My Husband Didn't 'Force' My Conversion To Islam | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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ADDISON and Saad started off as college friends, but soon realised their feelings for each other were deeper and fell in love. While Addison had never followed a religion before, Saad was a devout Muslim when the pair met. Addison explained to Truly that Saad was, "The first Muslim that I'd ever met. Before meeting Saad, I would definitely say that I had misconceptions about Islam, especially Muslim men and how the religion treated women." When the couple started discussing marriage, Addison toyed with the idea of converting to Islam, but it's something she initially struggled with. She said, "I had a lot of doubts at first. I was researching things on the internet and I'd find really horrible things." But after chatting to Saad about his stance on things, Addison decided to go ahead with the conversion. Sharing her Islam journey online, Addison has received a whole heap of negative comments, with people saying, 'In Islam, women are just about slaves,' and that Saad 'forced' Addison to convert. Ignoring the negativity, Addison won't let the trolls stop her from posting about their life. Addison said, "You should never judge people on things like their race or religion. You should just never judge people before you know them."
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The fact that they met on a secular level speaks volumes about their love for each other. He could have been playing around and waiting for his parents to arrange a marriage with a muslim woman, but he was faithful to her instead. And she was so genuinely in love with him that she was willing to convert. Saad appears to be a humble, kind, quiet, peaceful man, and I noticed that he never interjected and just let her talk while he held her hand. I honestly hope they are both happy and comfortable. I think they are sincere.
She didn't convert for him. She chose it for sincere faith.
actually this is so true i knew online lot of pakistan and some india guys what they do is just give fake hopes but on end of the day they dont get caurage to tell their family in homeland about western girl they met,, so they play around then go marry arranged to their country girl.. so far anyone i hoped with on distance never wanted tell family about me or plan a way to meet so at least for them did work out she convert and his family accepted the marriage which is believe me a huge step as many of them wouldnt accept west gf for their son.
Update i think they're not together.. she's not practicing Islam..
Being a Muslim isn't an ethnicity it's a religion.
Muslims men only allowed to marry a Christian and Jewish women as these people are the believers of Book and Prophet.
@@redbag3453keep being stuck in that phobia!
Get well soon.
Many Arabs look whtte themselves even though they might not identify as whtte.
Its never an ethnicity until you give it some honest criticism....
...then it's suddenly 😂racism😂.
Islam a religion of love and peace being Muslim isn't ethnicity just happen's most of Muslim's are middle eastern but not all are
My aunt is a convert . She was born ans raised in colombia. Raised Catholic. She got a job in the UK and met my uncle. He’s Muslim and they got married and now live in duabi.It’s been 40 + years since she’s been a convert . I also never seen her be treated bad. Everything the girl in video said is 100 % correct ! I’m sorry they get hate :( !
that's quite pathetic. she had to convert but he would not. what if she did not wan to convert, would he have converted?
@@martinvanburen4578 she didn’t have to 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️she wanted to. She liked the religion and what they believed . But she was never forced 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️.
@@dollsNcats 🤦♂you don't know that....just going off your own hot air. muslims marry muslims 🤦♂🤦♂ignorance of people
@@martinvanburen4578 your right I don’t know my own family. Thanks for that eye opening inform.
@@dollsNcats 🤦♂yeah sure you do...
She appears content with her decision, but being a Muslim woman born in the Middle East, I find myself unable to fully agree with her for numerous reasons.
Maybe it’s a Middle East problem. I’m a Muslim from Africa and it’s really not toxic but I’ve heard sad stuff about your side
Why?
Middle East does not represent Muslims most middles eastern world the cultures are anti Islamic.
Hi shiva,are u Iranian?!
She's not with him and not practice Islam...
Thank you so much everyone for all of the wonderful comments ❤️🥰 I can’t reply to all of them but I see them all and I was worried this video would get a lot of hate but so many people are leaving such kind and loving comments it warms my heart! ❤️❤️
Pls make your own RUclips channel. You are a source of inspiration for Muslims by birth and new Muslims both
Masha Allah
May Allah SWT bless you and your family ❤️❤️🤲🤲
Girl YOU didn’t do anything admirable. If you love him then why make it a big fuckin deal sis. This is normal
@@aamirshah1655 no tf she is not.
