We LOST our 2nd Baby to Miscarriage | Pregnancy Loss | 90 Day Fiancé | A Pregnancy Story

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  • Опубликовано: 14 окт 2024

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  • @bilalandshaeeda
    @bilalandshaeeda  2 месяца назад +931

    Our 2nd miscarriage was recorded 4 months ago. It’s not as recent as you may think. It took us time to heal and yes, now we are ready to share it with the world! We are no longer suffering through this loss but we have moved on, healed and put our trust and faith in God. ❤

    • @saketha8581
      @saketha8581 2 месяца назад +7

      😢

    • @tamaramkandawire4599
      @tamaramkandawire4599 2 месяца назад +19

      God bless you!! I pray God protects your next pregnancy!! No weapon against you shall prosper🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

    • @saudiyahussain6945
      @saudiyahussain6945 2 месяца назад +20

      I'm genuinely sorry for your loss. May Allah bless you with many kids of your own inshaAllah 🤲🏻

    • @saudiyahussain6945
      @saudiyahussain6945 2 месяца назад +47

      As soon as you guys find out you're pregnant again please don't tell any family members just keep it between you and Bilal, evil eyes are real, we never know where it could come from. Also from the moment you get a + test please stop doing everything and just stay on bed rest... I wish you all the best for next time inshaAllah ❤

    • @CherrrrBear
      @CherrrrBear 2 месяца назад +6

      I’m am so so sorry!!! ❤ thinking about you! This is such a hard experience to go through! I feel you will get your rainbow baby! Keep your faith strong ❤

  • @marya7862
    @marya7862 2 месяца назад +709

    Me and my husband tried since we were 33 years old. Finally at age 39 i got pregnant and we couldn’t believe it!!! Finally!!!! However we lost our baby at 8 weeks, fast forward 7 months the later……..pregnant again the month before i turned 40!!!! Again lost our baby at 8 weeks! Both missed miscarriages. The devastation is indescribable and so is the pain. We thought about giving up, but something inside of me thought this….”god wouldn’t bring me this far just to BRING me this far”, let’s try again, April of this year 2024 we got pregnant. This baby is sticking!!!!! We have made it to the second trimester and i expect to hold our child Jan 2025!! I will be 41 tomorrow!!! Please keep trying 🎉❤god bless you both!

    • @vernesacharles-rj1pv
      @vernesacharles-rj1pv 2 месяца назад +22

      I cried reading this 🙏

    • @stefanierahn1558
      @stefanierahn1558 2 месяца назад

      All the very best for you!!!❤
      Reading your words gives me hope as I have been diagnosed with endometriosis and almost no ovules left in my body earlier this year. Managed to freeze 2 ovules for a potential IVF so far…
      I have been hoping for Shaeeda to fulfill her dream of becoming a mum ever since I first saw her on 90 Day Fiancé 🫶🏻
      Sending good thoughts to all the ladies out there who have to fight harder than others for what could be much easier …. Don’t give up!!! 💙🩷🩵💜

    • @stefanierahn1558
      @stefanierahn1558 2 месяца назад +4

      And a very Happy Birthday to you! ❤️🌹

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 2 месяца назад +8

      Everything will work out!!

    • @YourlashTherapist
      @YourlashTherapist 2 месяца назад +24

      I’m due Jan 2025 too after 14 years of trying. God bless you

  • @makedadegannes5173
    @makedadegannes5173 2 месяца назад +117

    Sheeda made me cry. No need to be embarrassed, sis. I was where you are, and I shed many, many years trying unsuccessfully to become pregnant. Today, I have 2 beautiful girls.

    • @bev4231
      @bev4231 2 месяца назад +2

      Me too, she made me teared-up. You guys show so much love to each other, one day you will be holding your baby in your arms Shaeeda. I know saying this is easier than what you are experiencing, but try very hard not to stress, it will affect your health. Bilal, continue taking great care of your beautiful and wonderful wife. Loving and beautiful couple. I will lift you guys up in pray. ❤😇

  • @hasnaabdurahman9819
    @hasnaabdurahman9819 2 месяца назад +114

    I normally don’t do comment but I hope sharing my story will help…During Covid, I suffered 3 miscarriages back to back. I didn’t give up. A few months later, I found out I was pregnant and had my first child in 2022. Allah didn’t stop there, he blessed me with my 2nd child in 2023 and my 3rd one a months ago. God gave me 3 kids back to back without my plan. My dear, trust Allah’s plan, he has better things for you. Just be patients and don’t give up InshaAllah!

    • @HolySpiritInspired
      @HolySpiritInspired 2 месяца назад +4

      Allah doesn’t give children Jesus Christ the living God does gives children

    • @desu1adam410
      @desu1adam410 2 месяца назад +2

      @@HolySpiritInspired I was thinking the same thing. What she is doing: showing her make uped face is punishable by death in most if not all muslim countries.

    • @Hana-hb7lq
      @Hana-hb7lq 2 месяца назад +7

      @@HolySpiritInspiredA man gives you children? Jesus pbuh was a prophet not God. God does not take human form. Subhan’Allah pray Allah guides you to the truth.

    • @sucessfulwife
      @sucessfulwife Месяц назад +1

      May Allah bless you and your children 💕🩷💕✨✨✨

    • @latyakent
      @latyakent Месяц назад

      All glory be to God!! I'm so happy for you genuinely I, hope you enjoy your life with your babies and may you always be covered in grace, mercy and blessings!! From Portland Oregon

  • @micheleduda6663
    @micheleduda6663 2 месяца назад +49

    I and my husband tried for 13 years and 3 miscarriages and even went through iVF twice and almost lost my life. And my husband said Absolutely NO More! If GOD wants it to happen it will and I was so sad and angry because I just wanted a baby and inside I felt devastated. And guess what when we gave up and I finally just focused mentally and physically and emotionally on myself and kept going forward and I truly felt okay it’s not meant to be and at the time my mom got very sick and needed me and let me say that through taking care of my mom who was my best friend. She looked at me one day and said I need to tell you something when the day comes and GOD takes me please know that it’s not bye my doing it’s his plan but I promise you when I get my wings . You will know because I will send you a BLESSING and you shall know I am watching from above. Let me tell you because of all my sadness I finally found joy. One year to the day my mother passed away OUR SON WAS BORN and My Mother was in Heaven and got her wings! May you both be strong and keep your faith in God and you will see that miracles do come true ❤❤❤ JUST BELIEVE

