We Both Got Pregnant - And We Don't Know Who By | MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY
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Alysia, Tyler, Sean and Taya started off as two couples but now they describe themselves as a quad. They met as swingers but couldn’t get enough of each other. “When we started talking we met that very next week, we just wanted to see more and more of each other,” 27-year-old Taya told Truly. They never stopped talking and eventually Alysia, 33, and Sean, 45, admitted they had feelings for each other. Soon after Taya and Tyler, 35, said that they felt the same. The four now all live together in a beautiful spacious house in Oregon with horses in the back garden. The men swap bedrooms every night and share two children (an eight and seven-year-old) Alysia and Tyler had before, as they describe it, their 'closed quad' met. In 2021 Alysia and Taya each gave birth to a baby but they haven't found out which man is the biological father to either baby - and they don’t want to know. Alysia said: “Sure I’ve wondered about it but I see Sean as a wonderful daddy to the babies and I see Tyler as a wonderful daddy too.”
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Plot twist: Non of these guys are the fathers.
What can u expect when u marry a harlot
Lol messed up.
I can see that 😆
That would be horrible 🤣🤣🤣
They should make an x rated movie 2 Phat 2 Phook
They each had their boyfriend baby. Those babies look exactly like their fathers.
That's what I thought! 🙈
Therefore Sean and his wife taya doesn't have a baby of their own haha
My exact thoughts.... A blind man could see it.
I feel like the kids are going to want to know who there fathers are. When they grow up.
Then we’ll find out together
@@polyfamory 😆
Blood tests and their own rights. They can decide for themselves later
@@polyfamory you guys are amazing 💖
Ok and than they can find out when they’re old enough to decide to themselves
Dont you think these boys are gonna want to know when they grow up....they have that right to know.
The boys can figure it out later if they want to
I’m sure when they are old enough the family will figure it out
They probably already know, I mean the kids will look like a particular parent
Then we will find out together!
Its wrong for the kids to be involved in this weird family. They deserve to know who their parents are.
Okay, that's enough internet for today.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
You can look at those boys and tell who their fathers are.
Hello are you doing?
@@steventownsend6258 hi scammer
@@steventownsend6258 doing what?
@@bataineh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I thought the same! The first baby is definitely the bald guys kid lmao! And the little baby with brown hair.... Is the guy with the beard .. so obvious! Haha
Start saving money, kids therapy is not cheap you know.
Great parental advice in general
Like they care
“Don’t talk about me or my boyfriend’s wife’s son again!”
We have 4 happy children...
There's no way this will end well.
@David’s Mom Yes
@David’s Mom but it’s true
They act like they could never break up. They shouldn’t have involved kids in this
No it will not.
@@brenda1005 maybe it will
Those babies look exactly like their dads right down to the shape of their heads.. The original dads for each couple
trina 😍
It's fine to have a bigger family but for medical and other reasons u usually won't want WHO KNOWS as who their dad is. Idk maybe it's just me
I agree, they all need to know for biological medical reasons.
Your English is confusing
@@elementx8444 It would only be confusing for those who aren't native English speakers.
Our doctors and genetic counselors have no concerns.
They have said on there tiktok that if that situation does come up they would do a DNA test for the health of the child but until then it's not a concern
How come 90% of polyamorous people are overweight?
Gluttony in everything they consume!
Great point lol 😂
😂😂😂
They don't even think to ask themselves if the kids would wanna know themselves. They're selfish.
The kid can find out when they want to know. All kid has to do is find parents credit card and a hair with a root. Not that hard
Kids don't think like that. They don't care. They're just happy to have more socialization.
They don't have to co'z resemblance would never speak lies to 'em.
@@elisakrivas the kids think it is normal as they don't know any better but that doesn't mean they aren't being damaged psychologically.
@@sarcodonblue2876 yeah, how? How are they being psychologically damaged? What is harming them?
get a paternity test. then you’ll easily find out?…
They said they don't want to.
They said they didnt care and didnt want to know
Probably not that easy. These village bicycles have been swinging around town more times than anyone can imagine. Plot twist, non of these guys are the fathers...sad for the kids.
It's very obvious that each of them gave birth to their boyfriend's baby... Lol...smh
Hello?
