I need someone to give me advice about not having to cry for little things and do just get a thicker skin cause I get really upset over small things and I really need ur advice cause I don't understand what she's saying. Someone please give me advice and like this comment
It's Linz sometimes issues like this can be solved through self-awareness but it can also be a sign that you don't have enough "happy chemicals" in your body like serotonin and endorphins. Sometimes all you need to do to solve that is to eat healthily--lots of nutrient rich plants and proteins. Check out the book by Julia Ross called "The Mood Cure" If that doesn't help you should probably see a psychiatrist. It doesn't mean there's something wrong with you, just that you need a little help. Hope you feel better!
You have to fail repeatedly and for that you have to take risks and fail some / win some - one day you just toughen up and don’t cry anymore ; it just happens out of nowhere.. trust me
Ugh, how I wish Ireland had events & resources like this! This group every second week would be my idea of HEAVEN and would help me so much ❤ Can always count on Melissa for some wholehearted wisdom 👌
My kids sure know how to push my buttons! I've been divorced for about 22 years & find myself getting so angry, still, when they talk about how badly he continues to badmouthing me ... I've figured that I need to forgive him - I thought I did but obviously not
I think an important things here is to look at it in context; is the person oversensitive to the normal type things that most could brush off and are other symptoms going on as well - eg, difficulty with relationships. Especially if they are female (I say this because the statistics are higher amongst females), they probably need some psychological intervention to rule out things like personality disorders.
Marshan Thomas I have a hater at work who has badmouthed me to everyone at work and most of them have jumped on her bandwagon and treat me differently. I’m friendly, always cordial, smiling, and quiet. This rubs her(demon bitch) the wrong way and she’s manipulated others into thinking I’m a stuck up antisocial bitch. I can’t stand her negative energy and how she watches my every move and tears me down, plays mind games, talks indirectly to me, etc. Relentless indirect bullying. This is what triggers me. It’s weekly. I’m good at winding down on weekends and am pretty resilient enough to bounce back and be ready for the next work week. Are you unique, independent, quiet, introverted, p/u on negative energy? Something in you may trigger others to target you. Like this video says, focus on developing an inner peace and get to know yourself on a deeper level. Good luck. 👍
Hi Melissa ☀ absolutely love this you're such a beaut! the link to continue watching the end of the video is broken and Im really working with this concept and would so so appreciate to understand how when your triggered to really be able to pin pint what's being triggered and the steps involved to bust through it... Huge thanks ❤
How about when you've assisted a coworker from the beginning to the present.,then because a situation occurs you can't get back to help them then when you show up they have an attitude saying they were by themselves nobody was there helping them! walk away now their different. It makes me wonder what are THEY really anger at?
Fenomenal discovery, thank you. Why were my psychologist so pointless. I actually knew It's in me and love is he answer but this simple instruction has changed everything in seconds and I hope it will work wonders from now on. Thank you for this video
If you can help me that would be great. Mine is someone in particular around me who is super dirty and I'm pretty grossed out. I have tried to reflect but I'm not finding it here. I used to be a cleaner and this person is super dirty. Um not sure I'm figuring it out. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
in general.....women end up getting bored of nice guys, move on to either a drug addict, or a similar nice guy, and end up realizing that boredom of your guy is normal for every relationship.
I need someone to give me advice about not having to cry for little things and do just get a thicker skin cause I get really upset over small things and I really need ur advice cause I don't understand what she's saying. Someone please give me advice and like this comment
It's Linz sometimes issues like this can be solved through self-awareness but it can also be a sign that you don't have enough "happy chemicals" in your body like serotonin and endorphins. Sometimes all you need to do to solve that is to eat healthily--lots of nutrient rich plants and proteins. Check out the book by Julia Ross called "The Mood Cure" If that doesn't help you should probably see a psychiatrist. It doesn't mean there's something wrong with you, just that you need a little help. Hope you feel better!
Do u have BPD?
itsgottabelinds Jesus Christ over petty things you really need to get a thick skin and stop being sensitive 24/7
You have to fail repeatedly and for that you have to take risks and fail some / win some - one day you just toughen up and don’t cry anymore ; it just happens out of nowhere.. trust me
wow..that the advice i really needed..cause i cracked under pressure at work
Needed this today!
It's no coincidence you came across this beautiful ;) xx
The bully is the mirror of themselves i think she meant...
Boy this really hits close to home. Makes sense. Thanks.
My pleasure ❤️
This just changed my life. My perspective. Thank you so muchhhh.
So glad to hear that ❤️
what about nasty rude coe workers
Oh my goodness this video was everything I needed to hear!! Thank you! So empowering!
