COMING OUT - THE OFFICIAL SONG

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  • COMING OUT - THE OFFICIAL SONG
    People ask me all the time, "HOW DO I COME OUT!?" so to make it easy for everyone, I made this video! Just send your loved ones this and the song will do the work for you! Enjoy!
    Lyric:
    [Verse 1]
    We're all the same, we just want to belong
    So, let me explain in the form of a song
    What you're 'bout to find out
    Got news to share
    So sit yourself down
    Get yourself prepared and
    [Pre-Chorus 1]
    If this is hard to hear
    Then you should hit replay
    'Cause I can guarantee it's harder for them to say
    Whoever sent you this
    Told me to say hello
    Give you a hug and kiss
    And also wanted you to know
    [Chorus]
    They're gay and today is the day
    That you're finding out
    Because they're happy this way
    Oh, gay!
    Gay, because
    There's no reason, love's always in season
    And love is love
    Ooooh, love is love
    Ooooh, love is love
    [Verse 2]
    We're all the same, we just want to belong
    So, if you are ashamed of them, then move along
    'Cause the world is changing for the better, you'll see
    So embrace the grace of sexuality, 'cause
    [Pre-Chorus 2]
    Everyone has a view, but there is not a cure
    Don't say that they're confused
    'Cause I'm gay myself, and I'm very sure
    If you were sent this song
    By someone you care about
    Then you should clap along
    'Cause it's their way of coming out
    [Chorus]
    They're gay and today is the day
    That you're finding out
    Because they're happy this way
    Oh, gay!
    Gay, because
    There's no reason, love's always in season
    And love is love
    Ooooh, love is love
    Ooooh, love is love
    [Bridge]
    They could've robbed a bank
    Or stolen a car
    But all they've done
    Is love who they are
    And they want you to love them back
    How could you be mad at that?
    They're allowed to be proud
    So let them sing it aloud
    [Outro]
    They're gay and today is the day
    That you're finding out
    Because they're happy this way
    Oh, gay!
    Gay, because
    There's no reason, love's always in season
    And love is love
    Ooooh, love is love
    Ooooh, love is love
    Ooooh, love is love
    Life is better when you just remember
    That love is love
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Комментарии • 38 тыс.

  • @Andrew-si7db
    @Andrew-si7db 4 года назад +6200

    Edit: guys i made this when i was 12 my dads actually homophobic and transphobic he hates me

  • @ronaldrooster5217
    @ronaldrooster5217 4 года назад +10480

    Being gay is literally one of the only things that are easier done than said

    • @foxignis6321
      @foxignis6321 4 года назад +383

      Omg this is genius. And relatable.

    • @ProvidenceMTF
      @ProvidenceMTF 4 года назад +172

      Doing and saying are both extremely hard

    • @foxignis6321
      @foxignis6321 4 года назад +173

      @@ProvidenceMTF It's not hard to be gay. It's pretty easy. Just love the same gender as you then ur gay.ez

    • @ProvidenceMTF
      @ProvidenceMTF 4 года назад +87

      @@foxignis6321 i meant finding a bf

    • @foxignis6321
      @foxignis6321 4 года назад +132

      @@ProvidenceMTF oh it, that part is hard.
      But you can be single and get at the same time.

  • @linkbusters911
    @linkbusters911 3 года назад +1211

    Whether you’re gay or straight, you have to admit this is a bop.

    • @yfeboanvakenss8841
      @yfeboanvakenss8841 3 года назад +20

      Jokes on you I'm both!

    • @wilyriley_
      @wilyriley_ 2 года назад +22

      @kanjuro影 they’re bi or pan or something similar

    • @jellyking4271
      @jellyking4271 2 года назад +13

      @kanjuro影 it's a joke because there bi

    • @jellyking4271
      @jellyking4271 2 года назад +9

      @kanjuro影 I know but that's what I think that's what they meant it's a joke but jokes don't have to be true just to make you laugh, they weren't being serious

    • @confusiyeon
      @confusiyeon 2 года назад +7

      @kanjuro影 us bisexuals (+ other sexualities!!) use a term of being 'half-straight because you know, we like both genders lmao

  • @firefly7076
    @firefly7076 3 года назад +505

    About half the people I meet: "Are you gay?"
    Me: "I have never given that a straight answer."

  • @aliennayaliz4468
    @aliennayaliz4468 7 лет назад +15713

    my friend sent me this,i sent it back,she told me she liked me,i said I liked her back.we have been dating for a month now ❤

  • @Jessica-sc4wg
    @Jessica-sc4wg 4 года назад +1314

    When it was pride month my mom said she wanted a gay friend..instead she got a gay daughter

  • @miertiil
    @miertiil Год назад +176

    I used this as my coming out to my parents around 6 years ago. I was terrified of their reaction so I just sent this to my mom and went for a walk. She called me around 20 minutes later. I went back home and was welcomed with a hug from her and dad. I couldn't expect better reaction.

  • @covergirl7395
    @covergirl7395 3 года назад +256

    I sent this to my cousin about a year ago and he's VERY religious, he's a pastor at a nearby Baptist church. I was at school and the loudspeaker called me to the office for early dismissal. I thought he was going to scold me but when I walked to the office, I saw him covered in rainbows and he hugged me. The office lady was so confused and we were both laughing, best moment of my life!

    • @uglymelon6721
      @uglymelon6721 3 года назад +2

      This is fake

    • @cosmo8109
      @cosmo8109 3 года назад +15

      Awwwww that's so wholesome.

    • @toxicjay8562
      @toxicjay8562 Год назад +7

      Awww🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🌈🌈🌈

    • @HipBeeWitch
      @HipBeeWitch Год назад +6

      @@uglymelon6721 Nah, he's just a true believer is all.

  • @anderae400
    @anderae400 5 лет назад +4306

    Pro tip: send this to any straight person that's flirting with you.

  • @ancient4263
    @ancient4263 4 года назад +1012

    *"if this is hard to hear, then you should hit replay, 'cause I can guarantee it's harder for them to say"*
    BLESS

    • @eliidk1953
      @eliidk1953 4 года назад +18

      "They could have robbed a bank or stolen a car but all they have done is love who they are"
      But I've done those..

