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    VALENTINO and Emily met in New York when he was on tour performing with Magic Mike. While Emily’s best friend received a lap dance from Valentino she made sure she was next in line. Once it was her turn, there was an instant attraction between the two of them. Valentino told Truly: "I'm a sucker for teeth and a smile. Her body was everything. I took my time with her, I did three, four tricks." After the show, she gave her number to Valentino, and they began texting every day. "It's been smooth sailing from there," Valentino said. Four years later the couple are now happily married. Emily supports her husband's career as a performer by meal prepping for the upcoming week each Sunday and washing his outfits. He is also a PT, who works out five times a week to stay in shape because, "As a male entertainer, your body is your money-maker." However, the union had a somewhat unconventional agreement from the beginning. "He sleeps with other women," Emily said. "People don't understand why I trust him." From the start of their relationship, Valentino was on tour, so Emily explained that he had "free reign to do whatever, just make sure [he tells her] about it. We see each other one weekend a month if we are lucky. I don't expect [him] not to have sex with anybody." For Emily, the arrangement works because of the strong communication they have in their partnership, "There are no secrets, so nobody will ever be able to come to me and say anything about him that I don't already know." The couple go to swinging events to meet other women and couples. Valentino explained: "I was trying to bring guys in for her. Make sure she is taken care of. She's like, 'I'm good, stop asking, I know what I have and know what I had in the past'." They both have a social media presence where they have shared the truth behind their relationship. This has opened up criticism about their way of life, "the majority of the judgement that we receive in our relationship is about swinging. They don't understand how we could share our partner with somebody else," Emily said. They receive comments saying they are "disgusting" and claiming he "controls" her. But the couple don't let the haters get to them, with Valentino even clapping back at them, "I have fun with the comments," he said. "I'll go back and forth with them and let them end up blocking me because I can do this all day. I got time." While Emily said that online, "we get an equal judgement and then also people who definitely support us. Everybody in our life who matters to us is really supportive."
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  • @Althea27
    @Althea27 9 месяцев назад +352

    Its sad how people in this generation make marriage like a joke

    • @MrsGtbala
      @MrsGtbala 9 месяцев назад +17

      I agree. It makes you wonder why they even bother to get married if this is what they want to do ??? People really are something else.

    • @LittleRayofSunshine69750
      @LittleRayofSunshine69750 9 месяцев назад +11

      Not all people of this generation, I am of this generation and my husband knows if he ever steps out of our marriage and betrays me, our marriage is over. Both my husband and I would never do this to each other.

    • @melissamoonchild9216
      @melissamoonchild9216 5 месяцев назад +5

      marriage has always been flawed, people are just being more real about it these days imo

    • @marcusdavis6211
      @marcusdavis6211 4 месяца назад

      sorry but it is and people will end a marriage cause you did not take out the dog

    • @Soulinspire02
      @Soulinspire02 3 месяца назад

      Bullseye 🎯

  • @itakeitfromthesun
    @itakeitfromthesun 9 месяцев назад +739

    I would be terrified of STDs and HIV 😳😳😳

    • @2steaksandwiches665
      @2steaksandwiches665 9 месяцев назад +42

      This. That kept me monogamous in the 90s when I was coming into my own. I’ve seen close friends die of aids. And no, it was not cured. The medication that you have to take is still really bad for you and not pleasant.

    • @exnihilo415
      @exnihilo415 9 месяцев назад +6

      Take Prep and never worry about HIV again.

    • @gotica
      @gotica 9 месяцев назад +9

      Erm.... Condoms!

    • @vicentecuba3707
      @vicentecuba3707 9 месяцев назад

      Use comdoms always, just don't wait for another new STDs pandemic with no cure, also Prep only protects you against HIV.

    • @2steaksandwiches665
      @2steaksandwiches665 9 месяцев назад +15

      @@gotica good luck with personal responsibility with people.

  • @sephthebest
    @sephthebest 9 месяцев назад +347

    i’m going to play devils advocate here. what is she going to do if he actually falls in love with somebody else and wants a divorce? Call me traditional, but I don’t think any man who is truly in love with his woman would ever cheat on her.

    • @GEMOTO
      @GEMOTO 9 месяцев назад +18

      the same thing that other couples do when they fall out of love. don't know what you're getting at

    • @djregina6897
      @djregina6897 9 месяцев назад +14

      ​@@GEMOTOnot the same thing at all

    • @i_luv_hecklefish
      @i_luv_hecklefish 9 месяцев назад +7

      Completely agree!

    • @Butterfly22593
      @Butterfly22593 9 месяцев назад +14

      It's unlikely that he'll fall in love with someone else because he's just sleeping with other women, he's not dating them.

    • @lockhart_9593
      @lockhart_9593 9 месяцев назад +3

      @@Butterfly22593 HAH you never know 😂

  • @NGTV600
    @NGTV600 9 месяцев назад +390

    It’s obvious that he is benefiting the most from this arrangement. He gets to sleep around and bring women into the marital bed while she cooks, cleans, irons and takes care of all his needs. Not once did she mention anything HE does for HER. She definitely has low self esteem she chased this man until she got him and he married her because she lets him continue to be a single man and a married man all at the same time!

    • @IrieRogue
      @IrieRogue 9 месяцев назад +19

      Indeed

    • @i_luv_hecklefish
      @i_luv_hecklefish 9 месяцев назад +31

      From all I see and hear I have to agree with you 💯 %

    • @Szupilami
      @Szupilami 9 месяцев назад +35

      Yeppp😔😔😔 he is a narcisist and she is totally brainwashed.

