She Is Not A ‘Disgrace’, She’s My Wife | LOVE DON’T JUDGE

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  • Опубликовано: 8 дек 2022
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    A CROSS-CULTURAL couple who tied the knot after just two months of meeting share their experiences of overcoming judgement and prejudice. Kelly Keyser, 34, and Harjot Arora, 31, met on the dating app ‘Plenty of Fish’, when he wowed her with his best pick-up line. But their love story was not met with enthusiasm from family members from both sides, with some of their closest relatives refusing to attend the wedding.
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    Videographer / director: Virendra Khanna
    Producer: Chloe Sweet, Ruby Coote, Nathalie Bonney
    Editor: Florence Kennard
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  • @invalidusername_5101
    @invalidusername_5101 Год назад +133

    I like how he defends his girl around all those people. Stay open minded people 💯

  • @nornuts
    @nornuts 9 месяцев назад +39

    She’s a human being they should be ashamed for attacking them. So good to see a man stand up for his woman properly.

  • @StarrCorpse8
    @StarrCorpse8 Год назад +47

    "ur my edgy american girl" I LOVE THEM SM

  • @ifym5455
    @ifym5455 Год назад +29

    I don’t believe they are looking at them b/c of interracial relationship; they see the short hair and tattoos and may have mistaken her as a boy. B/c if her hair was long I don’t think the reaction would have been so visceral. Besides, colorism is big over there and they prefer their women to be light skinned and if your white then it’s probably even better. If she were black it would have been different. Just my opinion.

  • @MyNamesNotCraig2
    @MyNamesNotCraig2 Год назад +62

    His family has an absolutely gorgeous home and I think that there is a bright future for them

    • @anafox421
      @anafox421 Год назад +1

      I doubt it . He’s a huge cheater lol

    • @Namus978
      @Namus978 Год назад +1

      @@anafox421 do you know him ?

    • @anafox421
      @anafox421 Год назад +1

      @@Namus978 yes ! He’s been writing me on Snapchat for the last 3 years , trying to meet me and travel together . I never knew he had a wife

    • @anafox421
      @anafox421 Год назад +2

      @@Namus978 I sent his video to him when I found it yesterday . Then he confessed to being married lol (Although now divorced a year ago )

  • @staceyk.210
    @staceyk.210 Год назад +10

    It's 1 thing not to be in agreement with someone or something But to speak of it publicly is a Disgrace!! As I have always said We Can't Help Who We Fall In Love With!! It's truly in the Hands of God if 2 people can Love..Respect..Care for one another why can't they be together!! I'm sorry for what Kelly has had to indure But I'm so happy her Hubby has her back!! I wish this couple All The Happiness and Joy they deserve💙🤍💎🤍💙

  • @amydlvlogs8212
    @amydlvlogs8212 Год назад +5

    Wow nice love story love it

  • @rtd301
    @rtd301 Год назад +54

    It's nothing wrong with this I support love at first sight I wish I could find love like that

  • @Soulflowz
    @Soulflowz Год назад +5

    So Sweet , God Bless 🎉❤

  • @jackiefinley5931
    @jackiefinley5931 Год назад +4

    An amazing couple, love you guys and how he takes care of her

  • @marvinmartinez898
    @marvinmartinez898 11 месяцев назад +6

    let her be and wear whatever she wants. accept her like how she accept you for how you are. i feel bad for both of them. what matters is their both happy

  • @arunarunkumar4389
    @arunarunkumar4389 Год назад +16

    His home town is a small city. In big cities like Delhi, Bangalore, Calcutta & Mumbai they will be treated like regular citizens.

    • @clarngundu6272
      @clarngundu6272 Год назад +3

      Aaaah, now that makes sense 🤔 I wondered about that bc I have seen videos of Mumbai, and it's beautiful and busy. No one has the time of this

  • @Ourhomeschooladventures
    @Ourhomeschooladventures Год назад +30

    As someone who has been happy married for over 13 years to an Indian man, its very easy to get your in-laws on your side. 1. grow out your hair if possible (long hair = beauty in hindu culture mostly elderly women have short hair.) 2. show interest in your husbands culture like learn to make chai tea and few simple dishes then invite your mom in law and surprise her with your hospitality and new culinary dishes, (also show you have cooking schedule, Indians are big on routines and schedule for food. ) 3. Jeans are not seen as appropriate in rural area (I've been told myself by neighbors but once your in-law appreciate you they will defend and fight for you. 4.) Once you have kids they will be all in. 5.) Married in any culture or country is never easy in the initial stages so just keep trying and always show interest and respect for them.

