I Bought A House in the Forest - But I Have Doubts

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  • Опубликовано: 14 июн 2024
  • I bought my very own house! It should be a moment of pure happiness, especially since it's by a lake, and the property has several buildings, including a barn.
    However, buying this house has also given me a lot of anxiety and a bad conscience. You see, there's a family living there right now, who can't afford to stay.
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  • @kstari
    @kstari 29 дней назад +124

    I haven't read any comments yet but this is what I think. If you want the house, buy it. You are not pushing them out and they know that. The reason for them having to sell has nothing to do with you. And, if I was in that situation of having to sell my house for that reason, I'd love for it to go to someone like you! There are plenty of people out there that will buy a house and never make it a home. The house will be happy with you.

    • @ingridmargaretha2947
      @ingridmargaretha2947 28 дней назад +6

      Agree 🤍

    • @taniahawken7585
      @taniahawken7585 26 дней назад +5

      I agree too
      Be happy and enjoy your new home.

    • @ankedekleine5201
      @ankedekleine5201 25 дней назад +2

      Maybe explain this to the owners. And then buy it en be happy!

    • @carole3680
      @carole3680 10 дней назад

      @@kstari that reads like the Scandinavian way!

    • @kstari
      @kstari 10 дней назад

      @@carole3680 ♥

  • @jonnajinton
    @jonnajinton 29 дней назад +92

    You have such a big heart ❤
    Congratulations on your new house!! A new chapter in life!!
    I am so excited for you! 🥰

    • @DanielErik
      @DanielErik  29 дней назад +15

      Thank you so much, Jonna! Definitely feels like a new chapter! ❤️

    • @emmaengstrom4969
      @emmaengstrom4969 26 дней назад +4

      Kanske är det faktiskt så att du hjälper familjen som tvingats sälja sitt hus, att starta upp något nytt och hållbart som dom kan må bra av på sikt? ❤ vi vet ju inte allt…. Så känn ingen skuld, nu var det dags för dig att få ett eget hus. Önskar dig all lycka till och är nyfiken på att få se huset längre fram. 😊

    • @user-tu4jg3ef3h
      @user-tu4jg3ef3h 24 дня назад +1

      Пригласи на новоселье Йонну😊

  • @gabriellewilder501
    @gabriellewilder501 29 дней назад +53

    I love how sensitive and caring you are. Instead of sadness and quilt, send the poor family who lost the house as much love as you can. Light is love and love is everything. We are all one. Help them by sending them loving thoughts in the form of golden light.

  • @cares3262
    @cares3262 29 дней назад +60

    You already answered your question. Buy it... If... it's the house you can comfortably call home and it's perfect for you and your lifestyle. You're not the cause of their debt, you are helping them get out of debt and they can move forward to a new start. Now that you bought it, start putting into it the positive energy it needs and that you need. The home now needs love, good energy and your good soul. Enjoy the new moments.

    • @user-tu4jg3ef3h
      @user-tu4jg3ef3h 24 дня назад

      Лучше и не скажешь, полностью поддерживаю❤

  • @TheRamblingsofBry
    @TheRamblingsofBry 29 дней назад +21

    If you don't buy it, someone else will, so it might as well be you. SMILE, be proud of your own home, well done!!!!!!! Don't move in full of guilt and negativity, you did not create this situation, they did. You have actually helped them. Let it go, be happy, look forward not backwards!!!!

  • @XanBos
    @XanBos 29 дней назад +32

    The bottom line is, the family in that home will lose the home regardless if you buy it or someone else buys it. You did not put the family in this position, it was done by themselves, and is not your fault. If you love the house, buy it. If it helps them get out of debt, then you have done a good thing, not a bad thing.
    Try not to make this your problem, but rather you are the solution. The family may be able to afford a smaller place to live, as well as pay off the debt. So really, you are helping, not hurting them by purchasing the house.
    I hope the best for you in your home, and try not to dwell on the family, but rather your future with your place. ❤❤

    • @jokevanduijvenbode3760
      @jokevanduijvenbode3760 29 дней назад +4

      Exactly this, go for it Daniel Erik ❤

    • @agnesskibicka
      @agnesskibicka 28 дней назад +1

      ​@@jokevanduijvenbode3760yes! Hello 👋 from Poland 🇵🇱 and my rural life - channel 😊

    • @user-tu4jg3ef3h
      @user-tu4jg3ef3h 28 дней назад

      Самый мудрый комментарий, вы абсолютно правы!❤

  • @Serenitees
    @Serenitees 27 дней назад +10

    Daniel, you are not forcing them out of their home. They are responsible for their situation. I know you feel bad for them but you can't fix their situation. Let your desires be your guide and just wish that family the best. We are all exactly where we are supposed to be. The best thing you can do to help them was to pay for their home and help them resolve their debts.

  • @feyspirit2422
    @feyspirit2422 24 дня назад +5

    You might actually be freeing the family. They are stuck in an impossible situation. You may be allowing them to have a new start with out the burden they have been struggling under. I think you are making the right choice.