    • @kimmy225
      @kimmy225 9 месяцев назад +27

      Yup-she’s desperate

    • @Butterfly22593
      @Butterfly22593 9 месяцев назад +13

      Some people are so small minded. It doesn't look like he's forcing her to do anything she doesn't want to do. If she had low self esteem, she'd be unhappy with their arrangement but she doesn't seem to be. Plus he said he was fine if she sleeps with other men but she's not interested in that. Yeah, she cooks, cleans, and takes care of their house, but he'd makes the money so she can stay home and she doesn't have to work. Just because a relationship isn't for you doesn't mean it's wrong

  • @poeticlovee
    @poeticlovee 9 месяцев назад +141

    You’re not swingers if he’s the only one doing it. Notice how she said he was more than enough that she doesn’t want any other men. Yet he couldn’t say the same thing about her.

    • @Butterfly22593
      @Butterfly22593 9 месяцев назад +4

      Every swinger couple is has different rules plus she's free to be with other men if she wants. I think him being with other women is a turn on for her

    • @poeticlovee
      @poeticlovee 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@Butterfly22593 so then they’re not swingers.

    • @im26c4u5
      @im26c4u5 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@Butterfly22593It's not a swinger partnership unless she's swapping with another wife.

    • @Kennerson5
      @Kennerson5 7 месяцев назад

      He needs to leave his lifestyle of sin. What if she gets a sexually transmitted disease that blocks her from having children or worse such as HIV or something else? I believe she is only allowing him to do this because he explained that he is doing it to generate money. However, he could find other ways to generate money. If you dig a bit deeper the problem is not money. He is not satisfied in his relationship with his wife, and he is putting her through a type of abuse including mental and emotional abuse. Imagine telling your wife to guess what you were doing? Their real problem is spiritual. There is a vacuum/emptiness in their soul and they are trying to fill it with stuff. I can see in her eyes her insecurities. They both need to surrender to Christ and leave their lifestyle of sin and adultery.
      Revelations 21:8 But the cowardly, unbelieving, abominable, murderers, sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.”
      1 Cor 6:9-10 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.
      There is a real hell and all adulterers will go to hell unless they repent and turn their lives over to Christ. If they don't repent, and they die in their sin, they both will burn in hell and later everyone in hell will be cast in the Lake of Fire. There is no getting out of hell/the Lake of Fire. It is for eternity. When time is no more, every human being who was ever born will continue to live someplace either heaven with God/Jesus or hell/the Lake of Fire with Satan. Those in hell/Lake of Fire will be tormented day and night with no rest and no sleep, just torment. No water not even a drop of water.
      In hell, worms forever chew on you with unimaginable pain and the worms never die or burn up.
      Hell/the Lake of Fire also has burning sulfur which you can't breathe with burning sulfur so all those in hell will always be in a state of being unable to get a full breath. The fire of hell is stronger (at least hundreds of degrees hotter) than the fire on this earth, so the person in hell will be in torment but can never die/cease to exist. Another aspect of hell is you have a memory. So you will remember all your mistakes and times when you did wrong but didn't ask God to forgive you.
      Another aspect of the Lake of Fire is that it has a bottomless pit. You are forever burning and forever falling and it only gets worse. Those who were born and died 1,000 years ago and went to hell are still alive and dealing with torment in this present moment. But the Good News is that if you are reading this message now, there is still hope for you.
      With one decision you can alter your eternal destination.
      Just repent. Ask God to forgive you. Ask Jesus to be your Lord and Savior. Ask God to fill the empty void in your heart.
      John 3:16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
      Romans 10:9-10 that if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For the Scripture says, “Whoever believes on Him will not be put to shame.” For there is no distinction between Jew and Greek, for the same Lord over all is rich to all who call upon Him. For “whoever calls on the name of the Lord shall be saved.”

    • @saadiahahmaddaud1991
      @saadiahahmaddaud1991 26 дней назад

      It's a profitable relationship in terms of sexual satisfaction not committed but together because of situational gains such as property sex and satisfaction

  • @Dadfromtexas
    @Dadfromtexas 9 месяцев назад +140

    I will never understand open relationships like, how are you married and “ committed” to each other, but you both sleep with other people????

    • @jalennelson6008
      @jalennelson6008 9 месяцев назад +23

      It's so normalized now. I can't understand it neither.

    • @Michelle-dl5go
      @Michelle-dl5go 9 месяцев назад +17

      It's all a contradiction

    • @exnihilo415
      @exnihilo415 9 месяцев назад +3

      Because sex just isn't that big a deal for many people, that's why. If you thought sex was basically the equivalent of just having a nice conversation with someone you probably wouldn't be up in arms about it.

    • @i_luv_hecklefish
      @i_luv_hecklefish 9 месяцев назад +5

      Yep, and what's the point? Why bother getting married? It's disrespectful to all the married couples who do put the time, work, and energy into their marriages.

    • @exnihilo415
      @exnihilo415 9 месяцев назад +8

      @@i_luv_hecklefish No it isn’t. What makes two people happy inside their marriage has no impact on others. You are not the marriage police. There is literally nothing you can do about it except whine.

  • @Dadfromtexas
    @Dadfromtexas 9 месяцев назад +385

    I also cannot get down with sleeping around with random people and calling it an open relationship. Honestly we have to stop just giving our bodies away to just anyone. Hookup culture is so addicting that people literally can’t even have normal marriages anymore. It’s bizarre.

