Theory of a Deadman - Not Meant To Be [OFFICIAL VIDEO]
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- Опубликовано: 6 дек 2009
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LYRICS
It's never enough to say I'm sorry
It's never enough to say I care
But I'm caught between what you wanted from me
And knowing that if I give that to you
I might just disappear
Nobody wins when everyone's losing
It's like one step forward and two steps back
No matter what I do you're always mad
And I, I can't change your mind
I know it's like trying to turn around on a one way street
I can't give you what you want
And it's killing me
And I, I'm starting to see
Maybe we're not meant to be
It's never enough to say I love you
No, it's never enough to say I try
It's hard to believe
That's theres no way out for you and me
And it seems to be the story of our lives
Nobody wins when everyone's losing
There's still time to turn this around
You could be building this up instead of tearing it down
But I keep thinking
Maybe it's too late
It's like one step forward and two steps back
No matter what I do you're always mad
And I, baby I'm sorry to see
Maybe we're not meant to be 
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"I can't give you what you want and it's killin me...." That is such a knife to the heart feeling.
You’re telling me…happy for my ex in a sense she seems happy now but damn on my end knowing I couldn’t quite give her what I hope to still kills me
Yup
Well, maybe y’all weren’t meant to beeeeeee 😂
This hit different “No Matter What I Do, and you’re always Mad”. 🥺 Hit like of you can relate too.
My younger brother committed suicide last weekend by overdosing on something. He was found with headphones on, presumably listening to something. This is his youtube account. He made a playlist containing 6 songs that was edited the day he passed. This is one of the 6 songs. With the method he used, he was dead after about 30 minutes, probably unconscious around 12 minutes. I like to think that it was peaceful for him with his music on. I love you Myles, I'll miss you everyday for the rest of my life.
Sorry for your loss
So very for your loss
I'm so sorry for your loss! It says this was posted a year ago, but I wanted to reach out anyway. They say " time heals everything" but I find that to be untrue... time just makes it easier to cope, because you have time to find out the different ways to make it easier for you. 1 year later , I know for a fact, is still so hard! My sister passed a couple years ago, my mother passed this June, and it's been a tough road, so I know how you feel. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here
So sorry 4 ur loss as well as the intense pain ur brother must have felt. God bless you!! 🙌
Sorry for your loss buddy. I lost my cousin to suicide in 2005. Still tears me up inside
Can we all just agree that Theory of a Deadman is one of the most underrated rock bands? However, they had beautiful songs, and this is my favorite
Yes this Rock band is truely heavily underrated like many other modern Rock bands of the 2000's
I only discovered them by pure luck, because I found out that a girl who I liked back then listened to this band (she mentioned them in her Twitter profile), that's how I discovered this band in the first place. So I consider myself very lucky to even discover this band that way... or else I would never have found them at all...
I still listen to their songs in 2022, more than 15 years later... and will always continue to do so in the future... this band influienced my young adulthood life, together with many other Rock and Metal bands from the 2000's era.
TOAD is a good mix of some Southern Rock/Country, Hard Rock, modern Alternative Rock with Post-Grunge and heavy emotional feelings.
I'd agree with that
Ur do right this band is very underatted. I love this band n this song
Can we all agree that Theory of a Deadman is a knockoff Nickelback lol
@@dixie351Better than Nickelback and not unapproachable like Chad Koregar is
Nothing like a song about the final stage of grief.
Don't matter what people say, the alternative rock and post-grunge ballads are truly amazing songs, dispite of the intention of selling. And this song is one or the greatest rock ballads I ever heard. I think this is the best song of Theory of a Deadman
Reminds me when I was in love with my best girlfriend. I give her everything, but she never pay attention to me. This song reminds me so much of her. And even we still been friends and I have a new love still crying to this song.
So true though! They always hit the hardest!
Mine to songs like this can be of help too if you know what I mean.
"But I'm caught between what you're wanting from me, knowing that if I give that up I might just disappear" I feel this.
This song helped me out so much last year, went through a bad break up. Still helping me this year. It's an awesome song. Means a lot
don't it hurt like hell when you realize something that you desire so much is "not meant to be?" but hell.. who doesn't like a good kick in the teeth every now and again? next....
