When God Chooses Someone for You, You Will See . . .
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- Опубликовано: 15 июл 2024
- What will happen when God chooses someone for you? How will you know God's choice for you when it comes to dating and marriage as a Christian single person? Here are 5 things that will happen when God chooses someone for you.
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About 3yrs ago, I gave this part of my life totally to him, I said I can't choose the right person. So, he brought me to a godly man, and while at times we are not perfect, we have God in the middle and we are now married. Thank you for the confirmation Mark.
God bless your unión.
Congrats
I pray for her. I pray for her safety and her health and for God to protect her. I pray for God to fill me with wisdom and self control so I can accept the gift from him whenever he is ready
Oh wow...
That's my same prayer every morning and night.
God bless you.
Stop focusing on me and worry about your own private life ❤
@@leighleigh8725 😂😂😂 bold haha sounds like. Joke I would make.
HALLELUJAH ❤❤❤
Amen
It can be very hard for us to wait for Gods plan and don't rush forwards. But let's all trust in his good plan for our lifes❤
His* ❤
Amen 🙏
@@candykugel you mean like the good plans He has for all the innocent children's lives that He allows evil wicked satanic people to abuse, molest, torture, malnourish, mistreat, rape, sell, murder, sacrifice, and cannabalize all in the name of "free will" and His "love"?! Bullshit 🤣
Sometimes I think I'll end up like Keanu Reeves waiting. Huh well whats the point of finding someone when you're on your deathbed?
@@allenabishek1478 you only perceive the now and not the power of the living God Jesus Christ
The closed doors that lead to open doors is so real. Major key.
That indeed caught my attention
Our God indeed is a covenant keeping God. Has he said a thing and not perform it? I watch how things unfold in my life, from penury to $356,000 every three months and I can only praise him and trust him more. Hallelujah 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Hello how do you make such monthly??
I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down🤦🏼♂️ of myself because of low finance but I still believe in God🙏
But then, how do you get all that in that period of time? What is it you do please, mind sharing?
It is the digital market. That's been the secret to this wealth transfer. A lot of folks in the US and abroad are getting so much from it, God has been good to my household Thank you Jesus
Big thanks to Ms. Chisty Fiore❤️✨💯May God bless Christy Fiore services,she have changed thousands of lives globally
How can I start this digital market, any guidelines and how can I reach out to her?
I have finally met the man all women dream about and hope and pray for.
I wasn't looking when I met my William.
We celebate life not struggle through life.
Is he perfect , in my eyes even though my heart knows that no one is perfect
I had given up looking. God and I have had many conversations regarding relationships.
I've been single and celebate for 25 years. Going on 26 years.
It was like we knew each other since childhood. We laugh , we cry , we have fun together.
At the end of a long day I have him and he has me. One day I hope to be tucked safer in his arms.
God bless as you seek the Lord's leading
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger amen 🙏
I hope he pops the question.
Congrats! How long did it took to meet him since you set out the intention?
@alex-ander-13 funny you should ask.
25 year's ago I wrote myself a poem I called my night in shining armour.
I got to with some of my friends on New Year's around a campfire up in the mountains .
There was some snow on the grill but not enough to chase us off.
We had an RV 😂🤣😂🤣😂 long story short we read what our paper that night in regards to what should your shining armor should be and or damsel in distress should be like and burnt them.
A month ago stuck in a book was a copy of that poem.
So I read it out loud and told the Universe I was here to finally collect.
Being single for 25 years was long enough.
Within that same month 💭🤔 a couple of weeks maybe 😂🤣😂🤣 I guess the Universe knew I still had some growing up to do. It's nice having someone to have a good belly laugh with and get a hug just because hugs are healing and feel good with the right person.
I wish my days of singleness would be over soon,been single way too long!!!
I hear you...
Me too. A very long time.
It hurts at times 😢
marriage is no cake walk. I too, wish, and we are wired to wish, but, better safe than sorry right? hang in there guys.
@@MoreThanSufficientGrace So much….😞
I really needed this confirmation, Mark. Thank you so much. God has been saying yes to my prayers and pointing to all the signs, including one for a godly, future husband. One that only believes in him, worships only him, and loves only him. There were times that I felt like giving up praying for my future husband, but the Holy Spirit told me to keep going. And now, my waiting season is still continuing in God's presence, and so is my future husband's. Thank you so much, Mark.
God bless!
Some people are meant to be single. That too is God's choice for some. Amen
Some.