I feel sorry for the kids in the future
Lol I don't 😆 more gifts 🙃 no big deal
Me too
Why? They seem to have a really good stable family life with everything they could possibly need - safety, care, nutrition, fresh air, the outdoors, plus major bonus, all parents seem intelligent. If one parent says no, you have three others to run to! What's the difference between that and some other cultures' men having four wives?
Why do polygamous people in America record an go on tv to broadcast it like a freak show.
Because they wanted to entertain to you coz you're bored.🤘
I wouldnt stand this many people in my house
All the 4 babies are from his neighbour
Just the 2 babies not the older two.
Wait 🤦♀️
Her husband, her boyfriend and her boyfriend’s wife????? That’s just beyond disturbing
It most certainly is 🤢
Definitely is disturbing .
Hi?
@daval husen hate to break it to you but even in our religion there’s polygamist people who have up to 4 wives and multiple children they probably don’t know which is form which wife.
@daval husen you think mean other way around the man still cheat even with four wives.
My mother didn’t agree to be one of them so she was one wife but he had 5 on the side and so one.
And I know many Muslim families who are like that
She either has a choice to agree except to be one of many wives or she gets cheated on.
So maybe tell someone who is not familiar with it.
Still should get a paternity test. The kids might need some blood transfusion or something from their biological father in the future.
Lmao. So you'd just need to know everyone's blood types.
@@saoirseviolet9284 for some organ donation, it's better to know who you're actually related with for compatibility
Then they’d find out if it was a medical issue
Hello?
All fine and dandy for the adults but these kids will need serious therapy when they're older and will likely have challenges in their own relationships.
No they won’t
well this entire thing must have a whole legal mess behind it,, who are the legal guardians of the babies then ??
‘as long as we’re happy, we’re gonna stay together’ then what if they’re not happy ??
That WAS the one thing that bothered me... but unfortunately that's the reality of any relationship..
@@movingmusic4you every relationship has legal messes behind it?
@@AneirinRPG literally any relationship can yea...? Especially children involved,... married, monogamous or otherwise... am I missing something? Lol
That’s the reality of ALL relationships??
Am I the only one who thinks Barret looks like Tyler and Carver looks like Sean ?
Yes 😂
@polyfamory what did you do about the kids last name?
This wouldn’t bother me as much if they didn’t have kids, but with kids it’s a whole different ball game
Exactement ça craint
The kids start have already started swinging…….on the swing set in their back yard!!!
Idk to me it seems like the kids just have more love, two moms two dads.
@@angelmori9468 or more to lose and be heartbroken over if it doesn’t work out…. Think how bad one divorce is, imagine doubling those chances
🤔 what's the different ball game? what's the problem?
this family dynamic is completely typical in other cultures outside of the u.s.
it's a dynamic in which kids grow up healthy + loved + well taken care of.
are you saying this is inherently morally wrong? or...something else?
The two girls have almost the exact same bodie shape
And same smile
So much for the sacredness and sanctity of the martial bed😕
This is disgusting. Shame on all of you bringing kids into this freak show.
thats not love thats lust. Someone who truly loves a person wouldn't share it with others...
I agree as well!
yup. were not monsters for calling it out, these people are literally sick perverts. very selfish, child abuse frankly
True, "solidified lust as love".
@daval husen same im muslim too alhamdulillah
My thoughts exactly😢
There’s is absolutely no need for this video all it takes is a paternity test. They think they’re quietly acting like they don’t know 🥱
Trying hard pretenders haha even an animal can recognize it's own offsprings what is more not to expect from a human? lack of knowledge? maybe🤭.
Chinese leaders laughing in the back
just sad
It’s too messy, we’ve seen plenty of these sort of relationships and they always act happy, until they aren’t🤷🏼♀️
Hey u from?
That happens in all relationships not just poly relationships
@@notmyrealname4978 Not really. How many of these relationships last a lifetime? There’s always someone that walks away unhappy and unfulfilled 🤷🏼♀️
@@suzanajosic9501 understanding important
I’m done with the internet for the year after watching this.
Why ?
Lol unsubscribe now.
End is near of this world. America is beyond understanding
Let the Trumpet sound. Please and thank you.
Relax. There have been countless different cultural norms and ways since the beginning of time. And we keep growing.
