Bernadine Smacked HOT FIRE From John's SIDECHICK | Waiting To Exhale

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Комментарии • 108

  • @joyyoung3108
    @joyyoung3108 3 месяца назад +41

    My grandmother taught my mom that you should always have "leaving" money when you're married, in case he either beats you or cheats in you. Always have an exist strategy. I believe the slap was deserved for the sidechick since she knew and even spent time around Bernadette and the kids due to working with the husband. So she purposely was destroying a family. Bernadette was blind in realizing that her husband since college was using her to improve his life and eventually start the company. He probably thought she should have been grateful for the 11 years of being wealthy. Straight narcissist. But Bernadette should have never put all her eggs in one basket and had her own bank account. 0:01

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  3 месяца назад +9

      In terms of the "leaving money", that's that "put a lil to the side" advice the elders told younger women.

  • @ParisFinley
    @ParisFinley 3 месяца назад +41

    Yes that slap was warranted 😂! No, it's not realistic but hell yeah, it's gratification!

  • @ajayy175
    @ajayy175 3 месяца назад +29

    She’s a better woman than me 😩I would’ve tore that whole meeting room the hell up! You didn’t just leave me you’re trying to leave me broke with two kids too???

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  3 месяца назад +9

      Somebody would have been going to jail that day! 😂😂😂

    • @ajayy175
      @ajayy175 3 месяца назад

      @@HeitCheri I’m surprised she didn’t go for putting hands on that white woman 🤣🤣

  • @CarsonDouglas
    @CarsonDouglas 3 месяца назад +9

    The home-wrecker slap heard cross the world 👋🏾🌎🤣

  • @trent_king
    @trent_king 3 месяца назад +26

    🎶..and you could leave me at the drop of a dime? Swallooooooowed my fears stood byyyyy your side! I should've left yo a5s a thousand times! 🎶
    Yeah, the slap was warranted. He needed one too😌

    • @ParisFinley
      @ParisFinley 3 месяца назад +3

      A good ol' Willie Dynamite pimp slap! "You got to have VISION"

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  3 месяца назад +5

      LISTEN... So many folks don't know about that old school Mary J. Blige!

  • @VidWatcher01
    @VidWatcher01 3 месяца назад +40

    Is Michael Beach ever faithful in a movie?

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  3 месяца назад +8

      Maybe there's one, but I can't recall it right now! 😂😂😂

    • @JaiRich375
      @JaiRich375 3 месяца назад

      Omg I said that myself!!!! This dude never was, and will never be ish....yea we ain't forget about cousin Faith negro😂

    • @laquitacollins5147
      @laquitacollins5147 3 месяца назад +5

      Soul Food he was unfaithful to Teri

    • @TheRetroWoman80
      @TheRetroWoman80 3 месяца назад +4

      Nope. He even lied in the last Saw installment😂😂😂😂

    • @TheRetroWoman80
      @TheRetroWoman80 3 месяца назад +6

      @@laquitacollins5147 The very, VERY first time he lied, which probably got him typecast for his career, was on an old episode of ER when he was messing around on his wife and caught HIV or AIDS.

  • @VidWatcher01
    @VidWatcher01 3 месяца назад +18

    Me & my cousins always joke whenever Lawrence Fishburn sees this part & thinks, "I taught her well....."

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  3 месяца назад +5

      😂😂😂

    • @TheRetroWoman80
      @TheRetroWoman80 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@HeitCheri I just can't🤣

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  3 месяца назад +1

      😆

    • @ertfgghhhh
      @ertfgghhhh 3 месяца назад +1

      I used to joke about the same types of things but now I don't. Think about it. Your people find out about your extremely ABUSIVE and controlling marriage. Then your people laugh and make jokes about your pain for thirty yrs.....
      stop, black people. These jokes are not funny

    • @VidWatcher01
      @VidWatcher01 2 месяца назад

      @@ertfgghhhh Never even thought of that.... I use to see black stand up comedians joke about these 2 movies on BET & I guess people figured since they were fictional characters people found it so easy to laugh about. You've given me quite a bit to think about🤔

  • @jreaves17
    @jreaves17 3 месяца назад +18

    “And now you think you can TAKE THE MONEY AND RUN?!” 😂😂😂
    11 years
    The slap was realistic especially since Bernandine seemingly knew the woman. If it was some random woman, probably not.

    • @trent_king
      @trent_king 3 месяца назад +9

      It was realistic to me bc she had a haughty disposition like John punk a5s was gon keep her safe or something. You gotta show hos like that what time it is 👋🏿

  • @audiolove1976
    @audiolove1976 3 месяца назад +11

    The side chick is Kelly Preston (RIP), who was a known actress in her own right, and starred in a lot of movies, particularly in the 80's and 90's, into recent years. Later on, she was more known as Mrs. John Travolta, but she had a lengthy career of her own.