    • @maddyedits01
      @maddyedits01 9 месяцев назад +16

      True...

    • @fawnstevens8506
      @fawnstevens8506 9 месяцев назад +11

      Thank you for saying

    • @briannamunoz2644
      @briannamunoz2644 9 месяцев назад +6

      Exactly!!

    • @Butterfly22593
      @Butterfly22593 9 месяцев назад +6

      They're swingers. Has nothing to do with hookup culture

    • @rose968
      @rose968 9 месяцев назад +11

      Honestly, I hope it ends soon. I want real love and marriage but I keep getting horrible people who take advantage of me and then find out later they had multiple partners. I’ve now chosen to go back to being celibate, less problems.

  • @MissAmazing604
    @MissAmazing604 9 месяцев назад +177

    In my opinion...i think the lady is so terrified of loosing him that she lets him do whatever he wants..she will be a slave to him just as long as he doesnt leave her...she's just happy to have him

    • @gotica
      @gotica 9 месяцев назад +2

      Nope

    • @asiam1528
      @asiam1528 9 месяцев назад +18

      Exactly

    • @justthatgirl-ct4jo
      @justthatgirl-ct4jo 9 месяцев назад

      They're both hot... I doubt that

    • @purplelady5844
      @purplelady5844 9 месяцев назад +4

      I Agree

    • @MrJitendra007
      @MrJitendra007 9 месяцев назад +5

      Yup very true... and the guy is taking this for granted... No matter what it is a true wife will react to such kind of acts. Which wife let the husband go openly and sleep with other women.....? Something is wrong with this women or as you said... I don't understand What kind of relationship is this..😅😅😅Tbh..

  • @Astro.babyyy
    @Astro.babyyy 9 месяцев назад +155

    Love don’t judge… but I do. This is disgusting. Imagine the things he’s probably bringing home. You know he isn’t being safe. And she obviously doesn’t care or isn’t smart enough to grasp the fact what they’re doing is dangerous. Playing with health ain’t it.

    • @pitech4446
      @pitech4446 9 месяцев назад +14

      She ok now but she seems like a psycho to me. This is never normal but he will find out later

    • @Butterfly22593
      @Butterfly22593 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@pitech4446If that were true than everyone that's a swinger is a psycho, including him. I'm sure they figured out how to protect themselves

    • @cyngem6029
      @cyngem6029 9 месяцев назад +2

      😂 dang. 💯 Agreed

    • @mzkemia76
      @mzkemia76 9 месяцев назад +2

      We don't know that he's not being safe actually

    • @Astro.babyyy
      @Astro.babyyy 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@mzkemia76 we absolutely do know that. Be fucking forreal.

  • @2steaksandwiches665
    @2steaksandwiches665 9 месяцев назад +34

    Diseases? Why is sex that important to people?

    • @asiam1528
      @asiam1528 9 месяцев назад +10

      Right some people are sex addicted

  • @ananimity7332
    @ananimity7332 9 месяцев назад +109

    They use the word "love"...they like to throw it around..this isn't love.

    • @komatsukaya9530
      @komatsukaya9530 9 месяцев назад +9

      Right👍

    • @AsrielAsitgets
      @AsrielAsitgets 9 месяцев назад +4

      It’s their definition of love

    • @pleasuregates4504
      @pleasuregates4504 9 месяцев назад +1

      I’m not here to judge,but that’s one confident wife…she said go ahead and shoot your shot…Lol👌👌👍🏿

    • @lyoness6
      @lyoness6 9 месяцев назад +3

      Says who? That's based on your definition of it, not theirs.

    • @jaymitaylor9937
      @jaymitaylor9937 9 месяцев назад +3

      @@AsrielAsitgetsCorrection : their definition of foolery !

  • @winxclubstellamusa
    @winxclubstellamusa 9 месяцев назад +156

    They are NOT swingers, they are using that word without knowing what it is. These two aren’t married, or even boyfriend-girlfriend, they are fwbs but the woman is playing the role of his mommy who takes care of him and manages his life as he goes out and sleeps with whomever he wants to. This is disgusting. I feel very sorry for how little that woman respects and values herself, and how she has brainwashed herself to believe that this is ok and that he loves her.

    • @skullcandy3935
      @skullcandy3935 9 месяцев назад +7

      They’re married lol

    • @winxclubstellamusa
      @winxclubstellamusa 9 месяцев назад +14

      @@skullcandy3935 on paper, not in reality, because this woman is acting and functioning like nothing more than his mommy right now.

    • @courtneygonzales7731
      @courtneygonzales7731 9 месяцев назад +1

      You’re obviously entitled to your opinion, but that’s all it is, an opinion. Your opinion doesn’t change the truth, which is that they are married & ENM which also includes being swingers.
      Though I am curious as to what your definition of being a swinger is if you care to share?

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 9 месяцев назад +19

      Swinging is both parties are swinging. This is called I feel so low about myself I let him do whatever he wants. I think he sleeps with men too

    • @i_luv_hecklefish
      @i_luv_hecklefish 9 месяцев назад +10

      ​@@ayana188Yes! He's the one benefitting from the arrangement, not her. Everything was about him. Wonder what he'd have to say if she brought a man into bed with them? I'd love to be a fly on the wall for that one. 😂

  • @katherinepastora7934
    @katherinepastora7934 9 месяцев назад +103

    No respect, it’s actually disgusting. Just be fwb at that point . No point in marrying

    • @macdazzy5776
      @macdazzy5776 9 месяцев назад +2

      She loves him and wants to spend the Rest of her life with him how does FWB work.........she doesn't want other men she likes woman too

    • @blackamericanlesbianprofes4357
      @blackamericanlesbianprofes4357 9 месяцев назад

      @@macdazzy5776 She does like other men also. She just didn't want her spouse/husband to keep suggesting other men to her.

