As Christian mama and wife that is struggling to break the generational curse of yelling, you have no idea how much I appreciate these talks! It breaks my heart when I slip up and lose my temper. It's something I'm praying daily about, that God will remove the hatefulness from my heart and replace it with love and softness. I want to be an example for my children.
And remember, as you pray and improve over time, THAT is already a good example for your children. We teach them as we grow. Watching you grow is valuable for them!
Same, same, same I pray and try every single day to break these generational curse, thank you for these podcast please keep it up God is using you for this purpose God bless you so so so much ❤️🎙️🙏💋😘💕🥰
What I find particularly inspiring about this channel is the MINDFUL and DELIBERATE nature of the cooking, cleaning, arranging things while the voice over is being done. There are no extraneous or wasted movements/actions. This really adds something wonderful to what is being said.
I'm not a mother yet, but I'm a nanny and have been for a few years now. I work predominantly with toddlers. My advice is to not give up on your children. Many parents that I have seen give up on expecting good behavior from their children. If your child wants candy and you don't have the patience to endure the tantrum that they will inevitably throw and just give them the candy, you are giving up on your child because you don't believe that your child has the capacity to behave well. Children are incredibly capable and are so much smarter than we think and if you give up on then in this way, they can sense it. Hang in there. Help them to give a name to their big feelings and give them coping mechanisms like taking deep breaths and calming their muscles. It is so worth it. Not only will you have a child who knows that they cannot get everything that they want and won't throw a fit to get it, you also will have a child who knows how to emotionally regulate and think rationally. They may be at school or at a friend's house and there will be things there that they want too, but if they know how to deny themselves and take up that cross they will be so much more equipped for life. They will be able to say no to the alcohol, no to the drugs, no to cheating on their spouse, no to gluttony, etc. It all starts here. Don't give up on yourself and don't give up on them. Also, if you choose to just give in every time, what are you going to do when they want a new gaming system in their teens? When they want a new car in their 20s? When they refuse to move out in their 30s? Parenting is the long game.
Thank you for this reminder. I’m currently enduring the trying twos and this definitely hits close to home! What a wonderful reminder that the “hard” days are going to past and I need to focus on the long term.
I watch this a an older mom who looking back is filled with two things 1) regret and 2) gratitude. My adult children are wonderful people. And the glory must go to God. I raised them often in my emotions. I yelled a lot. My chastisements often were radical and lasted years. For an example removing a game from them for two years for breaking a rule concerning the game rules I had in place. I behaved often as if everything I did for them made me miserable. Because I wasn't allowed to be a house wife and worked outside the home over 40 hours a week my children had a stressed mom who did a lousy job managing it. Being the first Christian in my family I did pray. I prayed all the time for the character and salvation of my children and I pleaded with God to fix me. God honored my prayers and my children are adults now with a healthy and godly mom. God, despite my bad state, gave all my kids godly character. Though they all read the Bible and attend church on their own I hope they are truly saved and regenerated and not just religious. I share your videos with my daughter and daughter in laws as well as other women. Perhaps they will have a better legacy from the start.
Amen, thank you for your words. God can use This forum to speak to others too. I have 4 young children all a year & a half apart. The part you said with “I behaved often as if everything I did for them made me miserable” really hit me in my soul. I’ve been Wrestling with God like Jacob about my character mainly towards my children I go in & out of this fun playful loving mom to this frazzled hott mess that is being crushed in responsibility then I sit and condemn myself for my actions (conviction is from God- Condemnation is not.) until God reminds me of proverbs 24:16 - it’s always a choice. When I believe I’m forgiven & it is Gods Spirit that does all things good for me & my children a supernatural strength gets me through yet another pit of despair that I may allow God to draw me closer. Glory to God for your Children. I believe by Faith my children will be saved. God is stronger 🙏❤️
Hopefully you can genuinely apologize to them face to face or over the phone even if they don't say anything it means alot I wish my mother would do this we have a good relationship now but it feels as though she is just trying to bury her past behavior.
@@daughterofjesuschristbelov2760 Oh I have. We are all very close. I am very transparent and asked for forgiveness. God made me different and I am this new mom with them. I'm present and healthy. God has removed a lot of my selfishness. I have always been honest which would include humbling myself, confessing my sins, selfishness, misguided decisions that hurt them. In fact everytime I think of something from the past I reach out and let them know what was on my mind and I'm sorry. I also invite them to talk to me about how I hurt them. That I won't like it, it won't feel good and I can't even promise I will remember but I will acknowledge their hurt and my actions and given the opportunity, I will be better. I hope your mom will repent and confess and get to a humble and healthy place so that your relationship can heal and grow complete. We aren't healed completely but I pray God heals and restores what they lost and I pray I am able to be whoever that is to help them recover and be whole in Christ. God bless you.
The bonus of confessing sin and asking forgiveness was my favorite part. "Do not let your pride be the destroyer of your relationships" was beautiful and brought me to tears. Thank you.
I'll never forget the first time I heard my mother say "I brought you in this world, I can take you out". I had realized in that moment that my mother could kill me and "they" would let/allow her to do so. Everyone in my family knew about the death of my oldest brother, a victim of an alleged assault by my mother, so it was very believable to my younger self that I would possibly experience the same thing if I didn't stay in line. It was traumatic and shaped my relationship with her till the very day she transitioned. As a mother I understood that just because I could, didn't mean I should when raising my children. The "because I said so" slogan of parenting I never subscribed to. But I will say emotionally I struggled to bind that spirit that was rampant in my experience growing up with regular fasting and prayer. God forgive us.
I am very early on in my pregnancy, and I’ve been rethinking a lot of what I believed about parenting. Thank you for this video. It has been enlightening, thought provoking, and I am so glad to have heard this message
I would love a video on what discipline looks like for your family. I think Christians struggle with wanting to love their kids and discipline them, but also are afraid of the world.
@@kerrymartin7557 😂 well I doubt perfect. And I doubt EVERYTHING she does is perfect. Nobody is. But I do respect the attention she puts on making sure she does live biblically and intentionally
Bindi thank you soooooo much for your content. So eloquent so aligned with scripture. As a married woman with two babies you have no idea how much your words have helped me out. Now with that being said, I have opened up my Bible (finally) Spend time with the Lord on the secret place every morning ever since! You see, he is my energy my strength to keep going, to thrive in my home, to become better for me, my hubbie, my babies, and my home. I thank the Lord for you! ❤
I am a mother of a 5 yr old little girl. Thank you for this insight. I'm am trying to raise her in a biblical way and unlearn the unhealthy, toxic way of speaking to me child that I learned from my family. It's hard doing it by myself without help. Good designed the nuclear family so perfectly. I pay attention to other families at church and the mother might tell the kids to do something and they might resist a bit but as soon as the father intervenes, the kids do what they are told out of reverence. I think it's the authority in the father's tone of voice. I have found that in my parenting, I tend to use the same language that I have learned from my family. I often resort to yelling and threats of "beating" her but then I reflect on these things and feel so ashamed. God is slowly teaching me how to be a better, more godly mother while I still pray for a husband for me and a father figure for me child. Again thank you for this ❤️
As a rule, I avoid social media etc like the plague as I feel it’s all fake and generally the downfall of our society. I stumbled on this channel by accident and have been binge watching the last few days while it’s been raining too hard to be out farming. I LOVE IT!! I’ve never agreed with anything more in my life.