I think I was meant to be single . And I’m okay with it thank God .
Well yes...
#1 was my biggest fear. God has given me peace. He chooses the best for His children
Thanks Mark. I’ve experienced many of the bad signs and closed doors. The pieces have never really fit together and it was clear when the Lord did not want me with someone. Now, I feel at peace and expectant for what He has in store for me. The Lord has richly blessed my single season and I’ve healed from many things in the past year. My prayer at the end of the day is that God would make me the man He wants me to be and how I ought to be seeking first the kingdom of God and it’s righteousness and all these things will be added unto me.
Glory to God as you seek the Lord first and foremost!
Amen!
Please God, choose a husband for me in the name of Jesus. Amen🙏
God blessed me with a vision of my wedding day with my fiance a year ago the Sunday before he asked me out. I was unsure because he was such a good friend. We talked it through together and decided to give it a shot. He's my best friend now. I can't wait for that day to come to pass just as He promised 😊
I met my person on a dating site, we quickly exchanged numbers soon after matching and we both felt conviction from the Holy Spirit when we spoke on the phone. We never met, we knew nothing about each other and we felt attraction but we are both mature enough to know looks aren’t everything: we’ve both been hurt, married, tried it all.. anyway, it is possible to know who your person is. We’ve been dating and things have been wonderful, not perfect but when faced with a challenge, we have God in the center and are able to work our way through with love and respect. The best connection I’ve ever had. I pray this is Gods will for us and just wanted to share that we both knew instantly. It is the strangest thing he and I ever experienced and many Christians I’ve met have experienced that too (confirmation through the Holy Spirit).
What site did you use?
@@crystalmetz5946 We were on Upward
Bless you🙏🏻🙌thats wonderful. Im going through same things ,wondering how did you know, after how many time talking. Did you met? Its interesting we two also met through sister in Christ over phone ,studiyng scripture,became best friends. Conversations went so wonderful, flowing, then we met after few months in public ,and there was so much joy, conviction so wonderful. Like we knew each other lifetime. So scary. Never felt that before . But its complicated since Im in a relationship celibacy, he is single. We are both christians, and Im still in unequally jolked relatinship.
@@andreamegec9836 yes, we met shortly after the call! For me, it was very bizarre because as I was talking to him on the phone, it was as if he was reading my mind. He was saying everything I was thinking. It was extremely strange and if I wasn’t so into God I would’ve thought this was devil sent. But, what got me to really thinking is that I was feeling very hot, the way that I do when I’m in church while I was talking with him and knew it was the Holy Spirit. I was very happy talking to him, we had so much in common and just very, very similar in mannerisms and just our logic and view of things. I had prayed for that.. I had been fasting for my future husband and I had received numerous confirmations after. God speaks to me through people and that can be in person or via reels or RUclips channels. It mostly starts with a thought, feeling and then an outward expression or realization, so I know it’s not just me. Every persons experience is different and that is what is amazing about the God we serve; He is very intentional and detailed. So, my story can look very different from others or alike! It’s all about your relationship with Him. You have to know God and spend time with Him to be able to hear Him. But what you are explaining doesn’t seem to be God favored if you are in a relationship already. If you know you aren’t supposed to have an unequally yoked relationship, there is no point in entertaining one. I hope I am understanding what you’re saying correctly for me to make this sort of judgement and it is all with love. Be wise.
Well if he knows your the one he should be making his intentions clear. He should be marriage minded. Personally, I think he's playing you.
I was at a Christian youth camp where I started noticing a girl and was curious about her. During praise and worship on the last day, I prayed to God to show me if she was the one for me, and I distinctly heard God say "Pursue her." This aligned with the video which talked about how when God chooses someone for you, you also choose them. I never immediately knew she was the one; it was a gradual, logical process of getting to know each other. As we talked more, we have gotten closer. Since then, I've prayed for strength to stay focused on her and not be distracted by other company. The video's points resonated deeply, especially the idea that we would one day be a couple. It gave me so much joy and confirmation.
Brilliant stuff. So helpful.
Imagination, infatuation, idolatry; nailed it bro. Never beg someone to be in your life. If they can't see the gold in you then someone way more suitable surely will.
Always remember than no-one is 'out of your league'. They are simply not compatible with YOU.
