15 Tips to Celebrate Pride While Closeted

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  • Опубликовано: 22 окт 2024

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  • @PoweredByRainbows
    @PoweredByRainbows  Год назад +8

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  • @oleandertea4519
    @oleandertea4519 4 года назад +1504

    Remember folks, you all are valid whether you are able to show it or still in a closet.

  • @horrificreader4084
    @horrificreader4084 4 года назад +640

    The LGBTQ+ community feels like some elaborate club that is so chill. I want to live there.

    • @madelynsullivan5994
      @madelynsullivan5994 3 года назад +25

      Then do, even if you're straight. A can be for ally or asexual. 💖🤠✌️

    • @urmomschesthair5778
      @urmomschesthair5778 3 года назад +47

      low key can we build a gay village full of cottages and the streets are named after different sexualities and gender identities

    • @marleymacncheese6362
      @marleymacncheese6362 3 года назад +30

      @@madelynsullivan5994 a is not for ally BUT an ally is accepted

    • @madelynsullivan5994
      @madelynsullivan5994 3 года назад +5

      @@marleymacncheese6362 sorry I worded that incorrectly

    • @billystokes3917
      @billystokes3917 3 года назад +11

      @Lennon Swan Music Not just a city, but an entire country. If the entire LGBTQ community comes together and donates we might have enough to buy an island.

  • @jjhorseman5106
    @jjhorseman5106 3 года назад +560

    Tips for using pride flag colors:
    Gay: rainbows are just pretty
    Bi: unicorn colors
    Pan: primary colors look nice together
    Trans: pastels are pretty
    Ace: one of the best color combos imo they look so nice
    Literally anything: the colors look nice together (bc yk it's true

    • @fishy1364
      @fishy1364 3 года назад +26

      You can also say it’s your favorite colors!

    • @broccoligirl9019
      @broccoligirl9019 3 года назад +22

      If your pan you can also say well I like the colors its kinda like a sunset

    • @Sofia_Luvvz111
      @Sofia_Luvvz111 3 года назад +24

      If your bi like me, an excuse is galaxy colors

    • @SebastianWoodard
      @SebastianWoodard 3 года назад +1

      Lmao not me being trans and hating the trans flag

    • @c0d3_888
      @c0d3_888 3 года назад +4

      I would do this but my parents know pride flags so they would know :(

  • @nerdyuggo4322
    @nerdyuggo4322 3 года назад +3055

    When I realized that I was lesbian in a kinda not really accepting household, I wanted to sneakily show my pride. The first step was to find out what pride flags they recognized as just that - pride flags - and I quickly realized that the only ones they actually knew was the rainbow and trans flag. I started the gayification of my room by drawing a drawing HEAVILY inspired by the lesbian flag and putting it on my wall, but my parents didn't realize what the colors stand for. I went even further and changed my desktop background to the lesbian flag - and when my mom asked why I had changed my background, I just told her that I liked the color combination. She just thought it was like a color palette or something. Lastly, I took the final step and actually bought a 150x90 cm lesbian flag to put up on my wall, and my parents still don't realize anything. I told them that I just wanted a pop of color in my very plain room, and that I bought this tapestry to achieve that. Gayification complete.

    • @brook.d
      @brook.d 3 года назад +213

      That's amazing! proud that you can do that!!

    • @sinchanaacharya2975
      @sinchanaacharya2975 3 года назад +319

      Oh god! That is genius!! Im Indian, and in the beginning-ish of the year, we had a small Shivratri celebration in our locality. I planned on wearing a sari (for the first time in my life), and when shown the options, there was this blue one with purple accents. Paired it with all pink accessories and bam, I was a bisexual incognito! Only one person in the locality knew!😂

    • @mgartist8260
      @mgartist8260 3 года назад +89

      thats so cool! im lesbian too lol, still in the closet tho

    • @nerdyuggo4322
      @nerdyuggo4322 3 года назад +66

      @@mgartist8260 hello fellow closeted lesbian, and I hope you’re comfortable enough to show your pride someday :)))

    • @mgartist8260
      @mgartist8260 3 года назад +34

      @@nerdyuggo4322 thank u! U too

  • @JK-mz3ul
    @JK-mz3ul 4 года назад +1112

    As a mom, I’m heartbroken by watching this video. I wish every person was supported to be their authentic self. I am grateful videos like this exist to show that it’s important to keep safe and still be yourself, despite your family’s views. Family can be the people we choose, not blood.

    • @tatteryt
      @tatteryt 3 года назад +30

      This comment made my day 💚💚💚

    • @joseyxd630
      @joseyxd630 3 года назад +40

      I love you 😫 supportive moms are the best

    • @charlieemily7319
      @charlieemily7319 3 года назад +12

      Can I just say, you are a monarch. It’s so nice to see all the allies in the comments ^-^

    • @Eriii693
      @Eriii693 3 года назад +19

      You’re the supportive parent I’ll never have

    • @klaio_
      @klaio_ 3 года назад +13

      I love you so much ma'am🥺🙏✨✨

  • @maisiethebooklover9077
    @maisiethebooklover9077 3 года назад +668

    My family has colored bowls. There are pink, yellow, blue, green and orange. The first day of pride month, I put the bowls away so they are the pan flag. So far, nobody has changed it and nobody has noticed. I'm hoping to try to keep them that way until the end of June

    • @youknowtherulesandsodoi5704
      @youknowtherulesandsodoi5704 3 года назад +11

      Good luck! That's a cool idea

    • @wallfishz
      @wallfishz 3 года назад +14

      I've done that with plastic cups! Someone moved them tho-

    • @maisiethebooklover9077
      @maisiethebooklover9077 3 года назад +11

      @@wallfishz yikes that sucks. My mom almost moved the bowls but I stopped her and gave her an orange one instead

    • @orans_
      @orans_ 3 года назад +1

      How’d it go?

    • @maisiethebooklover9077
      @maisiethebooklover9077 3 года назад +8

      @@orans_ On the 26th of June, someone messed it up :( but I almost got all the way through June

  • @thatguyben7754
    @thatguyben7754 4 года назад +2687

    literally, cuff your jeans. it’s invisible if you’re not LGBTQ+

    • @ares.peralta
      @ares.peralta 4 года назад +60

      ThatGuyBen True, very true.

    • @auggiemain
      @auggiemain 4 года назад +187

      I once asked a girl I liked if she was gay and she cuffed her jeans.

    • @natemcdonagh3760
      @natemcdonagh3760 4 года назад +45

      What dose cuffing your jeans mean ?

    • @thatguyben7754
      @thatguyben7754 4 года назад +194

      Nate McDonagh it’s just a thing a lot of LGBT people do, you know one of the types of things that’s gay culture for literally no reason. It usually looks better tbh, but it’s mainly just something a lot of younger LGBT recognise

    • @moxie3680
      @moxie3680 4 года назад +55

      some people do it just for fashion though...

  • @KaiLally9009
    @KaiLally9009 4 года назад +2654

    “I know, I’m very gay but-“ *me while talking with my friends*

    • @MystFox1314
      @MystFox1314 4 года назад +36

      I've had a few of those moments
      Mostly around when I realised I'm gay

    • @iceywolf7266
      @iceywolf7266 4 года назад +31

      Lol same but instead I'm bisexual.

    • @flower-qu8oc
      @flower-qu8oc 4 года назад +6

      sameee

    • @glitzicurities9075
      @glitzicurities9075 4 года назад +10

      Could be gayer. :3
      Wrong channel I know but it still fits...

    • @mothMOV
      @mothMOV 4 года назад

      Lol

  • @destinyrix2103
    @destinyrix2103 3 года назад +78

    I love how he openly admits that it’s not a thing about being ashamed but more about whether or not your ready to come out to then

  • @enderrian_
    @enderrian_ 3 года назад +2632

    Just a tip for the pan people:
    If your parents see anything with the colors and get suspicious, just say they are the primary colors. It’s true tho lol

  • @jordyn2470
    @jordyn2470 4 года назад +509

    i asked my mom to let me get a pride flag and she said:
    “it’s fine as long as it’s in the closet”
    she wasn’t joking.

