Heart broken by recent news in both Sri Lanka and India... It's about the way we SEE and LOOK... the perversion doesnt begin with what a woman is wearing - it begins in the mind of the onlooker. And even if a woman is dressed modestly she can be in danger - further proving that it’s the mindset and lust that needs to be controlled! Now should a woman be careful? OF COURSE - but that's only because so many men haven't been raised to know that just because someone is beauitful doesn't mean you need to take them and possess them for yourself. "But she was asking for it with the way she was wearing!!" WRONG. If she's asking for anything give her the opportunity and prove yourself honorable enough for her to ACTUALLY ASK! Don't assume, dont force.
@@EricHeinrichs only men with character will follow what you are saying and we don't need to be alert from them . We need to be alert from bad characterless men . Take care of ourselves by avoiding deserted place . Wear what you want to wear but there must be people around these vultures won't attack and you don't need to be beautiful or even young these vultures attack anybody. So please be alert and stay safe. 🙏🏼
Bravo..... It seriously is disheartening to see such news and the worst part is the culprits don't face any painful punishment.... It's time to stop blaming women for a Man's true behaviour and character .😵💫
Well said..//only bcos of so many men havent been raised to know just bcos someone is beautiful doesnt mean you need to take them and posses them for you self// unfortunately this is the mindset of most men in SL and I suppose its the way that they were brought up. I find only 5% of SL men think as you do. I actually have no idea why these "men"(but not gentlemen) think that the girls ask for it when they wear something revealing. I like to wear modesty..yet its ony bcos I feel beautiful in it. It doesnt really mean im asking anyone for anything. Thank you soooo soo much for pointing that out. This means alot for all the women in SL.❤
What’s with India is DIRTY CORRUPT POLITICS and money swindling schemes which the girl caught. She was brutally murdered for collecting evidence to prevent exploitation of patients and the govt!!!! But govt had other plans
ശരീരം കാണിക്കുന്ന രീതിയിൽ തുണിയിടുന്ന പെണ്ണിനാണ് കുഴപ്പം അത് കാണുന്ന ആണിനല്ല. കണ്ണിന് കാഴ്ച ഉള്ളവർ കാണും. പെണ്ണുങ്ങൾക് കാണിക്കാൻ നാണമില്ലെങ്കിൽ പിന്നെ അവർ ആദരവിനെയും ബഹുമാനത്തെയും പറ്റി സംസാരിക്കാൻ തന്നെ അർഹത ഇല്ല.
@@KadershaN-ou2sj what will you say about Maharashtra monitor lizard case? About Cases where minors are raped? Minors wear revealing clothes? Should we ask lizards to wear clothes now? 🤡🤡
@@iamme4882 Lizard case that's a different thing. What am i saying have nothing to do with your nonsense statement. Dressing shows a persons character. If you wear revealing cloths yes "Revealing cloths" these two words are enough to understand, so that's quite normal to notice it.
@@KadershaN-ou2sj I am NOT saying that you are wrong, but what about those times when your theory doesn't apply? Don't get so agitated because you can't answer
Update : i am a medical student in india and they have imposed extra restrictions on us we are not even allowed to sit with boys in class , hostel in timings are different for boys and girls . We have to be in by 8 pm nd boys get to be out till whenever tf they want to. Is this the change we were asking for ?
that's crazy, they should put more restrictions on boys and educate them about changing their behaviour towards women. They should make laws harsh for men harassing women. why do girls have to go through all of this? insane.
Also weren't you pajeetas the one's yapping "all men are rapist" like 2 days ago now you offended because you aren't allowed to sit next to guys? Lmao these 304's are cooked fr
@@Freya13880 womp womp lmao This is a Man's world built, maintained by men darling 😘 Also where you pa^eetas the one yapping about "all men are rapists"? Then now why you guys offend when you arent allowed to sit next to guys huh? Lmao
Do you people think bad people will just dissappear if we wish it. We need to protect ourselves and person who love us . Does blaming bad men bring these girls or even those men who get killed or injured trying to protect the girls . Try to be careful and be alert. Iam not blaming the girls but don't expect all men will respect women there are many vultures.
Sry grl but isnay shi vola u know men will be men and the truth is we know what attracts men… Kitno ki mentality change kroge .. we have to protect ourselves verna hr din aise case hongay…
Iam from India, I really appreciate u guys that u for raising hand against rape indirectly.... it's a good msg ,to have good stare on every woman...!!respect women!!✨
@@amruthak9433 u were able to see any percentage of man's private part or so called cleavages? Please study the evolution of dress & it's purpose. Understand both men & women's evolution. Don't simply accuse each other.
Am i the only one who is mesmerized by her skintone? Girl, you have such a beautiful skintone!!!! it's just gorgeous ❤ And big up to you guys for addressing such a major concern 👏 Keep up the good work
I've always liked your content. But Kudos for directly making this at a time when massive women's rights and anti-rape protests are going on in West Bengal and the rest of India. Huge love and respect ❤
❤️ heart broken by what happened and always want to bring such issues to the conscience level… Hope our content can convict some mindsets. Thank you for watching and commenting 🫶🏻🫶🏻
Well it's not just for rape case in west bengal, but also for rest of cases happening in the country on daily basis, more so, with women belonging to extreme backward castes
Love you for addressing this. My husband always says that "pieces of sh*t" (his words. He doesnt consider them men) who blame how a woman dresses to explain their own actions are disgusting. I love men like my husband who understand that even if men look, it doesnt mean they are allowed to touch. Women should be able to dress in something they are comfortable and confident in even if it is "revealing" and not have to worry about grape.
Whenever someone point out females' se xually objec tifying behaviour, they always come up with the examples of vi ctim females to defend their behaviour. Tell me, what's the purpose of wearing clothes, why do humans wear clothes?? The problem is not revealing clothes but why do you even want to wear any clothes. Don't just half reveal it, completely reveal it, so that everyone can see what you want to show them. Even though I'm celibate but I always tell my friends don't marry someone like them because they are potential cheaters. If your husband support this clearly he's too naive to understand the manipulation of females.
Whenever someone point out females' se xually objec tifying behaviour, they always come up with the examples of vi ctim females to defend their behaviour. Tell me, what's the purpose of wearing clothes, why do humans wear clothes?? The problem is not revealing clothes but why do you even want to wear any clothes. Don't just half reveal it, completely reveal it, so that everyone can see what you want to show them. Even though I'm celibate but I always tell my friends don't marry someone like them because they are potential cheaters.
90% of people who say “don’t wear revealing clothes” don’t understand the importance of consent and choice. Their parents failed. Indian society failed. To all women who are tortured, raped, murdered… we’re sorry. It’s all our fault. We failed.
90% people telling she can wear revealing clothes believe that he should always lower his gaze. why? If she can have the right to wear anything of her choice he should also have the right to see anything of his choice
@@minervarose7664 abusers will abuse no matter what a woman wear. But the least a woman can do to ensure HER safety is to wear non attention seeking clothes, that's where my point stands, in a free country where a woman can wear something of her choice, a man can also look at anything without lowering his gaze. I'm not talking about well those abusers because they'll still stare at you with lust whatever you wear, then the clothing she wears is irrelevant
@@callmeweeb4350bro u think this generation men are the only men in thie world the ur delusional, In tribal community women just cover their breast and hips and everyone respect them, in earlier centuries women of India only used to wear blouse to cover breast and skirt covering from waist to ankle which also help them in during mensuration time but there shoulder, stomach, back were also used to exposed, the ghunghat was something which married women with bulkier body used to wear so it's doesn't make them uncomfortable while working, so the problem here is today generations men with lack of moral value and ethics and at one point I also agree Vulgar and too much bold clothes exposed too much of body which is not good rest every clothes wear by women are fine
@@callmeweeb4350exactly. So very true..... For these women true empowerment is to wear revealing dresses...just this. And by this logic men should start wearing underwear too. Coz it can be there consent. Freedom of choice so wrongly interpreted by these women
@@frozenlitchy In india, it is very rare to see a men walk half naked unless he is a beggar. Our mothers don't let us go out half naked, also our fashion is with full clothes not half clothes
Just because we ask men not to be perverts , doesn’t mean we women , dress like shit and call it being modern . Yes men must control , what some men do out of being perverts is shitty , but at the same time , few women being too revealing and blaming men to eye at them isint right either ! Dress for the occasion ! Just because people are blaming men to be perverts doesn’t mean women can dress up in a way to make others feel uncomfortable either . It works both ways
Someone dressing revealing isn't an excuse to lust over them. So, women who dress like that can blame men. If we applied your logic to race, you'd understand just how stupid it is. It's like saying "if you don't want white people to eye you, stop being dark skin". Like how does that make any sense to you? People should be able to dress however they want without being harassed. Before colonization indian women walked around topless and never got eyed. Indian women now have 100 fabrics on them and get more harassed and r^ped than any of the ancestors. Sit on that information.
the most correct and accurate solution of the men saying "tali ek hath se nahi bajti" or "she was asking for it" If she was asking for it we wouldn't call it rape ; rape = against the will of the victim through force.