I’m not a wife or a mother yet, but Lord I will be someday. I am a teacher, and some of these concepts can be applied to how I converse with my students. I am stewarding their well-being and education for 9 months and it’s difficult sometimes. I have so many opportunities to set a godly example of womanhood and charity to my students. They are so young and my attitude sets the tone of our day. How I treat my students can help prepare me for how I will someday honor and love my own children. Thanks for this.
This is so incredibly inspiring. I have 3 young boys and lately I’ve been living in such fear over how to raise them in the Lord. I did not grow up in a Christian home and feel very lost. Your videos have provided such wisdom and comfort to me. Thank you ❤
This was such a wonderful, convicting, loving, biblical and necessary message my sweet sister. I’ll certainly be sharing this video via my community tab. 💞 Glory be to God! ✝️ Thank you for allowing Him to use you and share this. 💐
Thank you for reminding us that children need to be respected as well. Growing up my household was very disrespectful and I don’t want to repeat the same thing with my younger sister
I haven't even finished the video but this. This is the content I've been needing like air. This is God breathed and right on time. God bless you! I've been following your content for a few months now trying to be a better woman of God. The femininity content and the homemaking stuff has been great and the submissive wife part has been awesome. No problem doing any of that and I've seen much fruit! But I've been feeling like I'm drowning trying to be a kind and loving mother while also setting boundaries for my kids. Thank you for this lifeline
I think one thing we can do is present ourselves in beauty for our children. You have talked before about doing this for your husband and I absolutely think that is necessary, but I think it is important for our children too. Otherwise, there is the underlying message of "I don't value your opinion of me" or "you are too much work but not worth the effort". Of course, we will have days we don't feel well and that messy bun and sweats are the way to go, but on just a normal day, make an effort to present classiness and beauty in your appearance for your children
My Granny taught me all I knew about Jesus. I consider her my true mother. After her passing, my birth mother took over and she and her sisters gaslit and abused me. Nowadays, as a future mama myself, I’ve chosen to serve God based on what Granny taught me and showed me and as an act of love I’ve chosen to distance myself from my mama and aunts because it is unhealthy. That is how I honor the Lord and Granny’s legacy.
Lol, watching how pretty and productive Bindi was while cleaning had me dragging my butt from a very comfortable couch and into the kitchen to take care of my dishes. Your video footage managed to transform a detested chore I've been avoiding into a noble display of duty that I actually wanted to partake in. I don't know why that is, but my kitchen thanks you. Maybe do some laundry in your next video? My pile of dirty clothes is getting out of hand and I could use some Bindi-chore-clips to get it done! ❤️
Hey Bindi🤗! Just found your channel about a week ago and I love the information and God lead wisdom you are giving. I didn’t read through all the comments but, I would like to add that it’s ok for our children to say No and express themselves verbally. I don’t grow up wanting to speak to my parents and we still have issues now with our communication. I am praying and working on this part myself Daily! I remember long ago when my oldest was 1years old and she said “No”to her Dad so he scolded her saying “don’t tell me No!” I later expressed to him that it’s ok for her to say it especially if she’s not in danger, harming herself or others and the appropriateness of not wanting help at that moment because we felt rushed. I want her to understand her words have power and using them appropriately is ok even to us as her parents. One of my favorite green salads is arugula, baby spinach and kale with salmon, honey balsamic vinaigrette and fresh strawberries 🍓. Chefs Kiss 💋! May God continue to bless you and your family in every and any season you all are in.
Thank you for speaking the truth in love. So much of our current culture justifies our disrespect toward our children and I’ve been very guilty of having double standards with my children. This video drove me to my knees in confession and when my children wake tomorrow, I will be asking their forgiveness. Thank you for showing the daily work and habits of managing a home while speaking the truth we need to hear among the often mundane tasks.
I think current culture justifies disrespect to everyone… yourself, your husband, parents, co-workers… really everyone you encounter and children always are caught in the consequences of sin. I’m guilty, too. Being so unaware also… I’m thankful for truth and how God reaches us through his faithful children.
I really like the list you came up with, Bindi. I would personally add that teaching our children about responsibility and their role in the family, more than just existing and taking up space, is really important from a young age. Teaching the toddler how to clean up after themselves, teaching the older children how to help with certain chores that are appropriate for their age. I don't think that part can be understated as to how important it is. Additionally, I would say it is a kindness to your children to discipline them and to be consistent. "Spare the rod, spoil the child." Not a popular sentiment in this day and age but scripture never lies. As mothers, we can be both loving and firm. We can learn how to not be yelly and coarse and easily shaken, while still upholding important boundaries, rules, etc., of the home and teaching our children how to obey us. The 4th commandment is incredibly important, and our children need to learn it's importance from day one. You can't discipline a baby, but you sure can teach them about boundaries and how to exist well in the family. Parents needn't be afraid to place these rules and then when they're broken, discipline, upon their children. It's one of the greatest kindnesses we can bestow upon them.
Apologizing to my kids when I fail them as a mother is one of the most important things I have done, in my opinion. My husband was raised by a physically abusive father & an emotionally neglectful mother. She told him to his face; "If you are waiting around for an apology, forget it. You will be waiting a long time, because I am not going to give you one." His father told him (when my husband tried to have a heart to heart with him)" I don't really care to fix this relationship. I'm too old to change." these attitudes eventually led my husband to cut his family out of our lives altogether. So much so, that he did not even attend his father's funeral & hasn't talked to his mother in 12 years, even tho she lives 5 houses away. I can see the hurt & damage that this has caused my husband. I know I am not a perfect mother, so the best thing I can do is apologize & give my child the power to forgive me, or not.
Girl, I just make 'em. I don't give the salads names. They may be called "whatever we got in the 'frigerator" salad. 🤭But I do love spinach, red, and green leaf lettuce. Napa cabbage is good for Asian-inspired salads. I love a good crunch and a myriad of textures. Thanks for the post. I realize that as a teacher in a low-income area, I am seen as the first point of contact for Christ. After watching this, I am absolutely convicted about how I have went about teaching. I am going to take this back to Christ in prayer. God bless.
I love the tip about praying against generational curses. Yes! That’s not something I had thought to do. And I love the tip of scheduling regular, intentional time to do what your kids love to do. ❤❤❤
My daughter wanted to say that her favorite leafy green salad is Caesar salad.🥰 Thank you, Sis for sharing. Praying for you. Keep fighting a good fight.