  • @arcticart_5652
    @arcticart_5652 3 года назад +166

    Hey, still in the closet here, but my friend just came out to their parents as non-binary and it went great! I'm so happy for them!

    • @HeyHey-dh2ck
      @HeyHey-dh2ck 3 года назад +15

      i'm so happy for them!! i love hearing other people's coming outs to be good. i hope yours goes smoothly too

    • @missyukizo
      @missyukizo 4 месяца назад

      I hope that you're doing well and are safe, always know that you'll be able to come to us if you need any help. Best regards!

  • @luanagacha6445
    @luanagacha6445 4 года назад +3096

    Me,who is eating Skittles while watching this: that are great things to do!

    • @lovebirddraws8475
      @lovebirddraws8475 4 года назад +15

      Luana Gacha lol yeah, I’m eating m n ms at the moment

    • @Lee-fn3vf
      @Lee-fn3vf 4 года назад +30

      your even tasting the rainbow

    • @moond3238
      @moond3238 4 года назад +7

      XD

    • @solar3490
      @solar3490 4 года назад +3

      I don't like Skittles-

    • @luanagacha6445
      @luanagacha6445 4 года назад +9

      @@solar3490 then eat smarties if you like them....or eat whatever you like! 😊🙃

  • @bibblesloyalfollower5354
    @bibblesloyalfollower5354 4 года назад +383

    My brain: Draw rainbows on yourself.
    Me: Why?
    My brain : you gotta

    • @JKing666
      @JKing666 3 года назад +22

      My dad: WhY diD yOu dRaW tHaT oN yOuRsElF dOn'T dO tHaT yOu lOok liKE a GaNgStEr

    • @sky_neverending6708
      @sky_neverending6708 3 года назад +4

      This was me the night before pride month started I drew all over myself

  • @raccoon2820
    @raccoon2820 3 года назад +520

    Some quotes from my mom “you should cuff your jeans” “that shirt would look good tucked in” she doesn’t know I’m bisexual (unless if she found my sketchbook I hope not)

    • @sas_aran6410
      @sas_aran6410 3 года назад +38

      My mom always made me do those things, not knowing they made my bi powers *even stronger*!!!

    • @TheGreenThunder1607
      @TheGreenThunder1607 3 года назад +10

      I feel like I'm the only one who doesn't tuck in their shirt

    • @TheGreenThunder1607
      @TheGreenThunder1607 3 года назад +1

      @Lady Stardust same, I like it loose

    • @TheGreenThunder1607
      @TheGreenThunder1607 3 года назад +1

      @Lady Stardust saame, I always have to be free ( I sleep naked because I just feel restricted otherwise lol ) But yeah, peace sings and cuffed jeans are a total staple for me as well. don't forget the finger guns !

    • @TheGreenThunder1607
      @TheGreenThunder1607 3 года назад +1

      @Lady Stardust oof same. I have a very good friend I came out to ( turns out were both bi) and we really enjoy each others company since we always understand what the other one is going through. I don't know if I should even tell my family, I mean it's not really their business what I'm into, you know? Problem is I'm struggling with my gender identity as well and it's just so overwhelming

  • @deadeye6647
    @deadeye6647 4 года назад +2304

    Friend: Isn't that girl hot?
    Me, an ace: OH GOD CALL AN AMBULANCE! SHE HAS A FEVER!
    Friend: What?
    Me: What?

    • @aspiechan420
      @aspiechan420 3 года назад +39

      😂 I can relate to that

    • @firewren
      @firewren 3 года назад +21

      I love this

    • @OrbIllusionn
      @OrbIllusionn 3 года назад +26

      Its like I'm panicking about that but then I realize my friend is a girl

    • @stellamantese3074
      @stellamantese3074 3 года назад +15

      I'm ace and Aro 😫

    • @haha5368
      @haha5368 3 года назад +26

      Omg as an asexual I can’t count the number of times someone said “damnnn they’re smokin” and I responded “WHAT ARE THEY OK?!”

  • @dutchik5107
    @dutchik5107 4 года назад +623

    Me. Is bisexual.
    Looks down: pastel pink shirt with pastel lavender at the bottom. Very very bleached jeans and rasta rainbow sneakers.
    Oef.

    • @barackobama4516
      @barackobama4516 3 года назад +45

      *are the jeans cuffed?*

    • @cact-ow3771
      @cact-ow3771 3 года назад +5

      Bi flag, with. Rainbow to top it off. And if the jeans are cuffed, then everyone will know. U sure ur closeted still?

    • @dutchik5107
      @dutchik5107 3 года назад +6

      @@cact-ow3771 I mean I haven't told my parents but not exactly a secret either. Like my entire college class knew at that point. Just never bothered. And now probably will not anyways, given I now have a long term boyfriend. And they genuinely wouldn't give a shit. My plan was to get a girlfriend. But that failed pretty successfully. So yeah.
      And no the jeans most likely were not cuffed, given I am a skinny Jean type of gal, the sneakers aren't low tops and I didn't really have cute socks back then

    • @peacefulleopard8016
      @peacefulleopard8016 3 года назад +1

      I liked that comment purely for the ‘oef’

    • @oferzilberman5049
      @oferzilberman5049 3 года назад +2

      J'aime œfs

  • @i.love.bunnies6534
    @i.love.bunnies6534 3 года назад +327

    imagine accidentally having this on full volume and then your not closeted anymore

    • @MadisonJouvenaar
      @MadisonJouvenaar 3 года назад +8

      💕 hope everything went ok

    • @HeyHey-dh2ck
      @HeyHey-dh2ck 3 года назад +80

      no that happened to me, i clicked on it and didn't realise my volume was on 100 and my sis walked past my room and heard "here are tips to celebrate pride month while still being in the closet"
      she was accepting and she's not gonna tell anyone, i'm so happyy

    • @MadisonJouvenaar
      @MadisonJouvenaar 3 года назад +8

      @@HeyHey-dh2ck oof i hope it went ok

    • @violavalestra8805
      @violavalestra8805 3 года назад +5

      Me

    • @violavalestra8805
      @violavalestra8805 3 года назад +4

      @@HeyHey-dh2ck me too

  • @ProwlWolf
    @ProwlWolf 4 года назад +2878

    Me thinking I’m lesbian : Girls are hot!
    Me learning I’m homoflexable : so is everyone else but still mainly girls..

    • @snailcat2724
      @snailcat2724 4 года назад +30

      ProwlWolf me too!!

    • @savannahjackson4062
      @savannahjackson4062 4 года назад +179

      I am pan I think every one is hot

    • @KieranTheFox
      @KieranTheFox 4 года назад +44

      @@savannahjackson4062 same! Lmao

    • @bray7379
      @bray7379 4 года назад +10

      Haha me too!

    • @rat8028
      @rat8028 4 года назад +56

      I'm pan but I stride towards any gender but male lol I still like men tho lol

  • @hillolovey5276
    @hillolovey5276 3 года назад +2074

    Me and my friends managed to throw a small pride party without anyone else realizing.

  • @0907ej
    @0907ej 3 года назад +241

    I’m bisexual and I’m currently dating my Girlfriend. We’re still closeted which is scary to know that our parents will find out. We’re in a distance relationship and every time my parents ask “any crushes on guys? Or dating any guys?” I always joke around about celebrity crushes which makes me feel uncomfortable cause I want to tell them but it’s scary.
    I just feel like I need to say this out loud for everyone to know....if not everyone then some of you.
    I’m gender fluid and bisexual...I’m still me of course...happy pride month everyone!

    • @0907ej
      @0907ej 3 года назад +7

      @@redd3797 yeah it’s scary to think about and I’ve tried making my Minecraft house feel mmm gayer like rainbow carpets rainbow room with the bisexual flag and gender fluid flag somewhere butttttttt I’m scared if my parents ever found out what that means because they are aware of the LGBTQ community and make rude jokes about them before

    • @Amelie-mk5bw
      @Amelie-mk5bw 3 года назад +4

      Don't pressure yourself in telling them, it's none of their business anyway!