@@gohan12991you are exactly proving the point of this video. Even when we put on decent clothes, shit like this still happens. So, nope clothes are not the problem.
"Was it really my fault?" asked the Short Skirt. "No, it happened with me too," replied the Burka. The diaper in the corner couldn't even speak. -Darshan Mondkar
@@hey_you. read properly what i said. murderer do not steal. a theif will not murder. each crime is different and aggressor is different. a pedo wont ralan adult.
I have done a social experiment myself. Once was travelling through a public bus in India, I saw people looking at my face, constantly. Though I wasn't wearing any revealing dress but still some men were looking at my face. 8 felt uncomfortable, next time I went while wearing a BurKa...though I don't wear it as a practice. But I wore it that day, and I saw huge difference. They looked at me , but they immediately turned away their head as nothing was there to see.. so yes Cloths matter in India. And covering your body properly helps you protect yourself to a great extent. Although not every rape case is related to cloths.. but yes cloths do contribute since the mentality is very cheap in India , plus...women are really exposing themselves badly in the name of freedom which is a different issue and must be condemned.
@@blakesdiaries5430 kya damb logic hai,,,Maine bola ki ladkiyo ko bhi aise kapde nahi pahnane chahiye,,aur ladko ko bhi apne aakho se jyada apni mental maturity rakhani chahiye...dono ko samghdari dikhani chahiye,,,,
Yes I have always, said that men don't have any right to say she was raped because of what she was wearing. Even if she was naked, that does not give him right to rape. But I also don't accept women wearing revealing cloths.. Revealing cloths does not make you seem good at all. Cloths are to cover up yourselves. Not to reveal your body.
Sooo what? You think that short clothes doesn't make me look good but i think it looks good if you don't like it don't wear it but Just cause you don't like it This only doesn't make it " wrong" to wear such clothes.
he's not wrong completely. you can't change everyone's mind. but i believe dresses should be worn appropriate and according to the place because people won't accept girls wearing certain clothes in villages, and they will catch eyes but in cities they won't. it's just the place and people's mentality.
Right.. there should be atleast some decency in wearing them. Som people will wear bikini in religious places..to kya wo bhi chal jayega society ko.. Yahi male Krna shuru kre to kitna hangama khada kr dengi aurate ? I'm not against women clothing. But not every fukin thing is acceptable.
He's 100% wrong. Indian women before colonization used to walk around topless and never get harassed, but now indian women have 100 pieces of fabric on them and get more r^ped than any female Indian ancestor in history. Sit on that information.
I don't understand why skin for women is so important. Men are comfortable and confident by less revealing. Why revealing clothes makes women more confident.
People have a choice. Not every woman is comfortable showing their skin and still, they get assaulted. So it's not really the woman's fault, it's how these men have been brought up. There's no point in blaming the woman for that.
Also many of us feel comfortable without shirt and with only half pants . Don't we? We just keep ourselves naked without fashion. (Actually not naked it's comfort) Just because we are not girls that's why we have less fashion than girls doesn't mean that they can't have fashion.
Wearing revealing clothes in a country like India where so many people are constantly staring and X-raying a woman’s body isn’t easy……I think all the girls and women know that and dress according to the place and people they are with. We all have that inner voice which tells us exactly what to wear and when. It’s not a fight really, it’s being smart!
Tell that to infants getting raped. Can you give us some tips to cover babies so they don't look tempting to our oh so traditional god fearing Indian men?
You are giving another reason for men of India to stay the way they are. Our nation is never going to progress if society continues with the current mentality of men being superior and women inferior. It's high time people learn to mind their own businesses
Of course there's so much hate in the comments about women wearing revealing clothes just like I expected. Seriously people should just learn one thing. MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS. If someone likes to wear revealing clothes there's nothing wrong with it. If someone doesn't like to wear revealing clothes there's nothing wrong with it either. Wear whatever you like but don't go around telling people what's a right or wrong way of dressing.
@@vigneshrajendran8206 I didn't mention any country. I was talking about the hate comments. And telling others to ignore problems like this doesn't solve anything. But of course you guys don't want to acknowledge the problems of society so you will tell others to ignore it.
Relax toxic ones like him are plenty in my nation @@carol8202 My people need to learn to call a spade a spade it doesn't matter if an Indian raped or an an non Indian raped her Rape is a rape, your words are correct
Attention seeking with revealing dresses and getting attracted to it is natural. When it is done to strangers in risky area, the risk is also natural. Everything is a tradeoff in the world. It is not only about women, it applies to men also. My parents don't allow me go late night to secluded places. My risk is loosing wallet and Mobile phone. For women it is even more.
Problem in this message is he is the guy wanting to protect her and the one that wants to harm her won't cover his eyes or change his intentions. The justice system is broken and it clearly encourages those in power that they are above law and can do anything with common people's daughters, wives and mother's. And if you have money there will always be lawyers willing to protect you no matter how gross the crime you commit.
Even if someone has lust in eyes they need to control their thoughts. If you can't then the dress doesn't even matter. You're the problem. Beautiful message btw. Thanks for thinking so much about our country and its women.❤❤
Irrespective of the kind of clothes we wear some men would always misbehave. Recently a doctor in bengal was killed & it is too saddening to know that we aren't safe anywhere 😢
@@freedom5941She has a good point that women wearing traditional clothes will still get assaulted. But what are you trying to say? It seems completely irrelevant. Criminal is a title for people to live under. It's not a genetic ability they develop when they're born. Every criminal has a victim OR victims attached to them. Just saying criminals will be criminals you're disregarding all the pain and suffering the victim went through.
@@shwetachate no I was not saying anything about victims .. obviously they suffer but if you are implying that even if you wear traditional clothes , you get assaulted, so now it’s ok to just wear revealing clothes is like saying if I hide my purse the Thief is going to steal it so why not just show all my money and make it easier and more motivating for the thief ..
@@Hiru2In( India)West Bengal kolkata at RG kar Govt hospital on August 8th (2024)PG TRAINEE Dr.moumita on duty was brutally raped & murdered only one person is arrested😢.
@@Hiru2 adding to the rape and murder, her legs collarbone were injured hair was pulled out from head Also 150 gm of semen was found in her which reveals she was subject to gang rape Also most of the evidence has been vandalized before cbi reached west bengal as most probably the culprits have connections with tmc govt
As a man i agree women's dress doesn't matter because a rape is a rape. Just because she's wearing revealing clothes doesn't give you the right to rape them. However we are not animals,we are humans living in a society and clothes are invented for a reason. While some people may take it as "why should i cover his intentions matter". I'd like to ask you that would you be comfortable if a semi/completely naked man is near you while you are with your kids or old people. Forget about kids, would you yourself be comfortable if he's sitting next to you? No right? That's why one should always try to be modest no matter what other people's intentions are.
As a lady I agree its sad that we are living in this generation where women are roaming naked or semi naked but men are all covered what kind of fashion is it?
