BABY #3? SAVING MYSELF FOR MARRIAGE? MOVING? // Personal Q & A
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- Опубликовано: 9 сен 2024
- You guys asked so many good questions I might have to do a part 2! Let me know in the comments, would you like to see a super personal, juicy q & a?
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I love how you have thought about not having Eloise in videos when she gets to school age. Though I know we will all miss her!
I'm a tiny bud in this RUclips space and currently pregnant with my first. I'm also considering a lot of our child's privacy and not many youtubers talk about it. So I'm glad you did 😊
Elle lindquist has descided to do this and it is very respectful.
One of the biggest reason why I HATE family vloggers is because they profit off of invading their children’s privacy. So much respect for you.
Staying home as an introvert is the most relatable thing I've ever heard lol LOVE how you answered that 'cause sameee 🙋♀️
I'm Christian and I'm saving myself until marriage. I feel very alone in this, but my fiance is so supportive and wonderful! You are a great role model girl! ❤
My husband and I got married at 19 and we saved ourselves for marriage! It is so so so worth it!! You go girl! God knows your intent and he's gonna bless you both in your marriage 🙂❤
@@VJ-rr5do How is it even saving if you get married that ridiculously young. But that's the thing people get married before even being actual adults, so they don't have to "wait"
@@chiraine1 I saved myself even though I had the option not to. Just because we were young doesn't mean we couldn't have slept with someone before or with each other before we were married. Legally we were adults when we got married and now are living a wonderful life with each other! Everyone has a different age that is right for them to get married at. We personally knew it was the right time. That doesn't mean everyone should get married that young though! We in the end wanted to honor God with our minds and bodies and we ended up doing that! I don't regret a thing! 🙂
BTW: I LOVE YOUR STYLE!!! I think it suites your personality (from what we an see) to the T! One of the reasons I love your channel is because its so calm and serene and cozy (if that makes sense) and I think your "aesthetic" has so much to do with that. Being YOU Is very important. I never understood why some people feel SO INCLINED to give out their opinions.. Really.. Sending much love from VA! ❤❤❤❤
I wish she could upload a new video everyday ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
YES for a juicy q&a, we need all the TEA we can get 😂😭🙌
You are such a peaceful parent to your kids, I have 3 kids and love watching your videos, such a good example of how you don't need all the stuff and to just stay present and playful with your kids. 💜
I love what you said about wanting your children to mix with people of other faiths. It’s such a nice way of doing it, explaining your beliefs to your children will form a much better relationship than forcing it upon them ❤️❤️ love this video 💞
I really can't imagine you getting frustrated/snapping/etc. for some reason, but none the less, I really appreciate your honesty about stuff like that, that's one of the things that really makes me like you a lot. You're just really down to earth and honest and real and that's pretty rare these days, I think. It takes a LOT to get me angry/frustrated, but it does happen and I try really hard to not be grumpy in front of my little one, and even though she can't talk yet, I always tell her I'm sorry if I curse in front of her or get angry about something.
Also, your dedication to your faith is so inspiring to me. I really like how comfortable you are talking about it. I'm trying so hard to be a better Christian and get my remaining sin under control a little better, and you really inspire me in that department.
Haven’t watched the video yet, but still super excited for when baby #3 is coming because you guys make the cutest kids and I love watching your family grow 😍♥️
I recently did a study over Genesis and my mind was completely BLOWN! I had never studied it in the same way as I did this time around and I learned so much! It was insane. I found such comfort in the fact that no matter how much sin I fall into, I still won’t mess up God’s plan or his grace toward me! It was such a beautiful time in my studying and I have a much deeper appreciation of the Old Testament now!
Please discuss your memonite background. I know almost nothing about the culture. Please discuss what it would have looked like 100 years, 50 years ago and how have you incorporate it into your current lives?
Ohhh, thats a good question!
Yes! Love this question
YES JUICY Q+A
You're style has honestly had a big impact on my own style. I never even knew how much I love earth tones until I came across your channel. It's a route I never thought about taking. I always struggled with what color scheme would work best for me. And to be honest, earth tones are so easy to combine, they are gentle for the eyes and look very aesthetically pleasing. I'm loving my current wardrobe thanks to you.
