Turning 20 in a few weeks, it saddens me that I lost my teenage years to mental illnesses, they are gone and I am never gonna be able to live, laugh and love like a teenager should have Hey y'all. Turned 21 some months ago. Time flies. To people that shared messages of hope, thanks. I really appreciate it.. To people that reminded me that "I should be grateful for what I have", yeah I know that and it only makes me feel more guilty. Anyway, I really fucked up. I still feel miserable, my choice of college education is a mess, I can't seem to know how to make healthy social relationships, and daily I think about ending my life (but I am sure I will not because I can't cause more pain than I have already caused). The days go on, and the feeling of doing everything wrong is constant. I wonder when it's going to blow up in my face. But as horrible as I feel, I have no one to talk to, so I cowardly resort to the comments section of a video where I have no face and can freely say what I feel without being consumed by guilt and shame.
But who's to say that the rest of life won't hold love and laughter? It isn't true that your teen years are the "golden age". In fact, most of the comments on this video suggest the opposite. Life isn't all downhill from here xx
I'd say it's on the 20's that you find your prime, Ms. Just go with the flow and enjoy your youth. I'm 21 and turning 22 in March, but I feel way better than I was a 16, mostly because I grew up in a ambient surounded by bad and dangerous people and I always had only few friends -- something like two. Basically, most of my social network I made on internet and I spent huge part of time in my room. I felt the same way as you before, I completely understand you. But the teenage years aren't the wisest ones. A lot of teenagers has the same strugles that you had before and others are even worse. You must use yourself as an example of overcoming, because mental illness nowadays is getting pretty common among teenagers and only few people can get rid of it without taking their own life. God bless you!
@@felipesoares1787 Late twenties here, while the twenties were a lot better than my teenage years, I sincerely hope that they werent my prime either. Must be awful living the rest of your life knowing the best is over. Plus, they werent even what Id call best.
It’s not about “seventeen,” it’s about potential, and forgiveness. You’re the only person that can forgive yourself as you age. It’s important to remember the love you embody from a young age, to not lose it. You always embody beauty no one can touch, not age nor time.
Gosh this song hurts so much. 17 was tough. I was so damn lonely & misunderstood, yet didn’t have the emotional language to explain it, even to myself. I was in a big new city and too afraid to begin to navigate it. With parents who were so different, with different struggles and different backgrounds, different values and interests, that they had no idea how to help me in any way at all. School kids so different also, they had their own bubbles already, in a small private school. There was no room for someone like me. I spent a lot of days leaving school early (dropped out of a couple of classes so I could) and waiting at the train station every day with a ridiculous amount of candy, shyly watching the range of people you see in a quiet but transitional spot in a huge city. And at the other end of the station I would hang around a playground by myself for hours. Time moved so slow, yet too fast. The way it does now but with less understanding of it. I couldn’t wait to get out, yet had no visible future to run towards, just a million things I wanted to run from. I don’t know whether 17y/o me would like or hate current me. But that’s okay because either way, all these years later, present me is finally doing okay.
I can relate to you so fuckin much. I'm turning 21 in a month and somehow it still feels the same. Better, but I'm not there yet. I'm still not where I'm supposed to be but I'm trying to be better.
I can't get over the powerful melancholy in this song. It's like a yearning for your youth, while appreciating how much more yourself you are with age. It's telling your younger self things will get better, while realising that they kind of didn't. It's reflecting on how much has changed with the passing of time, but the slap in the face that nothing has really changed at all... I think we get so caught up in nostalgia and regret and concern for the future that we forget that our memories aren't really truthful, and everything we experience is relative and fixed in the time it is in. This song reminds me to focus less on where you've been and where you're going, and more on where you are now :( :)
Absolutely never too late! I didn't enjoy high school at all, but in my mid-20's I started experimenting with my sexuality and expressing myself in a way that was more true to myself, and you can too ❤️ it's never too late to live, whatever that might mean or look like for you
As someone who has also lost a lot of their youth while fighting mental illness I really relate to everyone in the comments. The problem is our society romanticizes being young while ignoring the burdens and many changes you go through during that time. But realistically you're more likely to come across those aspects when you're older, like love, friendship and what makes you truly happy. The time-frame of child to young adult is so short, you can't experience absolutely everything the movies tell you in the span of 10 years so don't give yourself a hard time for it. You still have so much more life to live, please don't give up on it! I promise there's much more to experience and at least when you turn into an adult you'll have the freedom and legality to do whatever you want :D (Sorry if this turned into an essay but I just wanted to encourage anyone who had similar feelings. Life is hard regardless of age, be proud of yourself for getting through it!! ❤❤❤)
Maybe that's the reason why this song is on The Half of it, the movie doesn't romanticize teenagerhood, it's a realistic look into it. I'm 19 and I feel like I wasted my teen years and that I'm missing out. Thanks for this
@@ginandromeda1618 I forgot the song was on the half of it! I heard this song from that scene in sex education which I think really depicted a moment where a character's entire outlook changes and they can no longer go back to being a teen or "17" (tried to make that as non-spoilery as possible). But I you're right too! The half of it is much more realistic which I really appreciate since it doesn't underestimate its audience. Also no worries! Hopefully it helps a little knowing that a lot of people feel the same as you do!
Thank you @Manju your words will help a lot i m 20 n going through so much seems like my life gonna be end soon. So thanks for your comforting word. U really are an angel.
EVERYTIME I hear this song my eyes swell with tears because being an adult and growing up is hard, a lot of souls don’t make it past their twenties so this song is a light for them and a glimpse into the horrors I’ve endured. Whoever reads this I hope you give yourself the same grace and love you give others to yourself for I have the unfortunate repercussion of ignoring that.
When I was 17, I was anxious and insecure. Now I'm 35 and I've never been better. There have been hard times, I've hit rock bottom in 2008/09. But I've moved on. Got helped by family and friends. Never surrender.
I’m going into my 30s never being more mentally healthy and stable. And look back at my 20s with regret, maybe one day i wont but i dont ever wanna go back. I cant wait for what my 30s have for me!
Older dude here. I grew up with the likes of Pat Benetar, Stevie Nick's, Heart, etc, and graduated to PJ Harvey, Siouxsie, etc in the eightees. This song blows me away. So damn good. And to me reminiscent of those 70s and 80's anthems I love so much. 🖤
Not going to lie that's totally possible. I've always seen it as her talking to her daughter. Her daughter is just like her and she wants something better for her. Hoping she doesn't make the same mistakes.
Just played this to my recent 17 year old. I was in tears listening to it, remembering the essence of youth, it's wonder and fear. What a powerful song!
[Verse 1] I know what you wanna say I think that you're all the same Constantly being led astray You think you know something you don't [Chorus 1] Downtown hotspot halfway up the street I used to be free, I used to be seventeen Follow my shadow around your corner I used to be seventeen, now you're just like me [Verse 2] Down beneath the ashes and the stone Sure of what I've lived and have known I see you so uncomfortably alone I wish I could show you how much you've grown [Chorus 2] Downtown hotspot used to be on this street I used to be seventeen, I used to be seventeen Now you're a hotshot hanging on my block Sun coming up, who's my shadow? [Post-Chorus] La-la-la-la-la-la-la La-la-la-la-la-la-la La-la-la-la-la-la-la La-la-la-la-la-la-la [Bridge] I know what you're gonna be I know that you're gonna be You'll crumble it up just to see Afraid that you'll be just like me [Chorus 3] Downtown hotspot halfway through this life I used to feel free, or was it just a dream? Now you're a hotshot, think you're so carefree But you're just seventeen, so much like me You're just seventeen, you're just seventeen Seventeen
this song is my all time favorite. my favorite lyric is “i wish you could see how much you’ve grown”! it just reminds me i’m so much different than who i was four years ago - i’m stronger and happier now :)
This is so great... Loved it! I know what you wanna say I think that you're all the same Constantly being led astray He's thinking of something you don't Downtown harks back Halfway up the street I used to be free I used to be seventeen Follow my shadow Around your corner I used to be seventeen Now you're just like me Down beneath the ashes and the stone Sure of what I've lived and have known I see you so uncomfortably alone I wish I could show you how much you've grown Downtown harks back I used to be on this street I used to be seventeen I used to be seventeen Now you're half shy Hanging on my block Sun coming up Who is my shadow? La la la la la la la La la la la la la la La la la la la la la La la la la la la la I know what you're gonna be I know…
Agreed! Love love love the song! Glad too have a station playing it and other ones like hers in the Grand Rapids, MI area (94.5 WLKQ, The "Q", it"s different here!
when i was 17 it felt like the beginning and the end, for the first time in my life i felt free, more independent and hopeful but i wasn't truly happy, was it all just an illusion.. i don't know, i don't want to go back, but i look back fondly when thinking of that summer..