    • @mzj7246
      @mzj7246 2 месяца назад +4

      Wow such an awesome testimony To God Be The Glory. May God continue to bless you and ur family abundantly. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @micheleduda6663
      @micheleduda6663 Месяц назад

      @@mzj7246 Thank you 🙏

  • @moo777
    @moo777 2 месяца назад +26

    You'll have your rainbow baby ❤ it happens! I'm having my rainbow baby in a week so don't lose hope ever! ♡ I'm rooting for, yall!

  • @kaylevy5694
    @kaylevy5694 2 месяца назад +177

    Shi has me crying over here. I am so sorry, Bilal and Shaeeda. I am rooting for both of you; you will have your baby. 🙏

  • @katehudson6490
    @katehudson6490 2 месяца назад +39

    Bilal, I know you know this, but you are very blessed to have Shaeeda as your wife. She has to be one of the most beautiful (inside and out) loving, good woman and wife. Her spirit is pure.

  • @lavender9757
    @lavender9757 2 месяца назад +73

    Sorry sweetheart, I pray that you can one day have a baby.
    I can see you want this so badly.❤

  • @nikasongbird
    @nikasongbird 2 месяца назад +46

    Please don't be embarrassed.I have a similar story...I understand how devastating it is. As other women have stated you are not alone. I had 2 back to back miscarriages first one in August 2022 and the second one in April 2023. My sister was also 8 weeks ahead of me so we were on that journey together. Her pregnancy journey continued and unfortunately, for the second time in a row, mine was over.But, God is faithful, and I became pregnant again in June 2023, just a couple months after. On March 1 of 2024, at 39 years old, I delivered a perfect little baby, just as God promised. My Dr. Is amazing she reminded me that although I experienced pregnancy loss. I had no problem getting pregnant, and that was a good sign. So I would like to remind you of the same.I believe that the most high will bless you and your husband with a healthy full term pregnancy and beautiful healthy baby❤🙏🏽

  • @Nabila.
    @Nabila. 2 месяца назад +168

    This is nothing to be embarrassed about Bella. You are not alone in this struggle, May Allah accept our duas and bless all of the women praying for children. Insha Allah our time will come ❤❤❤❤

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  2 месяца назад +14

      Thank you so much ❤❤❤❤

    • @Z33_Baby
      @Z33_Baby 2 месяца назад

      Both of you guys have to change your diet and eat healthy, plus he the problem, his sperm that cause the miscarriages. Not the women fault. Doctors wanna blame the wome for the cause... he need to go get check. His sperms that cause it .

    • @hadijahamal7980
      @hadijahamal7980 2 месяца назад +6

      ❤ AMEEN YA RABBI AMEEN 🙏.

    • @mimichow1966
      @mimichow1966 2 месяца назад +5

      So sorry about the other 2 losses. I had 2 losses too before I had my son. The ob gave me progesterone pills to insert .. helps strengthen the placenta.. for first 3 months. You put it in and go to bed. Can't get out of bed after. It worked. Have one big boy now.. he's a teenager.

    • @purpleyellow9617
      @purpleyellow9617 2 месяца назад

      ​@@bilalandshaeeda IVF IVF IVF IVF!!! It only takes 10 days to complete the shots & go to egg Retrieval. And then 5 days later you will see how many embryos are created. PGT-A testing shows you which embryos are viable & stable enough for pregnancy. And then about 1 month later you can have the embryo transfer. Really in 2 months you could have a whole freezer of potential babies & be pregnant. The biggest "obstacle" of IVF is your own doubt. I really hope you can look into ivf. I know you will be successful. All the best 😊

  • @daphney8604
    @daphney8604 2 месяца назад +65

    Shaeeda I saw a tik tok of a man whose wife was miscarrying he said miscarriage was happening because her uterus wasn’t strong enough to hold the baby so he made his wife beetroot juice 3x a week in the beginning of the pregnancy which helps strengthen the uterus. It helped his wife finally be able to carry full term. You will be a mother don’t give up.❤ sending prayers 🙏🏾

    • @hadijahamal7980
      @hadijahamal7980 2 месяца назад +2

      ❤OH GOD,THANK YOU FOR TELLING THIS,I PRAY BILAL START TO PREPARE BEETROOT JUICE RIGHT 😊 AWAY INSHA'ALLAH 🙏. PLEASE SHI TAKE THIS JUICE INSHA'ALLAH 🙏.

    • @valentinerakotomalala6208
      @valentinerakotomalala6208 2 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing this. I will do it starting today ❤❤❤

  • @lifeisablessing247
    @lifeisablessing247 2 месяца назад +45

    Oh Shae you bought tears to my eyes when you said that you feel so embarrassed. I can assure you that you should feel no shame in experiencing a miscarriage. It is as normal to have one, just as it is to bring forth life. ❤ In the most high's timing you will one day get to hold your blessings in your hands ❤

  • @Jazztho_
    @Jazztho_ 2 месяца назад +83

    I had 3 miscarriages before I had my 2 babies! I’m not sure why many woman experience miscarriages before actually conceiving but you will get your baby!! I know ppl who have kids in their late 40s

    • @hadijahamal7980
      @hadijahamal7980 2 месяца назад +4

      ❤❤❤THANK YOU 😊.MAY GOD BLESS THEM WITH BABIES 💐.

    • @katehudson6490
      @katehudson6490 2 месяца назад +2

      God bless you! ❤

    • @LalaaCherry
      @LalaaCherry 2 месяца назад +2

      Omg nooooooooo😢 I’m so sorry 😢

    • @Camvi6538
      @Camvi6538 2 месяца назад +4

      I also had 3 miscarriages. I’m 29 and i hope i can have atleast one.

