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The Ultimate Guide To Nightgame (how to get laid in bars/clubs)
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- Опубликовано: 31 авг 2023
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This video will teach you everything you need to know about how to attract women in bars and clubs.
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I am 36 , i had never a girlfriend.
There is no master class. I clicked the link.
The flow state stuff is something I never hear anyone else talking about.. I have been there a couple of times in social interactions but then kind of pressured myself with things like "Oh, why am I not as witty as I was back then?"
Hearing this really helps with that
I have several books from the author Mihaly Csiksgentmihalyi. "Finding Flow" is how to enter the state of "Flow" itself. Great books.
He literally explained every thing and idk his content is getting fuckin awesome and this is actual game which no dating coach explains online on youtube.
Your in-field examples are when the clubs are still relatively empty and the music is not too loud.
Good general recap. Well done.
If she is in a group, use Mystery Method a.k.a. Venusian Arts.
Once you are alone with her, it is assumed that you already know what to do. MM is not for beginners.
"Naturals" are not good people to ask about this because they just do it without thinking. They have never had to learn it. It is just instinctive for them.
youre the king dude, great content
This is all great advice. I’ve relied heavily in my looks, but that can only get you so far in the night game. One of the biggest challenges I have is my energy level when going out at night. I go to sleep super early during the weekday because of work. So during the weekend my body feels ready to sleep around 10pm… so it is difficult to get into the zone with low energy.
I like to order red bull and a splash of cran when I'm out so the alcohol don't make me even more tired ya feel me
Cocaine
I have the same issue
Dear Mr. Hayden,
This was an amazing and really well detailed presentation on night game. Thank you so much for sharing your insights with all of us in the community.
phenomenal advice Hayden! I love your breakdown of FLOW STATES. this goes SO MUCH further than approaching people. as a stock trader this same advice applies to winning in the markets and is actually the single most important factor in being successful or not in ANY ENDEAVOR. I used to be so needy and be afraid to talk to just about anyone despite LOVING PEOPLE! My favorite quality about myself is genuinely being interested in people and just listening to their beautiful and unique perspective on life.
So, my graditude toward your work here is immense. I am beyond elated to continually discovering new layers to my true self, my core self which is actually the real me. Cheers mate!
There are a lot of videos that basically just say "if you want to get girls you have to be more masculine" and they're very vague, like no shit, Sherlock. This video felt very applicable. I'm gonna try these things the next time I go out.
This is perfect! Tons of advice. Thank you.
Please create more long format videos. Your two best ones are two guides (to day and night games). Cheers!
The point you made about our ancestors not needing language in the mating process is a really good one...I dunno why I never thought of that, but it really explains why body language and eye contact is so important. Great video, thanks Avery.
Avery, really appreciate the video. I'd say the best videos, the ones that provide the most value, are videos that gives specifics to a concept, and also where you add in your unique perspective. A perspective you gained from field experience. This video does those things. Anytime you can add in something you learned or perspectives you have from doing so much approaching, I find value in that. I know most of the theory. But, unique insights and no bs guides are great. Again, specifics so we can see the details. Then your insights.
Guys, don’t be nice to women because that’s a turnoff but don’t be bad to them either because that’s a turnoff as well. Also, don’t be neutral to them because that’s a turnoff too. Hope that helps.
lol
Clear as mud 👍thx
You need to phase shift
ok so what do you need to be??
@@B1astFriend Idk, But definitely don't be boring. Also Don't be interesting. Don't be shy either, but don't be confident
The best video I have ever seen about Nighgame. Direct, every word matters. Great content.
Facts ❤!!!!!!
This format is fire, keep up the great work!
I loved this video. It’s saved as my go-to motivation before a Saturday night.
I usually follow your pickup style works most of the time
This channel is one of the best in the community, thank you.
I would say as a beginner, your last tip was the most important. Getting the exact date set while in person will reduce flake rate by so much while also indicating her interest in you. I feel like that advice should be first in all videos like this, woulda helped me cut out a lot of bs from my early days
This is a fantastic video - so glad I searched for night game on Spotify and searched for this channel RUclips
Also led to me to buy two of the books - can't wait to start implementing the learnings from there to tighten up my game. Have done at least 670 approaches cumulatively over 2022 and 2023 and hoping to try and reach the 1k mark for the 3 year total by the end of 2024
Avery, thank you for providing massive value👊
Couldn't think of better step by step guide
More of these vids please!! Crazy value
Awesome as always!!!