Hmm. The Bible doesn’t say to follow your personal culture differences. It does however say to follow GODS commandments and has 600 commandments but everyone knows the 10 “Main” ones. Hebrews 13:4 Let marriage be honorable amount all, and let the marriage bed be without defilement, for God will judge sexually immoral people and adulterers. Cultural differences made by man rather than Gods word are those whom are lost and led astray.
It’s not an exotic family if you don’t know who the father is. To me, that’s low-class & carelessness.
It's ghetto and nasty
Sean is the father of BOTH of those babies ..
You seen the dna test?
Hello?
There's no wrong at guessing anyways.
Nancy 😍😘
@@rogdawg123 😂😘
Where are we heading? This is abhorrent.
To each their own. I would never ever do anything like this though. I have a wonderful husband and three wonderful kids and I am content with my family.
That's nice, but this video is not about that.
No one’s pushing you to be poly
@@notmyrealname4978 right? Why do people comment on videos when they don't like the content?
Cool nobody asked
@@notmyrealname4978 because it is a open platform and we all hv opinion which we all want to express. I think you get it
No matter what "title" you give it it's adultery period!!!
Thank you !!
My thoughts exactly.
My husband and my boyfriend, n my boyfriend's wife...
This world is crazy
It's full of lunatics
I'm here to pretend that this is a healthy, normal and super progressive way to raise children! Yay!
Key word:pretend
It’s horrible! Poor kids.
This is the true reality of swinging. Each couple weighs 500lbs+, there’s no glamour, there’s no sexiness and there’s no dignity. Just a lot of different scents and a lot of emptied fridges!
Pfft lol
So true. The channel Soft White Underbelly actually just posted a video today of a women who openly cuckholds her boyfriend. Not surprisingly, the gf is an awkward whale with no self-awareness.
Lmao!! 🤣 My sentiments exactly. Not to mention a long list of mental health issues between them all.
Plot twist- neither one of the men are the father 😂
Not funny. They said they're committed to one another.
Lol 😂
What in the Judge Lauren lakes is goin on here😄😄😄
Btw by the looks of the babies, looks like they got their own wives pregnant 😐
I think the opposite lol
It's ok to judge...they did put themselves out there ..
No wonder why women out here are so messed up DAMM I hate this world 🤦🏼♂️
Some woman and men. You realize that's incredibly sexist.
@@notayanoxd7026 might be sexist but the woman makes the choice if they wanna marry more then one men. Not saying men out here are any better there also at fault but the women should be the one making the choice.
@@notayanoxd7026 No its not. If he followed up with all men are perfect... clearly he's straight and dates only women. He only has experience with women... thats like calling you sexist because you ranted one day about how men suck.
@@Lowkey_nxthxn you have only the right of choosing apples in market
@@adammasina6351 in this generation you do but back in the days that was totally a different story. Now you can mostly get away with anything in 2022
This family is weird
Not untrue
This channel is great, visiting the zoo would've been expensive.
Stop.😫
Savage 🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅
🤣🤣
Dang lol 😆
Our house is totally a zoo
The child has the right to know who it's Dad is
And they can find out when they’re older
When they can ask the question themselves I'm sure they'll find out lol
This can't be good for the kids
I'm all for doing what makes them happy but why do you have to bring children into this mess?
I'm sorry but would you rather they don't have kids? Your logic can be applied to mixed families as well and that is not a good look.
@@introspectiver1787 I'm not understanding how this is anywhere close to being related to mixed families but whatever you say. To answer your question yes I'd rather they don't have kids. Just because you can have kids doesn't mean you should. Grow up.
@@yewarrhorez Your bigotry at the unconventional nature of it all echoes the same sentiments others said and still say about mixed or blended families. Especially interracial ones. This is no exaggeration, that very same logic was and still is used to discourage interracial marriages and families.
Hello
How are you doing?
I think we all know which babies are who’s 🫣
Yes girl it’s clear as day 😂😂
You’d be surprised 🙃
@@polyfamory what’s that supposed to mean??? 😂😂😂😂
@@AMT008 there’s a lot of really confident guesses on here 😂
Lmao no the hell we don't 😭🤣🤣🤔
And somehow we wonder why society is so screwed up!
well because they are very narcissists and selfishs
Do the guys do each other too?
@Jasmine Victoria Ok.
They are good looking people.
I don't know what to say about this. I really don't.