    • @fatguy338
      @fatguy338 2 года назад

      It's funny, some neighbours were asking my parents if I have a girlfriend, they answered "yes! his piano is well loved!" even tho they're low key homophobic they still get me hahaha 💓💜💙

    • @Mrshondarose
      @Mrshondarose 2 года назад

      Yaaaay that's great that you know who you are!!! 💓💕💞💗💖💕💗💕❤

    • @0907ej
      @0907ej 2 года назад

      @@Mrshondarose thank you :> I’m not with my gf anymore due to her cheating and ghosting me so I’m back in single life

  • @sockjriggs1926
    @sockjriggs1926 4 года назад +274

    I like drawing people with rainbow clothing And use the excuse “I couldn’t figure out what color to use”. I also make pan and bi drawings for my friends.

    • @sockjriggs1926
      @sockjriggs1926 3 года назад +3

      @Poopy1234 I use the nonbinary flag now cuz I’m nonbinary

    • @christinavlogs2259
      @christinavlogs2259 3 года назад

      I like to get rainbow stuff and play it off like I love rainbow stuff

  • @Veilexes
    @Veilexes 4 года назад +704

    I was thinking about asking my neighbor to buy a pan flag for me (Im gonna pay her back). Anyways that's an idea for some of my fellow closet dwellers.

    • @Sarah-dk8je
      @Sarah-dk8je 4 года назад +27

      Aight . I'm going to go do my closeted celebrations fellow friend

    • @thestarkid5449
      @thestarkid5449 4 года назад +13

      I don’t have neighbors 😂😂

    • @_oscavva
      @_oscavva 4 года назад +7

      You actually gave me ideas-

    • @malachipoyser2865
      @malachipoyser2865 4 года назад +4

      I live on a farm :( dont have any

    • @mista4life849
      @mista4life849 4 года назад +17

      @@thestarkid5449 You ate them didn't you

  • @sam-is-sleeping
    @sam-is-sleeping 3 года назад +152

    something that i did a while back: A couple months ago, i made a painting based off of the bisexual pride flag (at the time i thought i was bi but now im ack to questioning bc im not sure who i like) and made a painting with pink/magenta skies, light purple clouds in the mid. and blue water and it was, at the time, a nice lil way to remind myself that im a bisexual (made the les flag too, but its the pink one and i dont have enough orange to make the sunset one so i scrapped it 😅), plan to eventually make every flag 'w' was inspired by Lavendertowne

  • @Average-honkai-player
    @Average-honkai-player 4 года назад +569

    I'm ace, and my favorite color is purple and most of my clothes are black, grey, and white so I can easily get away with having my outfit matching the flag without suspicion! :D

    • @toxicunicorn7712
      @toxicunicorn7712 4 года назад +31

      I recently tie died a shirt like the ace flag, thank god my school colors are purple and black 😂

    • @julsiegamermove4115
      @julsiegamermove4115 4 года назад +11

      toxic unicorn mine are green and white. How tf do I get away with nonbinary?

    • @toxicunicorn7712
      @toxicunicorn7712 4 года назад +18

      @@julsiegamermove4115 honestly most normal people don't know pride flags outside the traditional rainbow one so if you feel confident enough wearing your flag as a shirt go for it! Or if you are talking about tie dye specifically then do a swirl pattern with the colors of the non-binary flag, you will know what it means and that is all that matters!

    • @alexgolden1731
      @alexgolden1731 4 года назад +10

      Demi person here. My flag is the same colors and the same thing is with me. I love purple and black. My room is being painted purple and grey, in fact. My parents are oblivious.

    • @autumnalis18
      @autumnalis18 4 года назад

      same here

  • @puttputtsheep4797
    @puttputtsheep4797 4 года назад +862

    My parents are kind of clueless about pride flags and so are my class mates so I put pride flags into my school work.

    • @londonthebridge
      @londonthebridge 4 года назад +18

      Love that, also love ur prof pic. Why is cement crying doe

    • @kaylafaust620
      @kaylafaust620 4 года назад +1

      Lauren Gould he always look like that

    • @laynaallison2074
      @laynaallison2074 4 года назад +1

      I do that to

    • @potatoyoutube9225
      @potatoyoutube9225 4 года назад

      I C O N I C

    • @thesummerbrothers1834
      @thesummerbrothers1834 4 года назад +11

      I wanna buy a pride flag but then my mom says : no cause it cost too much money and ppl can bully u if u have that flag. Then i think : nobody in my town really knows what that bi flag colors means🙄🙄

  • @vyingforlife
    @vyingforlife 3 года назад +54

    As a bisexual, it's quite easy to use magenta purple and blue on anything without being too suspicious - many people think people like these colors because they look so good together ;)

  • @themisfitmarauder6123
    @themisfitmarauder6123 4 года назад +735

    My mom: **comes to my room**
    Me: **closes this video as fast as possible** Hello parental unit, it is I, your heterosexual daughter doing heterosexual things (:

    • @PoweredByRainbows
      @PoweredByRainbows  4 года назад +166

      Well I'm glad you're staying safe and hope you have some time to come back to our channel whenever your mom exits your room again.

    • @emilym2567
      @emilym2567 3 года назад +42

      PLEASE i was in a pride google meet and good thing i had earbuds in!! it was a pride group that the people in my region set up and i panicked and almost left it :/

    • @sunshinepop5906
      @sunshinepop5906 3 года назад +4

      Omg that is so me!!!

    • @themudkip5295
      @themudkip5295 3 года назад +3

      same also 420 likes

    • @naeviswrld
      @naeviswrld 3 года назад +5

      this was me in a google meet about gender identities when i was questioning my gender and i lied to my mom i was in a workshop about artificial intelligence

  • @Hjthere
    @Hjthere 4 года назад +458

    In the ace(asexual) portion of the community we wear black rings on our right middle finger as silent way of communicating to other members.

    • @zoranight16
      @zoranight16 4 года назад +67

      Thank you!! I recently came out to my parents as Asexual Panromantic but the rest of my area is pretty quite (as far as I can tell) for any form of LGBTQ+. I've been meaning to find ways of silent communication to try to find others. This helps a lot ^-^

    • @mysteriousmerrow
      @mysteriousmerrow 4 года назад +29

      That's really cool! I'm Ace so that would be cool to do if I had a black ring

    • @CrumpetCraig
      @CrumpetCraig 4 года назад +16

      What about grey ace?

    • @addisonavery9204
      @addisonavery9204 4 года назад +26

      I saw a women walking down the street once with a black ring around her middle finger. Now I know!

    • @vodkabread
      @vodkabread 4 года назад +10

      Yeah I want one

  • @caityyoung5297
    @caityyoung5297 3 года назад +64

    I'm in the process of re-painting my violin case and I'm painting the handle to be the pan flag. I've also purchased a rainbow bag from IKEA and my parents seemed to be none the wiser...