    • @hadijahamal7980
      @hadijahamal7980 2 месяца назад

      @@Camvi6538 MAY GOD INTERVENE DEAR❤.

  • @TheChipster999
    @TheChipster999 2 месяца назад +39

    So sorry to hear about your 2nd miscarriage, Shaeeda.
    Don't give up. One of my best friend's daughter-in-law had a few miscarriages (about 2 or 3), and the doctors couldn't find any medical reason why.
    Eventually, she was able to successfully carry a pregnancy to term and gave birth to a healthy baby.
    So, keep the faith. Everything happens for a reason.
    I can't wait to see you holding your newborn in your arms, with Bilal looking on with love and pride.🙏🙏🙏🤗❤️

  • @allyssahoutman4588
    @allyssahoutman4588 2 месяца назад +38

    I'm sorry momma. I felt this video so deeply. I suffered 5 back to back miscarriages last year, my last was a baby girl. What I will say is don't give up praying for your baby, God will walk you through this with grace, he will cover you with a blanket of healing. I was blessed with my miracle baby boy this april and I believe you will be blessed with yours. I learned it's not in my timing and when I want things but in God's timing and plan he has for us. I'll never understand why things like this happen but I rest in the fact there is a bigger reason and purpose. Sending prayers and blessings your way!!!🙌🏾

  • @normajones2700
    @normajones2700 2 месяца назад +56

    I know what it feels like, my dear I lost and never conceived again but we adopted my son and I love him he didn't grow in my womb but he grew in my heart

    • @Chrisbackgroovey
      @Chrisbackgroovey 2 месяца назад +1

      He was born in your heart ❤

    • @shera4376
      @shera4376 2 месяца назад +1

      Beautiful answer. Baby found the perfect parents❤❤❤ Blessings on your beautiful family

    • @farahjoseph
      @farahjoseph 2 месяца назад +1

      Awwwww! God bless

  • @Sylas.
    @Sylas. 2 месяца назад +5

    I’m deeply sorry to hear about the loss. My heart goes out to both of you. Be gentle with yourself during this time and know that it’s okay to grieve and seek support. You are not alone, and there are people who care about you and want to help you through this. Sending you strength and comforting thoughts.

  • @and.p.146
    @and.p.146 2 месяца назад +54

    Those babies will wait for you in paradise. Sorry for your loss

    • @YazzMina
      @YazzMina 2 месяца назад +3

      That is a beautiful thing to say 🤲🏼🥰

    • @ckdots5698
      @ckdots5698 2 месяца назад +1

      @@YazzMinayes it was 😔 it truly was beautiful

  • @getrudekaitlyn2364
    @getrudekaitlyn2364 2 месяца назад +12

    I am 25 y/o and 28 weeks pregnant. It was unexpected and my baby's father denied responsibility. I count my blessings for the fact that I am pregnant yes it saddens me that you are struggling with it honestly. I wish you luck in your journey towards having a baby. May God bless you and keep you strong ❤

    • @Sharonrosenschein
      @Sharonrosenschein 2 месяца назад +2

      May God bless you as well, well wishes in your pregnancy!💗💗

  • @ianfassy
    @ianfassy 2 месяца назад +19

    I’m so sorry for the second loss. Dont give up hope guys. You will make beautiful parents because you already are to the other kids. Love and light ❤️

  • @Brenda-u1
    @Brenda-u1 2 месяца назад +6

    This happened so many times to me. I had one child but the second did not come easily. I was so broken hearted each time it happened and we prayed for another. Once I reached a certain age I decided to give up, that month I was pregnant. I thought it was going to be another miscarriage but it was a good pregnancy and now I have two adult children and one grandchild. God is good. Make sure you go to a good doctor, my problem had to do with the lining of my uterus. I was given progesterone. Will pray for y’all. ❤️ Brenda

  • @melissamorgan8034
    @melissamorgan8034 2 месяца назад +77

    You will carry your children very soon in Jesus name 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @makeupandmayhem7490
    @makeupandmayhem7490 2 месяца назад +7

    Your body was doing everything it should be doing. You have nothing to be embarrassed about. None of this is your fault, your body knows what to do. I pray you are blessed soon with your baby❤

  • @BarbraNyashega
    @BarbraNyashega 2 месяца назад +48

    It is well.dont loose hope.my sister got married at 36,37 had 2 miscarriages, 37 got pregnant again and God blessed her with a baby girl

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  2 месяца назад +8

      Thank you for giving us hope ❤

    • @Dantor1990
      @Dantor1990 2 месяца назад +1

      Mrs Shaeeda needs to go to the doctor to clean.

  • @tiffanytoorie2937
    @tiffanytoorie2937 2 месяца назад +25

    My husband aunt may she R.I.P stopped counting her miscarriages after 7 her last "failed" pregnancy was a baby of nine months stillborn babygirl. After that another pregnancy. Her son is in his 30s living a happy healthy great life and he's a really cool guy. Every woman's path is different never forget God doesn't fail.

    • @CC-uq7cv
      @CC-uq7cv 2 месяца назад +1

      I don’t understand your comment. You said the baby was still born and then said her son is 30…???

    • @tiffanytoorie2937
      @tiffanytoorie2937 2 месяца назад

      @@CC-uq7cv OK I'll adjust it

    • @lillies4023
      @lillies4023 2 месяца назад

      @@CC-uq7cvyou missed
      “After that another pregnancy. Her son…” ❤❤

  • @lavender9757
    @lavender9757 2 месяца назад +13

    So sorry, it broke my heart watching you cry .
    Keep trying.
    I send my love❤
    From just a random mother of 3 here in UK

  • @BrendaMendoza-ds1we
    @BrendaMendoza-ds1we 2 месяца назад +4

    I am so sorry. Thank you for sharing because I remember when I suffered my first loss I felt so so alone. By my 3rd loss I felt less alone thankfully but it always sucks and I'm sorry you guys are dealing with it. I've been following your journey since 90 days.

