A Dating Coach - That Library Show
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- Опубликовано: 10 мар 2024
- Step into the pages of romance with Chantal Heide in our cozy library interview! 📚 Tune in as she shares juicy dating tips, spices up the bedroom talk, and reveals secrets to finding your literary soul mate. Get ready for a storybook of love wisdom! 💕
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Chantals Website: canadasdatingcoach.com/
Chantals Instagram: / canadasdatingcoach
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Derek really just calls people into a library and then trauma dumps on them
living the dreeeeaam
"...I'm gonna hate myself"
"right, as you should"
lmao Now That's What I Call Therapy, Volume 37
New to this channel but im sold
“she wasn’t into you, she was into her tip” is genuinely the funniest thing ive heard someone say about one of his rejections 😭😭😭
his reply too 😭😭 the joke landed so well
LOL. Someone had to tell him!😂
@@ChantalheideCanadasDatingCoach! LOVE U GIRLIE 🫶🏼
OMG YESS
This took me out 🤣
I BET IT MOVED BAHAHHAHH
I’m so glad you caught that 😂
literally what i scrolled down for 😭😭
I SCREAMED LMAO
immediately went to the comments 😂😂
15:50
lovee her saying “boys are easy” while side eyeing the camera
Girls are too just not as easy as boys
Rich Amiri - One Call
"do you know who else is uncomfortable with sharing?"
"who? ...God?"
"-toddlers."
😭😭😭
not God lmaooo made me crack
Put me in my play pin then
I heard muscle man's voice for a sec
10:58
💀💀💀💀
not derek admitting he wants to date elle omg ❤
I was gonna comment the same thing
maybe not
if you look at the CC's, when he says "she", it is CC'd as "elle" :') (10:37) @@33nbb19
Based on her Twitch, it seemed like she’s (Elle) with someone. There seems to be good chemistry between Derek and Elle, but don’t get stuck on her. I’ve been down a kind of similar situation (not OF, just a crush) and nothing really came of it. It was mostly infatuation on my part and a lack of options.
Also, I agree with the Castle in the sky analogy. It’s what I went through in that same situation.
Yeah, right???
Thanks fro having me! I enjoyed our chat!😊
Loved you in this program, it was very insightful. Hope we can have you both again in another video 💗
You’re my favorite so inspiring! Just bought one of your books (:
goated
@@emmafoley7413 love love love this!!
we need more info on negotiating farting!! (just kidding but I absolutely loved this interview, your advice was amazing)
"so much baggage, they wouldn't let me on the plane" I felt that one deep down
It's a great line. And I'm stealing it.
This needed to be an hour! She’s so good!
You're sweet! Thank you!!
huh..? she told her it's immature to not wanna SHARE your partner with other people 😭
And that body count doesn’t matter cause who I did is not who I am.
Yeeeeah if you did it with 900 people though I get a gist of what kind of person you are 💀
yeah her whole story of meeting her husband after 20 years of being a stripper story made me able to guess what her answers were gonna be before she said them, using like half of this stuff as advice is bad
@@ChantalheideCanadasDatingCoach Agreed! Please return to the show : )
“I would hate myself” “as you should” broooo 😂
HAHAHAH she said “10 second seizure”
💀
10:32 not him writing elle's name in the captions 😭
i literally saw this😂😂
I knew he was talking about her, saw this comment and had to go back to check that 🤭
Aaawww que cute🫶🏼
We allll see that 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
15:55 “i bet it moved” 😭
Mi shit moved with
It definitely moved 😂 I laughed for like 5 minutes at his reaction
She cooked this whole episode. 😮💨
the fact that every video is a therapy for him is cute
or like, a 'women's pov in life' class
every dudes should learn btw
What's the book about?
This is my favorite talk so far, she had witty responses and gave some good advice
Aw! Thank you!! I have some videos on my RUclips channel you might find helpful. 💖
5:45 The way Derek thinks about the question like it's actually a math problem
LMFAOOOO
math is everything honestly
"I BET IT MOVED" IS CRODONKULOUS I CANT
“Of course you wanna hop on for your 10 second seizure” this is a queen, and I need her on every episode 😂
Whoever typed your closed captions deserves a raise
closed captions lowkey got me weak
They’re so subtle but get me everytime
I wish it was longer. She was lovely❤
thats what she said
Not the first time I’ve heard that.