I loved when you said you want your kids to discover and learn about other religions. Growing up that was something that I lacked, and having questions is what made my have a closer relationship to God. You are such a good mom, I adore you!! Part two please!!
I love watching your video because they are so comforting and real! Being a full-time mama is more than exhausted, but is more than joyful to see the children growing up. May the Lord encourage you and help you with His heritage.
I never 'loved' reading old testament but recently started again going through the 'the bible project" reading plan and watching their videos before each book puts them in a bigger perspective and now i love the old testament
Marriage so good love it. Whoever is reading be calm and do not fear. You will overcome this. It doesnot matter what's happening all around you. May there be restoration in whatever you had lost
I love that you want your children to be friends with people of other faiths! As a kid, I went to Catholic schools and my parents really only allowed me to be friends with people of the same religious/political beliefs as them. As someone who has very different beliefs as my parents, I know I would have loved to have more diverse friends and incorporate different perspectives at a young age. You're doing an amazing job as a mother, keep it up!
I normally never leave comments cause there's no way to on my smart tv but I just wanted to say I respect so much that you'll be easing the kiddos out of your videos as they get older. Any time I've thought of getting into blogging or vlogging that was my main drawback. Love your channel ❤
I think the "earth tones" question is more that there are so few parents who "curate" their children's clothing... I'm like you, I prefer neutrals and earth tones for myself and for my children! And my newborn daughter has like 2 pink-ish items of clothing in her size... the rest is olive green, tan, mustard, rust, burgundy,
Delilah is such a genuine person and I look up to her so much as a strong Christian woman, mother, and wife. I hope to be like her one day 🥺💕
I an SO happy you’re not just sharing the good things, that’s why I watch you. You’re one of the SAHMs that is continuing being honest of how your day has been or that you’ve been struggling. That makes me feel like I’m not alone in having bad days!
Also, about the clothes: I’m very much a neutral color gal, but I dress my little one in pretty colors! It makes me happy, so that’s what he wears until he wants to choose clothes instead ✌️
This video encouraged me to “come back” to God, I remembered that I used to feel so great when I was close to Him and really felt the need to read the bible again so for that I mean thank you, seriously
I had a ROUGH morning today realizing that it's the 4 year anniversary of when I lost my uncle. Your video definitely helped distract me 🧡
YES GIRL PLEASE for Part 2! I love how honest and wonderful you are, thanks for always being you genuine Delilah 💕
I love your videos so much!! I just had my first child about 5 months ago named Benjamin and you are such an inspiration to me.
Thank you for making RUclips videos! I am a 21 year old Christian wife. And I am so glad there is a few people that make lifestyle videos living the same lifestyle I do. I found you through Sarah Therese.
You said you would let your children “speak to and mingle with” people with different beliefs and religion from yours but would you let them be friends? Would you welcome them into your home?
I'm curious too. Religion is not synonymous with being a good person. I'd hope they would have their home open to anyone who's worthy of respect regardless of beliefs
@@choosnau I'm curious about that too. I've noticed that Delilah and I have very similar beliefs and Christian backgrounds (we both come from Mennonite families) and what I was taught growing up was that we welcome everyone regardless of belief and that they are to be respected if they are worthy of respect. The Bible teaches that Jesus walked and ate with sinners, but he did not act or do what the sinners did. In modern terms, Jesus spent time with and valued people with different beliefs and/or values but did not act in what they did or do what they believed if he didn't believe it in his heart! So growing up I learned that I am to welcome and respect people regardless of belief but that I shouldn't indulge myself in things that I do not hold to be true or that would be of immoral value (and I mean in anything, not just religion, like if a kid pressured me to smoke I wouldn't smoke because I know that it is bad for my health, likewise I wouldn't pray to multiple gods in a different religion if I do not believe in that religion, but I would definitely and absolutely respect and spend time with the people who do because they are worthy of love!!) I hope that helps, at least from another point of view. Of course, I can't speak for Delilah!
It really interests me too. Tbh I'm Jewish and i love watching Delilah's videos. even tho i don't particularly identify with Christian beliefs i do identify with family values ( which obviously exists in most religion) and the value of love which is very prominent in her videos.
As a really non religious people i do believe people are more than their religion. Even tho ur religion is a certain part of you your humanity and heart are the most important. Plus most people will not try to convert you, just be friendly.