  • @user-cm7dh7oi9o
    @user-cm7dh7oi9o 27 дней назад +5

    Dear Daniel, congrats to your house! As everyone is writing here I also think you did the right choise. Do not feel any regrets. You are so kind and has a big heart, remember that❤️ Lots of love to you❤ / Lisa

  • @lhlexenaltar3598
    @lhlexenaltar3598 28 дней назад +9

    Dear Daniel! You made the right choice. Don't judge yourself and create negative thoughts. To be honest, I’m not sure that living in such a wilderness would be good for those children, they need to play and communicate with their peers. Such remote farms are only good for hermits, those who have already formed and have a rich inner world. Start enjoying the world around you, control your thoughts, turn off the negativity. Everything will be fine! 🐸

  • @12snapper43
    @12snapper43 24 дня назад +3

    That you have misgivings about buying this house speaks a lot about your morals. You are kind the world needs more of you.

  • @dr.kerstinjoost
    @dr.kerstinjoost 29 дней назад +11

    I totally understand your feelings. Being 63 and gaving experienced various challenges myself I know for sure, that every change brings huge possibilities for groth. Just imagine the family looking back in 10 years and thinking: "Wow that was an important turning point in our lifes. We are grateful." It is possible!

    • @DanielErik
      @DanielErik  29 дней назад +7

      I truly hope that's how it will be like! 💕

  • @NorthStarPNW
    @NorthStarPNW 18 дней назад +3

    Obviously, BUY IT. Help them out by paying a fair price, and possibly allow them to stay a month or two while they relocate. If you wish, you could also help them with relocation expenses, buy (overpay for) any excess furniture, maybe provide some savings bonds or gift cards for the kids, look for other, creative ways to ease their transition.

  • @bergannon6585
    @bergannon6585 29 дней назад +31

    Dear Daniel, I am a 66 yr old woman, who in my late 20's was in the position of losing my home. This was happening due to my marriage breakup. The bank treatened to take back our home and leave myself and my 2 small children homeless. I met with the financial manager and explainef to him that I would sell the house and pay back the full mortgage. They agreed to wait. I was able to pay them back and buy a cheaper home in a differant county.
    I know I was blessed by having a caring and understanding bank manager.
    I now live in a beautiful bungalow with an acre garden, surrounded by trees.
    No one can answer this question for you. It has to sit well with your conscience.
    I wish you well with your final decision. Love from Ireland.

    • @dragonbry67
      @dragonbry67 29 дней назад +2

      Yeah, not being mean here, we all have life issues, but understand that it's not the bank's fault that you chose divorce and its consequences, even though that may have been your RIGHT choice. But the bank uses the rest of our deposits to lend to you. If you don't repay, that gets revisited on all of us. So the bank isn't the bad guy, and this isn't a moral issue. Your choice leads to forfeiting a home and you(and your kids) having to move. Just need to accept that fact and be prepared to deal with it. It should not be made someone else's burden to deal with.

    • @Cill441
      @Cill441 27 дней назад

      I'm so pleased to have read this story. No one wants to think of children homeless nor put out under any circumstances. I'm glad to have read yours. Thank you😊💛

  • @anitahalbheer7841
    @anitahalbheer7841 29 дней назад +8

    Du hast das richtige getan die Familie kann jetzt ihre schulden zahlen und neui anfangen und du Hast jetzt ein Haus wo du Glücklich werden kannst ❤🎉❤🎉❤

  • @Adri-oj3yt
    @Adri-oj3yt 23 дня назад +1

    Congratulations, dearest Daniel, with your own house. May you be so blessed and happy there. We all love you and wish you to be happy and content. You are a kind, sweet, and wonderfully caring human being ❤.

  • @yotesfan
    @yotesfan 29 дней назад +6

    I hope you see this and really hear what I say. You are not doing anything to them, they did to them. You never know what positive will come out of this. I was laid off from a job 6 years ago and i was devastated, I thought I would never be happy again and how dare they screw up my life. That layoff what the best thing that has ever happened in my life. It pushed me to be better and see what else is out there. Now, I have the best job I have ever had while also being the most financially secure in my life, and I owe it to being laid off.

  • @TrinaSommer
    @TrinaSommer 29 дней назад +9

    Daniel you are so empathetic, true Scandinavian. It is so sad for the family, but maybe keep in mind that now they somehow can move forward too ❤ it is not your fault at all. This family will be able to prosper more now. You really, honestly, have taken a huge burden off of their shoulders now. Maybe they might appreciate it and find solace now ❤❤
    Du er så fantastisk, så søt and so empathetic.
    Munch love from a fellow scandinavian who gets it. ❤❤

  • @gabygausmann5572
    @gabygausmann5572 26 дней назад +1

    dear Daniel, the family who lived in this house has to change its life now. It is their destination to leave this house.
    It was such a luck that you got aware of these circumstances.. and I am sure that it was the right decision that you've bought it!!!! You already dreamed of your own house a long time before.So now you can just be lucky with this❤
    I hope so much that you have now a peaceful new homeplace of your own and I also hope that with this house your next winter will be easier to live with .... but now let's enjoy summertime....❤

  • @GA-lx6ib
    @GA-lx6ib 22 дня назад +1

    Daniel, words have power. May this home for you be peaceful and joyful. May this family find a home that is peaceful and joyful. May all involved in this experience be free, safe, healed, whole, and at peace. You have the power, with your words, to uplift this family. All good things to you my friend, and to the family that is relocating. Jag älskar dig min vän.