This is such a beautiful video, from the way it's taped, to the message. It's astounding. Thank you, I believe the Lord truly shines through you. Listening to this message brings so much peace to my heart. God keep you and bless you sister, as well as your viewers. 💟 "Don't let pride get in the way of your relationships." 💟 In Jesus name, amen. 🕊
Your channel stumbled across my path & I’m thanking God for this. One thing that stood out was validation of our almighty Heavenly Father 💞 I say this sometimes when others talk of being validated & feel misunderstood. But this confirms it. Valid validation comes from God. Praise Jesus.
It’s funny a few days ago when you uploaded this video I saw it on my feed, but I was having a rough day and I said NO. Not right now. I wasn’t ready to hear it. A few days later, having an internal struggle at home alone with my kids even knowing the desires of the Lord I already have in my heart for my children, for my family and I came back, to watch this video. Thank you so much, everything you say, I take it and dwell on it and I feel blessed. I never had anyone in my life speak and teach me the things you talk about in your videos but now being a mom and homemaker it is the most important thing to me I wish I had learned all of this years ago, what you share is so so important for all mothers, truly, Thank you. And God bless you and your beautiful family.
One of my fav leafy green salad ; lettuce/spinach mix, cranberries, walnuts/pecans chopped, blue cheese crumbles, chopped apples & honey Dijon/skinny girl poppy seed dressing 😋 yummy.
Three books that I have read this past year that has really helped me… Giving your words by Sally Clarkson, Love is a choice by Robert Hemfelt, and The blessing by John Trent. I also was raised in a household that was disrespectful and a lot of yelling and used fear/manipulation to get us kids to obey. I have had to unlearn things and re-learn new ways of doing things… Godly ways of doing child rearing. I have a 19-year-old who has moved out and he’s doing very well on his own! A 17-year-old girl and a 15-year-old boy still at home. The more you read, the more you learn, the more you know! And then you’re able to do better🥰
I just wanna say I enjoy your videos so much!!! And I always look forward to watching them. They are truly a God send in my life and has helped me prepare for a biblical family life in so many prosperous ways. Thank you for sharing your journey, for being so well versed in the Bible and for never compromising in the Lord with these teachings. It is truly inspirational!!! God bless you and your family so you can continue fulfilling his will on Earth as it is Heaven!!! :)
18 year old here lol... can definitely attest to your first point. My parents had a set plan for me to go to a specific Christian college, and gave me just a few degrees/jobs i could do. I wasnt given room for the Lord's leading. It made the last two years of high school very, very hard, and i felt like i didnt have control/couldn't give the Lord control over my life because I had to obey and submit to them.
I love Caesar salad...though lately I've gone with organic spring mix and spinach mix, carrots, sundried tomatoes, ground chicken and a balsamic vinegar, acv, olive oil, and a splash of pure maple syrup dressing mixture
Thank you Bindi Marc for this. I am constantly reminded of a phrase that a friend, who is a very godly and wise individual, would say in response to what I said of “prayers the least I can do,” kinda just saying that. He said “prayer is not the least we can do, but the most.”
Oh my goodness Bindi. THIS! Lord know I love my mother but she feels as though she has to right to disrespect me. Not only as a child but more so now as a adult and I have children myself. I needed this ❤
I praise King Jesus for you my sister, I'm unlearning to learn from God and so you are a mouth piece that The Lord is using to help me be a better mom and future wife. Heaven continues to shine on you 🙏 😊
I agree❤ I remind myself...My children are supposed to be an extension of The Most High...not a extension of myself.... They share DNA with their dad and I but their soul is his and should remain his.....Very much needed wisdom. Thank you and The Most High! Also appreciate how you discussed praying about generational curses this is absolutely true and a great help and solution in prayer and intercession 😊 Amein! shalom and Selah!
Bindi, this was well done. I have 5 daughters and they are 6 and under, essentially if I could sum up your well done video, intentional parenting is what it boils down to. Giving and showing your children the best version of yourself and modeling your expectations of them all while handling with care the lives given to you to steward by God. A lot for me to consider. Thanks for this video.
I'm a new subscriber. Thanks so much for this messGe,message, really needed it. I've made alot of mistakes(and sometimes still do) with raising my four children. I desire more than anything to steward my children in ways that please God...Love this💖
I love your content. I am not married but I am a lady in waiting. I am 22, and the Lord has really intensified my desire for marriage and being a mother and a wife, so much so that I have begun to pray for my future children, future husband ,and our future home. Growing up I have seen many ungodly ways of doing relationships and I have been a child of an unhealed mom, and I promised myself and the Lord that I will do it His way. I am gaining so much understanding from your channel. Thank you Ms. Bindi.
I absolutely loved this one! I always struggle with actually putting my values into practice, especially as a mom and wife. Please continue to make more of these motherhood episodes and I’d love to hear some practical applications-such as what we can actually say or do instead of the typical selfish nature response , etc! ❤
Kale salad with homemade croutons sliced cherry tomatoes - massage on kale a little lemon juice, small dollop of mayonnaise, salt garlic powder to taste, later sprinkle in a little bit of Parmesan cheese or nutritional flakes for added creaminess 👌
Thanks for talking about motherhood. We often have a vision for our children but it's so important to submit our plans before the Lord & ask our kids (if they are old enough) their thoughts. It's also key to evaluate if we are discerning God's voice or comparing ourselves to other moms and influencers in social media. Keep the videos coming! ♥
your voice. I love it. I have a two-year-old and it has been so tough. all your words are helping me accept my true role in her life and to let go of perfectionism. To let go and let God and be mindful and intentional in how i raise her and treat her with love and respect
Bindi I have to say this video was so powerful and so needed for myself. Every point you made was a literally rebuke to me. I want to be a better mother and have no regrets after I have raised them. Being a mother is a precious blessing and gift from the Lord. Thank you for these videos!! Also love your salad! I am now inspired to make chicken Caesar salad for dinner one night this week.
I dont have children, but I'm glad to learn what mothers should be like. I don't think the previous generations new much about this. Thank you for sharing.
THHANK YOU bella! This is a explanation/confirmation of a dream God gave me that I didnt understand how I was falling short…this is the revelation! Girl, I thank The Lord for using you mightily like this. May The Lord bless you and your family.
By the end of this video I was praying to the Lord and crying. I am currently doing many of these things with my 3 year old but I took lots notes 📝 throughout. I appreciate your content so much!
I needed this video today I’m not a mother but I watch my 2 yr old nephew and 11 month old niece. I’ve been very irritable and short today but I will give it back to the Lord.
Bindi Bindi. . I needed this. Now I gotta get with the Holy Spirit and allow him to transform me.... then get my hubby to listen...my speech isn't as eloquent and loving as yours. I communicate much of what you shared but he considers me as too biblical and hard on myself.
This is so amazing to hear as someone who isn't a mother but knows the season is close. Thank you. Also, may I add that I love the modesty of her home. Very minimilist. No fancy decor. Yet very beautiful with simple memory worthy accents. It's so refreshing in a world that honors maximilism and the idea that you must spend millions of dollars on decoration in your home.
Thank you. I needed to be reminded of so many things you spoke. It stung, but I am grateful. I appreciate the wisdom of your channel. May God bless you greatly.