    • @cormacthem8406
      @cormacthem8406 9 месяцев назад +5

      Well no because being married makes your relationship acknowledged by the government and with that comes both tax incentives and protections. These people seem happy and in love, their display may be unconventional but it seems to work for them. 🤷‍♂️

    • @k91221
      @k91221 9 месяцев назад +3

      Its an extremely disgusting and pathetic act to have sex with your own biological sister/brother/mom/dad...if someone does so and comes up with a "new theory of love" to justify it...there is nothing much the society can do about it....Its their life afterall..
      Similar is the case here.

    • @asiam1528
      @asiam1528 9 месяцев назад +3

      Exactly just gross

  • @Erdbeerkuchen105
    @Erdbeerkuchen105 9 месяцев назад +138

    She does meal prep and he f other woman . What a lovely Couple❤

  • @komatsukaya9530
    @komatsukaya9530 9 месяцев назад +132

    Sleep with others womans???! What?! Absolutly noooooo😭

    • @cormacthem8406
      @cormacthem8406 9 месяцев назад +1

      What if he lets you sleep with other men and your both close and happy.

    • @breyannaharris1658
      @breyannaharris1658 9 месяцев назад

      Don’t forget, she LETS him sleep with other women

    • @ryoba.
      @ryoba. 9 месяцев назад +21

      ​@@cormacthem8406what's the point of dating then? Just be single and sleep with 50 different people

    • @jaymitaylor9937
      @jaymitaylor9937 9 месяцев назад

      @@cormacthem8406they can stay single and do that

    • @ghty181
      @ghty181 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@ryoba.The point of being together is lifelong companionship. No?

  • @CrazyLady-NoCats
    @CrazyLady-NoCats 9 месяцев назад +57

    They’re not swingers. He enjoys other women & they occasionally have 3 sums.

  • @LoveRemains
    @LoveRemains 9 месяцев назад +49

    Just wait until he falls for another woman.. one that makes him want to be a better person. One that challenges him rather than just letting him walk all over her.
    What they have right now is a trade-off. He gets to sleep around as long as she gets whatever she wants monetarily, neither of them actually truly loving the other.

  • @Pro.official
    @Pro.official 9 месяцев назад +53

    That’s not about love.

  • @citlalivillegas9298
    @citlalivillegas9298 7 месяцев назад +18

    She’s drove 7hrs to see him. she already was giving that man more attention than what he deserved.

  • @michellezuniga9982
    @michellezuniga9982 9 месяцев назад +59

    This can only last so long until she gets tired of it and starts demanding he stop sleeping around.

  • @tmbrad1288
    @tmbrad1288 8 месяцев назад +21

    Not only does this man come off as a narcissist, why even be married if you’re going to sleep with other people? Oh wait, she’s looking for a false sense of security.

  • @LegendaryMel
    @LegendaryMel 9 месяцев назад +21

    Its obvious he doesn't love her nor respect her

    • @jaymitaylor9937
      @jaymitaylor9937 9 месяцев назад +5

      At all how can he ever respect her if she doesn’t even respect herself .

  • @barisveesitlik9310
    @barisveesitlik9310 9 месяцев назад +60

    Then don't marry!!! This is disgusting. A lot of mental problems in this country.

    • @gotica
      @gotica 9 месяцев назад +4

      Are you ok?

    • @Althea27
      @Althea27 9 месяцев назад +10

      ​@@goticathat question for you

    • @asiam1528
      @asiam1528 9 месяцев назад

      Yup

    • @Randersonwood
      @Randersonwood 9 месяцев назад +1

      Why do you care so much about how other people chose to live their lives?

    • @Butterfly22593
      @Butterfly22593 9 месяцев назад

      Having sex is a mental problem?

  • @PhillieP215
    @PhillieP215 3 месяца назад +3

    This is a Win Win Situation. They both are good looking people. They are happy is all that matters.

  • @jaymitaylor9937
    @jaymitaylor9937 9 месяцев назад +33

    So many people in the comments are saying it’s not my style but “I’m not judging as long as their happy” at some point it has nothing to do with judging right is right and wrong is wrong .

  • @juliaparker4212
    @juliaparker4212 9 месяцев назад +25

    This isn’t right… at all…

    • @lyoness6
      @lyoness6 9 месяцев назад +1

      Says who? What gives anyone the right to judge someone else's relationship?

    • @lilmissraeofsunshine9757
      @lilmissraeofsunshine9757 2 месяца назад

      ​@@lyoness6 ummmm..... the Bible?

  • @trueheart8739
    @trueheart8739 9 месяцев назад +58

    Call it what you want but don’t call it a marriage. A marriage is about commitment. May not be today, may not be tomorrow but very soon you’ll resent each other!

    • @gotica
      @gotica 9 месяцев назад +2

      And how do you know?

    • @asiam1528
      @asiam1528 9 месяцев назад +1

      Yup

    • @hallierich7693
      @hallierich7693 9 месяцев назад

      You don’t get to dictate how other people run their relationship, imagine thinking so highly of yourself that your way is the only way and everyone else is wrong. Grow up, you sound like a child. What works for them works for them, take your insecurity and misery elsewhere.

