They literally steal everything from you. Your energy, your character, your personality, your friends, your successes. Then they act like you don't even exist!
EVERY thing starts to make sense. Even a year later. Now I see why she said. I had to KNOCK YOU OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE. when she said that (now mind you) that was awhile ago .I had no idea what she meant. Today I do. .please stay Educated AND Dedicated..Break the Trauma Bonding .Cut the soul ties . ❤..
lol dude you’ll still be putting the puzzle together for yrs… Especially if you had a parent that was a narc. That’s when you really get mind fkd. That’s 10X more confusing, and hard…
Their family is the reason they are like this, when they grew up, and they convince them they are the second coming. Narcissists are weak, they follow all the basic criteria of a parasite, they NEED a host.
Thank you! This is one of the best explanations of what narcissists true intentions are and why they get so angry when you are not completely destroyed! 🙏
She told me, “you’re going to need to get comfortable outside of your comfort zone”. At the time I thought what are you talking about., and never gave it another thought. Now I know why she made this statement and others. What a bunch of crap.
Ive accomplished more in the last 8mos of my life career, family, personally than in 8.5yrs with her as a partner! Thats so telling. She only wanted to ruin me and watch me burn down for the fun of it. Sickening!
I’ve been down a massive rabbit hole since I was discarded. I was in denial that she was truly a narcissist. I’ve felt so much embarrassment. Since finding this channel, the embarrassment is gone. This is by far the best channel on the psyche of narcissists. It makes me feel less embarrassed. It makes me realize that I won’t ever forget the experience I had and that I still have some empathy for the hurt they have. I truly hope they all get the help they need. Their hurt and projection of their hurt is not a reflection of ourselves.
Hey Joe, I just wanted to say THANK YOU from the other side of the world. You have no idea how much you've helped me (and many others of course) with your videos and your wisdom during the past year. Hope you have a fantastic day brother. Love from Italy :D
Once they know they've got you on the hook, they start getting bored and start looking for their next victim to replace you. Be careful there are a lot of videos on youtube about this stuff and they're not all that spot on. This guy is pretty accurate and so are come of the comments here.
@@directionfinderformen I felt that too..If you were supply, you will be on a long journey to discover your true self...many souls today walking around in an invisible prison trying to find themselves after their light was stolen
Your question statement needs clarity! R-U referring to THOSE of us of whom somewhat miraculously haven't committed SUICIDE as our entire families have worked so hard to deal our fate? Or MAYBE 🤔 your talking about THOSE of us that have plagued by the FAMILY demons of Sadistically CATHOLIC pedophiles that have careers in Law enforcement so their entitlement to be bullies & use deadly force WITHOUT accountability.
@@keithstewart7514 The questions will be answered in time is what i personally feel...know that you are not alone and please find solace in that, as many do..There is a purpose beyond our comprehension.
When I first got into a relationship with mine, he had so much confidence, he was actually cocky - I’m now convinced he had just destroyed the previous supply. Throughout all the years that we did back and forths, he was never as confident as the first time we dated. I also gave him hell (he just couldn’t break me and I always left him when he disrespected me). I honestly believe I was the cause of one his collapses. I’m glad I’m out for good. He still believes I hate him and I have no idea why - it’s probably because I either ‘discard’ him when he treats me horribly or I just accept it when he discards me (I.e I never ever chase).
I get that they know they are manipulative. But do they realize who they are or are they to delusional and just believe the hurt they inflict is justified. Great channel 🌼 Thanks
Yes, I think they believe it too. They need it to be true. They must always be one of three characters, the saint, the victim or the martyr, and like many great actors they immerse themselves so deep into the role that they loose their real self, if they ever had one. Keep that in mind and watch, they will always be one of those three.
Mine uses revenge. When the dust settles and the damage is done, she doesn’t apologize or recant. With one goal in mind, she takes my good qualities and makes them her own. Then, the lies she tells, remain the truth as she passes them on to anyone who will listen. This is how the cycle continues. If you watch the patterns, and they become very apparent, you’ll know all of what happened is true. I am amazed that most are fooled by them. I have a higher power with supernatural abilities Who exposes her left and right. I don’t know if folks are in denial or if they just know nothing about narcissists.
