Not Everyone Is Supportive Of Our Trans-Relationship | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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- Опубликовано: 12 авг 2022
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I am 58. I used to think this was disgusting and horrible. After having my sons and they got old enough to date I started thinking they could bring home a man or a person of a different race to meet me. I realized that they are mine, and I have to accept whoever they choose. I would never not love them. So I decided love is love !! Life is short !! Just be yourself and be happy !! As far as I know they are straight. If not I am OK with that !💜. It awful when family pushes their child away and disowns them !! I love mine too much to do that. ❤️-- Sea horse Dad !! Sweet and beautiful!!
Yea because being Ms Krueger u have to be nice.🤣🤣🤣
Wow!! I hope every parents out there think like you 👏👏
You’re an amazing parent!!! Other parents could take lessons, and they’d all be MUCH happier! 🎉💜 well said!
That's a dumb thing to say. You can still love your kids without accepting everything they do.
@@justbecause951 Sure, but parents should accept if their kid brings home someone of the same gender or someone of a different race. There's nothing wrong with same-sex or interracial relationships
4:15 The ‘sea horse dad’ comment I found so cute (male sea horses carry their young and give birth to them) I thought it is a nice term ☺️
😆😆😆That took me out
No they carry them after they are conceived but yes I get it compare.a human to.a.seahorse.seems.more.normal
I loved that too! I almost teared up - so endearing to have support like that.
so cute
@@valenciawilson1414carrying after conceiving and giving birth means their pregnant (it meaning he or she) so I guess male seahorses get pregnant lol
"And we're the baby daddies!!" Lol, I love the way they said that!
Yah it's so gross
@@EbNorth why is it “gross?” Does it personally affect you? Does it inhibit your day to day life? I’m going to guess the answer is no. Your just judging others for absolutely zero reason. This isn’t your life. You live your the way you want to and have the common decency to allow others to do the same.
@@emilyhicks1224 I bet you have limits as well..
Anyway, yah, the man/woman is having a baby,, has a beard, cut off her breasts...
That's wild. and gross.
What bathrooms does it use? I wonder. It has a vagina, but Is a man,, buts it also had a baby.
You don't see issues here? That's wild.
@@emilyhicks1224 he and she having a baby nothing new......
Yeah, sounds g@y
That baby is surrounded by pure love. Baby will grow up to be so happy ❤
They are happy and the baby is so adorable . I hope they never experience physical attacks. Unfortunately homophobia knows no limits .
Unfortunately we live in Such a horrible cruel world 😢love is love 💜
It’s confusing to that poor baby
@@bigbrainforever confusing to the baby?
The baby is a few months old bro...
@@bigbrainforever the baby isnt gonna stand up and start calling him "mommy" like the child knows thats her father, your just ignorant. 💀
@@bigbrainforever
The baby doesn’t give a crap bruh, when someone is raised a certain way that’s their normal and a baby certainly isn’t going to think about it anymore than it would about shoving it’s hands into it’s mouth
The first couple seem so sweet and gentle☺️ I wish them nothing but the best. Love is love. As long as people are happy...live life!
The second couple had me go "Chiiiiiile , i thought i done seen it all"
He's with a woman with a beard. that's all that is
@@Black_Patriot-Veteran-1970 Trans man
@@prozierozie5692 Yeah, still weird
@@Black_Patriot-Veteran-1970 its not weird its just a human living more happy with the body he wants
OMG I love Matthew and Nuve! "And then we never stopped hanging out" ♥ SO beautiful.
as long as everyone is happy and healthy, who is anyone to say anything? as long as that baby knows love ❤️
So why share it to the world because u want us to accept this behavior as we don’t but go do u as stop trying push it our faces and our kids
God bless you both. I’m a 57 year old woman that has always tried to have an open mind. I have 3 children all grown and as a mother I want them all happy. Just be happy! God wants us all to find love and to be happy! You DESERVE happiness! Much love to you!
