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  • Опубликовано: 13 май 2012
  • How do you make your ex fall back in love with you and want to be with you? Even if you're in a long distance relationship, they're seeing someone else or there are a ton of other 'obstacles' in the way to you being together? Here's how...
    ashleykay.com/...
    Visit the link for proven tactics and tips to get your ex back even if your situation feels helpless.
    PLUS receive free dating and relationship video tutorials, guides and articles.
    Ashley

Комментарии • 589

  • @DannyThomson
    @DannyThomson 11 лет назад +19

    Have you gone through all the 3 major steps?
    1. No Contact Rule
    2. Improve yourself
    3. Do not be so needy
    Under number 3 includes patience, because impatience is a sign of being needy. Please do not be in a hurry, if you want to get your ex back, be patient.
    It takes time to win someone back in your life.

  • @Flametasticeedits
    @Flametasticeedits 10 лет назад +109

    It works guys. I got my ex back by ignoring her. u just have to let her have her own space. let her miss u. Let her remember ur times together. she'll come back even if she has someone else. The truth is she doesnt see him the way she see's u. so ignore her and then when she comes back just be cool about it. Im 23 by the way.

    • @Flametasticeedits
      @Flametasticeedits 10 лет назад +4

      about 2 weeks.

    • @AAMUteacher04
      @AAMUteacher04 10 лет назад

      @ Sergio- How long to you think my ex BF will take to call me. I broke with him because he was still talking to his ex in his home country. I am missing him so much.

    • @TheLilboy321
      @TheLilboy321 10 лет назад +1

      Ima do that hopefully it works. thanks man! I'm a guy too.

    • @AceRoy
      @AceRoy 7 лет назад +1

      Legendary Legacy are you sure bro ? I'm afraid to text her because she's with someone else and i don't think it'll work, please can you give me some advice man? I need so ! Thanks a lot !

    • @MultiStar84
      @MultiStar84 7 лет назад +1

      Legendary Legacy mine is so hot And cold, comes back to say hi and then leaves and i won't hear from her for a while and so on. I never reach out because I got broken up with, So in that case I can only work on myself and keep faith, try and put good vibrations out there as well, it's hard to when you stress out like crazy but you can. I started respecting people more and reached out to old friends, ect.

  • @lilliebrett8818
    @lilliebrett8818 9 лет назад +68

    Going through a breakup, especially when you didn't want the relationship to end can be a very emotional time.

    • @brandonhamilton5023
      @brandonhamilton5023 3 года назад +1

      I agree

    • @ellab740
      @ellab740 2 года назад

      Hello there,(DrWilson)he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. He was the one that helped me...

    • @ellab740
      @ellab740 2 года назад

      @@brandonhamilton5023 My dear if you are facing any Challenges in your Relationship worry no more, I'll introduce you to the same relationship restorer(DrWilson)who helped me got back my ex, he can help you within 72hours

    • @ellab740
      @ellab740 2 года назад

      M e s s a g e h I m n o w.. 💌

    • @ellab740
      @ellab740 2 года назад

      V i a W h a t s A p p... 📩

  • @DuranSimonBMX
    @DuranSimonBMX 10 лет назад +28

    this is an Asian Woman with an Australian accent.
    never thought there was a such a thing as a perfect woman

  • @inthepeaceofthenight
    @inthepeaceofthenight 10 лет назад +21

    ps if there are actually guys here looking for advice, guys seriously there are other women out there who no doubt will be a better match for you. if your ex left you, she doesnt feel she needs or wants you, and you dont need that. go to some websites for pickup artists and take at least a few tips on getting a new woman. ladies you dont need this advice since its in most of your magazines anyway. seriously, if someone broke up wtih you, you dont need them, move on.

  • @paradiseisland3352
    @paradiseisland3352 5 лет назад +5

    2 words that will make any ex come back if you ever meant anything to them TIME, and SPACE

    • @sshuteandrew
      @sshuteandrew 5 лет назад

      Michell Joseph I like this! If they don’t come back then obviously they weren’t for you. Any update?