  • @cataleyae9146
    @cataleyae9146 2 месяца назад +63

    For everyone commenting on her making the announcement so soon, I think it's notable to remember Ramadan was earlier this year.

  • @jeanettefurneau4579
    @jeanettefurneau4579 2 месяца назад +8

    So so sorry to hear that i lost my first baby when i was six months pregnant then god bless me with a daughter then i lost another four babies then i was blessed with another daughter then lost another one and now my daughters are 46yrs and 42yrs so dont loose hope miracles do happens sending you lots of love and hugs. From Perth western Australia ❤️❤️❤️

  • @niierkan2022
    @niierkan2022 2 месяца назад +43

    See if the doctor recommended taking a 80mg baby aspirin once a day until you are pregnant until 6 weeks then a low dose blood thinner. That was what I needed years ago when I kept miscarrying 6 times. Then I was able to hold my pregnancy after being treated with aspirin then heparin . A rheumatologist recommend that. It helps with blood flow to keep the embryo viable and not miscarrying. Good luck and God bless you both💝

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  2 месяца назад +8

      Thanks for the suggestion ❤

    • @niierkan2022
      @niierkan2022 2 месяца назад

      @@bilalandshaeeda You welcome

    • @hadijahamal7980
      @hadijahamal7980 2 месяца назад +2

      THANKS DEAR❤.

    • @lolzz457
      @lolzz457 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@bilalandshaeeda have your estrogen and progesterone levels checked. I did IVF when I was 35. About 2 weeks before the embryo transfer I would start taking the estrogen and progesterone to help thicken the lining and after becoming pregnant I can't remember exactly but I believe I took it until I was like 14-15 weeks pregnant somewhere around there. I wasn't on aspirin but I have heard of that as it can be an issue for some women. I think the estrogen/progesterone levels are certainly important though because we did 4 embryo transfers and only the last worked and that was when they quadrupled the dose....it was so much that the pharmacist couldn't give it to me the way it was prescribed but he did say that if he gave me a home delivery of my medicine then I would get 3 months worth at a time and that would give me enough medication to take it like the Dr had written it for....God bless him because he had been the our pharmacist for years and knew of and asked about our IVF frequently he was really very sweet❤ We have since moved and I do miss him❤ Anyway good luck, it will happen I'm sure of it❤

    • @chrissis.6140
      @chrissis.6140 2 месяца назад

      A blood clotting problem could be the reason for miscarriages (they found that I have a "factor 5 mutation" after a risky birth with my first one - in retrospect it was a miracle that I 1) got pregnant and 2) the pregnancy held because they also found that I had Hashimoto thyroid disease) so with my second pregnancy I had to do daily injections of heparin and take aspirin100 so that nothing happens that might risk loosing the baby. Thyroid and blood issues are a major reason for miscarriages. May the Lord be with you and give you strength and hopefully a much-anticipated child. ❤️🙏

  • @Monicahilts0513
    @Monicahilts0513 2 месяца назад +24

    I suffered 2 miscarriages back to back after having one daughter via c section 3 years prior. Then I got pregnant right away for the 4th time and the drs said no let’s perform a dnc you’re not ready blah blah I said no if god wished for me to get pregnant and have a child then gods will, will be done. Let’s say my son just now turned 26 &&&&&& his baby sister just turned 25. They are 10 months apart to the day!!!! Gods will was done. My prayers of strength to you both and Allah willllll allow his will to be granted!!

    • @hadijahamal7980
      @hadijahamal7980 2 месяца назад +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ AMEEN YA RABBI AMEEN 🙏.MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL 💛 CHILDREN DEAREST 💐.

    • @Monicahilts0513
      @Monicahilts0513 2 месяца назад

      @@hadijahamal7980 ty

  • @gizzy1223
    @gizzy1223 2 месяца назад +6

    Omg I know this happened like 5 months ago, but you are making me cry Shaeeda. You should never feel embarrassed for anything that’s happening to you or anything you are sharing. I know it’s been months and you have healed but I pray you continue to heal and get stronger.

  • @jen27177
    @jen27177 2 месяца назад +14

    Sigh miscarriages are one of the most painful things you can experience. I had one in march and I’m still not over it :/ I just wish this was one of those things no one ever goes through.

    • @taylorchidester2707
      @taylorchidester2707 2 месяца назад

      I also had a miscarriage in March and I'm not over it either. :/ I just don't understand.

    • @jen27177
      @jen27177 2 месяца назад

      @@taylorchidester2707 same virtual hug. The ttc journey is one of the most difficult journeys ever. We’ve been trying to convince again and it’s just been negatives

    • @taylorchidester2707
      @taylorchidester2707 2 месяца назад

      @@jen27177 virtual hug! I've been too scared to try again! I'm scared to get to the ultrasound and see there's no heartbeat again.

  • @terry-annrussell-vt9ik
    @terry-annrussell-vt9ik 2 месяца назад +11

    Reading is very fundamental a lot of people are commenting about her announcing it she didn't until now. Shaeeda, I'm sorry you went through this. Your time will happen soon.

  • @chardawk
    @chardawk 2 месяца назад +2

    Praying for you both. I started my journey about 3 years ago and today I’m 6-weeks pregnant! (Started at 36 now 39)This was my second round of IVF so i do feel fortunate but the journey ends when I’m holding my baby. Wishing the best for you both and your future plans to expand the family! Keep the faith!
    Also, i tried naturally but wasn’t successful. Turns out because of my pcos i had hormones imbalances so I’m taking progesterone until week 13. Highly recommend you see a specialist because you never know if its a chemical issue that will reoccur.

  • @ZainabMotiagure
    @ZainabMotiagure 2 месяца назад +61

    I miscarried just last week, I'm yet over it, the stomachache, some bleeding and the pain to loose it😢, Allah will bless us, just keep having faith.

