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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 115

  • @sianthesheep
    @sianthesheep День назад +51

    A brave inspirational woman who took horrific experiences and turned them into a platform to educate people about the realities of child marriage.

  • @gstrathmore194
    @gstrathmore194 День назад +92

    There's a lot of gas-lighting in the comment section I see. They hate when women speak out. I know because I've been there too. She's very brave.

  • @liudaboicova6683
    @liudaboicova6683 День назад +44

    Omg! It's absolutely heartbreaking 😢 why these men who marry underaged girls are not prosecuted as pedophiles!!??? this girl is so brave to talk about it.

    • @emusaurus
      @emusaurus 21 час назад +3

      Because Bangladesh

    • @an5897
      @an5897 9 часов назад +1

      Because Paedophilia and domestic abuse are not recognized inuslim countries.

    • @jcguimas
      @jcguimas 33 минуты назад +1

      Her family live in UK. They should be prosecuted here. They basically trafficked a British citizen.
      Remove their citizenship, appropriate their assets and use it, to compensate their victims.

  • @Jenn_Garrison0505
    @Jenn_Garrison0505 49 минут назад +2

    You are a brave woman. Thank you for telling us your story.

  • @nicolettearts552
    @nicolettearts552 День назад +21

    It's hard nowadays to still find beauty in a world full of cruelty. Brave woman to put her story online for all to watch and listen and that she used her experience to warn other people and educate them.

  • @jancraig9298
    @jancraig9298 17 часов назад +10

    My God, poor girl. She didn’t deserve that! She went through so much. And to know,her father who she adored so much,Is the one that allowed this arranged marriage, It’s just a thing! I don’t quite know, if I could ever forgive my father for that . But I’m so glad, she was able to get away, & she made it . Her life is definitely a testimony of bravery , endurance,& triumph!

  • @teamcougars
    @teamcougars 19 часов назад +19

    The person who ruined your life is most definitely your father, with the husband and your mother as willing participants 😢

    • @Shayron1989
      @Shayron1989 9 часов назад +1

      Her husband actively raped her. I think we can safely say he is at least if not worse than the father. And whilst the mother is definitely an enabler, it’s not the same as being a rapist.

  • @rosec8101
    @rosec8101 15 часов назад +12

    I don't understand how people can marry their daughters off like that.

    • @kimberlyvarra4044
      @kimberlyvarra4044 12 часов назад

      We aren’t all from a free country, many eastern cultures sell their young daughters for livestock or $$. Us women are worthless to those countries. It’s just a shame……😢

  • @neatuff
    @neatuff 2 часа назад +1

    What a brave, smart and beautiful woman! Her strenght is very impressive ❤❤❤

  • @pppp67567
    @pppp67567 День назад +27

    This is so incredibly sad 😢😢 tge way the familes coluded to trap and abuse her is horrendous. I'm so pleased she managed to take the crap others gave her and made something beautiful for herself ❤

    • @clivematthews95
      @clivematthews95 День назад +5

      Agreed. These stories are always so unfair

  • @NicoleSilva-pz1br
    @NicoleSilva-pz1br 2 часа назад +4

    Allot of Muslims saying this isn’t allowed , but how come in some Muslim countries , if you don’t marry the man that your family agree , you can get sent to prison as its against the law. I watched a documentary on this

  • @an5897
    @an5897 9 часов назад +6

    Forced child marriages are very very common in Muslim countries, and i am a Muslim so i know. I was very lucky that my dad let me decide WHO and WHEN i eanted to get married. But my case was very rare, and my dad is very highly educated.
    Watch any Muslim channel and you will see Muslim scholars saying that a dad has the right to give away his daughter to any man he wants at any age she might be.
    Most western based Muslim youtubers , that are preaching Islam, are highly advocating for child marriage, and they will definitely vote in support of child forced marriages.
    There are many christian groups in the U.S. that want to implement child marraiges , forced marriages , and these Myslims will definitely join them if there was a vote.
    Not all Muslims are like this , but a lot of them are, and many of these Myslims are born in Western countries.