I love watching your videos. I’m a first time mom, with a husband who is a firefighter, so I’m left alone on our farm in Alaska a lot. It can get really overwhelming. To hear about how another mom is handling things and the reminder to just breathe and drink in these precious early years is priceless. You’re really doing a service to a lot of people out there- just by talking about your life! That’s amazing. Thank you for being vulnerable by showing us your life!
if you don’t mind me asking how often do firefighters go without being home?
Eloise not wanting to be on camera haha I cannot see that. SHE IS THE STAR 😂🤩❤️ I love you all lol
For sure for the Part II. You should do a video sharing your testimony! :)
I got married at 19 and we'll be celebrating 14 years on the 27th. I think understanding love languages, having the same feelings on faith and having the same expectations going into marriage keeps it from being "hard"
The way you dress yourself, and your kids, has actually changed the way I think about clothes. It has opened my eyes to being more mindful and selective regarding pieces I purchase, rather than the constant cycle of trends in fast fashion. It is so simple, but I have never thought about sticking to a colour or tone range, but your wardrobe opened my eyes to that possibility. It has changed the way I feel about my clothing and makes it less stressful for me to plan outfits. (I also am drawn to natural earth tones most of the time, but felt pressure from images around me to wear bright colours... and to not be the girl who always wears "that" colour/tone, but it never felt 100% comfortable).I feel like this is something that people don't tend to do, especially when it comes to children/baby clothes. I am also an introvert... so that could also be why I'm drawn to the calmness and comforting earth tones rather than "non-ignorable" bright colours. 😅
I absolutely ADORE your videos and how you are so honest. It’s refreshing to see a family that is real, raw and shows their faith! So glad I randomly came across one of your videos and was able to watch Eloise grow and see Theo do the same!🤎
I love your sit down talks Delilah ❤️
Thanks for being such an inspiration in style/clothing and motherhood💕💕💕i looove your content and your family
Yes let’s get a part 2. And thank you Delilah for your hard work!
Thank you so much for that honest video! As an introvert I really sometimes feel like I am not fitting in because I adore to stay at home, alone. I absolutely love the way you talk to your kids and I ADORE your aesthetics, your style, your vibe! Thank you so much for beeing you and for being real!
What I like about your Channel and how I perceived it
I'm not religious and I still like how you add that into your channel because that's you.
I get ideas for my own life on motherhood, home decor,, style, cooking and so much more....... I failed at making waffle sauce lol 😆. I love the sense of family and how much you care about having a happy home. you are awesome and I think you're doing a fantastic job. You've never offended me
Yes to a part 2!!! This video was long but watching it it didn’t feel like it haha it was so casual and great I loved it!
Height twinsies! I'm 5'1, almost 5'2 as well.
To add on about body confidence: Our bodies are constantly changing and you shouldn't compare yourself to your previous self or anybody else. Our diets and activity levels change. Hormones fluctuate. We age. We get pregnant. We bloat from eating too much chinese take-out. If you're constantly analyzing your body, of course you're going to feel insecure. We're ever-changing beings. Accept yourself for who you are today and better yourself for tomorrow.
Love your videos and can't wait to see more! Including that juicy Q&A!
Part two please. I love that you wear earth tones, it inspires me to be more neutral with my wardrobe.
It is wild to me that you have to tell people RUclips is a job. My Husband has interest in starting our own channel, however I do NOT feel like I have the time with a baby. I feel like people have no idea how much work goes in to videos. I seriously don’t know how you do it, even with help it’s hard! Kudos to you Mama, you are KILLING it!!! ❤️
I struggle with perspective; during stress, priorities, the overwhelming to-do list and no help... I need SOOO much grace. You're not alone!
when you said that parents should not force their beliefs in their children,i almost cried-
i'm a young pagan witch- and the fact that i'm a teen,and i still live with my parents,makes me scared about speaking up about my religion.
thank you for saying that,people should talk about that topic more!!
I'm a foster parent and our first placement just went home after 11 months. I remember missing my freedoms at times, but now that they have gone I would do A N Y T H I N G to get them back. The freedom is not as enjoyable once you have been given the gift of caring for children that needs your love.
