3 years of Matted Hair
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- Опубликовано: 17 окт 2022
- Due to life circumstances and depression this client stop combing and washing hair. Listen to how to shares her story.
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So…I’m a white dude who is fostering a 13 yr old black child who was kicked out onto the streets by an abusive Dad. When he got to me he had a mess of dreads on his head and I watched your channel to know what to do. In fact today we did a trim and a retwist and he was off to see his girlfriend in true swag form. You are doing the Lord’s work with these people and helping a lot of folks who watch your channel!
Love it 🥰 bless you both ❤
I'm crying thank you for loving on that baby boy in this way he deserves the world
I love watching how you give life back to your clients by simply caring enough to take the time to do what no one else seems to want to do. There are so many videos of people who are simply told to chop it all off, treating long locks of hair like it's a curse. To see these beautiful women glowing with their hair intact is a blessing.
Yo! She's dope. I'm here for it🙏🏽💞
Hi
Depression is cruel and managing hair can be so hard in the throughs of it.
It's satisfying to see it getting de-matted. But I would encourage a few inches to keep it manageable or if waist long bringing it to mid-shoulders.
Removing the weight is very important and long hair is heavy lol. I don't wear mine long at all anymore.
Yess you know how women feel about their hair....this was a hold experience for her
as someone who’s suffered tangled mattered hair in the past due to severe depression and neglect I have so much respect for you, I love your channel so much and you seem so kindhearted, I hope you keep up the good work ❤
Great comment. She has great content. She's inspiring. 💞
How did you get it untangled? I am currently suffering from depression and matted hair. I want to get this situation fixed before it gets worse than what it is now.
@@NinaTheChoosenOne you can get it untangled/matted by a professional hairdresser which is what I did the first time, before it escalated (I have pretty long hair ) , unfortunately the second time I cut it myself which I don’t recommend doing 😂 i understand some are embarrassed getting theirs done by a hairdresser because of their situation but I didn’t really have any choice , perhaps there are tutorials online
IAM very same this my second time going through this I just hope I can find someone that can help cause my hair was a big part of the person I am I suffer with bad depression but I'd say if I had my hair back it would bring Donna back ♥️
@@NinaTheChoosenOne me to and it's so bad I suffer with depression my I'd say if I sorted my hair out it would lift my spirits but we're not alone hopefully god is good and help us this is the second time this happened me it happened 15 years back and this beautiful African lady spent hour and taken it out I was blessed to find her , this time there is nobody that can help
The way she talked to this client reminded me of when I went to the dentist for the first time in 6 years this June. I was shaking when I came in and then when the dentist said I had more than 10 cavities I started bawling. The dental assistant calmed me down by explaining how everything would work, and she told me she had seen worse. I didn't even cry like that when I got the first filling, but the dental assistant that day saw the tear drop fall out of my eye when the dentist pulled out the needle, and she held my hand, and I've been fine at all my appointments since. One more this Friday and then I'll be like my daddy and get my teeth cleaned every 3 months now
Edit: thank you all for the positive comments and 1k likes❤️❤️
Not sure if they missed the cavities on my 2 wisdom teeth or they were waiting for this year to start so my coverage would renew, but I just had those 2 filled 3 days ago (a week after my first cleaning this year) so I think I'm good for now.
I went thru a similar thing. It was scary to finally get to the dentist then hear how much work they need to do. I ended having to have a denture at 43. Hope your doing well now and are free from pain. Have a good day.
Make sure it's actually ten cavities and the dentist isn't creating cavities on healthy teeth. Talking from experience.
@@AmyLeeAngelLove ..How they gonna do that?...We're not trained dentists....You have to trust at some stage....It's traumatic enough just walking through the dentist door, let alone having comments like yours, that make you double think.
@@roserandall3160 You don't need to be trained to know your teeth were tampered with. Does he show you the cavities or TELL YOU only? Do you feel pain? Do you see fillings on once healthy and painless teeth? You have to become aware and stop being so trusting. That's how you get screwed in this world. Just because someone is a professional doesn't mean you just allow them to do whatever they want. Not everyone is honest.
February was my first time back to the dentist after not going since 2016. I had 8 cavities and needed one root canal. I sadly had the exact opposite support from my dentist office. The girls would talk over me as they were fixing my cavities talking about how I should of not neglected my teeth and how awful my teeth were i wanted to cry. After getting all 8 cavities taken care of and a root canal I had 2 deep cleanings then wisdom teeth removal surgery then finally after 15 years I finally got braces on, its now November and I'm 4 months into my braces and I'm so proud of myself for not listening to those mean dental hygienist and continued my teeth journey!! It's been 9 months straight of dental work and pain but all I'm thinking about is the time I get my braces removed and show back up to that dentist with my new smile 😃
You can see the transition in her hair but the transition in her personality is even better.
