I don’t believe they are looking at them b/c of interracial relationship; they see the short hair and tattoos and may have mistaken her as a boy. B/c if her hair was long I don’t think the reaction would have been so visceral. Besides, colorism is big over there and they prefer their women to be light skinned and if your white then it’s probably even better. If she were black it would have been different. Just my opinion.
I agree with you, it's the masculine spin on appearance with the short hair and tattoos that makes them question her gender. In the US we're a lot more used to her style and don't think much of it. When she was in the Indian garb, her flesh was exposed about the same amount. But, perhaps the "tight" jeans was a factor moreso than any skin showing. I'm curious what you think of that issue. When they said she was "showing off her body," that was kind of strange.
It's 1 thing not to be in agreement with someone or something But to speak of it publicly is a Disgrace!! As I have always said We Can't Help Who We Fall In Love With!! It's truly in the Hands of God if 2 people can Love..Respect..Care for one another why can't they be together!! I'm sorry for what Kelly has had to indure But I'm so happy her Hubby has her back!! I wish this couple All The Happiness and Joy they deserve💙🤍💎🤍💙
let her be and wear whatever she wants. accept her like how she accept you for how you are. i feel bad for both of them. what matters is their both happy
As someone who has been happy married for over 13 years to an Indian man, its very easy to get your in-laws on your side. 1. grow out your hair if possible (long hair = beauty in hindu culture mostly elderly women have short hair.) 2. show interest in your husbands culture like learn to make chai tea and few simple dishes then invite your mom in law and surprise her with your hospitality and new culinary dishes, (also show you have cooking schedule, Indians are big on routines and schedule for food. ) 3. Jeans are not seen as appropriate in rural area (I've been told myself by neighbors but once your in-law appreciate you they will defend and fight for you. 4.) Once you have kids they will be all in. 5.) Married in any culture or country is never easy in the initial stages so just keep trying and always show interest and respect for them.
@@LMD11Compromises shouldn't mean a total shift in personality or appearance. Yes, it can help to be more culturally aware and more culturally engaged, but she shouldn't have to change her whole self to integrate into her partner's family.
I think theyre really a good match. However, kind of weird she is potentially gonna be there a few more months and she isn't learning Hindi. (At least it didn't seem like she was and she didnt say she was) Like, me personally, i'd be practicing with him and his mom as much as possible. If/when they have children, they'll be half-Indian. Doesn't she want to at least attempt to help pass down Indian culture+language along with hers? Edit: Not judging though. She may simply not want to learn and thats fine too lol
I got married like this after only a few weeks. My husband is from Eastern Europe. It was a bit rough and very painful for his sweet mama especially. He came over to the states 25 yrs ago & never went back:( At least this father hasn’t lost his son. He should be there with him and his new bride and be thankful
I didn’t get it as in how they were saying she’s a disgrace for the country with her dressing eventhough she was fully dressed. Like what the heck 😅 Continue to be you guys ❤🎉 you’re beautiful together
its a different culture, she is dressed like a westerner to us its not a big deal but when you go to countries like India when you dress like that its frowned upon. its a culture thing.
So, he's not a U.S. citizen,meets and married her within 2 months and now is about to get his green card.. This reminds me of 90day Fiancee or this other show where people go on holiday to different countries and end up falling for a native,who marries them,gets green card and disappears.. 🧐
It's not this easy, having actually done it myself. The permanent residency (green card) is actually conditional and lasts 2 years and must be renewed by both parties at the end or it expires.
I been with Indian guys before and every single one of them mentioned my skin tone they always mention how I’m so white I’m so light I’m Afghan. It’s weird that they always value more lighter skin. I wonder if he found a white women who liked him and was like yes all in. I know she is all in but they didn’t really show much of him don’t know if he actually loves her or just into her cause she feeds into his edgy American girl fetish
@@tara5138 well they were invaded by the British, who essentially treated darker skinned Indians worse than lighter skinned ones. Bare in mind the British were there for 400+ years before leaving remnants of that attitude are still in the culture.
What the people are doing to her is disgusting and I dont understand if they knew she would be treated like this why the hell did they move to India.. When she is physically attacked and wind up dead they will realise living there is not a good idea.