In my opinion People usually believe others are good like them, think and behave like them. Until someone has dealt with a narcissist, it's difficult to understand that there's people out there like that. I know i got blindsided,i couldn't rationalize why someone would lie just for the sake of lying. I'm glad you're exposing them, they need to be held accountable. They hurt so many.
Joe, really excellent. Was pondering this am, why such desire to destroy someone's career, achievements, why such ruthless hatred and desire to sabotage, going far, spending own resources and time just to do that, take away respect of peers in the industry. why spend time on destroying rather than trying to build yourself.
I'm gathering, it maybe because they never learned to love or be loved, a way to survive from all the trauma they had to endure (yet left them broken and damaged), and because they are trying to find themselves by mirroring others. I'm not certain, but this is what I've come to conclude.
because to destroy it takes a lot less work, and it is much faster, building an edifice takes years, one can tear it down in minutes. unable to build same thing, the crocodile with mask of a human, approaches only to destroy. "try now" he says, "build from ashes".
So I found your channel at the start of horrible break up.. time has passed and I see things more clearly.. I stopped watching for a while to focus on myself but found that I got hovered into a position that works for them. I’m here again so that I keep my focus on the positives but never forget who they truly are.. love you Joe ❤❤❤❤
Joe, you are so wise and your insight into this disorder is uncanny. 👏🏼👏🏼🙌. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with all of us. I wish I had heard your videos decades ago. But I am hearing them now and for that, I am grateful.👏🏼
Thank you!! Read the Shining first. Dr Sleep is basically part II of the Shining. By the way, it might give you chills and shivers, would still recommend though!!
A lot of truth… I didn’t notice this behavior in my ex husband, but I saw this primarily in my grand mother. I remember the guilt trips she would place upon my mother while she played the victim. It depended upon who was around though. It was all about maintaining this image of being this generous lady within the church and community, but the moment no one else was around the dynamics quickly changed. In the military you constantly are reminded of how sh!£ rolls down hill so to speak. It’s that very dynamic that I saw growing up. It would start with my grandmother to my mother and then down to me. The rest of the family could do no wrong. It was as if my mother and I were the proverbial black sheep, while the rest of the family were the proverbial golden children. Even as a child I saw the hypocrisy in this behavior and it was probably the reason why I decided I don’t really care what the neighbors thought or the people at church. That attitude has remained with me to this day, probably because I know the truth.
Hi Joe, i was thinking it would be nice to hear more on what a healthy relationship is , or more about the components of a good connection versus a narcissistic one, just an idea.
Yes it’s bizarre. My wife never punched a time card, negotiated a contract or made an investment in her life, yet all our financial success is due to her. 😂
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They literally steal everything from you. Your energy, your character, your personality, your friends, your successes. Then they act like you don't even exist!
EVERY thing starts to make sense. Even a year later. Now I see why she said. I had to KNOCK YOU OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE. when she said that (now mind you) that was awhile ago .I had no idea what she meant. Today I do. .please stay Educated AND Dedicated..Break the Trauma Bonding .Cut the soul ties . ❤..
Yeah once I figured out what she is, then some of the weird things she said started to make sense.
@@billlyons7024 yes sir AND ONCE i figured out she was totally opposite of everything she said.. another CRAZY making game in the books...☝️💪
lol dude you’ll still be putting the puzzle together for yrs… Especially if you had a parent that was a narc. That’s when you really get mind fkd. That’s 10X more confusing, and hard…
@@CHSN-1 i AGREE
@@CHSN-1my mother
So true. They will make you feel crazy. And their family will help them groom you.
Their family is the reason they are like this, when they grew up, and they convince them they are the second coming. Narcissists are weak, they follow all the basic criteria of a parasite, they NEED a host.
Facts!
Oh yes!
Yuck🤮It's all so creepy!
I can’t believe you would even think they would ever do something like that. You’re just misinterpreting. You’re Confused. Are you feeling OK? 😂 😂 😂
Thank you! This is one of the best explanations of what narcissists true intentions are and why they get so angry when you are not completely destroyed! 🙏
“I wanted to keep you off-kilter.”
