How To Walk Like A Wife
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- Опубликовано: 14 ноя 2020
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I am collecting likes for the next "HOW TO WALK LIKE A HUSBAND".
yessss excited for that episode!
Its gonnna be basically the same. Because men and women in Christ, should have the same morals.
Yes please
Yep I think Nate should totally do it!
please I agree! could you do one about “how to walk like a husband”
Whoever reading this, God is going to hug you so tight that all your broken pieces will fit back together. Trust in him
Love this! God bless
May God bless you! Thank you for these encouraging words! ❤️❤️❤️ Glad to have you as a sibling in Christ!
Amen
Thank you so much for those encouraging words. I really needed them!💕
Tooo funny.
I am 19 and have never dated or had a boyfriend and I just know that I am being protected for my future husband. I have always had such high standards for my future husband, not because I am picky because I'm not, but because I am protecting myself from what I know is not for me. I have been told that I shouldn't have high standards, but I do anyway because I know me. Thank you for this video, I needed to hear this!
That's exactly how I've felt for a few years now (since I broke up with a boyfriend) - sometimes I feel sad that I don't have anyone, but it's momentary and the Lord always reminds me that I'm being protected☺️💛
@@milenakoryczan3886 Yes! I have had guys like me in the past that were all good guys but I just knew it wasn't right, so I never dated them and I let them know that I just wanted to be friends. It was hard for some of them but I am so glad I did those things because I maintained those friendships. I am confident that God is going to bring me THE guy some day.
28, never dated nor had a legit bf either...😅 tbh you just used to being single.
KatsBookObsession that is so uplifting to hear. I’m 22 and your comment describes my entire perspective on dating. Wait. Trust in the Lord’s timing. Walk like you are the most precious treasure that deserves to be treated as such because that how God sees us.
From random Internet sister-in-Christ I’m standing with you 🤗
Girl SAME!
HOW TO WALK LIKE A WIFE?
1. walk confidently like you already have everything you need
2. walk like you have high standards
3. walk like you have strict morals for yourself (aka strict boundaries)
4. have a curfew for yourself! "i gotta be home by ___" -- late nights with guys can lead to temptations.
5. walk with intention. aka "im not here to play games." ("i never want you to have to worry" -sutton) - it makes the guy feel secure.
6. walk with value and self-worth.
- there's a difference between confidence and pride
- dont fall into the trap of needing validations from others
7. Let Jesus be the reason that we walk like a wife and *want to walk like a wife. Our worth and value is found in Him.
Amen! The last one should be the first to come in mind!
@@tazmin5020 I disagree with that. You can love someone dearly, but Satan has all of the ways to push in temptation where he can. We are all human, therefore sin and temptation will be with us forever until the good Lord comes again. It’s not saying to not trust your partner, because I agree trust is extremely important, but it’s saying to not put yourself in circumstances where temptation can even become. The Bible says to not even be in the appearance of sin, and I truly believe that one of the main reasons is because the Lord obviously knows how powerful temptation is and how fast it can sneak up on you. If you put yourself in a situation where you let your guard down, open that invitation for sin to come in, even without technically sinning, yet, that is disrespecting yourself and the boundaries you have and also your spouse/partner. Trust is extremely important, but you need to also be aware and respect your partner to not even be in the appearance of sin. 😊
@@tazmin5020 since the video is targeted towards single girls who aren’t yet married, instructing them how to “walk” or carry themselves AS a wife would, the single ladies should take care not to put themselves into situations that would pose a higher risk for temptation (like staying out late). Once married, though, as an actual wife, she won’t have to worry about any of that because, as you said, she and her husband should trust each other completely. :)
Thank you for this!! Super super helpful !!
A godly wife is one of God’s greatest gifts to a man.
She is wise, modest, meek, compassionate, faithful and walks with integrity 💗😊✝️🙏
Amen!!! ❤️
I wouldn’t say meek , it takes a strong women to walk with god and to grow and raise children . No meek women give birth 🤷♀️ you could say gentle since the actual meaning of meek is gentle and it seems far less negative overall.
May I suggest a different definition of the word “meek?” Instead of thinking of meekness as “weakness,” I believe that being meek means we recognize that God is the true source of our strength. When we’re meek, we’re actually made stronger because we humbly put our trust in God!
Shiii.. I can’t wait to have one. I’m 25 and never had a relationship. I’m happy for now tho because I’m in my ‘building phase’ building my relationship with the LORD, building my finances etcetera. But I’d love to have a blessed and true biblical marriage.