    • @Khloe-ol1px
      @Khloe-ol1px 4 года назад +1

      @@eliidk1953 and I oop-

    • @eibhlinteague4967
      @eibhlinteague4967 4 года назад +3

      The Cynical Potato / Eliana S. Why do I always come across these comments RIGHT when I hear the lyric.

  • @ban6883
    @ban6883 3 года назад +1132

    Mom: you can’t have a boyfriend til you’re 18-21
    Me a bisexual: cha cha real smooth

  • @Absurdtheistic
    @Absurdtheistic Год назад +53

    Fuck here I am 7 years later still tearing up listening to this song remembering 12 year old me listening to this song wishing telling my parents would be as easy as sending them a song. If only I could tell younger me it doesn't and never will matter what my parents think. You are who you are, they either accept that or don't but that doesn't make you any less or more valid

  • @honeypeaches7736
    @honeypeaches7736 4 года назад +2969

    My Dad when I came out: "Eh...if I were a lady, I'd be a lesbian too." Lmao 😂❤

  • @JuanCarabajal
    @JuanCarabajal 7 лет назад +6585

    I sent this to my parents and their response was a short video of them singing "we already knew that, we love you". Oh well...

  • @syhz69
    @syhz69 3 года назад +610

    coming out as a lesbian
    lil bro: ok
    big bro: i knew it
    mom: *homophobic catholic noises*
    dad: *message still pending..*

    • @emmacampbell3854
      @emmacampbell3854 3 года назад +16

      Oh jeez hope you are dong ok

    • @asherisdum8562
      @asherisdum8562 3 года назад +3

      I know right

    • @syhz69
      @syhz69 3 года назад +21

      @kqro oh no he burned a lgbtq flag in a video game made for teens 😱 shiver me timbers

    • @lemongloves
      @lemongloves 3 года назад +10

      @@syhz69 shiver me timbers 😱 what will we ever do?

    • @akosiblue2571
      @akosiblue2571 3 года назад +2

      @kqro lol, buddy can't even English

  • @candyd1523
    @candyd1523 3 года назад +206

    OMGG FOR 3 YEARS I’VE DREAMED OF COMING OUT AND THIS SONG REALLY HELPED AND I FINALLY DID IT TODAY I CAME OUT AAAHHH

    • @girlsphone6136
      @girlsphone6136 3 года назад +5

      Yassssss

    • @caramel..
      @caramel.. 3 года назад +5

      How did it go???

    • @SU20006
      @SU20006 3 года назад +5

      Greatt!!🥺🥺

    • @candyd1523
      @candyd1523 3 года назад +11

      @@caramel.. REALLY GOODD

    • @Pascal25_
      @Pascal25_ 3 года назад +6

      @@candyd1523 proud of you!!! I am still in the closet:(

  • @spudart5952
    @spudart5952 7 лет назад +339

    10 likes and I will come out 💕💕

    • @nobody-wb4ly
      @nobody-wb4ly 7 лет назад +21

      Dog Lover How did it happend?

    • @Mad-ik4fq
      @Mad-ik4fq 7 лет назад +7

      Spud Art did it go well?

  • @DayLynnAcacia
    @DayLynnAcacia 9 лет назад +8421

    This may or may not be the 1,350th time that we have watched this...

    • @eleashajohnson
      @eleashajohnson 9 лет назад +66

      I've been listening to it on repeat

    • @diannecaballeroe4812
      @diannecaballeroe4812 9 лет назад +36

      Eleasha Johnson yah. I could listen to this every hour. It's so good. It touches my heart and soul :-)

    • @kingwokong
      @kingwokong 9 лет назад +8

      Me too

    • @diannecaballeroe4812
      @diannecaballeroe4812 9 лет назад +6

      Aaliyah Matthews :-) :-)

    • @kingwokong
      @kingwokong 9 лет назад +5

      Dianne Caballeroe​😜😜

  • @Ash-ph2eb
    @Ash-ph2eb 3 года назад +591

    Trans guys: *exist*
    Straight girls: "omfg yes king hunty slayy get it yaasss"
    A lesbian: "hey do u know where the bathroom is?"
    Straight girl: *omg stop hitting on me*

    • @asherisdum8562
      @asherisdum8562 3 года назад +24

      I was choking when i saw this

    • @SalemsForgottenWitch
      @SalemsForgottenWitch 2 года назад +34

      Idk what that's supposed to mean, idk I have adhd and idk it kinda sounds to me like you're saying that being trans is socially accepted/being celebrated by straight cis ppl but like idk bc that's not true at all😭

    • @shadowkat678
      @shadowkat678 2 года назад +8

      @@SalemsForgottenWitch Yeah, I'm confused as well. Cause it completely isn't.

    • @flora.and.juniper
      @flora.and.juniper Год назад +3

      @@shadowkat678 no but its often fetishized by cis women online.

    • @c0rpse.eatrrr
      @c0rpse.eatrrr 9 месяцев назад +1

      i think they're meaning if in a certain context if ykwim..

  • @catarinaroberto1409
    @catarinaroberto1409 3 года назад +66

    Am I the only one who would listen to this on my earbuds 24/7 after I finaly realized I was not straight?
    It always makes me feel happy.

  • @lottetsun5473
    @lottetsun5473 7 лет назад +383

    15 likes and i'll project this at a big screen in front of my family at our family reunion.

  • @loserlykewhoaa
    @loserlykewhoaa 4 года назад +605

    Sent this to my mom. Her response? “You told me this 11 years ago”

  • @valentines_violence1647
    @valentines_violence1647 2 года назад +16

    I sent this to my grandma 4 years ago, she didnt believe me, thought one of my friends dared me to do it, today, I re-watched it with her, and she said "Im sorry I didnt understand back then, you know I love you no matter what, right?" people change.

  • @nicomayolassebastian4253
    @nicomayolassebastian4253 Год назад +10

    Came back here after 7 years because I just remembered the existance of this song and how it shaped some part of my life. Feels weird, but I'm glad that after 8 years of this song there's still people using it to come out.