+Mason Free I know that feel friend... but sometimes, even we are wrong about what we really want... I've been through a lot of shit with my ex, after 3 months I can see that it was for the best... even though it was like ripping my heart out when she left.
+Shayroth J. thanks bro! give Roger Allen Wade's "I survived" and every time I touch you" a listen its well worth the time.. you'll understand those songs an they say it much better than I can. enjoy and thanks again. keep strong brother...
+Mason Free Nothing like getting the boot on deployment.. But what ya gonna do from 3K away .. what the hell ..lol
+Darren Anderson
dude that's hard to hear.. sorry bro.. no respect.. I for one respect what you all do.. I am in the local guard ;) still as a man of service myself I know you are strong.. survivors eye of the tiger should do then on to Bob segers "like a rock" for you my friend.. give them a listen and get on the hunt..lol.. wish you well bro.. rock strong always....
+Darren Anderson ... I have many friends in the military. I'd kick the ass's of any of the girls who pulled that kind of shit on deployment... be safe...you deserve better then that.. amazing how and when you get to see the true colors of people
Nobody wins when everyone's losing
Bruney Melo o
Damn your not lieing
Does everyone win when no one is losing ?
@@littlebill9468 no, because winning is succeeding in life, (whatever success means to you), when everyone is losing(not succeeding) it’s not gonna make you win, you are just gonna all be losing together. It might give you a little sense of comfort but won’t make you succeed
THIS SONG REMINDS ME OF HOW HARD SOME RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE EVEN WHEN SOMETIMES
THEY SEEM EASY, IN THE END WE ALL HAVE OUR
UP'S AND DOWNS THAT'S WHAT MAKES IS HUMAN.
So agree with this song
@@mildredjancia2626 I did
Kainpowell
This song came out when my marriage was falling apart. I'd ball my eyes out everytime I heard it but I loved it! I can now listen to it without any tears, thank god! I absolutely love this band. Great in concert too! Huge crush on Tyler!!!
am I the only one who's here because this is a good song overall?
I was just thinking you could reword this a little and apply it to Donald Trump.
great song!
Wicasa Wakan dont bring trump to this every comment section I go to people are dissing trump when personaly I think he is a good president and if you want to dis him go to a political channal to wine all you want
athiestanime jesus fucking tard
go watch Nickelback videos. holy shit
I hate how a random song on your 1000 songs playlist that you've heard a hundred times suddenly means something.
This is one of them.
P
Says everything I mean to say. Now we're never gonna be .
Wish I said wat I ment!
I thought it private
Who's up
This song is for anyone who's going through HELL NO MATEER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE SOMEONE
So true
Ur so right Andy . N a hopeless n lovless Marriage. My wife is bipolar which she did tell me till after we got married n my daughter's a altizm child which I love with all my heart that's the only reason I'm still there
2024 and this song still slaps ❤
It's funny how I listen to all these songs from my childhood, and now that I'm an adult, they resonate so much more.
Tyler Connolly, please keep giving the band the recognition they deserve! You have an amazing voice but also a heavy accent so give you're band members the airtime they deserve. You guys are great so keep doing what you are doing. Theory of a dead man is a band that deserves more recognition!
Cant believe im still listening in 2021.... Ive been your fan since 11 years ago !! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I just found this song again as im going through a hard break up im so glad theres always a song to help me through life
Since this song came out?
When did they started??
@@rickymartinez8848 1999,you got a lot of music to catch up on
@@johnniesoesbee7015 you're mad dumb read my comment again
@@johnniesoesbee7015 she said ive been a fan since 11 years ago so i said she been a fan since this song came out?
Then i asked when did the band started
Anyone here in 2024❤
Yeah I am May 2024🎉
Unfortunately... 10 yr relationship ended...life has chosen a different path apparently...✌️❤️
Me ❤😌😏🤘🖤
Tired of seeing these dam comments
Me 🤟🏻
These guys write some really great songs gotta say!
Kara Diogaurdi wrote this song
Yes, Kara and the lead singer from this band. They co wrote it. together.. That's Kara in the video.