Great song! I just turned 41 and I still feel 17! Feels just like yesterday! This song hits home unlike anything I’ve heard in a while! If I could only go back!
I’m 17. And to everyone else who is too- let’s enjoy it ok? Time flies. It might b a tough year, but we grow. And we learn. Keep going. Let’s relish being 17. It might not b everything we expected. But that’s ok. Peace n love everyone 🌿
@@SimonRobeyns back the fuck off man. hindsight is 20/20, everything looks easier once you're out of the thick of it. I know I was angsty in high school but I respect that those feelings were real in the moment.
i dont have anything remotely important thats happened to me during my teen years because i lost so many years of it to my depression and anxiety but this song makes me feel a special kind of heaviness i cant compare to anything
When I was a teen I was over 300lb, depressed and miserable. In a high school of 1600, I was in the bottom dozen in popularity. I didn't figure out how much you can mold yourself into something else until I figured out how to care about myself as I was. When you decide to treat yourself like someone you care about, everything changes. Misery loses its power, joy starts to come easier. You have to decide to let love in. You can't force yourself to feel a certain way or "decide" to just "be ok", but you CAN force yourself to slowly stack little habits designed to lead towards something else. Reach out to life no matter how you feel or how the world might look and you will find that life reaches back.
This song is for people in their 30s-40s who reminisce at this time or their life when they were 17 and the freedom they felt. Doesn’t mean it was the best time of their life, just that they were carefree and the innocence that goes we it, knowing now they can’t never go back to this feeling.
@@BlownMacTruck to me personally, this song at any age above 17 can mean something to anyone. Don't have to be 30 - 40s. I think you can be 50 or 100and this song will take you back to when you were 17! Its a great song.
i remember listening to edge of seventeen by stevie nicks and dancing queen by abba and even seventeen by kings of leon and peach pitt, respectively, at midnight when i turned seventeen alone in my bed. that was a really rough time for me, i was in my first relationship and it was so abusive and toxic. i’m turning 20 in a month and i’m in such a good place; life will always go up and down again. it feels so good to look back on who i was at seventeen. it feels like that girl doesn’t exist anymore, but parts of her are still in me. anyway, i’d just like to say that songs about being seventeen hold a special place in my heart, that was a defining time for me and probably most people
You're going to find yourself saying this about yourself every three years or so. Don't think about it too much. Just face what's coming and learn. Love, 33-year-old
Great documentary bbc radio 4 that I just listened to on songs about being 17 years old. I never knew this amazing song a week ago. I think you'd like it Nicole xx
How the environment plays a role on your psyche and your upbringing, we live with a different set of challenges here in Iran but the emotions are the same. Love you Sharon You’re special
How powerful this song is, with the emotion behind it. It crushes you so deep and warms you like a blanket. What a gift to world she's is, and how lucky are we to have her.
I came from 'The Half Of It' and wow❤️ i read through the comments for about half an hour and it's kinda amazing seeing everyone's different stories. it's crazy to think about how different we each live our lives yet here we are, we each somehow found our way right here, listening to this song. each with our own story to tell❤️
This song just hit me so hard. My teens weren't easy and sometimes I look at my daughter and just feel devastated at how similar our lives are . Too much pain....this song is a musical masterpiece.
This song looks like lying on the bed alone, in a room with your mess and little tears in your eyes. blurry, red light fills the room and you don’t care that you turned seventeen yesterday and everyone remembered you.
This song hurts so good. As I'm nearing 40, I am embracing my true self, unapologetically. I will never compromise myself like I did in the past. Make the choices, do the things, regret nothing. 😘😘😘
I remember listening to this song a few hours before turning 18, I was chilling in my bedroom, thinking damn I wanna be forever 17, cause being 18 and comes with its responsibilities and you actually have to work hard to achieve your goal because they're not handed to you on a silver platter. I'm 21 now and I am grateful for everything! I am where I am supposed to be and I am learning everyday
I remember turning 18 two years ago and thinking to myself just how fast did i go from 16 to 18. It feels like as if I slept through 2 years. The pandemic disrupted my school life and my whole life in general. I remember my step father bringing me my birthday cake while my parents were watching on the news regarding the beginning of ukraine war. It was a miserable birthday. Family was slowly falling apart and I knew it. Despite that, I thought to myself to just endure it all and just go through it. I stop caring for many things. I was just hoping to get away from those times. Always looking ahead, I forgot to be in the present. Now I just turned 20 this 25th february. And I regret having those years wasted. You know the feeling of waiting to finally be the better version of you only for that day not to come and now its time to face the real world like responsible adults. But now it seems my life finally started to change for the better now... I hope. Wish you well in life whoever you are. Just remember to be in the present and enjoy the simple things. Take care.
@@user-fo3qn1er5p its weird how we all see how life is going so fast but yeah sticking to the present is what's important and thank you Stranger, may you fulfill your dreams 😊😊
I often feel like time is running, and on every birthday, I think, "Wait, I'm this old already? I never realised how quickly I was growing." But this song makes so many moments, from as far back as I can remember, flash before my eyes, and I no longer wonder where did all that time go.
17 was the most magical year of my life so far. senior year, summer after high school, college and new beginnings. so much newness and the edge of childhood into adulthood. my advice to every 17 year old is enjoy it and stop trying to get outta there so quick. you’ll want it back soon! i’m about to enter my 20s and wish i could go back and take it all in one last time!! also all the music about being 17
I discovered this song in August 2019 on Spotify and listened to it on repeat - alongside The National's "Light Years". In September I decided last minute to go to Madrid on a 4-day weekend, booked my flight, packed close to nothing but had my playlists ready. All I wanted was to find some peace, walk around the city and listen to my music. Went to Parque del Retiro and while I was taking a walk and listening to this song, I saw a friend from school I had lost touch with a while ago. He told me he lived there now and invited me to go out with him and his friends that night. We went for tapas and drinks, danced, and I spent the rest of my mini vacation with them. Life is crazy like that. One of the best times I've had in a while. I sure miss going on those little improvised trips, but soon I hope.
Every time I hear this song I feel like she made it just for me. I was talking to my dad yesterday, sent him a picture from last week of my 17 yr old getting their lip pierced, with hair nearly identical in color and cut to my hair at 17, with the caption "they're so much like I was". It was kinda wistful, missing the parts of me that life experience has dulled or killed, but my boomer dad replied "now you see what I had to deal with". Just...no, shut up old man. When my parents laid the curse on me that they "hoped I'd have a child JUST like me" they never imagined that I'd be delighted by a child with all the traits they perceived as flaws. That kid is beautiful and perfect, passionate and talented, and crazy smart with a hilariously sarcastic sense of humor. What really wrecked me in this song was this part: I know what you're gonna be I know that you're gonna be You'll crumble it up just to see Afraid you'll be just like me It hurts that yes, I believe my child recognizes our similarities and is afraid they'll turn out like me. And chances are they probably will.
I’m 26 and was just talking, yesterday, about how my favorite age was 17. So many great times and great memories. How the time has flown. Then I happen to discover this song, and wow is it beautiful.
This song…It’s wishing you could go back in time, but knowing if that opportunity presented itself you may think twice about taking it. It’s realizing you are older, wiser and you went through pivotal, challenging moments to become who you are now…but at the same time you can’t help but relate to the younger you and feel maybe not much has actually changed. Regardless of the years that have passed since seventeen, we are still trying to grow, trying to learn, trying to navigate this complicated world we woke up in. Forever trying figure out the purpose. Life is a beautiful struggle. No matter if you are 17 or 70.