    • @Tss0314
      @Tss0314 2 месяца назад +5

      I’m so sorry loss. Praying for your wholesome healing. Rest and take good care

    • @Lietotajvards9
      @Lietotajvards9 2 месяца назад +1

      Allah wont help you. In quaran we read that Allah deceives. Do your research and dont believe Allah. Jesus Christ from Nazareth is the only God and way, the truth and the life.

    • @kaylevy5694
      @kaylevy5694 2 месяца назад

      @@ZainabMotiagure 💖

    • @hadijahamal7980
      @hadijahamal7980 2 месяца назад +1

      MAY ALLAH HAVE MERCY ON YOU DEAR.

    • @CharTV0104
      @CharTV0104 2 месяца назад

      @@ZainabMotiagure I’m sorry for your loss 😞❤️

  • @sf5218
    @sf5218 2 месяца назад +4

    Be strong and of good courage. No one can tell you how to feel, but I’m sorry that you feel embarrassed when you didn’t do anything wrong!
    Many women go through this journey. I hope that you seek a specialist. There’s a family I follow that most of the daughters have a blood clotting disorder which causes miscarriages; hence, their pregnancies are high risk. I hope and pray that you’ll get answers.
    Wishing you all the best!

  • @tifneyc7989
    @tifneyc7989 2 месяца назад +6

    Praying for you. I suffered 2 miscarriages back to back within a year, and now I’m 33 weeks pregnant. It can, and it will happen. You got this ❤

    • @aleesharenea1334
      @aleesharenea1334 2 месяца назад +1

      Congrats on your rainbow baby

    • @tifneyc7989
      @tifneyc7989 2 месяца назад

      @@aleesharenea1334 thank you so much 🫶🏾

  • @julietastes181
    @julietastes181 2 месяца назад +12

    Ya rabi , Allah will grant you with a child when he thinks it is the best time. I am sorry for the heartbreak. 😢🤲

  • @Banana12813
    @Banana12813 2 месяца назад +4

    I commented on your previous miscarriage video but i will comment again. Do not get discourage! Your time will come I can see it. I didn't understand why God allowed me to have a miscarriage but now that i have a almost 3 years old i understood that he wanted me to have a baby at the right time. I still to this day cry for my first baby but i know when my time is up I will get to see him/her.

  • @UnpopularOpinionByNkiruka
    @UnpopularOpinionByNkiruka 2 месяца назад +60

    I would suggest going to a fertility specialist just to see why the miscarriages keep happening or to check out everything to make sure everything is okay.

    • @marywoods5809
      @marywoods5809 2 месяца назад +10

      My friend she’s had seven miscarriages now she’s has 4 kids one on the way

    • @Yaclenne
      @Yaclenne 2 месяца назад +1

      I think so too

    • @kallanaBr
      @kallanaBr 2 месяца назад +1

      Yes

    • @CharTV0104
      @CharTV0104 2 месяца назад +3

      That wouldn’t be a bad idea at all.

    • @courtneyboudreau4284
      @courtneyboudreau4284 2 месяца назад +2

      Well obviously there's something wrong genetically they're not able to develop strong enough could be chromosomes could be self. Who knows. Maybe you don't have enough or strong enough eggs. Maybe do some research on why and maybe that would help you. God bless your journey

  • @sishanavarro2813
    @sishanavarro2813 2 месяца назад +1

    I’m so sorry to hear this. The pain you have experienced is so real and absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. It took my husband and I ten years to have our first. Recurrent miscarriage and years of frustration and pain. It took us a long time to decide to see a reproductive endocrinologist or fertility specialist but I wish so much we had done it sooner. That journey was also difficult but it gave us a solid plan to create success. It took two years but our first son was born healthy. I know everyone has different feelings about this subject but I just cannot express how much I recommend seeing a specialist at this point. Recurrent miscarriage is typically a sign of an issue on one or both sides. Seeing a specialist can get to the core of that problem and set you on a path to baby. There are several options some less invasive and some obviously more if you need to go the full IVF route. But I just want to prevent anyone from going thru the anguish we did for years. I’m praying Allah brings comfort swiftly and that with healing, prayer and maybe even alittle science along the way your baby is in the very near future. ❤

  • @smack8531
    @smack8531 2 месяца назад +10

    Shaeeda, my prayer for you is that by this time next year your tears will be tears of joy. May God grant you the fruit of your womb and may you be blessed with double your portion. I have faith that you will see the glory of God manifest in your life. Your family is in my prayers.

  • @victoriaharris8543
    @victoriaharris8543 2 месяца назад +1

    Yall are the only couple I’ve followed and like. There’s something very endearing and calming about your wife . I’m so sorry. I’ve been pregnant 13 times 1 unfortunate pregnancy I terminated 3 alive children and the rest miscarriages. On my last miscarriage I was in the hospital crying and my doctor said my wife had 7 and our youngest just started college so stay hopeful prayful and loving towards each other and self . Please I can’t tell you about your feelings of embarrassment cuz you can’t control a person emotions or nor should you but beautiful I see children I see you as a loving nurturing mommy please try to stay positive and there is no reason for you to be embarrassed at all . Sending love and light ❤

  • @muduo44
    @muduo44 2 месяца назад +166

    Please avoid announcing pregnancy for at least three months in order to protect the little one from an evil eye. Keep on trying you are almost there.

    • @SeminarioMAE
      @SeminarioMAE 2 месяца назад +6

      grow up

    • @emmily2693
      @emmily2693 2 месяца назад +16

      The best advice ❤ she should keep it for herself however much want to hear the good news.

    • @emmily2693
      @emmily2693 2 месяца назад +14

      My favorite couple kindly, if Allah bless u again, don't announce it. Just suprise us with a baby bump. Evil eyes are everywhere. I think u should also stop the yoga things.

