certain days and u will get a baby boy I honestly believe anyone who will be born now will have very tuff life no clean air water crisis job crisis I wish Indian parents would stop treating there kids like insurance policy
true, moreover most kids now dont care to look after old parents
Insurance policy or not, that's the cycle of life. Us, the educated generation thinks we are so knowledgeable that we've lost the point.
You're not crazy believe me
Insurance policy!!! Lmao that's so true!!! Majority of people are hella ignorant and selfish...they give birth to children for every nonsense reason ...
@@CarolineAnandSiddiqui No but like that's the only option left now...If people don't take responsibility then we only have to come to the forefront.Although even if I would want to experience motherhood once but there's no point in bringing another life to this tyrannical and barbaric world...
There is no chronic happiness but there is chronic pain. Good one. But I stick with: Nobody asked me whether I wanted to play a role in this charade.
Life is a loosing game full of suffering and then death, no point in it
@YurururuY we are meaning seeking beings while nature is inherently meaningless, doesn't mash up well together, and it is not okay to gamble kn someone's life, no matter the outcome of the gamble
hello fellow nihilist 👋
@@vanibandodkar31415 😂 athiests are also moral nihilists
@@aryanvadher4376 hm, I don't know about that, but I don't think all atheists are morally nihilistic.. how do you feel about that?
@@vanibandodkar31415 I think it's true that all atheists are moral nihilsts, because almost all atheists believe that life is an accident & life is meaningless ( including Dawkins ).
Instead of branding them as pessimists just check the population of India and especially its growth in North, it is already >100 crores😱
Not whole of North only UP & Bihar.... rest is below the replacement level...
@@sagnikchaudhuri4142 not just up Bihar entire BIMARU states of India where may be more than half of Indian population taking birth
That's a lot of crores! (what's a crore?)
@@Slaughterproof 1000 million = 100 crore
@Alcatraz 》 lol bengal has the lowest birth rate idiot.
Nothing wrong in not wanting to be a parent. Its a purely personal choice, you want to be one? Be a responsible one. Never ever make children your "investment" or "pride".
well said rashek omer
Allot of people have children for either superficial reasons or because they are forced to.
Well Said
U r right. Be a responsible one - well said. No parenting is the sad thing all around bcoz of nuclear families. Children are almost orphaned since parents r busy in their profession
@Arun King i am not in favour of forcing as well. But there are ecological, socio economical and political repurcussions due to over population.
Man...this shit actually gave me some life.
Same
The ones who can afford to raise kids are having 0-2 kids, but the ones who can't feed themselves go ahead and produce multiple kids, who ultimately may turn out to be a burden to the society and country.
Facts.
I agree with this take. Only people who are emotionally and financially stable should take up the responsibility. Even rich and mentally unstable couples shouldn't be allowed. There should be some formal way to conduct checks.
For poor people its best to have kids bcoz they will start working at 10-13 and provides for families, govt should implement one child policy
Finally someone is saying my words
Adi Basu Why marry? That is for making a baby.
@@ChrisDragotta marriage can be Childfree too
@@Fan-zx1lz There is no need any marriage. Who loves cage
@@sayanmondal3496 That depends on person to person.
Glad to know there are more people who think this way
I thought I was alone thinking like this too, and we even have the same first name
Mansa Eve
Exactly, even I have such beliefs but never knew that it really exists.
Antinatalism is the ultimate solution to be actually free from everything ( free from good nd bad game, from dramas, pain nd pleasure)
My reason for not wanting a child is that I wish to lead a stress free life. I don't want to be burdened physically, mentally & financially.
Me too 😀😀. Why join the rat race and destroy 30 years of life for 10 years of retirement.