@@jollygoodgordon5580 that would be a sad life.
I watched this for the second time and you have given me a brilliant idea: so I have the habit of ending the day with talking to Jesus, but it always gets a little too late for my liking. Therefore I will set a curfew at 22:00 hour because I have a 'date'/appointment with Jesus then and He will be waiting for me!😃 Turning my prayer time into something more official like this, I hope it helps me to not go to bed too late. Thank you Nate and Sutton!
As a guy I can even sense the neediness from a girl who is desperate. It's bad because the wrong guy will take advantage of that
So good man! I totally agree! It's honestly difficult for me personally, to be attracted to such behavior now. I once over committed to a friendship that hadn't even moved into dating, and she was very clingy. I think in my naivety, I took it as her liking me more, but in reality it was just the neediness she had developed.
Now, one of my top standards is almost an independence from guys and dependence on God for value. As much as i would love to value them a lot, any girl that I like, should find more value in what God thinks of her than I do.
And yeah for any girls out there that read what Jay said, he is absolutely right. There is an endless amount of guys willing to take advantage of you, needy or not, but if you are, its easier prey. And yeah that sounds creepy, but subconsciously that is how the flesh behaves. I've had some really close friend girls, become needy, and end up getting into a relationship that they thought they were valued in, but turns out the guy just wanted somebody to spend time with on the weekends or on his down days. BE REALLY CAREFUL AND FIND YOUR VALUE IN WHAT GOD DEFINES YOU TO BE, NOT WHAT SOME DUDE SAYS.
@@romanscalph374 Amen! God is our validator, not guys!
@@romanscalph374 yeah be careful dating the girls who is seeking approval. Posting pictures online to get guys to like it because she's feeling bad about herself and need others to reassure those feelings. I personally stop dating those type of girls.
@@12Messenger I totally agree with you! Even though I'm a girl, I never post pictures of myself in general as a principle. I rather post scriptures, since then everyone will be uplifted.
@@vicciais yeah post pictures because we want to not because you are looking for approval
So so proud of you guys for standing for the Truth of God’s word!! 💜 I’m so inspired and impacted by your sincere and dedicated love for Jesus! Please keep sharing your heart on the relationship series/other Godly topics because it helps so many people to be led and encouraged by good examples who don’t have it all together but know that Jesus is all they need and more than enough!
This is not spoken of enough in our world today! Loved the video!!
Thank you guys! love your honesty and your beautiful and gentle way of framing this conversation. Keep sowing seed! SO practical, straightforward and makes perfect sense. BLESS (yup Part 2!) super helpful.
Walk like u dont need someone to complete u, walk like u know ur value in GOD, and know u don't need validation, don't be desperate on the search, but be confident in who u r, set a curfew for urself, set firm boundaries, and be intentional, no playing games.
it's been over a year and I keep coming back to this video. thank you for speaking so wisely
You guys give really great advise and it’s definitely helping me see what type of person I want to be, who God wants me to be, and the kind of man I want to end up with. Love you guys and thank you 😊
I just went on my first official date with a really cool girl. We are taking it really slow, since we both agreed we are in a spot in life where everything could change really quickly and circumstances may make it inconvenient or not fun. But it's really cool though getting to talk with somebody about all sorts of things and coming from similar perspectives and walks of life. I am happy to say that she fulfills the standards that I care about most at the minute.
I am watching this video thinking of my standards and what I should look for, I have already set some but thinking from the perspective of a how a girl should behave is really helpful. Your guys' wisdom and honesty is always deeply appreciated by this community.
On a random side note, this is kinda a question for Nate but I would love to hear Sutton's input as well. I didn't let her pay for part of the dinner bill on the first date. Is this something that guys should still be doing or is it getting a bit old? From my perspective, it's a way of showing that you value them and are willing to invest or sacrifice your time and money for your friendship/relationship. Especially on the first date. As it progresses, I can see how it'd be okay to allow for partial payment of the bill, but early on, I feel like it's a tangible and surface level way of saying, "Hey, even if this doesn't go anywhere, I respect you and appreciate your willingness to come talk and get to know each other better." Any thoughts on this idea are really appreciated!!!
First off, Congrats!😎 My opinion about who should pay is that whoever asks the person out on the date should pay, but ofc the other person should still offer. After that I think it should probably be split. That's just my take though.
