How to Walk Like a Husband
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- Опубликовано: 20 июл 2022
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I love this, you guys are so sweet. I genuinely like you 😍. On the submission part, I think as Christians we should stop being apologetic when we talk about a wife submitting to her husband but implore it in a Godly way because what the Bible says about submission is not the same as the world's view. You were not at all apologetic but it's just a thought that came into my mind while watching this. I love seeing the respect between you both it's really admirable ❤️
As someone coming up to 36 years of marriage I can tell you that you are spot on with your points.
I am married to the most selfless man.
I always tell young friends that I can confidently say this: If we are in a room full of beautiful people my husband would only be looking at me. I say that to show his heart and mind are devoted to his wife.
Also it's not big displays of affection or making a big show on particular holidays, but all the little things that matter. The thoughtful acts of doing a task for me that in our house is usually something I do or that special treat he picked up to surprise me. The everyday little things that just reflect that he's got you on his mind.
On the flip side, as the wife, I strive to do for him because I want to be doing for him in return. The expression of LOVE breeds LOVE back.
God has truly blessed this marriage and blessed me with the perfect husband for me.
That’s amazing!
Oh my goodness I loved this video. I would love a video on biblical submission because that gets me all riled up. You kind of touched on it a bit in this video, but most who attack submission don’t even know what it means in the Biblical context, which says in Ephesians which says “In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church - for we are members of his body” Submission is not living or acting in fear, nor is it putting your husband’s will above the will of God. The wife will surrender to the husband as he submits to God. This type of submission is waaaayyy different than what it’s portrayed as.
Best video intro 😂 y’all are great! So thankful for yalls Channel
I love that you said “ be a one woman type of man”. At work I hear these men brag about cheating on their wives and being with a different women than their wife and their wife not knowing. It breaks my heart especially for the children and wives of these men, a true marriage is a covenant and commitment to live and behold one women and that’s so special but when you ruin it by cheating on your wife and not prioritizing your wife it’s just so destructive and sad.
That intro is NOT what I expected 😂😂😂😂
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You guys mentioned everything I believe in. I hope to find a man with the same mindset. It is so difficult now in this day and age... Will keep working on myself until then.
Loved the integrity and respect part of the teaching! I really love your transparency as a couple and how share your experiences! Thank you for sharing! God bless you guys! God bless you everyone!
Hey, I really like hearing you ! Such a teaching you’ve giving me !
I’d like you to talk about the submission topic!
Thanks for being so honest!❤ And it's wonderful to remember too that when you love your wife in doing things for her, you are loving, serving and obeying God as well. 🙂
God bless guys...you are so transparent!And really marriage has that or want..amd is very valuable thing!
Been waiting for this video all this time. It’s great, thank you!
Love how you guys balance each other with such respect ❤️✝️
This was so great to listen to. Thank you ❤
You both are hilarious! So funny! You make me smile every time😊 So real and raw, love this! Thanks for sharing your love, genuinely with goofy humor🤪 God bless you and your little ones🙏😇
Is the book you referenced Point Man: How a Man can lead his family by Steve Farrah? Thanks.
This is so good! Bless you both and thank you for sharing! Transparency is needed!
Sincerely,
Tréasa Brown
I wish you two had been around in 2013-2016. My ex husband was open to me seeing his phone for years but as soon as he started cheating his phone was completely off limits to me.
So grateful for you both. Thank you for sharing these.
Sounds like part 2 will be following next. Looking fwd to it.
This is an awesome video thanks for sharing God bless you both 😃🙌
Part 2!!!!! Thank you so much for this
This girl is so sweet. I like this family a lot.
Hi.
What will do Suten if your husband is supposed to be mentally sick..like husband narcisist(supposed be cresthin too)and if he doesn't want to go at counseling..to be separated or divorced...
Thanks for the video!
You see her so frequently put him down and remind him of his failings, and yet she doesn't prop him up, appreciate him, compliment him, she is very cold and hard aroundd that. I wonder if she grew up in a Christian home where humility was seen as never praising others. He is a good husband, show him you appreciate him, and let him lead, at least sometimes girl! I bet if he got completely honest and wasn't afraid of her response he'd admit she's cold and hard at times. He's got enough demons to slay in the world, mountains to climb, his wife doesn't need to be the one crushing his spirit. Look at his posture after she says things to him, he shrinks. Emasculation 101.
Strong Video! :)
These are so simple yet SOOO good!!
So good! Thank you for posting.
Submission is not a wife just obeying her husband no matter what. That is a frequently misunderstood word. People need to read the bible concerning that, even if they don't believe. Submission is each spouse acknowledging that they belong to one another through their bond of love, and they need to consider each other and admit when the other is leading the family in a better way; submission is to always remember the vows made to your spouse and keep to them no matter what, instead of listening to everything that's trying to tear up your marriage. Submission maintains equality in a marriage; it is the opposite of what modernists think it is.
I just love to watch your videos
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Hi Nate and Sutton ! I’m happy you guys found each other. My girlfriend and I are from different cultures. I am from India. She is American. I like watching clean comedy movies and sitcoms from my language to keep my mood light and happy. My girlfriend couldn’t understand the language. American shows today are filled with vulgar comedy. It’s very hard to find clean comedy shows. I see you guys have a good sense of humor. What do you guys watch on TV ? If you could suggest some funny shows/sitcoms that you guys watch that would great !
Well I'm not married yet (or even soon) but I am looking out for these!
And I also watched the wife one too so I can learn to be one.
I love watching your video and I really pray for a relationship like this💜.
