We're In A Triad - But Our Mothers Hate It | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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- Опубликовано: 21 июн 2024
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GJ, 29, and Jessica, 30, are a polyamorous couple from Houston, Texas. The pair have been together for nine years and married for six. Jessica told GJ that she was bisexual on their first date, they started opening up their relationship casually to other women, but eventually decided that they were looking for a consistent relationship with a third party. Since opening up their relationship the outside world has been critical of their choice, online trolls have commented "go to hell!" and "hell has a place for you". Their loved ones have voiced their concerns too, Jessica's mother Sonya told Truly: "I felt like she was going nuts, I don't freaking get it." While GJ's mom Sonya said: "I felt like marriage is supposed to be between a man and a wife, just those two, anything else is just too much." In the video, the couple confront their mothers on their negative opinions of non-monogamy and meet up with one of their ex-girlfriends to see if they can reunite as a throuple.
0:00 Intro
0:54 GJ & Jessica
01:05 Polyamory
2:37 What Our Mothers Think
3:24 Another Wife
4:53 Judgement We Face Online
5:25 Conclusion
6:29 Meeting Our Ex
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Videographer: Tej Doshi
Producers: Kate Moore, Yasmin Walker
Editor: Hailey Wang
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I like how the moms handled it. They don't have to agree but I'm glad they're always going to be there for their kids
Love don't judge, the internet does
Not the internet. Incels and religious zealots on the internet!
@@kenofken9458 yes
@@sallytheinfinitygirl What's really funny, and f*cked up is when I get judgment from people who are monogamous but serial and constant cheaters! They'll call me a slut without any sense of irony at all😐
@@kenofken9458 ❤😂😂
Factssss😂😂
The third person coming in has the most to loose here.
😆 the moms look was such a
Mom look
😂😂😂
I kind of understand both sides. I'm also poly, with a man and a woman with me. I was lucky enough to not have to deal with family stuff. But my partners have close family members. Some accepted. Some not so much. At work, we don't talk about our private life at all, except with a few chosen people. We deal with it every single day. Think about all the issues of a traditional relationship, now multiply. Yup, we do not just have the fun parts. We have the whole package.
Sorry moms are correct.
I absolutely agree. if I was the mom I'd say the same as what his mom says. It's not ok with it but she loves them dearly. That's how I'd feel about it, I would never want to lose my kids because they have different beliefs to me ...but having said that, I'd go home and cry into my pillow for an hour or two and after that I'd be on my knees praying and praying but continue to show love
She scraped those eggs off that stove….
I love this for them. They are mature enough to know what they want and mentally stable to handle everything that comes with this type of relationship. It is no one's place to pass judgment on them.
If it's not for you, it simply isn't. No need to come with torches and pitchforks. It's the 21st century!
Once again LDJ is featuring a throuple with one man and two women.
The best kind of throuple 😂
@@jose131991you ain’t lying
@@jose131991 uhm no.
I am judging 👀😶
Being bisexual doesn’t mean you need to have two partners. That’s ridiculous.
Right? Many of us who are not bi also need two partners. 🤣
I’m bi and need more than two partners. But you prob assume it’s just about sex.
well she was saying she does plus it's her life not yours i mean would i do this no
It's their choice deal with it 😂
Ok? But they aren't just bi sexual. They are also poly. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. I'm not personally with that, but it's there life and they seem happy and healthy so it's all good😉❤️❤️❤️
I bet they are happier and have more fun then most ‘normal’ couples and they both seem happy and secure with themselves and each other which is very healthy
Your clearly not secure within yourself if you have to bring in another person. Idk why people don’t see that when you bring in “another” person that you are cheating on your spouse lol. The foolery of you people and the way you think!
@@beautyoflifewithtalya5322 cheating = lying. It has nothing to do with monogamy.
@@BanjoBitty huh? What you said made no sense! Do you know what monogamy means? It means one couple only and no additional people. Cheating equals lying? Sure. But your statement just didn’t make much sense.
@beautyoflifewithtalya5322 Whats the problem? It's their life they can live it how they see fit.
@@jandt3463 if they don’t want to be judged or have others saying something about it then maybe they shouldn’t broadcast their little relationship for all to see!
This man sounds sus too. He's getting played his wife is about herself
Live and let live. They aren’t hurting anyone. Like the woman said they will be dating the 3rd person and getting know them before they properly introduce her to the kids like they dated each other. As long as the kids are always at the forefront of what they do, which seems like it is then I don’t see the issue
They need to bring the Mama's into a lot more of these videos😂
The way the family members said "be regular" put out major vibes of conformity. Everyone should be able to have a relationship (or relationships) that they find enjoyable. As long as their not hurting anyone, I don't see the problem. 🤷🏻♀️
Bitch, please
@@Stinkmeaner420 What, bitch?
As a person who practices polyfidelity, thank you. We are happy. It works for us.