Wow, @ashleyward3556 I heard this song for the first time early this morning, purely by fate. I was there, with the title, Seventeen & the guest presenter's reference to Sharon's scream towards the end of the song. I felt your thoughts & the positivity they stirred inside me, thank you, Ashley! During the song, I was transported back to a painful adolescence that unfortunately lead to many rollercoaster rides throughout my life. Then fate struck again when I noticed your comments were only written one day ago. And they say, 'Lightning never strikes twice!' I am so pleased it did as with your perspective, I can continue into this new day dawning with an attitude of light rather than darkness May your generosity be returned in spades! Love light& blessings Jules Gold Coast
Found this song from Sex Education, won’t be leaving for a while. As someone who’s turning 17 in just a couple months and who feels like he hasn’t really accomplished anything, this song makes me quite emotional, I actually kind of cried a little the third and fourth time I listened to it, and I’ve listened many times since. It feels like I’m meant to be more than what I am. But that is what makes me appreciate the comments in this thread, these people talking about how they felt their teenage years were bad too, and others accomplishing their dreams in their 20’s and 30’s. Life isn’t over after 17, even if I, and probably others, feel like that a lot. But sometimes it’s hard to feel like you’re not wasting your time. And this song kind of makes it hurt, but in all the right ways. It’s a truly incredible song, I’m so happy to have found it. Edit: Returning to this comment about a month after my 18th, things have already changed a lot. My first semester of college brought me a lot of great new life experiences I’ve never had and I in general have a new appreciation for life. I had to push myself really hard but I gave myself an attitude change and am trying to see the future in a more positive light and see the good in more things in the present. I’m still not quite the person I want, but I’m getting there, as is everyone who may read this comment. It gets better everyone. Sometimes faster than you realize.
Take it from someone who's in her late 20s, you really don't need to be thinking you have to "accomplish" anything in your teenage years. Don't put such pressure on yourself, it usually only leads to you being unsatisfied and unhappy. Just enjoy your teen years, there will be plenty of time to achieve whatever you want later. :)
What ever you do have fun have lots of fun Because no matter how much you do in life If you didn't have fun You're going to wish you did Just like me and if I could go back in time I would have more fun
That is exactly the way i feel! Thank you dear stranger for saying it out loud. I am 18 now, and i feel like my teen years went by so quickly, and i haven't achieved anything to be proud of . I'll never be like those cool teens who've got it all figured out at 16, or who lived fulfilling,crazy, amazing teen years.it Sometimes hits me hard, but, like everyone said, the best is probably ahead of us...
life will never stop with its up and downs. don't mistake wealth for happiness or accomplishment. have fun. be young. embrace the challenges. you only get one shot at this. enjoy the ride
There’s something magical about teenage years. Maybe not the best years, but youthful bliss. Better put, “Oh, I was once young, Oh, I was once unbelievably, young.”
Did everyone else explode in floods of happy and sad tears for what you had and what was gone, all at once, first time they heard this. God, this hits so hard at 37. i used to be 17. I was broken at that age, off the rails. Love how this is like a lament to that version of herself. Can see the pain in her face as she sings to her younger self. 'Show you how much youve grown,' i needed that. Somehow thats just taken me back 20 years to that age, turmoil and boom, dealt. AMAZING. It's not often I feel every single word an artist says...but this 😍
I'm turning 17 in a month and this came into my recommendation...oh the wonderful things the youtube algorithm has to offer. Thanks youtube, I'm glad to have found a a wonderful song😊💗
Every time I hear this song it bets better, which is the sign of a great song. We have all widened we could go back in time to tell our younger selves something. This song is about that something. Thank you Sharon for this incredible gem.
I know what you wanna say I think that you're all the same Constantly being led astray You think you know something you don't Downtown hotspot Halfway up this street I used to be free I used to be seventeen Follow my shadow Around your corner I used to be seventeen Now you're just like me Down beneath the ashes and stone Sure of what I've lived and have known I see you so uncomfortably alone I wish I could show you how much you've grown Downtown hotspot Used to be on this street I used to be seventeen I used to be seventeen Now you're a hotshot Hanging on my block Sun coming up Who is my shadow? La la la la la la la La la la la la la la La la la la la la la La la la la la la la I know what you're gonna be I know that you're gonna be You'll crumble it up just to see Afraid that you'll be just like me Downtown hotspot Halfway through this life I used to feel free Or was it just a dream? Now you're a hotshot Think you're so carefree But you're just seventeen So much like me You're just seventeen You're just seventeen
It can even mean the growth she's endured herself from 17 to present through her "shadows." I played it for my daughter. It can have so many meanings. That's the beauty of beautiful music.. ❤️
Im 20. To all of you, who's 17. You won't believe how fast this time will be gone. Please, respect it fully and try to remember as much as possible of this time.
I'm 20 years old in January 2022 and I feel so sorry for my Seventeen self. I didn't had no one telling me everything will pass away faster than I thought and if I'd survived then I would be stronger than I thought. I think I'm stronger mentally than I would ever thought I would at Seventeen. Bless my past self and I hugged myself, I had no friend but now I do. You're never alone. You got this, just wait.
Interpret the lyrics how you will. The raw emotion packed in this song just gives you that feeling. Very few can deliver this. A timeless track, unlike so many others. Sharon Van Etten really did an amazing job at 3:09 as well.
I'll tell you something my parents told me when I was 17 that I wish with all my heart that I could believe: YOU CAN BE ANYONE, ANYONE YOU WANT IN THIS LIFE. Youth is literally a superpower.
Adam Frisoli Not really a superpower when Coocoo and methdonald seems to interests you. And up to the rehab we go. Don’t tell the youth that they are ‘invincible’ and live their life to the fullest. Teenagers die a lot because of that. Just a simple “enjoy every moment, seize every opportunity” talk is enough.
My wife is pregnant with our first child and i cannot wait to experience the growth, pain, struggle, and REWARDING experience of being a father. I am praying for a baby girl, and if we don't have a daughter, that's just awesome too. Cannot wait. Just CAN'T WAIT.
I love the complex emotions this song manages to capture. Pride in the growth it took to become who you are now - in defiance of your own past expectations. Grief, disdain, and compassion for the person you used to be.
Currently 19. Was 17 when covid started. The lyrics about being 17 and free really hit home for me… like for everyone else, I feel like the pandemic has stolen some important years. I was kinda anxious that I’d missed out on a part of life I’d never get the chance to experience again. Felt like my development as a person was halted all of a sudden. But reading the comments under this video has given me a lot of hope for the future. Nice to know that that period can be bad anyway regardless of covid 😂 Thanks :)
@@adamf.4823 3 years ago I was seventeen... I just was alone, sleeping, eating and sleeping again, I didn't even take a shower in days, without friends, without my family...nobody cares and I felt like shit. Now... I feel better and with goals. Greetings
It's in these rare moments that you realize world has so much beautiful things to offer. A song that tells everyone's story, a video that mirrors you through a little girl and a grown-up woman. Brilliant.
i know that feeling, I'm only 24 but I feel nostalgic of my teens sometimes. But then I remember how anxious and worried I was all the time, and I realize I'm much better now :)
Today is my birthday . I am 17 now . I’m trying to find myself. I don’t want to waste my time,energy, especially my age . I want to live every feelings . Cause i know i am not going to be like this and i just want to stay in this time . I am not saying my life is super . It’s just normal teenage girl . But when we are going to be older we can’t been into life like this and whoever you are just try to be happy take a deep breath and let it go . Don’t waste your time . Everything is going to be fine . I am saying this but who knows someday I disagree with this but now i want to write it and i am doing it .
Consider the military for 4 years. They have great training in medicine and a chance to see the world. It didn't do me any harm 3 years in Germany. Training applicable to civilian life. Air Force best bases.
Also 17 here. I may have lost bits here and there due to COVID, but I sure as hell don't want to let that ruin the rest of my life, doesn't really matter how long or short my life may be
@@shahrzadketabollahi5496 Currently 17 as well. This pandemic sucks, though I agree with you that I as well won’t let it stop me from living life to my fullest. 😷 with precautions, of course. Stay safe, make memories as best you can 🥲 and I wish you all the best! Truly. stay groovy!✨🤟🏾
For a while, I heard this song (or some edits of this song) everywhere, in TV shows, social medias, etc. At some point, I couldn't even hear her without sighing, knowing it was going to be used in all sorts of futile challenges. Today I've come across it again and the emotion is back, intact after all this time. What a beautiful song.
I wasn't for me either. Like Sharon said, "so uncomfortably alone" which represents pretty much what I was when I was 17. However, because of that I grew up to be the person I'm now. So yeah...you learn from your ups and lows.
@@carolinesm3083 I hope u will spend this time now to know more what makes u sad. Learning about yourself is the best way to overcome depression. Good luck and stay healthy
Several years ago, when I was a very lonely guy -as many others might have too- I discovered your sad/crude/real music, I could relate because I could tell you've been through hell too. I have depression, but this year I've woken up to some help thanks to a group therapy and I am doing better. I know many ppl dislike artists who "change" their style, like it happened with Cat Power, but maybe ppl don't realize artists suffer from mental health too and if it changes, their music might reflect that. Thank you for this song! I hope I meet you one day.