I really like how real you are in your videos, to be honest when I discovered your channel and your aesthetic, I thought I would watch an idealistic type of content, but I really quickly changed my mind. I feel like you are really honest with the content you put out and you don't let the audience think of your videos as utopians which is really appreciative. I think its this authenticity and honesty that keep me entertained and excited about the new content you put out.
You should try and make a purely silent vlog!
Your edit is so beautiful, I bet it would work so well!
Psych undergrad here! During puberty (approx ages 13-21) the brain is going through a lot of development. The brain's "gas pedal," aka the amygdala, is pressed to the /floor/ and it basically means you are being driven by your limbic system, aka your emotions, rather than rational thought and logic. So, often times there are many many regrettable decisions and actions. 🤷♀️
Girl, I love your style, despite all the people saying you need more color in your wardrobe. Plus, u look amazing in earthy tones. You are so inspiring to me and make me want to be an even better mom to my kids. Love u and you are doing an amazing job!
you ARE good with words! You talk to us normal folk and we totally get you! ✨
You’re always radiant but during the summer there’s just something about you! You’re glowing!!! 💕💕
I cannot believe that you think you are bad at speaking! I looooove listening to you, I think you have such a nice way of putting things and such a big vocabulary!! 💓😍
Yes, I’d love as many Q&As as you’re willing to make! ❤️ I love learning more about my favorite RUclipsrs
It doesn't matter what you say or how you say it someone is going to get offended. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and yet some cannot handle it when someone has a different one. Which is crazy to me. I don't wish you to be stressed on rude and non-contructive opinions and/or feedback. Thank you for being apart of the youtube community. I don't have kids and I'm not married and I don't have the same faith as you but I love watching your videos, they are realistic and honest and one day I aspire to be just as good a mum as you. Thank you.
It's so interesting how many RUclipsrs (myself included) are introverts! I've felt a bit like a walking contradiction because my introversion makes me naturally more private and quiet, but being on RUclips requires being more chatty and open. I do love it though!
i would love to watch a part 2!!
Hi:) I have a question. Do you think it's okay to read the bible when you aren't religious? I am not really religious but I think the stories are so inspiring and interesting! Love you and your family a lot!❤
It‘s not just okay, it‘s the best you can do! The bible is the living word. It has such a power and it‘s not at all about being religious. Try to think about it as a personal relationship with the Lord of the lords and the creator of the universe - how amazing is that! May the Lord bless you and speak to you through his word ❤️
You should you will not be sorry. Read and enjoy it.
I absolutely adore the way you dress yourself and your children! You have wonderful taste and the kiddos always look TOO cute :) Definitely looking forward to a part 2!
I love this video! Please make a part 2. But take all the time you need in doing so. Don't feel pressured by anything! Love you and your family so much!
I really enjoyed this video; the style, the openness, the length! I would love to see a part two 🌟
I have just found your channel and I love how genuine and honest you are. I'll definitely follow your journey and vlogs.
Also, I love how you talk about your faith, motherhood and all other belonging to the everyday life. ❤️
I just found your channel recently and I love it! I feel like I can relate to you in so many ways and I am really inspired by you as a mother and Christian and everything else that I've seen so far! I am 19 weeks pregnant and I'm planning to be a stay-at-home mom and I love seeing what you put into it along with doing RUclips and all the other things life entails. Keep up the great content and just want to let you know you are appreciated and so cute!!
You might consider checking houses this year because everywhere houses are getting cheaper (because of the coronavirus)
I really enjoy watching your sit down videos and just hearing what your life is like as a working stay at home mom. I find it very intriguing because I am striving for a similar lifestyle. Just hearing the reality of it and the pros and cons has really helped me. Love your videos!!
When You mentioned being socially awkward and Introverted, I related on all the levels!
I believe that I can speak on behalf of a lot of people here that also think this - but we don't watch your videos because we think you're perfect, flawless or eloquent in speech - we watch your videos because you are real, raw and love Jesus and that life is much more interesting to us! Thank you for being who God has made you to be.
You are beautiful and a wonderful wife and mother.
I'm not christian, or any abrahamic religion, for that matter.. but i really respect your dedication to your faith and I support those who choose to wait to have sex till they're married. There's something really sweet and pure about that.