    • @MsDisneylandlover
      @MsDisneylandlover 3 месяца назад +2

      What did she pass away from..
      Didn't she played on the cat in the hat.

    • @audiolove1976
      @audiolove1976 3 месяца назад +1

      @@MsDisneylandlover yes, she was in the Cat in the Hat, too 👍🏽. She unfortunately passed from breast cancer a couple years ago.

  • @jacobk9322
    @jacobk9322 3 месяца назад +12

    She had it coming from the woman whose marriage she wrecked. I’d be surprised if she was surprised

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  3 месяца назад +3

      Oh she was surprised... At least the look on her face seemed to say so. 😂😂😂

  • @iamstrangepeaches
    @iamstrangepeaches 3 месяца назад +14

    I certainly got my rocks off from the slap!!!! 👋🏿👋🏿👋🏿👋🏿👋🏿👋🏿👋🏿

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  3 месяца назад +2

      It felt good to watch because it may not be the thing any of us would do in real life (well some of us would... 😂), but it's the kind of thing we wish we could do and not pay consequences for.

  • @lashelldavis15
    @lashelldavis15 3 месяца назад +6

    11 years. The slap was needed for her sense of release. Bernadine punished him with the fire that looked like the burning of Atlanta. So, in her mind, she had to punish her too.

  • @curtislamarh
    @curtislamarh 3 месяца назад +11

    11 years lol❤😂 I think the slept probably was warranted because Bernadine's question was rhetorical (in my opinion) I think it's the fact the lady fixed her face to say anything! when really she should have just exited. @Chéri said it best "she shouldn't have stood up in the first place"

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  3 месяца назад +5

      There are moments to be silent, and this was one of them! 😂😂😂 She paid the price for stepping outta bounds and playing in Bernadine's face.

  • @sugaray7435
    @sugaray7435 3 месяца назад +5

    I think that slap was well deserved. You knowingly got with, came in between a marriage. She knew who Bernie was not like it was a mystery on who helped start the company! It was like a perfect opportunity, he wasn’t gonna have Bernie locked up. At least I hoped not!

  • @Tinkalink
    @Tinkalink 3 месяца назад +10

    That’s Kelly Preston (John Travolta’s wife)

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  3 месяца назад +2

      Yep! She died a few years back, sadly.

    • @TrangPakbaby
      @TrangPakbaby 3 месяца назад +1

      She was Angie’s friend, she got her the role ❤

  • @iamstrangepeaches
    @iamstrangepeaches 3 месяца назад +7

    11 MF YEARS!!!!

  • @BlackQueenA1825
    @BlackQueenA1825 3 месяца назад +1

    11 years.
    This is the 1st video I watched from your channel and I loved it. Definitely subscribing. John telling her to sell the house was to create an legal binding that she already accepted a payment. We see this kind of concept throughout a lot of civil disputes and it is legally binding (depending on where you live). If a person underpays you for a service and you cash the check, they can claim in court that you accepted that payment as fair if you try to sue them later. The same happens in eviction court. If a property manager or a landlord accepts a partial rent payment, they have to delay filing for an eviction because they accepted a payment from you. If Bernie had sold that house, John probably wouldn't have had to give her anything and if she had accepted that $300,000, in the hopes that it was just until they worked things out in court, he wouldn't had to give her anything else.

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  3 месяца назад

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @crystalwashington9739
    @crystalwashington9739 3 месяца назад +2

    The caption was diabolical 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sugaray7435
    @sugaray7435 3 месяца назад +2

    John was tryna strong arm her, as yall explained he had the upper hand and leverage with money. He literally thought he could take the money and run and scare her to selling the house and be done. But Bernie was having none of that! So happy she went all the way and got what she deserves!!

  • @Lilianamarie999
    @Lilianamarie999 3 месяца назад +1

    I saw this as a young teen with my mom in a theatre full of black women. Epic 😎

  • @therealmarlonbellamy
    @therealmarlonbellamy 3 месяца назад +5

    11 YEARS!!

  • @minigolfandothergames7096
    @minigolfandothergames7096 3 месяца назад +3

    She had all rights to everything, including business. Arizona is a community property state, so it was a little unrealistic as to what was going on, unless in some way she signed affidavits in similarity to an affidavit of sole and separate property, which is what may have happened at some point if he put the business in a LLC. My advice to all, is to never be complacent in your marriage to the point of not knowing what is going on. Because in the end during legal discovery it was found that he had assets everywhere. He didn’t care nothing about those clothes and items being sold and burned up. That was just the excuse he gave her to try and bully her to control the situation.
    And that slap was definitely justified, because that heifer was the one helping him to gather all those secret assets. I had a mixed group of friends when we went to the theater to see this movie so long ago and my white friends spoke the loudest on how justified that slap was and gave me a fairly detailed insight on work groupies, as they were called.