  • @ShelleyG1014
    @ShelleyG1014 5 лет назад +1

    All of her tips work. Every single one. Watch the other videos. I was doing too much before.

  • @PlatinumRomance
    @PlatinumRomance 8 лет назад +29

    Im in the middle of my 3rd heart break. This 3rd one is the worst because I believe she is my soul mate. Anyways, the previous 2 came running back to me. Why? Because I was being myself and making myself happy. I turned down the previous 2 when they came back because I was happy without them. At the end of the day, that is what it is all about. I have been away from my 3rd for 4 months now. At first, I contacted her non stop. For the last 3 months, I quit talking to her and started focusing on my well being. I recently found out that she has been asking about me. I still love her like it was just yesterday. But I want to know that by the end of that day, I am still happy. Happiness depends on us. I think the bottom line here is...make sure you are happy on your own and it doesn't depend on your ex. If we reunite, then it was meant to be. If not, then that's how it ends. Love yourself and it will all come flooding back. We are all human. Play the cards you are dealt and learn. There are reasons things end. Learn to live so free and open to those who matter. Heck, even bless those who curse you. We all find our purpose in life. Don't be afraid to move on, and don't be afraid to reconcile. Just know what is right for you.

    • @summerman2
      @summerman2 6 лет назад

      exactly.

    • @neuroscivan
      @neuroscivan 5 лет назад

      PlatinumRomance did anything happen with the third one?

    • @sshuteandrew
      @sshuteandrew 5 лет назад

      Beautifully said. I whole heartedly agree!

    • @ellab740
      @ellab740 2 года назад

      Hello there....... if you are facing any Challenges in your Relationship worry no more, I'll introduce you to the same relationship restorer(DrWilson)who helped me got back my ex, he can help you within 48hours

    • @ellab740
      @ellab740 2 года назад

      M e s s a g e h I m n o w.... 💌

  • @agoodformula1
    @agoodformula1 10 лет назад +5

    Really great principles. Like your thinking. If most would only operate their lives on some of these.

  • @hayesperanza9625
    @hayesperanza9625 8 лет назад +3

    this makes a lot of sense. although it's really hard too, because everyone says focus on your self don't do it for her/him but how can not when after the break up all you do is think about them, what I'm doing is changing myself because I know exactly what my problem was, but also I'm going to counseling to fix those problems, and started to go to church which its helping me a lot, not dating because I've done it before after other break ups and it never helped me, all I'll do is talk about my problems and girls don't want to hear that lol so I'll skip the dating part but I am spending quality time with my kids, which makes me happy. :)

  • @imburnt247
    @imburnt247 11 лет назад +2

    A wise man said "If you love something let it go, if it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't it never was."

  • @christinhazon8670
    @christinhazon8670 10 лет назад

    Much better than Kevin The Break Up Doctor. I bought his stuff & it was trash. He wouldn't even give me a refund even though he said he would in his ads. Ashley Kays advice is much better. Helped a lot!

  • @Staytruelee
    @Staytruelee 9 лет назад

    You're amazing. I've struggled with depression and anxiety PTSD and a lot of other things and it really just made me want to have other people make me happy and this is making me realize that I need to be strong like I used to be before I was in the army and Deployment and all kinds of other crazy series of unfortunate events happened. This is great.

  • @uzairqureshi7545
    @uzairqureshi7545 8 лет назад +3

    best solution is..
    love yourself and leave all ex y zzzz...
    look in a mirror u will the most loyal friend to share with. share with him and practice for 2 weeks and I will love your new friend. As that mirror friend will never leave u...

    • @priestukpade7666
      @priestukpade7666 8 лет назад

      +Uzair Qureshi i don't agree wt you i want to let you know we have forces that does not want us to settle down and be happy 4 once may be your friend or you might be going through such but you will not know, but you need a higher force that can stop it. i will advice you to contact priest upade on upade7demons@gmail.com

  • @Ancel7
    @Ancel7 10 лет назад +3

    I was dumped a day ago and I got an urge to beg her to not leave me. But begging never gets respect from a woman, so I have to repair the big hole myself. I noticed that most social networkers try to impress people and their exes. I was like that in the past but noticed that it never works for me. I think people can see if somebody is sincere.