This is such wonderful advice because it comes from principle found in the Word of God. I grew up in “black culture” and those phrases you mentioned at the beginning of your video were joked about often growing up. But the Lord showed me a better way over time and it’s all the things you’ve stated in this video. By the grace and power of God and my submission to Him, both of my daughters and both of my sons are being raised intentionally to love and serve Jesus, and love and serve people. Thanks for all your content!
You're absolutely correct. The critical voice I hear came from my parents. I struggle now to teach what God says is true because in my life it was always the "bad things" that God said were true that were directed at me. Now I'm learning what it means to mother in love.
Bindi thanks for such a great video. Motherhood and parenting are something I enjoy talking about and learning about. I would love to see a video series based off this video or even a book. I would be thrilled to see you have more conversations with others about this topic. Being a mom is something I’ve always desired and I believe being a mom is one of my missions from God. I have had mixed responses when saying that. What do you think? Can motherhood be a calling?
Thank you so much Bindi, I have actually searched for parental content from you a few times last year, this is an answer from the Lord, thank you so much. ❤️❤️❤️💐❤️❤️ Love you.
The Holy Spirit has spoken to me and told me that my purpose/calling is motherhood. I’m so grateful for the words of wisdom shared even more with this video. Thank you Jesus for not abandoning us and forgiving us. No matter what you have done and where you have been the Lord’s arms are always open to accept you. He loves you so much! That salad looks amazing I love Caesar and kale salads by the way. God bless all of you and may you live a life according to His will 🙏🏽.
I believe the same thing for myself. Motherhood is my calling and sole purpose. The role knocked me upside my head and was the very thing I was the most afraid of. Yet here I am years later, and have had my life completely saved and blessed in. Two children. Two of the most beautiful people, souls I have ever met. When I'm in my zone as a mommy, I'm I'm pure bliss. Experiencing and exploring life with them is beyond priceless. I thank God all through the day for such an outstanding profound role 💜
Thank you for posting this, Bindi. I really appreciate you posting this. I have a 7 month old and I'm 3 months pregnant. I want to be a godly mother and your video has put me in the right direction
I just found your channel yesterday, and I absolutely love your videos!! This is so good and very much needed! I would also like to add that when your child messes up let them know that they can come to you without you being harsh and critical, and judge mental of them. That was something my mother always did for me and I have great respect for her today because of it I have friends whose mothers and fathers would beat them over the head with whatever they did wrong and the child learned to hide bad behavior, rather than changing it. Our children should know that we always are in their corner, even when they mess up. Not in an enabling way. But in a loving way.
What a wonderful video, rich in wisdom and so convicting! Thank you for sharing. I absolutely love your content on biblical womanhood and always looking forward to the next video. I also throughly enjoyed watching you cook, clean with so much finesse and calm, it was very inspiring. My favorite leafy green salad is a simple organic mixed greens side salad topped with avocado and sauerkraut 🌱
Great reminder that love is a choice for your children just like for your marriage. ❤ Also the reminder that our children are not ours, they are the Lord’s always changes my perspective immediately. Love the reminder to remind your children what the Bible says who they are, I don’t do that enough! I also feel like in this season of learning and God refining my parenting I confess and ask forgiveness more than I’d like but I’m trusting the Lord that there will be fruit on the other side of these initial struggles ❤️ Great video!
I am truly inspired by these 10+ ways to better motherhood for my children. Thank you so much for sharing, I'm going to work on these things immediately and I'll send this to my friends, we all need to hear this .
The video started at Item 5. Is there a part 1? I enjoy Bindi Marc's Christian maturityand very intentional way of living with and raising her fa.ily and running her home. Well, clear spoken. Thanks
Bindi you just inspire me so much. I thank The Lord above for you, the way I grow when I listen to you with such edification to be who God has made me to be just ugh, makes me soar!! Thank you sister. So much 🥺🙏
Thank you for this wonderful video. I heard over the span of three days. It's a lot to soak in and wonderfully spelled out. You have wisdom beyond your years. God bless you! My favorite leafy green salad is a cooked kale salad with apples, onions, and bacon. ✨
I have two sons (2 and 3) and this video is definitely meaningful. I didn’t grow up in a family who did this for my brother and I. It makes me want to be a better mom to them everyday. And I also believe in prayer for their families and futures. That their wives would love God first and chase him with my sons. Also, yes we as moms gave birth to our kids but we did not give them life Jesus did.
Hey love, I truly appreciate your videos. They are helping me become a better wife/ homemaker and mama!! Thank you for putting your example of being a biblical woman on display. Teaching the younger women like myself. Video Ideas: Should we homeschool our children or send to school? (Share your thoughts/ experiences on exposing your children to the world and how to do that..) Training up your children.
Thanks for this powerful video, I have being praying for my children since they came into this world for ALL areas of their lives especially for GOD Fearing Husband's and against any family things that are not Godly. Keep teaching, you are making great impact on the Christian Marriage & Homes. Remain Bless My Pretty Sister. Watching from The Gambia Smiling Coast of Africa ( West Africa)
As Christian mama and wife that is struggling to break the generational curse of yelling, you have no idea how much I appreciate these talks! It breaks my heart when I slip up and lose my temper. It's something I'm praying daily about, that God will remove the hatefulness from my heart and replace it with love and softness. I want to be an example for my children.
Hey love,
Go on a fast. Choose from any variation you feel led.
And remember, as you pray and improve over time, THAT is already a good example for your children. We teach them as we grow. Watching you grow is valuable for them!
Me too Mama, me too 🙏🏻
Same, same, same I pray and try every single day to break these generational curse, thank you for these podcast please keep it up God is using you for this purpose God bless you so so so much ❤️🎙️🙏💋😘💕🥰
What I find particularly inspiring about this channel is the MINDFUL and DELIBERATE nature of the cooking, cleaning, arranging things while the voice over is being done. There are no extraneous or wasted movements/actions. This really adds something wonderful to what is being said.
I completely agree! It is great!
If you love that you might love Because It Matters here on youtube
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I'm not a mother yet, but I'm a nanny and have been for a few years now. I work predominantly with toddlers. My advice is to not give up on your children. Many parents that I have seen give up on expecting good behavior from their children. If your child wants candy and you don't have the patience to endure the tantrum that they will inevitably throw and just give them the candy, you are giving up on your child because you don't believe that your child has the capacity to behave well. Children are incredibly capable and are so much smarter than we think and if you give up on then in this way, they can sense it. Hang in there. Help them to give a name to their big feelings and give them coping mechanisms like taking deep breaths and calming their muscles. It is so worth it. Not only will you have a child who knows that they cannot get everything that they want and won't throw a fit to get it, you also will have a child who knows how to emotionally regulate and think rationally. They may be at school or at a friend's house and there will be things there that they want too, but if they know how to deny themselves and take up that cross they will be so much more equipped for life. They will be able to say no to the alcohol, no to the drugs, no to cheating on their spouse, no to gluttony, etc. It all starts here. Don't give up on yourself and don't give up on them. Also, if you choose to just give in every time, what are you going to do when they want a new gaming system in their teens? When they want a new car in their 20s? When they refuse to move out in their 30s? Parenting is the long game.