  • @solargooseful
    @solargooseful 9 месяцев назад +8

    This woman is out of her mind. You can see the crazy in her eyes

    • @whitneyallman8365
      @whitneyallman8365 7 месяцев назад

      Yes literally lol. She trying to play it cool though.

  • @djregina6897
    @djregina6897 9 месяцев назад +77

    That lady is dead inside and due to poor self esteem paired with him being a narcissist, he convinced her this is okay

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 9 месяцев назад

      Ugly duckling syndrome

    • @Szupilami
      @Szupilami 9 месяцев назад +3

      Hear hear!

    • @Butterfly22593
      @Butterfly22593 9 месяцев назад +2

      Um did you miss the part where it was her idea? Plus him sleeping with other women seems like a turn on for her. They both seem happy and honest with each other. Not a situation I could be in but it it works for them than that's cool

    • @hananfathiyyah3758
      @hananfathiyyah3758 3 месяца назад +2

      Yea.. i think there is something wrong with her... Just hear the way she laughs.

    • @djregina6897
      @djregina6897 3 месяца назад

      @Butterfly22593 Yes and no. HE Made it clear from the beginning he would bang other women and made it seem like her idea. She went along with it cause she thinks he's all that

  • @roccobrillante
    @roccobrillante 9 месяцев назад +40

    If you need to save your marriage with swinging, there’s definitely something wrong with it.

  • @angelaberni8873
    @angelaberni8873 9 месяцев назад +12

    Why bother getting married if you intend acting as singles!!!

  • @xxxxxxxxx1652
    @xxxxxxxxx1652 8 месяцев назад +7

    she looks so checked out like aint no way you 'love someone' and ur okay with them stepping outside so much

  • @froggo7215
    @froggo7215 9 месяцев назад +12

    Her smile is so fake 😢

  • @heymisswest
    @heymisswest 9 месяцев назад +11

    Wheewwww lord the Pickme of it all

    • @jaymitaylor9937
      @jaymitaylor9937 9 месяцев назад +3

      Girl if pick me was a person it would most definitely be her 😂

    • @heymisswest
      @heymisswest 9 месяцев назад

      @@jaymitaylor9937 I was Behooved at the 7 hour drive...... Lawd Jesus the thirst was heavy... But I guess if she happy....smh.

    • @ashleysalazar2012
      @ashleysalazar2012 Месяц назад

      There's a lot of them lately.

  • @Macnicque
    @Macnicque 9 месяцев назад +72

    I think the most important thing in any relationship is communication. It seems like they have a lot of that. Soooo…two consenting adults can do as they please as long as it hurts no one in the process. I hope their marriage works out just as I know they do

    • @GabrielG80
      @GabrielG80 9 месяцев назад +1

      Agreed

    • @MrsGtbala
      @MrsGtbala 9 месяцев назад +6

      In my opinion people are delusional of theyy think their actions don't affect someone out there. She better hope she doesn't catch anything from him and he better hope he doesn't sleep with a crazy woman who doesn't want to share him.

    • @claricehenderson8690
      @claricehenderson8690 4 месяца назад

      Honesty they have really good communication. Maybe if he was home all the time she’d get tired of him, and maybe she’s low key a freak and just living through him aswell lol

  • @amandamapes6763
    @amandamapes6763 9 месяцев назад +27

    6:00 I'm just wondering why the brother needs to know what goes on in the bedroom at all?? What was the purpose of this "coming out"

    • @exnihilo415
      @exnihilo415 9 месяцев назад +1

      Because he could get the wrong idea if he's around his brother and a girl he was seeing another girl the side. Most people would assume he's cheating on his wife when she's actually fine with it and knows all about it.

    • @poeticlovee
      @poeticlovee 9 месяцев назад

      @@exnihilo415the brother already knew his brother was allowed to cheat prior to the “coming out” convo.

    • @exnihilo415
      @exnihilo415 9 месяцев назад

      @@poeticlovee And this conversation provided needed clarification in context.

    • @poeticlovee
      @poeticlovee 9 месяцев назад

      @@exnihilo415 it was an unnecessary conversation

    • @exnihilo415
      @exnihilo415 9 месяцев назад

      @@poeticlovee Everyone should check in with you and run all potential conversions by you first. Got it.

  • @janeprepper177
    @janeprepper177 9 месяцев назад +40

    Your husband cheats,..you just call it swinging. 😮 He needed to find someone...anyone,...to agree with his cheating. She's not really okay with it, she puts up with it so he won't leave.

    • @2steaksandwiches665
      @2steaksandwiches665 9 месяцев назад +6

      She probably thinks she can’t do any better. It would be fascinating to read her therapists notes

    • @MissAmazing604
      @MissAmazing604 9 месяцев назад +2

      Agreed

    • @Butterfly22593
      @Butterfly22593 8 месяцев назад

      People are so small minded🙄. She's obviously fine with what he does. She even seems turned on by it

    • @2steaksandwiches665
      @2steaksandwiches665 8 месяцев назад

      @@Butterfly22593 perhaps at face value it is, but I think most of us have a hard time believing it. Because frankly, she’s very far from the main stream. Frankly, I don’t care what they do but it’s definitely not normal.

  • @melkingggg
    @melkingggg 9 месяцев назад +11

    Watch out for STDs. I couldn't help but cringe when she said he had a threesome. "I was kindof proud of him, ya know?" NO I DO NOT KNOW.
    As long as yall are happy is all that truly matters. It seems to work well for their relationship. Its definitely not for everyone and the faint of heart.