@@FestivaLagoon People can't stand the fear of loneliness. They reproduce to invest on a staff for old age. But I've come across so many who still are insecure after having children. Hence derived that fear is only in the head. It is an imaginary state of mind. Ppl have this mindset that women who dont want children are selfish. And I feel it's rather selfish wanting to have only yours when so many are abandoned in orphanages. Being childfree is only a choice that's all. Like how we choose between careers, dinner options ...ice cream options ...that's all that it is. I'm amazed how ppl judge the ones who don't want children more than the ones who don't wish to marry at the first place. That's illogical
@@shayonimukherjee7303 the problem for us rational thinkers is that we are dealing with a whole bunch of illogical people who have such confidence that they can make us second guess our choices with their foolish arguments.
You presented an interesting point. The old ones are still insecure even after having children. Can you please provide some insights about their thinking? I can use it to form my opinions and use it in debates.
@@FestivaLagoon I just feel that having children doesn't combat loneliness. In many cases they rather become the cause of grief because children many a times hurt their old parents. To this these so called righteous ppl say that it all depends on their bringing up so does that mean all these parents have not brought up their progeny well ? All parents try their best to bring up their children well. Besides old parents are still not tension free. They keep the money they've managed to save to give to their children after they die. They don't use their own money enjoy their life.
Before finishing the video, 100 more babies produced in the world .😂
100? Thousands of them...
That's our India
5000 produce in just India dammit.
At least 1lakh per hour
I feel sad for them
I think I've found my family
Same here 😍😍😍
@@jannatkalyani7184 Please join us via facebook.com/childfreeindia/
The most annoying thing to hear from parents is that they gave birth to us because it was their duty and getting us married & have kids is also their duty. They want support during old age. If they never had kids, they wouldn't have to go through mental and physical pain that adds up to the ageing ailments. Ultimately they wouldn't need their sons/daughters to take care of them during old age. There are many old aged people in their 80s who are hitting the gym and are quite strong physically.
Exactly
That's the paradox. People live their youth and middle age miserably by spending all money on kids just for some security in old age.
In India ur kids r ur social security I’m sure a few crores would happily choose a childless life if they r guaranteed some social security during their old age/when they fall ill..people just want a dignified life y would they live in hope that their kids will tc of them, the fact that they r becoming a burden also stresses them..that’s y many flee to EU
Exactly brother. Offspring are not retirement plan
But some want to have a company.. My mom still spends on me, brother lives in different home as he is married.. My parents only have me now as a company.. Everyone feels for their child..
I'm a Nigerian lady, thank you for putting this message out
I am a childfree guy from Senegal. So happy to see African childfree people.
@@mistersingleoutlaw859 is senegal a muslim country?
@@north_indian_pajeet_rendian_mc yes, 95% of the populations are muslims.
How are you doing.
My life is full filled of pain depression.. So i don't want to born baby cause he or she will face also pain and depression...
No existence = not having to deal with useless and overcompetitive school system
No existence = not having to fight for good colleges, which have less than 1% selection rate
No existence = not having to fight for exploitative jobs, and be overworked and underpaid
No existence = not having to deal with unemployment
No existence = no possibility of meeting with an accident and getting your limb amputated
No existence = not having to deal with diseases like asthma and diabetes, which degrade quality of life
No existence = not having to see your loved ones struggle with terminal illnesses and die
No existence = not having to die a slow and painful death due to cancer, paralysis, etc.
*NO EXISTENCE = NO PROBLEMS*
Based Indian bhai!
So true Brother
Non existence is peace.
Yes I also want to be child free.
Instead of spending my earnings on children. I rather spend it to help poor to satisfy their basic needs of food , clothing and shelter. There are many poor children who just struggle to get a proper meal once a day. Instead of reproducing new ones if we focus on these poor children which are already there we can make our India a better nation. ☺
Great..
But Indian society will punish you for it
@@roshnik5137 Indian society punishes us one way or another
@@asmimazumder5550 what is the solution for it?
you will spend on poor and they will become parasites and will give more births to poor children and a vicious cycle will begin.