Thank you for this reminder. I’m currently enduring the trying twos and this definitely hits close to home! What a wonderful reminder that the “hard” days are going to past and I need to focus on the long term.
@Ashley You got this Mama! Your future self, and children, will thank you!
@@Ashley-h719 Amen!
Screenshot this ❤ Thank you for the encouragement!! I love your words.
@Nana Ronhano Absolutely and thanks for the compliment my friend! 💝
Please don’t ever stop making videos. Woman you are anointed! God bless you! 🫶🏼
I watch this a an older mom who looking back is filled with two things 1) regret and 2) gratitude. My adult children are wonderful people. And the glory must go to God. I raised them often in my emotions. I yelled a lot. My chastisements often were radical and lasted years. For an example removing a game from them for two years for breaking a rule concerning the game rules I had in place. I behaved often as if everything I did for them made me miserable. Because I wasn't allowed to be a house wife and worked outside the home over 40 hours a week my children had a stressed mom who did a lousy job managing it. Being the first Christian in my family I did pray. I prayed all the time for the character and salvation of my children and I pleaded with God to fix me. God honored my prayers and my children are adults now with a healthy and godly mom. God, despite my bad state, gave all my kids godly character. Though they all read the Bible and attend church on their own I hope they are truly saved and regenerated and not just religious. I share your videos with my daughter and daughter in laws as well as other women. Perhaps they will have a better legacy from the start.
Amen, thank you for your words. God can use This forum to speak to others too. I have 4 young children all a year & a half apart. The part you said with “I behaved often as if everything I did for them made me miserable” really hit me in my soul. I’ve been Wrestling with God like Jacob about my character mainly towards my children I go in & out of this fun playful loving mom to this frazzled hott mess that is being crushed in responsibility then I sit and condemn myself for my actions (conviction is from God- Condemnation is not.) until God reminds me of proverbs 24:16 - it’s always a choice. When I believe I’m forgiven & it is Gods Spirit that does all things good for me & my children a supernatural strength gets me through yet another pit of despair that I may allow God to draw me closer. Glory to God for your Children. I believe by Faith my children will be saved. God is stronger 🙏❤️
@@makenziesherwood2879 thank you sister.
Thank you for your honesty.
Hopefully you can genuinely apologize to them face to face or over the phone even if they don't say anything it means alot I wish my mother would do this we have a good relationship now but it feels as though she is just trying to bury her past behavior.
@@daughterofjesuschristbelov2760 Oh I have. We are all very close. I am very transparent and asked for forgiveness. God made me different and I am this new mom with them. I'm present and healthy. God has removed a lot of my selfishness. I have always been honest which would include humbling myself, confessing my sins, selfishness, misguided decisions that hurt them. In fact everytime I think of something from the past I reach out and let them know what was on my mind and I'm sorry. I also invite them to talk to me about how I hurt them. That I won't like it, it won't feel good and I can't even promise I will remember but I will acknowledge their hurt and my actions and given the opportunity, I will be better. I hope your mom will repent and confess and get to a humble and healthy place so that your relationship can heal and grow complete. We aren't healed completely but I pray God heals and restores what they lost and I pray I am able to be whoever that is to help them recover and be whole in Christ. God bless you.
The bonus of confessing sin and asking forgiveness was my favorite part. "Do not let your pride be the destroyer of your relationships" was beautiful and brought me to tears. Thank you.
I'll never forget the first time I heard my mother say "I brought you in this world, I can take you out". I had realized in that moment that my mother could kill me and "they" would let/allow her to do so. Everyone in my family knew about the death of my oldest brother, a victim of an alleged assault by my mother, so it was very believable to my younger self that I would possibly experience the same thing if I didn't stay in line. It was traumatic and shaped my relationship with her till the very day she transitioned.
As a mother I understood that just because I could, didn't mean I should when raising my children. The "because I said so" slogan of parenting I never subscribed to. But I will say emotionally I struggled to bind that spirit that was rampant in my experience growing up with regular fasting and prayer. God forgive us.
Dang....wow. I'm glad you are recovering through Christ. 🩷
I am very early on in my pregnancy, and I’ve been rethinking a lot of what I believed about parenting. Thank you for this video. It has been enlightening, thought provoking, and I am so glad to have heard this message
I would love a video on what discipline looks like for your family. I think Christians struggle with wanting to love their kids and discipline them, but also are afraid of the world.
Yes please do a video on this topic.
It's probably perfect, and perfectly Biblical, just like everything else she does.
@@kerrymartin7557 😂 well I doubt perfect. And I doubt EVERYTHING she does is perfect. Nobody is. But I do respect the attention she puts on making sure she does live biblically and intentionally
No one is perfect, but is she an amazing proverbs 31 woman? Yes! She is very real about her struggles as well. I would love to see a video on this!
Absolutely!! You hit it right on the head!!! I hope she does make a video like that!
Bindi thank you soooooo much for your content. So eloquent so aligned with scripture. As a married woman with two babies you have no idea how much your words have helped me out. Now with that being said, I have opened up my Bible (finally) Spend time with the Lord on the secret place every morning ever since! You see, he is my energy my strength to keep going, to thrive in my home, to become better for me, my hubbie, my babies, and my home. I thank the Lord for you! ❤
I am a mother of a 5 yr old little girl. Thank you for this insight. I'm am trying to raise her in a biblical way and unlearn the unhealthy, toxic way of speaking to me child that I learned from my family. It's hard doing it by myself without help. Good designed the nuclear family so perfectly. I pay attention to other families at church and the mother might tell the kids to do something and they might resist a bit but as soon as the father intervenes, the kids do what they are told out of reverence. I think it's the authority in the father's tone of voice.
I have found that in my parenting, I tend to use the same language that I have learned from my family. I often resort to yelling and threats of "beating" her but then I reflect on these things and feel so ashamed. God is slowly teaching me how to be a better, more godly mother while I still pray for a husband for me and a father figure for me child.
Again thank you for this ❤️
Praying with and for you sis! We can do this!
As a rule, I avoid social media etc like the plague as I feel it’s all fake and generally the downfall of our society. I stumbled on this channel by accident and have been binge watching the last few days while it’s been raining too hard to be out farming. I LOVE IT!! I’ve never agreed with anything more in my life.
I’m not a wife or a mother yet, but Lord I will be someday. I am a teacher, and some of these concepts can be applied to how I converse with my students. I am stewarding their well-being and education for 9 months and it’s difficult sometimes. I have so many opportunities to set a godly example of womanhood and charity to my students. They are so young and my attitude sets the tone of our day. How I treat my students can help prepare me for how I will someday honor and love my own children. Thanks for this.
