The men breaking their legs to be TALLER
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- In a world that wants nothing more than for you to pay to win, short kings everywhere are paying exorbitant amounts to lose.
(the comment section is a short king sanctuary btw, feel free to take refuge. i saw a hawk flying around earlier)
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how much to remove my legs entirely and add them to my arms. all my homies are wingspanmaxxing and I won't be left behind.
damn right you wont be left behind, you will soar above them with your flappers!
STOP IT IM SCREAMING
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
apemaxxing
Gimme that Albatross vibe
The biggest bird
Part of the problem is the complete normalization of height-shaming in our culture. There are a seemingly endless number of hyper-viral social media posts with millions of engagements each of people just brutally shaming short men. We typically put the onus of dealing with body-shaming on the people who experience it rather than on the people who do said shaming, especially when the body-shaming in question primarily targets men. Men are not supposed to be "insecure."
I spent much of my 20s legitimately suicidal about my height, but whenever I opened up to someone about it the response would usually be something akin to "stop being insecure, women don't find that attractive."
Best comment. Criminally Underrated.
Even this video did nothing to criticize the people pushing this smh
@@Ryan-cb1eiher stance seemed to just be “that’s tough, thoughts and prayers” then just made some jokes. She did the bare minimum of saying it’s sad that more and more shorter men feel the need to do this, but that’s about it.
@@alejandrobaguer8095 Yeah lmao, that’s all I took away from it. I see she only has a few videos, and this is pretty different from the others. I guess I expected this video to be more of a critical analysis, which I guess I misplaced.
@@Ryan-cb1ei true, ultimately, even if she did give some insightful criticism on this weird cultural norm, what good does it do? I can’t see the short jokes stopping anytime soon. I’m not very tall myself, and I get some flack for it, but it’s not as bad as you’d think it’d be on social media. But what I have noticed, is the subtle differences in treatment between a man of my height and taller men. This goes beyond dating, I’m talking in a workplace or just out in the world. I have work to do myself when it comes to confidence, discipline, self esteem, etc. but I’ve witnessed certain guys just be given respect and taken more seriously or considered for leadership opportunities just for being a larger male, than someone who’s shorter and may be more qualified, and I’m not talking about myself in the latter, I’ve seen it happen in work spaces between people that have no relevance to me, it’s wild to witness. It’s not all doom and gloom, but one group of men definitely get “buddy”’d more than the other.
I’m 5”4
What I’ve noticed is less because of dating but because of work. I’ve always gotten more respect from colleagues who have only ever met me via zoom/skype/teams. Regardless of rank, I am treated with more respect by people who don’t know how tall I am.
People who can see my real height will treat me like I’m 10 years younger than I actually am, like I don’t know how to do my job, and like I can’t hold authority or even have emotions.
I’m marrying a woman who is basically the same height as me. It’s not the dating scene that upsets me about being short, it’s that it often feels like I’m held back in my career because I’m short.
For business careers and others like it where dominance seems to be valued, I could definitely see that. I could probably get dates at my height, but I feel so unattractive that it bothers me - kind of like anorexic women. I'm glad your height hasn't made dating a problem for you!
This is sadly true. I'm 5'6 and I also look 10 years younger than I am, not a beneficial combo at work. I get talked down to by window-lickers at work like I'm a child, even if I am more competent and more intelligent than them. I've learned to treat them with no respect or consideration, and everyone else with the utmost respect. It created an interesting duality at work. Fuck 'em.
This is true and needs to be talked about more. Taller men statistically get taken more seriously, are more successful, and make more money. The average CEO is over 6 feet in fact. People think short guys just complain about dating and whatnot (as if they shouldn’t be upset by unworldly amount of disrespect anyway) but there’s sadly so much more to it than that. And I say this as an average height guy because apparently I have to mention it I guess.
@@demonprinceofkhorne Genuine.
@@Ryan-cb1eiBoth zelensky and Putin are short kings in countries full of tall kings. Other way around can work
The reality is that it’s easy for everyone on the other side to be like “just be yourself” “height doesn’t matter”
But shorter men know the struggle.
It hurts when the girls tells you i like everything about you, your personality, your looks, i just can’t be with a man who’s 5’5
Then you need to learn to be okay with who you are and accept that finding a partner takes time. Finding a partner isn’t the be all end all. You can be happy and learn to love yourself because that’s what you deserve
@@ashleylongley1628you think they need you to tell them that? It’s the people who don’t have the problem giving them all these thoughtful messages as if they aren’t going to find out or get through it somehow, it’s their life they need to live
@@Absolute-. you right, my bad. I was wrongly assuming because I have had self image issues in the past that I know this man’s experience and that was jumping the gun.
Then how about stay single and enjoy it? I don’t get this whole “ I need a girl” vibe you guys are doing.
Oh a girl told you “I can’t date anyone 5’5”? Oh boohoo. Try not getting anything at all because you are tall but not as smart and just looked down at (not literally). But guess what. You take the L and move on focusing on yourself. Let women have relationship with themselves for all I care. You just learn that what you need is a good book to get smart , a gym to work out hard and to feel alive. And a good video game to live an adventure.
What you don’t need? A woman.
5'5 here. I've dated a lot, especially woman taller than me, I've only been rejected once because of my height by a girl who was 6'0; but even she changed her mind after some time spent around me. I think it matters more how you carry yourself and your confidence in your height.
There is full of dudes here taller than 5'5 saying this is a madness.
Try to be 5'2. I don't want to be just taller, I want to feel normal
real
Dude You're risking your health just to change how the fxx nobodies of your city see you
Real
5'3 here. Your comment hits HARD.
This is very true indeed. People dont get this surgery to achieve centimeters. The reason is often emotional and psychological.
From the moment I learned the weakness of my flesh, it disgusted me... I craved the purity of steel.
Only under the Emperor shall mankind grow stronger.
Praise the Omnissiah
Homie you are 40,000 years a bit too early to be saying that 😂
Adam Smasher quote?
@@Vixeryn nah Warhammer 40K Mechanicus, it's from the trailer for the game a few years ago
"C'mon guys, being short isn't that bad. There are plenty of women who don't care about height....anyway, my 6'3' boyfriend and me...."
And? Just cuz she's dating a tall guy doesn't make her a hypocrite, you do realize that she might be dating him for other reasons, right? Your thinking is wrong.
@@stanisawkwasniewski2087 That ignores the fact that studies prove height makes you more attractive to women as well as having a higher wage. I understand what you mean when you say that, but a friendly reminder that only about 12% of the US population is 6ft+. I’m sure there are plenty of other good men who aren’t a tiny minority of the population.
@@stanisawkwasniewski2087errrmm … yes it does lol she literally proves the point most men under 6ft are making
@@stanisawkwasniewski2087 I think it just sometimes feels like gaslighting, not support, because it's so clear to shorter men that height is considered attractive in guys, but if we acknowledge it in front of women, we just get told it doesn't matter and women who like tall men are shallow/stupid. I think pretty much all women want the guy to be at least taller, and there is data to suggest tall men are found more attractive, but there's also just media, has anyone ever heard a song that uses short when describing men as a desirable trait?
That being said, I know it comes across as black pillish, I don't think height is the most important factor for many people, I think it's a combination of many traits, I just think height usually makes up a nice percentage, and often there is a minimum as an entry barrier.
@@dannydanny865 on average yes, but there are plenty of women who don't care about height or even prefer short guys, but data on the screen won't always tell you that
And she still prefer tall men.
I like tall women. I dont reject or humiliate or tell short women to fucking kill themselves.
Good for her. Men have a litany of demands they make for women and that causes a lot of problems. Do men every show any empathy for women? Nope.
i prefer short women, but i dont want tall women to chop parts of their legs off.
exactly
Sorry little buddy
I am short. And the term short king has to be surgically removed from all of our minds forever. Call me something offensive if you will, but please, I'd permanently block my ears if that meant never hearing that term ever again.
It’s just a way of demeaning short men while sounding sympathetic. I hate every single person who utters those words.
@@Copemaxerhow?
@@IamBrixTM How? It’s like saying obese queen. It’s a negative trait with a positive trait so that people don’t feel as bad about making fun of them.
@@Copemaxer You mean you don’t want people to identify you as short? Short isn’t a negative insult?