I have no words to describe how amazing I find this song, Sharon. But I'm 50 in May... and this song perfectly conjures memories of 17 for me. Love & Respect to you! ❤ Limes
Nice song. I remember my own 17 quite fondly. I didn't have anything to stress about apart from exams. I had a sweet boyfriend. I loved my mom so much and loved the moments we'd go shopping together. I was not a rebellious teen at all, loved my parents too much. And I am glad that I did because little did I know my mom would pass away when I was 19 and 24 hours later my granny passed too (that's when I learned that someone can literally die of a broken heart, takotsubo cardiomyopathy). During a big part of my twenties I was struggling with grief, wrong choices, heartbreak, more loss and pain, rape even. Only in the last 5 years have I started to grab myself together and making good choices for myself. I'm thriving now at 31. I've picked up a study in pursuit of the ambitions I had as a teenager. I have gotten some amazing friends. I found a great joy in traveling. I got married. And most importantly, I found my peace in Jesus Christ. For so many years I was angry at God. I left Him. Not the other way around. Then God left the 99 sheep to find the one sheep that was lost. He picked me up from the mess I made and lifted me up, pulled me out. Some people think there's a negative tone to being like sheep in a herd. But I'm the most happy sheep because my shepherd is Jesus and I wouldn't ever want to leave the herd again. With Jesus on my side I have started to thrive.
The other day I found a school photo of me when I was 17 (I'll be 27 in 2 weeks) and all I could think of was how fast time has passed since then, how much I've grown and changed in certain ways, and also how much I've gone off the rails in other ways. This song (and its fitting video) gives me the same emotional pull I got from seeing that old photo.
I do not have the most pleasant memories of my life at 17. I am glad that life goes on and that I had more success and happiness in the meantime than at 17. There were also wild moments in my youth, but altogether many things did not fit. Looking back it was nice that my parents were still alive.
Turning 20 in a few weeks, it saddens me that I lost my teenage years to mental illnesses, they are gone and I am never gonna be able to live, laugh and love like a teenager should have
Hey y'all. Turned 21 some months ago. Time flies.
To people that shared messages of hope, thanks. I really appreciate it.. To people that reminded me that "I should be grateful for what I have", yeah I know that and it only makes me feel more guilty. Anyway, I really fucked up. I still feel miserable, my choice of college education is a mess, I can't seem to know how to make healthy social relationships, and daily I think about ending my life (but I am sure I will not because I can't cause more pain than I have already caused).
The days go on, and the feeling of doing everything wrong is constant. I wonder when it's going to blow up in my face. But as horrible as I feel, I have no one to talk to, so I cowardly resort to the comments section of a video where I have no face and can freely say what I feel without being consumed by guilt and shame.
Big same. i want to go back
But who's to say that the rest of life won't hold love and laughter? It isn't true that your teen years are the "golden age". In fact, most of the comments on this video suggest the opposite. Life isn't all downhill from here xx
I'd say it's on the 20's that you find your prime, Ms. Just go with the flow and enjoy your youth. I'm 21 and turning 22 in March, but I feel way better than I was a 16, mostly because I grew up in a ambient surounded by bad and dangerous people and I always had only few friends -- something like two. Basically, most of my social network I made on internet and I spent huge part of time in my room. I felt the same way as you before, I completely understand you. But the teenage years aren't the wisest ones. A lot of teenagers has the same strugles that you had before and others are even worse. You must use yourself as an example of overcoming, because mental illness nowadays is getting pretty common among teenagers and only few people can get rid of it without taking their own life. God bless you!
There's still time
@@felipesoares1787 Late twenties here, while the twenties were a lot better than my teenage years, I sincerely hope that they werent my prime either. Must be awful living the rest of your life knowing the best is over. Plus, they werent even what Id call best.
It’s not about “seventeen,” it’s about potential, and forgiveness. You’re the only person that can forgive yourself as you age. It’s important to remember the love you embody from a young age, to not lose it. You always embody beauty no one can touch, not age nor time.
You can’t change time But time and change you
Thank you for that
Wow. I love this.
Right and Exact
Wow, nice analysis
Gosh this song hurts so much.
17 was tough.
I was so damn lonely & misunderstood, yet didn’t have the emotional language to explain it, even to myself. I was in a big new city and too afraid to begin to navigate it. With parents who were so different, with different struggles and different backgrounds, different values and interests, that they had no idea how to help me in any way at all. School kids so different also, they had their own bubbles already, in a small private school. There was no room for someone like me.
I spent a lot of days leaving school early (dropped out of a couple of classes so I could) and waiting at the train station every day with a ridiculous amount of candy, shyly watching the range of people you see in a quiet but transitional spot in a huge city. And at the other end of the station I would hang around a playground by myself for hours. Time moved so slow, yet too fast. The way it does now but with less understanding of it. I couldn’t wait to get out, yet had no visible future to run towards, just a million things I wanted to run from. I don’t know whether 17y/o me would like or hate current me. But that’s okay because either way, all these years later, present me is finally doing okay.
The 17 year old you would be happy to see you doing good. ❤
I went through somewhat of a similar experience, but no way as stressful as yours. but you made it. and that's awesome!
glad to hear that ur finally doing okay!
I can relate to you so fuckin much. I'm turning 21 in a month and somehow it still feels the same. Better, but I'm not there yet. I'm still not where I'm supposed to be but I'm trying to be better.
Ash idk good for you I’m glad ur doing ok now🦾
I can't get over the powerful melancholy in this song. It's like a yearning for your youth, while appreciating how much more yourself you are with age. It's telling your younger self things will get better, while realising that they kind of didn't. It's reflecting on how much has changed with the passing of time, but the slap in the face that nothing has really changed at all...
I think we get so caught up in nostalgia and regret and concern for the future that we forget that our memories aren't really truthful, and everything we experience is relative and fixed in the time it is in. This song reminds me to focus less on where you've been and where you're going, and more on where you are now :( :)
❤️❤️❤️❤️
beautifully put.
Yes.
Yess
Awesomely put
Damn, I thought this was a relatively old song but I see that it came out this year. It sounds like a classic.
BeardedDragon same here haha
Yes! Same, I enjoy it because of that. Fits the nostalgia it brings
Same!!
it came out in January and its still the best song of 2019 in my opinion.
Same here!
I wish I could get my teenage years back. I was too anxious and too depressed to take risks, have fun and just be dumb while I still could.
OMG I totally think like you. This is so sad...
Do it Now! Now is the only time you have 💛🙏💛
Absolutely never too late! I didn't enjoy high school at all, but in my mid-20's I started experimenting with my sexuality and expressing myself in a way that was more true to myself, and you can too ❤️ it's never too late to live, whatever that might mean or look like for you
@@mattvalente8194 Someone actually giving me positive advice and being kind on youtube? whoa. Thanks Matt!
cool bees you got this!! 💕
As someone who has also lost a lot of their youth while fighting mental illness I really relate to everyone in the comments. The problem is our society romanticizes being young while ignoring the burdens and many changes you go through during that time. But realistically you're more likely to come across those aspects when you're older, like love, friendship and what makes you truly happy.
The time-frame of child to young adult is so short, you can't experience absolutely everything the movies tell you in the span of 10 years so don't give yourself a hard time for it.
You still have so much more life to live, please don't give up on it! I promise there's much more to experience and at least when you turn into an adult you'll have the freedom and legality to do whatever you want :D
(Sorry if this turned into an essay but I just wanted to encourage anyone who had similar feelings. Life is hard regardless of age, be proud of yourself for getting through it!! ❤❤❤)
Thank you! Your comment helped me a lot
@@tonyd.u.y7262 I'm so glad it could be of use!
Maybe that's the reason why this song is on The Half of it, the movie doesn't romanticize teenagerhood, it's a realistic look into it. I'm 19 and I feel like I wasted my teen years and that I'm missing out. Thanks for this
@@ginandromeda1618 I forgot the song was on the half of it! I heard this song from that scene in sex education which I think really depicted a moment where a character's entire outlook changes and they can no longer go back to being a teen or "17" (tried to make that as non-spoilery as possible).
But I you're right too! The half of it is much more realistic which I really appreciate since it doesn't underestimate its audience.
Also no worries! Hopefully it helps a little knowing that a lot of people feel the same as you do!