  • @timelesswords6826
    @timelesswords6826 Год назад

    Focusing on myself, doing my job everyday, saving money for the future is the best thing i can do right now.. when you are successful and happy person other people will attract on you 😊

  • @alexesyan2848
    @alexesyan2848 9 лет назад +4

    Going through a really tough break up right now, my ex basically left me after a few rough patches. Long distance is hard. I really hope this advice helps. Focus on myself now. God this is so hard.

  • @dewycatt2112
    @dewycatt2112 11 лет назад +1

    If she comes back, I dont make the mistakes that got her mad. My girlfriend and I broke up. I would be defending myself from her actions, but I did it in a way that was controling. Lashing out at her because I thought I would lose her. Insecure and fear of loss and being lonely.(childhood mental abuse from stepmother,and feeling abandonned by real mother). Controling is not just ordering someone. I learned that lashing out like i did is another form of being controling". I did not know"

  • @Dab572
    @Dab572 11 лет назад +1

    My thing is me and my ex broke up a year ago, we didnt see each other for 6 months until my birthday which was a couple months. It was a good feeling to see him again you can tell we were both happy when we seen each other again. Ever since then we have been seeing each other every weekend but I really want us back together but its like idk if he's not ready & dont wanna go back to all the arguing we had or something but he gets jealous when it comes to any dude idk what to do. I cry sometimes

  • @nadine1018
    @nadine1018 7 лет назад +4

    I walked away and it hurts like hell. But sometimes its the best way. I also avoiding Social media coz of those crappy way to get attention. He is too often there now. "Ghosting" is sometimes for a period quite okay. To calm down.

  • @rfp63sf
    @rfp63sf 10 лет назад

    This is true. I left my ex and never wanted him back. I even blocked him from my phone and Facebook. About six months later, he changed his number to call me and got a new Facebook to contact me. I still don't want him, but we are friends because he is nicer.

  • @johndee759
    @johndee759 8 лет назад +1

    Thank you Ashley for your counseling. I have been through a break from a relationship of 3 years. All I can say is that the recovery takes time. I strongly encourage everyone who is going through a break up to invest in yourself. In the beginning you probably are devastated. That's ok. Recovery is a step by step process, that happens little by little. Only time will heal your wounds. In the mean time expand your horizon. Do sports, learn another language, educate yourself, see the world, work hard at work. Try to live by yourself and for yourself. Find out who you are and when you understand yourself, you will be happy and know what to look for in a partner.

  • @w1ck3d01pr
    @w1ck3d01pr 11 лет назад +1

    What you need to do is not call and believe me it works.

  • @dewycatt2112
    @dewycatt2112 11 лет назад

    Just be yourself, but REMEMBER to not project any negativity. We take things for granted, and only when we lose them we know how pressious he/she is to have in our life. Having a partner/companion for life is the biggest blessing one could ask for! I know that personally. Lonliness and uncertainty of the future is depressing! Love is happiness"

  • @rosestar2475
    @rosestar2475 8 лет назад

    first time wasn't done right, needing to break away for good or rebuild wasn't serving that situation for all. thanks for your help;)

  • @buddymax6613
    @buddymax6613 8 лет назад

    always believe in yourself and be true to yourself you get what you give in life good things come to people who do good

  • @vahllable
    @vahllable 11 лет назад

    no one is responsible for our happiness except ourselves.... i agree with ashley that we need to focus on our capabilities and the wonderful things we can do....

  • @george70george35
    @george70george35 9 лет назад

    Great advice and knowledge, I love the way u talk slow and to the point I could listen to u all day :)

  • @i_am_blessed_bella
    @i_am_blessed_bella 9 лет назад +1

    Thanks for the tips. I have even lost the feeling of getting him back. Your point of transforming me is so complete!

    • @ellab740
      @ellab740 2 года назад

      Hello there,( Dr Wilson ) he is the best when it comes to recovery relationship. He was the one that helped me.