    • @marywoods5809
      @marywoods5809 2 месяца назад +4

      If you don’t work in the obgyn stop giving advice they live in my hometown Kansas city

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  2 месяца назад +58

      Thanks but this video is not recent it was recorded almost 5 months ago ❤

  • @mybeautyylife4342
    @mybeautyylife4342 2 месяца назад +1

    When you mentioned being “embarrassed”, I wanted to reach through the camera and give you a hug. As women, we feel great pressure to have babies swiftly and smoothly. Please do not feel embarrassed. It is not your fault. Soon you will be blessed, I am very hopeful. Sending love your way ❤️

  • @mayaaisha
    @mayaaisha 2 месяца назад +4

    I am so sorry for the both of you. But The Great Mother is watching over you and you will succeed in having your baby. I had a cousin who suffered 7 misscarriages before she finally had her baby boy. So dont give up hope. All the best to the both of you ❤️.

  • @Love_YT433
    @Love_YT433 2 месяца назад +13

    the part when she said "im embarrassed" absolutely broke me😪So hurt for you.

  • @jacquelineholloman5283
    @jacquelineholloman5283 2 месяца назад +5

    DONT FEEL EMBARRASSED..God got you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @mrs.gemini7119
    @mrs.gemini7119 2 месяца назад +1

    So sorry for yall loss! Yall didnt have to share with us but yall did thank you guys! God bless you guys when yall rainbow baby does happen we' ll be rejoicing with yall! Be encouraged! 🙏🏽💙🙏🏽

  • @pamelawilliams5143
    @pamelawilliams5143 2 месяца назад +12

    So sorry for your losing your pregnancy. Don’t give up

  • @NanaNan1
    @NanaNan1 Месяц назад

    Admittedly, I wasn’t sure in the beginning after the whole house intro… but I understood it. We started watching the show (my granddaughter & I-though I cover her eyes during “cringing parts” - before I get hate for letting her watch it- but she’s seen worse and at home).I find you both insightful in your own way and a terrific match.. You are respectful of each other and others, so a breathe of fresh air. We wish you well on your journey and our thoughts and prayers are with you.

  • @norayforrest7185
    @norayforrest7185 2 месяца назад +7

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Please don't give up hope.

  • @Kay091-ew3qi
    @Kay091-ew3qi 2 месяца назад +2

    Keep faith and be patient! You're glowing. It'll happen one day ❤

  • @princessinfinty
    @princessinfinty 2 месяца назад +58

    Lord, I cried so much...Father God, let our tears not be in vain. We are claiming the success of a healthy child for this beautiful couple in the name of Jesus. Bilal, I want to say thank you for being a supportive and wonderful husband to Shaeeda. I love you guys so much. ❤

    • @kreole0834
      @kreole0834 2 месяца назад +4

      In the name of GOD!!

    • @KnowNothing-d3p
      @KnowNothing-d3p 2 месяца назад +2

      Jesus is a noble messenger and the messiah but there is only 1 god and nothing like him. Everything is in the Almighty's name only. May the Almighty gave them success ameen

    • @soniacooper6278
      @soniacooper6278 2 месяца назад +2

      Amen

    • @electratrinidad810
      @electratrinidad810 2 месяца назад +3

      Amen 🙏

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  2 месяца назад +7

      We really appreciate your comment ❤

  • @heavensjo
    @heavensjo 2 месяца назад +1

    There's no embarrassment hun. We stand with you. It's a difficult thing to experience a miscarriage. May God bless you and grant you your rainbow baby.

  • @abbilisiastephens7588
    @abbilisiastephens7588 2 месяца назад +8

    Praying that you have that rainbow after the storm.

  • @RogandKeyKingdom
    @RogandKeyKingdom 2 месяца назад

    I’m sorry you’re going through this again Shaeeda, don’t be embarrassed I’ve went through it multiple times! It’s going to come! Inshallah!🤞🏽

  • @LakeiaCreates-2010
    @LakeiaCreates-2010 2 месяца назад +4

    Something amazing is in store for you guys. I just know it!

  • @itsmarmar1263
    @itsmarmar1263 2 месяца назад

    Oh sweetheart I know the feeling I had 2 back to back miscarriages in 2015. I was in my 2nd trimester and it’s so hard. Don’t give up it will happen we see it all the time! Sending love and prayers your way! ❤

  • @angelwill9474
    @angelwill9474 2 месяца назад +187

    I know you are anxious to be a mom but stop sharing. Make it a sacred experience next time and do not share until you’re past your first trimester….ask your mom. Just saying

    • @beatricekissi7334
      @beatricekissi7334 2 месяца назад +14

      Agreed with you 💯

    • @leevihemmings707
      @leevihemmings707 2 месяца назад +17

      I told my mother/husband/sisters immediately. They told no one until I was 4 months. Sometimes keep things to yourself. Let it be your secret for a while

    • @vestriciallewellyn-richard8726
      @vestriciallewellyn-richard8726 2 месяца назад +17

      This video is not in real time. They just decided to share the journey. I commend them for letting other women know they are not alone. I agree with them, STAY HOPEFUL! I am living proof that God says yes when doctors said no!

    • @bilalandshaeeda
      @bilalandshaeeda  2 месяца назад +45

      Thanks but this happened earlier on this year. We are now ready to share it to the world!

    • @TheMilesFamily23
      @TheMilesFamily23 2 месяца назад +17

      lol.. clearly you didn’t read or listen before commenting!

  • @Sweetestdadaeva
    @Sweetestdadaeva 2 месяца назад

    You guys recorded this experience so eloquently. Kudos to you and I hope you get the miracle you've been praying for!❤

  • @amysettle85
    @amysettle85 2 месяца назад +4

    Oh no honey there is NOTHING to be embarrassed about. I had a miscarriage at 18. I am so sorry you are going through this. Please know this is nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed of. What i keep in my head is one day when i go to heaven my child from my miscarriage whether boy or girl will meet me in heaven. So always know those 2 miscarriages you have had you will be reunited one day with your babies.