@@yoshikagekira4797heyyooooo
I truthfully love how casual this is. There’s literally no stupid questions
because there are so many preconceived notions..and she is answering them by acknowledging where he is coming from and sincerely metin him where he is at in his sexual journey and insecurities then empower him through sound advice and
Also deconstructing prior biases or notions. I wish my college sexual experience class was taught by this woman.
“I think you would send me down like a 6-month spiral” 😭😭😭😭😭
this was the best episode yet. PLEASE bring her back again!!!!
Yes! She was so interesting and funny
"Let me show you what I like" is incredibly powerful. Wow!
Omg her voice is so relaxing
“what are bollywockles?” 😭
Nuts and peen 😊
“I bet it moved” is WIIILD
15:56 “i bet it moved” LMAOO 😭😭😭
that shit had me DEAD
"She wasn't into you...she was into your tip" I AUDIBLY GASPED
Into her tip... meaning what she'll earn as a server if she's nice to him...
not him typing it in word for word💀 17:21
I thought that was so cute 😂😂😂
that last car analogy was perfect i loved it so much
Derek: "I feel like and idiot", Dating coach: "that is stupid"🤣
This episode was educational and funny af. Chantal should totally come back. A very wise and open woman!
FOR YOUR TEN SECOND SEIZURE I CANTTTT AKDJSKSJSB
This woman validated without overly praising, and is so well spoken and charismatic. She’s nice, knows this field to the T, confident in her words, and seems comfortable (truly comfortable) within herself. Her alone speaking cleared up a few worries in regards to myself and dating. Thank you Chantel :)
@Canada’s Dating Coach ♥️: If you want to know, my book is No More Asshloes 🥰
We all love you 🇨🇦🇨🇦
But I thought girls liked assholes
wtf is this only 25 minutes short?? awesome episode btw
this is literally your greatest video ever, bring HER BACK
When he said “only a couple” the captions wrote “ only a thousand” . Had me dying 😢😢😂
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@@ItsJC-gu3jz0:57
the castle in the sky metaphor….. my life is forever changed i need that book omg
love how self aware he is but still ask if it’s wrong 😭
This is another great video especially for my generation. What she said about going from talking to sexual was so true and is probably why younger generations have terrible dating experiences. I love this channel
Who you did is exactly who you are. If women can judge men based on their watch or shoes or car as indicators, then who you had s3x with is definitely indicative of your values.
The knowing smile after « she wasn’t into you, she was into her tip” lmao
thank you for finally posting i was getting withdrawals 😞🙏
bring her back this was lovely
this was one of the funniest eps so far😭😭
derek's eyes widening after hearing "10 sec seizure" is hilarious
great guest btw!!
"of course you want to hop on me of your 10 second seizure" OH MY GODDDDDD
i loved the way ella give the straight explanation when people don't show you love so they don't loved you
hitting me soooo harddddd
Her voice is extremely soothing, she'd make great asmr videos
This lady is so polite, so well put together. I come back to this video time and time again. She gives huge ASMR vibes
Just them breaking the 4th wall, made this 100x more personable *chefs kiss 💋
“i bet it moved” WHAAAAAATTT😭😭😭😭
WRITE THAT DOWN WRITE THAT DOWN LMAO
This must be THE BEST interview out of all the series, part 2 is a need
“Of course you wanna hop on me for your ten second seizure” I’m deceased
Her answers were no bullshit and said in a way that really made sense to me. I appreciated that!!
Her essentially trying to guilt trip him into wanting to ‘share’ Elle hypothetically 😭 jus got me weak
She is such an ICON! Wow, the amount of patience & clarity. Every Gen-Z boy needs to watch this and do as she says! 👏
She told him to go date an OF girl
Nah I'm good
I absolutely love this channel! All theses interviews are the perfect blend between seriousness and comedy!
This woman needs to be my life coach. I love everything about her!
21:52-23:04 i saw this part as an ig reel, really needed that reality check
Yeah I ended up here looking for a clip of it bc I couldn’t download the instagram reel
I watch her lives on TikTok all the time. She’s genuinely a really intelligent person
13:25 that dap up had me dead
Literally died lmao
There needs to be a part two!