  • @barbmcculloch7010
    @barbmcculloch7010 29 дней назад +4

    You are so sweet and caring. It's hard not to feel guilty. But don't. You freed them from soul crushing debt. They now have a new start too.
    Enjoy your new home. 💗

  • @Chanett-Edden
    @Chanett-Edden 25 дней назад +1

    Oh, Daniel Erik, you look so lost. I want to hug you and tell you that everything is ok. You truly have a big heart. You don´t have to excuse that you bought the house. We all have our path in life, also this family you bought the house from. Please, enjoy your new home. Put all the love into it. You deserve it so much. All love, Chanett

    • @DanielErik
      @DanielErik  25 дней назад

      Thank you, Chanett! 💕

  • @AniaBumba
    @AniaBumba 25 дней назад +10

    Dear Daniel, you are feeling the stress and the sadness of the poor family because you are a super empath and a highly sensitive person. You already know that they will be it this situation regardless of what you do. So be compassionate towards others as that is a beautiful quality to have but also be kind to yourself and allow yourself to celebrate such an achievement as buying your own house! Those two things can exist at the same time. Allow yourself to he happy. Congratulations, Daniel Eric. I wish you a lot of joy in your new home.

    • @DanielErik
      @DanielErik  25 дней назад +5

      Thank you! I'm allowing the excitement to come through, a little bit more for everyday! ☺️

  • @ingping2002
    @ingping2002 29 дней назад +18

    I understand how that would make you feel as your are a very empathic soul..If the house will have to sell anyway, I'm sure they would rather it went to someone like yourself who cares about their predicament and will take good care of it rather than in a potentially worse situation.. but you need to feel comfortable with your decision and don't want to live in it feeling guilty.. ask the Universe for guidance for an outcome which benefits all concerned.. If you choose to purchase, do it with confidence and excitement.

  • @mariannepinto9236
    @mariannepinto9236 25 дней назад +2

    Daniel I feel alot for you as you are feeling a lot for that family! You are doing nothing wrong. You are helping them and who knows this may be a very good move for them and their children. You are helping them at buying it at a higher price. You are kind, loving and considerate. You are the perfect person to be buying their house. It is just as important who buys the house and who you are buying it from. Be happy, blessed and grateful! You deserve it and all will be well! So proud of you going forward with this decision! You made it and now enjoy it!

  • @patriciadavison1486
    @patriciadavison1486 29 дней назад +7

    Daniel, You are a HSP and an empath. All things happen at the right time and for a reason. Maybe it is time for the house to have Light and Hope and positive energy given back to it. Maybe it is your time to move forward. The Universal energy will guide you. The family, whom your heart goes out to, maybe also have reached a crossroads in their lives and this move will push them forward to better things. Just enjoy what is being shown and given to you my friend. Sending Love and Light to you and just move with the energy forces whilst you adjust to your new journey. With Love, From PD in the U.K . XXX

  • @Freedom2Roam.
    @Freedom2Roam. 29 дней назад +9

    Dear Daniel, I have watched your videos for a while now and I see a pure soul finding Its way in life.
    You are so kind and thoughtful, very empathetic.
    I too am like you and can turn myself into a pretzel overthinking things and worrying.
    You are very lucky to have your own home now , it’s so much harder to have this in other countries especially here in the UK where everything is so expensive.
    Cherish your freedom in the North and much love to you 🙏

    • @DanielErik
      @DanielErik  29 дней назад +10

      So many nice compliments! Thank you! 🥰 Since recording all of this, I do believe I'm starting to let my guilt go a little bit, and hopefully I can fully enjoy my new home! ☺️

    • @jokevanduijvenbode3760
      @jokevanduijvenbode3760 29 дней назад +1

      ​@@DanielErikCongratulations 🎉🎉🎉

    • @Freedom2Roam.
      @Freedom2Roam. 29 дней назад +2

      @@DanielErik The house has probably had sadness and worry energy so you can cleanse it with positivity and love , lots of plants, crystals and loving energy. It will love you back for many years to come.

  • @Adri-oj3yt
    @Adri-oj3yt 23 дня назад +1

    Please buy it. It will really help that family to pay their debts. You don’t have to feel bad or guilty, nor should you put that burden of worry in your shoulders. You’ll be doing a good deed in buying it.❤

  • @Kit_Barry
    @Kit_Barry 5 дней назад

    I think it’s better for you to be the one to buy it because you are kind and will treat the house with love as they once did. They are going to have to move anyway so it’s better that it’s someone like you who will cherish the house instead of someone who might tear it down just to use the land.
    I’m happy you made the decision to buy it! Congrats

  • @germainelowpt7206
    @germainelowpt7206 28 дней назад +2

    I don't feel like you are the bad guy if you decide to buy the house. In a way smaller case, I had to sell something at quite a low price because I needed the money and I never ever felt any ounce of guilt toward the person.
    I'm editing this comment because, like someone said, at least, the family know that the house will be loved and taken care of. You won't destroy it, destroy the garden and all. Your kindness and respect is probably helping them more than you realise. I find you caring so much for them really touching