  • @prethibiashnad
    @prethibiashnad День назад +118

    I am from Bangladesh and I am a muslim. Forced marriage in islam is prohibited and it completely goes against islams teachings. Her family and the family of her in laws took advantage of her naivete, obedience and helplessness. This is disgusting and vile. But she still managed to get out of that mess and create a beautiful life for herself and I am happy for you my sister. May more blessing come your way.

    • @zacros8116
      @zacros8116 День назад +12

      Thank you brother, this is the exact response needed for these terrible stories. We all need to separate from hate! If the good Christians call out the bad Christians, the good Muslims call out the bad Muslims and the good Jews call out the bad Jews, we can love each other and be at peace! G*D Bless you, for your support!
      ❤️✊🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️

    • @amie2708
      @amie2708 День назад +41

      If this is the case how come it's always happening in Islamic families ?

    • @curlyfries__
      @curlyfries__ День назад +9

      @@amie2708hello! sadly, forced child marriages happen all around the world regardless of religion. 💔 Some examples are places like: South America (Christians), Philippines (Christians), India (Hindus). It’s horrible especially when it’s happening to children.

    • @primadonna2819
      @primadonna2819 День назад +32

      @@prethibiashnad Yes, it's so prohibited by Islam that it's commonplace in most Islamic countries. 🙄

    • @clivematthews95
      @clivematthews95 День назад +21

      Men in Islam still practice arranged marriages, women still don’t have much of a say, so I don’t know who you’re trying to reach with your comment.
      All religions are messed up, and they give one group of people (usually men) too much power.

  • @I_am_not_your_sister
    @I_am_not_your_sister 5 часов назад +1

    Rubie I'm so proud of you babes, there's a lot of us that have left these child marriages and are talking now. Never listen to the apologist comments, we will change this by shining a light on it. It's awful what's happened to you, I'm so sorry. I'm so glad you survived it , I hope you have proper support now

  • @oliviamacpherson21
    @oliviamacpherson21 День назад +16

    Poor girl 😢 it's alright for the guys isn't it..disgusting

  • @connycharleslindstrom6084
    @connycharleslindstrom6084 День назад +18

    Good luck to you beautiful inside out woman ❤️‍🔥

  • @shaz4179
    @shaz4179 День назад +14

    I originally thought she was white or mixed lol not bengali I'm bengali myself lmao, but in all seriousness i hope this woman is able to heal her scars and is able to live a truly free and happy life without the scars of her past dragging her down x

  • @Inahussein-b9n
    @Inahussein-b9n 2 часа назад

    As a proud Muslim, I have been married and divorced.. not once did my parents force me on marriage.. at an age of 34 I got married and had I beautiful daughter. I am one of 5 girls and everyone got to married who they want. Some even white/norwegian, Spanish and even German. So shame ON U!! Stop saying it’s muslim/Islam but rather culture!! If ur family still fallow ur culture so say so, don’t start with Islam. Start with ur parents who don’t know anything!!
    If u actually read about Islam and not culture then u will know this isn’t allowed at all..

  • @sharaleaming2096
    @sharaleaming2096 3 часа назад

    It is very sad that when the legal age in Bangladesh is 18 years for females to be married. However, if married at a lower age, they look the other way. It is so sad that she had to go through this and no one helped her. She is so strong and probably doesn’t know it. Personally, I could not watch a child get married. May she be blessed in everything she does.

  • @salad7776
    @salad7776 День назад +12

    cultural enrichment 👍

  • @bluejem1315
    @bluejem1315 6 часов назад

    She is a brave woman, I am confused did she go back to her husband and did he abuse her or someone else ? Also is her daughter still alive ?

  • @hinanochick
    @hinanochick 12 часов назад

    I sure hope you never ever speak to your father anymore

  • @Ad-Infinitum
    @Ad-Infinitum День назад +14

    Update on the kids?

    • @BionicBear-nu8et
      @BionicBear-nu8et День назад +2

      She’s forgotten about them.

    • @OurJourney2healthy
      @OurJourney2healthy 3 часа назад

      @@BionicBear-nu8et why do u say that? she raises them. her mom was helping. smh...