    • @ellab740
      @ellab740 2 года назад

      M e s s a g e h I m n o w.. *️⃣

    • @ellab740
      @ellab740 2 года назад

      V i a W h a t s A p p... 💌

    • @ellab740
      @ellab740 2 года назад

      +1

    • @ellab740
      @ellab740 2 года назад

      8722

  • @RoboFuryMan
    @RoboFuryMan 11 лет назад

    I can relate to what you said about break ups being common after stressful events. I was fired on the spot, while dating this girl in Japan a few weeks ago. As result I was kind of sad, and vented my emotions to her. Suddenly, she started avoiding me for like 3 weeks before finally breaking it off with a text. I used to make her smile like the sun. She would text me til' 2 am every night and send 20+ pictures a day; told me how romantic I was and how good I made her feel. Thanks for your advice.

  • @jrYoutube1
    @jrYoutube1 8 лет назад +1

    thanks Ashley:)
    ive realised ive really fckd up..lol
    But she is still hanging around and not running away...LUCKY.
    Even though she left me after i told her i wanted a little space to get through personal stuff. I panicked and realised how desperate id shown myself to convince her to stay.
    i actually forget that i needed space..lol.
    Anyway shes back and believes i still want to try and get her back..even though i still love her I know she isnt actually good for me anyway as a gf.
    But im glad to still have alot of contact as it helps me to slowly move her from deeply loving her over to a great friend.
    I think she will be shocked to find out when i move into another relationship and she will realize that she got shifted to friend zone.
    I know she still loves me and i do to(I not as much as before). She loves my attention and still tries to talk about our past relationship.
    Its fine whatever she does, but as for me im slowly moving on, and changing things about my character thats needs it for my next relationship.

  • @nanalei7373
    @nanalei7373 7 лет назад +1

    6:30 8:00---> 9:18 10:10 12:38 14:15 15:05

  • @Ti1301
    @Ti1301 12 лет назад +1

    Thank you for the clarity reminder

  • @kengar3942
    @kengar3942 8 лет назад

    Great video! I loved the planet/orbiting analogy. THANKS!!

  • @MON3YonPC
    @MON3YonPC 9 лет назад

    I just wanted to say that this was a really good video and I'm going to take your advice. Be a strong solid state that is the best advice I've ever heard in regards to break ups and dating in general. I was depressed after my girlfriend broke up with me and trying to get her back but what you said makes the most sense to me and it really opened my eyes because I was really depressed trying to figure out a way to get my Ex back and I think your advice is the only thing that would maybe get her to come back with me. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Thanks.

  • @Ranger42
    @Ranger42 7 лет назад

    Best part of this session is between 13:30-15:40. I like the part about being soft inside is not attractive...So true. Thank you.

  • @moonmothh
    @moonmothh 12 лет назад

    this seems a bit challenging but it's also the best advice I've ever heard and makes me feel so much stronger as a person already whether it works out or not. thank you.

  • @Mr-716
    @Mr-716 7 лет назад +1

    thank you so much for your insight. I was going totally wrong in my approach.

  • @Imjustaregularguy1
    @Imjustaregularguy1 11 лет назад

    Eventually when u finish the projects and the time is right, invite her to celebrate with u. The event could be a gathering, it could be a vacation (u pay) if she accepts (at this point she will accept as a friend hopefully) otherwise keep it light and easy, perhaps a romantic setting. After a few drinks and light conversation... when the mood is right and youve allready impressed her. Tell her you want to give it another shot because you think the two of you makes sense. Say the past is the pas

  • @ednasanchez8464
    @ednasanchez8464 10 лет назад

    Thank you Ashley K. the advice you talked about is very helpful. Now i see the big picture

  • @charlesdc1233
    @charlesdc1233 2 года назад

    I tend to believe it's impossible to get a person back who left us

  • @auberginedreamsx
    @auberginedreamsx 12 лет назад

    this is the best advice i've gotten from anyone. i'm really glad i watched this video, thank you so much.

  • @blkghostxx
    @blkghostxx 10 лет назад

    If I had a girlfriend like you I would never go back to my ex

  • @393Dan
    @393Dan 11 лет назад

    She knows what she's talking about. Thanks.