“You were too comfortable. I wanted to make you uncomfortable.”
The only true words ever spoken by him.
OMG, good point,totally what happened!
She told me, “you’re going to need to get comfortable outside of your comfort zone”. At the time I thought what are you talking about., and never gave it another thought. Now I know why she made this statement and others. What a bunch of crap.
Ive accomplished more in the last 8mos of my life career, family, personally than in 8.5yrs with her as a partner! Thats so telling. She only wanted to ruin me and watch me burn down for the fun of it. Sickening!
I’ve been down a massive rabbit hole since I was discarded. I was in denial that she was truly a narcissist. I’ve felt so much embarrassment.
Since finding this channel, the embarrassment is gone. This is by far the best channel on the psyche of narcissists. It makes me feel less embarrassed. It makes me realize that I won’t ever forget the experience I had and that I still have some empathy for the hurt they have. I truly hope they all get the help they need.
Their hurt and projection of their hurt is not a reflection of ourselves.
Hey Joe, I just wanted to say THANK YOU from the other side of the world. You have no idea how much you've helped me (and many others of course) with your videos and your wisdom during the past year. Hope you have a fantastic day brother. Love from Italy :D
You got West and East mixed up in WW2, but your point is still a good one.
So sickeningly true. I still can't believe people can be like this.
Once they know they've got you on the hook, they start getting bored and start looking for their next victim to replace you.
Be careful there are a lot of videos on youtube about this stuff and they're not all that spot on.
This guy is pretty accurate and so are come of the comments here.
Can one imagine what happens to the gifted/talented/empathic children of these vampires
Do you really want that answer? Because I witnessed the answer first hand for 20 years until she divorced me.
@@directionfinderformen I felt that too..If you were supply, you will be on a long journey to discover your true self...many souls today walking around in an invisible prison trying to find themselves after their light was stolen
Your question statement needs clarity! R-U referring to THOSE of us of whom somewhat miraculously haven't committed SUICIDE as our entire families have worked so hard to deal our fate?
Or MAYBE 🤔 your talking about THOSE of us that have plagued by the FAMILY demons of Sadistically CATHOLIC pedophiles that have careers in Law enforcement so their entitlement to be bullies & use deadly force WITHOUT accountability.
@@keithstewart7514 The questions will be answered in time is what i personally feel...know that you are not alone and please find solace in that, as many do..There is a purpose beyond our comprehension.
When I first got into a relationship with mine, he had so much confidence, he was actually cocky - I’m now convinced he had just destroyed the previous supply. Throughout all the years that we did back and forths, he was never as confident as the first time we dated. I also gave him hell (he just couldn’t break me and I always left him when he disrespected me). I honestly believe I was the cause of one his collapses. I’m glad I’m out for good. He still believes I hate him and I have no idea why - it’s probably because I either ‘discard’ him when he treats me horribly or I just accept it when he discards me (I.e I never ever chase).
Cuz he hates you. Projecting
I get that they know they are manipulative. But do they realize who they are or are they to delusional and just believe the hurt they inflict is justified. Great channel 🌼 Thanks
They believe everything they do is justified, because of their own victim-hood mentality and inner-pain.
Yes, I think they believe it too. They need it to be true. They must always be one of three characters, the saint, the victim or the martyr, and like many great actors they immerse themselves so deep into the role that they loose their real self, if they ever had one. Keep that in mind and watch, they will always be one of those three.
Mine uses revenge. When the dust settles and the damage is done, she doesn’t apologize or recant. With one goal in mind, she takes my good qualities and makes them her own. Then, the lies she tells, remain the truth as she passes them on to anyone who will listen.
This is how the cycle continues. If you watch the patterns, and they become very apparent, you’ll know all of what happened is true.
I am amazed that most are fooled by them.
I have a higher power with supernatural abilities
Who exposes her left and right. I don’t know if folks are in denial or if they just know nothing about narcissists.
In my opinion People usually believe others are good like them, think and behave like them. Until someone has dealt with a narcissist, it's difficult to understand that there's people out there like that. I know i got blindsided,i couldn't rationalize why someone would lie just for the sake of lying. I'm glad you're exposing them, they need to be held accountable. They hurt so many.