  • @weirdbeetworld4914
    @weirdbeetworld4914 4 года назад +2860

    The dislikes are from people who stole cars

    • @lemonweirdo
      @lemonweirdo 4 года назад +171

      And robbed a bank

    • @94deea
      @94deea 4 года назад +103

      Man, now I have to dislike

    • @DitsyDoll
      @DitsyDoll 4 года назад +19

      O.o

    • @captainarigatos294
      @captainarigatos294 4 года назад +16

      It doesn't make sense but I love it

    • @weirdbeetworld4914
      @weirdbeetworld4914 4 года назад +32

      Captain Arigatos because she said “at least they didn’t steal cars or rob a bank”

  • @UnstableElixir
    @UnstableElixir 5 лет назад +773

    Ok so, I came out to my bff and he is supporting me. But, idk how to confess to him... D:
    Edit:
    Hey everyone! Thank you very very much for all your support :) I confessed to him and he said no.. :( But wait! He still wants to be my bestie.. So it's perfectly fine :) He supports me 100%, and I am pretty sure he is gay, too.. He just said he isn't ready for this kind of relationship. He'd never been in that kind of relationship with anyone before... So I guess I'll just wait till he's ready :D Again, thank y'all for the likes and the support! Have a nice day! =P

    • @hopefakelastname3653
      @hopefakelastname3653 5 лет назад +22

      Tell who you want be being proud of who you are and talking about it is great! I'm bisexual/pan/still figuring it out but not straight and my mom and sis know and a few days ago we had a conversation where she as ked if I thought she was pretty, not in a romantic way obviously. but yeah. :) find someone you can talk to

    • @yourmum130
      @yourmum130 5 лет назад +14

      Just go for it! If he's supporting you he'll still support you and even if he doesn't like you back he'll still support you! Who knows? He might like you!

    • @fireflei
      @fireflei 5 лет назад +10

      Oof relatable

    • @whocouldsay8843
      @whocouldsay8843 5 лет назад +9

      D3NN15 315 It’s oki bb you take your time, we are all rooting for you!❤️

    • @thegendervoid5412
      @thegendervoid5412 5 лет назад +10

      Go for it. If I can ask my BFF out, you can.
      We have been dating for 3 months...WOO

  • @liberty6462
    @liberty6462 Месяц назад +5

    i found this video when i was 9, im 18 now and have been out as a lesbian for 4 years and now im sobbing because its such a beautiful message that i feel still needs to be heard today. love is love and always have pride in who you are 🌈

  • @vancitycastiel
    @vancitycastiel 2 года назад +22

    I remember listening to this song and crying because I never thought I’d be out and accepted despite my family not being homophobic or transphobic. I’ve been out and open for a while now, and honestly, not much has changed, but I feel like I finally have less in my mind I need to hide

  • @sanepjin9213
    @sanepjin9213 4 года назад +419

    3.6K dislikes are from the parents that got told their child is gay by this video, and so they accidentally hit the dislike button by crying, which makes the point of view blurry.

  • @calebsteele427
    @calebsteele427 4 года назад +2403

    Me: tries to keep straight face.
    Ally: There GAY
    Me: Smiles

    • @btchfthdcad
      @btchfthdcad 4 года назад +102

      Kittencat Studios straight face? i’m too gay to have a “straight” face. (dad jokes for the win🙂)

    • @mariahhenderson1470
      @mariahhenderson1470 4 года назад +24

      *They're

    • @waffal66
      @waffal66 4 года назад +18

      I would've died of you wrote "gay face" instead XD

    • @summe3r.c0m98
      @summe3r.c0m98 4 года назад +5

      Soo mee

    • @hannah2250
      @hannah2250 4 года назад +5

      Mariah Henderson can you not

  • @stormie8770
    @stormie8770 2 года назад +30

    6 years ago, I played this for my mom. And she said "being with a woman, and sleeping with a woman doesn't make you a Les. Everyone goes through that time. I did. And I turned out fine, with two kids, and a lovely husband" yeah we're not the same there mom.

    • @katesquad3867
      @katesquad3867 27 дней назад

      I’m so sorry that your mom wasn’t more accepting and that she said that to you. You love who you love and that’s okay, you are allowed to be a lesbian; and be proud of it. I hope over these last few years you have been able to love and accept yourself. You are loved and accepted and our community, (I’m pansexual), supports you.

  • @couldntthinkofacoolchannel9915
    @couldntthinkofacoolchannel9915 3 года назад +34

    Anyone else think this is just a genuinely catchy song?

  • @phaerless
    @phaerless 9 лет назад +948

    Now get her on Ellen.

    • @AntoniaParham
      @AntoniaParham 9 лет назад +25

      literally.

    • @topsykrets28
      @topsykrets28 9 лет назад +10

      Right! This needs to happen.

    • @theloverofanimals1
      @theloverofanimals1 9 лет назад +11

      Lets make this happen guys that would be amazing :) Ally deserves it

    • @jollyeagle3896
      @jollyeagle3896 9 лет назад +44

      Lets start a movement! Lets flood Ellens inbox here and on twitter starting now...GO!!!

    • @carlyreid2071
      @carlyreid2071 9 лет назад +29

      I've sent Ellen a tweet and a link to this video!!

  • @emilyd4017
    @emilyd4017 3 года назад +1738

    *mom and dad has a fight*
    My mom: never marry a man.
    Me: mom I like girls
    My mom: *that's not what I meant*

    • @catalinamaruneac456
      @catalinamaruneac456 3 года назад +16

      SAME LMAO

    • @kingcharizardakaCX
      @kingcharizardakaCX 3 года назад +29

      Omg that’s a hilarious coming out story

    • @treefrog1018
      @treefrog1018 3 года назад +21

      LMFAO. I had this exact conversation with my parents. Geez. 😜

    • @harpywiththebrownfeathers
      @harpywiththebrownfeathers 3 года назад +12

      If you're not allowed to marry a man, then uhh... yeah, you don't really have a whole lot of other options.

    • @cheesetoastee
      @cheesetoastee 3 года назад +7

      @@harpywiththebrownfeathers I guess you'd have to fall in love with somebody who identifies as neither male or female. What now, mom?

  • @ToastersGoZappyzap
    @ToastersGoZappyzap 3 года назад +24

    Honestly, I’m still questioning. But this is my new favorite song ever

  • @midorana2902
    @midorana2902 10 месяцев назад +6

    I came out to my father using this song about 5 years ago. Accidentally stumbled upon this again, and it made me cry. He did come back from work, gave me a big hug and told me he just wants me to be happy. This reminded me of that. He wasn't a perfect father, but this is one of the things he never made me fight him about.