  • @Yiren666
    @Yiren666 9 месяцев назад +14

    They're both crazy, I think they have their own crazy kink but it is just insane lol. seeing this kind of relationship.

  • @Lalaaaa1995
    @Lalaaaa1995 9 месяцев назад +20

    That guy knows what he’s doing 😂

  • @a.m4806
    @a.m4806 9 месяцев назад +14

    I understand why people are saying “well this is their life” and “at least their happy” but wouldn’t this allow this sweet woman to be more exposed to STDs (HIV) when she’s with a man who sleeps around with women all the time? She seems like a respectful woman and it’s hard these days to find partners like her . I’d just hate to see him getting her sick from his selfish and sick decision .

    • @skindare9808
      @skindare9808 9 месяцев назад

      I guess he uses condoms

    • @jaymitaylor9937
      @jaymitaylor9937 9 месяцев назад +6

      @@skindare9808condoms don’t always work 🤦🏽‍♀️I pray for this generation everyone acts like their missing a few screws . Everything that’s good gets called lame while everything that’s out of the ordinary and wrong gets praised .

    • @assassinscreeds-xu9oo
      @assassinscreeds-xu9oo 2 месяца назад

      ​@jaymitaylor9937 who said condoms always don’t work?
      How old are you kid?

  • @Willyz8824
    @Willyz8824 9 месяцев назад +12

    She weird asf. I would never 😂😂😂

    • @jaymitaylor9937
      @jaymitaylor9937 9 месяцев назад +2

      Right ! What’s mines is mines I don’t share

  • @Ursweetplace
    @Ursweetplace 9 месяцев назад +54

    Not my thing but I can't judge. It's their relationship and what apparently works for them. Wish them good luck & fortune!

    • @lexooo
      @lexooo 9 месяцев назад +3

      For sure, that smile on her face says it all

  • @mc.donaltrumpete9979
    @mc.donaltrumpete9979 9 месяцев назад +17

    That s why they say " love blinds people". This girl is blind but when she open her eyes she will see what he really is.

  • @simplyfig3942
    @simplyfig3942 9 месяцев назад +43

    Bro anyone that believes in having an open relationship or swinging is a relationship needs to get there head checked. That is not a relationship that is a friendship. A relationship is between 2 people. I personally don’t care what people do but the thing that rubs me the wrong way is when they say we are in a open relationship/swingers. Like listen to yourself talk if they didn’t have anything of value for you then you would call it a one night stand. I’m also pretty sure man only said ok because the women gets paid bank what’s he have to worry about she gets paid bank and let’s him fuck whenever he wants doesn’t need to pull out righty or lefty. A guy is stupid if they don’t seal the deal with a women like that. Which is sad because we have a lot of women that don’t value themselves and think taking care of there bum ass boyfriends is ok.

  • @sophieswan3042
    @sophieswan3042 9 месяцев назад +11

    Why isn’t She seeing other Men then?

    • @bobsingh5521
      @bobsingh5521 9 месяцев назад +2

      She is

    • @whitneyallman8365
      @whitneyallman8365 7 месяцев назад +1

      She doesn’t want to. It seems her husband is enough.

    • @bobsingh5521
      @bobsingh5521 7 месяцев назад

      @@whitneyallman8365
      She is. Look at that broad jawline

    • @kevinp7519
      @kevinp7519 4 месяца назад

      Or women, something

  • @eddy-nd7nh
    @eddy-nd7nh 9 месяцев назад +5

    That woman is a m o r o n.

  • @KendraaMichele
    @KendraaMichele 9 месяцев назад +4

    I’d just we worried about STDs and STIs. Condoms don’t protect against everything

  • @Booolove
    @Booolove 9 месяцев назад +37

    Weird "couple"..just be single friends. A relationship is supposed to be SACRED. 😩

    • @ananimity7332
      @ananimity7332 9 месяцев назад +5

      I agree totally!

    • @bobobo2224
      @bobobo2224 9 месяцев назад +2

      How is what they do not "sacred"? You equate having sex is the same thing as the entire relationship?
      You see no difference between being in a committed relationship and being friends?????
      Seriously? You see no difference with being in love, dedicated and committed to someone, the same as being friends? No you think sex is the relationship. Is that all you do with your significant other? Are they just a friend you have sex with? You can be dedicated and committed and still have sex with others. Especially together.
      The committed part is not just sex. They are committed to each other. They come home to each other. They plan things, plan the future together, work to make each other happy, confide in each other, etc.
      Everything you do in a relationship. But then they have sex with additional people in addition to each other.
      If you can get past the jealousy, and know that you are in love and will do anything for each other, why not?
      But not just that, his job keeps him away a lot. That would be mean not to let him have sex while he's gone. Going almost a month without sex. Love and sex aren't the same thing.

    • @Pikafriends22
      @Pikafriends22 9 месяцев назад

      @@bobobo2224I agree. I have thought about this on multiple occasions. If you don’t have a friendship first and foremost then what do you have? Just sex?

    • @ananimity7332
      @ananimity7332 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@bobobo2224 By you saying that you have no clue about the sacredness of what marriage and love means

    • @Doodoomaister
      @Doodoomaister 9 месяцев назад +1

      Lol sacred? You people have kids out of wedlock and get divorced all the time and you say it’s “sacred” lol

  • @Nimue333
    @Nimue333 9 месяцев назад +10

    She doesn't realize her worth!

