5 ways to approach a girl you like (+REAL LIFE EXAMPLES)
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- Опубликовано: 18 авг 2024
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This video will teach you five proven openers to start a conversation with an attractive woman that will often lead to a date. 
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Lot of guys are just scared to even try. Putting yourself out there consistently, and not giving up after u fail/get rejected is half the battle.
1000 percent!!!
80% of the battle
You are completely right! I'm one of those guys - afraid to put myself out there, scared to even try despite badly wanting and needing a relationship with a nice girl. For me, it's feeling I'm not good enough, that why would she want me instead of anyone else. It really hurts to be this way. I'm ashamed of myself for being this way my whole life. But it's just so overwhelming - I give up before I even start. It's all up to me - and that's what scares me the most!
@@SportsBoss999 me too!
Do smallest steps here what helped me 1) go out in public lace with people for fee days then 2) walk around making eye contact them 3) walking and saying compliment this will be challanging but spend as much time as you need to start expierence being more relaxed about it. This will already start to reprogramm your mind. 4) excuse me, i just want to wish you a good day, even some girls that were angry thst i stoped them i wished them great day and they switched to thank you thats so nice. Positive positive programing that will be good start
This guy is the real deal. Every single trick he mentions I explicitly did when I was younger - and it did indeed work well. Ditch the apps guys and take matters into your own hands.
1. Opinion opener
2. Direct opener
3. Compliment, non-sexual
4. Situational opener
5. Armageddon, just go for it
I use the "disaster" opener. I walk up toward a girl I like, start to lose any confidence in myself that I can do this, and walk away without ever talking to her.
Greetings from Poland from old man. Never too late for day approach with right mindset
Ive done alot of this in my lifetime. I never had a plan or knew what to call it but there is always a way. You just have to find it.
I salute you for using the apocalypse opener and even getting a few quite positive results, as expected. It shows nothing is impossible, and you have big (blue) balls. #RESPECT
Amazing video dude. That ending really resonated. Keep it up, you’re changing lives
I'm glad to have experienced the social flow state before. I want to get to that point again. The way that I experienced it before was when I used to drink. I'd be out in parks and shit talking to random people. Cause that's what it was all about.
And I was a very shy nerdy guy before that. So what you said about watching Yourself as if you were in a movie is completely true.
Right now I'm at a very low level though. I'm proud that I've even done what I've done. I thought the idea of just going up to a woman and talking to her for whatever reason was really scary. Just the words "cold approach" shut my brain off. But now I have approached random women on the street. But I've only opened. Asked random questions and just gotten used to talking to strangers.
I'd say that my biggest problems are making romantic interest known (off the bat/escelation). You hit the nail on the head when you said we're programmed to think that it's bad to do so. And also, I feel like I have no reason to approach. The actual approach is what I overthink a lot. "That would be weird because x" "In this context it doesn't make sense because of y".
But admittedly, a lot of those situations where I feel like it isn't relevant for me to talk to a girl stem from me not making romantic interest known. When you just start with an indirect opener, you could have talked to anyone about the topic. But when you do a direct open then there's a clear purpose to why you're talking to that particular woman.
Omg the Dubai reference killed me. Amazing.
Opinion openers are still effective. But i knew a guy who used the "do i look like a drug dealer" opener in a bar and i guess he had a really bad vibe and tonality as they actually thought he was a drug dealer and got thrown lol
Keep up the great work man
this video reminds me of the game/the pick up artist/the mystery method, good summary of the highlights
Great video dude! Is Apocalypse opener the same with Mode One?
Might be helpful to reframe situational openers as observational opener. Just focus on the moment, her , what’s going around and make a context-relevant entry into the convo.
Love your content dude. I just moved to downtown Tucson, do you know if there's any active pickup community/ have ideas where to find wingmen around here? Cheers
You are a beast man, thank you
Hey bro,
In the initial stages of pickup,
How do u stop yourself from thinking about the one or two rejections you had?