Great guide,awesome content!
This was so helpfull. Can you make a guide to daygame also?
Damn, didn’t know Stevie Emerson was teaching gaming:)
Great value video. Keep it up
Lmao what a random reference
Really nice guide. Add some active listening to all of your communication, it helps a lot too
Long videos are really valuable make them more often.
These are some golden nugget pieces of advice. Thank you
Would you say that your approach is age restrictive? So much of the advice I see seems (im not sure) like its for guys in their 20’s-30’s. I’m 63 . Was with my wife since I was 18. Now that she’s dead, I have ZERO experience to fall back upon that helps me pick up women, especially with younger women, which is what I’m shooting for. By the way……this was freakin awesome. You are such a bad ass. You provide so much content than any other if come across. Thanks so much.
you are way too old for a typical nightclub unless you have at least some fame and millions of dollars. i'm 41 and having issues at the club. you can prolly still get a younger women like 35-50 at a bar for older people. forget about the 20 somethings.
Great guide thanks
This is gold 💯🔥
Wrote some things into my phone and went for a practice ty
A.G.Hayden, I have an inquiry as a fellow person that knows a few things that many do not.
I find your specific knowledge base interesting and I don't know many of the phenomena you raise in conversation.
Could you create a package that lists 100 or so of your favorite important/interesting things to know, based on your unique knowledge base? This was inspired by your mention of peak experience in this case and have heard other things that interested me.
Thank you for you contribution to humanity
Thank you mate! Very detailed explanation for my logical mind. 😂
this was good , more videos slike this
“me, you, my bed, tonight?”
Dude, I'll be honest! I respect you, sincerely. You push on working on this channel inspite of being challenging, and I imagine frustrating you pull through the years. I sincerely respect you.
If I were you I'd do one thing different:
I'd also focus on the long term goal, not just getting laid. Perhaps somewhere similar to TrippAdvice?
But that's only my opinion, sooo don't take it too serious :D
Thanks!
I've considered the idea, the main problem I have with it is that I know I'm an expert at picking up girls, but I don't know that I'm an expert in relationships-they're two different things.
I'm not married or anything like that and to give advice on something I haven't done would be incongruent.
I watched the whole video and it’s really interesting knowledgeable! As far as I know about myself that I can definitely follow most of these things for sure, but my only issue is that English isn’t my first language so when it comes to communication I don’t know but I lose most of my confidence. Any advice or motivation for me please?
Loved this format
In terms of long form videos, can you make one on sexual tension and mindset?
Any plans for a second NYC boot camp? I’m interested
🙏 thanks man
Great value 💪
Now, the DOs and the DONTs of Daygame.
he made a video about that years ago
Great video AG. I was wondering, you made a video about Daygame 3 years ago that was also very comprehensive, just a few questions:
1. Do you still stand by what you put in that video years ago?
2. You said that university campuses are the best if you are in the right age range. I'm back in school, but I'm a bit older than the other students (late 20s), should I still approach girls there or keep it cool?
Bro late 20s is fine lol. Most girls on campus are gonna be 20+ anyway. Even the youngest there are still gonna be 18-19, so you're only looking at like a 10 year age gap at most, not a big deal at all.
@@wyattlong8321 Fair. I think I just feel a bit weird cause I used to go a few years back when I wasn't going there. But, now that I do, I hope it's okay. I guess it helps that I still look young
Great video but… What is a “kick back”? What if your home is a 30 minute drive from the bar or club?
Would you say that your approach is age restrictive? So much of the advice I see seems (im not sure) like its for guys in their 20’s-30’s. I’m 63 . Was with my wife since I was 18. Now that she’s dead, I have ZERO experience to fall back upon that helps me pick up women, especially with younger women, which is what I’m shooting for.
This is some good content respect
I summarize this up, it not really even what you say but as long as you do something, as attraction happens right away. So it really is a number game. Everything he talk about is correct but it come from knowing your sexual value and what the rules of attractions is...also take some risk, if you play it safe it friendzone city.
please tell me you didn't watch the video
He talking about confidence. I don't have any issue talking to any girls because I know the rules of attraction. If you have some metrics you do well.@@quinzoto
The problem is women are rarely alone at night and you will have to open the group she is in. Although at best you might have to open a 2 set. Also I'm not into clubs and being in my 40s I prefer bars but all my friends are coupled up and wings live really far away so I would have to go out alone.
excuses, excuses, excuses
@@salvatore5553 Excuses yes but they're also valid points. Game gets harder as you get older.