  • @catchalater5074
    @catchalater5074 9 месяцев назад +17

    sad and pathetic smdh

  • @tamarap1123
    @tamarap1123 9 месяцев назад +5

    But she says that he’s more than enough but she doesn’t believe she is

  • @JRN007
    @JRN007 9 месяцев назад +9

    What’s the point of doing a public show and then saying “don’t judge”

  • @leigh-annadams1169
    @leigh-annadams1169 9 месяцев назад +5

    If he really loved and valued her, he wouldnt want to even sleep with other women

  • @Michelle-dl5go
    @Michelle-dl5go 9 месяцев назад +9

    I think this can work, until it doesn't. It's a matter of time before he gets an STD or gets another woman pregnant, then what...

  • @buglove515
    @buglove515 9 месяцев назад +5

    I think yall are more friends with benefits not a full blown relationship.

  • @sheba1307
    @sheba1307 9 месяцев назад +5

    Now ask her dad for the opinion

  • @DaveNukem
    @DaveNukem 8 месяцев назад +4

    she has no father that's for sure

  • @i_luv_hecklefish
    @i_luv_hecklefish 9 месяцев назад +12

    Everything is about him in their arrangement. Wonder what he'd have to say if, just out of the blue, she brought a man home and into bed with them? I'd love to be a fly on the wall for that one. I bet he'd be mad as hell. 😂

    • @citlalivillegas9298
      @citlalivillegas9298 9 месяцев назад +4

      Count me in to be a fly as well😂 house about to be full of flys 😂😂😂

    • @im26c4u5
      @im26c4u5 8 месяцев назад

      He looks like he wouldn't care as long as he gets to join lol

    • @3g7qff
      @3g7qff 4 месяца назад

      90% of male strippers are gay or bi anyways pretty sure he wouldn’t mind

  • @cauliflowerpower41
    @cauliflowerpower41 8 месяцев назад +4

    Then don't get married. Marriage is a biblical oath not a trend

  • @Sistagirltay
    @Sistagirltay 9 месяцев назад +6

    The brother .. straight B.S! He kne 😂😂

  • @movieedge7370
    @movieedge7370 9 месяцев назад +3

    I went straight to the comments for this one. They are getting Judged big time.

  • @Sagarsingh004
    @Sagarsingh004 9 месяцев назад +4

    "Lust Don't Judge"

  • @shantenafreeman8908
    @shantenafreeman8908 9 месяцев назад +7

    I'm just worried about STD's😮

  • @TeStOs78
    @TeStOs78 3 месяца назад +1

    She is basically an asset for him in the home... it's not a marriage, it's an arrangement that he gets a lot more benefits from being apart of.

  • @stephaniegonzalezpantaleon8790
    @stephaniegonzalezpantaleon8790 9 месяцев назад +44

    Well… she looks happy 🤷‍♀️ and I think it’s important that they communicate what they like. A lot of folks do stuff behind people’s backs and that’s what messes up a relationship. It’s always good that things are clear at all times.

  • @HighMaintenanceMinimalist
    @HighMaintenanceMinimalist 4 месяца назад +2

    She thinks she's a swinger, but all she's doing is putting herself at risk. I pray they never have kids.

  • @spreadmorelove5235
    @spreadmorelove5235 4 месяца назад +1

    God forbid he gives her something that she can't get rid of. This kind of a relationship would be a HARD NO for me!

  • @rajibswain4760
    @rajibswain4760 9 месяцев назад +5

    It's not love. It's totally hunger of sex.

  • @crystalstigall9778
    @crystalstigall9778 7 месяцев назад +4

    Your not swingers, he just sleeps with whoever he wants to , its all fun and games til you're sick with STDs or God forbid worse!!!

  • @rachelgoodyear19
    @rachelgoodyear19 8 месяцев назад +2

    if i were his wife i would divorce him thats the most disrespectful thing you could ever do to someone

  • @MariahGarza-bl9fm
    @MariahGarza-bl9fm 8 месяцев назад +2

    I want to see her family's reaction to this information... not his brother..

  • @latarciaragland3858
    @latarciaragland3858 8 месяцев назад +4

    You definitely don't love her. Praying she starts loving herself more. God is not the author of confusion. My prayers 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💕

  • @tu41358
    @tu41358 9 месяцев назад +3

    That happens when superficiality is most important than values

  • @ghty181
    @ghty181 9 месяцев назад +4

    Lot of insecures in here.

  • @mariag5756
    @mariag5756 9 месяцев назад +3

    She’ll be raising many kids that aren’t biologically hers

  • @christybernal6114
    @christybernal6114 9 месяцев назад +4

    Its all good until he replaces her with someone else or visa versa. I dont know how they dont get jealous. Im like nope, nope, my man! No sharing...

    • @Butterfly22593
      @Butterfly22593 9 месяцев назад +2

      Replace her for what? He gets to sleep with other women and she's not jealous

  • @jairongarcia5258
    @jairongarcia5258 9 месяцев назад +2

    He definitely does not have respect for her. And yes he thinks she is stupid

  • @baijayantighosh4391
    @baijayantighosh4391 9 месяцев назад +3

    Social media is right - this is disgusting

  • @Aeron46
    @Aeron46 9 месяцев назад +112

    It feels so satisfying to make decisions that can shape your life for good...earning $11,850 returns every single week. God has been so good to me 😇

    • @Aeron46
      @Aeron46 9 месяцев назад

      Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a Big luxury salon and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!