    • @DanielErik
      @DanielErik  28 дней назад +1

      Thank you for saying that! 💕

    • @germainelowpt7206
      @germainelowpt7206 28 дней назад +1

      @@DanielErik I hope it help a bit. You really are a sweet person

  • @Kim-J312
    @Kim-J312 25 дней назад +2

    The family got themselves into their current position, you did not. If you dont buy it , someone else will . Dont feel like youve done anything wrong. You just happened to know the owners problems / history. If you knew nothing about this family's finances, you would buy this house
    Dont get yourself entangled in someone elses problems !!! ❤😊 good luck buy it

  • @torrerobb2238
    @torrerobb2238 29 дней назад +1

    Good luck Daniel with your new purchase, You have no responsability for this family, your purchase will help them move forward without debt. You need to stop thinking negatively now, you have made the decision and now you need to plan ahead for you.
    Robb Torremolinos Spain xxx

    • @DanielErik
      @DanielErik  29 дней назад +1

      Thank you, Robb! 🥰

  • @irena226li
    @irena226li 29 дней назад +3

    New home ! Happy for you !!!
    Trust Universe ,everyone gets what he deserves.
    You deserved your one place (and bathroom:),
    And very luckily , the family needs changes and something very good is already prepared for these people in a future !
    We all need changes ,and sometimes hard times leads us to the good times

  • @rrichardson53
    @rrichardson53 29 дней назад +2

    Congrats 🎉on the purchase of your very own house. Stop feeling guilty about the family that could no longer make the payments … not your fault. I can’t wait to see your new place! It sounds awesome 🤩

  • @MeliBeBrave
    @MeliBeBrave 20 дней назад

    you have a beautiful caring soul. You mustn't feel like you're taking anything from them. You have bought it fairly and this is also a new chapter for that family. Congratulations on your new home 🎉

  • @user-gm2vl9gc5z
    @user-gm2vl9gc5z 27 дней назад

    Я очень рада , Дэниел , что ты купил Свой Дом !!! Поздравляю от души ! Твоя мечта осуществилась , теперь тебе жить да радоваться в своём пространстве , Творить и наполнять Мир любовью...! Чувства вины разрушает , можно его просто отпустить , ты не имеешь к этому отношения...

  • @martinbparker
    @martinbparker 29 дней назад +2

    Wow! What an amazing development! Congratulations! Since the circumstances of the sale are heavy on your mind, consider writing a letter to the family promising to keep the home and property thriving and filled with all the love and gratitude they would have wished for themselves had they not lost possession of it in this way. Then . . . on your first night in the home, put the letter into a fire and say a prayer for the well being and prosperity of the family. Hopefully this will help clear your conscience as you lay your head on your pillow to sleep for the first time in your new home. We all look forward to seeing your personal growth, interesting experiences and many magical moments that you’ll share of your new life there! Very excited for you!

  • @inesrasem3308
    @inesrasem3308 27 дней назад

    Dear Daniel, as some others said before, it is not your fault that the family is in this situation. It is certainly not a good time for them, but on the other hand it gives them the chance to start anew, hopefully without debts.
    What I think is important for you when you move in, is to clean the place energetically (for example with white sage) and/or have a ritual that affirms the ongoing change for the house and the former and future inhabitants. In this way, you can have a new, fresh start without thinking back too much.
    I wish you the best for this new chapter and am looking forward to see the house in future videos :-)

  • @Snezhana_ph
    @Snezhana_ph 29 дней назад

    You did the right thing by buying your own house, I congratulate you on buying a new house, and as for worrying about strangers, you know this is life, someone gains and someone loses, when people take on financial responsibility that they cannot cope with, these are their problems that cannot pass on someone else's shoulders in any way and you should not worry about it, On the contrary, rejoice that you will finally live in your home and not depend on your parents, this is your life and only you decide how to live and what to do, taking responsibility for what you do, you are a cool person, happiness and home warmth to you in your own home, as well as creativity.

  • @effimiakitsaki861
    @effimiakitsaki861 29 дней назад

    What I think is that you have a big heart and you've done the right thing. I would feel the same way. Don't feel guilty, it wasn't your fault. I am very happy for you. A new chapter starts! Enjoy it.

  • @artemandalas1305
    @artemandalas1305 29 дней назад

    Dear friend , you are part of the solution, not of the problem.
    You never know....soon the family will be have opportunities .All blessings and keep your sense of belonging and compassion for all the world.🙌🌹🙏Irene

    • @DanielErik
      @DanielErik  29 дней назад +1

      Thank you so much! I really hope that's the case! ❤️

  • @noemirodriguez8413
    @noemirodriguez8413 19 дней назад

    You are taking responsibility for that family, which does not make you a better person. You can choose to see that family big enough and strong enough to deal with their own issues, otherwise you are seeing them small and weak and seeing you bigger and better than them, trying to save them, which is not your role. Destiny is bigger than all of us and we should respect everyone destiny. All the best. Enjoy fully your new place x

  • @tammyhudson8940
    @tammyhudson8940 21 день назад

    Hello Daniel! This is wonderful news, congratulations!! Allow yourself to feel happy about this. You didn't create the problem for these folks, you're actually providing a solution. If it were you in their position, would you blame the buyer? Of course not. It's unfortunate for this family to have their home foreclosed on, but better you buy it now than someone else down the line for much less. Bless your kind soul. Congratulations and much love from Ohio 💜

  • @hannahxunicorn
    @hannahxunicorn 28 дней назад +1

    yo're such a good person with big heart. I think buying the house is a good decision... As you said the people who own the house now will lose it anyway, it's not like they will be able to stay in it if you wouldn't buy it.

