STYLING CURLY HAIR DO'S & DON'TS for volume and definition | Jayme Jo

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @diinaauwk2428
    @diinaauwk2428 4 года назад +22991

    DON'Ts :
    1. Don't ditch your shampoo
    2. Don't let your hair dry in a cotton towel
    3. Don't style your hair on dry curls
    4. Don't brush dry curls
    5. Don't soak your curls to style them
    6. Don't apply thick products on the roots of your hair
    7. Don't over apply mousse nor pull it through your curls
    8. Don't pull the denman brush downwards
    9. Don't use your diffuser on high heat and start playing/ touching your curls while it's still wet
    10. Don't pull your hair while diffusing it
    11. Don't shake damp hair aggressively
    12. Don't put your hair in tight buns, or brush your dry curls
    DOs :
    1. Clean your scalp ( shampoo, condition, sea salt scrub)
    2. Let your hair dry in a tshirt
    3. Put your hair in a bun until it's damp
    4. Brush your hair only when it's damp
    5. Make sure your hair is damp but not dripping wet
    6. Focus on your crown too
    7. Strart small with products and apply from the mid lengths down
    8. Use your denman brush BEFORE mousse, pull away from scalp
    9. Scrunch your mousse into your curls
    10. Use your diffuser after 10 minutes from styling your hair
    11. Focus on roots in circular motions
    12. After your hair is dry from the diffuser, lightly shake it to separate the curls
    13. Softly separate curl clumps with your fingers
    14. Gently shake your hair from roots only for more volume
    _____
    LIKE THIS FOR EVERYONE TO SEE

    • @rxnvx298
      @rxnvx298 4 года назад +100

      Diinaa Uwk thank you so much!

    • @ararafrah2871
      @ararafrah2871 4 года назад +55

      Thank you

    • @anjana7636
      @anjana7636 4 года назад +32

      thank u!!

    • @angrycactus158
      @angrycactus158 4 года назад +18

      rxnvx thank youuuuu!!

    • @moonmin0058
      @moonmin0058 4 года назад +19

      My mom says sea salt might break up my hair is it true please tell me

  • @kalilespere4750
    @kalilespere4750 4 года назад +5199

    The "don'ts" were so painful to watch, i'm so sorry you had to do that!!!

    • @jaymejo
      @jaymejo  4 года назад +196

      Kali Tsehaye HAHAH FACTS

    • @JuliaGoolia33
      @JuliaGoolia33 4 года назад +33

      I was cringing too 😳

    • @andreajane4007
      @andreajane4007 4 года назад +20

      Had to ? she chose to lol

    • @starvaleri8777
      @starvaleri8777 4 года назад +12

      I do the donts every day 😭😭

    • @naomik.6900
      @naomik.6900 4 года назад +4

      I really sat on my bed with a pillow for my eyes like i was watching a horror movie. It did really hurt to Watch

  • @anastasakhhhh
    @anastasakhhhh 3 года назад +447

    My curls are destroyed and i tried this...from the first time i saw results and i almost cried from my happiness...i used to hate my curly hair because i was different from the others because of it but now i really appreciate the gift that life gave me

  • @starhill6792
    @starhill6792 4 года назад +12847

    Your don’ts are literally how my hair looked every day of middle school.

    • @saschavest
      @saschavest 4 года назад +302

      Same. This girl with thick straight hair I was friends with asked me why I pit so much gel in my hair....I told her because it's frizzy lol I didnt have many curly hair friends and my mom tried helping but no matter what my hair was FRIZZY to me. When I was 19 I started to let it go and I was so happy how my hair felt and looked, it was a game changer lol I was wondering why I never just let it go when I was in middle school and how gross my hair actually felt in that time LOL ew!

    • @angelaemily4159
      @angelaemily4159 4 года назад +307

      That's how my hair looks now😭

    • @kiaradenese1272
      @kiaradenese1272 4 года назад +22

      Sameeee

    • @remasalhawari8077
      @remasalhawari8077 4 года назад +67

      I am a sophomore and this is EXACTLY how my hair looks aaaah I am losing hope on my next wash day I’ll try all her do’s

    • @sk-tx9dr
      @sk-tx9dr 4 года назад +3

      Same🤣🤣🤣

  • @kmdn1
    @kmdn1 4 года назад +4889

    Neither of my parents have curly hair so they had NO IDEA how to care for curly hair and make it look nice! They used to believe it was fuzzy, frizzy and messy looking because I *didn't* want brush it and they would make me brush it! It turned me into a tramautized fuzzball and I grew up hating my curly hair because it just looked horrible my entire childhood, especially when they would make sure I "brushed out the tangles.."

    • @sannawyome
      @sannawyome 4 года назад +197

      kmdn1 omg i can relate soooooo muchhh!!!