Like attracts like sadly they are our mirror! WEAKNESS
No. They attract their opposite usually, empaths . The empath may be so sensitive that he or she sees the narcissist in themselves.
Yes, I have experienced that. Devaluing me. I left and started over. Narc free
Joe, really excellent. Was pondering this am, why such desire to destroy someone's career, achievements, why such ruthless hatred and desire to sabotage, going far, spending own resources and time just to do that, take away respect of peers in the industry. why spend time on destroying rather than trying to build yourself.
Great question!!!!
I'm gathering, it maybe because they never learned to love or be loved, a way to survive from all the trauma they had to endure (yet left them broken and damaged), and because they are trying to find themselves by mirroring others. I'm not certain, but this is what I've come to conclude.
because to destroy it takes a lot less work, and it is much faster, building an edifice takes years, one can tear it down in minutes. unable to build same thing, the crocodile with mask of a human, approaches only to destroy. "try now" he says, "build from ashes".
So I found your channel at the start of horrible break up.. time has passed and I see things more clearly.. I stopped watching for a while to focus on myself but found that I got hovered into a position that works for them. I’m here again so that I keep my focus on the positives but never forget who they truly are.. love you Joe ❤❤❤❤
I love this video Joe, thank you!❤
Joe, you are so wise and your insight into this disorder is uncanny. 👏🏼👏🏼🙌. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with all of us. I wish I had heard your videos decades ago. But I am hearing them now and for that, I am grateful.👏🏼
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Thank you L, have a great Sunday!! ❤❤
So true. You really know these people joe
So glad I found your channel! Truth and beautiful "scenery". Good for the soul.
Thank you!
Joe, thank you 🙏.
Bullseye 🎯
Awesome Joe…as always…Thankyou 🙏🏻❤️❤️…..definitely be purchasing Dr. Sleep…xx
Thank you!! Read the Shining first. Dr Sleep is basically part II of the Shining. By the way, it might give you chills and shivers, would still recommend though!!
Please do more vids, you're awesome!!!!!!❤❤❤👍
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Your videos are Really valuable, thank you.❤
Spot on. Its scary😂😂❤.thanks
That thumbnail, from Dr Sleep. That's a good movie to watch to learn about narcissism. :)
Haha.. Dr Sleep is like in my Top 5 favorite books. Movie is ok too, but book is awesome!
@@joebhouse Had read The Shining but didn't know Dr Sleep was (also) a book. Thank you.
The Shining is in my Top 3 favorite!!
A lot of truth… I didn’t notice this behavior in my ex husband, but I saw this primarily in my grand mother. I remember the guilt trips she would place upon my mother while she played the victim. It depended upon who was around though. It was all about maintaining this image of being this generous lady within the church and community, but the moment no one else was around the dynamics quickly changed. In the military you constantly are reminded of how sh!£ rolls down hill so to speak. It’s that very dynamic that I saw growing up. It would start with my grandmother to my mother and then down to me. The rest of the family could do no wrong. It was as if my mother and I were the proverbial black sheep, while the rest of the family were the proverbial golden children. Even as a child I saw the hypocrisy in this behavior and it was probably the reason why I decided I don’t really care what the neighbors thought or the people at church. That attitude has remained with me to this day, probably because I know the truth.
Thanks for your insights.
Hi Joe, i was thinking it would be nice to hear more on what a healthy relationship is , or more about the components of a good connection versus a narcissistic one, just an idea.
Any success you have they will take credit for it. They will say I did that. You only achieved this because of me
Yes it’s bizarre. My wife never punched a time card, negotiated a contract or made an investment in her life, yet all our financial success is due to her. 😂
They just can’t get enough supply it doesn’t matter what u do
Ty 🕊️✨🙏🪽🫶
🎯💯.
soviet's were the eastern front, comrade
You are right, it was the other way around!
@@joebhouse to be fair you were before and after saying that talking about the Ardennes offensive on the western front
@@joebhouse great content tho, very well spoken and informed
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The truth?