I love this! So helpful! Thank you! ❤️
Ugh, how I wish Ireland had events & resources like this! This group every second week would be my idea of HEAVEN and would help me so much ❤ Can always count on Melissa for some wholehearted wisdom 👌
I did connect back into my heart space. I left the dinner table gladly
I absolutely love this I just discovered this about myself and I’m working on doing better 2020 lmaooo😂😂
The summary is love yourself so that nothing triggers you.
❤️🙏
Exactly ❤ sometimes it’s very hard to love yourself, remember deep down how good your heart is and protect it.
My kids sure know how to push my buttons! I've been divorced for about 22 years & find myself getting so angry, still, when they talk about how badly he continues to badmouthing me ... I've figured that I need to forgive him - I thought I did but obviously not
I think an important things here is to look at it in context; is the person oversensitive to the normal type things that most could brush off and are other symptoms going on as well - eg, difficulty with relationships. Especially if they are female (I say this because the statistics are higher amongst females), they probably need some psychological intervention to rule out things like personality disorders.
Its hard for me cuz im an emotional person
I'm very emotional. Almost everything wails me down. I seriously need help.
Victoria Sir it’s been a year, how you doin now?
i have two haters on my job. it is on going i am just sick of them.
Marshan Thomas I have a hater at work who has badmouthed me to everyone at work and most of them have jumped on her bandwagon and treat me differently. I’m friendly, always cordial, smiling, and quiet. This rubs her(demon bitch) the wrong way and she’s manipulated others into thinking I’m a stuck up antisocial bitch. I can’t stand her negative energy and how she watches my every move and tears me down, plays mind games, talks indirectly to me, etc. Relentless indirect bullying. This is what triggers me. It’s weekly.
I’m good at winding down on weekends and am pretty resilient enough to bounce back and be ready for the next work week.
Are you unique, independent, quiet, introverted, p/u on negative energy? Something in you may trigger others to target you. Like this video says, focus on developing an inner peace and get to know yourself on a deeper level. Good luck. 👍
YumYum Kitty very well said - great words and helpful
So sorry you have to deal with that.. not sure what ur line of work is but that kind of behavior is rampant in nursing.
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Bbz..there proberly jelus of u...their opinions dont count,only urs does
Hi Melissa ☀ absolutely love this you're such a beaut! the link to continue watching the end of the video is broken and Im really working with this concept and would so so appreciate to understand how when your triggered to really be able to pin pint what's being triggered and the steps involved to bust through it... Huge thanks ❤
LOVE!! Just changed my life!
So glad you got so much out of it honey xx
Thank you!
You're welcome 🙏
love this!!
thank you
I so needed this today, thank you ❤️
Great. Thank you so much. You are great. You solved my big problem.
How about when you've assisted a coworker from the beginning to the present.,then because a situation occurs you can't get back to help them then when you show up they have an attitude saying they were by themselves nobody was there helping them! walk away now their different.
It makes me wonder what are THEY really anger at?
Fenomenal discovery, thank you. Why were my psychologist so pointless. I actually knew It's in me and love is he answer but this simple instruction has changed everything in seconds and I hope it will work wonders from now on. Thank you for this video
Thank you for sharing, beautiful. Happy to be able to help ❤️
What about being phased out of relationships/friendships with no explanation? How can I not let that cause me to feel unworthy?
If you can help me that would be great. Mine is someone in particular around me who is super dirty and I'm pretty grossed out. I have tried to reflect but I'm not finding it here. I used to be a cleaner and this person is super dirty. Um not sure I'm figuring it out. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you so much I needed this
You really helped me out thank you 😊
I wish there were more examples of the flip
Does that makes sense?
not anything can happen on the outiside wth. i dont want someone to fire me!!
butterfflyess if you get fired you might find a better job. It could be a blessing.
what was that dr name
Thank you!!!!!
love this!
these tools will rock your world ;) xx
Your question... “ Does this make sense “ is triggering me right now. Thanks, I need to sit with that.
Thanks for this. Reminds me of Teal Swan.
New sub love the intro
Participants opinions can't be heard! :(
Is it wrong that I’m a dude and can relate lol
its all good bro lol
It’s not wrong at all.
Same here 😂
I’m a dude too nah Brody we all human fam
i have thin skin n i am asking to make me stronger. i am much like that i tke all most everything personally .
You seem to be around alot of bitter people and i had bear it like 5 years in row i think but i just learn not to give a shit what ppl say
Your pretty btw.
Wish I was there... thank you so much for this! 🧘🏾♀️👸🏾💓🙏🏾
Nice group
in general.....women end up getting bored of nice guys, move on to either a drug addict, or a similar nice guy, and end up realizing that boredom of your guy is normal for every relationship.
eh
Waste of time