@IamBrixTM yeah but like it's an unnecessary qualifier we don't call tall people tall kings...why is someone a short king why aren't they a king... am I brave if I wear more revealing clothes as a fat person? Should people tell me hey you are so awesome for wearing that. If you thought that treat it like it's not amazing. I think this is how some folks feel
just move to peru. the people are short and the ceviche is delicious
Hahaha my parents are from peru. Jesus christ. Fortunately I like old Japanese cars so... I fit good in them lol
That a pro move
why go to peru when you can just make a reservation at dorsia, i hear their sea urchin ceviche is to die for
@@itsumonihon because the point is that the people are short, not necessarily that the ceviche is delicious
also ceviche hits different in peru
@@itsumonihonanother martini Paul?
it's called a legend because your leg ends
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BRUH! XD thank you for the Gem, fwend 😅
lmaoooo
Fearmongering at its finest. This surgery is a lifesaver for short people, people with dwarfism get it all the time
@@berlinisvictorious ye, they could also accept the body they have and not risk suffering Serious health issues who knows How soon :) I feel like risking the ability to walk later in life for a couple inches of height is Unreasonable to say the Least! but hey, that's men for ya... we all prayed for a couple extra inches at some point.... would you break your dick in half for it? cause I know I would not...
“Just be yourself” is the worst advice a man can ever receive.
I’m sick and tired of it
It's actually the best advice. If you're 100% internally secure and ok with who you are, without trying to be someone else, people in general (including women of course) will like you more. However, if you internally think you should be different and you're always trying to please others, it's the other way around.
@@jonascorrealemos Maybe ppl aren’t successful is because they’re being themselves. Telling them to work on themselves in eras were they are lacking, to be better and develop skills is better than just saying “be yourself”.
@@kungaroomanga5639 I agree. Pushing yourself to be better is no different than being yourself. What I meant is when insecure guys overreact and are extra nice to women and other people in general without even noticing it. Most times it is not a conscious thing, insecure people do it without even realising.
No it's a great advice, because once you are confident and secure about who you are, girls will start to naturally feel attracted to you.
As a dude between 5'7" and 5'8", I've also considered this procedure in a "maybe, but I'd have to do some research" kinda way...
9min into this video I realize I don't want a surgeon to Minecraft my leg. Consideration rescinded.
you dropped this, king 👑
You're perfect just the way you are.
@@Error-5478 I very much wouldn't say it that way, but thank you xD
@@RinaRavyn Why do short people keep dropping their crowns? Is it too big for them?
You need a lot of money and support system for that like WFH and a lot of money to facilitate it
The rack was free in medival times! Fucking inflation!
lmao
Monetary wise? Or when a person physically expands like a balloon. Not the jolly type of balloons, the ones with a skeleton of a thin person inside
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The rack huh, The US and Apple teamed up to make a modern one called the iraq
Yeah that wasn’t designed to make you taller it was designed to get all the information you knew before you became two pieces.
As a 5'5 short king I have some advice for the other manlets out there. If you are feeling emasculated, humiliated or otherwise insecure about your height a really good way to build your self esteem and make other people around you see you as a confident and well rounded person is to try to fight literally everyone you meet.
Instructions unclear have to replace teeth after biting the curb
Are you threatening me?
😂😂🤘🤘
Killed me
If that doesn’t work .. have you tried being rich ?
What gets me: a women says I don't mind dating a smaller man, dates 6'3" man
They are welcome to date a 6'3" man. If they are picking a partner on height or other shallow stuff, they probably won't be happy with them because that's not what a proper relationship is about. Meanwhile you can focus on finding a decent woman who doesn't have the brain of an idiot. It's a win win.
did you ever had an expectation of women being consistent? lmao
@mkall Life is full of inconsistency. I find humor in it
@@mkall Blackpill brutality right here.
"I don't mind" doesn't mean "I prefer". Maybe try breaking the taller guy's legs in front of your crush or giving her a cool turtle. Gotta play to your strengths ya short fuck
we should get those 7'6 basketball players to do it and have them be upwards of 8 feet tall shit would be funny as fuck
Not to step on your awesome comment but it brings up a too neglected point. The doctor who's at the forefront of this procedure and its biggest promoter--I think it's an Indian guy in Canada--despite being a huge cheerleader who doesn't hold much stock in psychological or other concerns, says he tells anyone with any kind of athletic ambitions not to get the procedure. Even in basketball or volleyball, where every inch is an immense advantage, not even an inch is worth the extra risk to your bodily strength and toughness. Men who do this come away with a weaker, distorted body. Most of them are fully aware of this actually; they just say it's indeed worth it to be a little bit taller. They think literally anything is. I am 5'3" and I no longer soft-play or pretend to be nonjudgmental about this decision for the sake of political correctness or libertarianism. It's ultimately "your body, your choice"--but some choices are simply unhealthy, both physiologically and psychologically.
@@salvadorromero9712 Have you seen the videos? Plenty of body builders and athletes/models getting this procedure done you have to watch a pro surgery video not just an anti surgery video.
@@salvadorromero9712 I don't know what u just said I didn't read it but it would be HILARIOUS seeing 8 foot men throwing balls around
"In the Future, Humans will look like cartoon characters"
I'm all for it 🗣
@@pyroteknikk3127 Why reply to me then instead of the topcommenter? Quirky place as always these RUclips comment sections. Oh well who cares I agree; bring on the 8 footers!
I had a friend that was 5'4" and was constantly getting rejected by women. Wound up offing himself.
Now on dating apps I always put my height as 5'4" so the height queens can filter me out.
I don’t blame him
i'm sorry for the loss dude, hope he can rest in peace
Why off yourself? There are other things in life than women.
@@UnitXificationits mostly the craving of love. It's hard to be loved by being Normal
@@osamasafiurrehman5760 Yes, but you can still live a happy life without it. And this way you will find inner peace until you meet that person that really vibes with you.
I'm a short man, I had cancer in my teen years and cancer/chemo stunted my growth, I fought hard, and after high school I was in remission and cancer free. I thought life would be happy, but I was wrong, as the years went on I struggled so much being a short guy, from getting rejected constantly, to being made fun of, to people not taking me seriously. Even body positive people crap on mens height. It was so painful, even more painful than the cancer to be honest. It's enough that I wish I never survived cancer, and it should have just took me out during my teens. I might have been cancer free but now society treats my height like cancer. I tried to be positive but it's just coping at this point. Now my cancer came back very aggressive, It's tearing my body, at best I only have a year to live and honestly I don't mind it anymore because the experience of being a short man is infinitely more painful than the cancer I had to deal with, now I can just finally rest and be free from the shackles of heightism.
Fk me, I feel for the short guys, but yeh I hear similar things from friends minus cancer. So much went wrong in the past 60 years. From what I hear, smarter rp aware guys want to get isekai-ed. The point of being here seems pointless for them long term, but game till you go out strong in one arm I guess 😕
What the fuck. No don't give up, don't give up. Man all respect to the comment section but also fuck some of yall not taking the time to not actually motivate this man's. Listen man block all the noise, and focus on people who matter if you you have no one, then find them. Just because you're short doesn't mean you can't live a happy life.
For advance, I hope you can rest in peace. You deserve peace. o7 We short people are the joke of this world. God created us for amusement for others.
i’m so sorry man, this is the saddest thing i’ve read in a while
This isn't the end my guy.
Frankly women who blatantly state that they would never date guys under 6 ft are too shallow to be worthy of a decent man anyway.
We all have preferences, but the willingness to Make anyone feel ashamed to the point of cosmetic surgery comes from a place of heartlessness that is truly unattractive to someone with integrity.
Most of them are just bluffing which is even sadder maybe. It’s wreaked a lot of havoc, coming from people who just don’t really know what they want.
Honestly I don't even understand it as a tall dude. I mean, *I get it*, for various reasons wanting a taller partner. For protection and societal pressure, but heighr and muscle literally means nothing of that person doesn't have a protective mindset. I've met dudes far smaller that I think could beat my ass because they're mentally and even physically strong. A 6'4 guy may look scary but if he doesn't have the drive to protect or is a coward it's pointless. I get it's just women's preference and doesn't have to be logical but uts so weird, especially when they're so adamant about it. I like tall women, big butts, smaller titties and mixed race, light brown skin. But if I find a woman who's short, pale, with massive honkers and a flat ass that absolutely adores and is loyal to me and follows a belief system I can agree with I'm lifting her in my arms and thanking God for her everyday.
The unfortunate reality is that people like that still have relationships and perfect ones at that it’s an unfortunate thing but reality just doesn’t really care. This isn’t to say that they SHOULD be hated from dating or anything like that. But the mindset of “she’s probably gonna end up single because she’s so shallow” is one that kind of just makes you bitter and hateful
Welcome to the self entitled FEeLINg of most modern day feminist w0m3n.
@@kennedymensah6270 It's one of those things that's just cope- and I say that as a short guy. Is it shallow? Sure. Are all women who would never date someone "short" ireedemable monsters, no. I agree that its just best to not dwell on it and accept it for what it is. It still sucks but whats there to do but accept it as one of those universal truths and move on, rather than seethe and grow bitter. With that being said, this all the more reason I "get" why guys put themselves through this surgery and ultimately I just hope it brings them that peace.
I'm 6'0. The biggest Chad I've ever seen was my Grandfather. He fought in WW2 when he was 17, he worked more than 60 hours a week for decades to provide for his family and guess what: he was 5'3.