This is so incredibly inspiring. I have 3 young boys and lately I’ve been living in such fear over how to raise them in the Lord. I did not grow up in a Christian home and feel very lost. Your videos have provided such wisdom and comfort to me. Thank you ❤
This was such a wonderful, convicting, loving, biblical and necessary message my sweet sister. I’ll certainly be sharing this video via my community tab. 💞 Glory be to God! ✝️ Thank you for allowing Him to use you and share this. 💐
Thank you for reminding us that children need to be respected as well. Growing up my household was very disrespectful and I don’t want to repeat the same thing with my younger sister
I haven't even finished the video but this. This is the content I've been needing like air. This is God breathed and right on time. God bless you! I've been following your content for a few months now trying to be a better woman of God. The femininity content and the homemaking stuff has been great and the submissive wife part has been awesome. No problem doing any of that and I've seen much fruit! But I've been feeling like I'm drowning trying to be a kind and loving mother while also setting boundaries for my kids. Thank you for this lifeline
Setting boundaries is being a loving Mama 😌 Sometimes it's not all smiles and you have to be firm. It's not easy, but anything worth doing never is.
Exactly how I feel. 😊
I think one thing we can do is present ourselves in beauty for our children. You have talked before about doing this for your husband and I absolutely think that is necessary, but I think it is important for our children too. Otherwise, there is the underlying message of "I don't value your opinion of me" or "you are too much work but not worth the effort". Of course, we will have days we don't feel well and that messy bun and sweats are the way to go, but on just a normal day, make an effort to present classiness and beauty in your appearance for your children
Yessss.
Man, I needed this. It's time for you to write a book for us, please. 🥺
My Granny taught me all I knew about Jesus. I consider her my true mother. After her passing, my birth mother took over and she and her sisters gaslit and abused me. Nowadays, as a future mama myself, I’ve chosen to serve God based on what Granny taught me and showed me and as an act of love I’ve chosen to distance myself from my mama and aunts because it is unhealthy. That is how I honor the Lord and Granny’s legacy.
I'm so thankful to God to have found Bindi Marc. God is so faithful ❤
Lol, watching how pretty and productive Bindi was while cleaning had me dragging my butt from a very comfortable couch and into the kitchen to take care of my dishes. Your video footage managed to transform a detested chore I've been avoiding into a noble display of duty that I actually wanted to partake in. I don't know why that is, but my kitchen thanks you.
Maybe do some laundry in your next video? My pile of dirty clothes is getting out of hand and I could use some Bindi-chore-clips to get it done! ❤️
Goodness this was convicting. The Lord knows I struggle with this. Thank you for this Godly wisdom. Praying for wisdom in my parenting. 🙏
Hey Bindi🤗!
Just found your channel about a week ago and I love the information and God lead wisdom you are giving. I didn’t read through all the comments but, I would like to add that it’s ok for our children to say No and express themselves verbally. I don’t grow up wanting to speak to my parents and we still have issues now with our communication. I am praying and working on this part myself Daily! I remember long ago when my oldest was 1years old and she said “No”to her Dad so he scolded her saying “don’t tell me No!” I later expressed to him that it’s ok for her to say it especially if she’s not in danger, harming herself or others and the appropriateness of not wanting help at that moment because we felt rushed. I want her to understand her words have power and using them appropriately is ok even to us as her parents. One of my favorite green salads is arugula, baby spinach and kale with salmon, honey balsamic vinaigrette and fresh strawberries 🍓. Chefs Kiss 💋! May God continue to bless you and your family in every and any season you all are in.
Thank you for speaking the truth in love. So much of our current culture justifies our disrespect toward our children and I’ve been very guilty of having double standards with my children. This video drove me to my knees in confession and when my children wake tomorrow, I will be asking their forgiveness. Thank you for showing the daily work and habits of managing a home while speaking the truth we need to hear among the often mundane tasks.
I think current culture justifies disrespect to everyone… yourself, your husband, parents, co-workers… really everyone you encounter and children always are caught in the consequences of sin. I’m guilty, too. Being so unaware also… I’m thankful for truth and how God reaches us through his faithful children.
O my goodness. I was listening while cleaning. I had to pause because i need to start over and take notes
I really like the list you came up with, Bindi. I would personally add that teaching our children about responsibility and their role in the family, more than just existing and taking up space, is really important from a young age. Teaching the toddler how to clean up after themselves, teaching the older children how to help with certain chores that are appropriate for their age. I don't think that part can be understated as to how important it is. Additionally, I would say it is a kindness to your children to discipline them and to be consistent. "Spare the rod, spoil the child." Not a popular sentiment in this day and age but scripture never lies. As mothers, we can be both loving and firm. We can learn how to not be yelly and coarse and easily shaken, while still upholding important boundaries, rules, etc., of the home and teaching our children how to obey us. The 4th commandment is incredibly important, and our children need to learn it's importance from day one. You can't discipline a baby, but you sure can teach them about boundaries and how to exist well in the family. Parents needn't be afraid to place these rules and then when they're broken, discipline, upon their children. It's one of the greatest kindnesses we can bestow upon them.
I loveee this comment!
Beautifully said
Apologizing to my kids when I fail them as a mother is one of the most important things I have done, in my opinion. My husband was raised by a physically abusive father & an emotionally neglectful mother. She told him to his face; "If you are waiting around for an apology, forget it. You will be waiting a long time, because I am not going to give you one." His father told him (when my husband tried to have a heart to heart with him)" I don't really care to fix this relationship. I'm too old to change." these attitudes eventually led my husband to cut his family out of our lives altogether. So much so, that he did not even attend his father's funeral & hasn't talked to his mother in 12 years, even tho she lives 5 houses away. I can see the hurt & damage that this has caused my husband. I know I am not a perfect mother, so the best thing I can do is apologize & give my child the power to forgive me, or not.
Girl, I just make 'em. I don't give the salads names. They may be called "whatever we got in the 'frigerator" salad. 🤭But I do love spinach, red, and green leaf lettuce. Napa cabbage is good for Asian-inspired salads. I love a good crunch and a myriad of textures. Thanks for the post. I realize that as a teacher in a low-income area, I am seen as the first point of contact for Christ. After watching this, I am absolutely convicted about how I have went about teaching. I am going to take this back to Christ in prayer. God bless.
I love the tip about praying against generational curses. Yes! That’s not something I had thought to do. And I love the tip of scheduling regular, intentional time to do what your kids love to do. ❤❤❤
My daughter wanted to say that her favorite leafy green salad is Caesar salad.🥰
Thank you, Sis for sharing. Praying for you. Keep fighting a good fight.
This is such a beautiful video, from the way it's taped, to the message. It's astounding. Thank you, I believe the Lord truly shines through you. Listening to this message brings so much peace to my heart. God keep you and bless you sister, as well as your viewers.
💟 "Don't let pride get in the way of your relationships." 💟
In Jesus name, amen. 🕊
Such a good word for the mommas. I’m a grandmother now and I’m here to tell you all that you said is golden.
Your channel stumbled across my path & I’m thanking God for this. One thing that stood out was validation of our almighty Heavenly Father 💞 I say this sometimes when others talk of being validated & feel misunderstood. But this confirms it. Valid validation comes from God. Praise Jesus.