  • @DotDot2562
    @DotDot2562 4 года назад +335

    You can also use the excuse for using rainbows because idk about other places but in the uk we use rainbows for staying at home and thanking the nhs

    • @Sarah-dk8je
      @Sarah-dk8je 4 года назад +22

      Ik that's my biggest excuse

    • @emilianoborro5
      @emilianoborro5 4 года назад +12

      Yeah here in Italy too, but since I'm a cynical bastard I kinda hate those "it's all going to be well" flags 🙃

    • @annag6463
      @annag6463 4 года назад +8

      @@emilianoborro5
      I'm from Italy too, and those "it's all going to be well" sheets hanging from the balconies are getting really annoying

    • @sophx9634
      @sophx9634 4 года назад

      That’s my excuse

    • @cmdr_kytrite4556
      @cmdr_kytrite4556 4 года назад +1

      ikr like im drawing rainbows all the time and have the nhs for a excuse

  • @yourownmother9604
    @yourownmother9604 4 года назад +480

    "I know, I'm very gay"
    Whole mood lol

  • @licorice_except_im_a_simp8691
    @licorice_except_im_a_simp8691 3 года назад +64

    Me and my friend Addy (I’m trans and she’s a lesbian), just say that we like the colors when asked about our pride decor

  • @lancemccloud-garrett88
    @lancemccloud-garrett88 4 года назад +588

    Ok, so like a year or two ago I was forced to come out. (Not going to tell my story it's complicated) And well I thought things would get better but they don't. My mom acts like I never came out, my dad says one of these days we'll talk about it again. And I have two brothers, (I'm the oldest) They were the first to know I was gay, they never really cared, at least until I had to come out to my parents that I was dated my brothers older sister friend (Who they both knew I was dating). When that happened my brother who is now 12, he always uses the word gay like it's disease and it really annoying. And he'll see gay things call my name show me and say, "It's the most disgusting thing I've ever seen." Or he'll call me gross (He still does it, and I've asked him to stop). He even said to me the person he's been wanting to die to die in the show he was watching died. I asked him who it was, and he said, "It's was this gay guy on the show." I asked him why he wanted the guy to die so much and he said. "Because he gay and that's gross. Gay people shouldn't live." I don't know why he says this, it makes me feel uncomfortable around him because he fight a lot and sometimes pushing and shoving happens I miss my old brother, the one who didn't care before I came out to my parents.The only person in my family who I feel accepts me is my youngest brother who is 10, he'll make gay jokes with me, and ever sometimes talk about with me, about my girlfriend. He even is slowly shipping gay things that I ship. Which makes me happy I have someone to go to.
    But if you're reading this stay safe, hope you're day is amazing. And happy pride month. Also love this channel!❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
    Edit: I little life update, I'm slowly talking to my dad more. Yay! He's now been more supportive. Which is amazing. Just two more to go. Thank you all fo your kind words. I want you to know I'm not looking for attention. I just posted this so people could relate, and know that's they're not alone in this scary world. Just know I love you all, and if life has you down stand tall. Because it's just a little while till something great happens. Stay safe my peps.🏳️‍🌈 ( and for those who don't know what peps mean it means people.

    • @mysteriousmerrow
      @mysteriousmerrow 4 года назад +31

      That sucks about your parents and (12 yo) brother. Hopefully they'll learn to accept you at some point :) Your youngest brother sounds like a cool dood

    • @lancemccloud-garrett88
      @lancemccloud-garrett88 4 года назад +12

      @@mysteriousmerrow Yeah he cool, I'm really thankful for him.

    • @lancemccloud-garrett88
      @lancemccloud-garrett88 4 года назад +11

      @Kasei chan I would totally let you if you could😅

    • @lancemccloud-garrett88
      @lancemccloud-garrett88 4 года назад +12

      @@anactualpossum8718 Yeah, is it. I hope he'll see what he says isn't right. I hope he doesn't mean the things he says deep inside.... He tends to try and get under my skin and annoy me and my brother the best he can.

    • @sincerelyissie2725
      @sincerelyissie2725 4 года назад +8

      i’m so sorry to hear that, but i’m glad that your little brother accepts you and makes you feel comfortable. hope it gets better for you!

  • @copperrose4376
    @copperrose4376 4 года назад +242

    I have rainbow socks so that’s my way I also had a gay day social distancing with my friend who is out so we sat listening to music and playing pool we also had food so we just sat in a shed having a blast

    • @minheefans
      @minheefans 4 года назад +6

      My dad won’t let me buy anything that’s everything that’s rainbow is GAY 🤦🏻‍♀️I think I’ll never come out

    • @copperrose4376
      @copperrose4376 4 года назад +3

      Christiano Bangnaldo that’s not good I have a homophobic brother and dad too I actually got the socks in a sock unicorn kit and just re purposed them I advise coming out to a friend first and being ok with yourself with them then meeting up with them and become comfortable saying it out loud and if everything goes right you will want to tell everyone but do it slowly from least likely to hate you to most likely this is what I’m gonna do no matter how much I want to have a full blown coming out party

  • @moss__6293
    @moss__6293 3 года назад +35

    I’ve seen a lot of “hidden pride flag wallpapers”. They’re pretty much just simple wallpapers that use pride colors and unless you know what they are and the flag they represent no one is the wiser.
    10/10 I suggest it :)

  • @everyones-a-cryptic
    @everyones-a-cryptic 3 года назад +259

    If your parents aren’t very knowledgeable about flags (many only recognize the most common ones like the rainbow bi and trans flags) its a lot easier to for stealth pride stuff. For example if your family isn’t familiar with the ace flag and you’re ace, you can incorporate the black white grey and purple into your room decor and outfits without arousing any suspicion.
    I did a stealth pride painting and my parents literally watched me paint it and complemented the color choices without knowing what they meant 👍🏼

    • @lightning_cat0388
      @lightning_cat0388 3 года назад +20

      wait is the bi flag really that common ? thats sad for me lolol
      at least i told everyone when i was little that my fav colours were pink purple blue i think thats a good enough excuse ?

    • @gabrielacardona3447
      @gabrielacardona3447 3 года назад +16

      @@lightning_cat0388 I think maybe the flag itself is recognizable but not the color. Like, if you wear a raimbow tie dye no one's first thought would be that you're gay. I think the same goes with bi

    • @broccoligirl9019
      @broccoligirl9019 3 года назад

      Same I made a whole lotus lake with the pan flag colors

    • @ATinyBeean
      @ATinyBeean 3 года назад

      Lucky for me my family doesn't know the bi flag, like I drew an elf inspired by it and went around showing it off to my family and my sis was just asked if it was an elf and had no clue. So yeah I'm still mostly closeted especially to my parents lol

    • @charlottegunn2735
      @charlottegunn2735 3 года назад +3

      I have a ace-colored flannel and that basically says everything about my sexuality
      (lesbian/ace)
      my mother still Han't reallized it's been 6 months 😂

  • @ChaosInArtForm
    @ChaosInArtForm 3 года назад +442

    Me: *makes an asexual pride flag themed bracelet*
    My parents: that's a pretty color scheme!
    Me: *ace panic*

    • @kar0lyn_04
      @kar0lyn_04 3 года назад +14

      Aaayyyeee I did the same thing.

    • @aphelion7756
      @aphelion7756 3 года назад +13

      The best part is that it’s also my favorite color pattern so I can just say I’m doing my favorite color pattern and they won’t question it 😈

    • @sierrabales6340
      @sierrabales6340 3 года назад +7

      Its my Fav colors so they won't notice ;D

    • @lizbetnoble8988
      @lizbetnoble8988 3 года назад +3

      yoooo i did that too awesome!

    • @sierrabales6340
      @sierrabales6340 3 года назад

      @@lizbetnoble8988 same !D

  • @Starry_Tones
    @Starry_Tones 3 года назад +312

    can we also call the community "the pride" please???? it makes us sound like the epic and strong lions we are!!

    • @PoweredByRainbows
      @PoweredByRainbows  3 года назад +73

      YES!

    • @YouveBeenMegged
      @YouveBeenMegged 2 года назад +35

      How has no one thought of this yet?
      HEY GUYS, WE GOT A MASTER LINGUIST UP IN HERE! 🏳️‍🌈

    • @3DOM_
      @3DOM_ 2 года назад +21

      It’s also just way more inclusive. I always thought it was weird to call a community based on inclusivity and representation an anagram that only highlights 4-8 sexualities/identities in a community with many.

    • @Olliver666
      @Olliver666 2 года назад +3

      Wait but I love this and need this like rn

    • @mustbeuniquely1284
      @mustbeuniquely1284 2 года назад +2

      @@3DOM_ i also thought it was weird but i think the reason for the acronym is because most of the other sexualities and identities are branches off the main ones, obviously they are all different but it starts somewhere, that's just my thoughts on it

  • @no-cs3fx
    @no-cs3fx 4 года назад +252

    Subtly is key
    I’ve painted landscapes that vaguely look like pride flags but no knows

    • @naomib4016
      @naomib4016 4 года назад +11

      That sounds cool, I’m gonna do that

    • @kathrynjaneway._
      @kathrynjaneway._ 4 года назад +8

      Yesss you have just inspired me thank you

    • @sadiepeterson4494
      @sadiepeterson4494 4 года назад +5

      Just made a pan sunset!