I relate with you so much! I literally laughed out loud when you said you’d rather stay home than go get coffee with anyone living or dead because that is exactly how I felt!
You are a really good speaker and you can explain your thoughts clearly ,I enjoyed watching this. thank you.
Don't stress too much about offending people. Someone is offended by something at ALL times! Speak the truth and with kindness (as you always do) and let the rest go
Do a part 2, please! I love watching your take on the world :)
Yes please to the 2nd video!! You're doing a great job at RUclips honestly. I love your relaxed videos. I know it's hard, but don't try too hard to figure out interesting things to film. Just do day in the life and bake a cake or smth. I would love to see more recipes from you. Just live and share a glimpse with us and all will be great!
Loved this q&a! I can relate to so much and it's always nice to know that there are other people out there that are Christian, stay/work at.uomr mum's etc just doing normal life 😆😉
Yess...i think u should definitely go for part 2 of this video. It was really good...
I love how real your videos are!! As an atheist sometimes it's hard to watch videos where you talk heavily about your beliefs but I really enjoyed this q&a despite the heavy religious talk! I'm young and supposed to get married in july (thanks covid) and due to ttc after the wedding and love your style and content.
Juicy part 2 please!! Just found your channel today and subscribed :) Already having so much fun browsing your videos!
AHHH I'm so thrilled you did a Q&A! I hope this was a more relaxed video to make. Take it easy!
Thank you for your honesty!!! I love your Q&A videos and would love to see part 2. I definitely can relate to many things you've been talking in the video especially caught up in daily routine as SAHM and not working. 😣
I am Muslim and I love watching you. You are amazing 💕Thanks for sharing!!
Yes to a part 2! And also could you make a “what your kids eat in a day”/ “what you eat in a day” video?? Would love some food inspiration and ideas! Love your channel🤍
you are such an inspiration and i’m absolutely in love with how much you mention the lord. you really are an incredible person and your personality is amazing! you seem to have the sweetest spirit
I’m 5’1 too! And my husband is 6’2 😂😂
I’m glad you see those things in the OT! The Lord can use anyone! ❤️
I’m always up for a juicy q&a!
I love your whole calm and collected aesthetic
I'll literally sit here and watch all of Delilah's videos and the ads all the way through. I LOVE you! I am so interested in your channel ... Especially now as an engaged woman! I love hearing your marriage and relationship thoughts. Xo
You are great and q&a's with you,always fun :) yes to part number 2.♡♡♡♡♡
I thought that intro segment was so cute!!! Absolutely loving your videos lately, thank you 🥰🥰
I loved this Q&A! I must admit, even if it sounds silly, that I too can’t wait for baby #3! You guys are such genuine people that it’s nice too see how your kids are being brought up, it really matches with my own vision of the world (minus the faith, because that isn’t how I was raised and I haven’t been interested in it so far🙈). ❤️
Yes to a part 2! I love these sit down talks
That’ll preach, Delilah, amen sister. You’re so inspiring in how boldly you share your faith! ❤️
Hi Delilah I really like your channel and your family and despite the fact that I am Belgian and that I don't understand much in English, I always enjoy translating your videos (thanks to you I am learning a little English 😊) .You inspire me a lot. God bless you abundantly 💕
So encouraging to have so many Christians on RUclips to look up to and watch!
I´d love to see next part of this kind of a video and thank you so much for sharing this one :)
I love this! You crack me up! I'm so awkward, too. You actually single-handedly inspired me to start my channel, so thank you for sharing your gifts and not-gifted gifts! haha
When you feel down because of any negative comments always remember that there are people who love you. For me you are perfect just the way you are. I'm grateful for finding your channel and be a part of your life too. Thinking about it being a part of someone's life, having influence and helping seems really cool. I love your channel!
Thank you for the Q&A! A lot of inspiration in one video! And i vote yes for a second part for sure
And btw, concerning earth-tones, you have inspired me with your decor and your choice of clothing. I have been trying to find my "style" for a long time, but with all this fast fashion, we don't have options to choose from and try different styles of clothing, which is really sad.
Thanks again
I didn't start the video yet just saw first few secs and ... Awww you look preeeeettttttyyyyy ❤️❤️❤️❤️