I really like this video. I think the old saying "music can speak to you" really applies here. At it's core, the song is about acceptance, which can be a hard thing to grasp. I especially like how, at the beginning, they appear to be fighting in the house, whereas near the end, they're hugging. When I saw the window curtains rise up, it reminded me of bed sheets and the comfort they can bring, which I felt symbolized the comfort one finds in acceptance.
Aside from that, I love the song. I rate them both a 9/10, but that's my personal taste/opinion.
Exactly... When u can accept those 4 dreaded words "not meant to be" you'll go far in life. Guaranteed.
I’ve seen u before
This song is by far 1 of the most underrated songs out there, no doubt.
This is such a great song and hits home for me. Got me through some hard times and I found a reason to still love this song even though bad memories are connected to it.
same here!!!! my 1st concert single after my divorce and this song was it!!!!!
7 years of giving everything I had, only to be told it wasn't enough.
Why can't I be enough to be loved as I am?
🖤
I know. I'm with you. I cant understand why I'm so worthless sometimes. Even if that is not true, my perception rules my reality.
People(mostly girls) do not value men, their hearts, or relationships once the butterflies ware off and hypergamy takes over their egos. Then we are left in the dirt. Trash blowing in the wind.
always wondered why many talented bands that make good music are always underrated.. So unfair.......
WahidunSiji well because if they were over rated, it wouldn't be as good. All the over rated bands don't seem to relate to the people who listen to them. So I'm glad that most of the bands I listen to aren't very popular
You got to be kidding. In high school this stupid overrated song came on the radio like at least 8 times a day.
WahidunSiji these guys should be up there with Fall Out Boy
Simply put they don’t have the household name! Bullshit if you ask me
19 million views is underrated, okay.
Can't believe in 13 years I've never heard this song. Great tune!
Anyone back in 2020 for this beauty😭
your channel name along with pfp is just horrible
No not back...I never left.
2021 baby
@@ofuhowaito3390 lol fr
2021 Here.
2021 lol
just ended my relationship and now I see her with a new man so fuck life music's all I need
True fuck relationships...
+Makenna Young glad to know I'm not alone tonight
That life bro
our world is cursed my mate...
+bennie terlaak We got this man I did the same thing
I went through 3 days of hell, trying to figure out the band name and the name of the song but now I know. I was like I know it starts with a th...so maybe its 3 something. I kept seeing 3 doors down and 3 day grace and I'm like close but nope...then I went to list of Canadian bands and scanned until something looked familiar and here I am. WORTH IT! Memories T_T
Enjoy! One of the most underrated bands of all time in my opinion.
+Brandon Smith These guys are great live. Seen em twice. I like how they can do stuff like this or faster paced songs like bitch came back.
+Robert Burns yeah I saw them for the second time last Friday. They are fuckin awesome
just google the lyrics you remember next time. use quotations for better results :)
+Rai Shauna Martin How did you get the idea to look up Canadian bands?
“Nobody wins when everyone’s losing” thats 2020 lmao
Shekhar Tiwari Legit Lol
this comment aged well, even from a month ago
Yeah. 2020. Will be a historical year. Especially for me. Garbage!
True that.
Not funny yet it is true
“Nobody wins when everyones losing” is the most complicated sentence ever.
this song matches my last relationship perfectly. she was an emotional vampire no matter what I did it wasn't good enough for her. there was always something she wanted from me that i couldn't give to her. whenever she texts me I out this song on to remind myself not to respond
One of my all time favorite songs. Brings me back to a great time in my life.
I felt this in my soul.
I’m still listening to this and loving it so many years later. This is my favorite band from my college days.
i remember ending my 4 year relationship, I was devastated. but now I realize we aren't meant to be.
I'm in the same boat. I ended my 4 and a half year relationship a year ago. It was painful and still is, but we were just not meant to be.
+
zelair
+Isabel Cabrera I can feel your pain
Pussys xd man they're just girls or boys depends on gender think of it dis way for every asshole there at least 1mill more who are interested just have to put name out
It's been years since I've heard this song... I need to start listening to ToD again.
It's really been years now
These songs will never get old...this holds back a timeline that was more valueable than anything in this world...im so proud that i belong that from era where songs like these were made....