Good. I like babies too but I don't think I'll ever want to raise my own. Nothing wrong with these people as long they don't end up marching on streets claiming they are better and impose their thoughts.
I agree
I hope you don't marry as the sex ratio in India is already dwindling. You can marry the person if you both share the same thoughts about this thing.
kou shik • 9K Views there is no relation between baby and children ,, if u want some emotional support or partner u can marry having kids or not its ur choice same way marriage ,,
Totally agree
Marching in the streets is a democratic right. It doesn’t mean that they are imposing something.
Seriously, population needs to be in control...Even I'm gonna adopt kids rather than producing my own...A child is a child..It anyways comes from it's mother's womb so doesn't matter if it's biologically mine or not...There are so many innocent kids out there craving for love and nurturing of parents...Those poor little souls have to face this harsh and cruel world all alone jus coz their parents abandoned them..My heart breaks for them!!! I would be glad even if I could give a bright future to two babies...I can live a contented life then..!
I ain't even adopting , because I don't wanna put in the work and my precious life.
Excellent thinking
Fellow childfree antinatalist here! I proudly support mandatory antinatalism: mandatory vasectomies + mandatory vasectomies.
I salute you!
@@shankardas6938 Same here!
@@shankardas6938 I agree. We can help them financially by providing money help to single moms.
I think our generation still don’t understand that a women can choose not to have kids. We are not in 19th century when we were not having that choice. Really happy to see this video and relieved that we are there to understand each other
Hi
Tell these single mothers
Yeah agreed
Ok its been 3 yrs, did u had kids?
I once asked my grandmother that why did she have 8 kids with my grandpa.
She could have easily done away with 2 or 3.
She said, " In case one of them doesn't look after us in our old age,there will be 7 more of them we can impose our expectations on. "
Damn!
and that is the reality that people do not know or just choose to ignore. that is all we are . a fucking retirement plan, someone to take care of them when old. to buy them medicine, take them to the doctor. pay for people to take care of them. what a piece of shit reason to be forced to come here.and to think that most of the idiots out there put parents in a pedestal. they all are garbage. people have no idea of how this world really is. wishful thinking is preferred at all times.
back then they also had another reason, cheap labor to work at the farm.
@@Billy-rr7re fact!
No one takes care of them 😂😂😂😂😂
No offense but according to me the thaugt is selfish.
Thank you for such an honesty comment you seem to be an outspoken person.Great👌
All with some motives already attached and in case it is not as per expectation then quarrels fights in family.
Earlier life was little better raising child required limited reaources ,less of social pressure ,limited social circle,cost of education was less.parents were happy sharing their struggle story and how they managed to raise and we should be proud about it.Can we say this now?Can we ask todays child to keep quiet,we used to be quiet just glance of father.We could wait for laptop for years but can we do that.If we are running behind money..both mother and father,then who is spending time with child.There was not this much rush in train or traffic,moms mostly used to homemaker but now look at working mother,she sacrifies her sleep to be attentive and play with child not full heartdly..plus health..due to all climate and bad food ,our health is already compromised..so do new borns..popping medecins...what quality of life?they will enter depression at the age of 10..we heard and few entered at 20.
I am an antinatalist! I wish I was never born!
Thank God I am not the only one!! There are people who think like me ❤️🙏🏼
Me too!
Me tooo
Procreation is the root of all evils.
We all need to support this movement. So happy there’s community of people like me.
Go great!🤧❤️🥳
If all people think like this, yes later there won't be anyone to say that once upon a time there was a species called 'human',. We say about Dinosaur Age. But there won't be any one to say "Human Age".
😄😄
@Gozu Agree with you 💯
last month i was travelling in kolkata suburban local train and i saw a couple with 6 small kids...yes 6..the couple sepecially the wife was so puny and thin and malnutritioned.....i felt disgusted........people need to understand what limit is...