    • @no-cs3fx
      @no-cs3fx 4 года назад +3

      Person on the Internet BRO I MADE A PAN SUNSET TOO

    • @sadiepeterson4494
      @sadiepeterson4494 4 года назад +2

      n o YEAHHHHH

  • @kass9795
    @kass9795 4 года назад +745

    im so lucky to have a dad that isn’t homophobic. homophobic parents scare the shit out of me, and i couldn’t imagine being in the same house as one.

    • @cookieash2017
      @cookieash2017 4 года назад +60

      kassidy my dad is homophobic. When my sister came out, he wanted to kick her out. I’m out to my mom and friends, but I’m so scared to come out to my dad.

    • @kass9795
      @kass9795 4 года назад +29

      Cöökïë Ash i wouldn’t come out to them if u feel unsafe. maybe wait until u can move out first.

    • @cookieash2017
      @cookieash2017 4 года назад +27

      kassidy I’m under 13, that’s gonna be quite awhile. T-T

    • @kass9795
      @kass9795 4 года назад +14

      @@cookieash2017 oof hang in there

    • @kytabian3608
      @kytabian3608 4 года назад +44

      Closeted trans boy, pansexual 14 year old with religious, conservative homophobic family/community here. It sucks but I know it'll get better eventually. I'm proud of myself and who I am even if I'm in the closet. I'm proud to be who I am, it's scary and not safe for me yet, but it will be.
      It will be right?..

  • @aceftww
    @aceftww 3 года назад +118

    Some more Pride shows in Netflix: Community, She-ra, The Umbrella Academy

    • @chicknmcnuggs5329
      @chicknmcnuggs5329 3 года назад +11

      As a Klaus stan I DEFINITELY recommend The Umbrella Academy! One day at a time and Never have I ever also have LGBTQ characters as well.

    • @mmmstudio9576
      @mmmstudio9576 3 года назад +5

      I watched all of the series on she-ra not knowing it was LGBTQ and I loved the ending ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🌈

    • @retroskaterss
      @retroskaterss 3 года назад +8

      There's Also " The Owl House ". I Don't Think It's On Netflix, Though-

    • @aceftww
      @aceftww 3 года назад +3

      @@chicknmcnuggs5329 yes! And one of the actors, Elliot Page uses he/they pronouns! :D

    • @aceftww
      @aceftww 3 года назад +2

      @@retroskaterss it’s on Disney+ but they should add it in!

  • @AngelicZelda444
    @AngelicZelda444 3 года назад +725

    If you see this comment in 2021, I would love to wish you a very happy pride month!!!! 💖💜💙🏳️‍🌈 I am a closeted bisexual. Whoever you are in this community, closeted or out, you are valid and loved. Let your pride flags fly!!!!!

    • @DivconVal_ofc
      @DivconVal_ofc 3 года назад +18

      Thank you!!! I'm also a closeted bisexual, but I'm also a closeted gender fluid but my family has showed support to the community in the past so I don't think they mind, the problem is my shyness 😅

    • @AngelicZelda444
      @AngelicZelda444 3 года назад +7

      @@DivconVal_ofc Aww well hey I support you!! And it's great that you have a supportive family. Always be thankful for them, because I.....unfortunately don't have that privilege, which is a big reason why I am still in the closet. 😕 But one of these days we will be out and we should both be proud of who we are!!! 😊❤🧡💛💚💙💜💖🏳️‍🌈

    • @kimyhuante9824
      @kimyhuante9824 3 года назад +5

      Thank You do much
      I'm biromantic asexual and still closeted 'cause My parents are kinda homofobic and also My sister is bi but we are waiting until there are no risks for our future
      (Like they kick US out of the house or sending US to school....You know things Tha can hapen....we are almost 15....so.....You know)
      Really appreciate the comment

    • @yourlocalsimp1434
      @yourlocalsimp1434 3 года назад +4

      Thank u and I’m still in the closet but I’m about to come out soon

    • @corrupted_fawn5885
      @corrupted_fawn5885 3 года назад +2

      Closeted Non-Binary, Asexual, Panromantic, Polysexual, and Polyamorous-
      HAPPY PRIDE!
      Edit: During Pride, I realized I'm acually Non-Binary, Pansexual, Panromantic, Graysexual, Cupiosexual, Polysexual, Polyromantic, and Polyamorous. If people ask though, I'm Non-Binary and Pansexual.

  • @katiedaniel2598
    @katiedaniel2598 4 года назад +363

    Tip: "accidentally" fall asleep with Skittles on your face so when you take it off you have a rainbow

    • @memistcentral2044
      @memistcentral2044 3 года назад +42

      Mmm!
      But stickiness
      And ants
      And roaches

    • @DhrithionVocals
      @DhrithionVocals 3 года назад +14

      @@memistcentral2044 as someone who lives near a forest area I felt the bugs part 😭😭

    • @wolfiethetimberwolf1363
      @wolfiethetimberwolf1363 3 года назад +2

      @@DhrithionVocals Oh me too lol, our house is surrounded by many, MANY trees.

    • @auheckna
      @auheckna 3 года назад +2

      @@DhrithionVocals i live in South Carolina. The frickin palmetto bugs.

    • @memistcentral2044
      @memistcentral2044 3 года назад

      @@Franks_Fanboy cronch

  • @micmikeman6865
    @micmikeman6865 3 года назад +24

    Dressed for the last day of school in blue and grey, the demiboy colors. Only 2 of my friends knew 😀

  • @uhmmaya
    @uhmmaya 4 года назад +1231

    Have a gay day everyone and *bi* for now. 😂

    • @PoweredByRainbows
      @PoweredByRainbows  4 года назад +179

      Omg that’s perfect I like it a lot and I want to use that now!!!! Thank you! Hugs 🤗

    • @PoweredByRainbows
      @PoweredByRainbows  4 года назад +117

      Maybe I can switch it up and do one per script that way our outro is more inclusive to all lgbtq. That’s a good idea and thank you!

    • @uhmmaya
      @uhmmaya 4 года назад +17

      Powered By Rainbows yeah that’s a good idea!

    • @haleeyyyyyy
      @haleeyyyyyy 4 года назад +6

      I will fam

    • @o5-7firefox
      @o5-7firefox 4 года назад +6

      Yo I might use this lol

  • @muchcry8674
    @muchcry8674 4 года назад +318

    Me, watching this at 4 am in the morning: *"Y e e y e e"*
    Edit: I actually came out a little bit after writing this. It's been 4 months, but I did it. And for anyone who is curious, it went really well. My main family (the ones I actually care about) support me. Now, for the rest of my family? I refuse to come out to them. But overall, I'm supported by my friends and the family I love.

    • @r6kuuu.
      @r6kuuu. 4 года назад +6

      Nocturnal Cowboy gang

    • @maeanizah1597
      @maeanizah1597 4 года назад +6

      ...are you part of kurtistown.......??

    • @muchcry8674
      @muchcry8674 4 года назад +5

      @@maeanizah1597 *Y e e y e e*

    • @alaynaallen3044
      @alaynaallen3044 4 года назад +1

      *Me who legitimately just finished rewatching Blood Related * ...👀 YEE YEEEEEE

    • @lucy-pu9qd
      @lucy-pu9qd 3 года назад +6

      i know you commented ages ago but congratulations!!!!!! i am so proud of you and i hope you're doing well❣❣

  • @notdestini
    @notdestini 3 года назад +10

    This is beautiful. I was closeted for four years, and it was little things like this that kept me sane. I remember painting rocks with pride flag colors and writing the names of my girl crushes in code in my notebooks. Small expressions of pride are valuable beyond measure, and seeing a channel dedicate an entire video to it warms my heart. Thank you ❤

  • @pizza1468
    @pizza1468 4 года назад +118

    I'm a FTM Transgender still in the closet.