  • @marianamohammed8414
    @marianamohammed8414 9 лет назад +55

    Pleaseee less talk and go straight to the point.

  • @lovebug888
    @lovebug888 12 лет назад

    Please continue to make videos you are so so so so helpful. I appreciate it a lot! !

  • @williamsharifie
    @williamsharifie 12 лет назад

    With THAT attitude, yes, you are right.

  • @TokyoKowboy
    @TokyoKowboy 10 лет назад

    Outstanding video! Its nice to be in a soft mood because its a beautiful attractive woman communicating this great information across. I find that when watching a strong Alpha dude communicating information it puts me in a strong alpha mood which feels different than a soft relaxing mood as if we were communicating over tea. So thanks for your great info Ashley!

  • @dancedance182
    @dancedance182 12 лет назад

    It's never too late. Just forgive yourself for making the mistake of telling her that and allow yourself to move forward with your life

  • @justinavery4009
    @justinavery4009 9 лет назад

    I lost my first love and I can't stand to see her with another guy or him touching her but im gonna try this out. I will 100% focus on myself and hopefully I see results in a month! Ill let you know ashley...thx

  • @paper2015
    @paper2015 11 лет назад

    the truth will set you free

  • @gittebrandt8654
    @gittebrandt8654 10 лет назад

    She tell konkret what and how too do . Its one of the better video of how get ex back .

  • @jackbravo2172
    @jackbravo2172 8 лет назад +40

    Hey Ashley, my ex has been gone over 15 years and she's totally happy with the guy she's with, soooooo do I still have a chance of getting her back? Ok, just kidding, I'm glad the bitch is gone, hahaha

    • @Maya-xs8pf
      @Maya-xs8pf 8 лет назад +6

      lmao

    • @evanwilliams7377
      @evanwilliams7377 7 лет назад +2

      If you want to learn how to get your ex back fast then I recommend you watch this great video here: HootMine. com

    • @lisathomas6198
      @lisathomas6198 7 лет назад

      Jack Bravo 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂like Seriously? 😂😂💪

    • @felinasecrets6191
      @felinasecrets6191 7 лет назад

      Lmfao

    • @robertjones7938
      @robertjones7938 7 лет назад

      Jack Bravo 😂😂😂😅😅😅😅💯💯

  • @StefanusBoenaidi
    @StefanusBoenaidi 9 лет назад +3

    Thanks Ashley, this is the 3rd day after I broke up. Hope I can make her miss me again. Around 14:00 you said they do not just want someone who would do everything for them. I think this is my biggest mistake. I lost my mom when I was Kid. Her parents divorced when she was a teenager. Me & Her same as a first child we act almost similar with autonomy but with different way especially me with Men Power Lol...

    • @neuroscivan
      @neuroscivan 5 лет назад

      Stefanus Boenaidi did she ever come back?

  • @vivekkashyap2498
    @vivekkashyap2498 Год назад

    My ex left me 5 months ago . I was depressed the first month and I tried to reach her so bad and seemed so needy ! Then I did no contact for a month for her to call me and speak like nothing happened, me being me went behind her again and then realised she already has a thing with a new guy so she doesn’t want to “hurt him” ! since then I’ve not wanted to see her again because of she can find another guy in a few days after a 3 year relationship then it wasn’t meant to be I guess ! Doing so much better , hitting the gym everyday ! Going out with my good friends and socialising with new people ! Guys I know it can be hard and you might feel sick some days but it’s for the best I would say !

  • @asmallbunny4686
    @asmallbunny4686 7 лет назад

    this video really helped me. i feel inspired and confident again already

  • @Tiffany797000
    @Tiffany797000 11 лет назад

    for you it might be. if a person has time to mull over the situation, and realize they were genuinely happy with this person and still see a bright future with them, then why think you know more than they do?

  • @milhugo1
    @milhugo1 4 года назад

    Thank you I will be focus on be happy myself cause I'm a complete person.. and if she want me back ,I will be happy more and if she dont I make sure my happiness dont depends on her or anyone else.. but me and God...
    You help me opend my eyes.
    Thanks

  • @nujauh445
    @nujauh445 8 лет назад

    Excellent nuanced advice. Thank you!

