We're Swapping Genders & Having A Baby | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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DAVONNY, 21, and Robin, 25, are a trans couple who met online and have been together for eight months. Robin told Truly that they both "swap genders and are planning to have a baby together." Davonny was born male but doesn’t identify as male or female, going by the pronouns 'they/them' and is currently transitioning. Davonny explained that they knew they were "trans when I was probably about 13. For a while I didn’t feel comfortable being trans because it already felt there was a lot of hate towards being gay and bi, so I was like, 'if they’ve got a problem with them, what are they going to say about me?'" Continuing that "I don’t feel like I’m a guy or a woman, I feel like I can be whatever the hell I want to be." Robin is a trans male who knew his identity at a young age, but said he "grew up in a very small hillbilly town so I repressed it for a long time. It’ll be almost 10 years that I’ve been out, living my truth, being me." When he first came out he was shunned by his "friends, all of them except for one cut me off. In school everybody cut me off, everyone pretended I didn’t exist, so I kind of lost a lot when I came out." The couple discussed their future plans together early on in their relationship, "one of the first things we talked about was that we both wanted to have kids", Robin said. "We didn’t want to adopt, we didn’t want to pay for surrogates, we wanted kids that were ours, that were literally our DNA." They have both stopped taking hormones for their transitions while they try to get pregnant, which has been difficult for their emotions. "I was actually fairly far in my transition and I started feeling like myself and feeling really comfortable, so having to stop wasn’t really the greatest. Making those sacrifices was like being an addict going through withdrawal." Davonny explained. "If you want to have children being trans it’s definitely something that can take away your ability to have children, and they do let you know that but I don’t think they urge it enough, like they should definitely be like 'honey, you better not want kids because after two years, you probably ain’t gonna have them.'" The couple has faced a lot of judgement for being in a trans and interracial relationship. Robin said they get asked questions like, 'why did you guys transition in the first place?' A lot of people will be like 'what’s that little boy gonna do with all that woman, you’re not gonna handle her'". In this episode of Love Don't Judge Davonny's mom and brother come over to discuss the couple's plans to have a child together, and their initial reactions when Davonny first came out to them. Sky, Davonny's mom has admitted that she struggled with the new pronouns to begin with. She said, "it was a shock. I’m thinking, 'oh my gosh, are you gonna cut your parts off?' and all this other stuff, so it was kind of tough." Adding that, "some people haven’t accepted it and they respond to things like that in a very violent way, so I was concerned.I know someone who’s gotten killed over something like that."
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'Transgender like transformers? That's so cool' best reaction ever😂
Hes a mess 😂
He’s BASED!! 😂😂 W mans.
The only thing weird to me is wanting to have a kid together after 8 months together...
Still they seem like a very nice and loving couple, good luck!
This is me. "are yal ready for a kid ? "
Just because we’ve been official for 8 months doesn’t mean we’ve only known one another for 8 months. Thanks for the well wishes.
@@jplus4 , we have a large loving family, stable home, stable income, education beyond high school, both love one another, and have experience not only working with kids, but I helped my mother raised my family so…thanks for the concern but it’s not needed 🥰
@DaVonny TV not so much as Concern. I have kids myself and I ask everyone that. You sure you want this? Lol this shit get hard at times...big family means nothing. The question wouldn't change.
Everybody isn't being mean by asking these questions. Far from wat I was doing.
I would wish you and your bf luck on conceiving, but it's not needed. 😘🙂
@@jplus4 💕🤗
If my son came to me and said he wanted to be a girl, I'd ask him why he thought that way. I don't plan on telling my children this unless they're facing a similar situation, but I questioned my gender when I was younger because a grown man exposed himself to me, and I didn't want to be seen as weak, so I tried to come off as masculine and not seen as a victim, thus my "I'm a girl, but I'm also one of the guys. Don't mess with me!" phase. I never changed my pronouns, nor did I want to. I just didn't want to be the scared little girl I once was. It was only until recently that I opened up to my mom about that, and together we had an "Aha!" moment of what made me behave the way I did. That doesn't happen for everyone; some people truly are transgender, but I'd ask my son to tell me why he feels like he's trans because I'd want to be sure either, "OK, this was caused by trauma, which we can get help for somehow," or "OK, my son genuinely is trans."