  • @AnimeBi_shipper_
    @AnimeBi_shipper_ 5 лет назад +1807

    200 blue thumbs and I will come out to my parents and friends😳😊

    • @alyrar8002
      @alyrar8002 5 лет назад +27

      Do it! We believe in you! ❤💛💚💙💜

    • @AnimeBi_shipper_
      @AnimeBi_shipper_ 5 лет назад +20

      Thx guys🥰♥️🧡💛💙💚💜🥰

    • @AnimeBi_shipper_
      @AnimeBi_shipper_ 5 лет назад +18

      Btw Angelina Guity 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈💜💚💙💛🧡♥️happy pride month!!!

    • @AnimeBi_shipper_
      @AnimeBi_shipper_ 5 лет назад +12

      Btw Alyra R happy pride month 🌈🌈♥️🧡💛💙💚💜🤩

    • @diggiepigeoneer6543
      @diggiepigeoneer6543 5 лет назад +9

      Did you do it?

  • @notevenagamer2710
    @notevenagamer2710 4 года назад +5390

    my mom: you need to start liking girly things
    me: starts liking girls
    my mom: :0

    • @GENESIS_Ven
      @GENESIS_Ven 4 года назад +90

      Omg this comment section gives me life, I love this comment 😂😂

    • @weiwuxian3226
      @weiwuxian3226 4 года назад +97

      "that's not how you're supposed to play the game nO JESSICA IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT-"

    • @notevenagamer2710
      @notevenagamer2710 4 года назад +11

      @@weiwuxian3226 IK LOL I am just joking haha

    • @kalebmorris8829
      @kalebmorris8829 4 года назад +8

      lol

    • @Shnewbi
      @Shnewbi 4 года назад +20

      “Not what I meant when I said thaaaaat”

  • @Simply_a_simmer
    @Simply_a_simmer 3 года назад +16

    Found this song 4 years ago being sure I was straight... 4 years later I came out and I couldn’t be happier 🥳🌈

  • @flowersforfaye24
    @flowersforfaye24 3 года назад +29

    This is such a throwback last time I listened to this was when I came out as a lesbian but I was wrong and now I'm FTM and bisexual! I hope everyone finds their way! Happy pride!

  • @xabun8334
    @xabun8334 4 года назад +4231

    Doctors:do you have any acting experience?
    Me:I acted straight for 12 years .

    • @hrts4pb
      @hrts4pb 4 года назад +19

      I love that 😂

    • @hrts4pb
      @hrts4pb 4 года назад +53

      anonymous I plan on never coming out to my parents then. Moving to America 😂 😎

    • @hubbabubba6422
      @hubbabubba6422 4 года назад +14

      This deserves more attention

    • @zodiacnj
      @zodiacnj 4 года назад +4

      Haha

    • @michellelawrence5168
      @michellelawrence5168 4 года назад +92

      When doctors ask for acting experience

  • @makylie5247
    @makylie5247 7 лет назад +522

    If you're reading this then have a good day ♥

  • @xxstarbrite02xx30
    @xxstarbrite02xx30 3 года назад +17

    I’m already out, why do i keep coming back to this and why is so damn catchy?

  • @wiktoriak3370
    @wiktoriak3370 2 года назад +43

    I live in Poland, a very homophobic country, I cannot tell my parents that I am a lesbian because I know that it will not be well received, but the songs and films that strangers come out help me a lot in accepting myself, which is not easy when from the youngest years I have been told that lgbtq + is bad, it touches me very much when the parents of children who come out of the closet in front of them only hug them and say that they love them, and I hear their parents' unpleasant comments every day and I wonder if will I ever be able to get married in Poland with my girlfriend? So far, I hear from the president that lgbtq + is an ideology Sorry for my clumsy English

    • @aquapuppy445
      @aquapuppy445 Год назад +6

      I’m Polish, I don’t live in Poland, but am learning Polish and love learning about the culture. I didn’t know that it’s a homophobic country. I’m bi, and so far I’ve only told my mum and she was fine with it - first thing she said was asking if she would still have grandkids 😂 I have yet to tell my dad because I feel like he might not support me. I wish the best for you 🇵🇱🙂

  • @iamgay5122
    @iamgay5122 7 лет назад +568

    this is how I'm coming out

  • @kaitlynndowns4905
    @kaitlynndowns4905 7 лет назад +864

    i dont have the guts to come out to my parents... if this can get 200 likes ill finally tell them

  • @user-fb6ei2fj7j
    @user-fb6ei2fj7j 11 месяцев назад +10

    when I am ready to come out I will use this song thank you!!🥹

  • @elisamamprin3893
    @elisamamprin3893 3 года назад +15

    I used to listen to this when I was in the closet a couple years ago and it just made me feel valid. I just cried because this song helped me in some darker times.

  • @theoddunknown6925
    @theoddunknown6925 5 лет назад +344

    _Just imagine someone walking on that beach and just finding the word 'Gay' written in the sand_

    • @madisond7436
      @madisond7436 5 лет назад +66

      Person: god if I’m gay give me a sign
      Person: *sees gay written in the sand*

    • @theoddunknown6925
      @theoddunknown6925 5 лет назад +41

      @@madisond7436 Person: Well I guess I'm gay. Time to go date a dude.
      *_A few years later_*
      Person 2: How *did* you find out you were gay?
      Person: Uh

    • @chococc3906
      @chococc3906 5 лет назад +4

      My thoughts exactly.

    • @BeingtheBard
      @BeingtheBard 5 лет назад +12

      *THIS BEACH IS GAY AS FUCK AND I ACCEPT THAT*

    • @makaylahess9531
      @makaylahess9531 5 лет назад +2

      I'd write "accepted" next to it

  • @joshy2joshy
    @joshy2joshy 3 года назад +5123

    One day, nobody will need to "come out". It will be such a normal thing that anyone can love anyone!

    • @thebigenderqueen1586
      @thebigenderqueen1586 3 года назад +123

      I’m waiting

    • @Zoe-nk5ip
      @Zoe-nk5ip 3 года назад +120

      Im coming out on christmas to my family, hope they will understand when i tell them

    • @joshy2joshy
      @joshy2joshy 3 года назад +59

      @@Zoe-nk5ip Omg, I hope it all goes smoothly

    • @seth4164
      @seth4164 3 года назад +22

      I wish..