Then if he was 6'0 he'd be even better.
@@gj9157I agree with this statement
@@gumbowumbo6784 Theres a reason you never see men paying to be shorter. Remember that
Good for him. Unfortunately, we don’t live in the 50’s anymore. In 2024, being short is a massive disadvantage in life. If we wanna help short men out, we need to stop gaslighting them by denying the reality of heightism, especially in dating/mating.
@@stoneylonesome4062 Blackpilled, I guess wallow in your self pity. But if you worked on yourself and stopped being weird you probably won't struggle to find someone.
Absolute insanity man, I’m 5ft, short as they come and honestly can’t wait to be a Danny devito lookalike when I hit 60 years of reaching for the top shelf snacks with bbq tongs
I'm pretty sure you have Magnum Dong
You need width
I have long bbq thongs i use to pick up socks and small stuff from the ground when cleaning... we are not different brother :D
I'm both. And it still sucks being Frank Reynolds.
Why would you put the snacks on the top shelf?😂
I just love when women preach about their attraction being about "what's on the inside" then you see them out in a social setting and they're all over the first goodlooking tall guy they see. It's awesome.
at least the myth went away and man realizing its not about the inside, better to live in the blackpill than bluepill
Black pill will come to collect. You can't escape it. It's over.
@@Arejen03i would also add... accept who you are and surround yourself with people who appreciate you and don't judge you on things that are out of your control, such as height.
@@Arejen03 That's why you gotta watch what people do, not what they say. I know women who say they don't care about height, and genuinely date short guys or have short boyfriends. I also know women who say that, but will laugh behind a short guy back and always just happens to have a 6'3 boyfriend. The difference between a person with actual virtue and virtue signaling.
*Tall/tatted guy. Finding exceptions takes too long to stay inspired, even worldwide.
God I’m glad I got married before internet dating existed
Lucky you all the normal ppl are gems now
People weren't so addicted to their looks then. Im 25, not that old or young. Id MUCH rather be dating back then vs now.
Height always mattered.
@@gj9157 It never mattered as much, back then marriages were mostly arranged where women have no say, and economic states was a more important factor
Internet dating isn't the problem, the swiping-based dating disservices are.
As a 5'6" dude I never really felt the desire to be taller. If someone is gonna judge me for my height they're just not worth it. The cool women won't give a shit and that's pretty based.
As a fellow 5'6" dude, there's exactly one time that I wish I was taller: concerts. I just want to see the band!
@@chucklesw73 Yeah that's absolutely fair. There's no worse feeling than ending up behind a tall person and not being able to see anyone on stage. Feelsbadman
@@chucklesw73 just sit on your tall queen’s shoulders like a real man.
I’m 5’7 and I agree with this statement wholeheartedly
same height, cant be bothered to be taller, would have to get bikes with different sizes, let alone clothes
Rich, successful, famous and talented short kings cannot be used an example of a regular shmegular short king.
yup
dont expect vvomen to understand reality
nothing is more repulsive to them than the cold harsh truths about life
Being short is okay if you are handsome
@user-ec4yw5hj3r it's better to show off a silver lining than nothing. Let's be honest.
@@tomatofarmerlarry3331that’s the take away, if you can get jacked and have a nice enough face, you’ll be okay. Not on the same level as a tall decent looking man, but around the same as a tall average looking man. It is what it is
Notice that women complain about the short kings on top, they don't even see the rest of us.
Remember, It's okay to height-shame guys. It's not okay to fat-shame girls.
And it’s also okay to fat shame guys.
don't forget penis size shaming.
It’s different though, those girls are just plus sized queens not like those fat guys
Big is beautiful
@@Absolute-.HONK HONK CLOWN ALERT 🤡🤡🤡
can't believe gay acceptance killed that guy by leg
😂😂😂 by leg 😂😂😂
Fact is, height shaming will never go away. Probably because taller dudes know they automatically have that advantage.
The reason its will never go away is because we are animals and animals need to discriminate to keep the gene pool strong. It would be a very happy place if there was no discrimination at all..... at first but give it a few hundred years and the vast majority of people would be fat, deformed, sick and weak. Natural selection exists for a reason.
@@P.Subaeruginosa Society "Discrimination is wrong, unless it's this kind of discrimination then it's ok. We have to move beyond animalistic instincts, we have brains, but also we can't help our animalistic instincts" That's what I find funny more, the picking and choosing lmao .
@@Mr.YasQueen Discrimination is wrong, unless it's the kind of discrimination that doesn't affect me and even works to my advantage. We have to move beyond animalistic instincts when it disfavors me but when I have animalistic instincts I have to have the freedom to pursue them and not be judged for it. 😂
This is basically pheminism's mantra.
@@P.Subaeruginosaa few hundred years 😂. The obesity rate of the USA is over 45 percent
@@Akash.kumar.1762 obesity is a fetish disease and deformities are not
"We are going to ignore the problematic reasons for this and laugh"
This entire video basically
I don't think you watched the same video.
@@jamieholmes6087no I think your lost or something. That’s literally what she did the whole video.
@@kazum1809 Yes, I'm agreeing with her video essentially. The thing about typing comments is that you can't get the tone of the message necessarily.
@@jamieholmes6087 so your ignoring the problematic reasons why this is happening and instead laugh at it ?
It’s not just a relationship thing.
Taller people get promoted more. Make more money, have more friends, are overall listened to and validated in life.
true
She will never understand she probably thinks the taller guy did more work as well smh
I think the real difference here. Going by the stats. Women have no issue finding a partner wanting them. So all the bbl, etc. Nobody really asked for. But for invisable men, this most often is a requirement for someone to consider you for love
I think you're looking at it with a strong bias. Short men still can find partners. They might have it statistically harder, but it's not near impossible. I have several short friends, none of them had issues dating, one of them even has two girlfriends (it's a poly couple), one is married with kids. And women don't do life-threatening surgeries for fun - they feel like they need to have them, that it is a requirement of sorts, too. You're looking at issues in your group and then dismiss issues in the other group.
Good point on the sexes. But...Even if surgery is somehow needed for you to be considered for "love" by anyone, this is an especially poor choice. If your situation is that extreme, it must be because you're not just short but aesthetically unattractive. Physique and grooming improvements are dirt cheap; and facial surgeries are cheaper, safer and less risky, less extreme and disruptive and grueling and painful and time consuming, produce better results, and have every other possible advantage over this limb distorting surgery nonsense. Pick that if you must; there is literally no reason to prefer the limb surgery.
@@tymondabrowski12
Yeah but to who? Who is telling women that they need get surgery or whatever.
99% of men don’t care about that. Women do care about height, even if it was 30% of women that cared, that’s still vastly much more than the men.
Men actually do feel the pressure from real women, while it seems like for women they just get too in their heads and convince themselves that most men want women with bbl’s. We don’t. I know cause I’m a man and I’ve spoken to other men about it and it’s the same with them too.
@@tymondabrowski12
Yeah but to who? Who is telling women that they need get surgery or whatever.
99% of men don’t care about that. Women do care about height, even if it was 30% of women that cared, that’s still vastly much more than the men.
Men actually do feel the pressure from real women, while it seems like for women they just get too in their heads and convince themselves that most men want women with bbl’s. We don’t. I know cause I’m a man and I’ve spoken to other men about it and it’s the same with them too.
@@tymondabrowski12
Yeah but to who? Who is telling women that they need get surgery or whatever.
99% of men don’t care about that. Women do care about height, even if it was 30% of women that cared, that’s still vastly much more than the men.
Men actually do feel the pressure from real women, while it seems like for women they just get too in their heads and convince themselves that most men want women with bbl’s. We don’t. I know cause I’m a man and I’ve spoken to other men about it and it’s the same with them too.
If my leg gets big my sad gets small
Real
I call my dick "sad" too
My legs are big but my sad is also big
Small sad bigger than big sad.
wait, so then your name would be biggie smallz
I’m going to get this surgery on my head, just above my eyebrows. I’m hoping to achieve an additional 9 inches of premium forehead real estate.
Pros: You're 9 inches taller, you can use it to store post-it notes, it could be used as a community message board
Cons: Everyone is suddenly asking you complex math questions about quantum mechanics
Coneheads film! comes to mind!
Ngl big heads are OP. If my head was as big as some guy’s heads I see out there I’d probably have another 2” in height 😂
They Might Be Giants were way ahead of the curve: “Everybody wants prosthetic Foreheads on their real heads.”
Headmaxxing
Its a shame we have a society where people feel they need to do this.
Constant need to fit in a society that doesnt like you in the first place.
It’ll only get worse thanks to a holes on social media
It was always this way.
Sacrificing health just to please shallow women smh
@@OVORICK1 Most women are shallow then by that logic.