There's a saying like the country alike the disguise something. Your husb should have asked you to wear lik kurty and jeans i means theres lots of nice fashion kurty or even blouse to wear on jeans or leggings. Me too iv more to another place but i had to adapt not that i care abt people judgement its just i dont like these drama or any1 point finger at my husb so i don't loose anything i still wear my short dress but with a leggings under it
I like how he defends his girl around all those people. Stay open minded people 💯
I don't understand what 90 Day fiance is doing when you got actual couples like this
"ur my edgy american girl" I LOVE THEM SM
His family has an absolutely gorgeous home and I think that there is a bright future for them
I doubt it . He’s a huge cheater lol
@@anafox421 do you know him ?
@@Namus978 yes ! He’s been writing me on Snapchat for the last 3 years , trying to meet me and travel together . I never knew he had a wife
@@Namus978 I sent his video to him when I found it yesterday . Then he confessed to being married lol (Although now divorced a year ago )
@@anafox421I don’t even know who you are. Why someone people wanna make everything about themselves. For same lame attention
I don’t believe they are looking at them b/c of interracial relationship; they see the short hair and tattoos and may have mistaken her as a boy. B/c if her hair was long I don’t think the reaction would have been so visceral. Besides, colorism is big over there and they prefer their women to be light skinned and if your white then it’s probably even better. If she were black it would have been different. Just my opinion.
I agree with you, it's the masculine spin on appearance with the short hair and tattoos that makes them question her gender. In the US we're a lot more used to her style and don't think much of it. When she was in the Indian garb, her flesh was exposed about the same amount. But, perhaps the "tight" jeans was a factor moreso than any skin showing. I'm curious what you think of that issue. When they said she was "showing off her body," that was kind of strange.
I agree
It's 1 thing not to be in agreement with someone or something But to speak of it publicly is a Disgrace!! As I have always said We Can't Help Who We Fall In Love With!! It's truly in the Hands of God if 2 people can Love..Respect..Care for one another why can't they be together!! I'm sorry for what Kelly has had to indure But I'm so happy her Hubby has her back!! I wish this couple All The Happiness and Joy they deserve💙🤍💎🤍💙
let her be and wear whatever she wants. accept her like how she accept you for how you are. i feel bad for both of them. what matters is their both happy
So true
It's nothing wrong with this I support love at first sight I wish I could find love like that
An amazing couple, love you guys and how he takes care of her
As someone who has been happy married for over 13 years to an Indian man, its very easy to get your in-laws on your side. 1. grow out your hair if possible (long hair = beauty in hindu culture mostly elderly women have short hair.) 2. show interest in your husbands culture like learn to make chai tea and few simple dishes then invite your mom in law and surprise her with your hospitality and new culinary dishes, (also show you have cooking schedule, Indians are big on routines and schedule for food. ) 3. Jeans are not seen as appropriate in rural area (I've been told myself by neighbors but once your in-law appreciate you they will defend and fight for you. 4.) Once you have kids they will be all in. 5.) Married in any culture or country is never easy in the initial stages so just keep trying and always show interest and respect for them.
Why should she change so much? Would you ask an Indian woman to cut her hair to make Western in laws happy ?
@@Namus978 that's what love is about , you make compromises.
@@Namus978 If you don’t understand it…it’s not for you
@@LMD11Compromises shouldn't mean a total shift in personality or appearance.
Yes, it can help to be more culturally aware and more culturally engaged, but she shouldn't have to change her whole self to integrate into her partner's family.
exactly. If he was concerned about his family's traditions he wouldnt have beeon on POF. @@Mothman_In_a_T-Pose
So Sweet , God Bless 🎉❤
His home town is a small city. In big cities like Delhi, Bangalore, Calcutta & Mumbai they will be treated like regular citizens.
Aaaah, now that makes sense 🤔 I wondered about that bc I have seen videos of Mumbai, and it's beautiful and busy. No one has the time of this
Wow nice love story love it
I think theyre really a good match.
However, kind of weird she is potentially gonna be there a few more months and she isn't learning Hindi. (At least it didn't seem like she was and she didnt say she was)
Like, me personally, i'd be practicing with him and his mom as much as possible.
If/when they have children, they'll be half-Indian. Doesn't she want to at least attempt to help pass down Indian culture+language along with hers?
Edit: Not judging though. She may simply not want to learn and thats fine too lol
“Not judging” after you judged? An opinion is a judgment. We all have them. We do judge others by our standards.
They split
@@Myp0tat0head thanks for the update
@@Arieskie I meant, I wasn't judging her harshly. I don't think she's a bad person.
why? @@Myp0tat0head
Wonderful couple. I hope their marriage lasts forever!