I think you are mistaken between a rape and being uncomfortable. If a semi naked man is sitting anywhere near you and you feel uncomfortable, does that mean you will sexually assault him? No, you will just stay away from the man, won't you? Similarly, if a girl or woman is showing indecent exposure, you would prefer to stay away from her, not rape her. Indecent exposure is not an excuse for SA. Nothing is an excuse for rapes.
I really appreciate nut neither he was wrong nor she 😔 after this case everyone is really worried about their loved one's even the boys are worried and 😢idk why but i shall not wear revealing clothes after this case 😔its really sad how some of them see girls with bad thoughts 😔😔😔 #justiceformomita
Let me give you an example: One day, Sharma ji noticed his neighbor, Verma ji, preparing to leave with his family in their car. Curious, Sharma ji inquired about their plans, to which Verma ji replied that they were headed on a vacation. Just as Verma ji was about to drive off, Sharma ji observed that his neighbor had forgotten to lock the door. Concerned, Sharma ji called out to him, reminding him to lock the door and shut the windows. To Sharma ji's astonishment, Verma ji reacted with unexpected anger. "How dare you tell me to lock my door?! Why are you advising me to be cautious and secure my home? Why don't you tell the thieves not to steal?! SHAME ON YOU!!!" Shocked and taken aback by the outburst, Sharma ji watched as Verma ji angrily drove away. A week later, Verma ji returned from his vacation, only to find that his house had been completely ransacked. Everything was gone. Now, Verma ji was furious, cursing the society, the system, and lamenting the lack of integrity in people. From a safe distance, Sharma ji quietly observed the situation, reflecting on the irony of it all.
@@Darna_Zaroori_Hai can you show me any studies which shows that women who wear "revealing clothes" are more likely to get graped? In fact, if you look at clothes that grape survivors were wearing when they got graped - you maybe shocked. Hardly any are revealing clothes. Few are diapers as well.
@@Darna_Zaroori_Hai this is a great story, except for one fundamental error. Sharma ji asked Verma ji to lock his door as a deterrent for burglars - correct! Verma ji didn't take the necessary precautions and as a result, suffered the consequences. But let's say that Sharma ji had asked Verma ji, for example, to cook a nice biriyani instead - hoping it would be a deterrent for burglars. Imagine Sharma ji cooking biriyani everyday, while Verma ji refuses to listen and just eats MacDonalds. And Sharma ji thinks, "oh, Verma ji is eating MacDonalds, how dumb, isn't he just asking for his home to get burgled? While am cooking biriyani, am safe, nobody is going to come steal from me!" And imagine Sharma ji's surprise, when one fine day - burglars arrive and clean out his whole house as well as trash the place. Maybe it's not just an ordinary burglar but a group of psychos who also stab him before leaving, for good measure. As he is dying, all Sharma ji can think is - "why me? Unlike Verma ji i was cooking biriyani everyday! Still they stole from me! And stabbed me to death! Why why why..." And later people realize that these burglars have broken in to various homes and killed the owners. Some have been eating biriyani, some MacDonalds, others eating roti, noodles, salad...some have been on a diet and eating nothing. Literally - the burglars didn't care what tje victims ate, they just wanted to steal and kill. Read up on "what grape victims were wearing" and the story might get clearer.
What happened in Kolkata is unfathomable . But here we are talking about different thing altogether . Revealing dresses attract both male and female . They do gaze . It’s natural . Don’t women look at half or full naked man if they encounter one in public ? They do recognize it at least to express disapproval . Not every one in the society look for the chances to take advantage of others . One ( both male and female )should understand and dress according to the situation . There are some ill minded people in society and act against societal norms . So it is imperative to understand your society and dress accordingly. You can’t go half naked in conventional society and express freedom of dressing . It is applied to both and all genders .
She can still look stylish without the revealing attire. Don't relate women freedom with revealing clothes. Most successful women wear clothes with dignity
@@callmeweeb4350Exactly! Look at how those '60s actresses dressed for events. Stylish, elegant, fashionable without revealing clothes! These two women are silly and self righteous! Forget about guys; what about children? Want to dress like that in front of children--or your father and brothers?
We know everyone has the freedom… but I will never be stupid enough to roam in an area at night where wolfs are roaming… I will use protective gears till those wolfs are taken to the jungle … the person who is advising you to wear protective gears is not a villain he is just a messenger
This really convays a good message.it doesn't matter what we wear its always their mindset.even if it is a long covering dress it will not change their corrupted minds.
@@MXLY_ My father never asked me about my friends.Till now,I have been prohibited by my mother to not even talk with any girl in college,no friendship with girls. I talk with only 3 girls outside my family.Two are my sisters and one is my highschool sweetheart who's loving me from more than 6 years. I don't even touch these 2 sisters of school/college life. My mother has taught me how to treat a good woman(not bad ones,I don't respect them). So, what's my fault? what's my father's fault?Why they are using the term "ALL MEN"? And to you "YOUR FATHER AND BROTHER ARE LIKE THAT??"
Guys dont fight this is a cynical world, wear whatever you want, do whatever you want, but keep one thing in mind, not everyone has the same mindset not everyone will change, you need to be ready for the consequences, nobody is going to save you from anyone,just try to be careful and dress decent. Last warning ⚠️ dont believe in social media, they just make money on your emotions think twice.
I respect Girls and their freedom to live..❤ but Those 90% of people who says "Don't wear revealing clothes" knows that he/she can't control the consequences....and they are GENUINE.. U can change YOURSELF not the world..😊 If u don't agree with me... u r free to follow your thinking...and consequences will be all yours 😊...take CARE.
Yes..rightly said..Stop assuming!!Women it’s high time that we start learning self defence.we shouldn’t wait anymore .Instead stay ahead and together to protect ourselves better.
If self defence is lol..then why don’t you suggest ideas what needs to be done .,all such incidents happening in a row are indicative that few men can’t understand No is a No..let the situation whatever can be. 2)Self awareness and mindfulness even if taught continuously to grown adults,it seems not their choice. 3)System doesn’t seem to be effective to stop this from happening I will be delighted to see some useful comments if you really are progressive and wanna stop this charade of hypocritical patriarchal ruthlessness that seem to happen every now and then under the masks of intoxicated self indulgence
But he was trying to protect her, he cares for her. You cannot give these moral lectures to someone who already has a rapist mindset. Morals are created in childhood and teenage. It wasn't cool what you did with the guy
@@911Niketthere is a difference between being masculine and being attractive.its not my right to judge what your wearing but wear what u wanna wear tho........
Yes. People say that dressing don't matter when it's the most important thing to prevent staring and sexual harassment. I know that women still get raped either way but dressing properly changes a lot of outcomes.
@@WWB-you-know_92 exactly. I don't hear alot about Muslim women get raped. I don't know if it's the religion so men are more respectful or is it because we are modest in the way we dress.
If you are brave and confident enough to do whatever it takes to protect yourself then you can wear whatever you want. We can't change everyone but we can reduce the possibility of getting assaulted. At the end of the day its our own life that matters not the grapist❤
If we are comfortable in it then why Do we need to change our clothes they should change their mindset and also men all around the world roam outside topless or however they want
@@robloxbeauty men don't have problem if anyone sees their body. If you don't have problem what others sense with their eyes. Then it's not a problem. According to me.
No it’s not cool.This isn’t feminism.If he’s her husband then she should respect it shouldn’t she.If he feels that it’s too revealing then as her her husband doesn’t he have a right to speak up. It’s not feminism,it’s just what we think feminism is in the world today.Wearing clothes has nothing to do with the struggles women have suffered for equality and education.This is what our ancestors fought for equality not to be stubborn and wear revealing clothes.
First of all, feminism isn't mentioned anywhere in the video. Secondly, men dress much more revealing than women in countries such as India and sri Lanka, so yes, it is equality
@@sarayukonatham4909 if that's the case then why are men in swimming competitions told to dress fully? Rather than shorts. If your intelligent brain can understand, it is because men don't have any secondary s#xual organ. Women do have. Its completely fine if men walk around in public with boxers as it does not expose any of their s#x organs. In case of women it does. Females need to dress modestly and males need to lower their gaze implying to not to look at any woman except ones wife with lust..