    • @terragrahamthefirst
      @terragrahamthefirst 4 года назад +185

      The most relatable thing I’ve ever read

    • @rebecasandoval498
      @rebecasandoval498 4 года назад +234

      My mom had good intentions, but would fight me so much when I did NOT want her to brush my hair and turn it into a massive pooff. It made us fight for years and years until she gave up on me. She still thinks I looks hella dishevelled but I’m an adult now so 😂🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @aaazzure
      @aaazzure 4 года назад +7

      kmdn1 ou girl I’m so sorry

    • @kamiliarayes
      @kamiliarayes 4 года назад +11

      It’s almost the same for me but my dad used to have an Afro so I have type 3a-3b hair but my mom actually tries to help so I’m really grateful^ω^

  • @trashuqueen
    @trashuqueen 3 года назад +386

    I’m 16 and literally no one ever taught me how to properly take care of my curls until right now
    I do every single “Don’t” thinking this was how to do my hair, yet I always wondered why it couldn’t get volume
    Hell, I didn’t knew what was a diffuser until now thinking it was like a bigger blow dryer, thank you so much for making this!! I’ll try to take these tips now❤️❤️❤️

    • @mine8194
      @mine8194 2 года назад +3

      Omg sameee, I do every single dont

    • @cadence1055
      @cadence1055 Год назад +1

      SAME ‼️‼️

    • @airheadedness
      @airheadedness Год назад +1

      Me too! My mom had no clue how to deal with my curls.

    • @becksy8129
      @becksy8129 Год назад +1

      Same here, my mom used to BRUSH my curls every day when they were completely dry😭

    • @carolynbellion
      @carolynbellion Год назад +1

      I wish I'd had RUclips when I was your age. It took me until my 40s to really know how to treat my hair, and I'm still learning new things!

  • @Erica-lw2kh
    @Erica-lw2kh 4 года назад +3140

    I know my hair can do this I just don’t have patience

  • @yolandajohnson8685
    @yolandajohnson8685 4 года назад +3240

    Honey, when God was giving out BEAUTY you were definitely the first in line!!

    • @gracieroberts4562
      @gracieroberts4562 4 года назад +55

      Yolanda Johnson right? I can’t stop staring at her

    • @Dcutz
      @Dcutz 4 года назад +108

      I fell asleep in the hammock and no one woke me up 😔

    • @yolandajohnson8685
      @yolandajohnson8685 4 года назад +23

      @@Dcutz love your comment

    • @amee1491
      @amee1491 4 года назад +9

      @@Dcutz dude you’re gorgeous!! Wtfff

    • @leonardodavinci4259
      @leonardodavinci4259 4 года назад +7

      @@Dcutz I don't agree. You're gorgeous

  • @aelhnnh
    @aelhnnh 7 месяцев назад +6

    I love how she demonstrated how the donts would affect your curls instead of just saying how it would. Really illustrated how it would look like. Appreciate the effort!

  • @evemcpherson97
    @evemcpherson97 4 года назад +4924

    ok but why is my routine literally her donts fml

    • @moznaaissa2411
      @moznaaissa2411 4 года назад +52

      SAME

    • @AliciaMartha
      @AliciaMartha 4 года назад +27

      LOL same

    • @jbb2009
      @jbb2009 4 года назад +121

      same > . < it's so hard to learn as an adult who never learned as a child lol

    • @akbueno9633
      @akbueno9633 4 года назад +11

      Mine is to because i have a very different hair texture.Like mousse its a big no no for my hair and the denman brush makes my hair curls even tighter,wich i dont like. my hair is 3c/4a.

    • @nN-fk1ws
      @nN-fk1ws 4 года назад +2

      SAMEE but less Exaggerated

  • @armadillopillow
    @armadillopillow 4 года назад +1961

    It's crazy how much I didn't know about taking care of my hair type. I was the only one in the family with curls when I growing up, so I was taught to take care of my hair the same way someone with straight or slightly wavy hair would. I just thought that the problem was my hair type, that the reason why my hair always looked so horrific was just because that's how my hair is. After watching your videos and other youtubers with similar curls, I know now that my hair isn't "unmanageable" or "difficult", it just takes different techniques to deal with it. It's definitely been a self-esteem boost to find out that my hair isn't "bad hair", like I thought my entire life! ♥️

    • @thaniagonzalez6348
      @thaniagonzalez6348 4 года назад +23

      I had the same experience

    • @tinagill7937
      @tinagill7937 4 года назад +9

      Sameeeeee 😭

    • @addisonlydia9506
      @addisonlydia9506 4 года назад +6

      me too

    • @munmunil
      @munmunil 4 года назад +17

      same here ! i hated my curly hair all of my youth until sophomore year of high school :/ now im trying to fix it from all the flat iron damage lol

    • @olivialingle883
      @olivialingle883 4 года назад +7

      omigod this is exactly my thoughts

  • @ohthatsliv
    @ohthatsliv 4 года назад +1328

    your dont hair looks like my hair when i think it’s “curly and thriving” 😭

    • @mollytaylor8122
      @mollytaylor8122 3 года назад +33

      Lmao relatable content - did her tips help you, though? I'm gonna try them out today and see what happens!

    • @dadscold
      @dadscold 3 года назад +7

      @@mollytaylor8122 did they help?

    • @sarkastikobserver2842
      @sarkastikobserver2842 3 года назад +5

      @@mollytaylor8122 hey, did they help?