  • @xoxomystyle
    @xoxomystyle 11 лет назад

    Wow this is really good advice thanks :)

  • @skyhightai24
    @skyhightai24 12 лет назад

    uhhh if its been 10 months, and shes dating someone else. you dont have much chance, just go out and make yourself happy. good luck dude

  • @23imforgiven
    @23imforgiven 10 лет назад +3

    Just wanted to say thanks Ashley. Your counseling is helping me grow. It's been hard, I feel like I'm having to learn things all over again. Of course it's hard when you love someone I deeply to the point that you feel they are the only one for you in this life. But I'm trying everyday to be strong for myself and gain confidence in my career and who I am. So thank you! By the way are you Korean? Just curious.

    • @AshleyKayAdvice
      @AshleyKayAdvice  10 лет назад +6

      Not Korean. Chinese :)

    • @enyarijo3098
      @enyarijo3098 8 лет назад

      hi everyone ,if anyone else wants to uncover get your ex back over text try Morundan Get Back Mastery (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some decent things about it and my m8 got cool success with it.

    • @johndee759
      @johndee759 8 лет назад

      +Enya Rijo I think break up is a great opportunity to improve yourself. In the beginning of a break up, you are just devastated. Time will heal your wounds. Learn another language, get more education, do sports, eat healthy, travel the world. Find out who you are. Live life to your fullest potential. Work hard, play by the rules and you shall succeed.

    • @jrYoutube1
      @jrYoutube1 8 лет назад

      +Ashley Kay are you chinese...you sound australian😯

    • @johndee759
      @johndee759 8 лет назад

      joel ray Yup,

  • @_xkim00
    @_xkim00 11 лет назад

    Ashley, your talk makes lot of sense to me, I hope it works for me, as I am really trying hard to focus on myself right now.

  • @dannyalexander2081
    @dannyalexander2081 10 лет назад +2

    Should i still have hope or not, my gf broke up with me because she said she was unhappy with where she was in life and unhappy with herself and she said it had nothing do with me because she says i was perfect.... she broke up with me on Nov. 14, we sitll talked a bit but in december i felt her more cold and then i saw her for my 21st bday, and then 3 weeks after that to really kinda end things. Its been over 3 weeks now of no contact n im sure i miss her more than she misses me , help.

  • @GlobalResonanceDance
    @GlobalResonanceDance 10 лет назад +1

    You're a wise lady. Your guy must be lucky to have you :-)

  • @maxlife9721
    @maxlife9721 8 лет назад

    Do what you want as long as it comes from a place of detachment from them and abundance.....but yes....wait a month and date other people and move on

  • @erikhh78
    @erikhh78 10 лет назад

    Dear Ashley
    I just want to say thank you for your great videos and it´s nice to see that you have a genuine desire to help people with relationship issues, there is a lot to learn from your videos! Please keep up the good work :)
    Take care and merry X-Mas
    Supporter from Denmark

  • @marquistbrown8849
    @marquistbrown8849 8 лет назад +2

    Thank you so much, you are gold, I will definitely try and use this knowledge in my current situation and hope it works. Thanks again Kay.

    • @ellab740
      @ellab740 2 года назад

      Hello there if you are facing any Challenges in your Relationship worry no more, I'll introduce you to the same relationship restorer(DrWilson)who helped me got back my ex, he can help you within 72hours

    • @ellab740
      @ellab740 2 года назад

      M e s s a g e h I m n o w;-)

    • @ellab740
      @ellab740 2 года назад

      V i a W h a t s A p p;-)

    • @ellab740
      @ellab740 2 года назад

      +1

    • @ellab740
      @ellab740 2 года назад

      8722

  • @Pokemon4ever92
    @Pokemon4ever92 11 лет назад

    If you're expecting other people to do things for you then you're gonna have a bad time.

  • @pandacoch
    @pandacoch 11 лет назад +1

    Thanks again, very insightful.