I'm thankful and grateful that there are still good people out there.
Sis is a whole vibe! I'm so happy for her. Talking about her pretzel. She just wanted a lil crunchy treat after the days of getting her hair detangled. I LOVED this video. I hope she went out and had a ball with her new freedom
That was funny. I was like geez let the girl have her pretzel. Lol 😂
Man, COVID messed up a lot of people. So glad she was able to get this worked out and now can start fresh! You are a treasure Love518!!!!
In ways I didn't even know happened to folks so much. There's going to be so many folks, suffering out there.
Lived through evil depression but guess it wasn't so bad as some, huh.
Frrrrr
Nahh cuz. Covid lockdown didn't mess her up like that lmao. Im not tryna be rude but u telling me she didnt shampoo in the shower ONCE!?
@@mustard8148 nah cuz she said it was like that for 2 years BEFORE covid 💀. I get she could have had depression etc but to blame something that happened years before Covid on COVID ain’t it.
@@nevaeha4048I don’t understand why she didn’t just shave her head…
I am on year 2 of my agoraphobia. I can relate to her so well. Congratulations on overcoming this fear. It is a terrible way to live.
you'll get through it honey, i know you will!!!!
@@hayleywilliams8938 thank you. I started driving my car about a week ago around my little cul da sac. Small step but also a big one.
@@MyCatsToldMe2 baby steps!!
I'm sending you so much love. You should be proud of your baby steps. ❤️
That is awesome! I’m so happy to hear you’re getting back out there! No step is too small when it comes to self improvement and healing! I am so incredibly proud of you and I hope your drives around the neighborhood are peaceful!
“Baby steps! We didn’t spend 3 days of detangling to cut all this hair off.” Love it! ❤
She seems like a lot of fun. I hope she knows how brave and courageous she is. Asking for help is not easy.
I am glad y'all did not turn her away. So many stylists would have. I have seen stylists turn people away just for having thick hair. Edit: I just looked into your channel and realized this is what you specialize in. This is so amazing.
That's her specialty, why would she decline this particular person
To be fair a regular hairstylist shouldn’t be expected to handle this… someone who specializes like the woman in the videos the only person anyone should expect to handle it
Just like how if you have lice, you can’t just go to any hairstylist… you need to go to someone who specializes in lice removal
She’s really venting to you, you know how to make your clients feel comfortable
This woman clearly felt so loved and so safe with you. Keep doing what you do!
I figured her hair was going to be long, but girl, that is some long beautiful hair!
I have dealt with the depression matted hair and people were like "why don't you shave it and wear a wig?" And plain and simply because for some people, me included, your hair is part of your identity and what makes you feel beautiful! And in my instance, my hair doesn't grow for nothing, so I hold on to every bit of length I can get.
You are a angel in disguise girl for real!!💚🖤💚
The amount of patience and love that goes into doing something like this is remarkable. This lady has such a beautiful personality, very bubbly despite what she has been through. You did such a great job
As a person that deals with agoraphobia, understanding how hard it is to get the help she needed and commiserating with her about how hard it is not being prepared to be an adult was probably so special for her. I hadn’t been to a dentist in years, and it meant a lot that I was not scolded or made to feel worse about the amount of cavities I had.
As someone who has had to cut there hair multiple times due to disability, I thank you from the bottom of my heart. 💜
When I was a young teen I was so depressed I didn't leave the house for months at a time, or care for myself at all. My hair became extremely matted since I just kept it in a bun, and eventually I had to have it all sheared off short. I'm glad she was able to find someone as kind as you for help
Yeah I'd have shaved my head if I was in that situation. Just to be able to start over.