Taking action consistently. That will only be a problem if you’re dipping your toes in the water and stuck in dabbling
Even if you do look like a male model, you still have to put in 99% of the work, women will occasionally help you out but you still have to put in the lion's share of the work. Sometimes, the ones you like don't give you any choosing signals. Bottom line: approach!
This all sounds well and good. But for someone like me, it's too hard for me. The situation of talking to a girl that doesn't know me is so nerve-racking and intimidating, I can't even relax enough to say hi, how are you. I can't think of anything to follow up or to get her to like me. If it's not a girl I want to date, I can be funny, relaxed, and even flirtatious. But the simple fact that I'm trying to meet her and hopefully get it to go somewhere, I freeze up. I don't have the looks, confidence, moves, or whatever else it takes to be successful with women. And even IF I ever got them to my place, my lack of experience and fear will end up badly blowing any chance I just had. I don't have the "balls" it takes. I know that makes me a loser. I'm a nice guy, but that's all I got.
keep writing paragraphs on youtube and doing nothing about your problem. im sure it will help. or start and understand you will fuck up a ton, that's how the process works. keep doing what you've done, and you'll get what you've gotten
Take mdma and try it
Go watch some Andrew tate. He will tell you, guys like you don't make it that far with that pussy beta mindset. Shut down that negative looser talk you have going on and do the opposite. Start working towards bettering yourself physically and mentally, and trust me doing that alone is a step closer to becoming a better version but leaps and bounds from who you are right now.
does the text flowchart in the spark actually work?
I’m lazy doing the apocalypse opener, just pay one hehe…
I've been really getting out of my comfort zone. And when I ask for the # I get it pretty much 90% of the time, I've had shorter cold encounters where its more quick get # then dip. & I've had longer cold encounters upwards of 20 minutes. But when it comes to close beyond initial reaction I'm at like 10%! what is going wrong? or is it strictly a game of probability?
Does Avery also do bootcamps in Europe ?
that was cool
That Irish accent 😂 good video
I have listened to you for only a minute and I can say you are way beyond Andrew fucking tate. db.
The meaning of this comment depends on whether you like/dislike Andrew Tate lol
Women told me they don't like being approached
Just because some women hold an opinion doesn’t mean they all do.
Tons of guys end up dating girls they approached, that’s been proven in numerous scientific studies
I know you stay in Vegas. Downtown in my opinion is a great place to meet chick's since it's always busy and festive. "Casino game"
"some girls are going to like the skinny guy who looks like a meth dealer" - bro is speaking straight to me holy shit 😂
Lol fortunately it’s a type a lot of girls are into
u should do an Andrew Tate infield.
You mean act like him?
Bro Im 5.7 ..am i short
As long as you have good social and speaking skills you'll be fine.
I’m 5’7 as well and yes you are short.
6f minimum or manlet
hit the gym go get shredded kunt
Im 5'6 dude, its all in our head
Some girls will reject you for your height yes, but would you really wanna be with a girl that it matters to so much?
bruh... i have to be brutally honest. this is by far the most idiotic advice ive ever heard of. these "openers" are a complete L
I have infield pulling fitness models and making out with hot girls.
Where are your receipts?
@aghayden i have pictures with girls. that is also proof but im not saying i have all the answers either
Guys, the truth is that women don’t like men. Hope that helps.
Bro youre a great guy but gotta stop simping for Andrew Tate and JP, Tate is literally under arrest rn and even his advice has not ever been anything remarkable
Simping? What are you talking about, I made a video criticizing a lot of Tate's advice about women. Also, being arrested doesn't mean guilty, surely you know this?
Wow bro you're such a legend. Before I used to hear Andrew Tate, a successful billionaire who has a lot of women, give advice on life and success. And I'd listen.
But you, a ??? Just made me Realise that that wasn't actually remarkable.
If you have decent social skills that's all you need. If your an extrovert and can't do this easy stuff the. You got probz.
Me with 0 to lazy social skills this wouldn't work. For me or improve over time.