Me too buddy, me too, we need more good music like this today
@@ghrvjdev unfortunately those days are gone...😢😢😢
This song makes me smile, and cry, and to want ,and to reject.
11 years into my marriage and this song has more and more meaning. It also reminds me of my first love. Probably because that's his brother playing guitar in the background.
this song brings back the sweetest memories and a river of tears...
I’m in this situation now. It’s hard to be with some who won’t see wrong in what they are doing. Looking me in the eye and have no conscience
Bro, same situation.
Just went and saw them in concert and they were amazing brought back so many old memories
11 years old still a banger
My life, it's too short, to live like this
Ive been on lithium since 1998 and your music makes me smile....
I forgot how much I love this song!! Brings back memories, and I would love to see them in concert again.
To be honest, this band is what got me through my trip to a mental ward. I'm crying because I never knew who I was hearing during my music block, but now I've found my saviors
have not listen to this since i was 11 im 17 now and i now see a totally different meaning to this.
+Shawn Crawford Ikr
+Shawn Crawford Wait until your 30+ and had a divorce....
+KarPoS “Kevin S.” more like go through ur first break up when she leaves you lol
+KarPoS “Kevin S.” Ohhh yes indeed! Truth.
Bro same
*28 million views and 14 years and still a favorite!*
It hurts to have the words to this song be so true. I've been married 17 years and can't ever make this man happy, gave him 5 kids, run his whole business, the house, all the kids school stuff, he's never woken up with a single kid in the night and yet there is nothing I can do right. He's always mad and I can't ever make him happy and it really is killing me. This song feels written for me.
I have that kind too its hard to be happy
I feel the same.
I love this song. Its perfect for what im going through right now.
I know the feeling.. 3 years now for me.. still going through it..
My ex fiance has mental disorders that are all perspective based and this song sums up the reasons I had to finally leave her. It hurt because I know they were not her fault and she couldn't help it, but I just couldn't please her because of how her mind worked. Its been three years and I still cry when I hear this song. I really am sorry, Maggie, but it was just too much.
So sad. Sometimes there’s not much you can do. I’m sorry.
I felt this on a whole other level
same, mine had BPD and none of my actions could please her, the way to be together for her was too demanding and dependant for me so we decided to split
Maggie will never see this
2019 and here I am again.
After all these years this still good song
This song has such a deep meaning to me.
i have yet to find a theory a deadman song i dont like
Same here!!
It's an impossible task.
Matt obviously you haven't heard their new song
I'm just addicted to this song lol
Nice... 8 years later i'm back to this song... but at least now i know that this feeling is not here to stay.
Stay strong out there its only temporary!
Man, i feel this song to the core, i cant believe someone else will feel how i feel to the tee.
this song never gets old!
I know😃.
I've had a realtionship that ended exactly like this
This song always reminds me of a boyfriend who eventually succumbed to his drug addiction. Miss him dearly 🖤❤️
I love the drummers energy and style and attitude, that's unusual for me
I was suffering from major anxiety disorder from past 1 year. This song always kept me going.❤
One of my favorite songs. His voice is amazing singing this.
The harmony at 0:55! 1:08! So awesome to hear that tone!!!!
This song hits hard now
This is the real meaning of music. Lyrics are meaningful and the band is perfect. Thank you for making my childhood great back in the days and greetings from adulthood life, respect.
Remember hearing this as a 13 year old just enjoying the music..here we are now listening as an adult able to understand the lyrics.. Man how times change. Theory Of A Deadman was one of the reasons I got into alternative rock music before pop completely took over the radio
Finally getting to see them in concert after like 7years. Can’t wait. Like every song they have is awesome
How is this 10 years old already?!
All their songs are kickass and always will be
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2019 still can't over this song
Anyone can interpret this song and compare it to a relationship, but I resonate with it because it reminds me of the Toxic relationship I have with my Mother. I’ve spent all my life trying to please her but I’m never enough for her. I’m turning 24 soon and I believe it’s time to do something for myself , I will always be thankful for having a mother but i wish she would understand that i was meant for so much more than what she thinks of me.
Im convinced that Theory of a deadman doesn't have a bad song
huh
that double neck for 4 frets though 😂
Pure Genius.....love the retort
4 shouldnt fret 😂
for realll
I am the kind of dude that listens to almost all type of songs, and I gotta say that Theory has really nice songs!