I'm agoraphobic myself and I'm so proud of her and you are such a sweetheart for doing this for people ❤️
This is one reason I wanted to be a hairdresser. I was sad lonely and depressed as a kid. And I wanted to LOVE PEOPLE. TO BE LOVED. AND TO MAKE PEOPLE FEEL GOOD ABOUT THEMSELVES. I LOVE WHAT YOU'RE DOING!! KEEP IT UP. HONEY YOU ARE INSPIRING ME ✨️ ❤️ 🙏🏽💯💞
you ARE LOVED by THE ONE who MATTERS MOST. I pray for HEALING over YOU and GOD BLESS YOU BEYOND YOUR COMPREHENSION brethren ✌🏽❤️ 🤗
@@gie_whiZz thank you so much 💞
You can’t see their faces but their body language just perks up once you undo the tangles! It’s awesome❤
Her hair came out so beautifully. This will be a great fresh start for her. You are the kindness this world needs ❤️
I want you to know that, because of your strength and kindness, I was able to help my mama with her matted hair. It wasn't nearly this bad, but it was a lot. I don't think that I would have been able to untangle her hair without you to inspire me. She has arthritis in her shoulders and wrists, so it's very hard for her to brush her hair, and she's too stubborn to ask for help. Now that I know she needs help, I can keep her hair smooth and beautiful. Thank you and God bless.
Que Deus a abençoe muito você por ser uma filha tão amorosa! Sua mãe tem sorte por ter você!
God bless you and her. Depression is ugly and robs us of so much. It's beautiful to see her come back to life and rise above what held her down ♥️
I’m glad she’s ok. I was mainly worried about her scalp underneath all of that. I had my fingers crossed that her scalp was healthy and nothing had gone wrong. I’m glad it was ok.
Depression is so real I been depressed for 5 years after my mother passed I had hair mated 2 years an I just pulled it out started over I don’t like going out the house other then my hair now my weight is way out of control but I love coming to your channel to see you work your magic on people head blessing ❤❤❤🙏🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽you the best 🥰🥰😍😍
Hello how are you doing?
Oh my god this episode was such a JOY. She was an absolute ray of sunshine and her hair looks fantastic ❤
When I first saw this i had no clue how she was going to fix it, but she knows exactly what she’s doing and she’s so good at it!
Wow! That was 3 years of hair being twisted and fused together. I'm glad there're people like you around to help people out with their hair issues.
It looked like a beehive. I was wondering how she achieved that shape. I'm glad she was able to get her hair done and was happy. What a great act of love!! You are awesome and have such an amazing gift. ❤️
She initially put it in a high bun, then put some kind of turban or head wrap to cover her hair. Didnt take the hair down or remove the hair tie and it basically stayed in this shape so as the hair grew up it formed into a hive shape
@@rachelmm05 Interesting. It's amazing how our hair evolves like that. 🙂
@@laken4079 facts
Marge Simpson.
@@rachelmm05 no way, that would happen?
She made me cry because she's feeling better. God Bless you, ladies, for doing this amazing work!
I relate to what this client said at the beginning of this 3 day journey. I am currently covering up my matted hair with scarfs because I am ashamed. Even making it cute with pops of color gets old. It is a mental imprisonment. There is stagnant energy, zero spontaneity and certainly never any sensuality. My hair is such a primal thing for me being a Leo.
This will be my THIRD time getting my hair unlocked and I am equally exhausted and exhilarated.
You do a profound service. It is magical to watch.
She has such a gorgeous natural curl pattern!
I was contemplating just shaving my head and starting over, this gives me hope ❤depression is real and worse when you have to hide it from everyone. I hide mine under wigs and in a messy disastrous apartment that I never let anyone see.
My sister was kind enough to brush my hair for me during my depressive episodes. I always had long beautiful hair but had to make the decision to cut it short as my depressive episodes were too close together. I haven’t had a depressive episode since I’ve cut my hair and am now confident I can grow it out. I suffered from situational depression so thankfully my depressive episodes are shorter and further in between. I empathize with those who have it for life. You are loved. 💕
Here's a cookie for the algorithm. I love the work you do and the way you and your team work to restore the confidence and promote healing for your clients. ❤️🍪❤️
Also: I love the way you respect their privacy and edit the vids to ensure that nothing of their face is visible in the videos.
Hello how are you doing?
Wow God bless her, she truly saved her hair, most stylists would have said it’s damaged and cut it all off. This woman is more than a stylist, she truly has a heart that cares❤, be blessed in Jesus Name
There is a special place in heaven for people like y’all. Bess your heart for what you do! In the shady and uncertain world we live in, it fills me with hope seeing such a kind soul.
I was 12 when my hair ended up like this. My dad died and everything fell apart. After a year, my mom dragged me to her stylist but i was so embarrassed and refused to go in. The stylish had to the car to talk me into going in. She was wonderful but I will never forget some of the rude people she worked with. They saw the whole thing but proceeded to ask why I came in when I was getting shampooed. I wish I had a private area like this. You're an angel.