A short guy can't even get fit and muscular without being called a manlet. We're forced to bare the pain, soldier through the slander until we somehow miraculously find happiness. IF that happens. And if not, well then gg.
Yeah whenever we do any self improvement, we are accused of having short man syndrome (which is just a degenerate tiktok term).
I had a friend who committed suicide .. he was. 5'4
we dont talk about that part, just laugh at the pathetic dudes for trying to be taller. Looks dont matter at all btw stop being insecure.
Rest in peace
@@swordierre9341 "look dont matter"🤣
@@swordierre9341delusional
@@swordierre9341I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not.
Men just want to be respected. Someone who is 6ft or over gets immediately respect without ever opening his mouth. Every inch below 5’10” you are heavily disrespected for. In order for a man to feel normal he has to be taken seriously which being short makes almost impossible
This is made up though. People dont care that much. Ive never encountered someone being disrespected by other men for height. Thats a minority. Who cares
I live in Asia. 5-foot-6-in is the average height here. India, Japan, China, Malaysia, these are all workhorse cultures. You WORK till you drop dead.
You cannot do much about your height, but you can earn stature and status. Maybe focus on getting a good job and achieving something. No one is looking at an Olympic level swimmer and going "too short". There's a guy who hangs from a line in the Himalayas, he's an army man. He ensures pieces of rural villages have WiFi after natural calamities like earthquakes, floods, avalanches, snowstorms. No woman is looking at that guy and saying "too short". And for any woman that does, there are ten others who see him as a complete boss and are full of gratitude and will offer you a meal in their household any time they see you.
There's a guy who made tracking software that every logistics firm in India uses. This guy is a BDM. Earns millions. No one things, "but he's too short".
Make something of yourself such that being fair, dark skinned, short, fat, weak, funny voice doesn't factor into how amazing / valuable you are.
I'm 6', and I definitely don't get instant respect. In fact it's mostly short men paying attention to my height, and they can be quite disrespectful when not in control of their insecurities.
Date Latina and Asian girls exclusively, and don't move to Tennessee (which has one of the highest average heights in America I can attest, everyone here is 6'2 girls are like 5'9 everywhere. Everyone who isn't Hispanic or Asian is a goddamn sasquatch). Instead, move to Hawaii...problem solved!
Also, when you see Latinas and Asian girls, who do you see them with most? Dudes that aren't much taller than them. Move to a place where you'll thrive!
@@11regnartseht I think you're oblivious to your 'height privilege'
I'm 5ft 9, after going to the gym for 2 years with proper dieting, I gained a lot of muscle and lost some fat. People treat me VASTLY different. Strangers greet me differently. People respect and wait for what I have to say and take it on face value as valid by default. This didn't happen before.
Attractive people simply get extremely good treatment. Being taller would easily give you more of this default respect.
I would pay $100k to grow 2 inches magically, not break my legs for it lol. It makes that big of a difference in treatment from both genders.
As a man it's completely understandable why they would want to do this
WHAT the actual fug???? Yeah, no, bro.
Wdym. Women get life threatening surgeries to improve looks while having men interested in them even before hand. You think guys wouldn't start this stuff to escape invisibility?
@@THEEArmoredSaintnah he’s on to something, it’s brutal out there. It goes beyond dating. Reactions like yours are valid mainly because of the implications of future complications regarding the surgery, but in a world where this was relatively risk free? You’d see people getting this done left and right. Even now, more men are deciding that the future health complications are worth the few inches if it saves them from a lifetime of subtle or obvious disrespect in dating, professional life, and life in general. You can argue it’s not a healthy mentality, and it definitely isn’t. But this is how bad it’s gotten, I’ve never seen a social stigma so universally accepted to be looked at a punching bag like being a short male, never. Being fat comes close, but at least that’s mostly something that can be changed.
Im a man and no, fuck no. Maybe instead of understanding, we can start changing the way we height. We have to stop giving a shit about it. It’s fucking stupid.
@@alejandrobaguer8095 Couldn't have been said better.
As a 5'5 man, hah what the fuck is dating.
its over im a 5'7 ugly babyface
What's stupid is to shame men who do this surgery
As a short man, i don't judge people who do it
I hate the fact that if my country allowed it and they guaranteed I'd be 10 centimeters taller and it was safe, I'd do it
This video has plenty of problems, she didn't really done a great job.
@@spacecowboy5486 Ever herd of South Korea?
shes just being fun. she has no intent to hurt shorter guys. but shes not good at being funny. its ok... u can also shame her for having negative cantal tilt, she always tries to cover it with make up and eye linear. to give the cat eye impression. u can address it and shes destroed lol
@@Roxana_Official Intent doesn't matter, she was disrespectfull to the issue and made fun of guys who decided to go for the surgery. Zero understanding.
this is bullshit, we men should start wearing high heels and platform shoes/boots
pros: stylish as fuck
cons: literally no cons
I agree lol
1 con, lots of broken ankles during the adjustment period 😂
Con: your gay
cant full sprint and jump rooftop gaps anymore 😢(well maybe with practice in high heels)
Procon Deez Nutz lmfao
As a kid I wanted to be as tall as the velociraptors in Jurassic park. But got stuck at 5’7. The desire to be tall is ingrained in many of us because we see how much respect you get when you’re tall. I learned to love my height when I realized that Link is shorter than many of the other characters in his setting. Sometimes shorter than Zelda in some iterations.
I hope more people learn to love themselves instead of relying on others to validate them
In reality, velociraptors were about the size of turkeys so you're a giant in comparison
link once again saving people's insecurities by just being fricking awesome
You should play Shadow of the Colossus. In that game, being short is no fucking excuse
Vegeta is 5'7 bro
Its ok
@@jbbresers That's one of my gripes with Jurassic Park: misusage of the name "Velociraptor". The so-called "velociraptors" in the movie are actually based upon Deinonychus, which was much larger than the turkey-sized Velociraptor mongoliensis.
Also, both Deinonychus and Velociraptor are mostly covered in feathers, with scaly legs, like birds.
The expression "short king" is kinda patronizing in itself, it's like calling a small breasted woman "flat queen" or something. It should be obvious that the value of a person goes way beyond their physical characteristics, no need to spell it out in such a weird way.
I mean it's an undeniable fact that height is an advantage in just about every facet of life. Everyone knows it. I love how you insulted short guys in the description after calling them short kings. Even when women try to virtue signal they always inadvertently reveal their true thoughts and feelings.
Not true mate. That's just your bias talking. Average men is 5'8" while average female is 5'3", & modern society is made to accommodate that average first foremost (because it's cheaper that way.). Being tall used to be a strength advantage, but now it is objectively a disadvantage.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣@@Asdeer101
@@Asdeer101being tall is only a disadvantage when there is a mutation of some kind and same goes for short people. Taller people are less athletic but stronger and vice versa.
Wait how did she insult them? Sorry I'm slow, maybe I'm not understanding.
@Mr.YasQueen The hawk thing. Like so small we gonna get picked up and carried away by a hawk. Idk the point of the joke
Jokes on the tall guys, Im closer to the ground to pet and pick up the chickens.
Have you ever dated a short king tho? I doubt it 😂
ofc not. her boyfriend is most likely 6'5 tall dude, yet here she is telling us: "just be ur self, blah blah"
@@user-hb2ne3oc6f exactly 💯
@@user-hb2ne3oc6f definitely 6ft+
@@user-hb2ne3oc6fmeemmeemem🤣🤣🤣yall embarrassing I can assure you height is not your only problem
Plenty of short kings and then she proceeds to point to rich and high status men who compensate for their height instead of the 5'3" mechanic that lives next door.
My main takeaway: i don't think I'd do all that.
If they could give me a bionic eye that shoots laser beams, however...
Kano wins again
Yeah. Like, to be taller? Fuck off.
But to have a bionic arm that summons lightning like Venom Snake? SIGN ME FUCK IN
@@cacophony435 Fatality
It seems so bizarre to me that the same women that will NEVER date a short man are the same ones that criticize the men who undergo this surgery
Or stop being desperate for their approval…
I'm not so sure about that, that's a major grouping you did there, and It doesn't seem good for your mental health to focus on people that don't care about you.
You do realize that this whole video is April just criticizing this surgery, while saying it's okay to be short? If I were to rephrase your comment in the way that I understood it:
"Easy for YOU to say, Have you ever even dated a short guy?! That's what I thought, you hypocrite!"
@@Daiwie44 I never criticized her. I don't know anything about her other than what I saw in this video
@@Bmpaul02 What are you talking about?
It's not really bizzare, they're performing eugenics. They're basically saying "We don't want to be fooled into thinking you don't have inferior genetics"
I'm 5'2". I know I'd give just about anything to be taller.
"Being yourself" is NOT enough. Personality is not enough. Even money is not enough.
If you're a short man, you just have to accept that you'll be alone. I have, and it's fine.
Hey, life isn't fair. There is NOT someone for everyone.