    • @sarkastikobserver2842
      @sarkastikobserver2842 3 года назад +33

      Why is this so painfully true? 💀

    • @anupamaca6158
      @anupamaca6158 3 года назад +31

      Ikr ;-; the oily side was like a slap on the face

  • @lesliegoldman777
    @lesliegoldman777 4 года назад +1296

    Lol. Watching the don’ts was a little too close to home in that I find myself doing almost all those things. I’m just so impatient!! I promise to stop!

    • @jaymejo
      @jaymejo  4 года назад +35

      GOOD!! Ahhaha

    • @kevitamaster-brewkombucha5472
      @kevitamaster-brewkombucha5472 4 года назад +2

      Honestly same but I’m gonna dobut this way tonight

    • @ericashields4944
      @ericashields4944 4 года назад +1

      @@jaymejo question what does it mean if the back of your gets all knotted but the knots always happens in the middle is that from not brushing your hair all the way or does curl hair always get knotted I have curly and it gets knotted in the middle of the back of my hair

    • @ericashields4944
      @ericashields4944 4 года назад

      @@jaymejo and what should I do when the knots show up in my hair my mom said it's not from brushing my hair that well I just think it's natural when it happenes

    • @chanuppuluri8726
      @chanuppuluri8726 4 года назад

      @@ericashields4944 From the middle onwards? Sounds like you might be sleeping on it and tossing and turning at night. Have you tried a satin bonnet to protect your hair while you sleep? (My friends swore off the satin pillowcase because their heads kept falling off of the pillow and they had neck pain for a while.)
      If it's happening during the day time, are you watching your collars and scarves? Wool scarf leads too more breakage. I was told to go with a slippery synthetic fabric in scarves/jackets to keep my back hair from tangling. I also keep the clasps of my necklaces off to the side instead of directly in the back for similar reasons...
      I hope this helps!

  • @valevale0411
    @valevale0411 4 года назад +2541

    Your don’t part still looks better than my hair lol. I’m still transitioning haha 😫😶

    • @jakesim7
      @jakesim7 4 года назад +109

      Be patient... week by week you will see how your hair looks better and hairstyles will look better also. ❤

    • @nasheria4388
      @nasheria4388 4 года назад +35

      I needed this phrase. Thank you.

    • @amethyst532
      @amethyst532 4 года назад +6

      same

    • @Iamyniale
      @Iamyniale 4 года назад +5

      Awe ull be fine just don’t give up❤️

    • @carmen0-4486
      @carmen0-4486 4 года назад +6

      Me too😭😭

  • @vleragashi2715
    @vleragashi2715 3 года назад +35

    this is probably one of the most simple, straight to the point vids on styling curly hair. THANK YOU!!!

  • @Mxtch.a
    @Mxtch.a 4 года назад +375

    You know she is committed to us if she goes against 4 years of hard work 💕

  • @GIRLYISMS
    @GIRLYISMS 4 года назад +1524

    your “donts” is how my hair looks right now....or somewhat. I want the do’s so i’ll be trying them tomorrow on my wash day!
    Edit : about a year later and oh my god. It is so much prettier. Really experiment with what you like and don’t like within this routine. I personally do not part my hair and that volumizes my hair a TON.

  • @simplyghosted1926
    @simplyghosted1926 4 года назад +66

    Your “don’t” is literally what my hair looks like everyday.😭 I’m trying

    • @0hsbksjx0
      @0hsbksjx0 2 года назад +1

      RIGHT? 😭😭

    • @ToniLoveMD
      @ToniLoveMD 4 месяца назад

      Facts Me too! I just used to throw some Curl cream or Mousse on wet hair and let it air dry...

  • @hamptonlexie
    @hamptonlexie 4 года назад +2010

    Am I the only one who doesn't care about volume? It's so hard to find a curly girl who doesn't care. All I want is defined curls with no frizz.

    • @jaymejo
      @jaymejo  4 года назад +278

      The same routine will work just dont shake out your hair or seperate your curls xx

    • @kuramacabre
      @kuramacabre 4 года назад +29

      Manes by Mell just uploaded a video about that kind of routine.

    • @jennbee8811
      @jennbee8811 4 года назад +53

      Yea same I sort of like when it’s more voluminous at the bottom not the top

    • @itzluhh1094
      @itzluhh1094 4 года назад +2

      thats the same with me

    • @meghanodonovan8020
      @meghanodonovan8020 4 года назад +1

      Sammeeee

  • @felicitygrey8610
    @felicitygrey8610 4 года назад +866

    Me literally doing all the don’ts and wondering why my hair looks so bad
    Thanks for all the likes

    • @issysss6865
      @issysss6865 4 года назад +3

      Felicity Grey ‘ same 😂😭😭

    • @WithLoveK.
      @WithLoveK. 4 года назад +2

      or every single time you do your hair even if you do it the same way it never looks the same

