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  • Bukola Ayodele, 25, earns $210,000 a year as a software engineer in New York City. That income includes her base salary, bonus and equity. She doesn’t touch the equity and lives off of her base salary and bonus. Now, she wants to inspire more women, and especially black women, to join her in tech. To help fill the gap, she started a RUclips channel called The Come Up (@Bukola1) to provide black women and other women of color with the resources and advice she wished existed when she first considered pursuing a career in tech.
    This is the latest installment of Millennial Money, which profiles people across the U.S. and details how they earn and spend their money.
    Read more about Bukola's budget breakdown here: cnb.cx/33ckNql
    She attended Columbia University where she studied political science. She graduated in 2016 with $7,000 in student loan debt, thanks to combination of needs-based financial aid and holding a job throughout college, as well as financial support from her grandmother and her parents, who also took out some loans. She paid off her loans by the beginning of 2018.
    Growing up, “we had a saying that you could either be a doctor or a lawyer or a disgrace,” she says, and after college, she expected to go into law. But it didn’t take her long to realize she wasn’t passionate about the work.
    Computer science, though, had appealed to her since she took an introductory course in undergrad. After researching careers online, Ayodele quit her job in compliance in 2017 to attend a three-month engineering retreat at the New York City-based RECURSE Center to refresh her programming skills.
    Leaving behind a steady job is never an easy call, especially when you’re living paycheck to paycheck, like Ayodele was. While the retreat itself was free, she saved around $6,000 in the months before she quit her job. Making that career change is what inspired her to start taking her finances more seriously: She watched RUclips videos, listened to podcasts and cut her expenses down as far as she could to save up.
    Ayodele is a fan of the FIRE - financial independence, retire early - movement, and one of her goals is to earn enough off of her investments that all of her monthly costs are covered.
    To that end, she contributes $1,583 each month to max out her 401(k) contributions for the year (those were her contributions in 2019 when this story was reported; the 2020 individual contribution limit increased slightly from $19,000 to $19,500), and invests an additional $4,000 a month in a Vanguard brokerage account. She also contributes around $42 a month to a health savings account.
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Комментарии • 7 тыс.

  • @CNBCMakeIt
    @CNBCMakeIt  4 года назад +561

    What’s your budget breakdown? Share your story with us for a chance to be featured in a future installment. We are especially interested in hearing from first-time homebuyers in Atlanta, Denver and Toronto. cnb.cx/32TYZ2K

    • @retha90
      @retha90 4 года назад +8

      I'm prepping to buy a house in Atlanta now. Wonderful.

    • @flaccidsteel5094
      @flaccidsteel5094 4 года назад +13

      She’s an impressive lady! Kudos to her!

    • @fintech4220
      @fintech4220 4 года назад +15

      Lol first time home buyers in Toronto. 700k for 500 sq ft condo

    • @vilenationgaming
      @vilenationgaming 4 года назад +10

      I’m a software engineer/systems analyst in Birmingham Alabama. Homeowner as well and I’d like to be featured

    • @pimplol
      @pimplol 4 года назад +1

      @@fintech4220 lmfao thats generous

  • @jaientenduunevoix726
    @jaientenduunevoix726 4 года назад +18502

    American dream right here, holy crap. And donating 800 a month to charity, at 25? She's a saint

    • @fopifopfopifop3540
      @fopifopfopifop3540 4 года назад +53

      atticusfn I swear

    • @cravingroom6129
      @cravingroom6129 4 года назад +181

      actually, the more we give, the more we receive, I believe by this faith :) but don't get me wrong, I give with no expectation, giving is actually make us feels food about ourselves

    • @cravingroom6129
      @cravingroom6129 4 года назад +41

      @Victor Hugo 2 car garage in NYC? I mean even million dollar condo or apt won't be having that, I have 2 car garage townhouse but I live in sub urb DC and I didn't live the American dream yet :))

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 4 года назад +8

      Very thoughtful

    • @purrpaws7863
      @purrpaws7863 4 года назад +120

      ​@Victor Hugo The american dream just means that regardless of where they were born or what class they were born into, they can attain their own version of success in a society where upward mobility can be possible for everyone. So, your comment is very stupid in this case.

  • @Unknownuser89878
    @Unknownuser89878 4 года назад +10454

    She could EASILY pay for a nice apartment without roommates and instead she chooses to save and donate to charity. We need more videos of people like her!

    • @turnstyletouchbunny
      @turnstyletouchbunny 4 года назад +47

      Maybe she doesnt want to live alone :)

    • @omokaroojiire
      @omokaroojiire 4 года назад +89

      She is successful, because she thinks about others!!!