  • @WinBackMyLove
    @WinBackMyLove 10 лет назад

    Excellent video! Winning your ex back for good isn´t complicated but it does take time and determination. Shift your focus away from your ex. Commit to stop being needy and go no contact. Take steps to work on loving yourself first. Look back at the person you were that your ex first fell in love with...what can you do to get back to being that person again?

  • @XXgEo135xX
    @XXgEo135xX 10 лет назад

    Really helpfully honestly helped me ass soon as I was done watching

  • @aliamir6558
    @aliamir6558 11 лет назад

    This is great advice I've always felt like this but never new what to do about I always knew I needed to bring that old love back.

  • @PK-jy5xh
    @PK-jy5xh 7 лет назад

    Great advices. Will follow them for sure. tks n regards

  • @springflower68
    @springflower68 9 лет назад

    Wonderful! It's really highly recommended...thank you! :)

  • @bryancol318
    @bryancol318 8 лет назад +2

    Hey ashley, while there is no guarantee about getting an ex back, especially after she says she doesn't love you the same way I was wondering of there is a way yiu might be able to coach me or atleast help me. I feel like my situations might be a bit different from the situations being discribed. where can I contact you?

  • @kaylakay7017
    @kaylakay7017 8 лет назад +2

    hey Ashley I did long distance with my ex when I get back to my state and get back home he breaks up with me over text, a year later I find out why he broke up with me because he can't handle the distance. now he's crawling back wanting a relationship I was happy to talk to him but mad as hell at him. Please help he wants me back and this guy was my first love

    • @roxy420dash
      @roxy420dash 7 лет назад

      What happened? as this just recently happened to me. We met when he came over to my country for the year and ended up falling in love, and been together for 7months. He then left to go back for his for studies,and i've planned *and now cant cancel to go live in his country!!. I when and visited him and soon as i got back he texted he didn't want to be with me. I cant waste all this money not to move out now, but is it worth meeting up with him? A text doesn't cut it in my books. At least a call would of been better as we weren't in the same place at the time=( he owes me that much!

    • @kaylakay7017
      @kaylakay7017 7 лет назад

      Yeah I understand a year later like this past august is when we started talking again and truth is you can never go back to a ex . Screw it

  • @GermanicHispanic
    @GermanicHispanic 12 лет назад

    Wow this woman is a genius !!!

  • @udithishanka3521
    @udithishanka3521 4 года назад

    This is really helpful thank you☺️

  • @boldboy4087
    @boldboy4087 7 лет назад +1

    i 've lost my GF 2 years ago but how can i get ex gf life no idea then that video realized

  • @lanceawatt
    @lanceawatt 10 лет назад

    The planet analogy is excellent!

  • @rayraybaby9301
    @rayraybaby9301 7 лет назад

    clay has the best advice

  • @afterdarkpak1
    @afterdarkpak1 11 лет назад

    well the good thing is " get a new life , get a new relationship " just understand the first top comment ..

  • @Avenvk
    @Avenvk 11 лет назад

    Moving on isint that easy once ur really deeply attache'd to that special person. It hurts . And that can make you do a lot of things that you will regret..

  • @Imjustaregularguy1
    @Imjustaregularguy1 11 лет назад

    another thing is - Make sure you never text more letters than her. If u say "How u doin on this beautiful sunny day?:) if she replies "Well, U?" now u know u have to take it back a notch. This is all texting psychology. U reply like a gentleman and friendly "great, thanks for asking" THATS IT> IF SHE DOESNT REPLY u need to wait another week before another text. I know it sucks but this is an uphill struggle. just keep focsed on ur project. Keep it inside.

  • @ryanmurphyri
    @ryanmurphyri 8 лет назад

    Thanks for your advice Ashley! My problem is this: If I focus on myself and improving my situation, but my ex doesn't see it, how will she know I've changed and come back to me?

  • @mitiaiev
    @mitiaiev 10 лет назад +1

    Well, after I've watched this video I realized that basically you are not able to do anything in order to return your ex. Ashley could have done this video way shorter.
    the main idea is "if it is your's, then it will come back to you, but if not then just learn from your mistakes"...