  • @kaleidoscopeallie
    @kaleidoscopeallie 28 дней назад

    You can not know what this will mean for that family. All you can do is go on with a pure heart. We all go through difficult times. I've had my share of moments that I wished I never had to face but I wouldn't trade who I've become for getting out of any of it. Let your gratitude and enjoyment of your new home go out like a prayer and may that family also find that this transaction leads them to a place and time where more of their needs can be met.

  • @miamolin
    @miamolin 7 дней назад

    Congratulations Daniel for you'r home! ❤ You have so pure heart ❤ Love the way you are, who you have become. ❤❤❤

  • @Bluebirdhouse
    @Bluebirdhouse 28 дней назад

    I really hope there is indoor plumbing in your new home, Erik. 😊 As a sensitive, you can’t help but feel the pain and loss for this family. You are just trying to survive, and so are they. If not you, someone else would have bought it. Embrace this experience.

  • @betinacarlson1928
    @betinacarlson1928 27 дней назад

    Everything happens for a reason. The struggles of The familiy has now ended becauce you bought The House. And now their new chapture with a new breathe of Air Can begin
    Their new journey Can begin as your new journey Can begin
    Their time has come and it could be good for The family to start a new place ❤❤❤
    Congratulations with your new House ❤🎉

  • @tierrabear10
    @tierrabear10 29 дней назад

    I, for one, am so proud of you Daniel!! 😊 I've been watching you from the beginning and you've struggled and worked hard and DREAMED of your desires the whole time. Stop and appreciate how your prayers have been answered. You deserve this. You've earned it. 🎉🎉 Receive it with gratefulness and a blessing to the people who left and are on their own journey elsewhere. That's how life works.
    You're a beautiful person Daniel. Many blessings in your new home. I look forward to seeing it soon. 🙏✌🌟😘😘😘💕✌🏆

  • @verityearl9812
    @verityearl9812 28 дней назад

    I know how hard it is to be so worried about others, but as so many others have said, you aren't doing anything wrong, and it's okay to buy the house you want. What helps me in situations like this is to remember that you don't know the outcome of any situation. Maybe you buying this house has saved the family from their debt completely. Maybe now is the perfect time for them to find another home that is even better for them. Maybe you are just one part of the universe's plan for everyone to be happier, yourself included. You have a big beautiful heart, and we love that about you. 💜

  • @Vince_uk
    @Vince_uk 29 дней назад +4

    Always go with your instinct and your heart Daniel.

  • @shuttlefish59
    @shuttlefish59 29 дней назад

    You are such a big hearted ❤ guy. You have empathy and are compassionate for the plight of the family. But In reality there is nothing you can do to help them physically. Just send them love and include them in your prayers.
    Congratulations I wish you every happiness in your your new home 😊

  • @sabineschumann4832
    @sabineschumann4832 29 дней назад

    I can understand your doubts so well, but I think you did exactly the right thing buying the house ❤🍀🤗

  • @catarinacarrasco5938
    @catarinacarrasco5938 29 дней назад

    Congratulations on buying your first home 🏡🥰
    I understand your feelings about the family who owned it but think of of this way....by you buying it you are relieving them of the huge burden they were living with and this gives them a chance to start over and be happier.
    It's life... all the best in your new journey 🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️

  • @denizberlin9441
    @denizberlin9441 29 дней назад +2

    i just want to say that i am sorry for the Family thats loosing it’s Home but i am happy for you. My wish here is, please don’t change the Channel into a complete just House focused restoration Channel.

  • @ArtundWeiseTarot
    @ArtundWeiseTarot 29 дней назад

    I feel you. 💛
    I think, to feel other peoples sadness is an important gift... and a difficult thing sometimes.
    The house is just a house. Home is not a place only.. it is also family and freedom inside. Maybe, they will be more free at a new place, where they can start new life💛.. like you do. The best you can do, is loving this house. 🤗

  • @susanneekelund1309
    @susanneekelund1309 29 дней назад

    So happy for Daniel - you will honour this new house/place with your beautiful soul ⭐️☀️💚

    • @DanielErik
      @DanielErik  29 дней назад

      I will try my very best! 💙

  • @karenhutchison12
    @karenhutchison12 23 дня назад

    You are such a beautiful person, they have to leave, you are not forcing them out and you may be also helping them.