    • @joshy2joshy
      @joshy2joshy 3 года назад +59

      @@seth4164 Maybe not in our lifetimes... but humanity always pushes to improve the future for if not ourselves, but also for others.

  • @Hepoxni
    @Hepoxni 3 месяца назад +4

    I remember sending this to everyone when I was 12 in middle school and I’m 18 in college now :)
    This song made me feel so happy and proud to be queer

  • @gh0stlynight
    @gh0stlynight 3 года назад +11

    I came out to my mom with this song like 4 years ago and now I'm back years later listening to it lol

    • @moonchild3257
      @moonchild3257 3 года назад +2

      lol same! except i sent it to my sister hehe

  • @libbystafford4887
    @libbystafford4887 3 года назад +2566

    Me at 14 watching this: I’m such a good ally, if anyone sent me this I’d be so happy bc gay is the best
    Me at 19 (gay): how did I not see this coming

    • @starlightdreams4423
      @starlightdreams4423 3 года назад +84

      lmao... I was so like that too before I discovered I was bi... and r n I'm on standbi trying to figure out how to tell my parents

    • @ellag3048
      @ellag3048 3 года назад +43

      lol i watched this at 10 and thought i was an ally and now i’m like well shit-

    • @jariellla
      @jariellla 3 года назад +8

      OMG MEEEEEEEEE

    • @sofelkartoffel9459
      @sofelkartoffel9459 3 года назад +21

      Literally me. I watched this with 14 thinking: what a nice song. Being gay is so cool. Maybe I am gay...probably not. Now I am 18 and going to show this song to my parents as coming out.

    • @atheismgaming17
      @atheismgaming17 3 года назад +21

      Me at 12: I understand it. I'm a good ally.
      Me at 15(bi): So, I didn't see this coming.

  • @kayleigh6042
    @kayleigh6042 4 года назад +1086

    am i the only one who is scared same-gender friends will be awkward around me when i come out

    • @noahcarton7014
      @noahcarton7014 4 года назад +68

      Nope. I was terrified. They might be... strange ? but mines where great so your's might also be. Just tell them that you don't crush on them if they ask.

    • @user-uq9fz5wv1d
      @user-uq9fz5wv1d 4 года назад +13

      I came out a month ago almost and my friends behave exactly the same around me

    • @maggieo1683
      @maggieo1683 4 года назад +14

      @McKenna Schabert I know how that feels. I had a best friend over a year ago, but when I told her I liked girls she never talked to me again. At least the other 2 friends of mine are cool with it. I'm too scared to tell my other friends or my mom or my super Christian sister that I'm bi/pansexual (still not fully sure yet, maybe I'm gay too).

    • @reigenarataka5589
      @reigenarataka5589 4 года назад +7

      i wasn’t afraid actually. but that’s because most of my mates are either guys or they’re lgbtq+ too (or both).

    • @RainbowQuartz2.0
      @RainbowQuartz2.0 4 года назад +5

      I am scared as well, I really only have male friends and I’m pretty sure if I came out it would be pretty awkward.

  • @rowan3732
    @rowan3732 Год назад +12

    I came out to my parents using this song around seven years ago (I was 12), and while things have changed for me over the years, I am still firmly a part of the lgbtq+ community (only this time as the T and the As lol). I remember my mother (a heavily Christian woman) was very upset and abusive towards me (even more so after coming out to her) and I was unable to revisit this video and listen to this song for many years. While she still has a long way to go, and her abuse has only taken on a different shape over time, I'm finally in a good enough place to listen to this song again. Thank you Ally for giving me the confidence to come out and say I like girls when I was but a young girl myself, and while I've learned more about myself and my identity over the years, and the "gay" label doesn't quite fit me anymöre, I am still unbelievably appreciative. Much love

  • @yvettechevalier7089
    @yvettechevalier7089 Год назад +10

    When I told my parents that I was into girls I was 18. My mom responded by yelling at me, and my dad punched me, kicked me, and threw me against a wall. He actually broke one of my ribs, and I had to flee. Good thing I was going to college anyway, so I could move into my 'dorm' room a bit early. Never went back home, and my parents refused all contact. My sorority fully accepted me for who I was, and never judged me for being a lesbian. I'm 26 now, and recently got married to the sweetest, kindest, most sexy gal in the galaxy! Her parents immediately accepted me into their family, and never had any problems with the relationship between their daughter and I... ❤

  • @aleiakit9160
    @aleiakit9160 4 года назад +1691

    *me* : I'm straight
    *my search history* : no
    *my bedroom* : no
    *my girlfriend* : no
    *my bag* : no
    *my flag* : no
    *my ringtone* : no
    *my phone case* : no
    *pencil case* : no
    *everything I own* : no
    *my friends* : no
    *best friend* : nooo
    *me* : I'm gay
    *family* : no
    Edit: thank you for the likes. Feel free to talk to me on socials (insta is aleia_kit07, snapchat is aleiak20, tumblr is aleiakit, tiktok is Aleiaboo)

    • @user-zl4dg5fg2o
      @user-zl4dg5fg2o 4 года назад +17

      Xx Kia Louise xX lol

    • @aleiakit9160
      @aleiakit9160 4 года назад +12

      @@user-zl4dg5fg2o I commented this less than 15 minutes ago wow

    • @blunt7474
      @blunt7474 4 года назад +14

      lol this is me well ecxept i'm trans and parents are accepting i'm also pan but they don't i'm pan

    • @unarmedfrog2805
      @unarmedfrog2805 3 года назад +14

      OMG yes.... my parents are accepting of me but everyone else in my family is homophobic so I haven't told them (well except my 2 brothers) My brothers are also accepting but everyone else probably wouldn't be.....

    • @lulutea3925
      @lulutea3925 3 года назад +8

      I- Same

  • @mud6915
    @mud6915 5 лет назад +618

    I sent this to my mom and she said “stop sending me stupid videos” and I cried in my room
    Don’t worry she accepts me now

    • @shobo4482
      @shobo4482 5 лет назад +28

      Well I'm glad she accepts you now.
      🌈🌈♥🌈🌈

    • @invaliduser6561
      @invaliduser6561 5 лет назад +13

      Psycho Path omg 😂

    • @user-ud8xd
      @user-ud8xd 5 лет назад +9

      I’m glad she accepts u :)

    • @rottingsword
      @rottingsword 5 лет назад +13

      She probably didn’t watch it and didn’t think it was anything lol

    • @-Gh0st-Is-Tired
      @-Gh0st-Is-Tired 5 лет назад +3

      If you usually send her random vids she probably thought it was one of those.