    • @chiaraippoliti
      @chiaraippoliti 4 года назад +120

      G M Even if that’s true, what’s wrong with that? They spent lots on her and her education. They made many sacrifices. And at least she knows where the money goes to instead of those charities that only benefit the “philanthropist “.

    • @rosaswan2323
      @rosaswan2323 4 года назад +24

      Agreed but 800/mo is way less than 10% of her salary, unless I missed something. I make around 32k a year (granted, in a way more affordable city) and I give away around $250 a month.

    • @rebelfleur9910
      @rebelfleur9910 4 года назад +6

      No we don’t Lmaoo, just spoil yourself, you can still have enough

  • @thelegendarykevininsales7589
    @thelegendarykevininsales7589 3 года назад +3822

    If I make $210k a year, I ain’t telling no one

    • @strallay
      @strallay 3 года назад +75

      Right lol

    • @Maussiegamer
      @Maussiegamer 3 года назад +56

      she is also aint telling no one

    • @SherbertLomon
      @SherbertLomon 3 года назад +253

      @@Maussiegamer she literally just told the world

    • @Maussiegamer
      @Maussiegamer 3 года назад +134

      @@SherbertLomon its a double negative she is not telling noone so she is telling everyone

    • @Foodenthusiast23
      @Foodenthusiast23 3 года назад +2

      💯😂🙏🏾❤️

  • @ss56830
    @ss56830 3 года назад +2870

    She is literally the model kid every parent wants 😂 girl is KILLIN it

    • @Mragdoll
      @Mragdoll 3 года назад +26

      she doesnt look happy though.she's earning a lot of money but she is not doing what she loves.it reads in her eyes.

    • @itsDjjayy
      @itsDjjayy 3 года назад +70

      @@Mragdoll your the only one that realize that

    • @Mragdoll
      @Mragdoll 3 года назад +14

      @@itsDjjayy because most people today are about looks they would rather be rich to fill the void of their soul rather than facing it and becoming happier

    • @vibesbynae4860
      @vibesbynae4860 3 года назад +7

      For real I’m inspired by her 😍😍😍

    • @teeyateeyah233
      @teeyateeyah233 3 года назад

      For real

  • @nunyabiznys5169
    @nunyabiznys5169 4 года назад +4698

    She's definitely on her way to being a millionaire. Proud of her.

    • @angelgjr1999
      @angelgjr1999 4 года назад +38

      Nunya Biznys lol a million really isn’t much anymore. I’d be happy a billionaire.

    • @bee3467
      @bee3467 4 года назад +339

      @@angelgjr1999 it's plenty

    • @incognitoincognito7500
      @incognitoincognito7500 4 года назад +31

      Angel Gutierrez depends on where you live tbh

    • @whoa-there
      @whoa-there 4 года назад +45

      A million can last her for 12+ years & maybe last for u even longer so it's most definitely something.

    • @izziestevens5835
      @izziestevens5835 4 года назад +6

      She probably is one by now

  • @Lances_45
    @Lances_45 4 года назад +6538

    It actually broke my heart when she said she gets stopped in the building she works at because they don’t think she works there, I couldn’t even IMAGINE how dehumanising that is

    • @sparklingdaisy3169
      @sparklingdaisy3169 4 года назад +1079

      @Jason Ripley of course you'd say that. Its something that she's experienced. Just because you chose not to believe it doesn't make any less true. You said you're white and Asian. You can assimilate into society. People see you as a white man. Black people cant assimilate into the white culture like you have. Stop invalidating people's experiences just because you haven't experienced them.

    • @123courage
      @123courage 4 года назад +796

      @Jason Ripley Black people: This *racist experience* happened to me.
      White people: I don't believe that *uses own personal experience to justify why someone else's experience isn't reality, because they can't fathom that their experience isn't the ONLY experience*
      THAT is exactly the problem in America right now.

    • @TH-eb7ob
      @TH-eb7ob 4 года назад +96

      @Jason Ripley Black female security guards cant stereotype??? They do it too.

    • @TH-eb7ob
      @TH-eb7ob 4 года назад +29

      Dehumanizing is a strong word. Lol No one said she was any less human. It is degrading though.

    • @stacybanks4846
      @stacybanks4846 4 года назад +83

      nobody nobody - who are “you people”?

  • @dajurniesofar4362
    @dajurniesofar4362 3 года назад +3067

    I love to see a woman in color in the STEM industries making it and doing it well.

    • @shantalle.8888
      @shantalle.8888 3 года назад +97

      Same. It's so encouraging. I'm in STEM as well.