It’s funny a few days ago when you uploaded this video I saw it on my feed, but I was having a rough day and I said NO. Not right now. I wasn’t ready to hear it. A few days later, having an internal struggle at home alone with my kids even knowing the desires of the Lord I already have in my heart for my children, for my family and I came back, to watch this video. Thank you so much, everything you say, I take it and dwell on it and I feel blessed. I never had anyone in my life speak and teach me the things you talk about in your videos but now being a mom and homemaker it is the most important thing to me I wish I had learned all of this years ago, what you share is so so important for all mothers, truly, Thank you. And God bless you and your beautiful family.
I agree with you so much about having respect for your children, they deserve loving words and actions from their parents!
One of my fav leafy green salad ; lettuce/spinach mix, cranberries, walnuts/pecans chopped, blue cheese crumbles, chopped apples & honey Dijon/skinny girl poppy seed dressing 😋 yummy.
Three books that I have read this past year that has really helped me… Giving your words by Sally Clarkson, Love is a choice by Robert Hemfelt, and The blessing by John Trent. I also was raised in a household that was disrespectful and a lot of yelling and used fear/manipulation to get us kids to obey. I have had to unlearn things and re-learn new ways of doing things… Godly ways of doing child rearing. I have a 19-year-old who has moved out and he’s doing very well on his own! A 17-year-old girl and a 15-year-old boy still at home. The more you read, the more you learn, the more you know! And then you’re able to do better🥰
Dang. Got me right in the feels with that last one. Beautiful words of wisdom, thank you❤
I just wanna say I enjoy your videos so much!!! And I always look forward to watching them. They are truly a God send in my life and has helped me prepare for a biblical family life in so many prosperous ways. Thank you for sharing your journey, for being so well versed in the Bible and for never compromising in the Lord with these teachings. It is truly inspirational!!! God bless you and your family so you can continue fulfilling his will on Earth as it is Heaven!!! :)
So much wisdom! It’s hard for parents to break out of this structure even once the children become adults…
18 year old here lol... can definitely attest to your first point. My parents had a set plan for me to go to a specific Christian college, and gave me just a few degrees/jobs i could do. I wasnt given room for the Lord's leading. It made the last two years of high school very, very hard, and i felt like i didnt have control/couldn't give the Lord control over my life because I had to obey and submit to them.
I love Caesar salad...though lately I've gone with organic spring mix and spinach mix, carrots, sundried tomatoes, ground chicken and a balsamic vinegar, acv, olive oil, and a splash of pure maple syrup dressing mixture
Thank you Bindi Marc for this. I am constantly reminded of a phrase that a friend, who is a very godly and wise individual, would say in response to what I said of “prayers the least I can do,” kinda just saying that.
He said “prayer is not the least we can do, but the most.”
Oh my goodness Bindi. THIS! Lord know I love my mother but she feels as though she has to right to disrespect me. Not only as a child but more so now as a adult and I have children myself. I needed this ❤
My favorite salad: Red leaf lettuce, dried cranberries, gorgonzola, salt, pepper, balsamic vinegar and EVOO. Chicken optional.
I praise King Jesus for you my sister, I'm unlearning to learn from God and so you are a mouth piece that The Lord is using to help me be a better mom and future wife. Heaven continues to shine on you 🙏 😊
Someone being subject to authority is still an equal. That's so good. Changing the way I parent for sure!!
I feel so blessed to have found your channel. Thank you for this content! 🥳
I agree❤ I remind myself...My children are supposed to be an extension of The Most High...not a extension of myself.... They share DNA with their dad and I but their soul is his and should remain his.....Very much needed wisdom. Thank you and The Most High! Also appreciate how you discussed praying about generational curses this is absolutely true and a great help and solution in prayer and intercession 😊 Amein! shalom and Selah!
Bindi, this was well done. I have 5 daughters and they are 6 and under, essentially if I could sum up your well done video, intentional parenting is what it boils down to. Giving and showing your children the best version of yourself and modeling your expectations of them all while handling with care the lives given to you to steward by God. A lot for me to consider. Thanks for this video.
Five Daughters under six? Wow. Respect.
@@dumfriesspearhead7398 six AND under ;) God Bless you
I'm a new subscriber. Thanks so much for this messGe,message, really needed it. I've made alot of mistakes(and sometimes still do) with raising my four children. I desire more than anything to steward my children in ways that please God...Love this💖
I love your content. I am not married but I am a lady in waiting. I am 22, and the Lord has really intensified my desire for marriage and being a mother and a wife, so much so that I have begun to pray for my future children, future husband ,and our future home. Growing up I have seen many ungodly ways of doing relationships and I have been a child of an unhealed mom, and I promised myself and the Lord that I will do it His way. I am gaining so much understanding from your channel. Thank you Ms. Bindi.
I absolutely loved this one! I always struggle with actually putting my values into practice, especially as a mom and wife. Please continue to make more of these motherhood episodes and I’d love to hear some practical applications-such as what we can actually say or do instead of the typical selfish nature response , etc! ❤
Kale salad with homemade croutons sliced cherry tomatoes - massage on kale a little lemon juice, small dollop of mayonnaise, salt garlic powder to taste, later sprinkle in a little bit of Parmesan cheese or nutritional flakes for added creaminess 👌
Thanks for talking about motherhood. We often have a vision for our children but it's so important to submit our plans before the Lord & ask our kids (if they are old enough) their thoughts. It's also key to evaluate if we are discerning God's voice or comparing ourselves to other moms and influencers in social media. Keep the videos coming! ♥
Thank you for your gentle wisdom.
your voice. I love it. I have a two-year-old and it has been so tough. all your words are helping me accept my true role in her life and to let go of perfectionism. To let go and let God and be mindful and intentional in how i raise her and treat her with love and respect
This was exactly what I needed. Thank you for your parenting message. God bless you ❤️
Absolutely LOVED this video.. along with all your other videos lol .. its so refreshing to listen to truth in the midst of wordly lies
Bindi I have to say this video was so powerful and so needed for myself. Every point you made was a literally rebuke to me. I want to be a better mother and have no regrets after I have raised them. Being a mother is a precious blessing and gift from the Lord. Thank you for these videos!! Also love your salad! I am now inspired to make chicken Caesar salad for dinner one night this week.
I dont have children, but I'm glad to learn what mothers should be like. I don't think the previous generations new much about this. Thank you for sharing.
THHANK YOU bella! This is a explanation/confirmation of a dream God gave me that I didnt understand how I was falling short…this is the revelation! Girl, I thank The Lord for using you mightily like this. May The Lord bless you and your family.
Each and every sentence was valuable and helpful. Thank you. God bless everyone
By the end of this video I was praying to the Lord and crying. I am currently doing many of these things with my 3 year old but I took lots notes 📝 throughout. I appreciate your content so much!
I needed this video today I’m not a mother but I watch my 2 yr old nephew and 11 month old niece. I’ve been very irritable and short today but I will give it back to the Lord.