    • @jordyyy8400
      @jordyyy8400 4 года назад

      Felicity Grey’ same girl 😭

    • @dianarangel6011
      @dianarangel6011 4 года назад

      same 😭

    • @ArianaKaylaTorres
      @ArianaKaylaTorres 4 года назад

      Same 😭😭

  • @delieibelieveicanfly9854
    @delieibelieveicanfly9854 3 года назад +619

    When you see that even when she does everything wrong, her hair still looks beautiful 👁👄👁

    • @eshalnusrat9301
      @eshalnusrat9301 3 года назад +17

      Oh in my opinion it doesn't tho- xC

    • @lolok6338
      @lolok6338 3 года назад +32

      But DEFINITELY not as good as the right way

    • @delieibelieveicanfly9854
      @delieibelieveicanfly9854 3 года назад +1

      @@lolok6338 🤝

    • @TheBaumcm
      @TheBaumcm 2 года назад +9

      Her hair is healthy and in a good cut so even the don’t side will still have decent definition, it’s not optimal.

    • @rozhina2530
      @rozhina2530 2 года назад +22

      her hair looking bad is when mine looks good

  • @smileyfaceprodution
    @smileyfaceprodution 4 года назад +733

    This is literally the most helpful dos and don’ts video I’ve ever seen. I don’t hurt my curls in those ways but SURELY this helped nonetheless

  • @JezikaRenee
    @JezikaRenee 4 года назад +769

    I have straight roots and the rest of my hair is curly. I can never get any volume and I've tried EVERYTHING, unless I fluff it all the way out and end up with a frizzy mess. 😫

    • @m-bookie
      @m-bookie 4 года назад +20

      check out Manes by Mell's video on how to diffuse curly hair that really helped me a lot with my hair

    • @Mini-rt8bm
      @Mini-rt8bm 4 года назад +49

      Do the shingling method. It's taking small pieces of hair and curling with your finger from root to tip. Similar to finger coils but instead you're using wayyy smaller pieces of hair. Your roots might just need to be trained to stay curly. That will help them

    • @aylanilopez7683
      @aylanilopez7683 4 года назад +1

      Same what do I do???

    • @kaylamoosa1890
      @kaylamoosa1890 4 года назад

      Jessica Gilfillan same!!!

    • @kuramacabre
      @kuramacabre 4 года назад +19

      Maybe you should try a different haircut. That happened to me a lot until I added even more layers and now my hair is more voluminous. I have high density, low porosity, type 3a curls so I get easily weighted down. Also, my hair is waist-long.

  • @Jenatopia
    @Jenatopia Год назад +18

    GIRL. you're the prettiest RUclipsr i've came across so far

    • @jonye7511
      @jonye7511 7 месяцев назад +2

      Without a ghastly nose ring, artificial plumped up lips or covered in tattoos. So refreshing and natural.

  • @DaphneGsell
    @DaphneGsell 4 года назад +252

    I’m on a journey to bettering my curls! I’ve struggled with volume for years!!

    • @DaphneGsell
      @DaphneGsell 4 года назад +2

      Thanks for the tips 💜

    • @Markeez_
      @Markeez_ 3 года назад

      amzn.to/3ntj9t0

  • @kaylyneallen
    @kaylyneallen 4 года назад +379

    this was the most helpful video on curly hair i think i’ve ever watched.... you targeted specifically everything i needed. 🤍

    • @jaymejo
      @jaymejo  4 года назад +6

      Kaylyn Allen im so glad!!!

  • @jasmin6962
    @jasmin6962 Год назад +5

    I've always hated my curls due to the fact as a kid it was always crazy n frizzy. Needless to say I'm 31 now and I've just started my natural curly girl journey and I'm already learning so much from just u along the way, thank u so much!! 💞

  • @ninahart228
    @ninahart228 4 года назад +81

    you are literally the prettiest person i've ever seen omg

  • @lushlolita
    @lushlolita 4 года назад +339

    Your don'ts are literally everything I used to do up until like 3 months ago it so funny I always just though my hair was a frizzy type hair but nope I have curls I just always killed them before I saw them. So so happy to have my natural hair becoming it's properly looked after self. I always wanted defined curly hair and now I have it.😁😁😁😁

    • @spiderwomen8410
      @spiderwomen8410 4 года назад +1

      Good for you, how did u do that?

    • @leilanilol1422
      @leilanilol1422 4 года назад +3

      Same I always thought I had frizzy hair type turns out I have 3b

    • @kata7669
      @kata7669 4 года назад +1

      Same. I’m 2 c to 3b

    • @mollytaylor8122
      @mollytaylor8122 3 года назад +1

      You should change your profile picture to show off your cute curls to us!

  • @gloriaelahi6003
    @gloriaelahi6003 2 года назад +7

    Im 33 and I've been doing it wrong for years. I do almost everything you listed on your Dont's list. Thank you for this!