The comment section has some screw lose .Don't connect decency with a heartbroken incident. Decency is something that heals our soul . IT doesn't concerns people point of view, thats it .
@@randomaluxsaga7bviews3seco63 covering WILL help to some extent so you should cover and you can’t take chances you have only one life A poor example but I can’t come up with anything better: Its like saying “ppl with masks got covid too then why should i wear mask?” The answer is you are completely right but realistically that was the only precaution we had and we didn’t want to take any chances.
I’d rather be safe than sorry, you literally can’t just simply expect all men to not look at you in that way, so i choose to cover myself not to mention it’s more comfortable anyways so personally i have 0 issues with that. Men will always be men and that’s the sad truth
"Men will be men" keep saying that and we will never progress. It's not the sad truth but being apathetical about it is the sad truth of the society. I am not saying that indecent exposure should be accepted as a normal thing, but I am saying that nothing is an excuse for such incidents. It shows the cracks in the society very clearly.
On a completely different note, if ur gf or wife dressee up in a way that doesnt please you, just like how its her choice to do what she wants, its also YOUR choice to stay with someone who has no self respect and shows off her body. So leave ur gf and wife even if it means staying single for a long time, its worth than being with a partner like that.
So, blinding the eyes solves the problem.. It goes two ways.. Dont be seductive girls and dont b lustful boys.. Even this doesnt solve the prblm but atleast minimizes.. I think so
But how much is too much! Shudn der be boundaries for nudity...isnt public nudity ,obscenity concerning ?....boundaries are relevant in every aspect of life....its not about the ladys saree in vedio but a general comment. Rapes donot happen by jus attire n clothes though....but am still skeptical whether its an additional factor to sexual abuse....
Very well said. Yes, keeping that men's mindset thing aside, there's a limit on how much the clothes are revealing (don't forget clothes themselves has a purpose, otherwise we could live like animals right🤷) Just like you can't wear coat pant in swimming pool, wearing 'extra' short dresses (not short dresses in general) in public places isn't ideal either. And this applies for both males and females alike
Then u better cover your eyes Why so much problem when we are saying to cover your eyes So u want us to follow According to u but u don't want to follow us HYPOCRITE
be sexy infront of your husband not infront of strangers...and if the husband doesn't have any protective jealousy...it means you are in open relationship than commited relationship... A society where men lower their gaze or are taught to lower their gaze from stranger women, where women dress modestly and on top of that the Law has death penalty for Rapists will have significantly less or almost no rape cases.
Heart broken by recent news in both Sri Lanka and India... It's about the way we SEE and LOOK... the perversion doesnt begin with what a woman is wearing - it begins in the mind of the onlooker. And even if a woman is dressed modestly she can be in danger - further proving that it’s the mindset and lust that needs to be controlled! Now should a woman be careful? OF COURSE - but that's only because so many men haven't been raised to know that just because someone is beauitful doesn't mean you need to take them and possess them for yourself. "But she was asking for it with the way she was wearing!!" WRONG.
If she's asking for anything give her the opportunity and prove yourself honorable enough for her to ACTUALLY ASK!
Don't assume, dont force.
So true😢
@@EricHeinrichs only men with character will follow what you are saying and we don't need to be alert from them . We need to be alert from bad characterless men . Take care of ourselves by avoiding deserted place . Wear what you want to wear but there must be people around these vultures won't attack and you don't need to be beautiful or even young these vultures attack anybody. So please be alert and stay safe. 🙏🏼
Bravo.....
It seriously is disheartening to see such news and the worst part is the culprits don't face any painful punishment....
It's time to stop blaming women for a Man's true behaviour and character .😵💫
Well said..//only bcos of so many men havent been raised to know just bcos someone is beautiful doesnt mean you need to take them and posses them for you self// unfortunately this is the mindset of most men in SL and I suppose its the way that they were brought up. I find only 5% of SL men think as you do. I actually have no idea why these "men"(but not gentlemen) think that the girls ask for it when they wear something revealing. I like to wear modesty..yet its ony bcos I feel beautiful in it. It doesnt really mean im asking anyone for anything. Thank you soooo soo much for pointing that out. This means alot for all the women in SL.❤
What’s with India is DIRTY CORRUPT POLITICS and money swindling schemes which the girl caught. She was brutally murdered for collecting evidence to prevent exploitation of patients and the govt!!!! But govt had other plans
Thank you for addressing the problem indirectly and giving good message
ശരീരം കാണിക്കുന്ന രീതിയിൽ തുണിയിടുന്ന പെണ്ണിനാണ് കുഴപ്പം അത് കാണുന്ന ആണിനല്ല. കണ്ണിന് കാഴ്ച ഉള്ളവർ കാണും. പെണ്ണുങ്ങൾക് കാണിക്കാൻ നാണമില്ലെങ്കിൽ പിന്നെ അവർ ആദരവിനെയും ബഹുമാനത്തെയും പറ്റി സംസാരിക്കാൻ തന്നെ അർഹത ഇല്ല.
@@KadershaN-ou2sj what will you say about Maharashtra monitor lizard case? About Cases where minors are raped? Minors wear revealing clothes? Should we ask lizards to wear clothes now? 🤡🤡
@@iamme4882 Lizard case that's a different thing. What am i saying have nothing to do with your nonsense statement. Dressing shows a persons character. If you wear revealing cloths yes "Revealing cloths" these two words are enough to understand, so that's quite normal to notice it.
@@KadershaN-ou2sj and minors? You didn't say anything about that? 🤡
@@KadershaN-ou2sj I am NOT saying that you are wrong, but what about those times when your theory doesn't apply? Don't get so agitated because you can't answer
It's not the eyes, how many eyes can be closed, it's the collective mind and behaviour of the nation that needs to be addressed.
Those Men who wants a woman to be covered, would better cover his eyes so he doesn't see any women in another 'eye'.
Right
Not just the nation but the world.
So take extra material for whole country untill they hurt u
They can cover their eyes and stay home making and work on fixing their until their mindsets.
Update : i am a medical student in india and they have imposed extra restrictions on us we are not even allowed to sit with boys in class , hostel in timings are different for boys and girls . We have to be in by 8 pm nd boys get to be out till whenever tf they want to. Is this the change we were asking for ?
that's crazy, they should put more restrictions on boys and educate them about changing their behaviour towards women. They should make laws harsh for men harassing women. why do girls have to go through all of this? insane.
Also weren't you pajeetas the one's yapping "all men are rapist" like 2 days ago now you offended because you aren't allowed to sit next to guys? Lmao these 304's are cooked fr
Stay strong miss.
@@Freya13880 womp womp lmao
This is a Man's world built, maintained by men darling 😘
Also where you pa^eetas the one yapping about "all men are rapists"? Then now why you guys offend when you arent allowed to sit next to guys huh? Lmao
Then what's your solution?
I am not saying it's completely correct. But what else can you do?
Thanks for addressing the KOLKATA RAPE CASE indirectly!
It’s heart breaking - also in Sri Lanka a similar case happened 😭
@@EricHeinrichs my heart is boiling with anger after this incident happened
Do you people think bad people will just dissappear if we wish it. We need to protect ourselves and person who love us . Does blaming bad men bring these girls or even those men who get killed or injured trying to protect the girls . Try to be careful and be alert. Iam not blaming the girls but don't expect all men will respect women there are many vultures.
@@EricHeinrichs what happened in SL?
Sry grl but isnay shi vola u know men will be men and the truth is we know what attracts men… Kitno ki mentality change kroge .. we have to protect ourselves verna hr din aise case hongay…
Iam from India, I really appreciate u guys that u for raising hand against rape indirectly.... it's a good msg ,to have good stare on every woman...!!respect women!!✨
Can u please edit "gays" to "guys" ... I know it might be a typo from ur side ...
@@k_8655. Oh thanks
Then what for the point dress existed?
Do u know the reason dresses was created?
Does men wears revealing dresses?
Fix your mind ppl...
@@KumaresanKThanabhalan men go by shirtless & shorts isn’t it revealing?