  • @danielamckenzie9908
    @danielamckenzie9908 2 месяца назад +1

    Dont be embarrassed sis, we are here for you, we have empathy for you 🙏🏼🙌❤❤❤💞

  • @WeggieQueen2005
    @WeggieQueen2005 2 месяца назад +7

    My cousin's wife was around 44 and had many miscarriages, but I'm happy to tell you their child is now 17 :). 🙏

    • @Nufsed-f5r
      @Nufsed-f5r Месяц назад +1

      So the 17 year old's mom is 61? 😬

  • @darciawilson114
    @darciawilson114 2 месяца назад +1

    Don’t give up guys. Keep praying. Back home they have a saying “wantie wantie caa gettie and gettie gettie don’t wantie” I’m praying that you guys will be blessed with that beautiful little bundle soon!

  • @reneecarol2130
    @reneecarol2130 2 месяца назад +21

    Akiny and Benjamin are also having struggles.
    Love to y'all.

    • @sharonchinquee9829
      @sharonchinquee9829 2 месяца назад +1

      But Akiny is younger

    • @hadijahamal7980
      @hadijahamal7980 2 месяца назад +1

      ONE DAY ✨ INSHA'ALLAH 🙏.

    • @iamreborn3463
      @iamreborn3463 2 месяца назад +1

      Who

    • @spicykennag
      @spicykennag Месяц назад

      Doesn't matter if your younger or older... sometimes u just have a hard time getting pregnant

  • @tyneshaperalta4781
    @tyneshaperalta4781 2 месяца назад +2

    I'm so sorry for your loss I've been through it a lot my husband and I are also a couple when do the immigration process and we've also been through three losses.i am pregnant so don't lose faith is early a long in our pregnancy we finally got a heartbeat. You are my prayers i wish you peace

  • @tammymeadows3120
    @tammymeadows3120 2 месяца назад +4

    Im so sorry guys. Don't stop trying.

  • @MomBizO
    @MomBizO 2 месяца назад

    I definitely empathize with you as I too suffered a miscarriage in January right after my birthday. I’ve never experienced anything like that before and it was so traumatic, but I know that everything happens for a reason. Continued prayers.

  • @karmabutterfly7985
    @karmabutterfly7985 2 месяца назад +12

    Loves don’t even tell close family, evil eye is real. Praying for you all 🙏🏾❤️

  • @ebonyalexander0304
    @ebonyalexander0304 2 месяца назад +2

    Sending prayers, it will happen in God’s timing. Much love and blessings 🇹🇹LOVE

  • @jassettstswart7562
    @jassettstswart7562 2 месяца назад +7

    Please don't talk about this too early take you time and calm down not everything have to be out there so early keep things like pregnancy very very private until it happens please

    • @_Oluwayemisi
      @_Oluwayemisi 2 месяца назад +4

      This was during the Ramadan, meaning it was a while ago. They were just recording to show us at the appropriate time.

    • @courtneyboudreau4284
      @courtneyboudreau4284 2 месяца назад

      It's her business if he wants to share

  • @Kylynn420
    @Kylynn420 2 месяца назад +1

    Awwww im so sorry yinz 2 are the most successful 90 day couple out there yet you get no recognition love yinz two

  • @ruthquetant7375
    @ruthquetant7375 2 месяца назад +4

    By any chance do you know what blood type you have? Ask about RH compatibility. Women that are RH negative need a Rogham shot during and after pregnancy to ensure that your body does not attack the fetus.

    • @LynnLopez-lx6qo
      @LynnLopez-lx6qo 2 месяца назад +1

      I had that issue with my hubby, but I’m sure her Ob-Gyn will explain that.

    • @julietastes181
      @julietastes181 2 месяца назад +1

      True, I am rh negative my 1st child almost killed me.... then I knew my bloodtype.

    • @zabavnaya-xt8tb
      @zabavnaya-xt8tb 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@LynnLopez-lx6qobold of you to assume all doctors have good ethics, some doctors are too ignorant to mention important factors

    • @nikkirockznikkirockz8551
      @nikkirockznikkirockz8551 2 месяца назад

      @@zabavnaya-xt8tb You're being hella combative with everybody for no good reason, there's meds for that!

    • @zabavnaya-xt8tb
      @zabavnaya-xt8tb 2 месяца назад

      @@nikkirockznikkirockz8551 you sure do sound like bilals ex, just as jealous of Shaeeda

  • @exodusnakia
    @exodusnakia 2 месяца назад +1

    I love your family, the two of you continue to grow together. Please remember you’re blessed even through this difficult time.

  • @MsStar3000
    @MsStar3000 2 месяца назад +5

    It's a very bad omen to share your pregnancy this early

    • @Peachgirl_xo
      @Peachgirl_xo 2 месяца назад +3

      As muslims, We do not believe in "Bad Omens" , Everything is decreed by the divine creator and we accept whatever is best for us from the creator, hope you understand 🤗

    • @Banana12813
      @Banana12813 2 месяца назад

      Mind your buisness she has the right to share at any stage she wants. Friday the 13 is also a normal day so is seeing a black cat under a ladder 😂

  • @LucyBianca-if8xs
    @LucyBianca-if8xs 2 месяца назад +1

    Oh please sweetheart don't be embarrassed, please. Unfortunately, these things happen, but I will pray for you and Bilal 🙏💛✨️

  • @irenekalala4959
    @irenekalala4959 2 месяца назад +1

    I am sorry for your loss, i've been there, I trust and pray you will have your bundle of joy soon. God is faithful

  • @candilou411
    @candilou411 2 месяца назад

    I literally cried when you said you felt embarrassed. As a woman it is hard to adjust to the reality that your body isn’t doing what it is “designed to do”. I’m 38 and have suffered a few early pregnancy losses. I can relate. It hasn’t been easy, but it has brought my partner and I closer, knowing that we love each other, and will keep trying towards achieving the shared goal of expanding our family. I’m praying for you all! One day at a time! 💕✨ I’m 38 and also from 🇹🇹 When you’re ready, find a good Reproductive Endocrinologist to guide you through the process of trying again.

  • @melanieschafer1297
    @melanieschafer1297 2 месяца назад +1

    God Bless you two in your pregnancy journey. I pray you will have your healthy baby soon! Hugs sent to your family! I am sorry for the news. I hope your next baby sticks in there. I will pray for 9 months of healthy pregnancy! I am so sorry you feel this sadness. Try to be as positive as possible for good baby vibes.