  • @alexagg7640
    @alexagg7640 4 года назад +129

    Please do part 2 to show us how you extend / maintain past day 1 curls. Sometimes mine look ok the first day but next day they're a disaster and I end up putting it up.😟 3 rd day is non existent 😩

    • @bobbypin1787
      @bobbypin1787 4 года назад +7

      Grace Ramirez she has made a few videos on this topic. There are two links below. I hope this helps!:).ruclips.net/video/GDiz-tDPyyk/видео.html

    • @bobbypin1787
      @bobbypin1787 4 года назад +4

      ruclips.net/video/uQAloc9zkv8/видео.html

  • @maryamzahir3948
    @maryamzahir3948 4 года назад +437

    Okay so i watched this video yeaterday, and today is my wash day and i used every single do(i wasnt doing everything wrong but i still followed along lol) and damn!! My hair is the best its ever looked in my entire life. This def works 100 percenttt💖💖💖💖

    • @jaymejo
      @jaymejo  4 года назад +15

      YAYYYY

    • @Charlotte-kh9id
      @Charlotte-kh9id 4 года назад +1

      Jayme Jo, after doing this for a while, will my hair automatically become this curly or would I need to style it like this every time my hair is wet because my hair is naturally curly and i want better curls so xoxo

    • @leilanilol1422
      @leilanilol1422 4 года назад

      @@jaymejo thank you sooo much my hair used to be so flat at the top now it looks so much better

  • @staciejohnson9578
    @staciejohnson9578 3 года назад +12

    This video was A-M-A-Z-I-N-G!!! So informative. I loved how detailed you were and how you actually took the time to do it the wrong way so we could see the difference. Thanks soooo much!!

  • @janaidalalla3928
    @janaidalalla3928 4 года назад +60

    I was literally doing all the don'ts for the longest time but i did my hair today following all the do's and i was blown away my hair diddn't look like a fuzz ball...beautifully defined shiny curls...i love it....thnk u for the video🤗🥳🥳

  • @humairabaloch5662
    @humairabaloch5662 4 года назад +228

    Your eyes are beautiful Masha Allah

  • @ThePacificNorseWest87
    @ThePacificNorseWest87 Год назад +2

    I’ve been doing exactly what you say not to and I have been extremely frustrated. I’ve always had short hair until I grew it out three years ago and never knew I had such curly hair. Thanks for uploading the video! I can’t wait to see how my hair will look from now on!

  • @alyr5348
    @alyr5348 4 года назад +6

    *I love the contrast between her hair and her eyes. And that red lip, girl you go!!! She's so pretty!!!*

  • @saraabusaleh6915
    @saraabusaleh6915 4 года назад +15

    yo guys, i actually followed her tips and videos after 2 years of straightening my hair EVERY single day.. and let me tell you how GOOD my hair looks, i am obsessed with it! and i never thought my hair would actually look that fabulous

  • @xXJasmineJadeXx
    @xXJasmineJadeXx 2 года назад +1

    I watched this after I’ve been doing all the don’ts for years… can’t believe this is why I thought I hated my natural hair! You’re a life saver! Can’t wait to try all your tips

  • @graziousgirl
    @graziousgirl 4 года назад +103

    I FINALLY found someone with my exaxt curl pattern! Maybe I just didn't look hard enough but I feel like there are really few people with this exact curl size and structure so I'm just binge watching your vids all happy right now and implementing everything on my next wash!

    • @jessmacdd
      @jessmacdd 4 года назад +2

      me too omg!!

    • @vivi-uz7qq
      @vivi-uz7qq 4 года назад +3

      samee but my hair is a bit longer

  • @jasminmcpines1585
    @jasminmcpines1585 4 года назад +48

    The most shocking thing is that my hair looks exactly like the "Don't" result. I didn't know I was doing so much wrong 😅 thank you for showing us the right way!

  • @lorilynn8014
    @lorilynn8014 2 года назад +1

    I love, love, love that you are a product minimalist! Less is more. Beautiful results!

  • @CurveTheRain
    @CurveTheRain 4 года назад +171

    “I’m not an expert” says the girl with BEAUTIFUL absolutely perfect curls. 🧐🧐
    Lies!!

  • @WRAPEDINSILK
    @WRAPEDINSILK 4 года назад +234

    Then how to control frizz at the roots?
    I did all the steps and let it air dry but the end of curls looked amazing but the roots buffed like crazy

    • @mmm2121
      @mmm2121 4 года назад +19

      I use a mousse that is designed for the roots which helped me a lot on controlling the frizz in my roots, you should try that too

    • @mmm2121
      @mmm2121 4 года назад +12

      Also applying a little bit of conditioner on your roots while showering might help too, just not too much

    • @kaylaren428
      @kaylaren428 4 года назад +5

      @@mmm2121 what's the brand of mousse u use?

    • @ImNotCallingYouALiar
      @ImNotCallingYouALiar 4 года назад +3

      WRAPEDINSILK Literally the same thing happened with me also! I'm wondering if I didn't saturate my hair enough with water

    • @chet6244
      @chet6244 4 года назад

      sameeeeee here!