Go to a country with short women if money is not a problem.
@@drygon9324 No one should have to travel to a place with different quality of life standards just to find someone.
@@Tyme_Whyrlwynd I agree, I just gave him an alternative to what he stated. Also, moving to another country with shorter people on average does not mean lowering your living standard.
@@Tyme_Whyrlwynd but it's good to travel and experience a different environment if things aren't working out where you're from.
@@RiruKrypto_ While that is true, what I meant to say has less to do with how tall people are in another country, and more to do with how they live. It's hard to find people who agree with you if they grew up in a different culture from yours.
Hot privilege is a genuine thing and I can really understand why people would feel that they want to do this.
Annoying as it is - first impressions, including height, build and facial structure, make such a difference to how you're received in the world.
I run a small business and since I put in way more effort in my appearance, the sales increased massively. When it comes to building rapport and generally getting good treatment from people, being better looking is a fucking superpower. This is why they have models selling things.
Thank you for the empathy on this subject that so many don't seem to have.
You just noticed
It is utterly disgusting. Your appearance should not matter. I feel sorry for everyone who struggle because of this man-made phenomenon that keep controlling us in everyday life.
@@MachFiveFalconyeah it's kinda crazy. Imagine some of these comments having the same energy towards a woman who's just got a boob job, or a BBL.
I'm pretty sure they wouldn't keep that mocking energy, and instead would be defending those women, saying it's disgusting to mock someone for trying to change something they are insecure about... Calling them incels who only mock those women because they are mem who never get women's attention.
Maybe I'm wrong but I've seen plenty of examples of these double standards in real life & online 🤷🏻
Yeah but people hate that looks aren’t separated from height when they should be honestly. Someone who’s short or tall is still good looking if they’re good looking, weird how people make height such a factor
That article was a translation of a translation of the original that took my words and used her "artistic license" as a journalist.
I grew just a tad over 6 inches, paid about $100k not including travel or food, etc...and i looked not like a thumb, but like one of those Thumb Men from Spy Kids
Also, obviously alive 👍
holy shit it's the guy!!! honoured to host you in my comments section, hope your tibias are feeling strong brother 🦵🏻
@@aprilclucks haha thank you.
Good job on the video. I thought it was great. This is definitely not something for people to take as lightly as I did. It is NOT a cakewalk.
That being said, I expect to enjoy way more than just 40% 💪
@@colombiansasquatch why did you do that? and even worse... let it air so whole world to see u?! it doesnt make sense. even if they didnt charge you anything. its not worth it. im just talking about the youtube vid! let alone health issues u will be faced in future
@@aprilclucksyou’re my best friend I really like you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@Roxana_Official What issue would you face in the future? I am not sure if you are aware but he is just one patient there are 100's and 1000's. If the surgery is done right and physiotherapy was appropriate enough, there is near 0 consequences to this surgery. From 10000's of documented posts of people going through this surgery as we speak, as would I from South Korea not Turkey because medical facility is better there and realtively cheaper compared to the US.
What's funnier tho is that this probably the exact type of woman who refuses to date short guys
They think "someone will want you" but never themselves, and that's exactly what every other woman thinks.
Precisely. This entire video is a virtue signal. She wants you to be confident with yourself as a short guy but she’ll never actually be with anybody like that irl
Do you know anything about this particular person's preferences? If not, then that's a pretty daft comment.
Bird can't even sympathy-bait right
A lot insecure guys in these replies lmao
Throughout the video, she constantly makes fun of and belittles the men for going through the procedure . She constantly exaggerates to berate the men who choose to do this (i.e. she chastises the men for going through a procedure that will "never allow them to walk and be crippled", only to later admit that the men will be walking normally again in time) . She then exclaims, "all of that and you still won't be 6 feet", which just emphasizes and highlights that 6ft+ = better, and under that = no good. . Later on the video after reviewing on patient who underwent LL to get to 6'4, she salivates while explaining that "she loves the idea of a 6'4 guy hanging out with the guys", but then scolds the patient for not being happy with "who he is" and waiting for the right woman come along to accept him as is (lol, just lol) - Again reinforcing that being very tall is good and ideal. . The video has some utility without her commentary, but if she did that, she'd probably get a copyright strike. IMO, the opening sequence was good to show that this is an issue (not so much the surgery, but the society's attitude toward height and the mindset of those who choose to go through the surgery) Add to this she still didn't provide any solutions.... And she isn't funny. TL;DR - Textbook concern trolling from start to finish, no solutions and another "it just so happens....".
Thanks for copying and pasting my reddit comment lol.
@@ShortKingz2 😅
This chick has a very goofy contradictory outlook it appears.
I love how people look down at fat shaming, poor shaming, however when it comes to men and their height. They can just beat us up mentally. When we can't do anything since our height is genetics and only way is through crazy limb adjustments.
Shows you how authentic and moral people actually are. They don't care about far shaming or poor shaming, they care about being liked, and only that, and will say whatever people wanna hear, like a human invertebrate. "Shaming is bad, because it affects me, shaming short guys is ok because I don't want to have sex with them, duh, this is all perfectly rational!"
You’ll be fine imagine what certain races of people have to deal with. Men are just as picky about women. From height to skin color to hair texture, men will say they they all races of women, but let’s be real. All of your types is either Asian or white women women.
Because they only care about what affects them as their female gender, not the Men's point of view.
Alternate title: Woman for 20 minutes prattles trying to be funny not understanding anything from the male perspective
@hiddensquid3666 I’ll cash app you 50$ if you can explain genetic determinism and its application to this situation
That’s most female commentary channels.
Women lack the mental capacity to have empathy for men. They just can't put themselves in their shoes.
They all saw how much money Pearl was making without needing to shove things in her orifices on camera so they started trying to do the same 😂 There are even some that do a combination of both.
That title would have been perfect for this video. Unbearable pos woman really.
This is such an expensive way to be insecure. I leaned into my height and became a gnome.
Gnomemaxxing is the only way.
How can I learn this power?
I wouldn't do it even for free, that's torture.
Once you embrace your inner Fey ancestry, you begin to develop powers of terrifying persuasion. Conical hats become more stylish too.
Insecure for good reason. I don't know any tall guys who'd rather be 5 inches shorter. I wonder why that is?
I feel like the real flex here is the casual 75-100k dropped on an optional procedure. These guys are doing well for themselves.
I'm a short fella, standing at 5'4". Advice as im approaching my 30s?
1. If you're around people who ALWAYS, not the occasional jokes, but ALWAYS berate your height...get new friends. Distance yourself from those people.
2. If you don't bring it up to get ahead of it. Most normal, compassionate people do not care.
3. Good women do not care about your height. Focus on your mental health and physical health.
4. Learn how to dress for your height!
I'm 4'8" bro, I really don't see how your advice applies to me. Honestly there's a lot I can't see.
@@Mindstangle4'8 GODDAMN MEGA RIP. I'M SORRY YOU WERE CURSED WITH THAT😭
@@MindstangleI'm sorry you had to experience that
I'm only 180-181 cm and I guess I've never met any normal compassionate people or good women in my life then.
Guess you know nicer human beings than me.🤷♂
@@ch.ristopher.jacksonalmost as tall as a emperor penguin 😭
yeah because tall masculine handsome types get women a million times easier and without all the drama and play mind games with guys who aint that guy
what was the point of this video?
my bro really just want woman and doesn't even know why
me wan woman 🥺 me do anything to get woman 🥺🥺 why?... well um... b-because woman!!
it is very gay to want women my friend, that's why we masculine men want men
@@lav-kitty low iq
Bro, what pussy is worth all that? Better to be alone with 100,000 extra dollars in your pocket than to blow all that money on months of medieval torture.
Tbh: it’s not hard to understand it.
Being short allowed me to quickly filter out the most superficial of potential dates. At first it sucked then I realised it's probably more frustrating for them that 99% of society flat out doesn't fit their criteria and it's "so hard" to find a "good" man.
bro
if you're filtering the ''most superficial of potential dates''
you're filtering 99.99% of women who care about height
and the 0.01% probably wound up getting married to a taller guy anyways
if you think being short is in ANY way beneficial, you're fucking stupid, or in complete reality denial
That is actually a good point, most of them will end up being used and discarded or completely alone
@@ashuranero5721that's exactly why having a bit of pity for men, can cost it for a woman.
Look how shallow and bitter you guys are...
It's honestly pathetic.
Ok so, let's ask short kings to not pay attention to bullies then bully them for going on a surgery that will improve their lives.
it won't improve your life, it will fuck up your legs and cut any athletic and motoric ability
I wasn't prepared for them to use a fuuuuuuuckin hammer dude 😭😭 I assumed they split the bone with a super thin blade or saw, not THUNK THUNK leg broke that'll be $100k see ya next time
? Your want them to use a chain saw? Lol😂 Rusty chisel?