    • @Simon_512
      @Simon_512 9 месяцев назад

      Hello, please I have no job and I always want to be successful, show me how 🙏

    • @Aeron46
      @Aeron46 9 месяцев назад

      Alright! after my encounter with a professional Broker Mrs Charlotte Evette Carter during her seminar in Chicago, my financial life completely changed, it wasn't an easy decision to make but am happy I did and turns out successful.

    • @Rachel418
      @Rachel418 9 месяцев назад

      WOW REALLY??

    • @Benjamin--10
      @Benjamin--10 9 месяцев назад

      You're right 100%. Mrs Charlotte is a certified broker, i think over 26 years of trading experience. She's very good at it

  • @minajan4316
    @minajan4316 9 месяцев назад +4

    its all fun and games until an STD or HIV is brough to the marriage... or someone comes out on dateline

  • @ThriftedArtisan
    @ThriftedArtisan 9 месяцев назад +5

    When I read the title I was expecting to comment with some shit, but I actually don’t feel anything about their relationship. He’s obviously happy with his situation (no duh), and she has smiled the whole way through the video so I didn’t pick up any discomfort from her like I have from others in situations like this. She might literally be one of those women who like being on her hands and knees for her man, and I got to say “whatever” - Cartman

  • @lambokuye2450
    @lambokuye2450 9 месяцев назад +4

    That's why many people go to the hell??

  • @cmoorewv
    @cmoorewv 9 месяцев назад +3

    I don't think I could deal with that but I am happy it works for them. No judgement here.

  • @mariposamz1455
    @mariposamz1455 9 месяцев назад +4

    really sad how in the background he is probably very manipulative to her and wants to just have his cake and eat it too and use who’s naive enough to let him.
    probably a very sad insecure man underneath it all I know the type.. it’s called narcissism
    I hope she gets free. poor lady

  • @xyfnthrn714
    @xyfnthrn714 9 месяцев назад +13

    Their relationship has something most others dont ... honesty

  • @bobobo2224
    @bobobo2224 9 месяцев назад +18

    You don't need to pretend the brother doesn't know they swing. He already knew it was open, he knew they swing. Don't throw in extra crap to make it sound taboo when it's not.
    Everyone has what works for them.

  • @brittneybabeee4031
    @brittneybabeee4031 9 месяцев назад +5

    As long as they’re both fully consenting, communicating, not crossing each other’s boundaries, & not hurting each other or anyone else, then I don’t care one bit. The way people want to control others’ relationships these days is just weird AF. Like it literally has NO bearing on anyone else whatsoever, so just leave them the hell alone, lol. & No, it’s not “ruining marriage” for anyone either. 🙄😂
    Some of ya’ll need to learn to “live & let live.”

    • @jessicat6561
      @jessicat6561 6 месяцев назад

      What are they teaching other people?

  • @BriLewm
    @BriLewm 9 месяцев назад +33

    I may not personally want to be in a relationship like this but that doesn’t make it wrong. A relationship is all about communication which they clearly have. Not sure why people are getting so bent out of shape about the way other people live so long as they aren’t harming anyone. Having an open relationship doesn’t hear anyone if it’s consensual and communicated effectively 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @rnbsteenstar
      @rnbsteenstar 9 месяцев назад +1

      I identify as polyamorous and I'm in a few relationships too. I make sure there's communication.

    • @MrsGtbala
      @MrsGtbala 9 месяцев назад

      Then no need to get married. Stay single since needing with other people is what you want to do.

    • @Itz_Skyper
      @Itz_Skyper 8 месяцев назад

      Don't you think we are failing as a progressive society. There are somethings that are not okay even if they are not hurting anyone.
      Marriage is a big deal and once you are married you should be exclusive to one another, not just go around and fck bunch of people and pretend that it's okay. Just think about the impact it's going to have on society
      Diseases , no morality , ethics and values ,

  • @jazzjazzy5063
    @jazzjazzy5063 9 месяцев назад +2

    To each their own, could NEVER be me.

  • @user-eb5gd4gm2w
    @user-eb5gd4gm2w 4 месяца назад +2

    That’s a lot of trust damn … 😂 that’s def real love for sure damn. It takes this level of maturity tho..

  • @laticiagray
    @laticiagray 9 месяцев назад +1

    I love this!!!

  • @user-kt8gr5ob6s
    @user-kt8gr5ob6s Месяц назад +1

    So she is a house wife while he goes out and have fun 😂😂😂😂

  • @Pineapplesrmyfriends
    @Pineapplesrmyfriends 3 месяца назад +1

    It’s 2024 people get with the program step out of the Stone Age. I love this couple !!!

  • @caramelomaldito
    @caramelomaldito 9 месяцев назад +3

    If they're happy good but I wouldn't go this way ✋

  • @Xyz594
    @Xyz594 9 месяцев назад +4

    The girl looks like Caitlyn Jenner 🤣😂🤣😂🤣

  • @followerofchrist737
    @followerofchrist737 9 месяцев назад +4

    This is why we need god back in this country This is not okay. Absolutely sick world we live in

  • @ninjakittycat6888
    @ninjakittycat6888 Месяц назад

    They genuinely look like they are in love. If this works for them then I am happy for them and wish them a long marriage.

  • @juliekwolek3560
    @juliekwolek3560 9 месяцев назад +2

    Better you than me girl. He would of been kicked to the curb boo 😂

  • @seanfloyd756
    @seanfloyd756 2 месяца назад +1

    So brody piped her down. And once she probably saw the wages coming from the shows she just said fuck it.