  • @jamiecarolinerivas2394
    @jamiecarolinerivas2394 8 лет назад

    Thank you! I needed to hear that!

  • @haneefpeters4066
    @haneefpeters4066 9 лет назад

    This video was so helpful...

  • @rasul471
    @rasul471 11 лет назад

    Thank you for sharing that was very helpful

  • @Imjustaregularguy1
    @Imjustaregularguy1 11 лет назад

    Also you should avoid texting anything deep for this period, even if she wants to get deep. Just play it cool and show her you are not overly interested but you respect her and her space. Be very friendly. In order to get her back, its alot easier to start as friends first. If you have the luxury of a friendship thats the first step. Now maintain by not talking about getting together, or dating other people or anything deep. Be cool. very simple. brief. Youre just keeping her warm

  • @venomous
    @venomous 9 лет назад

    Excellent advice, thank you.

  • @JohnThomas-vl8bl
    @JohnThomas-vl8bl 11 лет назад

    The question may of use have is how do we get our Ex to love us again. Ashley has great advice on this topic if we can follow a couple of simple steps.

  • @19dulce68
    @19dulce68 5 лет назад

    Nix! I never go back again! Life is so sweet 😀

  • @gunhed76
    @gunhed76 9 лет назад

    Your Advice is gold

  • @thegunner9294
    @thegunner9294 7 лет назад +1

    How would your ex be attracted to you during the no contact period if she doesn't know what you are doing?

  • @PASCALP25
    @PASCALP25 8 лет назад +1

    I got into depression and I stopped with her, I wasn t myself really, I am so much better now, back to normal, and all I can do is being a witness of what happened,I tried to reach her,but she was too hurt...

    • @marianawill1055
      @marianawill1055 8 лет назад

      +PASCALP25 i am from Nertherland,i want to use this wonderful opportunity to thank Dr.priest tokubo who helped me to get back my ex.,i ask myself sometimes when will i get her back,one day i came across Dr.high priest tokubo advertisement on internet how he helped people and grant them their heart desire by winning their ex back to them,so i decided to email him. He assure me that our request will be granted once he cast his powerful spell,i believe and follow his instructions,after the casting of the spell,my ex text me that she want to see me,friends i was so shock to see her text begging me to forgive her. if you really want to get your ex back contact him via the following email: highpriesttokubo (at)gmail.com

    • @mspay8450
      @mspay8450 7 лет назад +1

      My recent ex broke up with me because he was suffering from depression too. May I ask you a few questions in regards to your depression to understand my ex and the break up better?

    • @mspay8450
      @mspay8450 7 лет назад

      My recent ex broke up with me because he was suffering from depression too. May I ask you a few questions in regards to your depression to understand my ex and the break up better?

    • @PASCALP25
      @PASCALP25 7 лет назад

      P. Ms yes

    • @mspay8450
      @mspay8450 7 лет назад

      Thank you for replying back and I'm sorry for what you went through.
      My questions are:
      Can you help describe what your thoughts were or the reasons that made you stop trying, and how did you feel after the breakup was official? Were there times during your depression that you hoped she will contact you back? Also, how long did you have your depression?
      The reasons why I am asking all these questions and hoping you can help answer them for me is because I still have hope for a second chance with my relationship with my ex. When he broke up with me, I was in great shocked and devastated because everything before the depression was good between us.

  • @shanipvinh
    @shanipvinh 12 лет назад

    Great video. This really helped thanks :)

  • @salusburycheese
    @salusburycheese 11 лет назад

    Wish I saw this a month ago. Would've saved my relationship

  • @rosemaravilha
    @rosemaravilha 11 лет назад

    It can happen. My ex contacted me after 6 months and he broke up with me. But now I am so angry for what he put me through, seriously! I prayed for this day to happen, but would bet on my life it would never happen. Six weeks earlier, I had called him and he really treated me like garbage, saying he had a new gf. Now, he's saying he is not over me, he hasn't moved on at all, blah, blah...I love him, but I don't know what to do. I haven't replied yet to any of his texta and emails.