Imagination and Infatuation. Yep I have certainly experienced that before. I would prefer the format as shown in Genesis 24 for finding a wife. At 60 there are not many single God fearing ladies within an appropriate age range to meet.I won’t do dating apps, as I prefer to meet people organically, and trust God to make us cross paths. On the flip side, I am prepared to be single for the rest of my life. Jesus, Paul and the Baptist were ok, they did some great work as single men for the Kingdom of God.
❤ God has a plan for us ❤
Same here.
AMEN! Good to submit to God's will. Im waiting on God to send a man of God into my life. I'm.now a widow. So few men of God. It's sad.
I've prayed constantly for a Christian girlfriend who will want to be my wife. I've never been on a date. So I have to continue to be patient.
I've been on dates, I have been in relationships, and I'm still waiting on God's kingdom man for my future husband. So it's ok because I need to be patient too.
Remember to pray for the Will of Jesus Christ's plans for your life
May God answer your prayer according to His will.
Ashley; I’m sure you will find someone, you have experience. Be patient. As for OP, you do need to try, make effort and show interest in them. Otherwise they will friend zone you or think you’re not interested. Rejection is a very big thing in the dating world. The only way to get on top is by constantly getting rejecte, also you do some of the rejections too. It’s just the way dating works.
Op you can’t sit and wait, you need to ask friends to introduce you to the person you fancy, try your luck, ask out people on dates, keep trying. Remember, not fornicating is not a sin; going on dates is fine, you have to make the move. Sitting is for people that give up and need a break from dating, not from those that want to date. Get into gear, start making friends, go to the gym, do boxing classes or go to a church. Do anything that will keep you networking and that may give you more opportunities to get dates. If you’re in your 20’s; this is the best time yo do it! After that ; dating in your 30’s is difficult
This is great timing. I just got rejected and this whole dating thing feels hopeless. I’ve prayed, reflected, and believe for years that God has someone for me hit I guess I’m just not for anyone. It’s frustrating and self pity but this whole thing feels like you’re told you’d be invite to this party your entire life and the host has a gift for you only to find out you’re told to wait outside in the rain/sleet/snow but don’t worry you’ll be let in at the right time and everyone else is having a good time inside with their gifts meanwhile you’re still outside left wondering with all these promises that haven’t been fulfilled. It’s upsetting.
That's not exactly the right perspective to have, it's a lie from the enemy. Rebuke him!
It can be very frustrating love. You have no idea what God is potentially saving you from. Perhaps he could be teaching you a lesson. Have faith and enjoy your single season as much as possible. Pray to him and thank him for the gift of singleness. Stay strong💪Dont be anxious or worry. It's hard but he has everything under control
I found my 1st true love since my wife passed a few years ago I feel she is definitely God sent bc I wasn't looking and she appeared in my life she is everything I want in a future spouse and she tells me I'm everything she wanted in a future spouse we keep praying together for our relationship to blossom into more. AMEN
May the Lord bless your union...
@@chosennotforsaken That's great!!, Looking/ waiting for that special person too after my wife passed 5 yrs. ago
A blessing for you both. I wait patiently for my future husband. ❤
Well if your both clear..propose!
@danilaroche1156 that's the plan in the near future she don't know it
This is so spot on. I went through all of it but m glad that phase is over. Thank you Mark you couldn't have said it better.
G❤D IS FAITHFUL NOW AND FOREVER MORE AMEN AND AMEN! JEREMIAH 29:11❤❤❤
I think this was one of my favorite videos on this channel it was so right to the point and I think it all was speaking to me! I’m in a waiting season for my future wife and I’m trying to be strong in this wait.
Exactly! Truth interpreted and shared well!
4 hit hard. Didn’t think my current fiancé would be my fiancé when we met. However she’s getting me closer to God through her own self, and peace permeates the relationship.
I receive this Word with gladness Amen
This is helpful teaching even in other areas
Such as job search and much more. It is imperative to know that God is involved in all aspects of our lives
Thank you, Brother. May God continue to pour into you and use you for His glory. Amen🙏🏾
Amen. In God's perfect timing
This is exactly what I needed today.
Really Helpful mark, God bless you abundantly ❤
Thank you, this serves as confirmation… this has blessed me more than you know…
I believe it’s so important in the times we live in, that people don’t get caught up on social media personalities making them a fantasy person and mistaking it for being God’s person for them… in a lot of ways technology advancement is good, but then not so good because it has so many ppl in their feelings, projecting a false connection just because that person responds to their comment section to you or speak back doesn’t mean that’s the person for you, especially if they are not approaching you with interest at All….