Go 2 grocery stores
@@DanTubereasier. Guy's at his peak, 30's is when a man's got his highest value. Loaded as fuck, stability and experience. If you don't have that in your 30's you're a fuck up.
All the times I have pulled girls at bars or clubs happened when I went out alone. And most of the times they approached me first! So try it man. It could work for you as well!
The first question is - where to get a home.
8:44 Thus is so true, didn’t even sleep with her but everything else went so well that I was more satisfied with how good I was without even trying.
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 awesome 💯😎
I went out again after my last comment and had a lot of success but I didn't have any real decent interaction with a girl that stuck with me and it felt like a dead night I was a bit bummed but then this last Friday a week later I went out again and manage to pull a girl home and get laid, I hadn't been out in 2-3months cuz i had gotten tired of crazy late nights, & also all the rejection so i decided to focus on myself and my life for that time considering I had been going out for 6months+ . I was pretty cold when I started back out but I did approach 10-20 girls each night the last 3 weeks a total of going to the club three times and I already got laid plus having great interactions with very attractive women each night which is half the fun honestly
Just saw this! Hell yeah man any more success?
The fact that we as a human species had sex long long before we developed language is really striking. I would give everything to see two individuals approach each other and have sex just by pure non verbal communication.
That thought also shows that its not really important what you say its more about how you say it.
Well, Ive hooked up with a couple women who dont speak English, so that does happen (we use Google translate a few times, but thats it).
Someone also filmed an infield where they pulled a girl without talking (but thats not on youtube anymore sadly)
Sick vid
Bro are you still in AZ? We used to go out a little few years ago.
this guy is good
@41:37 I like how she's contemplating whether or not to have sex. She finally says yes in her head and then says "I have time". That's code for "Lets have sex"
only a small percentage of women go to clubs alone and they are usually old and lesbian. no matter what you look like and say you will get rejected every time you go to a club. you might have to go to a club 10 times to get laid once. it get very expensive and tiring. just the reality. you will most likely find your wife through work or social circles.
They don’t need to go alone lol, that’s an irrelevant point.
The second part is just not true, it depends on how many women you approach, how charismatic you are, your strategy, your appearance, etc etc etc.
Your post is an example of the dunning Kruger effect in action
Hi guys can you give me any tips ? I have ceberal palsy a had bad breakup on january i try to find next love of my life :D thank you all
gold
any new infields? i remember this one from like 5 year ago.
Not sure what you mean because this video has a lot of infields, some from a long time ago and some more recent.
I’ve posted new infield as recently as last month
the squanch haha
Its discusting to know, that realy this world become only casual hook Ups and person to person to person chain...
Im gonna ask her fav position is. Then say I meant soccer obviously
25:57 first infield
4 preguntas memorizadas
De donde sos? Sos de aca?
Que haces de tu vida de que laburas?
Que haces para divertirte?
Con quien viniste aca?
If a girl early on asks me to buy her a drink, I think it’s worthwhile making a bet with her. This would be both fun and gives her a chance to mend it. You could go “I tell you what, if I can guess where you’re from, you’ll buy me a drink”. Then if you lose, you proved you’re not there to be used, but lost the bet fair and square and makes the interaction balanced.
Credits to Damien Diecke, I read that from him.
A+
How can I send you money?
I'm down, my hamster died last week
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you deff didnt pull hundreds of girls from bars and clubs. lmao
Envy ;)
again this bullshit state thing. RSD started this dumb thing and it destroyed thousands of dudes lives. Just realise you are 100 out of 100 and assume attraction. if you are a guys reading my message dont listen to this guy. if you go out talk to girls not guys. stop thinking you need to be in a state just assume attraction and that you are 100 out of 100. make a list of your achievements in life and cool stories read them before going out. dont listen to these dudes telling you to be in ''state'' this is just waste of your time
How’s the pickup going
Not true, we are spiritual beings and energy is real. Everything he said in this video is facts, you’ll realize he’s right when you’ve actually experienced it
what is your lay count?probably less than 5@@JONATHAN-ix3sp
when you are over 100 talk to me
Perfect 💯
Thank you so much man. I really need infield examples aside from lectures.
Girls create your flow state