Thank you @Manju your words will help a lot i m 20 n going through so much seems like my life gonna be end soon. So thanks for your comforting word. U really are an angel.
EVERYTIME I hear this song my eyes swell with tears because being an adult and growing up is hard, a lot of souls don’t make it past their twenties so this song is a light for them and a glimpse into the horrors I’ve endured. Whoever reads this I hope you give yourself the same grace and love you give others to yourself for I have the unfortunate repercussion of ignoring that.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and insights on this matter. Hope u are fine ❤
When I was 17, I was anxious and insecure. Now I'm 35 and I've never been better. There have been hard times, I've hit rock bottom in 2008/09. But I've moved on. Got helped by family and friends. Never surrender.
2008/09 was fucking rough.
How would you frame this to your 17-year-old self?
Oi, você está melhor agora?
I love this! I project myself being better at 30 than I'm at 20, 17 was tough af to me, wasn't confident in any area of my life for sure
I’m going into my 30s never being more mentally healthy and stable. And look back at my 20s with regret, maybe one day i wont but i dont ever wanna go back. I cant wait for what my 30s have for me!
Thank you YELLOWJACKETS ❤️. Love this song
Oh man I was so depressed from 14 to 19 I can’t even remember anything from that time
Yeah, can't help but see them as wasted years. 26 now, still depressed.
This too shall pass
I try to remember and I have some memories, but most of that time feels like I was dead. Yeah, wasted years...
Same
Omg same. It all just blends together.
Older dude here. I grew up with the likes of Pat Benetar, Stevie Nick's, Heart, etc, and graduated to PJ Harvey, Siouxsie, etc in the eightees. This song blows me away. So damn good. And to me reminiscent of those 70s and 80's anthems I love so much. 🖤
YES. I was a Blondie, Plasmatics, Patti Smith Siouxsie & the Banshees, punk gurl, then PJ, Hole, Neko Case, etc. I'm also blown away, and I cry too.
I don’t think this song is wishing you were seventeen again, I think it’s telling your younger self things will get better
I completely agree. When I listened I felt like I was speaking to my younger self.
Totally agree........ 🖤
Gay
@@pacoimeroxvida4404 ?
Not going to lie that's totally possible. I've always seen it as her talking to her daughter. Her daughter is just like her and she wants something better for her. Hoping she doesn't make the same mistakes.
i'm 22 years old and already feel the weight of this song.
Same... But fuck we have to live fully as possible! Don't think so much, good Life!
im 20 and i cant handle this too
20 and it's already overwhelming
@@lilmad2287 Whats overwhelming about it?
We can handle it together if you say.
"I see you so uncomfortably alone.
I wish I could show you how much you’ve grown." ❤
ever since "i washed your dishes, but shitted in your bathroom" i was hooked, such a way with words
@@mercutiomurphy2743 Haha I love her lyrics.
❤️
Almost cried here
@@silverdreamer1889 Aw, now you made me cry. I think a lot of us can relate to this lines.
Just played this to my recent 17 year old. I was in tears listening to it, remembering the essence of youth, it's wonder and fear. What a powerful song!
[Verse 1]
I know what you wanna say
I think that you're all the same
Constantly being led astray
You think you know something you don't
[Chorus 1]
Downtown hotspot halfway up the street
I used to be free, I used to be seventeen
Follow my shadow around your corner
I used to be seventeen, now you're just like me
[Verse 2]
Down beneath the ashes and the stone
Sure of what I've lived and have known
I see you so uncomfortably alone
I wish I could show you how much you've grown
[Chorus 2]
Downtown hotspot used to be on this street
I used to be seventeen, I used to be seventeen
Now you're a hotshot hanging on my block
Sun coming up, who's my shadow?
[Post-Chorus]
La-la-la-la-la-la-la
La-la-la-la-la-la-la
La-la-la-la-la-la-la
La-la-la-la-la-la-la
[Bridge]
I know what you're gonna be
I know that you're gonna be
You'll crumble it up just to see
Afraid that you'll be just like me
[Chorus 3]
Downtown hotspot halfway through this life
I used to feel free, or was it just a dream?
Now you're a hotshot, think you're so carefree
But you're just seventeen, so much like me
You're just seventeen, you're just seventeen
Seventeen
the real MVP
You're a legend ❤️
I thought it was downtown hatchback.
❤❤❤ Thank you...a lonely Christmas night '21
@@rino09876 its "downtown harks back",
The lyrics online are frequently, (assumedly by word of mouth), wrong 😂
I feel like the universe sent me this song
I was actually sent by netflix
payday 💀😂
Ikr😭
I feel like you're the type of person who talks utter bollocks a lot
I don’t remember the last time a song emotionally destroyed me like this.
same
I am starting immediately to cry. Uf.
"Destroyed"? That's awful. I find this song incredibly uplifting.
It has levels.
I feel bathed with a rough washcloth.
Just watched season 2 episode 1 of yellow jackets and felt the vibe of this song in the opening scene...🕷
me too
@@Aefetece Yellow Jackets is so good!
Buzz buzz buzz 🐝💛🐝🍖🍗🤮🤮❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ lmao iykyk
🛩🌲⚽️😣🍽......
I haven't seen anything like it since "Alive" with ethan hawke, a year ago. hope it continues as good as the previous ones
..SO CLOSE FLEX 🤣🤣
this song is my all time favorite. my favorite lyric is “i wish you could see how much you’ve grown”! it just reminds me i’m so much different than who i was four years ago - i’m stronger and happier now :)
Just wait until you get to your 30s, I love myself as a person so much more than I ever thought I would.
That lyric is a standout for me as well.
Best lyric in the song. You’re gonna have a ball in your thirties, darl!
im proud of yall!
After this song i have a nostalgia about life that I never had
same same
Same , weird
I have nostalgia for the 30 other times I've seen this stupid f*cken comment on RUclips
feelin same :(
lol
This is so great... Loved it!
I know what you wanna say
I think that you're all the same
Constantly being led astray
He's thinking of something you don't
Downtown harks back
Halfway up the street
I used to be free
I used to be seventeen
Follow my shadow
Around your corner
I used to be seventeen
Now you're just like me
Down beneath the ashes and the stone
Sure of what I've lived and have known
I see you so uncomfortably alone
I wish I could show you how much you've grown
Downtown harks back
I used to be on this street
I used to be seventeen
I used to be seventeen
Now you're half shy
Hanging on my block
Sun coming up
Who is my shadow?
La la la la la la la
La la la la la la la
La la la la la la la
La la la la la la la
I know what you're gonna be
I know…
I thought it was downtown hot spot?
I am so honored to be related to someone who can create such a compelling and heartwrenching song. We love you Sharon.
This is a masterpiece.
Agreed! Love love love the song! Glad too have a station playing it and other ones like hers in the Grand Rapids, MI area (94.5 WLKQ, The "Q", it"s different here!
@@KC8EWU I'm from Northwest Indiana, and we don't have any stations that cool.
@@SportoDeluxe It came on the air just a couple months ago, loving it! There on iHeartRadio
it is
but the shitty regeton and anacodas it reigning :(
Damn, good artists still be out here... This song is a 21st century pearl
when i was 17 it felt like the beginning and the end, for the first time in my life i felt free, more independent and hopeful but i wasn't truly happy, was it all just an illusion.. i don't know, i don't want to go back, but i look back fondly when thinking of that summer..
Great song! I just turned 41 and I still feel 17! Feels just like yesterday! This song hits home unlike anything I’ve heard in a while! If I could only go back!
Hey you might like a band called the Doublejumps if you like Sharon Van Etten
Awesome!😊
This song is incredible and underrated
8,600,432 views
@ninojurlina sometimes underrated is not just by how much views it has
Downtown hotspot…..used to be on this street!
I used to be freeeeee,
I used to be seventeen.
you act like that means something in 2023. @@ninojurlina
I’m 17. And to everyone else who is too- let’s enjoy it ok? Time flies. It might b a tough year, but we grow. And we learn. Keep going. Let’s relish being 17. It might not b everything we expected. But that’s ok. Peace n love everyone 🌿
If you think you had it tough now at 17 wait till you're 27 and you actually have responsibilities in life..
@@SimonRobeyns back the fuck off man. hindsight is 20/20, everything looks easier once you're out of the thick of it. I know I was angsty in high school but I respect that those feelings were real in the moment.
@@lzmunch You back the f off, Simon may have had a bad day at work
17 was my best year, by far (I'm 27)! No responsibilities, only fun and discovering and meeting new people...