    • @laurinechanza7886
      @laurinechanza7886 4 года назад +17

      it's ok take ur time if ur parents don't accept u we do 😁

  • @Isabelle-kk9if
    @Isabelle-kk9if 4 года назад +139

    Me putting rainbows and bi flags all over my room, my parents: ➖👄➖

    • @andi_sangs
      @andi_sangs 3 года назад +1

      They probably know👁👄👁

  • @ryennelangford9724
    @ryennelangford9724 3 года назад +24

    4:53 I personally made the pride flag into a background that was hidden kind of but because I'm bad at explaining it I'll use some examples.
    Bisexual: a night sky with mountains in the foreground
    Pansexual: a sunrise over an ocean
    Nonbinary: a golden glowing trophy on a stormy rain cloud.

  • @putrievanatasha8405
    @putrievanatasha8405 3 года назад +414

    It's honestly cute how he said "I know I'm really gay"
    My brother who is gay watching this with me:*gay panic and hides his face in the blanket*

  • @Lee-fn3vf
    @Lee-fn3vf 4 года назад +220

    i’m definitely using these
    lesbian pride right here 😗✌️

  • @sonya367
    @sonya367 3 года назад +7

    I hung out with a friend for the first time a little while ago (we only talked in between classes and got along great). We went to an empty park and one of the first things she asked me was what my pronouns and preferred name was. Then she asked my sexuality. (She’s gay, I’m questioning aro&gay) I’d say one of the best things you can do is just ask someone right when you meet them. Do it privately and make sure they (and you) feel comfortable. Saying “if you don’t feel comfortable or don’t want to talk we can talk about something else” is great because it makes the person feel like they aren’t forced to tell. It makes both people feel great afterwards- especially if both or just one of you is in the closet.

  • @coffee4701
    @coffee4701 3 года назад +497

    Me: * unconsciously makes 3 little beaded butterflys one pink one yellow and one blue * (when I didn't even know my sexuality)
    This video: find something that has your colors that represents your flag
    Me: * looks around for stuff the has pink, yellow, and blue *
    Me: * finds the bead butterflys that I made *
    Me: was this fate 'o'

    • @Sidralovescrows
      @Sidralovescrows 3 года назад +19

      I did the same thing with my cousin’s tent in mc, I knew she was pan but accidentally made the tent look like a pan flag

    • @coffee4701
      @coffee4701 3 года назад +7

      @Amelie Warneck yessir

    • @Lunny0_0
      @Lunny0_0 3 года назад +14

      I did the same thing too but whit the bi flag and since i remember i always put blue, purple and pink in my draws or everything and sometimes now i see my old draws and i think "oh wow it was destiny" 😂

    • @Sidralovescrows
      @Sidralovescrows 3 года назад +6

      @@Lunny0_0 wait… MY BI SISTER’S FAVORITE COLORS IN KINDERGARTEN PINK, PURPLE, AND BLUE, BEFORE SHE KNEW THEY EXISTED

    • @emilym2567
      @emilym2567 3 года назад +3

      uhh well i did this with the polyam flag.. it was a bracelet. uhh its been on for like a year now and im afraid this is what it is.. idk if im poly.. huh i should probs look into that.

  • @kingagustd8706
    @kingagustd8706 3 года назад +285

    When ur dad excepts u but ur mom constantly reminds u she doesn’t
    The fact that she threatens not to have a relationship with me when I’m older plz😭🤚🏼 you think I want one wit u?👀

    • @moon_wei
      @moon_wei 3 года назад +23

      mm YES SIS FLAME IT
      RAISED AND TAUGHT BY PAPA AGUST D

    • @urlocalpan_loser7240
      @urlocalpan_loser7240 3 года назад +21

      My mom found out through my step sis I’m bi and she acts like she accepts me but the comments she makes make it obvious can’t wait to leave this home 😂✌🏽

    • @kittykatrat1474
      @kittykatrat1474 3 года назад +7

      HAHA, DRAG HER BESTIE

    • @H3ARTSTARS101
      @H3ARTSTARS101 3 года назад +5

      my mom,dad, and boyfriend knows I'm bisexual and accept it...my step dad doesn't know I'm bi I'm scared what he will say because he's christian and disagrees with lgbtq

    • @DhrithionVocals
      @DhrithionVocals 3 года назад +1

      Mine is opposite lmao

  • @zer0mori.mp3
    @zer0mori.mp3 3 года назад +15

    Here's a cutesy little idea for those who like to draw: make OCs out of your pride flag colors! Make them represent your sexuality accurately and, in general, make them...you! I'm doing that right now, so you probably can too. It's a simple little thing, but it works! If anyone gets suspicious, just say they like the colors or outfit they're wearing.

  • @Ser_1986
    @Ser_1986 4 года назад +73

    I painted my nails to match the bisexual flag. I also painted a wooden heart cutout like the rainbow flag.

    • @july4376
      @july4376 4 года назад +3

      wait that’s a great idea i’m always wondering what colors to paint my nails anyway

    • @dutchik5107
      @dutchik5107 4 года назад +1

      @@july4376 GRADIËNT. And if you want to be not obvious at all.
      HOLO.
      I mean rainbows. Come on.

    • @MOTHERWELL4LIFE
      @MOTHERWELL4LIFE 4 года назад +1

      I did this!

  • @juliana8374
    @juliana8374 3 года назад +82

    i draw pride flags on the bottoms of my feet using markers, i always wear socks so no one knows and it makes me extremely happy knowing i drew them somewhere on my skin. it's such a small thing but it's crazy how good it makes you feel.

    • @juliana8374
      @juliana8374 3 года назад +4

      oh by the way if the markers you use bleed onto yours socks it also works to draw the flag on your ankle :)

    • @broccoligirl9019
      @broccoligirl9019 3 года назад

      I don't wear socks so ill do it on my hip

    • @cheeseking06
      @cheeseking06 2 года назад

      i love this idea and will be stealing it

    • @cherizsaw
      @cherizsaw 2 года назад

      thats a really good idea! (toripfptoripfp)

    • @exacutionpoints8908
      @exacutionpoints8908 2 года назад

      @@juliana8374 Thank you for sharing this idea! I'll try it!

  • @avatardragonborn8396
    @avatardragonborn8396 3 года назад +1

    Sending virtual hugs to everyone else who feels like they have to hide

  • @yeevee_
    @yeevee_ 4 года назад +89

    i'm losing my shit over the lego pride parade lmao its such a genius concept

  • @WritingPirate
    @WritingPirate 3 года назад +212

    Skittles have been my favorite candy every since I was little and I think I’m pan sexual. Coincidence? I think not. My family is not homophobic and they are very supportive, but I’m still figuring myself out so I haven’t mentioned anything.

    • @kittykatrat1474
      @kittykatrat1474 3 года назад +2

      SAME, i have loved skittles for a very long time, i hope you figure out what you are soon!

    • @strider2015
      @strider2015 3 года назад +1

      Are- are you me?

    • @emeliasversion
      @emeliasversion 3 года назад +1

      i’m the same (not the skittles part but the family part). i’ve been questioning for about 3 years (ok i get it i can’t ever decide on what i am) but i think i’ve finally figured out and am FINALLY staring to come out to friends and family. i’m actually planning on telling my mom this month but idk for sure

    • @jordynsanders7935
      @jordynsanders7935 3 года назад

      I only eat skittles they are my muse in life

    • @wallfishz
      @wallfishz 3 года назад

      Same, exactly same-

  • @floangel5422
    @floangel5422 3 года назад +2

    I know this is supposed to be a helpful and lighthearted video, but my heart just broke watching this. There are so many people that don't have to hide who they are and can safely live their lives without much thought at all, but then you remember that there are so many more people who are still stuck in situations where being themselves isn't an option. For someone like me where it's just second nature to be who you are, I couldn't imagine having to live your life wearing some type of mask, especially if that meant staying out of harm's way. It's taking a long time, but to everyone who's in the closet right now I hope you are having a good pride month. Stay safe, and just keep holding onto that little glimmer of hope because sooner or later you'll be able to finally be free.