  • @Mari-fz1pp
    @Mari-fz1pp 2 года назад +1

    I just now decided to look how to properly do my hair cause it's always in a bun, my mom would either put it in a ponytail or braid cause even though her hair is also curly she always wore it short which was good as a kid but now I want to learn different styles

  • @nadinem5981
    @nadinem5981 4 года назад +97

    The don’t picture is exactly my hair

  • @Lunaluna02-02
    @Lunaluna02-02 4 года назад +51

    This is the video Needed so badly bro. My hair is flatter than a table thank you so much🥺🥺

  • @serahm377
    @serahm377 3 года назад +2

    My parents didn't know how to treat curly hair so I grew up hating mine. After years of straightening my curls since middle school, I'm now 29 and trying to embrace my curls. I haven't straightened my hair in just over a year and I'm already noticing a massive difference in hair quality! My hairs grown twice as fast and it's gotten super freaking curly since I first stopped straightening. Now to cut off the straighter damaged ends and follow your tips! Maybe my hair will look this gorgeous someday! Thank you for this video! 😭💕

  • @mariahmonet3712
    @mariahmonet3712 4 года назад +71

    This is one of the most beneficial curly hair videos I have watched! 😍 Thanks, girly!

    • @jaymejo
      @jaymejo  4 года назад +2

      Mariah Mahon that makes me so happy!!!!

  • @karenquin5295
    @karenquin5295 4 года назад +314

    The don’ts are literally what I do with my daughters hair and I feel so bad now! I was thinking I had the wrong products but it’s me just ruining her hair 😭

    • @mollytaylor8122
      @mollytaylor8122 3 года назад +51

      Oh no! Don't feel bad - you tried your best! My mom would always blow dry the heck outta my hair and force it into a sort of a bob, so you're already doing a lot better than that 😂 How does her hair look now?

    • @karenquin5295
      @karenquin5295 3 года назад +14

      @@mollytaylor8122 it’s looking a little bit better. We still have some work to do. Still having a hard time with the frizz though and making sure it stays looking healthy and moisturized.

    • @rel4998
      @rel4998 3 года назад +35

      I think it's so wonderful that you're doing research on how to do your daughter's hair! Something that has helped reduce frizz near the top for me is making sure to blow dry my roots first (cold air with diffuser directly against scalp). A soggy scalp = frizzy crown!

    • @karenquin5295
      @karenquin5295 3 года назад

      @@rel4998 Thank you for the tip love! 💜

  • @ChawanHeminVlogs
    @ChawanHeminVlogs 3 года назад +160

    Beautiful!

  • @raspberryboo2
    @raspberryboo2 4 года назад +26

    Thank you! Im going to try this way. Usually i can only get my hair to look this good if I'm lucky and the weather is just right and my hormones are balanced and the sun and moon are in perfect alignment

    • @Hey_yeah
      @Hey_yeah 4 года назад +5

      rasp berryboo
      This isn’t really related to your comment but
      How are our names very similar???

    • @mollytaylor8122
      @mollytaylor8122 3 года назад

      Dear god I relate so hard 🤣

  • @dajenielramos123
    @dajenielramos123 4 года назад +49

    I tried the do’s and my hair is so curly all the way around my head my curls are starting at the top of my head instead of ear level the brushing method really helped my hair looked like the dont side ever since middle school now it’s full of volume and bigger

  • @brittanyborja8572
    @brittanyborja8572 7 месяцев назад

    I am 35 and have never done anything to my curls but add water! This is huge in helping me to make my hair way less frizzy and defining my curls at the roots. Thank you so much for this video! I am also buying my first diffuser today❤

  • @MissAnissaB
    @MissAnissaB 4 года назад +7

    The don'ts are not exaggerated. I have a white mother and a non-white father so I grew up clueless about my curls and the wet, greasy side of your head was me age 12. Even in my 30s I'm still learning. Thank you for your service to Type 3s!

  • @azzurra6440
    @azzurra6440 4 года назад +28

    Tips for me:
    Don't apply so much mousse
    Pull the brush away from the scalp instead of dragging down
    Scrunch the mousse in
    Hover the diffuser around and then lightly shake it, don't touch your hair, don't separate them, don't put it on the scalp
    Don't touch them until they're completely dry

    • @dedeez033
      @dedeez033 4 года назад

      She only used mousse for the do?

  • @muniebabdullah7959
    @muniebabdullah7959 4 месяца назад +1

    You're tips really help me with my hair 😘

  • @schlumbl84
    @schlumbl84 4 года назад +6

    I recently bought some John Frieda Curl Mousse. Can't wait to try it on my next wash day!I really appreciate your channel.I've learned that PATIENCE is really one of the key rules for beautiful curls.

  • @ralitsaurukova1106
    @ralitsaurukova1106 4 года назад +77

    I think we all curly lasses here at least know not to brush dry hair. That's the BIGGEST DON'T 🙅

  • @Sledgehannahgaming
    @Sledgehannahgaming 2 года назад +1

    Great video, thank you. I do have 2 questions if you don’t mind: 1 - how often do you do this styling? 2 - can I just air dry my hair? Because I don’t like using a hair dryer.