@@amruthak9433 u were able to see any percentage of man's private part or so called cleavages?
Please study the evolution of dress & it's purpose.
Understand both men & women's evolution. Don't simply accuse each other.
Am i the only one who is mesmerized by her skintone?
Girl, you have such a beautiful skintone!!!! it's just gorgeous ❤
And big up to you guys for addressing such a major concern 👏
Keep up the good work
U are thinking u are not becoming racist , but u are.
And a little bit condescending.😅
I've always liked your content. But Kudos for directly making this at a time when massive women's rights and anti-rape protests are going on in West Bengal and the rest of India. Huge love and respect ❤
❤️ heart broken by what happened and always want to bring such issues to the conscience level… Hope our content can convict some mindsets. Thank you for watching and commenting 🫶🏻🫶🏻
@@EricHeinrichsthankyou❤
@@EricHeinrichs thank you! ❤️
Well it's not just for rape case in west bengal, but also for rest of cases happening in the country on daily basis, more so, with women belonging to extreme backward castes
@@EricHeinrichs❤
Love you for addressing this. My husband always says that "pieces of sh*t" (his words. He doesnt consider them men) who blame how a woman dresses to explain their own actions are disgusting. I love men like my husband who understand that even if men look, it doesnt mean they are allowed to touch. Women should be able to dress in something they are comfortable and confident in even if it is "revealing" and not have to worry about grape.
Whenever someone point out females' se xually objec tifying behaviour, they always come up with the examples of vi ctim females to defend their behaviour. Tell me, what's the purpose of wearing clothes, why do humans wear clothes?? The problem is not revealing clothes but why do you even want to wear any clothes. Don't just half reveal it, completely reveal it, so that everyone can see what you want to show them. Even though I'm celibate but I always tell my friends don't marry someone like them because they are potential cheaters. If your husband support this clearly he's too naive to understand the manipulation of females.
Whenever someone point out females' se xually objec tifying behaviour, they always come up with the examples of vi ctim females to defend their behaviour. Tell me, what's the purpose of wearing clothes, why do humans wear clothes?? The problem is not revealing clothes but why do you even want to wear any clothes. Don't just half reveal it, completely reveal it, so that everyone can see what you want to show them. Even though I'm celibate but I always tell my friends don't marry someone like them because they are potential cheaters.
90% of people who say “don’t wear revealing clothes” don’t understand the importance of consent and choice. Their parents failed. Indian society failed. To all women who are tortured, raped, murdered… we’re sorry. It’s all our fault. We failed.
90% people telling she can wear revealing clothes believe that he should always lower his gaze. why? If she can have the right to wear anything of her choice he should also have the right to see anything of his choice
@@callmeweeb4350 "see" is different from abuse and grape??!
@@minervarose7664 abusers will abuse no matter what a woman wear. But the least a woman can do to ensure HER safety is to wear non attention seeking clothes, that's where my point stands, in a free country where a woman can wear something of her choice, a man can also look at anything without lowering his gaze.
I'm not talking about well those abusers because they'll still stare at you with lust whatever you wear, then the clothing she wears is irrelevant
@@callmeweeb4350bro u think this generation men are the only men in thie world the ur delusional, In tribal community women just cover their breast and hips and everyone respect them, in earlier centuries women of India only used to wear blouse to cover breast and skirt covering from waist to ankle which also help them in during mensuration time but there shoulder, stomach, back were also used to exposed, the ghunghat was something which married women with bulkier body used to wear so it's doesn't make them uncomfortable while working, so the problem here is today generations men with lack of moral value and ethics and at one point I also agree
Vulgar and too much bold clothes exposed too much of body which is not good rest every clothes wear by women are fine
@@callmeweeb4350exactly. So very true..... For these women true empowerment is to wear revealing dresses...just this. And by this logic men should start wearing underwear too. Coz it can be there consent. Freedom of choice so wrongly interpreted by these women
My Tamizhan fans where you at!? 🙌🏾🤟🏾❤
Saree is the sexist outfit for our regions . Im surprised he finds it the same way 😂❤. Kinda cute 🥰
நான்🙋 🙋♂️🙋♂️🙋♂️bro💯❤❤❤
Hi
Tho iruken la nanu
@@poornalakshmi2811i have seen many women IAS officer wearing saree but i thing u r talking about some item dancers wearing style🤣😂🤦♂️
Tbh you look really pretty in that saree, you don't even need to change it. Your smile too
Thanks for raising awareness on this issue 👏
Plus literally tired of hearing this "men will be men" phrase
Yes men will be men go out and change them than
@@simpledailylifeinjapan4441who? Who is gonna change? Nobody can..
Boys will be boys. Girls will become aunties..
@@Dictamnus3927 bhabhi lover spotted
@@Dictamnus3927 still aunties are only sexualised
Have you ever heard sexual jokes on uncles no right?
so women aren't safe whatever age they are
There is difference between indecency and freedom of dressing. Dont walk half naked in name of freedom
Hmm this is perfect n real. ... very few exist like us ... tired of nudity
Exactly
Yeaaa it should be both sexes. Women cover their body, dont wear revealing clothes. While at the same time, men keep their gaze
Should be applied to men as well, they should cover up and should not walk around while being half naked
@@frozenlitchy In india, it is very rare to see a men walk half naked unless he is a beggar. Our mothers don't let us go out half naked, also our fashion is with full clothes not half clothes
Just because we ask men not to be perverts , doesn’t mean we women , dress like shit and call it being modern . Yes men must control , what some men do out of being perverts is shitty , but at the same time , few women being too revealing and blaming men to eye at them isint right either ! Dress for the occasion ! Just because people are blaming men to be perverts doesn’t mean women can dress up in a way to make others feel uncomfortable either . It works both ways
I have said this to others and now saying this to you, NOTHING IS AN EXCUSE FOR RAPE.
@@princessheebu eyeing is not a problem dear we are talking about something else which you clearly don't understand you should sleep
You are 100% corect
Someone dressing revealing isn't an excuse to lust over them. So, women who dress like that can blame men. If we applied your logic to race, you'd understand just how stupid it is. It's like saying "if you don't want white people to eye you, stop being dark skin". Like how does that make any sense to you? People should be able to dress however they want without being harassed. Before colonization indian women walked around topless and never got eyed. Indian women now have 100 fabrics on them and get more harassed and r^ped than any of the ancestors. Sit on that information.
the most correct and accurate solution of the men saying "tali ek hath se nahi bajti" or "she was asking for it"
If she was asking for it we wouldn't call it rape ; rape = against the will of the victim through force.
This comment is so under rated this is such a good point to te kept in the court
Then wear decent clothes.
@@gohan12991not every women is your mother and sister, who you can put boundaries on
@@gohan12991you are exactly proving the point of this video. Even when we put on decent clothes, shit like this still happens. So, nope clothes are not the problem.
@@gohan12991 you should wear a blindfold
"Was it really my fault?" asked the Short Skirt.
"No, it happened with me too," replied the Burka.
The diaper in the corner couldn't even speak.
-Darshan Mondkar
not all criminals are same. clothes add extra
Burky wali ko daikhn gy toh nzar b toh kch nhi aye ga ,alhamdullilah
@@Shivakumar-dk6ph yeah a 3 year old girl asking for it!😊
@@hey_you. read properly what i said. murderer do not steal. a theif will not murder. each crime is different and aggressor is different. a pedo wont ralan adult.
I have done a social experiment myself. Once was travelling through a public bus in India, I saw people looking at my face, constantly. Though I wasn't wearing any revealing dress but still some men were looking at my face. 8 felt uncomfortable, next time I went while wearing a BurKa...though I don't wear it as a practice. But I wore it that day, and I saw huge difference. They looked at me , but they immediately turned away their head as nothing was there to see.. so yes Cloths matter in India. And covering your body properly helps you protect yourself to a great extent. Although not every rape case is related to cloths.. but yes cloths do contribute since the mentality is very cheap in India , plus...women are really exposing themselves badly in the name of freedom which is a different issue and must be condemned.