  • @jewelsparkle8195
    @jewelsparkle8195 2 месяца назад +2

    Salams sis. May Allah make this heartbreaking time easy for you both and bless you with a little bundle of joy soon!
    Don't lose hope sis, i suffered 2 early miscarriages 7 years ago and have since been blessed with 2 beautiful boys alhamdulillah. Never lose hope and trust in Allahs plan, all in its right time it will happen for you insha'Allah! Keeping you in my prayers 💕

  • @henriettabush6486
    @henriettabush6486 2 месяца назад

    This brought me to tears 😢. There is nothing to be embarrassed about sis. God will bless you in due time. Don’t give up just yet. There will be a cry of babies in your house. Trust and believe. Sending you hugs 🤗 ❤

  • @kikiandkids
    @kikiandkids 2 месяца назад +1

    I’m so sorry for your loss your such a strong woman and I know how much you want a baby and please don’t be embarrassed this happens to a lot of women you are not alone I will keep you in my prayers

  • @dimplesp4046
    @dimplesp4046 2 месяца назад +1

    This was very powerful😢 sending a BIG hug, love and light to you, both

  • @paulinatoon3815
    @paulinatoon3815 2 месяца назад

    I'm really sorry to hear that you've suffered 2nd miscarriage :( I know it's painful but time really does heal and what I can say from my perspective never give up. I had 5 miscarriages before I had my daughter and 4 more after having her so I know the pain but hope and positivity is really best you can do.

  • @Truginger666
    @Truginger666 Месяц назад +1

    Congrats 🎉 The baby is coming to love and fabulous parents. I’m so happy for you two ❤

  • @stephs3597
    @stephs3597 2 месяца назад

    I’m am so sorry for your losses. I admire you for remaining so positive during this soul shattering traumatic time. You will be blessed beyond measure with a new love when the time is right. 💛

  • @jacalahall
    @jacalahall 2 месяца назад

    Nothing to be embarrassed about. New supporter here. I will keep you in my prayers and sprinkle baby dust on both of you ❤❤❤❤

  • @mooman6661111
    @mooman6661111 2 месяца назад

    I don't often comment but felt strongly drawn to do so...i too went through the tragedy of miscarriage 5 times...so i can totally relate to the emotions you have gone through...when i went through it, it did help knowing that for one i am not alone others have gone through this , nothing you did or didnt do caused it, and two many do go on to have string pregnancies.. as i lentioned i did miscarry 5 times but i did go on to have 4 10 pound babies ...they are all in thier 20s now and they all are so so special to me...sending virtual hugs and positive vibes

  • @Lexiehh951
    @Lexiehh951 2 месяца назад

    Have faith, and don’t stop trying, I miscarried twice two years in a row before being blessed with my current pregnancy I am now 34 weeks and going to be having my first son in a few weeks! I will keep your family in my prayers!

  • @anniemwila6939
    @anniemwila6939 2 месяца назад

    Send you hugs,I feel your pain.we have gone through this,still hopeful that one day it will happen 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @susansilvera3542
    @susansilvera3542 2 месяца назад +1

    Oh no! I’m so sorry! You will have a healthy baby, God has you!

  • @gloriandagire1452
    @gloriandagire1452 2 месяца назад +2

    I have had 2 miscarriages 1 before my daughter and 1 after her. After the last one, i just had a small talk with God, and told Him, no more miscarriages, no still births or loss of child. It's too painful!! This month my period was late, i thought i was pregnant, and i reminded God, no miscarriages, just let my period be it, a period only.

  • @TshiamoKadiege
    @TshiamoKadiege 2 месяца назад

    God be with you guys🙏🏾. We had a miscarriage 4 months ago as well with some hospital drama. We also had to do some healing. We still are. But we trust in God. Thank you for sharing your story. And I thank everyone else who commented on the video with their story. May our good Lord be with you all🙏🏾

  • @VenomGirl821
    @VenomGirl821 2 месяца назад

    Aaww Shaeeda I'm so sorry for your loss and I'm happy to hear your doing ok and have healed. You are most definitely not alone! Your story hit home and brought me to tears as I myself took a pregnancy test in July of 2019 the very next day I started spotting so I went to the hospital and they checked my hcg levels but didn't have any answers for me so now day 3 I was still spotting but it was heavier so I went to another hospital and they checked my hcg levels and they dropped dramatically within one day 😔 so they told me I was having a miscarriage and that baby would come out on its own I left that hospital nonstop crying and at home constantly checking if I would see my baby come out 🥺 I didn't. I will admit I questioned God why and I also blamed myself as if I did something wrong and caused the miscarriage until eventually I just cried and cried to God felt him with me and from that moment I prayed to him and apologized for questioning him. I will say my husband and myself were able to heal but I myself still get very emotional and cry every 4th of July the date I lost my baby. With all that being said I will pray for you both. God timing is perfect 🙏🫶🏼

  • @mollyobrien8531
    @mollyobrien8531 2 месяца назад

    My heart hurts for yinz but know you are NOT alone mamas!! I suffered several miscarriages before having my rainbow daughter in February there is hope and the best is yet to come! Sending you much love and light ❤ we are trying for another baby soon and although I’m terrified again I’m leaving it in gods hands!!! NEVER be embarrassed honey 😢💜🙌

  • @user-em3dt9gg8t
    @user-em3dt9gg8t 2 месяца назад

    I am so sorry for your loss. I experienced a miscarriage many years ago in 2009. I became pregnant in 2020 at the age of 40. I went on to have a healthy pregnancy and gave birth to a healthy baby girl 12/08/2020. We need to have tests in order to have a testimony. Please keep the faith and do not give up on your journey.

  • @only1me203
    @only1me203 2 месяца назад

    Dont know why you are coming up on my feed now but im glad you created a channel and im soooooo freaking happy to see you two together. Im sorry for your loss.