  • @karenpayne-du1oc
    @karenpayne-du1oc 25 дней назад

    Please try not to think about the family. As many of the comments have said, you’ve done the right thing & this will actually help them to move on & hopefully pay off their debts. They’ll have a new start as well. Ha the lack of sleep, I think that goes with the territory of buying a place. I’m sure I didn’t sleep well for a month after I bought mine. Hang in there, the sleep will settle soon. Ooh looking forwards to seeing your new home & you making it yours. I can safely say that all your subscribers are excited for you. 🎉💙💛

    • @DanielErik
      @DanielErik  25 дней назад

      Thank you for you sweet comment! I've already started to sleep better! 🥰

  • @greenphoenix687
    @greenphoenix687 29 дней назад

    You're a true empath. Im sorry you are not sleeping and feeling guilty. I feel you just have to see the situation from a different perspective. You have actually helped them out. Now that they will no longer be in debt, there will be a sense of relief and the possibility of a fresh and new beginning without the weight of that debt on them. Look at this new home as a wonderful opportunity to build your own bright future.... infuse that home with love, prosperity and peace... a true prospect of new beginnings for all who have lived and will live there. Sleep well Daniel :)

  • @maebee562
    @maebee562 21 день назад

    If we could all feel such empathy for one another whether we know each other or not, what a truly beautiful world we could have. I hope you never lose this part of your soul. Your lovely. Enjoy this new adventure and send loving thoughts to those who must start a new adventure themselves. And I will help you by doing the same. Peace 🕊️

  • @TiffanyLynn_922
    @TiffanyLynn_922 29 дней назад +2

    Prayers for you Daniel, Everything will work out in the end, also endless happiness❤ You deserve this and it’s okay to feel bad about it. It’s a closed chapter for them and a new beginning for you.

  • @louispaine5307
    @louispaine5307 28 дней назад

    Daniel !!!
    Your ❤ is in the right place in general. This will not change . Sometimes we have to take opportunities in life which don’t always align with other peoples timeline of success. You are on your own journey and own path and it hasn’t been an easy one for you.
    Taking that all into consideration you must go for it ❤

  • @potusol
    @potusol 29 дней назад

    I understand your concerns but please allow yourself the joy of beginning a new chapter in your life. It's sad that the previous owners are in a bad situation but you are potentially helping them get out of debt so they can get a new start from a better position. Removing the gray cloud of debt over their heads could be a blessing. This will be such an exciting time for you and also a lot of work. But this will be work that will be for your benefit and you will be so happy to have your own property. From the aerial view it looks like you will have a lot of privacy and plenty of room for projects to keep you busy. Best wishes from New Mexico!

  • @amyg.333
    @amyg.333 29 дней назад

    Daniel Erik, when I have gone through difficult times, looking back I often see the reason behind it, the lessons learned by all involved. It’s often a blessing in disguise, even if it doesn’t seem like it at the time. The same can be true for this family. They may be having difficulty now, but a dream job, home, could be next for them.
    Congrats on your new home! You will honor them by taking amazing care of the land & home! It will make their transition to new opportunities easier. Celebrate you & this milestone. It came to you now for a reason. Change=🦋

  • @Starlight1710
    @Starlight1710 28 дней назад

    I'd like to recommend you doing a little ritual before or when you move into these buildings. Maybe you could think of some small ceremony to express your gratitude for your new property and your well wishes for the family that lived there before. Then do some smudging with white sage in all of the buildings and around the property to clean it of any bad thoughts or memories lingering there from the former owners, so you can give yourself and your property a fresh start without any baggage from the past. ❤

  • @danastavney5687
    @danastavney5687 29 дней назад

    thank you for sharing your heartfelt thoughts. You are such a sweet and gentle person. I'm glad you can justify buying the house. I think you will love having your very own place. You will find out that this is the place that was meant for you to live in. All the best of luck and I can't wait to see what you do with your new place!

  • @louisesusan
    @louisesusan 28 дней назад

    BIG heart, BIG feelings. I am super excited to see it, and what you plan to make it your own. Enjoy and celebrate this time x

  • @scottstanley8349
    @scottstanley8349 29 дней назад

    I would buy it and help out the family as much as you can...If you like the house, go forward it.. It's not your fault regarding that situation..Again, you helping them out!!❤❤❤

  • @user-tu4jg3ef3h
    @user-tu4jg3ef3h 24 дня назад

    Прекрасно понимаю твою боль, сострадание и чувство вины, но ты не виноват в этой ситуации. Мне тоже очень жаль эту семью, надеюсь что у них всё наладится, а тебя поздравляю с приобретением дома!🎉 Хотелось бы, чтобы ты снова встретился с Йонной, люблю смотреть вас обоих❤ вы оба очень добрые, светлые, позитивные люди❤

  • @K8_te
    @K8_te 29 дней назад

    Congratulations! It’s going to be scary cause it’s the unknown and those feelings are 100% validated. You will do great ❤

  • @christinapolland6829
    @christinapolland6829 27 дней назад

    I think you did the right thing. This gives the family a chance to start a new. Also I do agee with other comments, you will create a home there, something not all buyers do. That I’m sure will feel good for the family.

  • @DK-rw3le
    @DK-rw3le 24 дня назад

    You're not a bad person ! You're not responsible for other people. But i understand what you feel. I would feel the same way. Do what your heart tells you to do !