  • @atlasinhisleeping
    @atlasinhisleeping 2 года назад +4

    i was obsessed with this song at 13, came to my mom with it, it was horrible, she stopped talking to me for so long and so many things happend. But, now im 20, in college and my mom follows my girlfriend on ig, sends me happy pride and has a flag on her insta. It gets better guys, maybe in different ways than mine, but it does get better. love all of u

  • @tristanhopkins354
    @tristanhopkins354 Год назад +3

    I remember riding the bus listening to this song crying because all I wanted to do was be me here I am now accepted by my family and in a very happy relationship for almost a year with the man of my dreams if you see this and you aren't out yet I love you and it gets easier to be you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @grapjai9452
    @grapjai9452 4 года назад +5665

    I bet everyone watching this is smiling at their phone right now

    • @crazycookie294
      @crazycookie294 4 года назад +78

      You are sooo......right this is why i watch it at 3:05 every morning bc 1st iff no one will look at my screen 2 bc they be like WHY THE HECK ARE YOU SMILING SO BIG?? Then look😂

    • @outtathepantry
      @outtathepantry 4 года назад +16

      Oh yeah, very much so...

    • @all1st3r_
      @all1st3r_ 4 года назад +56

      Jokes on you i'm smiling at my computer >:D

    • @Ahayrksv123
      @Ahayrksv123 4 года назад +22

      I’m confused on my sexuality any help? ♡´・ᴗ・`♡

    • @Ahayrksv123
      @Ahayrksv123 4 года назад +15

      I’m confused on my sexuality any help? ♡´・ᴗ・`♡

  • @Julia-bw9ci
    @Julia-bw9ci 4 года назад +1685

    my sister: why can’t you ever keep a straight face?
    me: cuz i’m gay
    my sister: :0

    • @MMMM09
      @MMMM09 3 года назад +9

      XD

    • @stalinsfangirl
      @stalinsfangirl 3 года назад +4

      XD

    • @ishitasaxena4245
      @ishitasaxena4245 3 года назад +14

      your sister: 0
      you: 191826262849392927328920237389292

    • @Arzrio_
      @Arzrio_ 3 года назад +3

      XD

    • @ejlyt9148
      @ejlyt9148 3 года назад +3

      I was going to saw XD but thats already been done multiple times so:
      LMFAO IVE USED THIS

  • @sneaky2870
    @sneaky2870 3 года назад +30

    Harry Potter taught us the fact that no one should live in a closet

    • @sneaky2870
      @sneaky2870 3 года назад +5

      This comment was made by a closeted bisexual

    • @FennekinBraixen
      @FennekinBraixen 2 года назад +3

      On the positive side: You will be an awesome wizard when you come out

  • @Angelicbunny666
    @Angelicbunny666 4 месяца назад +5

    The fact this came out 9 years ago makes me sad

  • @matheohno
    @matheohno 4 года назад +3055

    I first found this song when I didn’t even know I am Gay , well now I am pretty sure I am .

  • @dominoes2169
    @dominoes2169 4 года назад +419

    I recently had a friend come out as gay to me and he looked me dead in the eye and said "it's very hard keeping a straight face when your so gay" and honestly he has one of the best coming out stories outta all of us at the table atm 😂

    • @brunobrodziansky761
      @brunobrodziansky761 3 года назад +6

      I found my way

    • @randomstuffs3060
      @randomstuffs3060 3 года назад +6

      okay i know how to come out now, im just gonna stare a certain person i wanna come out to and say, it's very hard keeping a straight face when your so gay. lol. *THE PEAK OF PERFECTION*

    • @sp1d3y_yt
      @sp1d3y_yt 3 года назад +1

      Guess how I came out to my cousin.... My girlfreind called me and my cuz said huh and I litteraly said "oh yeah I forgot to tell u I'm lesbian" she said "BTW I hate ur shoes" and left 😂😂😂😂

    • @sp1d3y_yt
      @sp1d3y_yt 3 года назад +1

      @Logan Roof shut up lol

  • @cheys2862
    @cheys2862 Год назад +3

    i completely forgot this existed and now im having flashbacks from sixth grade crying to this song at 2am

  • @beebugz_
    @beebugz_ Год назад +3

    This song is how I came out to my mum many many years ago now I'm here enjoying some nostalgia

  • @annaf2702
    @annaf2702 7 лет назад +465

    If I get 150 likes I'll come out to my friends as bisexual ⚢🌈
    edit: I'll come out to my family too 😊
    Edit 2: I did it guys. Most of my friends are really supportive. So is my sister.
    Only my dad's reaction wasn't good. He told me it's just a phase and that I'm sick.
    But I did it 😊

  • @aryy
    @aryy 6 лет назад +2724

    Why am I only seeing this now?? ❤️🌈

    • @taekooksn.8958
      @taekooksn.8958 6 лет назад +6

      Ariel Mancanares you are an amazing singer💕

    • @aryy
      @aryy 6 лет назад +2

      Thank you so much ♥

    • @taekooksn.8958
      @taekooksn.8958 6 лет назад +1

      Ariel Mancanares and btw very pretty >~< you should never stop to believe on you ♡ you rock gurl :}

    • @riley8062
      @riley8062 6 лет назад +1

      Ariel Mancanares IKR!

    • @raediostatic7597
      @raediostatic7597 6 лет назад +1

      Ariel Mancanares ikr!

