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How I Destroyed My Crippling Approach Anxiety
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- Опубликовано: 21 сен 2023
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In this transformative video, I share my personal journey of conquering crippling approach anxiety. If you've ever struggled with the fear of approaching someone you're interested in, this video is a must-watch.
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I tried day game a few years ago. I went out every day and talked to 3-5 girls. I never saw any progress, the anxiety never got better, and it eventually felt like such a chore that I just gave up on it. For whatever reason I have extremely resistant anxiety that I still experience with friends and family. I even experience it with my patients even though I've been a nurse for over 5 years and have been in healthcare for over 10.
What's the mindset you have? Try watching Bobby Rio when he featured Chris Sixty in a video about mindset and another video about never running out of things to say. Also, you can try hiring a dating coach like AG Hayden. If you're more of the shy or quiet type, try hiring Bobby Rio.
@@TheSongofSaya well since then I've developed a much better mindset in regards to myself on a daily basis. I don't really experience too much depression or anxiety every day, but I do have problems with anhedonia and I struggled to feel a sense of connection with other people. Even friends and family. This is why I've started talking to a therapist and hopefully I can get to the bottom of this.
@@aintisaword honestly man, all i could say is keep doing what you're doing and embrace that anxiety but i really think you should hire a relationships expert because they are very good at getting guys used to social pressure. it's up to you of course but that's just my recommendation. personally, i never felt cured by therapy when i was anxious as hell but watching dating coaches for some reason gave me the inspiration to be more fun and flirtatious in conversations. i think you should start small for now. you know todd v? he has a 40 minute video about flirting and that is one of the videos that drastically helped me, and also how to pass shit tests (very crucial)
@TheSongofSaya well, again my issue is with a lack of connection to other human beings. I think this is connected to deeper trauma that I need to address. I appreciate the advice though. Personally I don't really like Todd v as his style doesn't mesh well with my personality.
@@aintisaword that sucks. personally, my issue isn't connection, it's my flirting and physical touch. i don't know what childhood or traumatic experience you had but take care.
I can totally relate to what was said here, I might have not wasted so much time since starting to watch PUA kind of content, but I came to this content quite late in life (I'm in late 40s), and recently I found myself some wingman guys and I just started to push myself through approach anxiety boundary.
Come to Vancouver when the weather gets good next spring. I promise you'll have fun.
I watch game videos since 2018 and I still have approach anxiety
Watching is not taking action. You can watch since 2000 and still have approach anxiety if you don't take action.
One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him.
He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Since women are always guaranteed attention or dating options because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention. A lot of guys hate and resent how nature and reality dictates that men have to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and do the pursuing but unfortunately there's no other way.
Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women.
He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long.
Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past.
Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel.
Probably because women are just a guaranteed options and attentions for just existing and breathing or having a pulse but it's not true if you're a guy or a human male.
Men have to learn all of these skills or behaviors or know how to talk and behave a certain way or act a certain way, women however since they play a passive role that doesn't require any learning or I just don't see how it requires any learning. Women can literally just sit back and let it all happen to them and I don't see that all that requires any skill development or any practice or learning on their part so it makes me mad that whenever people say that women need to learn how to date.
But yeah I get very angry whenever people think men have it better than women do in dating.
Because it's a fact that it's far more common for men than it is for women to endup chronically single.
I only skimmed this but yes a woman is practically guaranteed to have options but she’s also fat more likely to be a victim if SA and harassment.
Women also get shamed for having sex too easily and have a litany of other problems
Grass is always greener on the other side.
Frankly your friend sounds like he has a loser victim mindset and should stop feeling sorry for himself
@aghayden yep he has heard that from people a lot, I'm sure there are lots of men in the world who feel that way they are jealous of women because they feel that women have the better end of the stick than men do when it comes to dating
@aghayden I was just gonna say this. Yea regarding lonely it's men for sure, but that's usually our fault. Regarding everything else I much rather be a man in life in general
@@ramalellison9205 so what you're saying is that if a man is alone and lonely and it's his fault but if a woman is alone and lonely then it's not her fault
@@nobodysperfect06 never said its not a womens fault if she alone or lonely. For men though, yea it is lowkey. If you stay home all day, watch alot of porn, have no hobbies, little to no friends, then how do you expect anything to change.