I think it's great that you're still old school and your perspective on it is amazing and very much hard to find. I've dealt with too many times where guys never valued me in that manner and I ended up getting used to it to the point where a guy did show me that respect and I had to deliberately train myself to receive from him without feeling that there were stings attached. I say stick with what you're doing. Truthfully if a woman gets offended by you covering her in that way all the time, then she doesn't know how to receive and that can pose issues later on because she will try to hinder you from doing what God led you to do which will block both yall's blessing
I think if that is what it means to you, do pay.
I'm so happy for you gor being in this space.
HEYYYYYY as a girl i think that it is AWESOME and 100% chivalrous and it shows that you care about the girl and it shows the type of man that you are if you pay for dinner or whatever the date is. Later on like you said it might be alright if you and her paid especially if shes stubborn or is insistent on her paying as well, but if you want to and are committed to her then for sure keep paying for dates!!!
I hope this helped!!!!
Hey,
Please pay - bring back chivalry. It’s natural (think Hunter gatherer) and women love it.
Xx
Yes! Do the husband one!
Intriguing. Healing. Enlightening.
At the end of the day, we are all brides of the All Mighty! ❤️ Own it and walk like one! Thank you Nate and Sutton, love you two!
Out of all the Christian you tubers, you guys are my favorite. You both speak with such love and grace. Your Christlike actions and hearts shine in your videos. 🤍
Such a great message ❤️ I’ve watched a lot of your videos and I find them very inspiring 😊 It’s also really cool to see how similar Christian and Muslim values are.
I’m in a time of singleness that God called me to, so I really appreciated these tips! Wonderful video ❤️
Loved and liked this video. Will definitely be watching it again. Thats awesome you guys live in GA. I'm in Auburn Ga. My husband and I have been married for 11 years and go to a wonderful church. As of right now I find it a struggle as a mom and wife to stay on track with my spiritual life and physical life. I wish my husband and I could find a good cristian couple to be friends with. You know to be surrounded by winners and not people that struggle with their marriage. Right now everyone we know or hang out with have marriage issues. I am always trying to encourage them but sometimes i need encouragement and dont get it.. I probably said to much.. I have 2 boys and they are my life. God Bless. Thank you for this video.
Hi! I'm from Poland 🇵🇱
I really like your joyful energy and valuable films. I just want to say - thank you! ❤
Greetings from the Netherlands 🇳🇱, sister. Here a a lot of polski people. Nice people. Have a blessed day!
On the topic of letting these qualities be your core ... PRAY for your heart and for God to transform you and do the work to reach this
There is a lot of truth in that first (and last) point!
I always received far more interest and propositions when I was involved in a relationship than when I would be out and about and single and kind of "looking"!
So very kind to share your tips! You are just an adorable 😊 couple!
Three minutes in, and this is already super helpful❤ love you guys, you've helped me grow so much ever since I found your channel
This video was extremely helpful! Thank you for making it!
I’m engaged I needed this!!
Amen! This is so good! Love you guys!😁😁😁 "You're on The Bachelor."😂😂😂
If our only focus is to KNOW HIM and BECOME LIKE JESUS, then our eyes will be off circumstances and we will stay on the straight path 😊🙏🔥👌🏼
Amen! Learning to walk like Jesus is way more important than learning to "walk like a wife."
Hello. Another video from you guys, thank you! God bless you always. ❤
This really got me at the right time, with a lot of "guy stuff" on my radar this past week... It's reaffirmed the good habits I ought to be practising now as a single lady... Even if I never have an earthly husband, I am the bride of Christ so He is worth my best habits 😊 Thank you guys
Also, yes, a husband equivalent video would be informative! (and potentially humorous!) 😁
love this so and the transparency of you both
What a title! So catching and straight to the point!
God bless you both. Everything you talked about were almost all the thoughts going on my mind for a while. Thank u again 💓
I may not have looked hard enough but do a How to walk like a husband video! I am engaged to get married in a year and I have fount a lot of joy, entertainment, inspiration, and advice in y’all’s videos! God bless!
*i’m going to sleep now, have a blessed day everyone!*
Good night
Same lol
@@annasmith3860 Lol they dropped the vid when it was late at night in my country
This was a really good video ty
woah. She looks ANGRY.
I don't think what time you get home matters at all. Temptation can happen any time of the day or night. Making sure it's before 9:00 or whatever makes no difference.