May God bless you
I have lived in the Middle East and have many Muslim close friends. I can 100% tell you that they treat their wives, daughters and sisters with respect. I have been treated far better by my Muslim friends than by most western men.
Seeing the comments here of those against Islam i belive you
He seems like he is hardly a muslim tbh. That's the only reason this relationship is working out.
Living with his gf before marriage lol? Serious muslims wont even shake hands with a woman they arent married to.
Well said.
Very true.
actually this is true, i also knew lot of such boys online of mus. families in india or pakistan but living on west, when they come on west and meet a white girl some of them who are not with so high level deen engage in dating of course in rules this isnt allowed also marrying atheist isnt allowed so what most guys do is play around then go for arranged marriage and leave western gf behind at least he not done that...
this is my opinion too
What tells you it wouldn't work otherwise tho?
I will say this as a Christian woman. When I started researching different Abrahamic relationships (Judaism & Islam) ,I was shocked at how much rights women have in Islam & Judaism compared to Christianity and it is sad that culture and extremist groups have ruined the public perception of these beautiful religions.
Lol do you think muslim women have more rights than Christian women.christian women doens't need to cover head hijab can enter anywhere like muslim women can't enter in mosque
@@nebi6597you are so wrong 😂 1) a modest woman is better than a woman who shows her body to the public, would you want a wife who’s modest and clean? Yes or no? And 2) Muslim women are allayed in the mosque, they just have a different section. Stop making pathetic lies and research islam. Also don’t act like wearing a hijab is somewhat a bad thing, Mother Mary used to wear a veil and you guys should respect her
Quran claims the witness of a woman is half that of a man and majority of women are in hell. Is this honorable ?
While upon resurrection, it’s to a woman that Jesus first appeared and commissioned her to carry the Good News to His male disciples.
@@seekthetruthandthetruthwil2388 Thats why YOUR mother and sisters are converting to islam in their MILLIONS…
@@seekthetruthandthetruthwil2388 For starters, the reason a woman needs two witnesses is because women tend to be emotional than men. And the majority of mankind are in Hell. This is because most of mankind rejected and disobeyed Allah, most high.
I also married into Islam! I don’t really practice religion very much but I love learning about it from my husband and being a part of the culture. It’s actually very beautiful and she’s right that many Muslim men (like my husband) are way more respectful of women than your ordinary American man. But of course there are bad men (and women) in every culture, religion, and society.
That’s awesome, I’m learning about it too because I’ve heard a lot of misconceptions
🤣🤣
@@mahllllloodmaseh4157get lost you Islamophobe !
Good riddance, Selena.😂
You aren't even one of us for all that you pretend.
Your name gives it all away... 😂😅HISPANIC😂😅
@@-uz4xqthank you!
the fact that somebody had to explain this much for a religion, that tells you something
Haha exactly 🤣
That's kind of the point of this video though. She's supposed to give detailed context for her unconventional relationship.
@@Kizarat do you seen any other religion require such detailed apologies
@@lansiman Apologies?
Because other religions are expired .
No one give a sh!t to their religion, everyone choose to live their life by their own choice.
Only islam still hold its glory strictly. Muslims are devoted to their religion unlike others.
Saad has the rosiest cheeks ever so cute. They seem like two intelligent people. The world is being more inclusive that’s great. Saad seems like a nice guy she speaks for her and he respects that ❤❤❤ wish them well ❤ women that wear hijab are gorgeous so elegant without having to show everything that is natural beauty ❤️
Thanks for such kind words! It's heartwarming when I see people respect my people. ❤
I don´t think he forced her but i don´t think she would have been muslim if she was married to a men who isn´t muslim.. but i have to say they look happy together.
She was given a right path by God through his man.
you can say that about anything though, what if your teacher placed you next to someone else, then you would have other friends and be different yourself yk
not really, she didn't have to convert to marry him. they could marry without her converting
@@user-ys9pr7lc6l i didn't know that i'm sorry i thought it wasn't allowed. I'm not a Muslim or a Christian and i don't know much about religion. As long as they are happy together that's what counts in my eyes.