Sometimes, it would be nice if there was a true break from social media for everyone, that will force ppl to engage the old fashion way sometimes, that way you most definitely will know when someone is interested in you or not… but Oh well, waiting patiently for God to reveal his person to me in the meantime. God Bless you MOG!!🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
So helpful. Thank you for your wisdom! God bless!
Wow! This Resonates Beautifully✨& Makes Perfect Sense to Me!✨ " Thy Will Be Done.."💫Let it go💫
Beautiful
Thank you Jesus, I will wait for this!
AMEN PRAISE THE LORD!
So true ❤
Thank you Mark for the insight, I greatly appreciate it. I needed to hear these words from you.
This video was indeed timely and divine. Thank you for sharing Melody! God bless you and your family 🙏
This was very helpful! Thank you Pastor Mark!
This is Amzing, 😊😊😊, God bless us all, Amen.
It's endearing how some of us eagerly await this gift from God. Myself, I'm just trying not to run to the hills at the very prospect 🙏
It's almost 5:30 in the morning, but I can't sleep. I'm in tears as I write this.
I know that my heart was made for marriage. I want to share my life so much that it hurts. My heart aches so badly that I haven't been able to sleep tonight.
I don't understand why... why did God create me for marriage and create me for my soulmate, but not create my soulmate?
Or... what if God did create my soulmate, but some other woman stole him before we met?
All this passion deferred is pain. My gift is that I feel passion more deeply than any normal human should, but it turns to pain and it makes my heart ache. I don't see how married happiness can happen for me. I can't help how I feel. I want to share my life with my one true soulmate. I want it so bad that it's breaking my heart.
I know it is hard. I also have a desire for marriage for a long time now. It is difficult to be patience, wait on God's timing and trust him. Especially when it seems like everyone around you is getting married. It is easy to feel we need to do something before God will blessed us. And it does not help that people in relationships can't really relate and by trying to give 'helpful' advice, they make it worse.
I don't believe there is just one person for everyone, but rather that God has a person perfectly suited for you. So if someone else 'stole' your spouse as you called it, then it was never God's intended will for you to marry that person.
In the meantime, bring you tears, longings, hope and dreams to God, ask him what he is calling you to do in this season, and do it. Surround yourself with godly single people. And pray for your future spouse.
Hope deferred can make the heart sick, but I good word maketh it glad. The good word is God’s word. Please read the Bible like it’s your medicine that you were assigned to take daily. I learned that from Tiphani Montgomery. God gives us the desires of our heart, but make sure he is your treasure first, do not love or desire anything more than him. I’m just leaving a long relationship & it hurts because I thought he would be my husband. Yes, you’re hurting but decree that your latter will be greater than your former, that you will not survive off bread alone but everything Word from God, that an angel of the Lord will go before your destiny helper to put you & your husband together because what God put together, let no man put asunder. Nobody can take what God has given you ❤ you have to cast down thoughts that do not align with God’s word. His word is final. I’m working on this too ❤
Thank you for the reminders!
Amen in agreement with this prayer over my life amen
Excellent insight
Thank you, brother Mark 🤍☀️☁️ This aligns perfectly with what I'm going through. This is confirmation. I feel God is using you to confirm my Goldy relationship.
Godly*
I been a born again christian for a long time and all those points mentioned are an accurate assertion. God put me together with a lady whith whom God blessed our relationship even though we have slightly different theological beliefs. I believe the traditional we are saved by grace doctrine and she believes we humans are divine. Well, i guess both approaches can coexhist because when a sinner becomes a born again believer he/she takes on Gods nature. It is safe to say that once regenerated we do in essence become divine. If this werent true then God wouldnt of blessed me with this wonderful lady. Everytime we talk to each other her and i behave in an integrated fashion. God blessed me so much by bringing her in my life and never knew what a truly beautiful woman was until i met her. She is very divine
Thank you once again 🙏🏿 those 3 I’s are very helpful
Video came at the right timeeee🙏
Amen and Amen!!❤❤❤
Mark, this was VERY helpful! Thank you! 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
So glad!
This channel has been so helpful I love all of these videos!!!
Ohh thank God for this video....I got the answer... Thank you Lord...
You gain 1 follower today...
It was very helpful
Amen HALLELUJAH ♥️ 🙏
Thank you!
Amen may God bless you and your ministry
Thank you and may the Lord bless you too!
Amen Amen Brother Ty 🙏
❤❤ this really helped me ❤❤
God is Brilliant beyond measure.
Keep up wih the great work .