It's never enough to say I'm sorry
It's never enough to say I care
But I'm caught between what you wanted from me
And knowing if I give that to ya I might just disappear
Nobody wins when everyone's losing
It's like one step forward and two steps back
No matter what I do you're always mad, and I, I can't change your mind
It's like trying to turn around on a one-way street
I can't give you what you want and it's killing me
And I, I'm starting to see
Maybe we're not meant to be
It's never enough to say "I love you"
No, it's never enough to say I try
It's hard to believe that there's no way out for you and me
It seems to be the story of our life
Nobody wins when everyone's losing
It's like one step forward and two steps back
No matter what I do you're always mad, and I, I can't change your mind
It's like trying to turn around on a one way street
I can't give you what you want and it's killing me
And I, I'm starting to see
Maybe we're not meant to be
There's still time to turn this around
Should we be building this up instead of tearing it down?
But I keep thinking maybe it's too late
It's like one step forward and two steps back
No matter what I do you're always mad, and I, I can't change your mind
It's like trying to turn around on a one-way street
I can't give you what you want and it's killing me
And I, I finally see
Baby we're not meant to be
It's like one step forward and two steps back
No matter what I do you're always mad, and I
Baby I'm sorry to see
Maybe we're not meant to be
Thank you ❤️ 😊
❤😢
I love these guys! I hung out with them at a concert a while back. I love Tyler. So now it's getting me thru a 20 yr marriage that's broken.
This song was amazing! Brings me back to my high school days waking up early and seeing this video on mtv and vh1 everyday
I haven't listened to this song since 2008 when I was 10 years old. I can't wait to see them live in Calgary! This band is such a big part of my childhood.
just saw them in Bangor Maine last night, he dont have that raspy part of his voice anymore, but it was well done.
That soprano on "And I" is everything 🔥🔥🔥
Been bumping and loving this bang ever since i was in the back of my moms car as a kid, This shit hits the heart
I love this song.
This is how my current realtionship is. I can't make up my mind if I want to try and work it out or leave her.
Leave her before she do the same to you
One of the best rock songs of all time.
It’s taken me 18 years to see it ain’t meant to be. The best thing out of it is a beautiful son that gives me a reason to keep pushing forward.
Keep pushing brother. ❤💯💯💯
This song is so underrated! It brings me way back💜 my heart is forever is in 2009
I loved seeing them in concert when this album came out! Theory and Hinder opened up for Motley Crue and Theory was the best show of the night! They truly are an amazing musicians!
I don’t always listen to TOAD but when I do, my neighbors do too! 2024! ✌🏻
Jumping back a couple decades here, but this just brought back a hell of a lot of memories. I forgot about you guys even though I bounced one of your concerts in VA.
After all these years, this is still my favorite song from these guys!
Kainpowell nad theory baed man
When I was in high school I loved this song. My fiancé left me a week ago and somehow I stumbled across this song and this shit means so much more. The crazy thing is I relate to every word 100% i really am starting to see that it's no one's fault there's just too much going on that showed me maybe really not meant to be.
Dedicated this to my ex husband when we were married.
We divorced, he died.
Hits home for so many reasons.
Sorry about the divorce but at least you have a grave to laugh at
@@wandaburgett5869 what’s wrong with u
I'm sorry.. you never got to save what you had. Going through This right now. That's my biggest fear.. not getting to save it before there is no chance because one of us is no longer living!
I could listen to this song over and over
Same. I was in the 8th grade listing to this in 2009 ,I try to come back at least once a day just for the feels. Incredible song
one song I can never forget
Hello, my dream is to be a singer, I have some covers on my channel I know is a lot to ask but could you please check it out? Please help me to come true my dream, I’ll be grateful
Amazing SOOOOONNNGGGGGH!!!!!!!!!!!
It is
I sang ur comment
It is my moms fav lol
Yes it is
Hell right!👏👏❣💯
Learned the hard way people should be held accountable for abusive behaviors and narcissism. There is no point in begging them for anything.
Go from hoziers cherry wine to this song hits home thank you yt suggestions