I am not Muslim but this is one of the more positive things I have seen. She seems to be happy. He seems to be happy. Let them be and decide how they want to live this life and who they want to worship. Cute couple. Heart warming.
They seem like a warm, loving couple. Good for them.
Maybe the title should be “My boyfriend influenced me to convert to Islam” because that’s the truth of the story.
Yeah...because Islam really shows you the beauty of life. But most of muslim sadly can't catch their religion by soul.
Revert**
this is sad
Bruh
@@rahmanreshad4909 no bro islam isn't even a religion how can god be wrong about earth being round in quran though there are other 100 more reasons to prove it but Muslims are delusional islam is just someone's fantasy which he narrated for fun it doesn't make any sense and it never will
They speak truth about American perceptions of Islam. Part of it is media presentation and the bigotry. Both sides of the situation is not given. Working with Muslims has been an enriching experience. If one is willing to learn about other cultures, a lot of eye opening information can be learned about ALL diverse cultures. Guess the key is being receptive to LEARNING.
I agree Islam about peace and love and most American's misperception because of two thing's first misguided radical fundamentalist attacked us on 9/11 second media bias
Yeah ok...Muslims leave Islamic countries and they don't want to accept the values of the country they want material gains from but want people to convert to Islam. If this woman had any sense, she would tell him to convert. Muslims never mention the bad side of Islam. You never hear a Muslim talk ill of Islam but they will talk ill of every other religion/culture/nation.
@@martinvanburen4578 All religion's have a dark side because of misguided fanatical believer's
@@johnathanhouston2893 no...they don't. Buddhism doesn't have a dark fanatical side because Buddhism doesn't seek to convert the world.
@@martinvanburen4578 it's not religion that force people to convert it's people who do
You guys are couple goals 😍😍😍
You look so pretty and sweet.
They always say that, that they had nothing to do with it, smell the coffee😂
Mashallah what a beautiful couple ❤
changing religions is such a big undertaking. if it makes them both happy then i support them.
Such a lovely 🥰 couple, May Allah bless them and give them lots of happiness
The only thing I can critique is that her family “heard of” her making these life choices, instead of her telling them. It is her life and she has full control over it, but in my opinion, I would have told my mom. She would have been hurt if I didn’t.
yep, hardly can say that he is a devout muslim, however, people can change throughout the years, what's important is that he impacted his wife to become a revert. Only Allah can judge
May Allah bless you both with lots of happiness ❤ you took the best decision love
Love them!! Beautiful couple
Thank you so much!! 🥰🥰🥰
If becoming a Muslim makes this woman happy,that's the important thing.
As an atheist,if i ever met a convert to Islam whether its because of marriage or not,I would always show tolerance and respect to them as long as they show that same tolerance and respect back to me by not shoving their new found beliefs down my throat ( no offense) and most importantly respecting my right not to believe in their God.
Respect and tolerance has to work both ways.
@@shimmer4771 I hope you also respect atheists like myself too and not just those who believe in your God.🙂
@@shimmer4771 I live in the U.K ( not U.S) and tbh many people like myself have no problems with Muslims here as long as they respect our laws ( like I would if i lived in a Muslim majority country) but most importantly happy to integrate into Western society.🙂
As my parents are Jewish,there is a lot of hatred towards Jews here from both Muslims and non Muslims too for something that is happening thousands of miles away to the point that ( unlike Muslims) Jews have been advised here to hide their religious identity whilst out in public for their own safety due to rising antisemitism both here in the U.K and U.S too.😔
I thought I'd mention that last paragraph as no one should face hatred whether they are Jewish or Muslim.
Does she have a youtube channel? If so, does anyone know what it is?
Hi!! My youtube channel is Addison Castillon 🥰
Addison Castellano
They are really cool !❤❤
Watching from Bangladesh ❤️❤️🇧🇩🇧🇩love you both
Yeah, maybe not verbally, but definitely subconsciously
manipulation it is,if he really loved her he would accept her how she is and never let her change her religion for himself.