Thank you Mark!
My pleasure!
Thanks
Thank you
Great video brotha. Hope it’s all been good on your end 👊🏾
Agreed!
Thank you so much!!!❤
You are so welcome!
lovely
He GAVE US FREE WILL.
Thank you God I wiat ❤❤❤
Still waiting for Gods chosen guy like he promised for me back in 2023.
I subscribed.
Amen 🙏❤
Great Mark as usual your Godly insight is helpful and solid platinum
Indeed I wanted to be with someone whom I really liked and cared about but this person doesn’t have an desires to be with me so I know this isn’t God’s will it’s painful at times but I’m praying for the peace to let God do what he wants and for me not to worry about this anymore.
Amen❣️❣️❣️
Amen ❤🙏
Amen
As we wait for God to confirm whether to proceed to dating, help us pray!
But we've ticked all 5 points🎉
It is certainly good to know these five points, with not hesitation, confusion, just wait on God’s will to be performed. You don’t have to stand outside with a big sign on . Just wait , if it is so to be good, and if not good.
Indeed 😂 praise the Lord Jesus Christ 💜
At this point I don't care who God chooses for me Im done with relationships..I don't need people messing with me screw everyone who did !
Brothers and Sisters, I say this. If you are trying to make a relationship or a former marriage work and it’s not working that is also something to consider. Throw this at Gods feet and He will be there with you. He will show you if this is what He wants for you.
OMG he is the one ❤
I havnt watched the video as yet but I hope this man is using scripture to back up his statements. Always wise to get confirmation from God himself rather than a video.
@@guanedits6349 I have seen so many confirmations more than simple videos. But I just wait on the Lord, of course.
the verse in Deuteronomy 22, says to not fear the prophet if he gets something wrong (KJV), that seems to indicate that a prophet is not to get something wrong to keep his authority
You know, my whole life it feels like all the women I've tried to even get close to and almost date, God slapped me across the face and said "Not this one" and now I'm like "Alright Alright" ❤️🙏
Master i will be waiting for you still
God bless!
About 3yrs ago i decided to give it over to God coz ive made mistakes by my own choosing. Been celebate and still waiting on my God sent Kingdom spouse. It can be a bit lonely when you see other couples, so these days i dont go out much, only with close friends and family. Still hoping and have faith that God will send my kingdom spouse, its not easy though.. the Lord is my strength 😅
Sometimes wonder if there is someone for me, I’ve only been in for relationship in my entire life or close to 40. I haven’t met the person I’m supposed to be with for the rest of my life. All my relationship hurt me took advantage of me and my kindness. I’m a very forgiving person and I love life. Lately, I don’t even know who I am anymore. I’m just constantly feeling pain and hurt thinking if there is someone out there for me, waiting for me. I’d love to meet that person someday. I sure do hope that someday I’ll meet my future husband.
I’m 18 and gods show me through life circumstances and some extremely hard lessons. My dream of being a father later in life will come true. I will have a wife and family that I can restore my generational curse. This gives me rest and I can give up on the part of my life. I trust gods timing, the only thing that matters right now are the oppurtunites he has in front of me. He is setting me up to do his work.
I pray for my future wife I pray that God becomes her #1 love and only #1 love that she prioritizes her relationship with Him above all else that nothing below this earth on this earth or beyond this earth ever takes His spot on the throne of her heart and whatever vies for that spot that she calls out and cries out to Him to help her set them in their proper places that she becomes the women of God He called her to be and when she is ready when I'm ready we develop a God centered relationship that flourishes into a marriage and one day have beautiful children we can dedicate to the Lord on His perfectly timing
😂😂😂 I am so sorry I clicked so many times on Like, it just felt I didn't yet..😋😄😎😂
God choose me to be single like Paul.
I know I have met my chosen man God has for me, bc we have a strong connection that I’ve never experienced before. Even though we haven’t been able to meet in person yet, video calls, phone calls and messages keep us connected right now as we are states apart bc our children from our previous marriages. Patiently waiting for God’s full blessing on us & God’s timing, shall it be His will! 🙏🙏
So if everything is predestined by God and he chooses who we ultimately love, then he also chose who we end up failing with or losing. So if his ways are higher than our ways, he made us go thru it for a reason or for a lesson, for growth.
Does God already have a partner for me to walk with in life and love❤
I'm gonna be alone forever
We were together, A God fearing man and woman. Now she wants space to heal on her own. Should I move on and just stay supportive? We still pray together as friends.