Non. L'amour est un secret entre deux cœurs, un mystère entre deux âmes. Allez y voire un prêtre exorciste. Dieu n'est pas d'accord avec vos pratiques perverses. ☝🏽🙏🏽✌🏽😇
I agree with both the parents. As far as I'm concerned people who are in these poly relationships and open marriages just want to see other people and not commit to each other. Monogamous marriages fail all the time, but polyarmous relationships seem to have an even higher chance of failing. There is just too much going on, too many problems that can arise that wouldn't if it was a two person relationship. And involving your children in this girlfriend hunting is just messed up as well, children already struggle with stuff like their divorced parent dating again, but being in a marriage and then adding random people to your home unnecessarily is harmful. And they will be so confused as to why their family is set up differently than other kids. If they were gonna do it, they could at least have done it before having children.
As long as they're happy the parents need to back off! They're harming no one 🤣
I agree with you. The most important thing is that they are happy and able to handle it with wisdom.
In the same way, there are benefits in monogamous marriages. There are also benefits in polygamous marriages too.
People need to understand what may be for one person may not be for the other it's as simple as that.
They just big ol freaks
Yeah...😁
Can’t handle that someone is different to you? Must be hard shame
@@Bexstarartistlol trust me, no one wants to be their kind of “different” what they are doing is wrong! Period!
@@beautyoflifewithtalya5322 wrong? Like morally wrong? Why?
Are you god? To judge? Who makes these morals you speak of? Religion? Others you follow blindly? Well that’s all feels and it’s bs
You are speaking for them as if you know what’s going on inside their heads. Making up
Stories.
Beautiful couple, but I'm with the moms on this one. Bringing someone else into your marriage is a TERRIBLE idea & it will backfire on you. I wish them well, but I am team moms
I see marriage takes on many definitions in this day and age 😂😂😂😂
I love this! Beautiful couple and would be a beautiful throuple too!
Mmmm no.
Bruh I see this guy on instagram before lol I ain’t know he was down like this
I'm a bi, polyamorous, married woman who is pregnant with my first child.
My mom didn't respond well at all when I came out as bi, nor two years later when I came out as polyamorous.
But when I accepted my bisexuality after 26 years of denial (partly due to my homophobic mom) I had to accept her choosing not to be in my life because of it.
She's more accepting now (as I have to remind her that my husband and I aren't monogamous and I wear queer paraphernalia) but we'll see when I get a gf. I don't want a triad tho.
Why no triad lol
@@jose131991 because of this ruclips.net/video/NW2ZGn9xwJs/видео.htmlsi=c0ypn-vI9muFp-xKl
Need more episodes
First time seeing mother in laws with the same name
I don't like how this channel is called love don't judge but every single video has people judging the hell outta them in the comments. i subscribed to this because i wanted to see content that's about acceptance and love but sometimes the comments are really ruining my faith in humanity. why would you watch this stuff if you know you hate it? y'all are sad
The same reason why people slow down and stare at road accidents. They are curious to stare at the situation. They got nothing better to do.
@not for you Walking in the path of Satan huh? Well your bible characters had hundreds of wives and concubines (whores). Your god didn't seem to have any issue with it then. This poor guy only wants two unlike Solomon with his 700.😂
@@realeyesrealizereallies417 So if it's that important to God, why did he not turn up here in the comments instead of sending some low level lackey?
people are bored with their lives so they look for something innocent and criticize it and i think this channel is called they because they want people to know this is a free space without judgment but no matter what you do you will always have haters and people who judge
Watching the moms' reactions was so funny to me. If it works for them then who cares.
Lmao sharing is sharing . She made it like it was some difference. Shes gonna look at this in 10 years and be embarrassed.
They are grown adults who cares what they mom thinks. They didn’t marry the moms they married each other
As long as they’re happy that’s the main thing. I was in a poly relationship. But then the girlfriend left (bc I wasn’t used to it not bc I didn’t like her) and now I’m with the boyfriend and he proposed last year. And been engaged for 8 months. And I’m happy.
So basically you broke up a relationship and stole the boyfriend. In my country, we call you people homewreckers
Karma will come back around, when you least expect it.
The Parents: I JUST FEEL. Where Is your empirical data backing the success of monogamy. Would you rather your son cheat?
What about the kids? No one cares about that? This is so dysfunctional.
Polyamorous relationships can damage a marriage. I'm not saying it always ends up this way, but an old friend from college found out the hard way that it can be risky - they ended up divorced from their spouse and married to the third party. I personally am not poly and my big question concerns the measure in which one can really give everything to one person and be one with them if there is a third party in the picture. I admit to being skeptical and hewing to the more idealistic side of the question.
Nice
Damn I was hoping she had a boyfriend.
???
So they want free babysitting, got it
I don’t think the wife actually wants this I think she’s just doing it because she’s worried about her husband cheating on her or leaving her if she doesn’t do it
She’s bisexual and mostly dated women before him… what makes you think this? Because that’s how YOU feel? Can’t place your feelings on someone else
I’m bisexual too but a lot of people commonly confuse bisexual for polyamorous they aren’t the same thing.
i feel like this is the case 99% of the time a married couple “opens up” their marriage
@@mamasitafrita6164 yes there are bisexual monogamous people and there are bisexual nonmonogamous people.
Seems like she’s the main one initiating everything. She had previous relations with the other women for crying out loud.