Hate sin not person
@@ravenbaa7989 exactly god hates the sin that we do not the person
@@ravenbaa7989 lol at this time almost anybody believes in your awful religion just the old people, I'm so proud that my generation is more open minded and they accept themselves and don't try to fit what a "figure" say what is good or bad, live is too short to live other's person life's.
@@moonyaan you will find out at the end wished you believe in Jesus Christ.
This world is getting to weird and confusing for me and idgf how one feels!
Favorite couple was the younger girl with older trans woman, the artist couple. Seemed so natural and truly in love💖
' Seahorse dad' thats a great way to put it. What amazing and beautiful couples. Love is love, period and its all that matters. I am currently in a age gap relationship. I am a Pan 37 yr old female dating a Bi 57yr old man. So seeing these beautiful couples that may be "different" from what is expected, and seeing them thrive and love and be happy together definitely gives me even more hope.
Bi** there is no such thing as pan, that’s a made up term
I love the term “seahorse dad” lol this is the greatest video
Everyone wants to be accepted everyone wants to be loved everyone wants to be liked. However you must keep in mind as you struggled to finally get to your transition. It's going to take people around you that amount of time or even longer to understand and accept who you truly are. So although often times non-support from loved ones is disappointing and heartbreaking you must exercise patience and understanding because they too are transitioning. Finally what's most important is self-love and self-acceptance once you achieve that the world is yours
Everyone needs love and should be loved .However you cannot ask people to axcept something they dont believe in .... that is wrong!!!!
This is so important. I’ve struggled with this with a family member who I support 100%! I just knew them for decades a certain way so it’s taking months for me not to use the wrong name or pronoun, not bc I don’t care but bc it’s a process. They get so upset even with their own parents, who actually named them and are supportive but grieving the change as well. We’ll get there it’s just taking time
@@keniquenembhard8210 I don’t think it’s as hard as people think… you don’t have to AGREE to accept that people are sovereign beings who can make their own choices. God even gave us free Will so do you not accept that? At the end of the day we have to live the consequence of whatever choice we make and just as folks of one religion may say you shouldn’t practice any other, YOU have to make the decision of what works for you
@@mamat1213 That doesn't make it any less hard to accept the change of the person they know completely changing into a different person. Have some compassion for both sides 🙄
@@keniquenembhard8210 it’s ok not to believe in or “accept” a certain lifestyle but you can still be there for them and let them know you care.
I love that seahorse dad title that’s adorable. As long as their happy that’s all that matters
Apart from saying "I am a seahorse" is quite surreal. But I like surrealism
I agree
@@branthomas1621 he doesn't think he's a literal seahorse lol
Poor kid with these wimpy dad's.
@@ez-g3090 who said they're wimpy lmao
He literally gave birth
Just because his parents don't understand his relationship doesn't mean they aren't supportive. Those two terms aren't interchangeable.
I'm a little confused by the claims that Nuvè's family don't/didn't accept the relationship? It seems like they're mostly upset by a lack of enthusiasm in the family's acceptance? Because they did not cite any issues that caused tension or specific obstacles they've faced due to the family, which I find very confusing considering how this part of their story is framed as a very serious conflict that they overcame in their relationship.. From how it was described it seemed that the family were, if anything, maybe taken aback by the complexity or newness of the situation, but were also open to whatever makes Nuvè happy.. There was no hostility or rejection described, just quiet acceptance and a mild air of awkwardness (which exists in every new relationship when you meet the family)... There has to either be much more to the story; that, or they were chosen to participate because they have an interesting/fashionable aesthetic and producers edited a minor part of their interview to be the main focus of the segment for dramatic effect (which given the other stories being so heavily focused on social conflicts, and the obstacles that trans couples face due to prejudice or ignorance, I'm inclined to believe this is a valid possibility).
I 100% agree! I was really disappointed that was such a point of their segment because it fealt very wrong! Your comment was the first I've read and that surprises me! I thought more people would have noticed!
This first couple is so wholesome 😭💗
Not really
People GET it they just want to know naturally and have questions
Also, I don't appreciate the "arts" too often but this couple had me really looking at their photos so they def have talent.