  • @saraidelafuente8562
    @saraidelafuente8562 4 года назад +77

    Girl can I just say that you are so gorgeous! Your eyes are wow! (‘: i can’t wait to try your tips! ! I’ve had curly hair my whole life and I never realized how bad Im styling my hair! 😂😭

  • @terrilemanu7194
    @terrilemanu7194 4 года назад +142

    Okay but the result of her “don’ts” isn’t as great as her “dos” but like low key... it’s not terrible 😂 Still better than my normal hair lol

  • @itslikesupernatural
    @itslikesupernatural 3 года назад +5

    You are such a radiant beauty, i got shocked when I clicked and you popped up like that. 🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @thejennifercatherine
    @thejennifercatherine 4 года назад +1087

    I think I’m the only person on the planet whose roots dry before the rest of my hair 😂😂😂

    • @delgermaadavaadorj9872
      @delgermaadavaadorj9872 4 года назад +39

      Jennifer Catherine nope. Same to me too.

    • @cheyenneosuala3216
      @cheyenneosuala3216 4 года назад +13

      Mine does too! 😭

    • @ListicPlay
      @ListicPlay 4 года назад +52

      Of course the roots dry first... your head is warm so it dries your roots

    • @mynamo12
      @mynamo12 4 года назад +15

      Lili Bili Lol what.

    • @ListicPlay
      @ListicPlay 4 года назад +30

      My Namo yes. After you shower, the hair near your head dries first, because it gives warmth. Or did I maybe misunderstand the comment?

  • @secession77
    @secession77 4 года назад +2280

    DO: have naturally curly hair
    DON'T: think you can achieve this with your damn straight hair by just following these steps

    • @zoelamur8519
      @zoelamur8519 4 года назад +32

      Lmao

    • @RanchoBellaVista503
      @RanchoBellaVista503 4 года назад +14

      Secession77 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @tifawt3736
      @tifawt3736 3 года назад +7

      Lol, right

    • @MLGRDR
      @MLGRDR 3 года назад +70

      the aggression

    • @heyboo9943
      @heyboo9943 3 года назад +131

      haha, yeah I guess, but I had very frizzy hair that I didn't think was curly but after researching apparently if you have a frizz you can achieve a curl and now after following lots of tips I have super curly hair!!!

  • @rubytuesday8719
    @rubytuesday8719 3 года назад

    This is genuinely the best curly hair video I've seen, a couple essential products and good techniques rather than an expensive list of creams gels and mouses. Thank you so much for making this

  • @9752088
    @9752088 4 года назад +5

    I will also say that another important part of curly hair is having a good, dynamic cut. As you can see with her hair, she has a variety of layers in her hair, a mixture of short and long. I think this contributes a lot to definition and body in curly hair

  • @user-sb9mv3yn4p
    @user-sb9mv3yn4p 4 года назад +105

    My with my straight hair: this video is 100% of use for me!

  • @sushmaraghavan7795
    @sushmaraghavan7795 Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing this routine.
    Giving this a try!
    Also, can you let me know your lipstick shade?

  • @MegaYvette2010
    @MegaYvette2010 4 года назад +20

    I got anxiety just watching the "dont's"....but eeek, I see that I am making a few of those mistakes. So thanks for this video, it was super helpful. You and your curls are gorgeous!

  • @NoFrillsTwins
    @NoFrillsTwins 4 года назад +585

    You are so cute. Love love love this video! xx

    • @subliminaleyecolor5279
      @subliminaleyecolor5279 4 года назад +1

      👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎👍👍👍👍👍👍

    • @FearGod333_
      @FearGod333_ 3 года назад

      Jesus Christ is The Lord !

    • @arionisgay4829
      @arionisgay4829 3 года назад

      @@FearGod333_ true that

  • @Xturnia
    @Xturnia 2 года назад +1

    Oh, the curls!! Might be the most beautiful locks I've ever seen.😍

  • @SimrohnIftekhar
    @SimrohnIftekhar 4 года назад +33

    10 minutes of me learning I've been doing absolutely everything wrong 👁👄👁 Thank you!!

  • @karimeist61
    @karimeist61 4 года назад +4

    I’ve been watching all of your videos and for the first time in 58 years I’m going to finally give in to my curls and try to start embracing them instead of straightening them every day! Thanks for all the great videos.

  • @darshanna-em9ui
    @darshanna-em9ui 2 года назад +1

    i can't decide if i want her hair or her eyes 😍

  • @melissaanderson3488
    @melissaanderson3488 4 года назад +14

    Ok but I need to know the lip color you're wearing! It's gorgeous!

  • @lindseymae4065
    @lindseymae4065 4 года назад +31

    I needed this video because my hair has turned out like it did on the right 😩 thank you for this curl queen 💗

  • @oreocookie3379
    @oreocookie3379 5 месяцев назад

    the amount of work for this video deserves a recognition 👏
    I have straight-wavy 01-02 hair. I actually love to make my hair frizzy because after I create curls they look like dirty hair, so I brush it a little to create that frizzy texture that nobody wants :))) and that creates a volume for me

  • @JocelynKetler
    @JocelynKetler 4 года назад +34

    I don’t even have curly hair, but I loved watching this lol

  • @sofiab3886
    @sofiab3886 4 года назад +11

    this makes me want to finally embrace my natural curls. i have been straightening for too long and its really damaging my hair

    • @asmin269
      @asmin269 4 года назад +3

      Ikr, i did the same mistake my entire life and i regret doing it.
      I love my curls now. I had really long hair but i straightened them 2 years back. I have cut those straightened hair but some are still left. I miss my hair length. I wish i hadn't done smoothening in the first place and endured my natural curls.