  • @JuliaCasquejo
    @JuliaCasquejo 3 года назад +62

    To be honest, I'm straight but I have a big respect to everyone especially to the LGBT community. And I believe that you don’t have to be gay to be a supporter, you just have to be yourself.
    We are all people and that’s it. We’re all equal. Everyone deserves to be respected right? Some people say that I'm an "Ally" and I don't know what that means.
    By the way, I'm just a 15-year old girl and I'm confused of who really I am. Maybe because I'm still young, so I'm not 100% sure about myself and I'm still figuring myself out.
    Anyways, "Life is better when you just remember that LOVE IS LOVE" 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
    Love,
    Julia

    • @Sara-ui4zf
      @Sara-ui4zf 3 года назад +9

      Thank you for this! Being an ally means that you support the LGBTQIA+ community :)

    • @Deliaexplainsitall6745
      @Deliaexplainsitall6745 3 года назад +5

      you, my friend, are a really kind human

    • @yfeboanvakenss8841
      @yfeboanvakenss8841 3 года назад +9

      Can't wait for the update in 2 years like "oh btw just realized I'm bi"

    • @lysol2071
      @lysol2071 2 года назад +1

      @@yfeboanvakenss8841 same I bet that will happen

    • @detectivepinkerton3258
      @detectivepinkerton3258 2 года назад +2

      An ally is someone who supports LGBT but isn't part of the community themself :)

  • @fidelcashflow_371
    @fidelcashflow_371 2 года назад +10

    revisiting after 6 years and it’s still a bop ❤️

  • @Bonestheskeleton
    @Bonestheskeleton 4 года назад +4366

    *awkward bisexual in the corner clapping out of beat*
    “I mean I guess I count
    *laughs nervously*

    • @emileea5478
      @emileea5478 4 года назад +24

      Kiera Lindsey lol

    • @kjlm4574
      @kjlm4574 4 года назад +45

      Kiera Lindsey me.

    • @murphygreen6330
      @murphygreen6330 4 года назад +23

      kjlm45 same

    • @maggieo1683
      @maggieo1683 4 года назад +70

      Lol me. I'm a bisexual panromantic, so I sort of relate to this song. I just love it 😁🏳️‍🌈

    • @c.nasser12
      @c.nasser12 4 года назад +83

      I just wish there was a bi version.

  • @lilybuie896
    @lilybuie896 5 лет назад +225

    so i told my parents in like december or something and they said dis "we thought so but we didnt say anything"
    oh well lol

    • @77seals90
      @77seals90 5 лет назад +1

      At least their understanding, I am planning on never coming out to my family, ever. Especially my dad and brothers , they were openly rude to a gay friend of our when he came over. They use gay as an insult and are being taught by my father that it's okay to say "fag" and "fa***it". I'll wait till college, on the other side of my state, then I'll come out to any new friends I make.

  • @HectoGames
    @HectoGames Год назад +10

    Used this to come out as "gay" years ago, now im a proud bisexual FTM and i cant believe how far i've come since this. In the car, 12 yrs old, on the way to school lmaooooo! You're truly a gem

  • @torontomercenary
    @torontomercenary 11 месяцев назад +4

    Finally RUclips recommended gets something right

  • @dadatheewolf6897
    @dadatheewolf6897 7 лет назад +886

    should I send this to my dad tomorrow?

    • @janousegers
      @janousegers 7 лет назад +1

      dadatheewolf good luck 🍀

    • @dadatheewolf6897
      @dadatheewolf6897 7 лет назад +2

      ***** I didn't do it yet I'm gonna wait

    • @teethtime5613
      @teethtime5613 7 лет назад +9

      dadatheewolf I sent this and then play Game of Life with my dad when I got married I put a girl in my car

    • @rexb6316
      @rexb6316 7 лет назад

      dadatheewolf if you did how did it go?

    • @taylormalan6694
      @taylormalan6694 7 лет назад +6

      we support you and are here for you in this wonderful world of the internet. :)

  • @crictonites9978
    @crictonites9978 5 лет назад +4628

    2015: i am straight and like guys *only* haha but this is cute though
    2019: well so here's the thing

    • @kawaiigirlgarcia9861
      @kawaiigirlgarcia9861 5 лет назад +86

      Awww r u part of LGBTQ cause if so I'm the L in LGBTQ

    • @cherrymewy
      @cherrymewy 5 лет назад +99

      im part too! im the B in LGBTQ

    • @cookiecat_44
      @cookiecat_44 5 лет назад +5

      solangelo ovenchild me three OwO

    • @violetmoses9442
      @violetmoses9442 5 лет назад +25

      I’m the G in lgbtq which stands for going to McDonald’s
      Jk I’m actually straight and have know idea y i clicked on this video 🤷‍♀️ Recommended brought me here😋

    • @ergjdjheghdfhfgh1725
      @ergjdjheghdfhfgh1725 5 лет назад +9

      I'm a lesbian

  • @funpersonakaebw1110
    @funpersonakaebw1110 3 месяца назад +4

    I'm a trans bi guy, and I still come back to this after years. You were one of the people who introduced me to being queer. Plus, this is still a jam! ❤

  • @serenahiggins1849
    @serenahiggins1849 Год назад +3

    I put this into a playlist. Now I’m listening to it while cleaning and I’m so happy now. Such a cool song.

  • @sentientbougainvillea9029
    @sentientbougainvillea9029 7 лет назад +988

    I have just come out with this song. Wish me luck

    • @indib4837
      @indib4837 7 лет назад +5

      good luck! tell me how it went! if it went well, yay I'm so happy for you!! if it didn't, we still love you!

    • @sentientbougainvillea9029
      @sentientbougainvillea9029 7 лет назад +7

      Indi de inktvis They haven't answered yet...Thaks for your support, you are really nice :)

    • @indib4837
      @indib4837 7 лет назад +5

      Couch Potato thanks! I'm just trying to be there for people I guess XD and keep me updated!

    • @sentientbougainvillea9029
      @sentientbougainvillea9029 7 лет назад +5

      Indi de inktvis I will :) I'm not worried anymore thanks to your comment

    • @MEGVALENTINE04
      @MEGVALENTINE04 7 лет назад

      Did they answer yet?

  • @monohji
    @monohji 4 года назад +356

    Our teacher showed this to us and everyone started screaming at the chorus cuz no one knew the song and we weren't expecting that lmao

    • @sassynessislife5125
      @sassynessislife5125 4 года назад +24

      Was the teacher coming out to the class?

    • @monohji
      @monohji 4 года назад +19

      @@sassynessislife5125 nah she just found it and said it was catchy so she showed it to us

    • @monohji
      @monohji 4 года назад +4

      @AnnaMarie Murray uh yes

    • @alexlivesey6821
      @alexlivesey6821 4 года назад +5

      @AnnaMarie Murray Are you serious? Concerned from UK...