In reference to the first couple.... Yeah. the family was confused, and had to learn.. but at no point did yall say that they didn't love you or the baby. THAT to me is progress. We don't have to understand everything, but we must love on another. Yes, for me there would be an adjustment, but my love for families is bigger than my hangups. God bless yall.
As long as y’all are happy, that’s all that matters
Agreed
Cocäïne makes people too
I believe anything that fosters increased empathy for all is a good thing. It’s that simple. Check your biases and focus on being the best version of yourself before passing judgement on the external. Do no harm. Do good. Respect autonomy and strive for justice. I really enjoyed these features.
I think you a perfectly beautiful family. Just be happy and love eachother Always. Blessings to you precious lil baby. One love
Second couple,the younger girls doesn’t seem genuine.idk if it’s the way she talks .
Ok so I loved this. What a different story. I totally understand the mixture when it comes to comments, but I love how they have handled this and have done so with such grace, sharing there very personal intimate beautiful family and the story of the dynamic with the world knowing that it is unfortunately still looked at with those questions, and handling it with no anger or hate with others, who question this family journey, coming out with such a strong love for any and all with a true genuine want to educate, raise awareness, and spread a positive message, I loved this! That lil one is perfect and these two da das are killing it! Thank you for sharing!
Look at that baby so beautiful may you both be together for ever and happy you so good with the baby bless you both.
It’s actually pretty fitting that the first couple named their son Lotus because one of that flower’s meanings is overcoming adversity! 😊😊😊
As Long As Your Happy 🌈 Who Cares What Anyone Says! 🤷🏻♀️ Cause It’s Your Life Not Theirs!
"I typically only date people over 45 I have my whole life"
????? She a victim
Exactly
The baby is beautiful.
Awww See horse dad is such a cute term❤️🥰
Now I want to watch more of the baby daddies I was so upset & praying they was going to come back on. Well congratulations to them both for having that beyond adorable baby!!
Love is LOOVVEEE you don't have to accept it it's NOT UR LIFE ITS THEIRS stop judging ppl
as long as that baby is takin care of that's all that matters. but I will say that in reality a man can not have a baby. biology doesn't lie. that feeling "he" got while pregnant is the same every mother has, its an awesome experience!! I'm sorry if my comment hurt some feelings.
"And we're the baby daddies!" So cute.
If you're happy, I'm happier! Love makes the world go around. 🥰
Whatever makes you happy! To find true love is a blessing 🙏 Bless all of you! 👏🥰
I wish to be as happy as the first couple
Honestly my views of this are not politically correct. But I do wish them the best. I just feel like people need to understand that not everyone will accept your choices and life path, that’s just life. I will say that I do admire that they are going for what they believe in and living the life they feel is fit for them.
Why is it not politically correct?
trans people arent looking for acceptance, we just want to live our lives in peace without people trying to suppress us and without hate.
@@remi5074 nothing in my comment was hateful or suppressive
Agreed
@@remi5074 you guys literally force people to accept you and your ideologies and force yourselves into their spaces and when they disagree with you on anything you launch hate campaigns against them as a collective and you wonder why they häte you back 😂
I am a biological female that likes kids that Never wanted to carry shave my own child. I think these relationships are Beautiful!!!
Shave your own child? What??
Go cry
@@lovelife2186 calm down love I promise u it is not that serious lmao. Not u saying go cry to some random person on the internet. Lmao pls I beg of u to get an actually love life
Some people gota grow up this is love rather
You like it or not I accept everyone as who they are that’s what it’s about you can’t always judge someone you never what there going thru or what they went thru I respect them both so much for telling there story and staying true to themselves I wish more people would just let people be who they are or who they want to be there living there life’s and are very happy with it
Only made it 20 seconds in. "I knew as soon as puberty hit that NO, I am not a girl!!" 2 seconds later...
Eight months into their relationship, wow. pregnant. Guys, I just can't. Sorry.
It is what it is ... If ur so wrapped up in what other people do when their happy living their best lives not hurting anyone. Says more about U then them as people. Let them live and love. Their fabulous
1st.The baby is absolutely gorgeous and sooo cute!!(1:45)
2nd.i love this for all y'all and I completely support this!!