Your comment is not required
@@polyfamory Whether my comment is required or not, I have the right to voice my opinion. Thank you and good evening.
@@rubaidaallen2764 you said you didn’t know what to say. So why comment at all is what I was saying.
The kids should know who the fathers are for health reasons.
If they're happy as a family, that's great. They have two sets of loving parents.
They're just SO happy, they're all overeating to cope!
I thought that too especially the women and one of the men 😂😂😂
This!!!
So, fat shaming?
@@kbanghart Our bodies represent how we respect ourselves! Waistlines don't lie... :)
@@moonafarms1621 so, everyone who is overweight is unhappy?
How does that work with people who are in shape, and unhappy?
I don't like the title for the kids sake anyhow.. I'm hoping they can tell them who dad is maybe this title isnt fit honest idk. let's finish and find out
They always play up the drama on these things…
Hi
These people are screwed up in the head.
When you call evil good and good evil. God is disgusted. He created one husband for one wife. Repent ur sins.
nasty
It's extremely obvious which man fathered each kid.
Sean can just leave
This is beyond disgusting & disturbing.. Feel bad for the kids that are involved in this mess
I agree with you
Lol really agree on that
Agree! Its disturbing. Whoo
Ik I’d be very disturbed if my parents were doing this, like who do I call mum and dad at this point?
But hey their choice I just agree with you
I'm happy for the children, they are healthy and happy and have even more people to love them. Nothing wrong with this whatsoever.
Not fair to the KID!
How?
Unbelievable…this will not end well…think of how the children will feel…who’s your dad…i don’t know it could be this guy or this guy…unbelievable selfish
Exactly.
I agree. At some point these kids will want to know. If they never ask, then good for you.
Or, you know, both of them is their dad?
Don't be so dramatic, a simple DNA test could clear it all up if and when the children want to know.
seems like a loving and happy home to me. If something does end up happening these kids will go through what every other child from divorced parents go through. Sometimes happy homes last, sometimes they don't. The parents sexuality wouldn't make it better or worse for the kids, it would be difficult no matter what. If they're happy then good for them, more love to go around for the kids.
Why??? Just why???
enough youtube for today
This is a distortion of normality! Those kids are permanently damaged!
It’s gonna take that many parents to pay for rents these days 😂
God is not the author of confusion.
The bed effects of childeren
Facts
It’s obvious by looking at the babies who their fathers are.
In the family picture at the end, each Dad is holing the other’s baby. The boys each look like their fathers 😁
Of course they lived in Portland
Definitely a better reality than “serial monogamy” practiced by so many people who think poly is abhorrent…
Monogamy..... is more of a fairytale for some adults.
I always find these kinds of relationships interesting. Having one partner making demands of you is exhausting enough when you have kids, you would need a huge amount of emotional energy just to be home.
It depends. Some people do it easier.
So who signed the birth certificates?
Both babies look like the bald guy lol
So the child doesn't deserve to know who they are FULLY biologically and genetically related too?
The y can find out when they’re old enough to want to
I like that the men switch rooms not the women. It makes those rooms theirs and it's just different from what is most of the time.
We are all equals here 🥰
This is disturbing. Poor children having to deal with twice as many adults arguing which can interprete as abandonment. You have to love the way the kids are so coached in the video to say how great having Polly parents is. They will be able to tell who the father of the kids are when they get older lol. If it wasn't about sex the partners would just be adults living together . People only say that they could never be in a polly relationship as a way to be polite when they feel uncomfortable.
These kids may be great
@David’s Mom Males want to root around females want monogamy. Monogmay makes a more harmonious society. living in groups is no the same with having sex with multiple members in the group.
Well. Good luck with unpacking all of that. Sheesh!
@@polyfamory all of what?
Jeez I'm so sorry that's what you believe to be a healthy/loving relationship. If you grew up in an abusive home that's terrible but that's not what it is for everyone. I was raised by my grandparents who adore eachother and would only fight over things that were unimportant(ex: why did you put the bowls in this cabinet?) but had enough respect to actually communicate difficult and important topics. So overall, my condolences and I hope you are at a place in your life where you can heal from your trauma.
Just when I thought you couldn't show anything worse on this channel. Truly really amazes me
On me no kizzy this shi brazy
there is nothing wrong with this relationship as long as there all happy
If they are happy and the kids are healthy and happy it really doesn't matter.