This is so insightful! I appreciate Derek's self-awareness.
this was actually so insightful and funny. im glad Chantal has a beautiful sense of comedy and compassion
I was suposed to fall asleep to this but ended up enthralled by the conversation. Lots of things to learn. And these two are funny in their own different way haha.
“And Elle has like a seperate business” bro I saw that caption 😂
We need a part 2!! She is amazing!!
WE WANT MORE OF HERRR 🩷🩷🩷
I love this episode! Hope there's a part 2! 💕
9:40 we’re thinking the same person now aren’t we ..
He wrote her name on the subtitles 😂
I'm guessing he's talking about the corn star he had on twice.
Having the subtitles on for his videos definitely add onto the experience 😂
@@dbradford259elle
He literally told in the subtitles it's Elle 😂
I like this channel and the conversations. Show clearly has his flaws, but is trying to work on them and that's the main thing. As a fellow guy with flaws who is trying to work on them, it is refreshing and reassuring to see conversations where people dont try to be perfect but just better themselves
omg i was so excited for another episode and this did not disappoint, please bring her back
CANNOT WAIT FOR PART 2!! This was so good
the “i bet it moved” took me out ☠️☠️
I loved this episode! she’s amazing please have her back!!
She is both Holly and Jan from The Office
Omg 💀
I like how she says "Okay" to any question he asks. Just an acknowledgement of what's been said without placing judgement on it yet. Very interesting.
Chantal has so much wisdom wow
Never watch your show but i watch her live everyday! I love yall for this ❤
I’m going through a terrible break up right now where my boyfriend behind my back, cheated on me and got engaged to somebody else, and I found out when I talk to her mother and it was a nine year long relationship. I still cannot wrap my head around the fact why would somebody do this to me? However, while I try to calm myself down and trying to keep myself alive. This library show episode really healed something in me. When she said that the person who actually loves, you shows you that they love you and no amount of condition can break that. And that’s I guess what I needed to hear in order for myself to understand that whatever happened did not happen because of me but because eventually they wanted to do something like this. it’s scary to go back to the world where you feel lonely and scared after such a long time of being with someone you feel like you have to re-learn how to walk again without a support. True love is indeed, very very hurtful and very very calming. At the same time depends upon the other person, how they use it for themselves.. I wish I could do so many things again which I did wrong but one thing I know for sure time heals everything for everyone and I am grateful that I found this episode in the time of need. I will definitely keep coming back to this to remind myself to be grateful and that there is better things waiting for me
I love this! Need a part 2 with Chantal!
The sharing analogy she can’t really compare polygamy with an undeveloped ability to share like a toddler. It’s normal to not want to share your partner intimately, that’s the whole point of monogamy. But that doesn’t mean you won’t share other things like your food, space, items etc.
True... the fact is, if he's open to casual sex, why is he looking for monogamy? He sleeps around but doesn’t like a partner who does OF thats very hypothetical
@@stevemattero1471 oh I thought he was looking for monogamy but open to accepting the fact she is a sw as a job, if he’s not monogamous himself then thats just stupid
The intro made me love her already
Your back YES😭, thank you I've been patiently waiting i love your videos.
Your videos was like a therapy treatment for me cause I'm currently depressed since last year so thank you thank you so much🙏love your videos man❤
Yaaaaayy thank you for coming back!!
WE NEED MORE OF HER PLEASE
i loved watching this vid, made me deeply introspective and there were a bunch of great points. i’m glad i found it
Ngl, the last 5 minutes were the best. Very informative and great pacing. Good job, much love brother
Omg I’m currently reading her book right now !! So amazing to watch you too ❤️
this is hilarious. she had some nice oneliners 😁loved tagging along to derek'a therapy session
this genuinely helped me decide things
She's awesome. Shes so kind and so blunt!!
Holy shit. Best interview I have seen in a long time! My first video of yours and I’ll definitely be watching more
This was genuinely helpful
I legit love her so much this makes me wanna buy her book
We need more Chantal! She is fantastic.
This one is so good! I hate how so many tik tok accounts are impersonating you and reposting your clips. You deserve all the views and credit