No allow yourself to be depressed. You have your whole life to heal. Don’t just ignore it to „have fun“. Heal, you have so much more time to do that
i dont have anything remotely important thats happened to me during my teen years because i lost so many years of it to my depression and anxiety but this song makes me feel a special kind of heaviness i cant compare to anything
are you ok now?
I feel deeply lucky I was able to listen to this song when I was 17, and now it has that extra layer of nostalgia
When I was a teen I was over 300lb, depressed and miserable. In a high school of 1600, I was in the bottom dozen in popularity. I didn't figure out how much you can mold yourself into something else until I figured out how to care about myself as I was. When you decide to treat yourself like someone you care about, everything changes. Misery loses its power, joy starts to come easier. You have to decide to let love in. You can't force yourself to feel a certain way or "decide" to just "be ok", but you CAN force yourself to slowly stack little habits designed to lead towards something else.
Reach out to life no matter how you feel or how the world might look and you will find that life reaches back.
God I really needed this one today, thank you
Having a difficult time growing up oftentimes makes a person really empathetic and wise, you're really showing it!
3:33 so powerful. through the window of hindsight, seeing your former younger self take off and leave, leaving you here.
This song has absolutely nothing to do with me, yet I can't stop listening to it. Behold the power of a well written song.
This song is for people in their 30s-40s who reminisce at this time or their life when they were 17 and the freedom they felt. Doesn’t mean it was the best time of their life, just that they were carefree and the innocence that goes we it, knowing now they can’t never go back to this feeling.
so deep...
So true❤ great comment. I agree 100%
Why is it specifically for those in their 30s-40s?
@@BlownMacTruck to me personally, this song at any age above 17 can mean something to anyone. Don't have to be 30 - 40s. I think you can be 50 or 100and this song will take you back to when you were 17! Its a great song.
@@tamarajay7676 Well obviously. I’m asking the OP why they would say something so weird.
Hi stranger scrolling through comments, you have a great taste in music!
Touche`.
i remember listening to edge of seventeen by stevie nicks and dancing queen by abba and even seventeen by kings of leon and peach pitt, respectively, at midnight when i turned seventeen alone in my bed. that was a really rough time for me, i was in my first relationship and it was so abusive and toxic. i’m turning 20 in a month and i’m in such a good place; life will always go up and down again. it feels so good to look back on who i was at seventeen. it feels like that girl doesn’t exist anymore, but parts of her are still in me. anyway, i’d just like to say that songs about being seventeen hold a special place in my heart, that was a defining time for me and probably most people
aww
edit- why tf did i write 'aww' when i meant to said that i am happy for u
17 was the last time i felt free. This song messes me up.
You're going to find yourself saying this about yourself every three years or so. Don't think about it too much. Just face what's coming and learn. Love, 33-year-old
Great documentary bbc radio 4 that I just listened to on songs about being 17 years old. I never knew this amazing song a week ago. I think you'd like it Nicole xx
@@JudyTheLionTamer Jude? :D
How the environment plays a role on your psyche and your upbringing, we live with a different set of challenges here in Iran but the emotions are the same.
Love you Sharon
You’re special
How powerful this song is, with the emotion behind it. It crushes you so deep and warms you like a blanket. What a gift to world she's is, and how lucky are we to have her.
I came from 'The Half Of It' and wow❤️ i read through the comments for about half an hour and it's kinda amazing seeing everyone's different stories. it's crazy to think about how different we each live our lives yet here we are, we each somehow found our way right here, listening to this song. each with our own story to tell❤️
Me too! It’s amazing to see the many perspectives in this comment section! ❤️
The series Yellowjackets brought me here, thanks for the musical discovery, I love it!!!
This song just hit me so hard. My teens weren't easy and sometimes I look at my daughter and just feel devastated at how similar our lives are . Too much pain....this song is a musical masterpiece.
I saw Sharon at Lollapalooza, she was the highlight of the entire festival for me. Unbelievable singer-songwriter. Love you!!!
This song looks like lying on the bed alone, in a room with your mess and little tears in your eyes. blurry, red light fills the room and you don’t care that you turned seventeen yesterday and everyone remembered you.
what do the blurry red lights mean
The longing and nostalgia in this song is just so beautiful. I love this song
This song hurts so good. As I'm nearing 40, I am embracing my true self, unapologetically. I will never compromise myself like I did in the past. Make the choices, do the things, regret nothing. 😘😘😘
You are so right
Same.
I remember listening to this song a few hours before turning 18, I was chilling in my bedroom, thinking damn I wanna be forever 17, cause being 18 and comes with its responsibilities and you actually have to work hard to achieve your goal because they're not handed to you on a silver platter. I'm 21 now and I am grateful for everything! I am where I am supposed to be and I am learning everyday
I remember turning 18 two years ago and thinking to myself just how fast did i go from 16 to 18. It feels like as if I slept through 2 years. The pandemic disrupted my school life and my whole life in general. I remember my step father bringing me my birthday cake while my parents were watching on the news regarding the beginning of ukraine war. It was a miserable birthday. Family was slowly falling apart and I knew it. Despite that, I thought to myself to just endure it all and just go through it. I stop caring for many things. I was just hoping to get away from those times. Always looking ahead, I forgot to be in the present. Now I just turned 20 this 25th february. And I regret having those years wasted. You know the feeling of waiting to finally be the better version of you only for that day not to come and now its time to face the real world like responsible adults. But now it seems my life finally started to change for the better now... I hope.
Wish you well in life whoever you are. Just remember to be in the present and enjoy the simple things. Take care.
@@user-fo3qn1er5p its weird how we all see how life is going so fast but yeah sticking to the present is what's important and thank you Stranger, may you fulfill your dreams 😊😊
I often feel like time is running, and on every birthday, I think, "Wait, I'm this old already? I never realised how quickly I was growing." But this song makes so many moments, from as far back as I can remember, flash before my eyes, and I no longer wonder where did all that time go.
17 was the most magical year of my life so far. senior year, summer after high school, college and new beginnings. so much newness and the edge of childhood into adulthood. my advice to every 17 year old is enjoy it and stop trying to get outta there so quick. you’ll want it back soon! i’m about to enter my 20s and wish i could go back and take it all in one last time!! also all the music about being 17
I discovered this song in August 2019 on Spotify and listened to it on repeat - alongside The National's "Light Years". In September I decided last minute to go to Madrid on a 4-day weekend, booked my flight, packed close to nothing but had my playlists ready. All I wanted was to find some peace, walk around the city and listen to my music. Went to Parque del Retiro and while I was taking a walk and listening to this song, I saw a friend from school I had lost touch with a while ago. He told me he lived there now and invited me to go out with him and his friends that night. We went for tapas and drinks, danced, and I spent the rest of my mini vacation with them. Life is crazy like that. One of the best times I've had in a while. I sure miss going on those little improvised trips, but soon I hope.
Awesome thanks for sharing
Every time I hear this song I feel like she made it just for me.
I was talking to my dad yesterday, sent him a picture from last week of my 17 yr old getting their lip pierced, with hair nearly identical in color and cut to my hair at 17, with the caption "they're so much like I was". It was kinda wistful, missing the parts of me that life experience has dulled or killed, but my boomer dad replied "now you see what I had to deal with". Just...no, shut up old man. When my parents laid the curse on me that they "hoped I'd have a child JUST like me" they never imagined that I'd be delighted by a child with all the traits they perceived as flaws. That kid is beautiful and perfect, passionate and talented, and crazy smart with a hilariously sarcastic sense of humor.
What really wrecked me in this song was this part:
I know what you're gonna be
I know that you're gonna be
You'll crumble it up just to see
Afraid you'll be just like me
It hurts that yes, I believe my child recognizes our similarities and is afraid they'll turn out like me. And chances are they probably will.
I’m 26 and was just talking, yesterday, about how my favorite age was 17. So many great times and great memories. How the time has flown. Then I happen to discover this song, and wow is it beautiful.
This is strong. A new force. Hits me right in the chest.
when a song you didn't know you needed, and you listen to it and you realize how much you needed it. Beautiful song, can't stop listening to it.
This song…It’s wishing you could go back in time, but knowing if that opportunity presented itself you may think twice about taking it. It’s realizing you are older, wiser and you went through pivotal, challenging moments to become who you are now…but at the same time you can’t help but relate to the younger you and feel maybe not much has actually changed. Regardless of the years that have passed since seventeen, we are still trying to grow, trying to learn, trying to navigate this complicated world we woke up in. Forever trying figure out the purpose. Life is a beautiful struggle. No matter if you are 17 or 70.