I'm sorry you went through that experience, and I'm glad you were able to eventually open up to your mom about it. I thought I should be trans at one point because I knew I was attracted to women, and I was raised to believe being a lesbian was a sin. So I thought if I was a boy, I would be accepted for dating women. But I realized I like the parts I have, and who cares if people think I'm sinning, they'd think that if I was trans & hetero too.
So long as you accepted your child if they were truly trans, I think that's what's important. For many of us queer folk, our parents are our first bullies, for some they are our first allies, and it's so important to feel like your parent/parents accept you as you are 🩷 much love to you & yours
I wouldn't recommend having a baby with someone you have known for less than a year, but to each his own business. Best luck
This literally looks like a comedy skit 😂
Really does... Laughed from beginning to end.
If only !
Welp, thanks for tuning in 🥰
So gross how the 1 negative comment is the one we all have to see. The only funny thing here is how she sasses her mom for messing up her pronouns 😸
Boooo
pregnant and drinking.... why
Yeah good question
We’re you too dense to catch the miscarriage part?
They are actually straight 😅 coz it's a man and a woman,,, soooo messed up the times we are in
She literally dates men, women, trans people, it’s called being pansexual. Read a book.
These people seem like very kind and honest people, and they deserve each other
Is not for anyone to judge, they are living their truth & seem very happy.
The mom's openness & understanding is absolutely amazing.
Wish them the best🥰
Yes it is. This isn't normal. Never will be.
Stop telling people not to judge when they choose to broadcast their lives.
@@ToeKnife166 exactly
Their is only one truth tho.
They look like a mismatched and forced relationship.
Wtf are you even talking about
Mama, you are so genuinely supportive
Lmbooo I love when lovely with the pony tail said we no longer taking our hormones and that’s Why we deteriorating and stufff!!!😂😂😂😂so funny but I hope they are able to have they little bundle of joy❤ I love y’all relationship so beautiful
Robin ain't joking about the hillbilly small town. Im from the same town. So glad to see they're out and living authentically❤️
I hope we get an update on this couple when they get their baby!
Nice couple, mom, and brother. They all are so honest when they speak.
They seem like such a cue and healthy couple and I really hope they’re able to have a baby! Best of luck!
My only issue is sitting there drinking wine while ACTIVELY trying to get pregnant
A couple sips of MY red wine isn’t do anything , and as someone who has ovaries are you not aware that you don’t just get pregnant at any time and that drinking wine before your ovulation will not effect that 🥴🥴🥴🥴 we have ovulation kits, as well as drs, and anything else we could possibly need, what we DONT need is your input ❤ but thank for the concern.
@DaVonny TV I'm allowed to state my opinion. Why would you put yourself out there If you can't handle people's opinions? You completely over reacted to my comment. Shows what kind of person you are. And yes I do have ovaries and when I was trying to conceive my son I did watch what I was putting in my body because you can ovulate at any time. Not everyone has normal cycles. I'm sure you are not using ovulation kits everyday. You just wanted to find something to be offended by so I'm glad my comment gave you a reason to be. Also don't you have anything better to do than troll everyone's comments on here? If your going to be parents in your relationship you need to grow thicker skin because your going to hear alot worse than someone saying they don't think someone trying to conceive should drink alcohol.
@@lenacheney ma’am they are planning on having kids. They are not pregnant. So I can see u can say that but ur being fairly a mini boomer and hater. Keep your comments to yourself they already go thru more and hear worse stuff if they are PLANNING. When did they say actively?
@Marihen Manzanillo they said they are trying to have a baby not planning on it. I guess you didn't watch the video before attacking the person above.
@DaVonny TV from the video you seemed like a nice person but you definitely aren't the way you responded to lenacheney. You clearly are the one with the issue
Some people feel to be animals, we say they're mental and send them for help.
Some people feel to be the opposite sex, and we supposed to say ok?
I don't, those 2 are bat shit crazy
theres a massive difference between species and gender
But saying you are another race is not okay but wanting to be the opposite sex is perfectly normal 😅
@Sarcodon Blue because gender is a social construct, that doesnt mean its not real, it very much is and holds a lot of meaning for many people, but it was made up, gender doesnt have a biological basis, race does, so does sex. trans people know they cant change their chromosomes and birth sex, they change their gender, theyre changing the way they are precieved by others.