41 y here, not in a relationship since 2003, no sex for 20 years, i gave up 5 years ago, i accept my fate being single for the rest of my life and i learned to accept it, there is far more out there than women
If that's you in your profile pic, you're a handsome man. Have you been taking action when it comes to asking girls out (dating apps, cold approach, social circle)?
@@Darknight526 thats an ai generated picture, im a solid 2.5/10, dating apps only aply for chicks in asia, in europe no woman would date me
@@twistediron4942
Yeah I'm a pretty unattractive guy as well, currently on my weightloss journey. Tired of getting no results as I need to lose about 100 lbs, but who rated you a 2.5/10?
I approached a woman not too long ago, it was my first approach and even though she rejected me, she was smiling during the interaction and told me she had a bf.
Actually A.G you inspired me to approach good looking woman. You’re not a chad but you approached and got numbers.
I agree you can watch/read all this pick up content, but knowledge without mileage is bullshit
nice video 👊🏻
Thanks!
Thanks for this video man. I relate to your experience except I’m 28 so even more time has been wasted.
This inspired me to hit up an experienced friend of mine who’s offered to wing me in the past. We’re gonna go out next week and I’m just gonna fucking do it, damn the consequences my neurotic mind likes to come up with.
Might do a bootcamp in the future once my finances are in better order. I have a solid plan for that.
Awesome man, let me know how it goes
@@aghayden will do!
How did it go?
I’ve been with a lot of women but that was from online dating and meeting people at work. Cold approaching sets men apart. When’s your next boot camp?
The closest dates with availability are November 6-12 in Miami and 17-19 in Dallas. Best way to find out if there's a date/city that will work with youis with a free call: calendly.com/aghayden/bootcamp-call
@@aghayden appreciate it bro
Does Avery come to Europe?
You don't get social anxiety if you're never social.
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because you are a good talker.... not everyone alive and dead can be good at talking.
I'm proof.
You weren’t born knowing how to speak English, you learned it.
You can also learn how to get good at it.
how old are you now avery? you said it took you years and years to finally do it. I am currently in the same boat where I consume information but I never approach once and now im 24 with only 1 body count.
Your still young bro! I didn't start learning till till I was 26 years old. I had crippling anxiety also but no where near as bad as Avery. I took a bootcamp with him and he will help you get started on your journey. Stop putting it off and start ASAP!
One thing that’s helped me approach woman is to mentally slap myself out of the rabbit hole of doubt we fall into right before we walk up to them. It’s almost like a sharp pain in our stomach and we get flooded with thinking we’re not good enough, not cool enough, not rich enough etc and it’s THAT right there that woman can smell like sharks smelling blood. The only way to get rid of this is to BELIEVE and KNOW that you are stronger and more powerful than ANY doubt that comes. Remember, it’s you vs nega you and you MUST win if you want to achieve anything in life, not only woman. Good luck to you brother 👍
I'm pretty sure he's 31
Do u do bootcamp in UK?
Klonopin. I seriously have no fear
i can't believe alcohol doesn't help your approach anxiety
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how much you bootcamp cost, AG?
Are you 35 years old. Never had a relationship, kiss or even been out on a date? Where your mind literally holds you back from everything. Where youve been friendzoned by every girl you ever liked and they like you only after theyve been used and abused? Yeah, you dont have it worse, dude.
I definitely don't have a worse mindset. I just did an interview with a 38 year old virgin who other coaches told was too unattractive to have success.
And yet he slept with over 25 women in the 6 months after working with me.
Listen to the way you're talking dude, it's all about how hopeless you are and not at all about what you could be doing differently.
I guarantee you haven't come close to maxing out the things under your control.
@aghayden oh no i don't deny your success. I'm just saying you defo don't have it as bad because you realised all this when you were younger. That's really good for you 👍🏽