Wow, @ashleyward3556 I heard this song for the first time early this morning, purely by fate.
I was there, with the title, Seventeen & the guest presenter's reference to Sharon's scream towards the end of the song.
I felt your thoughts & the positivity they stirred inside me, thank you, Ashley!
During the song, I was transported back to a painful adolescence that unfortunately lead to many rollercoaster rides throughout my life.
Then fate struck again when I noticed your comments were only written one day ago.
And they say, 'Lightning never strikes twice!'
I am so pleased it did as with your perspective, I can continue into this new day dawning with an attitude of light rather than darkness
May your generosity be returned in spades!
Love light& blessings Jules Gold Coast
They put this song in 'the half of it ' on Netflix. I already loved this song before but I think I love it even more now.
“It’s just a stupid bus”
Izza can’t Sing This scene... 😭
loved this scene
Thanks. não conseguia lembrar de onde tinha ouvido a música...
The same f**king word😍 when 3 season ?
Blue film English naked
Found this song from Sex Education, won’t be leaving for a while. As someone who’s turning 17 in just a couple months and who feels like he hasn’t really accomplished anything, this song makes me quite emotional, I actually kind of cried a little the third and fourth time I listened to it, and I’ve listened many times since. It feels like I’m meant to be more than what I am. But that is what makes me appreciate the comments in this thread, these people talking about how they felt their teenage years were bad too, and others accomplishing their dreams in their 20’s and 30’s. Life isn’t over after 17, even if I, and probably others, feel like that a lot. But sometimes it’s hard to feel like you’re not wasting your time. And this song kind of makes it hurt, but in all the right ways. It’s a truly incredible song, I’m so happy to have found it.
Edit: Returning to this comment about a month after my 18th, things have already changed a lot. My first semester of college brought me a lot of great new life experiences I’ve never had and I in general have a new appreciation for life. I had to push myself really hard but I gave myself an attitude change and am trying to see the future in a more positive light and see the good in more things in the present. I’m still not quite the person I want, but I’m getting there, as is everyone who may read this comment. It gets better everyone. Sometimes faster than you realize.
Take it from someone who's in her late 20s, you really don't need to be thinking you have to "accomplish" anything in your teenage years. Don't put such pressure on yourself, it usually only leads to you being unsatisfied and unhappy. Just enjoy your teen years, there will be plenty of time to achieve whatever you want later. :)
What ever you do have fun have lots of fun Because no matter how much you do in life If you didn't have fun You're going to wish you did Just like me and if I could go back in time I would have more fun
That is exactly the way i feel! Thank you dear stranger for saying it out loud. I am 18 now, and i feel like my teen years went by so quickly, and i haven't achieved anything to be proud of . I'll never be like those cool teens who've got it all figured out at 16, or who lived fulfilling,crazy, amazing teen years.it Sometimes hits me hard, but, like everyone said, the best is probably ahead of us...
life will never stop with its up and downs. don't mistake wealth for happiness or accomplishment. have fun. be young. embrace the challenges. you only get one shot at this. enjoy the ride
im so so proud of u love!
I am 45, this resonated. Powerful lyrics and a haunting melody.
“love is messy, and horrible, and selfish... and bold”
“Everything beautiful is ruined eventually”
What a movie
Movies suck....
I don't think so... Maybe you need to know more people and love yourself a little
💔💔
There’s something magical about teenage years. Maybe not the best years, but youthful bliss. Better put, “Oh, I was once young,
Oh, I was once unbelievably, young.”
Ever since I heard this song on yellowjackets I just can't stop listening. SOMEONE HELP
Why did they have to do Jackie like that?
you don't need help
Same! I've had it on repeat since. 🖤💛
Buzz buzz buzz 🐝
I am the same age as the "older" cast and my daughter is 17. She just graduated from high school... I have it on repeat as well. It's a great song ❤
This song always make me cry. Happy tears, remorseful tears, regret, hope, love, acceptance… etc!
i actually looked her up thinking she was a forgotten 90s popstar
i was your 17th like
She didn't even sound like a 90s band nor singer. Maybe a 00s
Literally same I thought this song was old
Me too, I thought this was an old classic that I had never heard of.
same
You're one of the most under rated artist ever, really hope more people hear this ✌😌
I think this may catapult her into the stratosphere.... fucking amazing!!!!
she gonna play on Roskilde festival this year! In denmark, huge festival
agreed
Cameron Banks what a fantastic artist she is amazing at Glastonbury 2019 off the scale genius..
The Casual Gamers brilliant at Glastonbury
My mom was watching this drama series called 'Maid' and this song was featured in one chapter, there's a nice selection of tunes in that show
Did everyone else explode in floods of happy and sad tears for what you had and what was gone, all at once, first time they heard this.
God, this hits so hard at 37. i used to be 17. I was broken at that age, off the rails. Love how this is like a lament to that version of herself. Can see the pain in her face as she sings to her younger self. 'Show you how much youve grown,' i needed that. Somehow thats just taken me back 20 years to that age, turmoil and boom, dealt. AMAZING. It's not often I feel every single word an artist says...but this 😍
I'm turning 17 in a month and this came into my recommendation...oh the wonderful things the youtube algorithm has to offer. Thanks youtube, I'm glad to have found a a wonderful song😊💗
Every time I hear this song it bets better, which is the sign of a great song. We have all widened we could go back in time to tell our younger selves something. This song is about that something. Thank you Sharon for this incredible gem.
I know what you wanna say
I think that you're all the same
Constantly being led astray
You think you know something you don't
Downtown hotspot
Halfway up this street
I used to be free
I used to be seventeen
Follow my shadow
Around your corner
I used to be seventeen
Now you're just like me
Down beneath the ashes and stone
Sure of what I've lived and have known
I see you so uncomfortably alone
I wish I could show you how much you've grown
Downtown hotspot
Used to be on this street
I used to be seventeen
I used to be seventeen
Now you're a hotshot
Hanging on my block
Sun coming up
Who is my shadow?
La la la la la la la
La la la la la la la
La la la la la la la
La la la la la la la
I know what you're gonna be
I know that you're gonna be
You'll crumble it up just to see
Afraid that you'll be just like me
Downtown hotspot
Halfway through this life
I used to feel free
Or was it just a dream?
Now you're a hotshot
Think you're so carefree
But you're just seventeen
So much like me
You're just seventeen
You're just seventeen
Thanks for lyrics
It's downtown harks back
It can even mean the growth she's endured herself from 17 to present through her "shadows." I played it for my daughter. It can have so many meanings. That's the beauty of beautiful music.. ❤️
Im 20.
To all of you, who's 17.
You won't believe how fast this time will be gone. Please, respect it fully and try to remember as much as possible of this time.
I'm 27.
Youth is such a weird thing when listening to songs like these.
You're a baby.
Nah man, I'm better off forgetting those days.
bruh this comment sounds depressing asf. i was seventeen it was chill. now im eighteen and chillin, it's not that deep
All the under 35s on here lol
I'm 20 years old in January 2022 and I feel so sorry for my Seventeen self. I didn't had no one telling me everything will pass away faster than I thought and if I'd survived then I would be stronger than I thought. I think I'm stronger mentally than I would ever thought I would at Seventeen. Bless my past self and I hugged myself, I had no friend but now I do. You're never alone. You got this, just wait.
In this dimension she is a singer.
Is she in new season?
@@rupiter2008 a little but important part, but there's no small parts.
@@luisignacioarteagagomez7903 just going to watch
She's a singer in both dimensions, which is why her being mute in dimension two is so tragic
@@oscarmao1 this is fourth dimension?
I love this song so damn much. So glad I discovered it by watching Yellowjackets.
Same. I'm obsessed with it!
yep, me too!
@@cathygamble9242
Saaaaame. I immediately looked it up.
Interpret the lyrics how you will. The raw emotion packed in this song just gives you that feeling. Very few can deliver this. A timeless track, unlike so many others. Sharon Van Etten really did an amazing job at 3:09 as well.
I’m 17 and I wonder who I’m gonna be
Don't think about it too much. Enjoy now as much as you can.
Duh...
...
an eighteen year old.
You’ll be exactly who you decide to be
I'll tell you something my parents told me when I was 17 that I wish with all my heart that I could believe: YOU CAN BE ANYONE, ANYONE YOU WANT IN THIS LIFE. Youth is literally a superpower.