He said that he is going to marry her anyway if she is a muslim or not !
Next time hear and then speak !
Exactly. She doesn't even realise it lol.
@@deealex1402 she did not convert for him. She chose this for herself. Please do not speak on what you don't know.
You two are a beautiful couple Mashallah.
Lovely couple ❤
It was her idea. I don't see the problem! They are both happy. Best wishes to them!
Literally people always have something to say. Better to stay true to oneself!!
I love them. This is such a beautiful love story
Thank you so much 🥰🥰🥰
I love how they do things as a team and treating each other equally that is a healthy relationship masha allah
Sister Welcome to the Peaceful Religion ISLAM may Allah bless you and your family and Guide you on the Correct path
MashaAllah ❤
Mashaa Allah. Love and support from Philippines🇵🇭
May Almighty Allah bless you guys ❤
Islam is a good religion I had a friend and she was treated like a queen although her husband was a truck driver. She is at home chilling taking the kids and making sure the house hold is being whole. She goes on vacations and she do respect her husband although he was Never around much. She had a lot of boundaries when it comes to going out and staying out late, drinking and other adult related stuff. I don't think islam is bad. I think covering up is a dress code.
such a beautiful couple! I hope people always respect the both of you as well as your decision to revert. you deserve all the happiness in the world ❤️
What a perfect couple ❤❤❤
Even if he did she will never say he did. Married couples only start to tell the truth when the divorce start… while married they can swear to the outside world they Patner is an Angel.
@@jacliveshere Muslim men can marry muslim Jewish or Christian woman
If men from this religion are calling you a liar for saying women have rights, that's really saying something. It's not JUST what the religious texts say. It's the culture and collective social beliefs. I would be concerned too.
There is misogyny in every single culture and society. Women only got their rights in the western world very recently in history. You can criticise Islam based on a Islamic texts and the Quran, not on Muslim people who are flawed just like everyone is.
good that ur story worked out and u could make ur relation formal and being accepted by both families which is a blessing.
اللهم بارك ، اللهم ثبتهما على دينك ❤
i am jealous of Addison's mom hair :0.She has beautiful hair ....10/10
They are perfect together
I love this channel. It’s better than TLC, Lifetime, and MTV
Very nice 👍👍
To be honest they are just like other regular relationship in the sense that they both have feelings for each other and the other is prepared to adjust for him. This is real love as much as he is is to be dedicated to protecting and providing for her.
He is such a lucky guy
Alhamdulillah for all my bhabhi's ❤❤❤
mashaallah that s the first thing i like in the channel
Beautiful ❤
She’s beautiful and he has rosey cheeks they make a very cute couple MashaAllah
She can be Muslim but she doesn’t need to wear the hijab 🧕
Exactly!!!
That's her choice she is clearly saying. what are you talking about 🤔
I'm happy for you. I think I also made silly assumptions but it's good that you inform us. I'm divorced from a man that was mainstream religious church guy. He was the one that treated me like filth. Well done for speaking up. Don't worry about the haters, there will always be haters. By the way your uncle is so handsome. He speaks about homosexuality, if he is then I'm sure he'd also get hate. Live your best life....if he isn't.....introduce him to me😂
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There's no way I'd share my husband with other women. Would you do that, Addison?
You're clearly very happy. And I have no doubt Islam has been demonised in the media.
But the 4 wives issue is totally wrong and unfair to women.
I wish you both all the best. I hope you have a wonderful marriage. ❤
Where in the video did she even mention sharing her husband. And you do realize there are Christians and Jews around the world that have multiple wives. If it wasn't illegal in the US, then men would practice that here too.
@@Akhillees doesn't the quran says to have 4 wives is halal. But i dont think Christianity or Jewish says that
Muslim men indeed are allowed to have up to 4 wives by the permission of God, but there is a strict rule to it. The man must treat their wives equally, which is very hard to do. Also, many reasons to marry more than one wife such as to help protect & support the women. It's not about sex or for the sake of having fun, it is all for the sake of God. We Muslim believe this life is temporary and a test, I'm saying this because this might help you see that we have a very different worldview about life itself (than majority non-muslim).