  • @rwherendeen
    @rwherendeen 22 дня назад

    Congratulations on your new homestead! I can understand your sense of guilt, but I think in time you'll come to terms with it. I cannot wait to see the new place and the indoor bathroom! 😉
    Congratulations, Daniel and welcome to your new home! 💖

  • @LibbyWithnall
    @LibbyWithnall 8 дней назад

    We got to experience no sunrise sunset while we were in Alaska. It was so strange for someone used to seeing the sunrise almost every day. I definitely don't think you should feel bad about buying the home. You are not forcing them out. Nothing you can do will stop that happening. Finding the perfect house/home is impossible. I have doubts about the apartment we are still waiting to be finished. There will definitely be negatives but I'm hoping the positives will outweigh the bad. You should be happy about your house. The thing I keep reminding myself is that it doesn't have to be forever. If we are unhappy there we don't have to stay. I hope by now that you have moved past the guilt over the house. We are renting at the moment but to me a home is where your family and things are - not so much the walls that are around you. So this is home, even though it is temporary.

  • @faery_realm
    @faery_realm 29 дней назад

    Oh Daniel, you are such a beautiful kind soul.
    I understand why you feel so mixed up . The poor family concerned will find life will become settled again. Their sense of relief to see the debt gone and to start a new life must fill them with hope. They’ve probably lived with such worry to this point but you buying the house will really help them Daniel.
    The other thing is that you will make it your home and cherish it. That will mean a lot to the family…. it’s far better knowing that it’ll be your cherished home than for a buyer to just use it to make money from it eg hiring it out for a holiday home or developing it to sell for higher price.
    You could even invite the family to visit if they’re in the area. Knowing that they could do that might ease their transition into a new life. The chances are that they will soon be immersed in a new life without the worry and stress of debt and they won’t think about the house again.
    This is your chance to find peace and be settled . Its location is just so beautiful. Please be happy Daniel. This will all work out well for everyone ❤️ Big hugs xx

  • @onehearthlove
    @onehearthlove 29 дней назад

    If you really see yourself living in that house and it speaks to your heart, then I think you are being honest to your wish and at the same time, helping this family in a really challenging situation. It's never a "good thing" to lose your home like this, but considering the financial situation that they are in, it will help them clear part of their debt which is a priority I think. There's no perfect scenario in this situation I feel. But you have to follow your heart and do what's right for you.

  • @debrap206
    @debrap206 27 дней назад

    You are right, their situation wont change if you backed out. Please dont make things worse by projecting what you assume they are feeling or thinking. Perhaps you are a blessing for them, because you gave a good price and now they can move on. Sometimes our minds make up scenarios that dont exist. Never assume.

  • @piiamurto
    @piiamurto 29 дней назад

    It`s not your fault and they would have lost ,the house anyway..That`s sad but everything has its purpose..I`m happy for you that you get your own place.Congratulations on your new home ❣

  • @jackiestewart4450
    @jackiestewart4450 6 дней назад

    I’m glad I found your videos your channel you make me wanna come there bad it looks so peaceful and beautiful. I’m closing my eyes sometimes when I’m watching your video and listen to your background. I can’t get over it. You bought the house now. I can’t wait to see what you do with it, I’m gonna start watching your channel every night so I hope you post a lot

  • @LYNDAVIDCHANNEL11
    @LYNDAVIDCHANNEL11 29 дней назад +2

    Its not your fault that they lost their home. You bought it and it is yours now. Be happy with it. Be positive and hope for the best.

  • @dkutil1
    @dkutil1 29 дней назад

    Full of ending and beginnings. The family is going through an ending. Their beginning will be wherever they end up going. Sometimes the ending and beginnings is not by choice which is the situation for them. You are fortunate that you can choose your ending and beginning. When you think of them, immediately tell yourself you can't control what happens to them and you can be happy about your change and future. If you can get the thoughts about them out of your head, yell to yourself out loud and repeat it until you drown out the negative thoughts!

  • @AnniWood-oy4gj
    @AnniWood-oy4gj 29 дней назад

    If you don't buy it, someone else will. If it becomes your home it will be loved, as it is your dream come true. It will be a wonderfull thing. It is sad that the family in it now are in a bad situation, and we can all wish the best for them. If that house is calllling your name, that is a magical thing and very special.

  • @angelay1925
    @angelay1925 25 дней назад

    I admire your compassion for the homeowners. Hopefully the sale of the house (to you) will allow them to start a-fresh, debt free, look at it that way. At least you want to love it like they have and it not be bought for a much cheaper price by someone who might never live there.

  • @vickimanzano2976
    @vickimanzano2976 29 дней назад

    Thank you for asking our opinion. I feel that it would be a blessing to that family if they get a higher bid from your purchase. You are not responsible for the designs the family made to this point. Having said that it seems you still have internal conflicts. Just listen to your strongest gut feeling and never go against that.❤

  • @atticuskilby515
    @atticuskilby515 29 дней назад

    Congratulations Daniel. I know that you would have preferred a different circumstance for the purchase of your home, but this was presented and the family needed a way "out". I trust that it will work to the greatest benefit for each of you and I look forward to seeing your new home.