Adam Frisoli
Not really a superpower when Coocoo and methdonald seems to interests you. And up to the rehab we go. Don’t tell the youth that they are ‘invincible’ and live their life to the fullest. Teenagers die a lot because of that. Just a simple “enjoy every moment, seize every opportunity” talk is enough.
My wife is pregnant with our first child and i cannot wait to experience the growth, pain, struggle, and REWARDING experience of being a father. I am praying for a baby girl, and if we don't have a daughter, that's just awesome too. Cannot wait. Just CAN'T WAIT.
What you have?
@@MrJames-tw3so in the saddest way we have lost two babies. Both didn't make it. She is pregnant again though 😭❤️
I love the complex emotions this song manages to capture. Pride in the growth it took to become who you are now - in defiance of your own past expectations. Grief, disdain, and compassion for the person you used to be.
MY GOD! you are the singer i've been looking for all my life!
Currently 19. Was 17 when covid started. The lyrics about being 17 and free really hit home for me… like for everyone else, I feel like the pandemic has stolen some important years. I was kinda anxious that I’d missed out on a part of life I’d never get the chance to experience again. Felt like my development as a person was halted all of a sudden. But reading the comments under this video has given me a lot of hope for the future. Nice to know that that period can be bad anyway regardless of covid 😂 Thanks :)
I understand you, and I'm from 2002 also :(
You have your whole life ahead of you. 2 years is nothing at 17. Feel for the people who lived their last years during this.
Same me turning 19 but i still feel seventeen
@@Midnightsstrikes19 it’s two years difference, Christ. You won’t notice a chance in 2 years
Carpe diem. Never stop working on yourself.
a decade ago I was seventeen. where have these years gone.
2 decades ago I was seventeen. They just keep disappearing like loose pages in the wind, faster and faster and faster.
@@adamf.4823 3 years ago I was seventeen... I just was alone, sleeping, eating and sleeping again, I didn't even take a shower in days, without friends, without my family...nobody cares and I felt like shit. Now... I feel better and with goals. Greetings
It's in these rare moments that you realize world has so much beautiful things to offer. A song that tells everyone's story, a video that mirrors you through a little girl and a grown-up woman. Brilliant.
im seventeen and this songs already makes me miss being seventeen omg
imagine that song somewhen lookin back🖤🖤🖤
i know that feeling, I'm only 24 but I feel nostalgic of my teens sometimes. But then I remember how anxious and worried I was all the time, and I realize I'm much better now :)
Omg me too, i'm also seventeen yet already miss my age 😂
same sis, same. 🥲
Im 21 and I love this song so much ❤️
Today is my birthday . I am 17 now . I’m trying to find myself. I don’t want to waste my time,energy, especially my age . I want to live every feelings . Cause i know i am not going to be like this and i just want to stay in this time . I am not saying my life is super . It’s just normal teenage girl . But when we are going to be older we can’t been into life like this and whoever you are just try to be happy take a deep breath and let it go . Don’t waste your time . Everything is going to be fine .
I am saying this but who knows someday I disagree with this but now i want to write it and i am doing it .
I'm sure, years from now, you'll be proud of yourself for saying this
Consider the military for 4 years. They have great training in medicine and a chance to see the world. It didn't do me any harm 3 years in Germany. Training applicable to civilian life. Air Force best bases.
Also 17 here. I may have lost bits here and there due to COVID, but I sure as hell don't want to let that ruin the rest of my life, doesn't really matter how long or short my life may be
Think of the thing you want to do most before you are 30 and do it.
@@shahrzadketabollahi5496 Currently 17 as well. This pandemic sucks, though I agree with you that I as well won’t let it stop me from living life to my fullest. 😷 with precautions, of course. Stay safe, make memories as best you can 🥲 and I wish you all the best! Truly. stay groovy!✨🤟🏾
it's really a feeling watching this at 30
And watching it at 61 is amazing as well...
The feeling will be gone by 54
42
For a while, I heard this song (or some edits of this song) everywhere, in TV shows, social medias, etc. At some point, I couldn't even hear her without sighing, knowing it was going to be used in all sorts of futile challenges.
Today I've come across it again and the emotion is back, intact after all this time. What a beautiful song.
i was depressed at 17. 17 is not beautiful like what people say
I wasn't for me either. Like Sharon said, "so uncomfortably alone" which represents pretty much what I was when I was 17. However, because of that I grew up to be the person I'm now. So yeah...you learn from your ups and lows.
I had a blast at 17. Just wait till you're 50, it sucks. Get it together while you're young.
Listen to the lyrics - it's not about it being "beautiful"... at all.
Im 17 and until now it’s my worst time...
@@carolinesm3083 I hope u will spend this time now to know more what makes u sad. Learning about yourself is the best way to overcome depression. Good luck and stay healthy
Several years ago, when I was a very lonely guy -as many others might have too- I discovered your sad/crude/real music, I could relate because I could tell you've been through hell too. I have depression, but this year I've woken up to some help thanks to a group therapy and I am doing better. I know many ppl dislike artists who "change" their style, like it happened with Cat Power, but maybe ppl don't realize artists suffer from mental health too and if it changes, their music might reflect that. Thank you for this song! I hope I meet you one day.
I don't know you, but I'm glad to hear 2019 was good to you! I hope good things and people keep coming to you in 2020.
@@Snezhinka thank you! I hope it's good for you too :)
when i was 17 i used to listen to this song thinking i’ll never feel a nostalgic feeling, now i’m 21 and is starting to hit
This is now one of my favourite songs and Artists. What a beautiful roar 80's style voice... a true talent.
I have no words to describe how amazing I find this song, Sharon. But I'm 50 in May... and this song perfectly conjures memories of 17 for me.
Love & Respect to you! ❤
Limes
I was seventeen in '96, what a crazy time to be alive.
80's- was it good time? 🙂 I am '89 and with my friend we always wish to live in 80's 🤭
1998
Yup 17 in ‘96 as well.
17 in 1994. It WAS a wild time.
@@stephendoyle3542 90s were as up and down as the rest of them. Lots of good, lots of bad (trust me, I had either).
Holy shit. The music. The lyrics. The video. SVE just hit a new level!
January 18th (and the UK tour) can't come quick enough!
This level is thru the roof... ALBUM OF THE YEAR.....tears of joy and beauty :)
Nice song. I remember my own 17 quite fondly. I didn't have anything to stress about apart from exams. I had a sweet boyfriend. I loved my mom so much and loved the moments we'd go shopping together. I was not a rebellious teen at all, loved my parents too much. And I am glad that I did because little did I know my mom would pass away when I was 19 and 24 hours later my granny passed too (that's when I learned that someone can literally die of a broken heart, takotsubo cardiomyopathy). During a big part of my twenties I was struggling with grief, wrong choices, heartbreak, more loss and pain, rape even. Only in the last 5 years have I started to grab myself together and making good choices for myself. I'm thriving now at 31. I've picked up a study in pursuit of the ambitions I had as a teenager. I have gotten some amazing friends. I found a great joy in traveling. I got married. And most importantly, I found my peace in Jesus Christ. For so many years I was angry at God. I left Him. Not the other way around. Then God left the 99 sheep to find the one sheep that was lost. He picked me up from the mess I made and lifted me up, pulled me out. Some people think there's a negative tone to being like sheep in a herd. But I'm the most happy sheep because my shepherd is Jesus and I wouldn't ever want to leave the herd again. With Jesus on my side I have started to thrive.
Love reading all the life stories on here and only seeing the odd troll.
Oh my God, I used to be seventeen... I still am... inside... am I crying how fast time passes?
The other day I found a school photo of me when I was 17 (I'll be 27 in 2 weeks) and all I could think of was how fast time has passed since then, how much I've grown and changed in certain ways, and also how much I've gone off the rails in other ways. This song (and its fitting video) gives me the same emotional pull I got from seeing that old photo.
I am not ;-) it's been a (long) while… but I still feel like it...inside... time passes so fast...
@@chloethesemoments Same... I still feel 14 in some ways, let alone 17. Time really creeps up on us..
Such a gorgeous song. 38 here, but 17 forever!!!! XXXX
I do not have the most pleasant memories of my life at 17. I am glad that life goes on and that I had more success and happiness in the meantime than at 17. There were also wild moments in my youth, but altogether many things did not fit. Looking back it was nice that my parents were still alive.
i really love this song ohhh my gooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooosh
Excellent new track
Looking forward to the album
Christ, she's an angel