This couple has put themselves in a trap that will remain as long as they live , feeding them , raising them (somehow ),and marrying them off so that they can have 6 kids each(😅)
Sex is their only recreation
Finally found someone from kolkata who is like minded
Yeah right... they feel that producing more children will bring them more money.So they keep on producing kids without thinking of their future...Now who will educate them, universe only knows!!!
Soumya Majumder must be Bangladeshi immigrants
If someone can come up with ONE reason to have a kid that isn’t selfish, then I’ll consider. No one can, it always goes right back to selfishness
Child is not an investment.Having someone to share happiness and love is not at all a bad idea.If they don't want to let them stay away from having one.Love and getting loved is not a selfish thing.Its basic animal nature.
For saving earth,controlling child population would be better than this.If ppl are emotionally matured enough to provide a better life for their child let them make babies(in a controlled way) and live their life as per choice.
Honestly i don't think anyone of this so called forward thinking ppl are 'regretting for being born'.
It's kind of being pseudo intellectual for making ur theory more appealing to others..
And if ur point is adopting a child,its also a good idea.But emotionally some women may have this feeling of having baby,taking care of it.Though it's not a mandatory thing,its just a part of life..and I think those who have these thoughts shouldn't be barred from experiencing all these
Joey Tribbiani bringing a child into the world just because you want to be loved by them is selfish. Everything you said is still selfish. if anyone wants to have kids, fine that’s their business, not mine. I’m just asking for non selfish reasons for my own sake.
@@venugopalck4280 surprisingly you're so pro your rights but don't give a shit bout the child's willingness classic breeder mentality
@@venugopalck4280 you can have a child for any number of reasons but it cannot be in the interest of the potential child, one can't have a child for the child sake. Because their is no one exist who needs your love, so you are creating another person to fulfill your own selfish desires.
I tried convincing my maid who has 2 daughters not have any more....she still went ahead and produced another girl in desire for a boy.....there r way too many pathetic people who wont comprehend to any advice.....nevertheless this is a good start and need of the hour
Producing babies craving for a male child is altogetherly a different story...It's another bullshit
Looks like you're the pathetic one
I have chosen child free family. Me and wife are happy with each other.
It is useless bringing a child to this world of violence.
Wow. U are childfree.
I am.
Giving birth is crime.
@@shabashachi1238 I dont think he ment that, it's a matter of choice
right
Violence and hate and pure vile.
They should bring one child policy
These people should adopt children if they are not going to produce any. At least their resources will be used to raise children of the poor.
They don't want to compromise their resources, that's the whole point of not having a kid. They can have better life style.
They don't even do that..
This days being inhumane and Autistic is also a Style of Life
@@anuraagsinghparmar4399 that's the idea bro exactly my sentiments
@@vyomveerudh2787 🙌
I so agree on that..
People who are not smart and well capable enough to take care of them selves choose to have kids, better option is being childless....
True.
Damn!! Why did this got recommended to me after a year, I thought I was alone with this thought in India, it feels good to know some people share my thoughts on this matter.
🙌🏼 yasss!! Married since eight years, child free and whenever the finances allow maybe will adopt a preexisting child. Not selfish enough to create one out of nothing only to add to this planet’s burden. My unborn biological child doesn’t even exist right now, why even make it, whyyyyyyyy?
Stupid coward
@@richardworthington3092 fuck moron
Lol rather than adopting someone just spend that money on yourself and enjoy your life
One thing you can do is you should donate some money to old age homes if everyone will start doing this the problem- who will take care of u when u will become old will get solved
I think chidren should be taxed heavily aftr having 1 child
@Arun King democracy doesn't mean you can do anything.... It means we go with what majority agrees...
@Arun King 7kids😳😳
why do u want to bring 7 kids Ask urself
If i was asked whether i wanted to be born i would definately say no
3 years ago when i first watched this video i was still in college, not knowing anything about stressful real-world. I even made fun of them. Now i completely understand why would anyone oppose procreation
another anime lover?