I don’t think their parents should have a say in what they do in their marriage.
they don't but they wanted to know how they felt
They are allowed there two cents like everyone else.
I'm not judging
I’m Not against polyamorous relationships but I like this couple they’re only just doing it maturely and as long they both happy and very healthy in the relationship then I have No problem with it and honestly I really don’t care 😅
Old fashion forever ❤mom
marriage is a biblical concept. Why bother actually getting married?
Marriage exists outside of the bible (hello marriage license with your state government). It provides legal, financial, and medical benefits.
@@lifeisrocqi the whole idea of marriage is from the Bible. Getting a licence is part of it
@@valerierobertson6334 it may be. But it also exists outside of the Bible. There are religions older than Christianity you know
Does it say in the Bible to get the state government to sign off?
@@lifeisrocqiomg please be real! Marriage was created by God as well as sex! Forget the marriage license, marriage is a covenant, period! Learn that! Respect that!
@@beautyoflifewithtalya5322 lol I don't believe in any of that
i like them
ok since people want to keep bringing the Bible into this what about how the Bible says not to judge and to love everyone
Lol people like you who make these types of comments crack me up! The Bible does say not to judge less you be judged, HOWEVER, the Bible also states that if someone is doing something wrong you can tell them about it in a kind way, and if they don’t listen then take another person with you to tell that person what they are doing is wrong. You guys misunderstand what God tells us to do when it comes to the no judgment part. And clearly this way of living and trying to bring other people into your marriage is wrong! It’s adultery at its finest.
💚💜💜
He on the DL, trying to warm her up for a man .
Mom mom and dad 🤔
As long as your both happy with life
2:21 where are their husbands? Hmm Where's the grandfathers????
Lucky Bastard!!!
What'd you think that moms would feel? They are asking their moms to see thru their POV but they have to do the same thing. Their moms are not from an Era that's so open to a lot of social changes. It's not abt who's right... love is love and as long it's not at all toxic to the kids or themselves then it's strange but fine. But don't expect acceptance on extreme matters right away....
Mom is correct, that marriage is between wife and husband only..
What a poor mind for this couple 😔
Mhmm that’s so true… I’m normally very forward- thinking but sometimes traditional ways are just better. If you’re going to have this kind of relationship just don’t get married and it’s probably best not to have kids either smh…
I know a girl who wants a 3way relationship with a guy another girl but she can never has any luck
Makes me sick
I am bisexual. I am married to a man. I love him. Sorry being bisexual is not an excuse to be sleeping with other people. My God bringing these people into the house with kids there. They dont know them. Crazy and selfish.
I'm so sorry that you are brainwashed by the patriarchy.
The mothers are very right
This is how the enemy works to destroy everything
Completely agree! Been trying to tell people about this in this little wicked comment section.
This generation ruins everything 😊
What you can’t handle that someone different to you?
I could tell the religious mother wanted to say that it is a sin but she held that in so she wouldn't seem judgeful. That big cross necklace she wore spoke volumes tho..😆 Meanwhile, I'm all for it. Many people shun things that are not normal. That's just the way society has always been with something different and new. Poly is not part of western culture so we shun it and the people that engage in it. If we grew up in a culture where this was normal, nobody would bat an eye.
Why is it that she has to be labeled as religious? Marriage is a covenant given to us by God. Therefore a second wife, third wife, fourth wife is not recognized! And I know there was polygamy in the Bible but that was in the Old Testament, in the New Testament that is done away with. And I agree with the mother I wouldn’t want to share my husband either and then the girl chimes in and says she’s not sharing her husband and it’s like hun what? The delusion at its finest! Honey you are letting a whole woman have sex with your husband! You just defiled your marriage bed smh. Might as well not even be married if you want to do all of that!
@@beautyoflifewithtalya5322 Not everyone believes in the bible ma'am. It's a book of fables to many.
i'm NEVER having kids.
I find it funny that a lot of you keep saying “as long as their happy I seen nothing wrong with it” trust me, there is a lot wrong with this. And we need to stop acting like this crap is normal! When it’s not! This is not the way God deemed it to be, and yes I am a Christian and I stand hard and true on my faith! The Lord is not happy with this way of life style just like with the LGBTQ crap it’s not ok! It’s not supposed to be woman and woman or man and man or 1 man and 3 women smh. Marriage is a covenant that God created for us. It was never to be experimented by bringing in other people. Now you have just committed adultery. Smh. And for all you little naysayers that want to comment back with some foolery, come on with it, I got something for your behind!
The most combatant/militant “Christian” I’ve seen in awhile. You can’t FORCE your way of thinking onto everybody. Poor ambassador for Christianity.
@@jose131991 your so weird! Who’s forcing anything? This is the way it’s to be. God never meant for man and man to be together or for woman and woman to be together, nor does he approve of polygamy. Polygamy was a thing in the old testament but once the new testament came, God did away with men having multiple wives because he seen the issues it would cause in the future. It’s cool you don’t wanna believe what I believe, but just know we all have to stand before the white throne of judgment one day. I said what I said! And I will stand on my beliefs and continue to spread the gospel so people are not lost or duped by society!
The guy smart his using his wife bisexuality to invite more women for himself loooool...