So many good hallways in that new house to use as practice catwalks 😂 I don't blame you for making the most of it. Jokes aside, really nice video and timely with our 5 month wedding anniversary tomorrow! Thank you!
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Trust does not mean to share your phone/passwords/etc with your significant other. Trust means if they offer you to have their passwords/look through their phone/etc, you say no
having lust and not repenting of it and rebuking out of your life is beginning to consent to it and find it okay will begin to root in your life and the more you are okay with the more it grows and goes through its stages of sin till it will become full blown iniquity! SUCH truth..I am a living testimony that went through this and and went through all of the stages of this sin and it did carry into my marriage. GOD heard my cries and He answered!! He exposed it and brought forth healing back into my marriage and has been mending it PRAISE THE LORD!!!! CHRIST OUR LORD IS MERCIFUL!!! LAY OUR LIFE DOWN TO JESUS, CALL UPON HIS NAME, REPENT OF YOUR SINS! IT IS A DAILY LIFESTYLE!! DAILY!! A TRULY BORN AGAIN AND DOER OF THE WORD OF GOD!! USING THE SWORD OF THE SPIRIT, THE HOLY SPIRIT MAN WHO LIVES WITHIN US! DENYING THE FLESHLY DESIRES DAILY AND STRIVING IN YOUR WALK WITH CHRIST! AMEN!! GOD BLESS!
I love watching your videos. As a Christian I just wondering if either of your have gone through severe depression and anxiety and ever wondered why we are here and why God keeps creating us. It torments me like crazy to the point that I can't function. I am on medication but it doesn't helps much. Please pray for me to find peace and acceptance of what I can't change.
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"It's easier to do a thousand religious things than it is to love your wife well... And if you are not loving your wife well.. You are missing the entire point and you have failed as a spiritual leader! "
I mean Wow! 👏
This is God's divine wisdom and revelation!💯
God bless you and your family!
An adult man letting his wife see his phone and computer to let his wife know that he's not hiding something... Sad.
Great video. Not a fan of the terms spiritual anorexia and bullimia 😐
She focuses on how he wasn't perfect at the beginning of their dating- what man is? Rather than thanking him for providing for her and her family so well. Geez, this is hard to look at and get through. It's been 2 minutes in and she has put him down 3 times already. Controlling and bitter- she needs to repent or this marriage may last, but the passion won't.
wow wow wow ! what a beautiful video ! thank you for this God centered encouragement for me in this season of waiting for my future husband . what a beautiful thing to remind me what to look for in a husband ! ✞ ッ ♡
He doesn't want to change what is wrong
aw! Your first video together in your new house!! (or like video that's not a house tour, video ab the house!)
Yes please guys! I'd love a video on submission! I'm definitely a 'strong' wife. Really it's the opposite.. I feel weak being so stubborn and not being able to be led by my husband.
Hi! A book that has helped me so much is Created to be a Help Meet by Debi Pearl.
I think what has helped me the most is to realize that I am supposed to let my husband lead, to facilitate my husband in his leadership, and to be a source of counsel for my husband - like a sounding board - and he values my input.
It is not easy, though. It wasn't something that came naturally to me, but once I realized from Authority on the subject, I have found such relief in letting go and submitting.
I think culture has done such a number on men and women. It works the best when husbands do their Biblical part and women do their Biblical part...
@@mrs.jaywojo5426 thank you for taking time to reply and your book recommendation 🙏 !
@@MegaTelenovela no problem! Pastor Michael Pearl has written a counter book from the husband's perspective: Created to Need a Help Meet. Check that out too.
It takes a very strong woman to choose to submit. Same with the idea of "strong-willed" children. They are actually self-willed.
Sutton's answer to the last question was wholesome.
And you will do Sutton if your husband doesn't care to much about his role and family..and if you need to work ti survive..because in case you will be financially abused a lott
...emotional it is still abuse in my family..and fizicaly was
" lose influence over her" ?
Maybe a sense of honor from the wife?
“she has no problem submitting” 🤢🤢
You have a child and my husband is saying bad things about my and he has wrong reality
LIVE WITH INTEGRITY
BANG ON💥
A Man should walk like a husband before marriage 🙏🏼
So if kids do as you do and not as you say, why do you hit them?
I dont think they hit their kids. Why are you saying that?
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The intro bruh😂
Step away from Andy Stanley!
You guys crack me up. Just sayin
So upset..I am ..my husband said..he can like just one woman..just me
Make one for wives !
They did, last year 🙂
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That walk, tho?! Stick to your day job, Nate! 😅 Tfs
I love your videos, however I have a big problem with you using the words "anorexic" and "bulimic" when it comes to describing lack of spiritual consumption. Eating disorders go beyond simply not eating, it's a mental disorder that's one of the most difficult to treat. It's similar to how people say they have "OCD" just because they like their house clean or they get annoyed at a crooked picture on a wall. These things are not what OCD and eating disorders look like. Minimizing serious mental illnesses as funny quarks is dismissive to those tortured by them and discourages people from seeking help because no one understands the gravity of the these illnesses because people misuse the words. If you love people and want them to be healthy and happy and I ask that you do some research on what it really means to struggle with these disorders and use them more appropriately in the future.
I really enjoy you're video but when you say that cra word I shut you off To me the Bible should be taken all the way round to even words we speak as replacement of cussing . I've noticed so many Christians use words as if they are still living in the world . The Bible says to come out from among them be ye separated saith the Lord touch not that unclean thing so for people to see Christ it's not just in living and doing acts of kindness but what comes out of our mouths is a BIG fruit of Life . I just get disappointed :( I Love you guys .
seeing a couple dedicated to Jesus like you are gives me so much HOPE !🤍