Do you understand that in this economy it’s difficult to take multiple wives?? It’s the minority that do it
A Muslim man never shakes hands with non-mahram nor hugs her. brother be open-minded but don't go against the teaching of Islam
Masya Allah, beautifull family
Loved from Indonesia
Mash Allah ❤❤
What a beautiful representation of Islam and a loving couple.
thank you so much 🥰🥰🥰
@@addisoncastillon good luck
Beautiful couple. Love this.
Masyaallah ❤❤ beutiful muslim wife... i love your story...
Great couple we all are lucky to be Muslim. The greatest religion
Love it
Im evangelical christian from Hungary but she is so rigth abt woman and islam like we can learn from muslims how they have the passion to their religion ofc i dont agree whit everthing they do and there are bad people in every religion and i never move to a islamic country and never cover my hair but modestly its such a key womans have no self respect in the west and therefore mans treat woman like trash so go girl have a great marriage you look lovely
Masha Allah.
She is beautiful even with what she's wearing and head covered. Reminds me of those from Chechnya, very gorgeous.
You always have to ignore the idiotic and evil comments. Stay strong and firm.
Thankyou , for your video
From , india
she converted cause she has to ..or else he'll not marry him lmao..so speak it like that ,the truth instead of giving it another line .
the problem with these girls are they weren't even religious so it's pretty easy to convert them
Muslims are real hypocrites who dont allow Muslim women to marry non muslims but only the other way
@@nebi6597 exactly
@@jojo-dv3uy Cry harder
@@UAM- i don't need to ..i am just spreading awareness
Im Catholic and I married a Muslim and we are together for 10 years. So don’t talk about things you don’t have any idea. And the problem with YOu Jojo or juju or wherever is that you spread hate and ignorance to the world. Just have a life and stop judging 👍
“As for women of whom you fear rebellion, convince them, and leave them apart in beds, and beat them. Then, if they obey you, do not seek a way against them. Surely, Allah is the Highest, the Greatest.”
- The Holy Quran, 4:34
A husband is permitted to discipline a disobedient woman. He is not allowed to hurt her or insult her. He must first talk to her, then not sleep in the same bed as her, then lightly tap her on the shoulder. He's not allowed to do that if she returns to obedience. So, don't talk on what you don't know. 😊
@@shimmer4771
Why don’t you do yourself a favor and watch videos of Sam Shamoun. He is a Christian Apologist to Islam who engages in debates as an informed apologist refuting accusations and attacks leveled by Muslims against Christianity. Your fellow Muslims can’t even defend their religion or prophet!
Lol. Women are adults, not children. They don't need to be disciplined by their SOs.
@@rebeccaelaine2828 For us believing women, we do. It's our duty to obey them because they're our protectors and providers. ☺️
@@josebalcazar3415 leave us alone.
Nothing wrong with this. What's different here than someone converting to Catholicism or Judaism to marry their partner? As long as they're happy.
Marry me
Hello how are you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@indianreaction445😂😂😂dude
Allahuma Barek❤️
Don't put your relationship on social media.
Mashallah
why did you guys post pictures of her hair omg
If you both are happy who cares what people think! You look like a lovely couple.👍🤗🌻
Press X to doubt:X
(Doll, blink three times if your "husband" has you under duress...)
Wow such a beautiful couple
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Saad Bhai why are you commenting ? When you are in the video
Let people be happy no matter what makes them happy. I love from my husband to control everything in our marriage and Ive never been happier
He is a good man.. And will learn from you...
Completely outside the point of this video, but wow, she is really beautiful
Happy for u
May Allah keep you both happy forever ❤️❤️
I want to marriage with someone who recently converted to islam please help me out to contact with them. I am single. Never married
Mashaallah sister
You can Create new religions
Easy
Power couple🫶😘
She took the biggest L of her life
How 😂 she took the W sad for you
Islam is the religion of truth alhamdulilah
Lv frm india ❤
she is really pretty and beautiful
I actually love the modesty!
Saad looks like Pakistani 😍
Beautiful couple
Sad is an IT professional.
She is lucky.
What a handsome couple.
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