  • @k.kader_3202
    @k.kader_3202 2 года назад +1

    Hi I started to learn about my hair I just found out I have 2a/2b wavy/curly hair I always wonder why when my hair is completely dry on the front it’s curly in the middle wavy and then in the back kinda straight but not so straight 😅 and I tried the thinks on RUclips bought some products and yeah now I found out I did all the dont’s well I still learn and I definitely try it out when I wash my hair 🫶🏽 thanks

  • @benny-jv1yh
    @benny-jv1yh 4 года назад +5

    i used to do most of the "don'ts" you literally saved my life thank u sm 😭

  • @adriannealy2526
    @adriannealy2526 4 года назад +4

    Even though i’m a 4c natural, i’m definitely going to take the brush direction tips because I want VOLUME for days!

    • @sprinkleofBella
      @sprinkleofBella 4 года назад

      i love your hair on your pfp it’s gorgeous!! i have 2a- 2b waves (so nothing really but i’ve straightened my hair so much it doesn’t have any wave anymore :( )

  • @sandrabuckingham5103
    @sandrabuckingham5103 Год назад

    You're such a beauty. I'm 53 years young. And I can totally relate to all of the don'ts. I confess that I've done them all sprinkled throughout my lifetime. I seriously couldn't stop giggling!!

  • @Rebeccaa220
    @Rebeccaa220 4 года назад +17

    I needed this so bad! Meeting my boyfriends parents tomorrow and I really want to make sure my hair looks incredible, now I know exactly how to do it right every time. love you Jayme!

    • @kweenbrook
      @kweenbrook 4 года назад +3

      I hope you make a good impression!

    • @red0573
      @red0573 4 года назад +3

      how did it go?

  • @ericalouise2008
    @ericalouise2008 4 года назад +8

    omg your curls are my goal !!! Next wash day I'm following your tips . I know I won't get the same results as I'm sure my hair is more type 2 with the odd type 3 curl hidden in there . but if I can get a better definition of my curls then I'm happy .

  • @muniebabdullah7959
    @muniebabdullah7959 4 месяца назад +1

    You're tips really help me with my curly hair 😎👍

  • @toobataqi1048
    @toobataqi1048 4 года назад +9

    The do’s and don’ts are such a big transition!!! Im...... no wonder my hair looks like shit. I love you for this jo

  • @mildredgil8061
    @mildredgil8061 2 года назад +1

    Not me doing everything you said not to. I have 3c/3b hair and I thought my roots were just meant to be looking dead and straight. But seeing the way it affected your perfectly curly and healthy hair is sooo helpful. Changing my styling ways rn!

  • @SilsaLopez
    @SilsaLopez 4 года назад +69

    Me: *Watches* ....
    Me: *Gets out of bed at 5:13 A.M just to fix my hair*

  • @Anonymous-fj2uo
    @Anonymous-fj2uo 4 года назад +25

    Oooh that's why my hair looked and felt so weird after diffusing lol!

  • @milodim9203
    @milodim9203 3 года назад +2

    I can not tell you how much this video helped me. You’re so great at explaining AND giving visuals!!!

  • @lubnamirza1622
    @lubnamirza1622 3 года назад +4

    I'm amazed that you actually went thru the process of putting the product on the wrong way and putting it on the right way. MVP for real! 👏

  • @dancemomsedits1990
    @dancemomsedits1990 4 года назад +8

    came straight from Instagram from how excited I was!! THANK YOU

    • @jaymejo
      @jaymejo  4 года назад +1

      dancemomsedits yayy!!!!

  • @Taralizsavelo
    @Taralizsavelo 2 года назад

    I’m loving this comment section it feels like a curly support group ❤️

  • @lana-gf5rk
    @lana-gf5rk 4 года назад +7

    *ive been doing all the donts and it looks exactly like yours when you do the donts so I did all the dos and it looks exactly like yours now 😌😌*

    • @mollytaylor8122
      @mollytaylor8122 3 года назад

      Omg you must be drop dead gorgeous! Hope my hair turns out as nicely after I start following her tips, too!

    • @lana-gf5rk
      @lana-gf5rk 3 года назад

      @@mollytaylor8122 I’ve been following her for like a year now

  • @snailkiss3s
    @snailkiss3s 4 года назад +6

    I didn’t realize how many of the donts i do😳love this vid, ty!!

  • @cassandramonique_
    @cassandramonique_ 3 года назад

    10/10 video. You can tell you thought very carefully with each technique and it so helpful to see the dos and don’ts simultaneously!!

  • @spisie130
    @spisie130 4 года назад +8

    I have a very very similar curl pattern, and I just started my “curly journey” and cannot wait for my hair to grow out and look similar to how bomb yours does

  • @KatieKat518
    @KatieKat518 4 года назад +17

    Oh my goodness, what lipstick are you wearing? Also, your hair is perfection!!!!