  • @silverrrr2992
    @silverrrr2992 3 года назад +211

    "Here are some tips on how to hide things from your family" lol this had me laughing

    • @JKing666
      @JKing666 3 года назад +16

      me: *tucking my rainbow flag behind my back better*

    • @silverrrr2992
      @silverrrr2992 3 года назад +19

      @@JKing666 "watcha got there?" "A smoothie"

    • @JKing666
      @JKing666 3 года назад +5

      @@silverrrr2992 *gay panic*

    • @silverrrr2992
      @silverrrr2992 3 года назад +3

      ​@mae_09 yes lol. My parents are super strict

    • @silverrrr2992
      @silverrrr2992 3 года назад +1

      @@petragames6153 do your parents know the flag?

  • @chasemohler1911
    @chasemohler1911 4 года назад +66

    I have set a reputation of loving rainbows... I’m gay... they think I’m just upsesed with rainbows

  • @foodforthought247
    @foodforthought247 3 года назад +7

    _"I know, I'm very gay"_ is literally the best quote ever

  • @philiporlando2052
    @philiporlando2052 4 года назад +26

    wow you really are amazing, while making the lgbtq+ comunty proud you find a way who feel left out because they cant be themselves to help and feel better about themselves, and be the part of them that they cant show, you are truly amazing

    • @PoweredByRainbows
      @PoweredByRainbows  4 года назад +3

      Awe I geared up reading that. Thank you so much. The way I look at it is that every episode year round of our show is a small letter back to my old 11 year old self telling him that it’s okay to be who I am. I hope every episode can help someone know they are loved and normal. The lgbtq has given me immense strength so I hope to pass that along each week to the next in line. But I’ll admit, doing 52 weeks of content is hard so it’s comments like yours which keep me motivated. So thank you and happy Pride Month! 🤗🤗🏳️‍🌈

    • @philiporlando2052
      @philiporlando2052 4 года назад +1

      Thank you for putting so much effort and hard work into your videos they really help me and I’m sure many others

  • @dead-strawberrie
    @dead-strawberrie 4 года назад +342

    Here’s another suggestion: binge lgbtq+ tik tok compilations
    This is what I’ve been doing.

  • @B.l.u.w.i.e
    @B.l.u.w.i.e 3 года назад +16

    I like to collect chap-sticks and I'm bisexual, so I put my blue, pink and purple chap-sticks next to each other :)
    Edit: I even tried to do the lesbian flag with them (I'm really attracted to women than men)but it didn't look good 😂

  • @ClosetDemon
    @ClosetDemon 4 года назад +100

    when i was in the closet i had my background of my phone as the trans flag. but i kept the lock screen normal. so only people who knew the password could see it, which was only me

    • @thebeansarecomingforyou1581
      @thebeansarecomingforyou1581 4 года назад +11

      There's also lots of designs that have pride colours but aren't actually obviously a flag, those work aswell

    • @auggiemain
      @auggiemain 4 года назад +6

      My dad doesnt let me have a password and when I used to have one he would force me to tell him it 😔😔😔

    • @gabereal.
      @gabereal. 4 года назад +4

      that’s such a good idea I’m doing that now

    • @Ash_the_crybaby
      @Ash_the_crybaby 3 года назад +1

      Thank for the idea

    • @idkanymore5287
      @idkanymore5287 3 года назад +2

      My lock screen is literally just flowers the color of the pan flag and no one knows

  • @qimonm1562
    @qimonm1562 3 года назад +109

    “How to celebrate pride while your in the closet” why was my volume so
    High and why did my dad have the be in the room next to me 🥲

    • @JKing666
      @JKing666 3 года назад +6

      oop-

    • @MadisonJouvenaar
      @MadisonJouvenaar 3 года назад +17

      Awwwwww i hope everything went ok if he heard 💕

    • @moonlit7273
      @moonlit7273 3 года назад +7

      why IS your volume high 😂

    • @Impala-ui8nl
      @Impala-ui8nl 3 года назад +4

      how did he react?

    • @qimonm1562
      @qimonm1562 3 года назад +8

      @@moonlit7273 my ears ain’t what they used to be 👨🏻‍🦳

  • @b3nnefits
    @b3nnefits 3 года назад +14

    The amount of amusement I get saying “Happy pride month!” To my cishet friends is a lot, there just look at me and go “W h a t” and once they even said “Hey! I’m not prideful!”

  • @thestarkid5449
    @thestarkid5449 4 года назад +115

    A password or something could be 3139 because in the periodic table 31 is abbreviated to Ga and 39 is abbreviated to Y

    • @MystFox1314
      @MystFox1314 4 года назад +13

      Oh my gosh I love it

    • @zoranight16
      @zoranight16 4 года назад +13

      That's clever

    • @aromanticfranziskavonkarma
      @aromanticfranziskavonkarma 4 года назад +7

      I'm doing that-

    • @quality17
      @quality17 4 года назад +11

      Mate, you the master chemist

    • @simarm7278
      @simarm7278 4 года назад +11

      Bruh I finally found another person who uses the periodic table for passwords and stuff, thought I was the only person who did that.

  • @hussein4511
    @hussein4511 3 года назад +35

    I bought my first pride t-shirt can't wait to wear this june as gay closet black muslim 🥰

  • @hihello-el2nn
    @hihello-el2nn 3 года назад +5

    I´m still in the closet so I made a painting of marceline and princess bubblegum, my mom saw it and said it looked cute. And my friends bought me a washi tape in rainbow colors. Happy pride month!!

  • @clover_n_socks
    @clover_n_socks 4 года назад +40

    as an ace, I'm still in the deck (the closet) to my family

  • @rayofsunshine6300
    @rayofsunshine6300 4 года назад +19

    Today I wore a rainbow tye-dye shirt and some rainbow long socks with my outfit today. It was a very subtle way to dress for Pride, but it was just enough to where my parents didn’t suspect anything, and I felt very happy showing off my colors. :)

  • @rxinycxndy488
    @rxinycxndy488 3 года назад +21

    pride aside, him talking without using ,,uhh, soo, umm, ahh" is just weird lmao, dont get me wrong, i'm used to other people and my self included using those words a lot during convo and it feels weird when someone talks normally without using them

  • @rottofox
    @rottofox 4 года назад +50

    3:50 That's what I'm doing 🤣
    I'm very surprised my family hasn't put it all together yet. I'm even posting them online on 3 different apps 😅🤣

  • @yourownmother9604
    @yourownmother9604 4 года назад +86

    Today I got braces, so to celebrate for pride I got them lesbian-flag pinks!