  • @IvannaMcGregor
    @IvannaMcGregor Месяц назад +2

    I've concluded that she was supposed to slap her husband but she takes her vows seriously so instead she slapped the sidechick that meaned she still loved him.
    I hope yall caught it 🤫🤫.

  • @escritora84
    @escritora84 3 месяца назад +2

    I remember watching the slap for the first time and feeling cathartic on Bernadine's behalf. Was it a lil extra? Maybe, but Bernadine probably knew if she put her hands on her husband, her chances for him to give her her due would go out the window. 11 years, i'd be slapping somebody too lmao

  • @TheRetroWoman80
    @TheRetroWoman80 3 месяца назад +2

    🎶 Eee leh vun years 🎶
    The dramatics of that slap, while Angela was looking damn lovely, has always made me laugh. As well as the "tramp b****" statement afterwards😂
    Do I think it was right? Well, as Heit stated, for the plot yes. But in real life, no.
    She could have gotten major charges for assault if John or the side woman chose to file.
    John was a dog outside of that. Many humans, men or women, do not know how to remain humble and nice as they rise out of the stratosphere, socioeconomically.
    They all seem to get big headed on some level and many lose empathy along the way while maintaining their status.

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  3 месяца назад +1

      I totally agree. This is why we love to see characters get vindication in movies because we know there is too much rock in something like this in real life.

  • @MsDisneylandlover
    @MsDisneylandlover 3 месяца назад +1

    The Queen of acting ❤

  • @American-Niiji-Girl
    @American-Niiji-Girl 3 месяца назад +1

    YES it was! Becky lucky that's all she did to her.

  • @MsDisneylandlover
    @MsDisneylandlover 3 месяца назад

    11yrs in MJB singing voice I should left your azz long time ago. Lol my bad probably that's how it go lol.

  • @user-wr4th2gz6f
    @user-wr4th2gz6f 3 месяца назад

    She stood up is what she did. That's why she got slapped!

  • @marvinwhittaker
    @marvinwhittaker 3 месяца назад +1

    I feel Bernie pain, and she had the right to be upset but I think she should've slapped John was he was the one who broke his vows.

  • @Rjonesy101
    @Rjonesy101 3 месяца назад

    11years. That slap was for us viewers, in real life that mistress would file for assault

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  3 месяца назад +1

      Yep! And John would have testified against her 😆

  • @TheOriginalGaPeach
    @TheOriginalGaPeach 3 месяца назад

    11 years she sacrifice!! Good discussion!!! 😊😊😊

  • @MsDisneylandlover
    @MsDisneylandlover 3 месяца назад

    The husband should have got the slap
    #DisneyDiva
    Mary J Blige's song is now in my mind. Not gonna cry 😂

  • @Tamzbongeaux
    @Tamzbongeaux 3 месяца назад +1

    11 years

  • @coreywalker5651
    @coreywalker5651 3 месяца назад +1

    11 YEARS

  • @angelaholmes8888
    @angelaholmes8888 3 месяца назад

    11 years
    i totally understand what bernadine did she spent 11 years being a good wife and mother to their kids only for him to leave her on new year's eve john was in the wrong

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  3 месяца назад +1

      Yes he was in the wrong!

  • @CandieP
    @CandieP 3 месяца назад +4

    I’m a strong supporter of go after your MAN and Not the other woman because your MAN made those vows with you, not the other woman, so that slap should have been reserved for John (although I do not condone violence)🥴

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  3 месяца назад +4

      So here's the thing... she DID go after John hard and she was indeed mostly upset with him and pursued what HE owed her. However, the side woman literally inserted herself where she didn't belong. Bernadine showed up to get her money from John because he was playing funny with the money. She didn't go there to slap that woman.
      I agree that the woman should go after the man for sure. Although, I do think a lot of women these days say "go after your man" because they are the type who sleep with married men and they want to redirect that smoke on a conscious or subconscious level. IJS

    • @CandieP
      @CandieP 3 месяца назад +1

      @@HeitCheri I definitely understand your perspective, but for me (personally) who have been both Bernadette and the “other woman” in past relationships, I find it counterproductive to take my anger and frustration out on the other woman, even if she inserts herself. In my eyes she’s being lied to and manipulated just like me, so we’re in the same boat.. I also expect the other woman to want what I have and pursue it. What I don’t expect is the man who promised me fidelity, security and till death do us part to act on his passion and break our vows and trust.