    • @alexlivesey6821
      @alexlivesey6821 4 года назад +4

      @AnnaMarie Murray that's truly terrifying. Mind. Blown. Anti-discrimination laws here are pretty vigorous...not perfect, but you wouldn't get away with that shit...

  • @ugh1428
    @ugh1428 3 года назад +12

    My sister just came out to me with this absolute banger

  • @eyeofleviathan
    @eyeofleviathan 2 года назад +10

    For some reason this is one of my favorite songs to listen to because it’s just so catchy

  • @brookegeller16
    @brookegeller16 5 лет назад +361

    I love the fact that it’s now pride month and now more and more people are finding this video to help them. Anyone that feels alone, you have the people in these comments that are just like you.

    • @haleypulsipher3033
      @haleypulsipher3033 5 лет назад

      ^truth

    • @dippyfresh8155
      @dippyfresh8155 5 лет назад +2

      This song makes me sooooo happy that it almost bring me to tears every time I watch this. Plus it’s really catchy.

  • @thealmightybucket5930
    @thealmightybucket5930 4 года назад +4038

    10 year old me: Oh wow I was completely mesmerized by Girls like Girls by Hayley Kiyoko, but i'm straight haha
    13 year old me: funny story, you see

    • @r.7530
      @r.7530 4 года назад +23

      Lol😂😂😂

    • @MsLibertyForUs
      @MsLibertyForUs 4 года назад +8

      Ooooooof

    • @holly-rosemckinneycondren
      @holly-rosemckinneycondren 4 года назад +15

      Okay but same🤣

    • @animetheatregirl7737
      @animetheatregirl7737 4 года назад +51

      sourkiwichair marceline that’s how I came out. I sang with the song, and said, “remember when I sang to this when I was straight, well that’s a twist”, and my whole family looked in surprise and laughed. Best day of my life. #lesbian

    • @avalynlarson9037
      @avalynlarson9037 4 года назад +6

      Felttt

  • @jody4210
    @jody4210 8 месяцев назад +4

    apparently this is national coming out day so i thoughht i have to listen to this song again

  • @blueberryogre5424
    @blueberryogre5424 2 года назад +4

    this came up in my recommended and i realised i still know all the words even though it’s been literal years. wow.

  • @katiewhite8798
    @katiewhite8798 5 лет назад +703

    I haven't been in an 8-year relationship with a man who has no clue that I am actually a lesbian. Yes I have a child with him and our sex life is very staged and very fake. Him and his family told me that gay people go to hell and blah blah blah blah blah my daughter came to me recently and told me she thought she was gay and her father even said he figured she was but that is wrong. I know I need to come out and I need to tell people the truth my mother died September 11th 2016 and I was lucky enough to tell her the truth before she died. So she said " well instead of finding your prince charming I hope one day you can find your Snow White" I love you Mom thanks for being my support I miss you

    • @WhoisAry
      @WhoisAry 5 лет назад +34

      This is your life and you are perfect the way you are and the way you feel. You have all the strength and love in you, to turn your life around and live who you are. I believe in you and so does your wonderful mom! 🤗 💕🌈

    • @elizahamilton8750
      @elizahamilton8750 5 лет назад +13

      Good luck my darling. I hope you live your life to the fullest full support!!

    • @thezmint4003
      @thezmint4003 5 лет назад +20

      That last line honestly made me start crying your mom was a great person

    • @louisebowden964
      @louisebowden964 5 лет назад +7

      I hope you find the courage and support to come out and find true happiness 🏳️‍🌈

    • @blue_jai2790
      @blue_jai2790 5 лет назад +8

      katie white : Awww what your mom said warms my heart love to you my friend!
      🏳️‍🌈❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️‍🌈

  • @margaridacarvalho9174
    @margaridacarvalho9174 8 лет назад +1166

    can we all just appreciate how hot ally is

  • @ayumikyoryokuna4251
    @ayumikyoryokuna4251 2 года назад +8

    Hearing this song makes me sad knowing that I won't get to come out to anyone who cares about me without being judged or disowned. The message of the song is super sweet tho💖

  • @averysage8396
    @averysage8396 3 месяца назад +3

    Welcome to 2024 where this is still a bop

  • @flaretheories9724
    @flaretheories9724 4 года назад +1588

    When you try to press the share button but end up accidentally disliking:
    **GAY GASP**

  • @SarahDarkhand
    @SarahDarkhand 8 лет назад +700

    I WANT ANOTHER VERSION FOR BISEXUALITY SO I CAN SEND IT TO ALL MY FRIENDS THAT DON'T KNOW ON NATIONAL COMING OUT DAY

  • @scorpiosweetroll8112
    @scorpiosweetroll8112 3 года назад +3

    I used this song to come out to one of my best friends and I so happy to say that she was super happy for me and supportive!!! Love is love!!!!!

  • @karinagutierrez7134
    @karinagutierrez7134 3 года назад +8

    Not me listening to this to hype myself up before coming out on Facebook 😂 Happy Pride everybody 🏳️‍🌈

  • @eleanawright6851
    @eleanawright6851 5 лет назад +1094

    I sent this too my friend she responded saying "I AM TOO". We are now dating, thank you have a wonderful life.

  • @mollykatzen9314
    @mollykatzen9314 6 лет назад +1424

    “I’m straight”
    “So is spaghetti... until you get it hot... and wet”

    • @addi5696
      @addi5696 6 лет назад +37

      Teletubbie UNDERRATED COMMENT

    • @andrejz2468
      @andrejz2468 6 лет назад +5

      😃😃😃😃😁😁😁😁

    • @billiboyer1527
      @billiboyer1527 6 лет назад +11

      Until it gets all wet and soggy.....

    • @saltpepper2556
      @saltpepper2556 6 лет назад +3

      Teletubbie nice one

    • @revelovee809
      @revelovee809 6 лет назад +5

      I’m your 100th like! BUT NOOOOOO

  • @1234moon1234
    @1234moon1234 3 года назад +9

    It's 2021 and I just wanna thank Ally for this song, I came out to my mom exactly in 2015 WITH THIS SONG and it was amazing 💞 Although I had to replay it because she didn't understand it at first haha

  • @fiademarco3239
    @fiademarco3239 Год назад +4

    I remember using this song to come out to my best friend YEARS ago. It went over well :))