    • @leohereezz3434
      @leohereezz3434 4 года назад +6

      Your soooooo smart

    • @yourownmother9604
      @yourownmother9604 4 года назад +3

      @@leohereezz3434 thanks :)

    • @leohereezz3434
      @leohereezz3434 4 года назад +1

      @@yourownmother9604 ur welcome;)

    • @DappledLeaf
      @DappledLeaf 3 года назад +6

      Omg so cool! When I get my braces, I always request blue and pinkish-purple bands for the bi colors :>

    • @lpspaws2740
      @lpspaws2740 3 года назад +2

      HELL YEAH..... on the 9th i’m getting braces soooo i might do this, i haven’t come out yet but yeah, that’s a good idea

  • @Impala-ui8nl
    @Impala-ui8nl 3 года назад +6

    Luckily I live alone, so I ordered a cup with my flag printed on it and now I'm drinking out of it every morning. No one knows but it makes me really happy

  • @dolcebelcanto3626
    @dolcebelcanto3626 3 года назад +11

    My little celebrations as a closeted bi are:
    - wearing my muted rainbow shirt (which is just a normal shirt I have that doesn't look pride-related)
    - wearing my ace ring (I'm grey-ace, and also I love rings)
    - wearing a rainbow bracelet at uni, then taking it off before going home
    - sneaking bi colors into things, like phone background
    - cuffing a l l the jeans
    - bi bob
    - listening to my lgbt playlist on Spotify
    2021 edit:
    I now have a bunch of bi/ace-colored laptop stickers, a bi-colored cat tshirt, a subtle rainbow tie-dye sweatshirt, and some scrunchies that include bi and rainbow colors 👌🏻

  • @solarstudiosisonbreak931
    @solarstudiosisonbreak931 4 года назад +97

    *leave small things around the room that are the colors of your pride flag*
    Me: * looks around room painted the colors of the trans flag * You don’t sayyy

    • @JKing666
      @JKing666 3 года назад

      lol I am lesbian but my room is all different shades of blue

    • @JKing666
      @JKing666 3 года назад +1

      @Amelie Warneck SAME i just use the gay flag because I never call myself a lesbian, i always say gay so it works

  • @WadelDee
    @WadelDee 3 года назад +3

    Oh yes. Pride in your imagination. This is so wonderful.
    Going to a pride parade is one thing but going to a pride parade knowing that there are many, many people who support us but only in spirit is a strengthening, heart-warming thought.
    Even outside of pride month, I feel comfort in the idea that there are millions of people around the world who don't know me but still love me and accept me the way I am.
    Even if there is no direct interaction between each other, the thought itself can be very encouraging sometimes. You are not alone.

  • @echofox7525
    @echofox7525 4 года назад +54

    "Hit that rainbow subscribe button!"
    Me: Wait, you can make it rainbow?!

  • @mehlordwowlol
    @mehlordwowlol 4 года назад +91

    Lol I just did a pride drawing and I put it inside my closet so my parents won't seee lol that's a good idea do that people

    • @july4376
      @july4376 4 года назад +8

      honestly kinda feeling like filling my closet with rainbows and sitting in there eating skittles for the rest of the month

    • @pilarstrid620
      @pilarstrid620 4 года назад +4

      Lol closet get it🤣

    • @nerddmg
      @nerddmg 3 года назад +2

      I also made one, and my parents saw it and didn't think anything of it
      t h e y d o n ' t k n o w t h a t o t h e r p r i d e f l a g s e x i s t o t h e r t h a n r a i n b o w s o i m s a f e f o r n o w

  • @elleapostrophe448
    @elleapostrophe448 3 года назад +15

    Me: *has my closet and dresser full of pride clothes*
    Me the next week: *going to my homophobic fathers house*
    Me preparing: oh god…what do I do I don’t have any clean shirts that aren’t pride related!!
    Me: *sees that one Loki shirt*
    Me: GAY CHARACTER BUT IT WORKS!!!

  • @nero17
    @nero17 4 года назад +19

    “I know I’m very gay.” Quote of the year! Thanks man! I listen to a podcast called “The Two Princes”! It’s a great story and I recommend listening to it!

  • @KimoCraft
    @KimoCraft 4 года назад +17

    Happy Pride month everyone! whether you are in the closet or not, i'm rooting for you. you are loved!

  • @min3craftiscool553
    @min3craftiscool553 2 года назад +2

    I came to this video about a year ago (9 months) and it came up in my YT recommended again... I'm proud to say that I no longer need this video as I'm now not and accepted by my family and peers. I'd still like to repeat what I said last time I was here though. If you have no text box selected and type "awesome" your progress bar (the usually red bar that tells you how far you are in the vid) will flash in rainbow colors. It's very subtle and not many people will notice it and those who do you can say it was just a weird feature on yt that you found. I hope this helps those who are closeted and I'd just like to remind you that there are people who will accept and love you even if they don't seem like they would now.

    • @min3craftiscool553
      @min3craftiscool553 2 года назад

      Wait what?! This is the greatest honor I have been bestowed. An individual like from a popular content creator that didn't just click like all and move on!

  • @duskathejackal7421
    @duskathejackal7421 4 года назад +44

    “Have a gay day everyone... and bi for now” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 BISEXUALS ARE VALID!!!!!!! Jk lol
    Well yes we are, but this was just a joke lol

  • @tuesdaybandy63
    @tuesdaybandy63 4 года назад +58

    I wish I could use these, but I’m in the pantry.

  • @sofiaardvark9039
    @sofiaardvark9039 3 года назад +5

    It's the first time I've seen any of your videos, but you're so sweet and make me feel very safe, thank you! Happy Pride Month! ❤️

  • @amprice2727
    @amprice2727 4 года назад +71

    I'm out to my step mom, mom, and dad, + soon to be step dad, but only my step dad and mom use the right pronouns and name. Honestly i start to feel terrible whenever my parents I live with (step mom and dad) say my deadname and say she/her pronouns. I said I go by Adrian (I changed my mind and have been going by Kai for months now) and use he him pronouns. They say they support me and my dad is willingly letting me buy a trans flag as long as it's my money, but the closest they get to correct pronouns is my mom saying "your a very special wonderful gir- person" when I was panicking and just mental problems of mine when I was giving up and actually trying to share my problems.

    • @wren1236
      @wren1236 4 года назад

      Just wondering why'd you change your name from Adrian to Kai? Sorry if this is being nosey am just curious! 😁✌

    • @jello8867
      @jello8867 4 года назад +4

      I don’t know you but I’m so proud of you for coming out...and kai is SUCH A COOL NAME!

    • @xxsmollittleflamexx7442
      @xxsmollittleflamexx7442 4 года назад +3

      I remember having a discussion with my friends about being gender fluid and they decided to give me the nickname Kai for when I feel in between and I'm glad we had that talk bc I feel safe around them :)
      Also I'm glad that you had enough courage to fully tell your parents about how you feel!

    • @MOTHERWELL4LIFE
      @MOTHERWELL4LIFE 4 года назад +3

      Just be happy theyre trying. This is most likely a big change for them because for their whole life, theyve believed youre a girl. give them time to adjust, and help them out when needed. theyll come around. 😌

  • @porque6835
    @porque6835 4 года назад +7

    I love how respectful, sweet and accepting this channel and the people on the comments are 🥺

    • @PoweredByRainbows
      @PoweredByRainbows  4 года назад +2

      We create a safe place here for lgbtq with weekly episodes.

  • @callmekai6330
    @callmekai6330 2 года назад +4

    I’m terrified for when I eventually have to come out, my parents just wouldn’t understand, but I get sick of them calling me a girl, same with my siblings, I almost start crying because I’m so uncomfortable, but I have been secretly celebrating pride the past few years, and the Internet is a great way to do so.

  • @anonymous_goose8303
    @anonymous_goose8303 4 года назад +48

    Fun fact: I made a necklace for my dad in pans flag colors before I even knew I was part of this community

    • @andii-
      @andii- 3 года назад +9

      i suddenly became obsessed with rainbows, then in november im like “well shit im ace”, then it developed from there

    • @travelingthecosmos
      @travelingthecosmos 3 года назад +1

      lmaoooo my favorite colors growing up (and still now) were pink, purple, and blue… now I’m Bi.

  • @imprisoned.marionette
    @imprisoned.marionette 4 года назад +122

    I go into roblox games and say “HAPPY PRIDE MONTH” and run around saying that and I made new lgbtq+ friends!

    • @julsiegamermove4115
      @julsiegamermove4115 4 года назад +2

      Nice

    • @nagitokomaeda43
      @nagitokomaeda43 4 года назад +6

      I did that the other day but there was homophobic bots everywhere filling the chat so no one could even see my messages 😑

    • @ieatbabies8616
      @ieatbabies8616 3 года назад

      You are the person I want to be friends with, you also like danganronpa

  • @ramadasanjaya
    @ramadasanjaya 3 года назад +15

    Mom : why u put this rainbow flag in your room?
    Me : oh it’s our chakras colors alignment from root chakra to crown chakra. I’m into meditating right now for my higher self.
    Mom : ok. Cool