Love these biblical womanhood talks. Thank you again for sharing ❤️🙏
Bindi Bindi. . I needed this. Now I gotta get with the Holy Spirit and allow him to transform me.... then get my hubby to listen...my speech isn't as eloquent and loving as yours. I communicate much of what you shared but he considers me as too biblical and hard on myself.
This is so amazing to hear as someone who isn't a mother but knows the season is close. Thank you. Also, may I add that I love the modesty of her home. Very minimilist. No fancy decor. Yet very beautiful with simple memory worthy accents. It's so refreshing in a world that honors maximilism and the idea that you must spend millions of dollars on decoration in your home.
Thank you. I needed to be reminded of so many things you spoke. It stung, but I am grateful. I appreciate the wisdom of your channel. May God bless you greatly.
When you paused the video and said, "ahhh, so flattering", I cracked up. 🤣
This is such wonderful advice because it comes from principle found in the Word of God. I grew up in “black culture” and those phrases you mentioned at the beginning of your video were joked about often growing up.
But the Lord showed me a better way over time and it’s all the things you’ve stated in this video. By the grace and power of God and my submission to Him, both of my daughters and both of my sons are being raised intentionally to love and serve Jesus, and love and serve people. Thanks for all your content!
I AM SO EXCITED READING THE TITLE. I’ve been waiting for your wisdom on motherhood 🙏🏼♥️
You're absolutely correct. The critical voice I hear came from my parents. I struggle now to teach what God says is true because in my life it was always the "bad things" that God said were true that were directed at me. Now I'm learning what it means to mother in love.
Recently, the Holy Spirit has been teaching me a lot about all you just said. It is amazing.
Thank you for yielding. God bless you.
Bindi thanks for such a great video. Motherhood and parenting are something I enjoy talking about and learning about. I would love to see a video series based off this video or even a book. I would be thrilled to see you have more conversations with others about this topic.
Being a mom is something I’ve always desired and I believe being a mom is one of my missions from God.
I have had mixed responses when saying that. What do you think? Can motherhood be a calling?
Thank you so much Bindi, I have actually searched for parental content from you a few times last year, this is an answer from the Lord, thank you so much. ❤️❤️❤️💐❤️❤️ Love you.
This episode really touched me❤❤❤
Thank you so much for this video. I really needed to hear this.
I love a good Cobb salad!! 🥗
The Holy Spirit has spoken to me and told me that my purpose/calling is motherhood. I’m so grateful for the words of wisdom shared even more with this video. Thank you Jesus for not abandoning us and forgiving us. No matter what you have done and where you have been the Lord’s arms are always open to accept you. He loves you so much! That salad looks amazing I love Caesar and kale salads by the way. God bless all of you and may you live a life according to His will 🙏🏽.
I believe the same thing for myself. Motherhood is my calling and sole purpose. The role knocked me upside my head and was the very thing I was the most afraid of. Yet here I am years later, and have had my life completely saved and blessed in. Two children. Two of the most beautiful people, souls I have ever met. When I'm in my zone as a mommy, I'm I'm pure bliss. Experiencing and exploring life with them is beyond priceless. I thank God all through the day for such an outstanding profound role 💜
Joyce, this is a phenomenal video with so much wisdom! Thank you
Thank you for posting this, Bindi. I really appreciate you posting this. I have a 7 month old and I'm 3 months pregnant. I want to be a godly mother and your video has put me in the right direction
I just found your channel yesterday, and I absolutely love your videos!! This is so good and very much needed! I would also like to add that when your child messes up let them know that they can come to you without you being harsh and critical, and judge mental of them. That was something my mother always did for me and I have great respect for her today because of it I have friends whose mothers and fathers would beat them over the head with whatever they did wrong and the child learned to hide bad behavior, rather than changing it. Our children should know that we always are in their corner, even when they mess up. Not in an enabling way. But in a loving way.
Simple romaine salad with balsamic vinaigrette dressing. Beautiful video.
What a wonderful video, rich in wisdom and so convicting! Thank you for sharing. I absolutely love your content on biblical womanhood and always looking forward to the next video. I also throughly enjoyed watching you cook, clean with so much finesse and calm, it was very inspiring.
My favorite leafy green salad is a simple organic mixed greens side salad topped with avocado and sauerkraut 🌱
Great reminder that love is a choice for your children just like for your marriage. ❤
Also the reminder that our children are not ours, they are the Lord’s always changes my perspective immediately.
Love the reminder to remind your children what the Bible says who they are, I don’t do that enough!
I also feel like in this season of learning and God refining my parenting I confess and ask forgiveness more than I’d like but I’m trusting the Lord that there will be fruit on the other side of these initial struggles ❤️
Great video!
Enjoyed the video, I like an apple walnut, cranberry salad on mixed 🥬 greens with sweet onion vinaigrette 😋
I am continually blessed by this channel. I pray that the Lord continues to use you and your words for His glory and education/healing of His Church.
God bless you for staying faithful to what God has put in you, it is so refreshing & uplifting. ❤
Wow this was convicting 😔 but exactly what I needed to hear. I hope you keep the motherhood content coming!
I am truly inspired by these 10+ ways to better motherhood for my children. Thank you so much for sharing, I'm going to work on these things immediately and I'll send this to my friends, we all need to hear this .
The video started at Item 5. Is there a part 1? I enjoy Bindi Marc's Christian maturityand very intentional way of living with and raising her fa.ily and running her home. Well, clear spoken. Thanks
You're like...an epiphany. a revelation. blessed among women. Your God is top tier.
Bindi you just inspire me so much. I thank The Lord above for you, the way I grow when I listen to you with such edification to be who God has made me to be just ugh, makes me soar!! Thank you sister. So much 🥺🙏
Thank you for this wonderful video. I heard over the span of three days. It's a lot to soak in and wonderfully spelled out. You have wisdom beyond your years. God bless you! My favorite leafy green salad is a cooked kale salad with apples, onions, and bacon. ✨
Beautiful reminders are needed. Bookmarking to rewatch during those times when I know I need to regroup. Thank you.
I have two sons (2 and 3) and this video is definitely meaningful. I didn’t grow up in a family who did this for my brother and I. It makes me want to be a better mom to them everyday. And I also believe in prayer for their families and futures. That their wives would love God first and chase him with my sons.
Also, yes we as moms gave birth to our kids but we did not give them life Jesus did.
Hey love, I truly appreciate your videos. They are helping me become a better wife/ homemaker and mama!! Thank you for putting your example of being a biblical woman on display. Teaching the younger women like myself.
Video Ideas:
Should we homeschool our children or send to school? (Share your thoughts/ experiences on exposing your children to the world and how to do that..) Training up your children.
thank you for wisdom, thank you that you welcome her in your house. I had to pause the video multiple times and take notes, well said. Amen 🙏🏾
Thanks for this powerful video, I have being praying for my children since they came into this world for ALL areas of their lives especially for GOD Fearing Husband's and against any family things that are not Godly. Keep teaching, you are making great impact on the Christian Marriage & Homes. Remain Bless My Pretty Sister. Watching from The Gambia Smiling Coast of Africa ( West Africa)