Don't think they're together anymore. :/ Found his Instagram and he has no photos with her at all on his page. Sad. :(
Green card attraction 😞
yeah because people don't break up and divorce.@@alicegirard3373
He was cheating on her. Was messaging other women, wanting to meet with them to travel with him. She's better off without him.
@@gracejohnson789 ewwww she's too good for him what a slimey pig
@@gracejohnson789first red flag should’ve been meeting on plenty of fish 😂
They are so adorable together ❤
I got married like this after only a few weeks. My husband is from Eastern Europe. It was a bit rough and very painful for his sweet mama especially. He came over to the states 25 yrs ago & never went back:( At least this father hasn’t lost his son. He should be there with him and his new bride and be thankful
As long as they love each other then they’ll be fine. It’s the Peanut Gallery that’s bugging.
I love real love❤️
It’s because she makes herself look butchy/manly instead of like a woman that she is 😔. Alas nonetheless I’m happy for their love for one another
I didn’t get it as in how they were saying she’s a disgrace for the country with her dressing eventhough she was fully dressed. Like what the heck 😅
Continue to be you guys ❤🎉 you’re beautiful together
its a different culture, she is dressed like a westerner to us its not a big deal but when you go to countries like India when you dress like that its frowned upon. its a culture thing.
I don't know these people but If I were her I would dress the way the other women dress in that area. It's just common sense.
What exactly is the problem?
At the end of the day, YOU are visiting another country. You have to abide by their rules or leave!
So, he's not a U.S. citizen,meets and married her within 2 months and now is about to get his green card.. This reminds me of 90day Fiancee or this other show where people go on holiday to different countries and end up falling for a native,who marries them,gets green card and disappears.. 🧐
It's not this easy, having actually done it myself. The permanent residency (green card) is actually conditional and lasts 2 years and must be renewed by both parties at the end or it expires.
@@exnihilo415 Thanks for the information..
On 01/21/2022 KELLY KEYSER filed a Family - Marriage Dissolution/Divorce lawsuit against HARJOT ARORA -NON-TRIAL.
Too fast too soon.
Not always the case so don’t assume
@@Skzcore367 I'm not assuming,just an observation..
I wonder are they still together, is there a update?
I been with Indian guys before and every single one of them mentioned my skin tone they always mention how I’m so white I’m so light I’m Afghan. It’s weird that they always value more lighter skin. I wonder if he found a white women who liked him and was like yes all in. I know she is all in but they didn’t really show much of him don’t know if he actually loves her or just into her cause she feeds into his edgy American girl fetish
Sad thing is it’s a very racist culture in many ways. The fetishization of lighter skin is a real issue.
@@tara5138 its because of colonialism. its been ingrained in their culture
@@bigceazer India wasn't colonized
@@tara5138 well they were invaded by the British, who essentially treated darker skinned Indians worse than lighter skinned ones. Bare in mind the British were there for 400+ years before leaving remnants of that attitude are still in the culture.
They split 2022
What happened to them
She needs to dress appropriately for the culture or she’s going to get hurt.
They got divorced. Sad...
They divorced. I guess he just wanted the green card
How you know??
@@RishiShukla-uo3ek If you google their names, a court proceeding will show that they separated in 2022.
She’s an Iron Maiden fan!!! 🤘
Couple approved
They broke up in june.
Are u serious
He went back to Boston marathon training.
@@faridahibrahim9190 yyeah I think they married too soon their divorce records are public.
Wow
Looks like she filed for divorce in January, case status still pending.
That's a fine man
But she's beautiful in traditional Indian dress
What the people are doing to her is disgusting and I dont understand if they knew she would be treated like this why the hell did they move to India.. When she is physically attacked and wind up dead they will realise living there is not a good idea.
They split
Why??
@@bluemarine5790 he was cheating
Did he finally get the green card he was waiting.probably he got married to her for the green card.
Rev 7:9,10
🙏🏾💐💜😀
Moms sweet
green card !!!!!!
There's a saying like the country alike the disguise something. Your husb should have asked you to wear lik kurty and jeans i means theres lots of nice fashion kurty or even blouse to wear on jeans or leggings. Me too iv more to another place but i had to adapt not that i care abt people judgement its just i dont like these drama or any1 point finger at my husb so i don't loose anything i still wear my short dress but with a leggings under it
Are they still together? This was 3 yrs ago
Nope, they divorced in 2022. If you google their names a court proceeding shows up that they divorced.
Are they still together?
I really thought that she was transgender. All is well then.
Same 😂.
That's fucked up
I'm all for indians marrying indians
I approve 👌