Finally hearing my own thoughts resonating and that too from my city, Bengaluru. Would love to be a part of this group.
Anupriya Verma I wanna be a part of this group too
Finally found my kind of people
I am also
I am also
Me too. :D
Me also....what we have to give to the new life on earth....everything is being so much complicated and currupted..from environment to education.....
Awww me tooo
Same bro i regret being born
I am tired of life especially being born in indian society with shit ton of problems and stigma
You really need a Gita session...
Bcoz ppl like you are a negative mark for this society
@@aadithyanc.koccupyandcolon6792 Gita has nothing to do with this..
@@creativeaarts4023 Gita is self realization....
Immature progeny like you really needs a session to be mature.....
The way you're talking and disrespecting your parents are henious....
Parents are your responsibility....
Otherwise take the burden of the cur$e of the parents, they won't say anything but their negative vibe is enough to end your g00d days ......
If everything is your wish then , if I was there near you , I would have requested armed Force to ex€cute you immediately....
Bcoz it's their wish.....
Good luck for your arrogance....
And Make your parents happy and proud, you immature progeny...
Namaste 🙏🏻🌸🔱
@@aadithyanc.koccupyandcolon6792Why do you think parents are gods?
@@aadithyanc.koccupyandcolon6792 Even they say my son becoming billionaire make me happy then are you going to do it ?
Adoption is far more noble than having children
There is a Mumbai chap who sued his parents for bringing him to the world without his consent.😆 (I was typing this while watching, half way learnt that they mentioned him in the video)
In a way, I agree with his sentiment. The world we are born is getting saturated. The children born to economically weaker parents are facing the brunt. The world is getting hotter. The earth is decaying one year after another. Unemployment is on the rise. People are becoming lonelier.
Why the hell would anyone bring children to such a world?
That boy's story was hilarious though...Lmao
But like seriously this human population is paving it's way towards destruction!! And people go on producing kids like a baby producing factory...nonstop!! Why are they like this???!!
@@sacredheart7962 He was really semi trolling to get publicity and make a point. Why you ask? Because we are born selfish with unlimited desires. That's the nature of the game.
@@ChowMeinChowdown i hava the same case. I am a boy and My own brother used to gay rape me daily
I am a PROUD CHILDFREE ANTINATALIST! My race, my nationality, my age are unimportant.
Breeding is evil, selfish, wrong because it is non-consensual.
Ok ur right but non-consensual as in how can u ask the baby if it wants to take birth or not...like how can u...??!!
@@sacredheart7962 Unfortunately, when the baby becomes a child, then it is too late to ask them.
Sacred Heart We can’t ask babies if they want to be born or not so it would only be right to not have them. Everyone was born without their consent. If a baby is denied life by never being created, then it’s impossible for them to want to experience life because they were never consciously aware that they had potential to exist.
@@JT.00000 EXACTLY! LOGIC!! Subscription earned!
I also think ,,what type of life this is ,, struggling for job...then housing...then child bearing...at last a miserable old life....where is my happiness in this... Better to either have one or none
And no guarantee that child will take care of you.. I saw boys especially enjoying life and after marrying doesn't even look after their parents, they enjoy life, they go abroad..
We are so small in numbers that no one around us think like this and we are attacked
The number will grow with the passage of time. ❤️
Most of the people who say otherwise, have babies to avoid social stigma ....sort of hypocrites....If the same society starts appreciating childless couples...they will join that bandwagon as well.....If its a natural thing like most of them said, its different.....spending lakhs to have a baby is not natural.... Life should be more of free will....
Only 3-4 percent of rich population is having good times in their life , rest are just surviving ,working endlessly to make their ends meet.fighting lots of competition , giving and failing exams just to get in middle class/ lower class wage salary, and getting depressed day by day with so rotten environment
👍
Rich people also u can't guarantee.. Rich people have problems which we can't understand
It's quite amazing that antinatalism's finally started to emerge from being a niche philosophy and begun to infect mainstream consciousness as a self-evident conclusion.