  • @CourtneyAmundson
    @CourtneyAmundson 29 дней назад

    Again your compassion is so deep, and I think just knowing how much you care about this even though it’s not your “problem”, makes this an easier decision. I think you can go for it. Maybe you can write a letter to the previous owners and maybe bake a treat and let them know who you are and how much you will give love to their house and space. It leaves you in a good energy space with the previous people. I think you should go for it! Sometimes compassion and love solves all things, and even though they will be sad to leave anyway, showing how you have cared about this situation is everything. ❤️ ps. Oh I see you bought it!! Congratulations!!!

  • @didirossi5053
    @didirossi5053 29 дней назад

    You seem to be very affectionate.
    I believe you have a big heart! ❤🥰

  • @gerardshaw2117
    @gerardshaw2117 29 дней назад +1

    You should move in with the family. You could be the live in gardener.Think about it!!

  • @Elsa_8927
    @Elsa_8927 29 дней назад +1

    Dear Daniel, you have found a wonderful place for yourself. Everything will be fine. ❤

  • @seralignell5644
    @seralignell5644 28 дней назад

    The family has a chance for a fresh start. Plus you will bring so much love to this place. What's done with love is the right thing.
    I'm sure the new place will radiate your love back and be happy to have such a kind person as you.
    If it helps, you could to like a cleansing ritual at the new place. I do this from time to time at home and feel very at peace like that.

    • @DanielErik
      @DanielErik  28 дней назад +1

      That's a good idea, I should do something like that! ☺️

  • @katharinaschaupp
    @katharinaschaupp 29 дней назад

    IT is better to have your own house and to be able to make your own decicions in your every Day live. So if you have the opportunity to do so, you should take it and do it Daniel! And your new place looks fine also. No mountains but water is also a good way to live your own life!❤

  • @denisecampbell8648
    @denisecampbell8648 29 дней назад

    You are a good person for struggling with this situation. As you said if you don’t purchase their home then they will end up selling it for less money so you would be doing them a favor to purchase it. But please keep in mind that we all leave Energy in the dwellings that we possess so that dwelling will have a lot of energy of lack and indebtedness…But as long as you make intentional effort to keep your vibration one of gratitude & abundance then there will be no harm done.

  • @trebbneify
    @trebbneify 24 дня назад

    Beautiful home! I can totally relate to how you feel. It will fade. Ive been through some terrible homeless situations myself. I never blamed anyone but myself.

  • @susieannei5641
    @susieannei5641 23 дня назад +1

    Hi Daniel! I just found your channel and absolutely love it and love seeing what life is like in the gorgeous forest of Northern Sweden!
    As far as buying a house up for government auction…you wouldn’t be putting the family out. As a matter of fact it sounds as if they would be relieved to have it sell so they can get on with their next chapter!
    Okay since I started this note before I watched it all the way through…I just got to the part where you say you bought the house!!!!
    Congratulations friend!!! It’s BEAUTIFUL!!!
    You are such a dear soul to have such empathy for others but like I said above they are probably relieved to not have the crushing debt of it anyway. All of that beauty turned very ugly to them. I would bet they were losing sleep worrying how they were going to meet next months bills, they probably had debtors calling them, hounding them.
    Maybe you could write them? Would it help you get over the undeserved guilt?
    I’m very confident that they are feeling better after the sale while you are losing sleep!
    This WILL be good…no WONDERFUL for YOU!
    Please don’t let it put a shadow on this wonderful time of your life!!!!

  • @moniquevugs8
    @moniquevugs8 29 дней назад

    Buy it, otherwise someone else does.
    And like you said, the higher the price, the better for the family 🥰🙏❣️

  • @carcisneros5461
    @carcisneros5461 29 дней назад

    Hola daniel soy car, de queretaro, mexico, te felicito por tu nueva casa, que gran logro en tu corta vida, se que sera tu casa maravillosa donde crearas nuevas y hermosas experiencias, disfrutala 100 %, la familia que salio, se vio beneficiada gracias a ti pues tienen ahora el dinero para pagar su deuda, estara bien y encontraran una casa donde vivir y comenzar de nuevo, suelta tus preocupaciones, tu les ayudaste en lugar de perjudicarlos, disfruta tu vida en tu nuevo hogar!!!❤❤❤

  • @anafumerofumero4903
    @anafumerofumero4903 29 дней назад +2

    La luna rosa Daniel ❤.... Que gran suerte tienes de poder disfrutar de ello tan cerquita....
    Eres un valiente por intentar sobrevivir en un lugar tan maravilloso, pero también con inviernos complicados, y espero que sigas siendo muy positivo para conseguir tu futuro y felicidad en ese lugar tan preciado y precioso✨️

    • @DanielErik
      @DanielErik  29 дней назад +1

      ¡Los inviernos son duros, seguro! ¡Pero al final todo vale la pena! ¡Y la luna era tan hermosa! 😍

  • @annjarehm9060
    @annjarehm9060 29 дней назад

    These feelings with such a decision and for a new chapter... I feel for you... what we don't know, maybe new paths will open up for the family... One more thought: when we lose something, it feels better when we know it's in good hands. You will give a lot of love in this house 🧡🌟

  • @alisoncarey9546
    @alisoncarey9546 28 дней назад

    You are clearly a kind and good person Daniel. ❤️ have faith in yourself my love. You will do what is right for you ❤
    Ps. Bring a cup with you next time. Place your phone it in and it will balance it for you no problem ❤