I wish all people could have this much confidence and pride in themselves but ig some just don't really have that in them and I think that is very upsetting.I believe to just be the best versions of yourselves and to thrive,shine and believe in what they are!
God bless all of y'all and remember that
God made you like this for a reason,and a very good one!!Not everything and everyone needs to be similar/the same so remind yourself that you are beautiful just the way you are and to focus on the positive like the people that except you and not the people who don't!
Stay safe and thrive!!😊
I am a supporter :D xx Carry on as you were!
Aww cute two happy guys with a child. That's adorable 🥰
My 12 yr old stepdaughter just came out as trans. Now my step son is so happy. Some family isn’t supporting him. I am angry and we feel very alone
Your family who doesn't support your stepdaughter probably feels angry too, because she is so young. I don't know your situation, but people who do not support youth transitions are often not hateful or bigoted, but just people who really care about children and are aware that many kids from broken families or who are victims of abuse are transitioning at faster rates than ever before and at younger ages than ever before. However, the correlation is usually swept under the rug and the media and politicians, Hollywood, etc do not want anyone to question that correlation. They just want everyone to ignore it, allow children to continue diagnosing themselves. Gender dysphoria is the only medical condition where the patient tells the doctor what is wrong with them, what they need, and how much to prescribe. Doctors use their judgement and expertise on literally every other condition, but with gender dysphoria in present day U.S., it is 100% patient controlled treatment, doctors just nod and said ok and write the prescription for whatever you ask or remove whatever body part you like. It's absurd.
Congratulations on finding each other and creating your beautiful child!
The comment section is mostly so positive, which is shocking considering most of the hate trans folks get. This makes me so happy. ❤️
You know any critical comments get removed, right?
Lmao the LGBT folks always have anime avatars, why is that?
@@KokoTheGorilla69 cause they are MAPs
it's definitely that comments are being deleted
@@sdrrshock5594 [credible citation needed]
They are all great lovely
People.
I love them......🙂💜💜💜💜💜💜
Nothing ignorant about the comments they get, society is so pressed about doing everything opposite of normal , you’re willing to sacrifice truth for it. Strange.
Idgaf G congrats on the both of you and congrats on creating that little human cause regardless it’s a blessing and continue you both have a bless day yo🤟🏼💪🏼🙏
What does trans even mean it's so confusing am confused all the time but they are awesome parents to the most precious baby on earth...I love that
The first couple is amazing! I live in SoFlo, sending you love from the sunny south. This is a beautiful couple and they flow well and you can see the love!
I mean.... That's LOVE right there!!! ❤❤❤❤
Sea horse dad' such a great description.... These people are all adults, and I see no problem with their decisions.. As for the couple with the baby it's the love this child experiences and grows up with that matters, they have grandparents, auntie's, uncles ect so they will know a beautiful life, nobody can judge this family, many children grow up with bad parents who are straight, so 🤷🏻♂️ The only time I get riled up is with children transitioning and I'm sorry as I think no one should be allowed puberty blockers, hormones or surgery until adulthood.... All these people are beautiful souls, and love should never judge is right.... I understand the difficulties the mother of the last couple is experiencing. At the same time, it's plain to see she cares.... I think 🤔 it would take me a while to adjust, but that's ok to.....
*This is amazing and beautiful!!😍*
You guys are so beautiful
Your baby gonna be dazzling🤩🤩🤩
All the best🇸🇷🌿🌾🌿🇸🇷
i love it ! i cant wait for me and my girl to have a child !
Wow amazing love story 😍🌈♥️ stay strong and inlove each other ♥️🌈
I'm proud and out I'm part of LGBTQ community,, I'm butch from Philippines ♥️🌈
😢sad
Me looking at the thumbnail wondering how they switched race
I love these guys. So much love and their baby is growing up surrounded by that love xx
Everywhere on social media. 😒🙄
Very beautiful couples. I don't know why people can't just let people be happy. Love who you want. Its noone else's business.