@@user-pt8gk8qg4m clean slice heals way worse then a jugged break - i.e. comes out structurally weaker comparatively. That's why if you remove a part of the bone by way of sawing you usually have to reinforce the rest with a metal plate after this kind of procedure.
@@arcuscerebellumus8797 ? Makes sense. I'd probably want the plates for reinforcement either way
@@user-pt8gk8qg4m eeeh...
...to be short - you wouldn't. In a nominally healthy individual, a "clean", well-healed breakage will outperform pretty much anything except having none to begin with %)
Just curious, is she going to say anything about the many people that are shaming men for being short, which is what drives them to get the surgeries in the first place, or is she just going to pretend to be sad about it?
The only one with power over it are the men. Ultimately you have power over your thoughts but your control over your environment will always be limited. You will always be tested. Your reaction to it is all you have.
@@centgswag yesss i agree, same applies to fat bitches btw
@@centgswag That's true, but lets give the same pushback like men who fat shame or are misogynistic.
@@derrickcarey1677 Pointless. It won't change anything. If anything ignoring it will help it to dissipate
Im 6'4 and i gotta say im a peice of shit deadass im a scumbag. Yet im getting hit on once every 2-3 days but my short bros keep getting shit on and cheated on. These are the nicest people i know too, shoutout issac you a real one.
short king agent in disguise
@@theonewhodoesntspeak69 short kings are goatsd
@@CattoEggs we are destined to die out lmao
Nah, remember that the 4'11-5'3 girls would pass their short genes onto their sons which creates a short man.@@theonewhodoesntspeak69
@@theonewhodoesntspeak69 not when the mutiny happens doe, keep yer head up lad :D wagmi or something
Interesting perspective. I'm not short, but I know the feeling of inadequacy these men feel. I am a 6 foot 2 black man with a micro manhood, not living up to the black stereotype there. Since my 20s i have slowly put away money for surgery and I will be going through with it by the end of the year. Up to this point I have close to 35 thousand USD, so in addition to fillers and other enlargement options out now I am going to see what else can be done to fix my size to the ideal I want. You are right that everyone has something they feel off about and I deeply understand these men's feelings. Do what's best for you as an individual and understand the pros and cons.
Man, 33 years of low self esteem and social withdrawal and all I needed was a single video
Headass
Lmao
@@chrissmith635 Ouch Chris
@@CugnoBrasso
Lmao
i done the surgey went from 5.9 to 6.2
Improved my dating life significantly. So if you have the money i suggest you do it. Recovery was okay. Height is definetly a very attractive trait to women. Definetly worth it.
❤
And now your legs dont work
@@Chicken-1923 he’s clearly happy he got the procedure and still you couldn’t help but shame him. So trashy
@@RekzaFSdude is going to get an leg infection and his leg will be amputated, the truth is harsh it seems.
5’9 is literally average. I am 5’9.5 and while I do feel insecure about my height occasionally (mainly due to my body dysmorphia), going through this surgical procedure and jeopardising my mobility and my health is a horrible idea. Sure, being tall is a perk, but being average is not a disadvantage.
Im 5'7 and after many embarrassing failures in dating I stopped caring as much and was able to take myself less seriously. Then it was easy and rarely encountered this problem while i was confident. Have a wife and son now and im glad I focused on building myself up rather than this shit. Fckin ell
Your height is the global average for men.
I hope that makes oeoplefeel better.
@@jamieholmes6087 5'8 and I feel tiny in my job where all the black and white dudes tower over me between 5'11 and 6'5
Global doesn't mean squat for someone in the western world.
@@jamieholmes6087thanks. I'm 5'7, and this made me feel a little better
Im the same height as you. I could give two shits about being “short” i also dont give two shits about dating women. They annoy me and im 36 years old, so i dont care about getting laid anymore anyway.
“It is gay to care about your appearance”
Thank you, I no longer give a fuck about being 5’5” 😂
I'm honestly really grateful to be 5'10". Too tall to be a short king, too short to brag about my height. It forced me to find a more authentic way to become insufferable
sadly enough people will still call you short for being 5'10, crazy
I'm 5'10 living in LA. I've been called short several times even though I'm taller than most women and a lot of men
@@lav-kittyonly socially online morons would call a 5’10 guy short.
As a 5’10” only person who refers to me as a short king is my gf who is 5’9”.
5"10 is tall bro , wtf
Just to add, if all goes according to plan, you will be able to run and jump etc again, but even the top surgeons on this procedure in the world, pretty much say that you're guaranteed to never have the athletic agility that you had before the surgery, also proportions will be off unless you were deformed from start. Keep in mind these setbacks are certain even in the cases that both surgery, and functional recovery is deemed a success, which btw costs ALOT, and will set you back a year of excruciating recovery time. The fact that these guys did it, BEING IN A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP, and also a mere two inches below the median, they are literally already the height of 40% of the US population..
im 5'3 so i would get to 5'8 at max, absolutely worth it, from absolute incel failure to slighty short guy, im all for that.
You can get 90% athleticism back. As a 5'4 man who is quite athletic, that's a hilariously easy choice to be 5'7 or 5'8. I am very well paid, so I can make it work financially, but getting enough time off of work is difficult
@jakerothstein6537 bro, I had a similar surgery to save my right leg after it was crushed in an accident. They gave me similar recovery statistics. I was an extremely athletic 20 year old man. I did all of the recovery and physical therapy, had 3 subsequent surgeries, and still train very hard. But, I can not run, and most likely never will again. Your physical health isn't worth it. My leg hurts every day, bad. All the dr.s can suggest are painkillers and inactivity, a road i refuse to go down ever again. You're plenty good enough just the way you are brother. Trust me.
@@render6671 Yup sub 5'5 if you have the money, time and a good face it can be the biggest change of your life, but without a decent face it doesn't really matter.
Yeaaahhhh this year I wanna get even smaller! I’m not happy being 5”4, I wanna be buried deep, I want that low profile, I want short stability, minimalist in the hips, gimme that farquaad premium, that limbo pro.
Based and hobbitpilled. I'm 5'6 and just getting into halflingmaxxing. Praying I can stoop down to your level one day, king.
Lol sure okay
4’11 the idle hight fr
Deadlifts so much easier bruhski. Expectation min./ surprise maxing my guhd
What the hell do you know? You've never been a short guy
Also, I bet she was never with a short guy.
@@Barni2212she just happen to have a 6’3 bf tehee. I swear 99% of women are template copy pastes
How their wives, friends, family sit back and let this shit happen is crazy
They mostly don't have wives, that's kind of the problem.
@@garak55 at least one of them had a wife in this video…
@@ZEDTALKSPMONyeah, one…
I feel like it just means they don't really love their husbands. They just love their physical aspects, a.k.a being shallow.
@@ZEDTALKSPMON one
What motivated you to make this video? You've mentioned in this and other videos about your struggles with dysmorphia depression mental health etc then you're just dunking on short guys who actually do something about their insecurity. Manlets just can't win lmao
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Hey, the main intention of the video is *to express my view that paying to get your legs shattered to address height insecurity is not addressing the underlying problem. There are many dudes under 6 ft "winning". I personally find the most comfort in the style of self help that both pokes fun at the objectively funny elements of my fears & insecurities while also empathizing with me and motivating me to personal change. I definitely don't expect it to be everyone's style, but anecdotally I've observed people who are receptive to this have the highest inner drive to grow and change. This is for them.
@@aprilclucks It comes across like punching down a bit. I do think it's a bit ridiculous to spend a ton of money to get 1 inch taller but not any more ridiculous than any other unnecessary body mod. Poking at this one that people do because of an extreme insecurity is just unnecessary. Pointing out that these guys are insecure doesn't make them any less insecure. It does the opposite and reinforces their beliefs.
@@JamesThomas-kx5sj I hear you. I included the info about the BBL death rate at the start as a way of demonstrating that people from many walks of life are suffering through a lack of identity and undergoing extremely risky procedures to attract partners, because they've been lead to believe their physicality is what is stopping them from being happy and fulfilled, speaking from experience. If I had access to the type of money required for these surgeries a few years ago, when I was living alone/isolated/at my lowest and putting blame on my appearance and status, I would absolutely be rocking a big phat bbl and Z cup tibbies. Probably a metric clucktonne of filler and makeup too.
None of it would have addressed the real problem - I had to figure that out. Self-aware humour helped me out of that pit and I hope to similarly help others. From messages I've recieved after this video, it seems to have hit the right audience of men looking for a reminder that their value is not tied to their stature. If it missed the mark with you and others, I'll take the feedback on and keep it in my mind as I approach this style of video in the future. Thankyou for taking the time to reach out man, I genuinely appreciate it. this shyt is important to me.