Dressing sense is the most beautiful thing
100% ! Conservative dressing can be beautiful and quite classy too.
It's masage for both male as well as female..❤❤❤
Yeah nice masage😂
Yeah nice messages, you can wear a bikini don't worry we will cover our eyes
@@tra-guy1445 kuch log ka dimag Ganda hi sochata hai,,
Dumb logic
@@blakesdiaries5430 kya damb logic hai,,,Maine bola ki ladkiyo ko bhi aise kapde nahi pahnane chahiye,,aur ladko ko bhi apne aakho se jyada apni mental maturity rakhani chahiye...dono ko samghdari dikhani chahiye,,,,
I love u guys content .. as an Indian I love ur couple.. ❤❤❤❤ ur love for each other is heavenly
Bro they're sri lankan
@@ishanidharmadasa-wu2qxokay? They never said otherwise?
A really creative way to address the issue ❤ love from india🇮🇳
Who are those who love them both?😘❤️
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That reaction..😂😂❤❤ love you both... stay happy..
Exactly! THE right solution for those who can't accept others' freedom of choice to wear the clothes they want. Loved the message. ❤
Her reaction as a seamstress so real 😂😂😂
Pakavae happy a iruku intha content ❤👍🏻
I couldn't understand how a person will get confidence if they expose their body parts to everyone
Yes I have always, said that men don't have any right to say she was raped because of what she was wearing. Even if she was naked, that does not give him right to rape.
But I also don't accept women wearing revealing cloths.. Revealing cloths does not make you seem good at all. Cloths are to cover up yourselves. Not to reveal your body.
Cant agree more
Thanks🎉
Yea
Sooo what? You think that short clothes doesn't make me look good but i think it looks good if you don't like it don't wear it but Just cause you don't like it
This only doesn't make it " wrong" to wear such clothes.
Finally someone who acknowledged the problem of both sides and I agree entirely
he's not wrong completely. you can't change everyone's mind. but i believe dresses should be worn appropriate and according to the place because people won't accept girls wearing certain clothes in villages, and they will catch eyes but in cities they won't. it's just the place and people's mentality.
Right.. there should be atleast some decency in wearing them. Som people will wear bikini in religious places..to kya wo bhi chal jayega society ko..
Yahi male Krna shuru kre to kitna hangama khada kr dengi aurate ?
I'm not against women clothing. But not every fukin thing is acceptable.
@@snehasony5525very few girls understand this
@@snehasony5525did someone pick you yet? And secondly, nobody wears a bikini at religious places.
Totally agreeing!! Rape can't be a lame excuse for inappropriate dressing.
He's 100% wrong. Indian women before colonization used to walk around topless and never get harassed, but now indian women have 100 pieces of fabric on them and get more r^ped than any female Indian ancestor in history. Sit on that information.
That's called "woman"❤️🔥
I don't understand why skin for women is so important.
Men are comfortable and confident by less revealing. Why revealing clothes makes women more confident.
People have a choice. Not every woman is comfortable showing their skin and still, they get assaulted. So it's not really the woman's fault, it's how these men have been brought up. There's no point in blaming the woman for that.
Also many of us feel comfortable without shirt and with only half pants . Don't we?
We just keep ourselves naked without fashion. (Actually not naked it's comfort)
Just because we are not girls that's why we have less fashion than girls doesn't mean that they can't have fashion.
Wearing revealing clothes in a country like India where so many people are constantly staring and X-raying a woman’s body isn’t easy……I think all the girls and women know that and dress according to the place and people they are with. We all have that inner voice which tells us exactly what to wear and when. It’s not a fight really, it’s being smart!
Tell that to infants getting raped. Can you give us some tips to cover babies so they don't look tempting to our oh so traditional god fearing Indian men?
You are giving another reason for men of India to stay the way they are. Our nation is never going to progress if society continues with the current mentality of men being superior and women inferior. It's high time people learn to mind their own businesses
Exactly and such shitty mentality of women themselves is making me nauseous @@AK-jdi
Exactly very true. Revealing dress are not the sign of empowerment
@@AK-jdiIt's okay keep denying the fact. Good for you. Yahi problem hai girls ki never accept the fact. Fine. Peace.
The way I predicted it 😂
Great video
I am from India.. I love u guys .. keep going.. ❤❤❤❤ I love ur content ..
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This deserves more likes and views❤️
She's doing the best👏🏻👏🏻
Thank you for raising your voices abt that matter!
Of course there's so much hate in the comments about women wearing revealing clothes just like I expected. Seriously people should just learn one thing. MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS. If someone likes to wear revealing clothes there's nothing wrong with it. If someone doesn't like to wear revealing clothes there's nothing wrong with it either. Wear whatever you like but don't go around telling people what's a right or wrong way of dressing.
Firstly u PPL should see your shit first before talking about my nation problem
@@vigneshrajendran8206 I didn't mention any country. I was talking about the hate comments. And telling others to ignore problems like this doesn't solve anything. But of course you guys don't want to acknowledge the problems of society so you will tell others to ignore it.
Relax toxic ones like him are plenty in my nation
@@carol8202
My people need to learn to call a spade a spade it doesn't matter if an Indian raped or an an non Indian raped her
Rape is a rape, your words are correct
@@vigneshrajendran8206lols the entire world is laughing seeing the judicial system in India 😂
Attention seeking with revealing dresses and getting attracted to it is natural. When it is done to strangers in risky area, the risk is also natural. Everything is a tradeoff in the world. It is not only about women, it applies to men also. My parents don't allow me go late night to secluded places. My risk is loosing wallet and Mobile phone. For women it is even more.
My husband also reacted the same way 😂😂😂 so relatable 😊
Problem in this message is he is the guy wanting to protect her and the one that wants to harm her won't cover his eyes or change his intentions. The justice system is broken and it clearly encourages those in power that they are above law and can do anything with common people's daughters, wives and mother's. And if you have money there will always be lawyers willing to protect you no matter how gross the crime you commit.
Aww thankyou for this ❤🥺
His acting though ❤
Even if someone has lust in eyes they need to control their thoughts. If you can't then the dress doesn't even matter. You're the problem.
Beautiful message btw. Thanks for thinking so much about our country and its women.❤❤
Irrespective of the kind of clothes we wear some men would always misbehave. Recently a doctor in bengal was killed & it is too saddening to know that we aren't safe anywhere 😢
Irrespetive of laws criminals will be criminals, does it mean we can just throw our money on the floor?
@@freedom5941She has a good point that women wearing traditional clothes will still get assaulted. But what are you trying to say? It seems completely irrelevant. Criminal is a title for people to live under. It's not a genetic ability they develop when they're born. Every criminal has a victim OR victims attached to them. Just saying criminals will be criminals you're disregarding all the pain and suffering the victim went through.
@@shwetachate no I was not saying anything about victims .. obviously they suffer but if you are implying that even if you wear traditional clothes , you get assaulted, so now it’s ok to just wear revealing clothes is like saying if I hide my purse the Thief is going to steal it so why not just show all my money and make it easier and more motivating for the thief ..
@@shwetachatetrying to divert what he said 😂
@@freedom5941Good example
This catchline hits hard in this context
"Men will be men" 😢
Men who born with sisters will see everyone else like their sisters 😊
Nope
Wish that were true, but most rapists have female relatives that they are protective of.
But these kind of men would see their own sisters and mother also in other way
@@ShumilaAhmad sorry i forgot to mention the word “real men”
So his wife also his sister, if she see all women like sister🤨
Men : Men will be men.
Women : bhediye will be bhediye.
Deep meaningful ❤ YOU may ask to COVER. But not to FORCE.. COVER your brain and EYES .. so they can live happily ❤
"Recent Terrible news"😢😔🕊
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What happened can someone explain
@@Hiru2In( India)West Bengal kolkata at RG kar Govt hospital on August 8th (2024)PG TRAINEE Dr.moumita on duty was brutally raped & murdered only one person is arrested😢.