It’s confusing the innocent, by innocent, I mean children. That’s grown folks business. Like pronographic imagery…. Don’t EXPOSE those who shouldn’t ! That’s all. If you wanna say you’re a bullfrog - go ahead , but don’t get children involved. ❤
Ppl loving children isnt cute
@@JasmineThanai that child just thinks of him as her father. a child who doesnt even look a year old wont know nor understand her father is trans, so whats confusing to the child? or do you like pushing your views onto children?
We also love you 💕
Don’t put it on internet if it’s no one’s business
Love, that is it
People have to go through a grieving process and it doesn't happen overnight. If they care, they come around eventually. Hang in there, live your best life.
Why do the second ones look like mom and daughter 😳
they look like father in drag and daughter
Because they're literally old/young enough to be parent and child lol.
People need to mind their business, will always find something to complain about - Why people go out of their way to abuse certain groups when it doesn’t even effect you is beyond me!! Wishing you all healthy relationships regardless of who you choose (obviously excluding any illegal activities)
It’s stuffed down others throats
Omg what a beautiful little family
Be ones true self. They're not feeding your child or paying your bills. Love from your hearts. 🙏🏽
At this point, they're basically a straight couple.
All of these stories are beautiful. Proud Mom of a trans daughter and I pray she finds such an amazing partner one day
Mean while my search for love goes on..
They seem happy and that’s all that matters 💜
"seem" is the word
I love how everybody wants to protect children but when it comes to this y'all turn a blind eye. In 10-20 years we will have studies about the psychological damage of those children.
@@zombiedoll986 yep. It's literally child abuse. poor kids are doomed : (
@@zombiedoll986 Did you miss the part where they had to be 18 before beginning hormonal transition? ^^'
@@Lemon-Bark I don't know what exactly you are referring to but I talk about the kids OF these People. The babies in the womb of transmen.
All Love ! And that’s all that matter
It's so upsetting to see some people being unsupportive of transgender people. There's nothing wrong with being trans, neither is there anything wrong with a trans relationship. Wishing these amazing couples the best. 💗
It's called having different perspective. Don't they teach that in school anymore? We aren't a blended homogenous society, like the Borg. We are allowed and it is ok, to think differently. To like different things and have preferences.
@@aml9439 Its okay to think differently yes, but its wrong to treat people terribly out of hatred
Omg I luv this !!! Plain luv in its purest form imo 🤷🏼♀️. The first couple is so damn beautiful n I wish them nothing but years n years of happiness n joy w their gorgeous baby !!! ❤️
Or u marriad ❤❤❤🌷🌷🌷🌷
When I watch stories like this, I know that there must be more to gender than I am aware of because here it is a woman that became a man and dates a man I think that’s amazing and we need to study more about genders and the science of genders
The question seems to be, how screwed up are you before you don't deserve personal happiness. My view is that there is no limit until children are involved.
The 3 of you are....
STRAIGHT perfection STRAIGHT FIRE 🔥 🎉🎉🎉
Ok but seahorse dad is the cutest term I've ever heard 🥺🥺🥺
You’re truly a beautiful family❤
Beautiful family! Thanks for sharing your💖 love story.💞
Love is not base on how you look or who you are it abour emotinal contacttion and finding someone who will accepr u. Love you unconditionally
Omg. Congratulations you tooo 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺💓
The first couple is the most adorable loving couple ever ❤❤❤
The last couple I would have never guessed Tay was born female
I could tell immediately.
They are happy to be together and I love 💕 them
Congratulations🎉🙏🏻
Happy for everyone in these video clips. 💖💞
Love them! Hope they only listen to the positive comments
Y'all are so cute...adorable baby
Really lovely couples
Congratulations! Wishing this family the best!
When someone shows you Who they truly are, believe them!! People make other people's gender identities about themselves and it's disgusting.
Don't let others hold you back from who you want to be.
Sea horse dad, I love that. Congrats. When ya'll getting married?
I dont like how people judge people love is love and life's way to short to be unhappy 💯 enjoy love and be who you want to be with .
Awwww the baby is soooo cute!!❤❤
They all seem happy which all that matters 💓
No, truth is what matters.