@Sarcodon Blue you inherited your race, you didnt inherit your gender, or your sex for that matter. gender is the way that you feel about your identity
This is why the world doesn't stand a chance 😮
because people are in love and happy, doing what they want and not hurting anyone??
@@Michaelcoopr because our society is celebrating and normalizing mental illnessb
@@Michaelcoopr there’s WAY MORE THAN THAT
That baby dodged a bullet........
The height difference is great haha
There’s someone for everyone out there 😊
Beautiful couple! Their energy is EVERYTHING ❤
Eight months and now baby that fast
I love love Davonny's vibe. ❤
Only in America this called "LOVE", the society is going in deep sh#t.
For real 🙄🙄🙄
actually, it’s accepted in a lot of other countries. do your research hunny
Go cry to your prophet Muhammad Ali Abu Hussain
hi, european here, in America this "shit" is so much less accepted than here, besides, whats your problem with love?
@@Michaelcoopr they’ll never find it. It’s envy’s
Not she rolling her eyes at her mom 😭💀💀💀
omg yes, her mom is so caring and loving and then she does that
That is not normal! And I am not going to love that
Nobody cares what you love, guess you missed the part where we said people like you don’t matter
This spiritual warfare is real. Satan is truly the author of confusion
He’s laughing his 🍑 off. Look at what Baphomet is. It’s the symbol of confusion. The lines become blurred. Satan loves this. He loves chaos, confusion
This looks like a joke 😅 we need to stop praising mental issues and seek help
"We eat good we sleep good we look good" 😆 there epic good for them for doing it and being happy
Thanks so much for the love and support ❤🤗
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How confusing for your child growing up 😢
At what point is the truth gonna be acknowledged? What I'll never get is why feel it's mandatory for others to accept you for who you are now while you didn't even accept who you were or still are?
You didn’t eat, babe. I never once said I didn’t love myself, If I loved myself anymore I’d be conceited. Lol. Choosing not to be categorized by frivolous gender roles and sex doesn’t make me insecure. Either way you don’t have to get anything, nobody told you it’s mandatory to understand, it is mandatory that you respect me tho, unless you wanna deal w/ what comes If you don’t. I don’t disrespect people unprovoked, so you shouldn’t do it to me. If I don’t like something or don’t agree I Move on and don’t acknowledge it, simple.
“If you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say it at all” and “just because you have an opinion that doesn’t mean it’s right” these are things we were taught as children right? 😭
Lol you wrote an assay and didn't "eat" either. Opinions are opinions period! The fact that it doesn't conform to being "nice" doesn't make it invalid and neither does anyone need to tiptoe around your overly sensitive selves all in the name of "support". We all have things that we do not agree on and you definitely cannot tell me you don't voice them! Freedom of speech baby as long as it's no insults. Go off if you think all these "NICE" comments are genuine.
@@joylit tell em joy! weirdos, thinking everything they do is right it's unacceptable communities will always think it's a good idea while they're busy showering them with fake comments this is fucking nasty.
@@davonnytv7040 move along and don't acknowledge it? Just like you did with my comment about not drinking while trying to conceive? Hypocritical much?
Let's just give this mom her kudos
the only thing i have a problem with is how long that wine glass is. Like seriously why do you need it that long!?!?!? 7:19
Im sorry but that is so damn twisted and fucked up
No transphobia here but knowing my dad carried me and my mom has a peni$.. that’s just messed up
Best mom ever so supportive of them that is so sweet ❤
U are mad
@@youngamounts6061 Abdul you are funny 😂😂😂😂
I think they're sweet 🥰 and Davonny's Mom is amazing!
Thank you and yes she absolutely is ❤
Why the rolling the eyes the mom is so good and trying to bond. Maybe she didn't roll at that and it's edited different but jeez gotta give people time esp mom she was use to saying he for 18 years that's not on purpoee it's a habit .
They certainly don’t give her the grace they demand of her.
@@kaorii10 , lmao! Stop speaking like you know me and my mother. 🥴 you Watched an 8 minute video and think you’re a DaVonny and Sky aficionado.
Sweetie, you don’t know me, nor my mother, nor our bond. Don’t speak on what you don’t know from an 8 minute video that was made with 9hrs worth of footage.