@@Hiru2 adding to the rape and murder, her legs collarbone were injured
hair was pulled out from head
Also 150 gm of semen was found in her which reveals she was subject to gang rape
Also most of the evidence has been vandalized before cbi reached west bengal as most probably the culprits have connections with tmc govt
😢@@karminekarmine1349
The way you addressed the problem is just amazing 👏👏👏
As a man i agree women's dress doesn't matter because a rape is a rape. Just because she's wearing revealing clothes doesn't give you the right to rape them.
However we are not animals,we are humans living in a society and clothes are invented for a reason.
While some people may take it as "why should i cover his intentions matter". I'd like to ask you that would you be comfortable if a semi/completely naked man is near you while you are with your kids or old people. Forget about kids, would you yourself be comfortable if he's sitting next to you? No right? That's why one should always try to be modest no matter what other people's intentions are.
As a lady I agree its sad that we are living in this generation where women are roaming naked or semi naked but men are all covered what kind of fashion is it?
I think you are mistaken between a rape and being uncomfortable.
If a semi naked man is sitting anywhere near you and you feel uncomfortable, does that mean you will sexually assault him? No, you will just stay away from the man, won't you?
Similarly, if a girl or woman is showing indecent exposure, you would prefer to stay away from her, not rape her. Indecent exposure is not an excuse for SA. Nothing is an excuse for rapes.
I really appreciate nut neither he was wrong nor she 😔 after this case everyone is really worried about their loved one's even the boys are worried and 😢idk why but i shall not wear revealing clothes after this case 😔its really sad how some of them see girls with bad thoughts 😔😔😔 #justiceformomita
Every man will get attracted ...wearing covered clothes is good and noble...we need to fix culture and restore old values of society
Let me give you an example:
One day, Sharma ji noticed his neighbor, Verma ji, preparing to leave with his family in their car. Curious, Sharma ji inquired about their plans, to which Verma ji replied that they were headed on a vacation. Just as Verma ji was about to drive off, Sharma ji observed that his neighbor had forgotten to lock the door. Concerned, Sharma ji called out to him, reminding him to lock the door and shut the windows.
To Sharma ji's astonishment, Verma ji reacted with unexpected anger. "How dare you tell me to lock my door?! Why are you advising me to be cautious and secure my home? Why don't you tell the thieves not to steal?! SHAME ON YOU!!!" Shocked and taken aback by the outburst, Sharma ji watched as Verma ji angrily drove away.
A week later, Verma ji returned from his vacation, only to find that his house had been completely ransacked. Everything was gone. Now, Verma ji was furious, cursing the society, the system, and lamenting the lack of integrity in people. From a safe distance, Sharma ji quietly observed the situation, reflecting on the irony of it all.
@@Darna_Zaroori_Hai can you show me any studies which shows that women who wear "revealing clothes" are more likely to get graped?
In fact, if you look at clothes that grape survivors were wearing when they got graped - you maybe shocked. Hardly any are revealing clothes. Few are diapers as well.
Notice how there are no replies nor any likes on your comment? This is a sign that people always ignore truth because they have been proven wrong.
@@Darna_Zaroori_Hai this is a great story, except for one fundamental error. Sharma ji asked Verma ji to lock his door as a deterrent for burglars - correct! Verma ji didn't take the necessary precautions and as a result, suffered the consequences.
But let's say that Sharma ji had asked Verma ji, for example, to cook a nice biriyani instead - hoping it would be a deterrent for burglars. Imagine Sharma ji cooking biriyani everyday, while Verma ji refuses to listen and just eats MacDonalds. And Sharma ji thinks, "oh, Verma ji is eating MacDonalds, how dumb, isn't he just asking for his home to get burgled? While am cooking biriyani, am safe, nobody is going to come steal from me!"
And imagine Sharma ji's surprise, when one fine day - burglars arrive and clean out his whole house as well as trash the place. Maybe it's not just an ordinary burglar but a group of psychos who also stab him before leaving, for good measure. As he is dying, all Sharma ji can think is - "why me? Unlike Verma ji i was cooking biriyani everyday! Still they stole from me! And stabbed me to death! Why why why..."
And later people realize that these burglars have broken in to various homes and killed the owners. Some have been eating biriyani, some MacDonalds, others eating roti, noodles, salad...some have been on a diet and eating nothing. Literally - the burglars didn't care what tje victims ate, they just wanted to steal and kill.
Read up on "what grape victims were wearing" and the story might get clearer.
"Was it my fault?" Asked the girl in mini skirt.
" No it happened to me as well " said the girl in burkha.
The baby in a diaper couldn't even talk.
True
Your comment deserves millions of likes. Whole matter simply in 3 lines.
Its not your fault. Its natural.
We follow social rules. But some people don't.
the predetors are different. pedhos dont go after adult women. and grapists dont go for kids. criminals have different tastes.
@@Shivakumar-dk6ph so now what can be done about it?
Good message to society . Love such influencers who bring or work towards postive chnage ❤
Yes dressing is indeed to be fixed
What happened in Kolkata is unfathomable .
But here we are talking about different thing altogether .
Revealing dresses attract both male and female . They do gaze . It’s natural . Don’t women look at half or full naked man if they encounter one in public ? They do recognize it at least to express disapproval . Not every one in the society look for the chances to take advantage of others . One ( both male and female )should understand and dress according to the situation .
There are some ill minded people in society and act against societal norms . So it is imperative to understand your society and dress accordingly. You can’t go half naked in conventional society and express freedom of dressing . It is applied to both and all genders .
Perfect
It was perfect. Down to the last minute detail. Perfect.
She was absolutely right 💯 but men need to cover the minds and negative thoughts
Full body revealing is the empowerment and freedom of the women👍
UR COMPREHENSION SKILLS ARE SO BAD U COOKED MD VOMITED EVERYTHING
No it's not it's actually demeaning
@@SLIMEBUSIN Maybe next time, instead of serving up a mess, you could try a bit more clarity in your argument.
I don't know why are people spreading hate in comments but her attire was appropriate
She can still look stylish without the revealing attire. Don't relate women freedom with revealing clothes. Most successful women wear clothes with dignity
@@callmeweeb4350your idea of 'stylish' is NOT hers
@@callmeweeb4350 what is this with revealing you are referring here she is looking decent and styled her by her preference
Bro I can see the equator between
@@callmeweeb4350Exactly! Look at how those '60s actresses dressed for events. Stylish, elegant, fashionable without revealing clothes! These two women are silly and self righteous! Forget about guys; what about children? Want to dress like that in front of children--or your father and brothers?
Excellent one 💯.
Those who have problem with other's dressing style can close their eyes
" If she's naked also, u don't have any rights to touch her..... "
A Fairrr point👏.... ❤from Tamilnadu
You woman will never understand us🙏🏻
We know everyone has the freedom… but I will never be stupid enough to roam in an area at night where wolfs are roaming… I will use protective gears till those wolfs are taken to the jungle … the person who is advising you to wear protective gears is not a villain he is just a messenger
This really convays a good message.it doesn't matter what we wear its always their mindset.even if it is a long covering dress it will not change their corrupted minds.
So your brothers and father aren't just men,right?
@@ipgaming7012Too many such cases even from fathers and brothers. Your point?
Their mind, their choice. you are just judgemental.
@@MXLY_ My father never asked me about my friends.Till now,I have been prohibited by my mother to not even talk with any girl in college,no friendship with girls.
I talk with only 3 girls outside my family.Two are my sisters and one is my highschool sweetheart who's loving me from more than 6 years.
I don't even touch these 2 sisters of school/college life.
My mother has taught me how to treat a good woman(not bad ones,I don't respect them).
So, what's my fault? what's my father's fault?Why they are using the term "ALL MEN"?
And to you
"YOUR FATHER AND BROTHER ARE LIKE THAT??"
@@itsme-sq5rd it becomes a problem when they try the mind and choice and 🍇 people.
modesty is itself is the purest form of beauty. Hope you understand that...
She's beautiful ❤pretty 😍
Guys dont fight this is a cynical world, wear whatever you want, do whatever you want, but keep one thing in mind, not everyone has the same mindset not everyone will change, you need to be ready for the consequences, nobody is going to save you from anyone,just try to be careful and dress decent. Last warning ⚠️ dont believe in social media, they just make money on your emotions think twice.