Loved this video!!! 💕🙌
Love you guys ❤
Love this so much ! 🤍 i definitely had the “is this the one is that the one” thing going on and I just kept telling my self “NO. HE WHO FINDS NOT SHE WHO FINDS” 😤😂🙏🏼
Sutton's dad deserves a lot of credit for how amazing she turned out. ❤
I think how to walk like a husband will be a great video to do too because I love hearing great advice and I love sharing y'alls advice to my friends. I also have a question for y'all. I've heard from a great friend that every structure in a marriage is different such as what is expected of a wife and a husband and how they play their roles in the houshold. I was wondering if it's not too personal if y'all can explain what the structure and roles are suppose to be in a Christian houshold. For example, What do both of you do for eachother in ever day life? Such as responsibility in the household or what y'all expect from eachother? I dont know if yall already answered this in a video but I would love to hear from y'all. Thanks!!!
GREAT. VIDEO. thank you!
Great video !!!!
YESSSS! Do a walking like a husband video!
🔥👌🏼 these are good things to look for in my wife so thank you !
Nate is the most medieval looking person I’ve ever seen!!!
This comment made me laugh out loud 😂😂😂
He looks like he could be one of those ancient Greek statues
Loool
His hair doesnt look real
God loves everyone
Hey guys I love yalls videos sooo much I just had to come on here and say y'all saved my life I was going through a ruff patch and as a 15 year old male follower in Christ it's not always easy especially at school in a small town (less that 2000 people) I was getting depressed and started having some pretty bad and negative thoughts then one day I was scrolling through youtube and came upon one of yalls videos I had never even heard of y'all until that day and y'all helped turn my life around and so I thank y'all from the bottom of my heart for all y'all do even if you don't think y'all are doing good y'all are thank you
o my gosh i love y’all’s vids so much!
Wow I've never been here so early 😂 I love your talks about these topics. God bless you and your family!
Love love loved this! 🙌🏽 Please please please do more! 🙏🏽 You guys are doing so much for so many. Keep going! Be blessed
How do walk in value as a wife and as a woman? Since I am learning this process and put it to practice at this very moment. I can't seem to walk away when learning how to know first by intuition if a man is disrespecting me. I am learning my worth and value as a woman, do you have any advice or can Sutton do a video of this too?
You two are refreshing to watch. inspired me to start my channel, Sutton is so sweet, thank you for the topic.
I'm super early haha. LOVE YOU GUYS!!
Loveeee this
Y’all Are Always the Best💗
Great list, Sutton!!! Some of the things in your video really makes me want to ask this question to both of you:
How do you maintain being a strong woman while also letting the man be the leader in the relationship? (specifically when dating, it feels like this will be easier to 'submit to your husband' in marriage.)
Marriage doesn’t make it easier. Whoever your boyfriend is, is the same man he will be when you are married.
Is there any way to get ahold of you guys? I’m a believer and a single mom and this has not been the easiest year of my life . I love you videos and think you guys would be wonderful to talk to about my relationship with Jesus. Please let me know if there’s a way to contact you guys
I agree that women should not seek validation from social media,
but it is a given that every woman on this planet needs some kind of validation (not necessarily with just her looks) That’s how we are built.
So the husbands should always give validation to their wives ❤️
Yes, husbands should give validation to their wives, but we as wives should not be dependent of it. We have been given validation from the Lord, we need to be dependent of Him.
Hey Nate and Sutton,
I love hearing what you all have to say on certain topics and would have loved to hear more biblically based truth in this video instead of opinion. You have a such an incredible platform to encourage others in what the Lord says and how to be obedient to that. Thank you for using your page to encourage others though, I am just a sister in Christ spurring you all on! Love you both! YOU ARE AWESOME!
I asked my dad this question yesterday. So glad to see you both do this video!!
Awesome video! Thank you Nate and Sutton!!! 🌸 really really helpful and encouraging!
Nate and Sutton: set yourself a curfew
Kenyan govt: Let me help you out😆
Haha 10pm - 4am
🤣🤣 Us those... 🇰🇪
Thank you for the tips. God just confirmed more to me when Sutton said “stop playing games”. I’m a lil petty sometimes but thank you for the reminder. May God bless your family in Jesus Name.
As a single 14 year old I don’t know if I should be here........