@@purringbaseline exactly 😊
Everyone wonders why the women don't care too much to find out who the fathers of the kids are. Poor kids don't know how bizarre their parents are.
No need for the Maury Povich Show anymore, much less Jerry Springer
These kids are gonna be screwed in the future trying to understand love and how relationships are supposed to look. Then imagine dating and the whole meet my parents but they have 4. I just think these poor kids are going to be screwed when they grow up
I don’t mind poly relationships as long as both partners get to be poly. It’s unfair when one partner gets to be with someone else but doesn’t want their partner doing the same.
So I think it’s fine and healthy. As long as jealousy doesn’t exist they’re fine.
Sean & Taya is the parents of Barrett, and Alysia & Tyler is the parents of Carver. That was easy.
😂 wat
I don't think so coz, Taya's son is Carver while Barrett's mom was Alysia, therefore Taya and Sean doesn't have a child of their own instead both women had their boyfriend's child not by their husband's🤪
Here’s the thing, this lifestyle is disturbing without a doubt, BUT… there are couples out there who sleep with multiple partners unbeknownst to their “significant other” all the time. They’re at least honest with each other.
Sigh… everyday I lose faith in this world.
No morals whatsoever
Power, Control, disagreement come to the picture, whole thing collapse like house of cards. kids gonna need therapy in future
To each their own. Not my cup of tea but I'm always willing to listen & learn more about other kinds of love & relationships. I mean, whomever has clicked on this video clearly knew what they were going to watch. They all seem happy 😊😁👍
I don't think most people that clicked on this video knew what they were going to watch. The title is "we both got pregnant - and we don't know who by", which could mean a lot of things.
@@yukononun fair point. Thanks for pointing that out 😁👍
This will not end well.
And how is that different from most traditional marriages?
Name 1 poly relationship that lasted 'consistently' (no breaks, addons, or separations) more than 10 yrs and I'll get back with you.
Madness is real
The USA is completely against this because they want you poor. Multiple adults pulling resources together under one roof is a good way to ensure the best outcome for kids in todays economy. One mom and one dad bringing in 100k is just not enough any more. You get better deals the bigger the house too. Five bedrooms for half a million with 4 adults bringing in around 250k solves all financial issues. Dont be poor. If you make over 150k then i encourage monogamy. Anything less i encourage polygamy.
This is the most disturbing and disgusting thing I have ever seen in a while
Soulmates can have more than one life concurrently.
Kids shouldn't be raised in poly homes. Unsupervised time with unrelated adult men puts them at risk of being abused. MAPs seek out arrangements like this to find victims.
The fact that schemes like this are run to abuse children doesn't justify your take that poly people shouldn't have children. We don't have data suggesting that poly people abuse their children more than in a nucler family.
Did you know top 1 abuser of a child is its dad? At least here in Brazil, the order is: dad (40%), stepdad (30%), uncle and neighbors
Same applies to step fathers? Or mother's boyfriend?
But why just adult men? Adult women can be abusers too? 👀🤔
I must have landed in a wrong planet
So whose name is on the birth certificate? 🤔 I think knowing who the father is now is not for their benefit but for the kids. Why stress the kid out when they grow up to find out then? Find out now!!
Both of their husbands on birth certificates. That's by the law as they are legally married.
What's happening to the world?!?!?!?
But I want to know is Where do they fine these creepy & Despicable disgusting people at ? Is there some kind of convention we’re not aware of?
You will own nothing, eat bugs and be happy. That's where they're taking us, but first, all morals must be unwound.
Meaning what ?
I kept getting confused because I thought Tyler and taya was the married couple by the way she gravitates towards Tyler more than Sean 😂 you barely see her around Sean . Sean if you reading this…..just be on the lookout 🤣
And Alysia too haha be on the lookout mah girl lol, cos it's kinda new to me that they assume it's poly when in fact it's more of a changing partners as they were not having a type of each partners is aware of the other ones, just as a casual switch partners.🤔
What happens if they break up? Maybe you should find out who fathered which baby.. for the siblings..
Nice question tho, and another thing, what if one of 'em has gone like literally gone is there a chance or possible existence of jealousy if it ends up as 2 men 1 woman or reversal? Cringe isn't it?.