This is exactly what we all need 👏🏻👏🏻
I respect Girls and their freedom to live..❤ but
Those 90% of people who says "Don't wear revealing clothes" knows that he/she can't control the consequences....and they are GENUINE..
U can change YOURSELF not the world..😊
If u don't agree with me... u r free to follow your thinking...and consequences will be all yours 😊...take CARE.
Yes..rightly said..Stop assuming!!Women it’s high time that we start learning self defence.we shouldn’t wait anymore .Instead stay ahead and together to protect ourselves better.
self defence Lol
@@Shivakumar-dk6phwhat lol?
Yeah go and learn waste your time as much as you can. Irl it's useless.
@@productivity23 its a LOL
If self defence is lol..then why don’t you suggest ideas what needs to be done .,all such incidents happening in a row are indicative that few men can’t understand No is a No..let the situation whatever can be.
2)Self awareness and mindfulness even if taught continuously to grown adults,it seems not their choice.
3)System doesn’t seem to be effective to stop this from happening
I will be delighted to see some useful comments if you really are progressive and wanna stop this charade of hypocritical patriarchal ruthlessness that seem to happen every now and then under the masks of intoxicated self indulgence
Kneewwww whats gonna happen next😂😂😂😂
But he was trying to protect her, he cares for her. You cannot give these moral lectures to someone who already has a rapist mindset. Morals are created in childhood and teenage. It wasn't cool what you did with the guy
You'll be legend when You'll know that he's right. 👍🏻😌
He knows very well the cheap perspective of society. 🙌🏻💁🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Finally ! Someone told it short and sweet!❤
Twist: your husband and his friends show up in boxers only for your party.
That would be totally appropriate! 😂
@@911Niketthere is a difference between being masculine and being attractive.its not my right to judge what your wearing but wear what u wanna wear tho........
So proud for being a Muslim girl! ☪️ 💜
Yes. People say that dressing don't matter when it's the most important thing to prevent staring and sexual harassment. I know that women still get raped either way but dressing properly changes a lot of outcomes.
@@jamilapark9447
Yeah girl! Modest outfits enhance the girl's elegance, all the classic-luxury fashions were modest!
@@WWB-you-know_92 exactly. I don't hear alot about Muslim women get raped. I don't know if it's the religion so men are more respectful or is it because we are modest in the way we dress.
@@jamilapark9447
Both, Islamic rules require men to lower their gaze n women to dress modestly. Islam is the religion of truth n justice.
Now I am starting to admire my muslim sister’s mindset more than hindu and and christian while being a hindu, stay safe y’all
She does a wonderful job to fix the problem.😂😂
If you are brave and confident enough to do whatever it takes to protect yourself then you can wear whatever you want. We can't change everyone but we can reduce the possibility of getting assaulted. At the end of the day its our own life that matters not the grapist❤
But revealing is revealing knowwww...
What revealing? Girl in school uniform get harrassed by the driver, girl in burkha also harassed and you say revealing is revealing
@@malavikar7242the person who is going to harrass will do on any person.
But it affects normal people.
If we are comfortable in it then why Do we need to change our clothes they should change their mindset and also men
all around the world roam outside topless or however they want
@@robloxbeauty men don't have problem if anyone sees their body.
If you don't have problem what others sense with their eyes.
Then it's not a problem.
According to me.
@@robloxbeauty both men and women wanna to dress up properly. I mean it.... no exception for men. I taught my sons too...
Actually the guy was right!
No it’s not cool.This isn’t feminism.If he’s her husband then she should respect it shouldn’t she.If he feels that it’s too revealing then as her her husband doesn’t he have a right to speak up. It’s not feminism,it’s just what we think feminism is in the world today.Wearing clothes has nothing to do with the struggles women have suffered for equality and education.This is what our ancestors fought for equality not to be stubborn and wear revealing clothes.
First of all, feminism isn't mentioned anywhere in the video. Secondly, men dress much more revealing than women in countries such as India and sri Lanka, so yes, it is equality
@@sarayukonatham4909 bro come on you don't want to go there.
@@sarayukonatham4909 if that's the case then why are men in swimming competitions told to dress fully? Rather than shorts. If your intelligent brain can understand, it is because men don't have any secondary s#xual organ. Women do have. Its completely fine if men walk around in public with boxers as it does not expose any of their s#x organs. In case of women it does. Females need to dress modestly and males need to lower their gaze implying to not to look at any woman except ones wife with lust..
@@blakesdiaries5430 now I'm definitely going there
@@sarayukonatham4909 yt just took down my long comment and I won't type it again cause winning tiny internet debates is not my thing.
The comment section has some screw lose .Don't connect decency with a heartbroken incident. Decency is something that heals our soul . IT doesn't concerns people point of view, thats it .
Nothing will fix the problem.... we can just stay put n protect ourselves as much as we can
Covering won't help either. Man do it regardless of what we wear
@@randomaluxsaga7bviews3seco63 covering WILL help to some extent so you should cover and you can’t take chances you have only one life
A poor example but I can’t come up with anything better: Its like saying “ppl with masks got covid too then why should i wear mask?” The answer is you are completely right but realistically that was the only precaution we had and we didn’t want to take any chances.
I’d rather be safe than sorry, you literally can’t just simply expect all men to not look at you in that way, so i choose to cover myself not to mention it’s more comfortable anyways so personally i have 0 issues with that. Men will always be men and that’s the sad truth
The best mindset 👆
"Men will be men" keep saying that and we will never progress. It's not the sad truth but being apathetical about it is the sad truth of the society. I am not saying that indecent exposure should be accepted as a normal thing, but I am saying that nothing is an excuse for such incidents. It shows the cracks in the society very clearly.
On a completely different note, if ur gf or wife dressee up in a way that doesnt please you, just like how its her choice to do what she wants, its also YOUR choice to stay with someone who has no self respect and shows off her body. So leave ur gf and wife even if it means staying single for a long time, its worth than being with a partner like that.
This has a right message to such men though it is expressed in a funny way… hats off and appreciate it..
Wonderful content for this society 👏🎉
So, blinding the eyes solves the problem.. It goes two ways.. Dont be seductive girls and dont b lustful boys..
Even this doesnt solve the prblm but atleast minimizes.. I think so
Good message 🙏🙏.
It's girl/women's choice whatever she like she can wear..
"It’s the way he sees, not the way she dresses" 💯
Wrong!
@kaladwarakanath5503 Right!
It's the way she dresses as well.
@@yantie_q Thanks.
Exactly. They are pretending, self righteously, that her dressing doesn't have a motive!
Worth sharing 🤌🏻♥️
My god u are giving 90s dark dusky beautiful model's vibe in indipop videos ..so so beautiful 😍
But how much is too much! Shudn der be boundaries for nudity...isnt public nudity ,obscenity concerning ?....boundaries are relevant in every aspect of life....its not about the ladys saree in vedio but a general comment.
Rapes donot happen by jus attire n clothes though....but am still skeptical whether its an additional factor to sexual abuse....
Very well said. Yes, keeping that men's mindset thing aside, there's a limit on how much the clothes are revealing (don't forget clothes themselves has a purpose, otherwise we could live like animals right🤷)
Just like you can't wear coat pant in swimming pool, wearing 'extra' short dresses (not short dresses in general) in public places isn't ideal either.
And this applies for both males and females alike
By showing it, what will you get.? Before cover mens eyes cover yourself.
Then u better cover your eyes
Why so much problem when we are saying to cover your eyes
So u want us to follow According to u but u don't want to follow us
HYPOCRITE
This is the perfect answer!
be sexy infront of your husband not infront of strangers...and if the husband doesn't have any protective jealousy...it means you are in open relationship than commited relationship...
A society where men lower their gaze or are taught to lower their gaze from stranger women, where women dress modestly and on top of that the Law has death penalty for Rapists will have significantly less or almost no rape cases.
I really love it ❤