I don’t want to be in a relationship with anyone because I just don’t like men and I don’t desire marriage. However, I really loved the idea of this video. Why don’t you guys make a video about modern day feminism and women in the workplace? I’m truly interested in this topic and I am interested in your thoughts on it. Thanks ❤️
When I was fourteen I hated men and I definitely didn’t want to get married and now I think marriage is my favorite thing God made. (I’m 18 now btw) I’m not saying that this is will happen to you because I don’t know you and some people are not made to get married. All I’m saying is don’t count it out. Even if you never date or get married walking like a wife will help you find your confidence in the Lord and not need external validation.
I'm 14. In this world, having a boyfriend is almost idolized. Cuddling, running to them with your problems. Giving them your heart. Them comforting you. I crave that intimacy and security of having someone who loves you so much and chooses you. I am working on feeling that love from God. Because he loves us all so much. I need to run to him first. I am not ready for a relationship at all. (Also because I'm 14 lol) I need to strengthen the relationship with God first
It can change. Its kinda good not to desire things like that in early age but pray so god gives you what you need in the right time. Gods ways are the best for us
Great list... Please do the husband one.
Not gonna lie, the title kinda confused me 😂 but thanks so much for this video! Even though I'm a teenager, I can still do this, and someday God will bring me the right guy. It's pretty hard being a teenager, cause there's this guy I really did think was the one, and I found out last week that he is dating someone else 😔 my heart is kind of broken, but I'm trusting God on this one. 💜
What happened with the intro song ? :(
I like the one about setting a curfew in your mind and keeping it. Thank you!
Haha this is awesome! Definitely appreciate Nate’s contributions😂 Truly though, thank you for the reminders💕✝️
Great video guys. We need more people speaking to the single ones spreading a good message like this video. God bless you 🙏🏻
Thanks so much for this video!! It's amazing to think that the best way to prepare yourself to be a good wife is being a good single girl. Every woman should see this 💛 can't wait for the second part talking about how to walk like a husband!!
YES HOW TO WALK LIKE A HUSBAND VIDEO!!!
I love you guys!!!!💜💜💜
Really enjoyed this, thanks
Thank you Sutton and Nate! Please pray for church leaders to be holy! I have talked with married christian ladies and most of them feel insecure because their husbands can text with female colleagues or female friends and demand trust from their wives. They told me that some pastors can easily comment about how sexy is that lady walking on the street. There are no high moral standards in many christian families because they don’t know the truth. It makes me so sad!
Loved it!!! Thank you for your suggestions!!
Thank you for sharing your lives, your values, your advices! God richly bless you guys!)
When you said be confident and look like you have everything you need...
My response: We do. We do have everything we need. We have Jesus😊😊He is all we need
Hey Sutton&Nate!
I appreciate all the effort you put into your videos.
Around 10:35 you talk about how Sutton had to raise attention on her not tolerating that Nate's talking to some other girl. Which point of your relationship did this occur? Shouldn't this have been clear to Nate by then?
I'm glad you're great communicators and figured out. :)
Thanks for the response!
God bless you guys!
We had only been on 2 dates then had that conversation so it was very early on!
@@nateandsutton oh okay, I got it, thank you!! :)
7:08 Alongside not playing games, what are ways to make your partner feels secure in your relationship? I’d love to learn more because I’ve never really dated before!
Very normal and cool that the ads on this video are for pick up artist websites
Thank you for this video!!
Getting married in less than 2 weeks! Thanks for this video ❤️
Loved this video!!❤️
Amen!! Thank you for this video!! I feel as if the Lord is preparing me for greater!!
Great content. It's really helpful !
You guys are awesome spiritual leaders, love u.
Yesssss please do one on how to walk like a husband!!!
If you are a believer, Seek God 1st and He will bring you the right person.While you wait, continue to pray for your future husband(even when you have no clue who he is). Blessings🌈🌈
You two build a strong fountain inside out in your faith ..Thanks for sharing .god blessed your family's ..
Hey could you do a bible study with me video one day, love you
I feel like I do most of this, but guys don’t “flock” 😂 Some guys may be intimidated by women like this, but I guess that means keep waiting on the Lord?
Thank you for this video! sharing it with my teenage kids
Your teenage kids don't need to worry about getting married until after high school, maybe even college.
My ex-stepmom forced me to be as obsessed with marriage as you are with your kids and it's a disgusting feature of purity culture.
🤢
So good! Thanks!
So excited to watch this video:) Like and now I am watching!
Great video just missed seeing your kids in action.
Me too. I started watching them bc they’re videos with the boys were so cute !
Omg you definitely have a different way of thinking