  • @jesseeec
    @jesseeec 15 часов назад +1

    Horrific

  • @appletree9974
    @appletree9974 Час назад

    Do not bleach your hair😳

  • @JamesDensin
    @JamesDensin 17 часов назад +2

    Nice I bet it felt good

  • @Jesus-Histler
    @Jesus-Histler День назад +4

    Is this an actor or real bride?

  • @user-zg4wr9nn7m
    @user-zg4wr9nn7m День назад +2

    She looks like tera Patrick

  • @michellerhyner1477
    @michellerhyner1477 День назад

    ❤️🙏❤️

  • @SANDYMALCOLM-eu2zg
    @SANDYMALCOLM-eu2zg День назад +16

    Your husband didn't ruin your life your father did.

    • @x_n_x_gal9161
      @x_n_x_gal9161 День назад +30

      Both did.

    • @Bucky_Winchester
      @Bucky_Winchester День назад +14

      Ohh so thr husband did nothing, huh?

    • @pattybreckenridge7286
      @pattybreckenridge7286 19 часов назад +5

      Ridiculous and disgusting, vile comment.

    • @Shayron1989
      @Shayron1989 9 часов назад +4

      Her husband raped her. FFS what do men have to do to be held accountable for their behaviour? 🙄

    • @jamiejones8508
      @jamiejones8508 27 минут назад

      Joint effort in my opinion. Her father arranged it; her rapist 30 year old “husband” wanted to marry a 15 year old girl and rape her, which makes him both a rapist & paedophile.
      Both are culpable and should be in prison.
      Forced marriage is illegal in the UK so I wonder if either of them could still face justice.
      Poor, poor woman.

  • @marysullivan1815
    @marysullivan1815 День назад +1

    Aĺpha male cultures North India where women get rated for being out at night

  • @jennifertselentis4755
    @jennifertselentis4755 День назад +4

    I have friends who have arranged marriages, and this is so dramatic. Not their expenses.

    • @jimjones994
      @jimjones994 День назад +17

      An arranged marriage can turn out good but nobody should be told who they should marry. Getting married should be a personal decision.

    • @Noname-lx3ne
      @Noname-lx3ne День назад +2

      @@jimjones994that’s true but many marriages by choice have broken and turned sour as well. And majority of our youth experience more loneliness than ever. But hey, freedom.

    • @amaya3107
      @amaya3107 День назад +37

      This isn't an arranged marriage, this is a forced marriage. Arranged you can say no, with forced you cant say no.

    • @fifinaz786
      @fifinaz786 День назад +20

      There's a difference between arranged and forced marriage

    • @primadonna2819
      @primadonna2819 День назад +18

      What is your point? She's telling HER story and what happened to HER. Nobody asked about your friends.

  • @chin-xox
    @chin-xox День назад +6

    Bangladesh, poor family, British accent..fair color, I don't buy her story....

    • @markmed9091
      @markmed9091 День назад +1

      Who gives a rats ass about what you think ?

    • @barbarella.artist
      @barbarella.artist День назад +16

      She was obviously born in UK and mentioned being in the UK … she also didn’t say if her mom was white or mixed race …. So learn about genetics
      I dont buy people in the comments are so ignorant .. Google is free 😂
      I am born of pure race parents but I’m mixed race (half African half Polish) and first generation in a white country … and I have a white accident …. But I’m mixed race sooooo yeah 😂 happens a lot and I’m a similar skin tone to her tooooo

    • @sevengem
      @sevengem День назад +4

      Do some research into how many descendants of immigrants are sold or forced into marriage to someone from back in their ancestors' homeland. This is happening to women born and raised in first-world countries, often not even knowing the language of their family's homeland, shipped back there to be some distant cousin's unwilling wife. It's far too common.

    • @chin-xox
      @chin-xox День назад +1

      @sevengem have you ever been to Bangladesh.. Miss first world?

    • @s.wvazim6517
      @s.wvazim6517 День назад

      That's what the british empire will do improve lives of everyone. God save the king!!!!!!!

  • @michellerhyner1477
    @michellerhyner1477 День назад

    ❤️🙏❤️