These videos make my heart so happy. I work in mental health and addictions, what you're doing for people is giving them back their pride...I can help them in small ways, help the issues. You give them an incredible gift. You are an incredible gift
Such inspiration. Your channel has such love, compassion and hope! Inspiring to see you give your all to those who need care and such good clients who are healed and are feeling themselves again. It’s made me make effort to not let my 3B-4a hair ever be neglected again. I had a hair wrap turn into a dread for 8 years and it started expanding. I did a big chop because I prefer short hair on me. Just lost the waist-length dread. Freed myself and cutting out the damage and slowly unmatting and unraveling the short tuft set my heart and soul free! Thank you!
My daughter's hair gets extremely matted and it takes me 4-5 days to demat it. I did it at least 4 or 5 times. The last time I did it a few months ago, I did end up having to really cut it because it was 5 days and a really tough sectIon that wouldn't budge no matter what and her scalp was becoming so sensitive. Thankfully, she's been taking a bit better care of it and it hasn't become matted. Thank you for doing this for these women without judgement! 💐
Hi! How old is your daughter? How does her hair get matted? I have super dense hair, gets matted easily, I could offer some tips to prevent matting if it helps!
1: don't sleep with your hair down. Always put it in a braid, or wear it in a hair wrap/bonnet (google if you don't know what it is). This helps keep my hair from getting lesser up in my sleep!
2: keep it moisturized, and make sure to brush through it every morning. Even if you protect your hair, it can grow and curl around rubberbands. Thus is something I struggled with a lot, my hair would always mat around my Rubbermaid!
3: get a really good detailing comb and LOTS of conditioner... though I'm sure you know that already!
I have had depression for many years and have had periods where it was really bad. However, it never got so bad that my hair got matted. Knowing how depression works my heart goes out to this lady and all the ladies who you have helped. Thank you for your kind heart and patience!
That's amazing that she felt relaxed enough to fall asleep!
Hair makes such a difference. I remember going to the hairdressers after I started to climb out of my depression, had caramel highlights with balliage and an undercut to manage the thickness of my hair. When I saw the result I started to cry with happiness because I felt human again, like a princess. I wanted to cut my hair shorter but the hairdresser probably pegged that I was not in the right mind and said that if I wanted to go shorter after a week to come back and cut it shorter. I did it almost 2h later. Thank you for being such a precious human being and treating those who don't see theirself as valud, as valid human beings. You might have saved a few lives without knowing you did
i love the spiritual work you do through someone's hair....
Ugh that lady was so kind glad you changed her life and she's happy now!!!
Ooohhhh her hair is gorgeous. I’m so glad you could save so much of it because it is absolutely stunning.
I’ve always enjoyed your videos but this one has to be my favorite! You brought light back into her life and gave her a feeling of safety and hope. Your talent & skill is not only changing but saving lives. It was so beautiful to see her come forward and be so honest and raw with her emotions. Truly another amazing video 💕
She is literally the sweetest!! I love you and her both!
I had this happen to me 3x in my life because of depression. And I cherish my hair more than anything. That literal mental and physical weight that you feel when this happens is indescribable. And it’s people like you who help get us back to ourselves. ❤
I bet she slept like a baby during those naps for the first time in a long time. Loved this video ❤
So glad you could help her. I'm praying for you in your ministry, sister.
White girl from MD. I just love your videos- your patience, kindness and LOVE are an example for all!
Your loving care of these women touches my heart. I'm a caucasian young lady of 85😊 . Bless you and please keep doing the work Our Lord has called you to do ❤
I am in love with this ministry. This is true pure love of God. I’m lifting you and your family up. May you be filled with the all the fullness Father God has for you. You bring glory to His name. King Jesus.
Beautiful person who now has hair to match her great personality. Shine on super star!
This old white lady with perfectly straight, never tangled hair is sitting here crying over you - the love you show, your faith in God, your understanding of healing and willingness to undertake it, your passion for ministry, and more than I can’t even express. Thank you, thank you for saving people’s lives and making me so happy. May God bless you richly!
aww, congrats to her
That's got to feel so good physically as well as emotionally. You are a blessing!❤️
So much positivity in one video. I smiled all the way through. I love watching you work your magic, amazing x
You are so genuinely kind, and you have so much love for people I can see that and just for that I’m subscribing because that nowadays is rare. Thank you being you & I can’t wait to binge the rest of your videos 🥰🖤
This is such a cute video! Both of yalls reactions after hours of work are just precious!