    • @Namus978
      @Namus978 Год назад +29

      Why should she change so much? Would you ask an Indian woman to cut her hair to make Western in laws happy ?

    • @LMD11
      @LMD11 Год назад +1

      ​@@Namus978 that's what love is about , you make compromises.

    • @poizonivy01
      @poizonivy01 Год назад +3

      @@Namus978 If you don’t understand it…it’s not for you

    • @Mothman_In_a_T-Pose
      @Mothman_In_a_T-Pose 10 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@LMD11Compromises shouldn't mean a total shift in personality or appearance.
      Yes, it can help to be more culturally aware and more culturally engaged, but she shouldn't have to change her whole self to integrate into her partner's family.

  • @jawofajackass4047
    @jawofajackass4047 Год назад +13

    I love real love❤️

  • @idontknow-ms8mc
    @idontknow-ms8mc Год назад +20

    I think theyre really a good match.
    However, kind of weird she is potentially gonna be there a few more months and she isn't learning Hindi. (At least it didn't seem like she was and she didnt say she was)
    Like, me personally, i'd be practicing with him and his mom as much as possible.
    If/when they have children, they'll be half-Indian. Doesn't she want to at least attempt to help pass down Indian culture+language along with hers?
    Edit: Not judging though. She may simply not want to learn and thats fine too lol

    • @Arieskie
      @Arieskie Год назад +5

      “Not judging” after you judged? An opinion is a judgment. We all have them. We do judge others by our standards.

    • @MarMarZ999
      @MarMarZ999 Год назад +3

      They split

    • @idontknow-ms8mc
      @idontknow-ms8mc Год назад

      @@MarMarZ999 thanks for the update

    • @idontknow-ms8mc
      @idontknow-ms8mc Год назад

      @@Arieskie I meant, I wasn't judging her harshly. I don't think she's a bad person.

    • @1remira
      @1remira 8 дней назад

      why? ​@@MarMarZ999

  • @LovePatchSour
    @LovePatchSour Год назад +11

    Don't think they're together anymore. :/ Found his Instagram and he has no photos with her at all on his page. Sad. :(

    • @alicegirard3373
      @alicegirard3373 11 месяцев назад

      Green card attraction 😞

    • @thestrangemanreturns
      @thestrangemanreturns 10 месяцев назад

      yeah because people don't break up and divorce.@@alicegirard3373

    • @gracevargas789
      @gracevargas789 4 месяца назад +3

      He was cheating on her. Was messaging other women, wanting to meet with them to travel with him. She's better off without him.

    • @1remira
      @1remira 8 дней назад

      ​@@gracevargas789 ewwww she's too good for him what a slimey pig

  • @ene1818
    @ene1818 Год назад +4

    As long as they love each other then they’ll be fine. It’s the Peanut Gallery that’s bugging.

  • @Melissa-mm3ln
    @Melissa-mm3ln 9 месяцев назад +2

    They split 2022

  • @alicegirard3373
    @alicegirard3373 11 месяцев назад +3

    They divorced. I guess he just wanted the green card

    • @RishiShukla-uo3ek
      @RishiShukla-uo3ek 7 месяцев назад

      How you know??

    • @zeeblue1220
      @zeeblue1220 5 месяцев назад

      @@RishiShukla-uo3ek If you google their names, a court proceeding will show that they separated in 2022.

  • @breajahcurley79
    @breajahcurley79 2 месяца назад

    I don't understand what 90 Day fiance is doing when you got actual couples like this

  • @whispermcgaughy7251
    @whispermcgaughy7251 Год назад +27

    So, he's not a U.S. citizen,meets and married her within 2 months and now is about to get his green card.. This reminds me of 90day Fiancee or this other show where people go on holiday to different countries and end up falling for a native,who marries them,gets green card and disappears.. 🧐

    • @exnihilo415
      @exnihilo415 Год назад +10

      It's not this easy, having actually done it myself. The permanent residency (green card) is actually conditional and lasts 2 years and must be renewed by both parties at the end or it expires.

    • @whispermcgaughy7251
      @whispermcgaughy7251 Год назад +1

      @@exnihilo415 Thanks for the information..

    • @johnglow7845
      @johnglow7845 Год назад

      On 01/21/2022 KELLY KEYSER filed a Family - Marriage Dissolution/Divorce lawsuit against HARJOT ARORA -NON-TRIAL.
      Too fast too soon.

    • @Skzcore367
      @Skzcore367 Год назад +2

      Not always the case so don’t assume

    • @whispermcgaughy7251
      @whispermcgaughy7251 Год назад

      @@Skzcore367 I'm not assuming,just an observation..