It's just utterly disappointing that we've had to reach such a horrendous dystopic existence for that to have happened.
Anti-natalism is real intelligence. We should only bring our children to this world if it's a better & safe place. I don't understand Why any parent wants their precious child to suffer what they have suffered. We must change with time.
Thank you.
Absolutely right.... I also believe in the same...
Not that I belong to a royal family. Half of my salary goes in home emi and I do not have enough money to afford kids
Nenu kooda bro
Ai can handle most of the heavy work
everyone go childfree
Also for india right now being childfree for some time is absolutely necessary or this population is gonna choke us
Just imagine the competition for a few jobs left after ai roll out. 😅
@@saibusd hunger game hoga 😆
log squid games jaise games banyenge aadhe se jyada toh bhukmari se marenge yahi ek tarika hai population handle karne ka for nature
Japan's birth date is lower than death rate. Japanese people don't want to have kids in this bhagam bhaag life. Good for them.. but in india its opposite. Poor are having more kids than rich.
Anti natal has finally found its true meaning. Now communist, capatilist, nothing matters but antinatalist
I wish I get infertile it will be a blessing for me ,well I am just 16 but I decided this .
You can get a vasectomy.
From a month ago this thought is circulating in my mind. I thought I was alone with this mindset. Now I m really glad to see this community with same mindset.
I did not want to have kids as I think it is a big responsibility to bring them up. I made this clear to my wife before I got married. I don’t regret that decision at all.
How did you make your wife accept your decision? Did she oppose it?
@@blackcapsindia2292 The marriage would not have gone ahead if she had opposed.😂😂
@@ganapatihegde1024 bhai ye tho chamakar se kam nahi hai...mai jaise he boltha hu , block ho jatha hu
My boyfriend is forcing me either to have kids with him or never marry him...I love him so much at the same time I don't want kids...I just feel I'm only suffering why to make others life to suffer as well
leave him babe you deserve better
Leave him .
Having sex, kids before marriage? Thats even bigger deal
@@triptinath5675 why , why everything you're wish...
@@Ipluuu Get lost you male chauvin!$t Heartless creature....
That person is asking for a child...
He wants to be a parent....
But if a wife is fem!n!st then what to do.....
And love is not temporary you Bow Bow 😡.....
Gen Z is the most c0rrupted generation in this Era....
Namaste 🙏🏻🌸🔱
yay! I feel the same. Childfree. Please now lets have a dating app for childfree choice oriented people.
haha
true...👍👍👍👍👍
Completely agree.. Living happily ever after is our ultimate goal but its very temporary.. Everyone has to go through all the emotions its how life is and which should not be enforced.... Parenthood is not for everyone its a choice.. Why do you want to bring someone into this world where there is already enough misery and go through the cycle of life and death ..
Right now the situation gets even worser
Both parents and children are struggling hard physically and most importantly mentally to cope up with the world.
It's good to have such an initiative of not having a child.
Every parent working hard for their child to happy all the time.
It's better not to have kid and make them see this broken world.
I had this idea ,but i was scared , because the idea wasnt "normal". Feels good to know there is a whole community that supports the idea
I am positive and fully support this ideology .ya.. have pets instead!
or adopt a kid
@@paras8361 that will be like supporting others crime..
Nah, no pets. People wanna be attach to everything...smh
Get a dog
No pets and no adopting kids or anyone or anything for me. Doing all this would mean that I had owed them big things in past life... what sin did I do to handle the responsibility to raise the by-product of pleasure of a boy and girl who enjoyed pleasure and dumped their accident in garbage as orphan... It's all karma. Those who produced orphan child will suffer grave pain as well. All pleasures lead to pain and suffering with the exception of none.
I also don't want kids because there is already a number of people in India
I mean population is a big problem and I don't want this type of problem for my child
Thank God people think this way , I thought I was the only one in India 😥