This is so beautiful! You are truly blessed to be able to help people the way you do
I am so glad you faced your fear/anxiety and got your hair done, getting out of our coping habits can be so hard, wishing you so much happiness & sending you love 🙌💜
The love, hard work and happiness in this video is Everything!!
I'm grateful their are people like you out there. You make the world a better place!
Thank you for broadcasting this:you showed REAL love!!!❤❤❤
You're such a good soul. I can only imagine the lasting relationships you make for helping so many... You're so pure, I wish all the best to you!
This was good for *my* soul and I'm just watching on my couch. This has to count as some kind of community therapy. Out here doing the good work!
This is so wholesome
this client is such good vibes especially with the pretzel so funny
Miss Matrix, I love you! Your spirit is shining through and I hope you continue to feel better.
And thank you to you, for doing her hair. And for the singing breaks! So funny 😂
This was so much fun! I would love to watch a 3 hour version of this 😍
I LOVEEE the client’s energy 💗
You are truly a treasure!! Thank you so much for being you!
This was such a heartwarming, amazing, incredible video. I'm just a stranger on the internet, but I feel the need to thank you for doing this for these lovely people. You are awesome and THANK YOU for being that way!!! Keep on the good work ♥️
Thanks for making the world a little bit better - each head of hair at a time 💙
Awwww she’s such a sweet, grateful lady! ❤
Thanks for including the wash and rinse parts, I love seeing the stuff wash away. It’s satisfying ☺️
Love the energy in there. Thank you for changing lives.
It's really beautiful what you do to help people. I can see how this could happen so easily on the slippery slope of depression and I'm proud of every person who is able to find their way out of that place. Thank you for being the way out for many 💖
Love to see it. Hair means so much more to us than we think it does. I’m so happy for her. Her hair is beautiful. ❤
I know you hear it all the time but I love this. I love how you help people and remind them they deserve love and care. 💖
The joy emanating from both of you - palpable!! So so good, you have gotten to your full purpose and it's so amazing to see
What a journey! I love you guys! Cheers from Italy!
What a Beautiful Blessing to have a Beautician and Team that can help people like her Client who have been through some very sad times. To know that you helped her to get her life back brings tears of joy to my eyes. Stay Blessed always!🙏💯
the way u never make ur clients feel othered is so beautiful. just having a simple honest conversation with her while doing such a beautiful thing for her really warmed my heart, as someone who suffers from depression and mental health issues of my own, it can be a lot to ask for help!! so u being so kind and a real angel to these people and helping them feel like themselves again is really amazing. ur a gem!! 💖💖
Thats amazing! Thanks for share this moment with us.
It's extremely amazing how you treat your clients and you came to life their hair. Congrats I hope you continue helping people how you do. Super impressive 🎉☺️❤️
This is wonderful! You took your time and and really took care of her hair. Most people would have just told her she had to cut it all off
More than hair, one can see her shine coming back through ❤️ such a happy soul, you guys are really blessed and give blessings by your work
You have so much compassion.
The work you do is amazing 👏 I can't even imagine how your customers must feel at the end of the process after dealing with everything they've gone through ❤ I hope you give yourself time to recover after each of these sessions because you need it!!
I am touched by these videos and the amount of beautiful humanity and camaraderie between you and your clients. It makes my heart happy ❤
Y’all had me tickled! I am so happy for her! Awesome work… to the both of you! 🎉
You’re an inspiration to watch. What you do is pure love and life giving!!❤❤
That looked impossible! You are a magician!
I would love to see you like a year later check in with the people whose hair you've detangled! But I'm sure that can be really discouraging for you knowing you spent days and dozens of hours only for them to immediately give up again and a year later they're back just as bad as they were before you detangled them to begin with. But I'm sure there are just as many people who go on to be so much happier and successful and don't end up in this position again and I would love to hear from those people as well!
Huh?🤔
Do you understand how people end up that way though? Sounds like you don't.🤔
@@politereminder6284 what do you mean? People end up like that for a variety of reasons. Some because of mental health issues, some because of physical health issues, some because they ended up homeless. I don't understand what you're saying? You wouldn't be interested in seeing an update because you assume they all just immediately went back to not taking care of their hair again? I doubt that's true.
Wow! Her hair looks amazing. You did an amazing job❤
This is so cute and wholesome 💗 and funny-- I kept giggling throughout. I love all of you! She's so cute and her hair is so long and beautiful!