  • @CindySantos
    @CindySantos 19 дней назад

    She’s an Iron Maiden fan!!! 🤘

  • @FredandBarbie
    @FredandBarbie Год назад +9

    I didn’t get it as in how they were saying she’s a disgrace for the country with her dressing eventhough she was fully dressed. Like what the heck 😅
    Continue to be you guys ❤🎉 you’re beautiful together

    • @bigceazer
      @bigceazer Год назад +3

      its a different culture, she is dressed like a westerner to us its not a big deal but when you go to countries like India when you dress like that its frowned upon. its a culture thing.

    • @Myraisins1
      @Myraisins1 Год назад +5

      I don't know these people but If I were her I would dress the way the other women dress in that area. It's just common sense.

  • @MadinaKorimboccus-rm1jf
    @MadinaKorimboccus-rm1jf Год назад

    There's a saying like the country alike the disguise something. Your husb should have asked you to wear lik kurty and jeans i means theres lots of nice fashion kurty or even blouse to wear on jeans or leggings. Me too iv more to another place but i had to adapt not that i care abt people judgement its just i dont like these drama or any1 point finger at my husb so i don't loose anything i still wear my short dress but with a leggings under it

  • @hasti5915
    @hasti5915 Год назад +20

    I been with Indian guys before and every single one of them mentioned my skin tone they always mention how I’m so white I’m so light I’m Afghan. It’s weird that they always value more lighter skin. I wonder if he found a white women who liked him and was like yes all in. I know she is all in but they didn’t really show much of him don’t know if he actually loves her or just into her cause she feeds into his edgy American girl fetish

    • @tara5138
      @tara5138 Год назад +5

      Sad thing is it’s a very racist culture in many ways. The fetishization of lighter skin is a real issue.

    • @bigceazer
      @bigceazer Год назад +2

      @@tara5138 its because of colonialism. its been ingrained in their culture

    • @ashleysalazar2012
      @ashleysalazar2012 Год назад

      @@bigceazer India wasn't colonized

    • @jakd2962
      @jakd2962 Год назад +2

      @@tara5138 well they were invaded by the British, who essentially treated darker skinned Indians worse than lighter skinned ones. Bare in mind the British were there for 400+ years before leaving remnants of that attitude are still in the culture.

  • @Arieskie
    @Arieskie Год назад +9

    She needs to dress appropriately for the culture or she’s going to get hurt.

  • @omarsyed7183
    @omarsyed7183 2 месяца назад

    Couple approved

  • @jennywinter3025
    @jennywinter3025 5 месяцев назад

    Moms sweet

  • @user-sk3tn2ek8q
    @user-sk3tn2ek8q 6 месяцев назад +1

    What the people are doing to her is disgusting and I dont understand if they knew she would be treated like this why the hell did they move to India.. When she is physically attacked and wind up dead they will realise living there is not a good idea.

  • @nouradis1420
    @nouradis1420 7 месяцев назад

    But she's beautiful in traditional Indian dress

  • @IwasBlueb4
    @IwasBlueb4 11 месяцев назад +1

    green card !!!!!!

  • @MarMarZ999
    @MarMarZ999 Год назад +3

    They split

  • @johnglow7845
    @johnglow7845 Год назад +9

    They broke up in june.

    • @faridahibrahim9190
      @faridahibrahim9190 Год назад +3

      Are u serious

    • @Flanch82
      @Flanch82 Год назад

      He went back to Boston marathon training.

    • @johnglow7845
      @johnglow7845 Год назад +3

      @@faridahibrahim9190 yyeah I think they married too soon their divorce records are public.

    • @kitelouma2721
      @kitelouma2721 Год назад

      Wow

    • @kristib4394
      @kristib4394 Год назад

      Looks like she filed for divorce in January, case status still pending.

  • @princessof21ok
    @princessof21ok Год назад

    Are they still together?

  • @jeanelizabethterry7583
    @jeanelizabethterry7583 Год назад +1

    Are they still together? This was 3 yrs ago

    • @zeeblue1220
      @zeeblue1220 5 месяцев назад

      Nope, they divorced in 2022. If you google their names a court proceeding shows up that they divorced.

  • @siyafetsha759
    @siyafetsha759 7 месяцев назад +1

    I really thought that she was transgender. All is well then.

    • @Sara-1xk3
      @Sara-1xk3 6 месяцев назад +1

      Same 😂.

  • @LittleItos
    @LittleItos Год назад +1

    I approve 👌