Wow all I have to say is she is freaking gorgeous 🥰👑
No Kristina pimenova is naturally beautiful being a beautiful girl is rare 😂
Im a man but i have pcos 🤣
Wow, this is just👏👏👏👏👏 love the support❤️🥰
I'd love to see a follow up on this couple
I really like this couple💜
that is disgusting
So stunning. So brave
Mental illness isn’t brave it’s sad and unfortunate
My brain isn't braining
Adorable and kind couple. Not sure how long ago this was filmed, but wishing them all the love and happiness with their little one.
Omg mommy 😍😍😍 and Abijah is so handsome☺️‼️ so happy you guys did this it came out great love you guys ❤️‼️💯
Ava 💕🤗
this was so beautiful 🥰💕 very happy for both of you! love you vonny🫶🏾
Love u 2 ❤
@DaVonny TV how is your relationship with your father?
@@Scifi4life , great actually. Did you hope to prove something w/ that?
@@davonnytv7040 lol, no , I wasn't.
@@Scifi4life , okay. No hate or nun I was just asking, because usually people ask the question in attempt to be hateful or funny.
the love and support from Davonny's mom🥰🥰🥰
Yes she so sweet
How is this acceptable?
@@mikael0317 because technically they are a straight couple is that pleasing enough for the Bible thumpers?
@@terry4161 well said lmao
@@mikael0317 Trans usually have Big Cocks is that why is thats why u don't like them MikaeI03
Confusion is illusion
Whatever makes them happy? I'm happy for them and I wish them nothing but the best❤
OMG 🥰 I love them and mom too!! It's very rare to have such support from Black parents.. I hope their dream comes true 😊 Vonny is too cute!!
Anybody know their TikTok..?
🤗💕
@@davonnytv7040 🤭🤗😘
The black guy is 100% gay, he doesn’t act like a woman.
There is no one way for a woman to act, not to mention she absolutely Carries herself like a woman many woman far better looking have accepted her as a woman and adore her. Get a life loser
I love Robin this is so cute. I love y’all’s love 🥺💕
Why you love him he is being taken lmao
@@kingchilli1226 because he’s my friend I went to high school with and I love all my friends lmfao.
@@PradaShoesx i don't support LGBT community
Great Video. I hope you both have a beautiful baby together soon
Disgusting
Congratulations Robin&Davonny I’m so happy for you both. Stay positive it will happen❤️💪🏿🙏🏿
Mom is adorable ❤
my cuzin has pcos there is an injection u have to use the whole pregnancy to hold the baby … good luck
Thanks for sharing, lovely. Not being rude, but that isn’t accurate…we are with a fertility clinic and they’ve never suggested a shot, nor did his mother need a shot when she had any of her kids.
At this pou,the world is ending
Love youuuu❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
I remember seeing Davonny on the dating apps lol good for her for finding someone
One ugly woman
Not seeing me on the apps! 🤣🤣🤣 lmao! Thank you 💕
@@davonnytv7040 so you’re basically straight trans women
@@fingaryoriaz-nc2hw funny that “ugly woman” has done more with her life than you I’m sure and she’s a signed model. 🤡😂
Your mum is a lovely person
Someone is definitely creating an echo chamber in these comments sections. Not a one negative comment on a topic so divisive
love how supportive ur mom is vonny
I hope they find happiness ❤🙏🏼
Society is failing we are doomed
Perhaps, human beings are beginning to understand the limits and false ideas we have placed on our society through outdated religious beliefs . Perhaps , we are realizing that we do not use the majority of our brain and have no idea our capabilities. When viewed theough the lens of superiority and ego we will continue to put boundaries on our humaness, it is only when we let go of our perceptions of what is right /wrong will we accept and allow our uniqueness and undertsand how you live your life ..does not impact my life.
@@whiteraven69biology is objective.......
Her mom is amazing! May all trans & gender non-conforming children have this great of a mom ❤
This country is doomed😂
It’s doomed cause people are Americans who have rights and free liberty to pursue their happiness? Go live in Saudi Arabia then since you don’t like minding your own business. Btw be more concerned why both u and ur partner don’t fit in one picture snowflake 😂
@@teasipping8696 you hurt my feelings and now I need a safe space
@@CFQ1991 😂😂😂😂😂
its naïve to think that the kids arent gonna be screwed up
So the dude likes both men and women i domt get this
Fantastic mom and brother 🏳️⚧️
Feel sorry for the child..