@@aprilclucks I'm 5'9.5" with extreme OCD and height dysphoria, I ruined a seven-year relationship with the only woman who ever loved me because I kept feeling like I wasn't tall enough for her even though she begged me to believe that I was, and I deserved to feel secondhand roasted by this video - thank you lol. I'm still getting this surgery because even after meds and therapy, I can't make the thoughts stop, but I hope you prevent other guys from getting it who aren't as degenerate as I am.
I am 5'7 and I was born and raised in a country where that is slightly above average for men, taller than most women but not by much. Was always self-aware that I am a smoll boy but never felt that it was an issue, for sure a bunch of girls saw me as a little kid but I never had a situation where someone I was interested in hit me with a "hey you are great but I don't date gnomes".
When I was around 24, I moved to Ireland for a few years and had the same vibe, smoll but had no issues developing relationships. Then I moved to Canada and oh boy I was not just a gnome but a small gnome on Canadian "standards". Not only the average height for males is a lot higher but society overall gave a lot more fucks about it.
So I guess it is a regional thing at the end, I might sound condescending if I say that 5'7 is fine regardless of where you live.
My advice for anyone insecure about their height is to focus on themselves and try to broaden their view, the vast majority of girls who place height as a requirement are people you should not be dating at all (even if you were a long legs boy). Just be self-aware that taller men are by default more attractive than shorter men. Still, the thing is, the moment a connection is made that preference will naturally fade (the same way that my preference is thicc goth girls and none of my previous 4 long relationships were with one).
I really respect your attitude. I have OCD/body dysmorphia, and the "just be self-aware that taller men are by default more attractive than shorter men" part makes me feel disgusted with my body all the time - even after therapy and meds. For people like me, it's better to just avoid relationships all together. But most short men can benefit so much from your mentality. Thank you!
@@MachFiveFalcon While I believe that statement to be true, there are two major things to consider!
1 - That is only objectively true if you compare two individuals who are visually the exact same except for their height (which will never happen)
2 - Even if you take it at face value that is still only one aspect out of a multitude of small/medium/big characteristics that make someone attractive for each individual
Using myself as an example, all four past relationships I mentioned were with girls extremely different appearance-wise, including their height (one was considerably smaller than me, two were pretty much the same height and one was a bit taller). The only thing I can identify that they all had in common was that I really liked the tone of their voice, which, for whatever reason, seems to be the most important characteristic when automatically gauging someone's attractiveness for me personally.
Another major thing to be self-aware about is how shallow social media is in general. Odds are that the same people you see on Linkedin celebrating how awesome their jobs are, on Instagram celebrating how fit and happy they are, and on dating apps being extremely picky about what they are looking for are outside of the "online world" as miserable as they can be and all of that online facade is just an "automatic" response when seeing everyone else around them doing the same.
The key to a 180 on your body image is realizing that your height doesn't matter at all. All the scenarios you can make up in your head about "if I were taller x thing would be better/easier" are not genuine. Imagine being taller as the cherry on top of your cake. If the cake is shit the cherry won't save it, if the cake is good the cherry won't add any meaningful value to it anyway. A cake with a cherry on top might be better to look at, but it becomes irrelevant once you eat it.
My three (not so) simple steps for your wellbeing:
1 - Avoid social media, especially dating apps
2 - Focus your aim on doing active in-person things to improve your health, both gym/sports for your physical health and hobbies for your mental health
3 - Realize that people fucking sucks most of the time, your disproportional low body image comes from an extremely inflated good judgment of everyone else other than you
@@gabrevanasa I read every word. It's excellent advice. But I'm so broken by my self-hatred that I don't think anything can help me. My height dysphoria is comparable to women with extreme anorexia. The only woman who ever loved me couldn't convince me that I was tall enough for her after literally years of trying. My appearance is _that_ personally important to me. _Nothing_ can make up for it/compensate in my mind, and I'm certain I can't change how I feel because of how strong that feeling has been for so long. I'm going to be positive force in the world as a single man because it's the best I can do. Thank you though!
I am as grateful for honesty, even brutal honesty, as you will ever find. But if someone literally told you "hey you are great but I don't date gnomes," I do not care what other contextual details there are or how she said it, she did not indeed think you were at all great; she hated you and wanted to hurt you. You probably know this but it needs to be said because too many young guys and sad sacks earnestly experience things like that and think of it as a woman who could have liked them, and they liked her back, if not for the extreme effect of the height factor. This is deranged.
@@MachFiveFalcon Alexander the Great was 5'6. Being short isn't a bad thing unless you WANT to think it is.
As for women, height is only important because the culture told them it was. Beyond initial attraction and connection, it means nothing. I get a lot of glances from women. Hell, this gorgeous TALL blonde was checking me out the other day and I'm short, but men are still jealous of my looks.
It's like breast size. Many men THINK they want a woman with large breasts because of the culture, then they find a good woman with small chest and their preference fades into obscurity. And have you SEEN some of the men these women eventually settle with? They are usually quite unsightly. To the right woman, appearance isn't even secondary or tertiary. It just doesn't matter as much as the looksmaxing communities want you to believe. These communities are usually full of men with incredibly toxic perspectives and personalities that say "BRUH" to end every sentence. Their looks aren't why they are single. What matters above all else is mindset.
dwarfs > elves
that's all i gotta say
My Digger.
It’s sad how much weight our society places on being vain.. it’s actually genuinely sad.
I’m 5’6”.. made it to 50 and just don’t understand what is happening to the west.. following the fall of the Roman Empire methinks.. it’s inevitably gonna happen because we’re spiritually and morally bankrupt..
You should pray for thr downfall of society tbh
Social media and poor schooling has inflated and deflated standards. The bad is sought after and the hood is stomped from people before they have a chance to use it.
Humans are not even meant to be that large, imo. I'm 6'2, my dad's 6'6, the world isn't built for us, we have health problems and pain and it only gets worse as thr inches grow. I get the appeal of having a strong, big man, but some of the biggest men in history weren't tall. Audie Murphy may be half my size but he was twice the man I am.
Social media is fucking ruining society.
@@archbishopofthecrusades9579 Perception helps
America is circling the drain
As a tall man, you have no right to be making fun of these men and their experiences with being short. People act as though confidence is some kind of magical switch that we can just turn on when we feel like it. I have a friend who's 5'3 and wants this surgery. As long as he does his research and knows what he's doing, who am I to stop him? I find it completely understandable for a man his height to want to pursue this surgery. Besides, who's more insecure? A short man that knows what he wants and is pursuing this surgery to try and change his life for the better or a short man that doesn't because he's too insecure to pursue cosmetic surgery and face the judgment that comes with it?
You're based bro
The thing is, with any physical insecurity, cosmetic procedure will never stop the problem from persisting in your mind. It just changes its form, but the worry doesn't just go without mental healing. We think all our problems would be solved if we could change just one or a few things. It doesn't just work like that. And I have multiple things physically I'm not secure about. But I know changing those things isn't going to bring me the perspectives I want in life that will bring happiness. And my personal thought to people who would treat me better because I look any different: I don't do that to anyone else so I don't want you as a part of my life in any capacity anyways.
@@Ethan-fb3yb Not true at all. Just because your insecurities may be invalid, doesn't mean the same for everyone else. It's sad I have to explain this to you like you're a child but if someone's ears are twice the normal size, it's accurate and valid for them to feel insecure about it and procedurally fixing the problem would *ABSOLUTELY* fix the insecurity.
So hush
Source: Strategic psychotherapist.
@@nicksamuel8324 I don’t think you fully understand. And my insecurities are not at all invalid. I have to work on them both physically and mentally.
There are cases like what you’re saying, but a large, likely majority of people suffering from body dysmorphia have mental healing that needs to be addressed. Otherwise, many of these people pursue more surgeries despite the costs, more pure obsession, which is what body dysmorphia is. This obsession does not simply stop because you lost the weight or got a hair transplant, and there is plenty of evidence attesting to that.
Regarding height, the reality is most people truly create a bigger mental block for themselves about it than how it actually factors into real life.
Your point is fair, but it’s extremely specific and not aimed toward those my main message is about. You can drop your attitude as well my friend, I’m not here to attack you.
i never take any life or especially dating advices from tall dudes. We are living in different realities
Good content April. Genuinely as good as big full time youtuber content and quality editing too. Also you've inspired me to get bone crunching surgery to finally climb above my oppressive 5'11 height. Gobbless.
why do women talk about male issues as if they live through them lmao
Omg, the hammer on bone sound, nope. 😮
I'll stay a happy 5'7", thanks. 😎
Cope
Cope
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My Grandpa is 5’2” my dad is 5’4” and while I’m 5’6”, people who consider me short have never met a short person in their life😂😂😂
If you’re feeling like you’re not enough, set your heart ablaze.
I see what you did here Rengoku
RIP the GOAT Rengoku. Fly high donut king.