  • @nellywilliams2776
    @nellywilliams2776 3 месяца назад

    11 years…

  • @leelee5593
    @leelee5593 3 месяца назад +1

    You guys reacted to the best movie about girlfriends ❤❤

  • @dajanedior
    @dajanedior 3 месяца назад +1

    11 years🎉

  • @quietstorm7684
    @quietstorm7684 3 месяца назад +1

    11 Years

  • @amaurimangum1907
    @amaurimangum1907 3 месяца назад

    11 years ❤

  • @ChrisMuadDib
    @ChrisMuadDib 3 месяца назад

    11 yrs

  • @Shewolfgoddess44
    @Shewolfgoddess44 3 месяца назад

    11 years!

  • @DTowns1Finest
    @DTowns1Finest 3 месяца назад +1

    i was today years old when i officially don't like this scene lmao I used to love it but im sorry, "What am I supposed to do for money" IS A WILD STATEMENT TO MAKE 🙃🙃 baby this is a man that chose AFTER you were dress and made up on NYE to tell you he leaving you for a woman YOU BEEN MET. you then burn ALL his stuff and you expected an allowance DURING THE PROCEEDINGS?! Bernie needed a wake up call to reality QUICK.
    He didnt just turn cold cherie.....john been like that....that marriage been doomed and been failed. most likely bernie was afraid and he absolutely gave her esteem issues...they had been together for so long and she hadnt used her degree she prolly talked herself out of leaving. But I can't with this be okay frfr. Bernie wanna stay at the same tax bracket she in and i get it that she is comfortable but thats not reality! Go work and build yourself! Have that man pay for them kids education and get tough lol 11 years!

    • @HeitCheri
      @HeitCheri  3 месяца назад +1

      Whoooo Chile you said a whole lot right there! 😊 I do think she had a right to have expectations based on their marriage arrangement with him being the financial provider and her being a homemaker and making sure the kids were set. What about that part though? I love talking this through. -Cheri

    • @DTowns1Finest
      @DTowns1Finest 3 месяца назад

      @@HeitCheri i dont think she was wrong AT ALL for the hope, expectation, or the theatrical slap but lets be realistic. Auntie Angelou done told us when someone tells is who they are BELIEVE THEM…she needed to believe john from the jump of the situation and play offense is all. Like i can imagine myself going there and going off….but saying out loud to him in public “what am i spose to do for money” is a putting your spades hand down face up 😂😂

    • @lovemusicunapologetically6245
      @lovemusicunapologetically6245 3 месяца назад

      No, she can do borh. She helped to build him, so why not get what she deserves. Also, she can start using her degree to have more cushion.

    • @DTowns1Finest
      @DTowns1Finest 3 месяца назад

      @@lovemusicunapologetically6245 i agree with what she doing it’s the how that i can’t get behind lol I’m not letting my left hand know anything about my right hand that’s why he through out that settlement once he knew how broke she was he thought he could seduce her with the money to make her go away.. she should’ve just went straight to the lawyer

  • @DarkLight6Tv
    @DarkLight6Tv 3 месяца назад

    11 years.

  • @lyricttg
    @lyricttg 3 месяца назад

    11 years! Lol.

  • @Ashas.Garden
    @Ashas.Garden 3 месяца назад +1

    11 yeeears.

  • @caliBornbEauty
    @caliBornbEauty 3 месяца назад

    #11Years

  • @IvannaMcGregor
    @IvannaMcGregor Месяц назад +2

    The slap was not just for the sidechick it was for the husband, that's why it was so loud she put all the anger into that slap. 🫡🤐

  • @alexsoccer941
    @alexsoccer941 3 месяца назад

    11 YEARS

  • @tarajordan8893
    @tarajordan8893 Месяц назад

    11 years

  • @only1me23
    @only1me23 3 месяца назад

    11 YEARS!

  • @calebriley6774
    @calebriley6774 3 месяца назад

    11 years

  • @soulangel835a
    @soulangel835a 3 месяца назад

    11 years

  • @amleke391
    @amleke391 3 месяца назад

    11 years

  • @missmisher
    @missmisher 3 месяца назад

    11 years

  • @problematic_fav
    @problematic_fav 3 месяца назад

    11 years

  • @RelleYou
    @RelleYou 3 месяца назад

    11 years

  • @Shy411
    @Shy411 3 месяца назад

    11 years

  • @TallulahChanel
    @TallulahChanel 3 месяца назад

    11 years

  • @NikaCarter
    @NikaCarter 3 месяца назад

    11 years