Didn't know you couldn't have kids easily while taking hormones
Love them ❤
Omg 😍😍😍that's my family I'm sooo for them🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤
❤
Mom you rock!!!
This is beautiful love always win 💗 y'all got this screw all these ppl ❤
best of wishes with your lovely family
Transgender like transformers?🤣💀💀 I died
Wow youtube I’m looking up prison videos and this came up 🤔
Trans women go to women's prisons
I feel sorry for that kid
I love you guys story!!!! Don't worry about the negative comments. Live and love life!!!! God Bless ❤❤❤❤❤
Now I understand a bit why some people don't want kids. I mean you just have your son tell you he's suddenly a woman after many years. Just like that? Because of something in his brain telling him he's feminine. *Shudders, God abeg
They probably struggled with it within themselves for a long time. Hating yourself to finally loving yourself is something beautiful. Ask god about that, instead of judging and being an as*.
@@Mikka.Landry amen
Awwww 😊😊😊😊 can’t wait to see her have the baby 💕💕💕💕🥰🥰🥰 awww this is so sweet 🥲
I’m so happy for you Vonny love you and miss you my friend ❤️
Love you too 🥺💕
This is called "confusion"
i wonder if they r still togather
I love that the mother is so caring and so supportive
I believe if you can carry a child you’re definitely a woman. I know it may be hard to accept yourself as a woman but it should not be that easy to just decide to transition.
It’s like fleeing your reality and refusing to learn to deal with it.
What are you gonna do when life throw something at you that you can’t escape from?
I kind of agree with you and don't at the same time. It is a mental condition. The treatment for it just different from other mental conditions. The therapy may not work, anti-depressants aren't effective, and it's not a psychosis mental condition. Thus, sometimes I think that to manage the often unbearable dysphoria that comes with this condition, changing something physically or hormone wise is the only thing that works for some people.
Being trans isnt some kind of disease, and its not a mental disorder either, in the dsm5 gender dysphoria is listed. Transness as of it self is not. Dysphoria can sometimes be treated with social transition and a haircut, but in some cases, more treatment such as hrt is needed to make these people feel comfortable in their bodies, transitioning is a choice, being trans is not. but im many cases, like my own, medical transition is needed to allow me to be content with my body and with my life as a whole.
im a trans man, and "accepting im a woman" isnt an option, because im not one, this has been clear since early childhood, i realised i was a boy at 9, came out at 11 and im 17 now, my stance on my identity hasnt changed, i tried conforming, i tried just "acceping my womanhood" but it didng work, because its not a part of me.
@@Michaelcoopr It is a mental illness
@@Michaelcoopr would love to have a conversation with you. Can you share your ig?
They’re both so beautiful ❤
You can be happy together but please don’t bring a baby into this especially after taking those treatments for transitioning , you might affect the health of the child. It’s scary.
Um- stop speaking without knowledge. Not being rude, but you sound uneducated. Our child will not be effected because of hormones
They said in the video they quit taking hormones so it wouldn't affect the baby during pregnancy 👍
That’s not how it works. 🥴🥴🥴
@@user-dh1pc7fs9y what?
The hormones are just hormones we already have lol it won’t affect the baby
I actually like this couple. Wish them both well.
Mom of the year right there!!!!!
Yesss! She’s such a queen 👸🏾❤
Congratulations💕💕💕🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thanks boo ❤
She looks so good, I lowkey finna simp 💀
Awe ❤😂
I'm sorry for anyone who is hating on this and wants to hate and wants ppl to agree to the hate but this IS BEAUTIFUL SO MANU PPL WISH THEY COULD BE HONEST AND WISH THEY COULD BE THENSELFS AND COME OUT I SUPPORT THIS COUPLE ITS BEAUTIFUL AND I REFUSW TO HATE NOR WILL I SUPPORT THE HATERS!
I hope they seek mental health before trying this.
i’m sure they already have hun. get over it
@@carleighalbright1417 I'm guessing they haven't hun
Mental health counseling can be expensive.
@@Scifi4life and having a baby isn't?
@John Donovan maybe they can only afford one
Such a gorgeous couple 🥰