Gonna commit self immolation cuz I'm short
Being short, as a dude, is like if society just wallopped you in the face and made you believe it was your fault for being in pain. Better yet, you're the bad guy for asking society to leave your face out of wallopping range because you're made to think being happy about the pain is good character, and you're especially bad if you swing back. The craziest part is this exists for a lot of the male experience,not just for height.
The issue that I also see is that it feels like more is better ALL THE TIME im 6’0 and I was fine all through Highschool and I felt great
Then college hit and there was a guy who was 6’5 and another at 6’3 and specifically in the black community (my first HBCU mind you) I felt it come over me like A TRUCK this feeling of being something people settle to after them. The awestruck faces when they enter a room. The way people seemingly just think they’re cooler. The way people would just walk up and ask them for their number etc
I’d never felt it until I wasn’t the tallest in the room and I can’t even begin to understand how that’d feel if you never are.
I’m perfectly fine with preference and attraction as they are and there’s nothing that’s going to change about that.
However I think we need to seriously have a conversation around this and actually see this as an actual insecurity that’s valid and actually respect men who are short
Beyond “short king” and all the other fluff (I can imagine that feels highkey patronizing) but by just not constantly making reference to it and making jokes and light of it all
No more “I could throw you on the bed” jokes or “what happens when I wear heels” jokes. The reality is fair and it exist but reminding people of that harshness litterally only makes it worse
As a short guy, I wanna say this is probably THE most aware and empathetic comment I've read about the issue by someone not directly affected. You get it.
The scientific description of the heavy automatic bias in behaviour we show towards taller/better looking people is called "The Halo effect". If you look up the research they've done about this, its actually horrifying how corrupted our behavior towards people we perceive as uglier is on average. Life is a completely different experience.
As a short man, you're almost never seen as "manly", never seen as dominant and sexy in the classical sense. You have to find other avenues to be valued for, such as intellect, empathy, cadence, etc, but you have to make up for it, otherwise your aesthetic disadvantage will be very apparent all the time.
The Halo effect also affects ugly women to an ugly degree. Ugly men too, not just the short ones. I'm a fairly short guy, but I have an very fortunate to have pronounced verbal skill, a lot of eloquence and a schooled silent but precise cadence that compensates for the lack of respect is get just for my body alone. What I did work on is my face and clothing. After changing my hairstyle, my clothing and using some subtle makeup and jewelry, IVE BEEN TREATED SO MUCH BETTER, it's like night and day. Most of the time I don't need this optimized halo, but when I go to social events, or want to win an argument/want something from someone I make myself for visually pleasing and it makes those aspects of life so much easier and more useful. I finally understood why women think it's worth it spending hours in front of a mirror.
I want to thank you for your comment. If more people had your metacognition and humility, we'd be in a much better place.
We need more awareness of the Halo effect. And thanks for being so open minded.
Fr. There are so many kids in high school who are obsessed witb height and being taller, its just obvious, including me. 5'7 at 15, still feel short, friend is 5'10, still feels short, it just never ends.
This hurts me to my core .. mind you they will feel pain all their lives, whenever the seasons change or temp changes or when they age, bones are living matter, the contract and expand, this is sad and points indeed to socially devastation issue ... sad, my parents where given this option too for me when I was a kid, due to a growth stop because of meds in my teens and I am glad they've refused ...
The seasonal change- and temp change- pain goes away after a few years. Other damages like anything that gets misaligned or mistreated during the lengthening process like the ankles, knees and can be damaged will of course stay.
How i know that: I had a motorcycle accident long ago where i got a titanium rod through the several pieces my shinbone was broken into. And i had that for a year. had to learn to walk again, and will not forget the pain ever. Due to a certain way of attaching the titanium rod i had to put my weight on the fracture for some time and that is the worst pain.
But this was done to make it heal better and faster. ->Those guys with their lengthening apparati don't get that. Makes me think they not just undergo extreme pain "for not much gain" but also the healed fractures aren't as stableand strong as normally grown bone should be and would be. (and my fractures are).
I felt seasonal or temperature changes for maybe 4-5 years. (but i mainly felt when the temperatures were going to increase, and more moisture would be comming in the air)
Ive done this surgery its been 2 years and I feel better than ever tbh. Went from 5'6 to 5'9 and it really does give you a new perspective. I was approved to go to 6' but I didn't want to look more abnormal compared to my arm length so I kept it modest. I am treated much more differently. Men treat me more with respect and I have confidence to approach women and have gotten numbers now. Having a kid this year in fact. I even asked my gf would she date my 5'4 friend and she said no. The surgery is worth it 100% if you are willing to go thru the pain and time required.
These people have no idea what they’re talking about. They just want someone like you to stay short and live without the benefits one gets for being tall or average height
@@ppharaoh5421 thx a lot
how much did it cost and whats your athletecism like?
How are your legs feeling? Can you run? Genuinely interested.
Can you still run and fight as good afterwards?
Sadly, women caused this to happen.
No. Society did.
@@randomrealistictone2231 modern society is run by women… so yes women did.
@@randomrealistictone2231 no women did
@@aaedreonguile1896you are acting as if Hollywood shows shorter men as a love interest. Since 1950' the man was always taller than the woman, in any film or cartoon.
Even Tom cruise used some "wood steps" to appear taller in the shots.
True. Never ive heard a gay men wanting a taller guy when LOTS and LOTS of women want tall guys.
Height has never been my problem, ive just never known how to form genuine connections as an adult.
Everyone thinks being tall is a cheat-code. Those people just haven't tried being tall and raised without a father
As a 5’5 dude height I can tell you you’ll always be shamed or be reminded of your height so you should make that a part of yourself. It’s your build so do the best of it cuz it ain’t gonna change. Do a bit of eating, do a bit of exercise, do a bit of everything that suits you cuz it doesn’t matter at the end of the day. That’s what my dumb 26yo self has come to a conclusion so I’ll be loving that short dwarf warrior build and keep on rocking in the free world !!!
@@EmmettBrown8 i won't tell u it ain't demoralizing to hear such comments all the time. What i'll tell you is to focus on the things u love and bting peace to ur life =D The rest is bullshit of an astronomical level homie ! I'm rooting for you :D
"bro got Minecrafted" 😂😂😂💀😭
If you are a short man and feel insecure about your height when it comes to dating women, there's some things you need to understand. 1. Women on average are naturally going to be more attracted to taller men 2. You wont be able to change your height, without disabling yourself.
You just have to compensate in different ways, life is like a game, there's class types you are either born a warrior,mage or rogue. You should focus on the stats which are compatible with your class type.
haven't watched the video yet but I know this is about to be brutal for the short bruvvas
well yeah it's made by a female
Paying 100K to break your own legs to be _merely_ TWO inches taller is I N S A N E. I whole heartedly back every comment you made in this video. Loved it, v funny, chef's kiss
The length you get is 3.5 inches, not 2 inches.
And being less coordinate ,walk weird,i'm short and i just can't believe it.i mean looks like It doesn't work if you walk weird and lose coordination and power.
I don’t get that because the rapper guy gained 7 inches I’m pretty sure
@@Ryan-cb1eiStill not worth it. Can you imagine the pain that'll be caused from this later in life? Not to mention the rest of you won't be proportionate.
@@archbishopofthecrusades9579the rest of you won’t be proportionate? That doesn’t make any sense. There are people with all sorts of proportions at all height. You can have two people who are 5’11”, but one has short arms and the other has long arms naturally. They can have different leg lengths such that one has long legs and a short torso, and the other has shorter legs and a long torso. They can have the same length legs, but in different ways because their femur and tibia/fibula lengths are different.
Eugenics will be the end of us.
Women will shame short men for having children, but they themselves are the primary reason for short men existing.
It is beginning
Women have been practicing this since modern day feminism it's called sexual selection, also the greeks and romans did eugentics thousands of years ago so dont be surprised.
Eugenics is us, in our blood mind and body. You feel it instinctually, that’s how we were made. Born of the blood of trillions before us, bloodlines ended one way or another. Whether we continue on or not is our choice, by any means necessary, it’s what they would’ve wanted, no?
Honestly as a guy who’s 5’7” I can see the desire to get this, it sucks. I just feel depressed about it from a life of being short and would do anything to be tall. If you haven’t been in our shoes you can’t understand it and unfortunately this video kinda just shows that.
I shattered 2cm of both Tibia & Fibula over 20 years ago in my right leg and it still hurts if I put any shock impact on it like running.
I can only imagine how much pain they are left in after. 😮
Bro, same here triple compound fracture of my tib/fib. Hurts everyday for 18 years. These people are out of their minds.
nothing compared to the mental pain they endure from a daily basis of being rejected and made fun of.
@Gian_sas I'm gonna guess you have never experienced a serious, life changing injury that has resulted in life-long chronic pain. I'd give 4" of my height in a heartbeat if it meant I could work 8 hours w/out dreaming about painkillers half the time.