    • @abdrizakmohamud6164
      @abdrizakmohamud6164 3 года назад +8

      @@shantalle.8888 Good on you what do u study

    • @shantalle.8888
      @shantalle.8888 3 года назад +10

      @@abdrizakmohamud6164 Biology

    • @die8218
      @die8218 3 года назад +99

      Draken your kind ALWAYS made it about color so stfu.

    • @thewell-readnegrita4941
      @thewell-readnegrita4941 3 года назад +146

      Draken Who blamed anyone for this? All she is saying is that she likes seeing POC in stem careers because it’s not very common. Why does her saying that offend you?

  • @niobiumplums
    @niobiumplums 3 года назад +312

    a successful young black woman making $200K in tech? we love to see it 🔥 more features like this please

  • @FloydofOz
    @FloydofOz 4 года назад +5033

    She is the most impressive person in this series so far.

  • @lilyhanachan
    @lilyhanachan 4 года назад +5009

    "What doesn't get measured doesn't get managed"

    • @watchmesave4912
      @watchmesave4912 4 года назад +12

      Have a similar quote in my office.

    • @gulamsabir8088
      @gulamsabir8088 4 года назад +21

      That's actually an amazing quote
      Gotta write that one down for my new book.

    • @iankirkland1856
      @iankirkland1856 4 года назад +3

      @@gulamsabir8088 ooh what book!

    • @gulamsabir8088
      @gulamsabir8088 4 года назад +11

      @@iankirkland1856 actually I am a aspiring writer and have been writing a few books , the new book I am working on is called " Timing Time : the professinal
      Style . "
      This quote is a great way to start a new chapter . Sure I have to do the research and give proper credit.

    • @unsicheresgangbild
      @unsicheresgangbild 4 года назад +2

      Lily Hana Chan
      Pieter Drucker

  • @JayR-lz3ui
    @JayR-lz3ui 3 года назад +1143

    I’m SHOOK. I waste so much money in this city. she out here making 200k with roommates. Time for a reset.

    • @vltruane
      @vltruane 3 года назад +18

      Budget, prioritize

    • @trevorm3680
      @trevorm3680 3 года назад +45

      Frugal and intelligent af. No need to live beyond her means.

    • @ilipan2668
      @ilipan2668 3 года назад +4

      And in Brooklyn too. Most I know with that money may live with roommates in Manhattan, but not the outer boroughs.

    • @mwamussa
      @mwamussa 3 года назад +3

      @Homesteader Workouts Yes, humans are always going to look for a scapegoat and a hero. We simply don't like to take responsibility for ourselves.

    • @T0MBRA1D3RR
      @T0MBRA1D3RR 3 года назад +4

      It's also kind of lonely without roommates as a young person. Especially if you are in a long-distance relationship like her. She is so smart. Saving so much at such a young age. I try to be like her.

  • @ananyamishra2742
    @ananyamishra2742 3 года назад +627

    Girl be making 6 figures in NYC. Could have easily got a place for herself but chooses to save and donate 😭🔥🔥🔥❤️. Plus she is so pretty! ❤️❤️😍

    • @RochelletheRealtor
      @RochelletheRealtor 3 года назад +17

      That was one thing that impressed me because I would have been signing mortgage papers on something I couldn’t afford and been living paycheck to paycheck, sleeping on the floor and racking up credit card debt.

    • @wanchawancha5323
      @wanchawancha5323 3 года назад

      Yes!

    • @MSKTLIZ
      @MSKTLIZ 3 года назад +1

      Yes! 🥰

    • @Dc-oe8qe
      @Dc-oe8qe 3 года назад +1

      Shes adorable.

  • @alimahb3465
    @alimahb3465 4 года назад +4347

    Her bank account told mine to sit tf down and be humble!😩

    • @leilanidru7506
      @leilanidru7506 4 года назад +182

      *her entire life* told mine to stfu, sit down and be humble. Rich, gorgeous, generous, works out, intelligent, financially responsible and...I honestly lost count🤯 quite possibly the most flawless success story I’ve seen and heard in a while.

    • @Kevin51611
      @Kevin51611 4 года назад +7

      😂😂😂

    • @angelgjr1999
      @angelgjr1999 4 года назад +32

      Study computer science! We are in the INFORMATION AGE! People like her are my inspiration. I’d be happy making even half what she makes.

    • @blackice3022
      @blackice3022 4 года назад +1

      Lmao

    • @getreal4real169
      @getreal4real169 4 года назад

      Alimah B me too

  • @sarsar8774
    @sarsar8774 4 года назад +4696

    She is LITERALLY one of the smartest, most beautiful girl inside out. She has that X Factor. Inspiring

    • @2LitProduction
      @2LitProduction 4 года назад +23

      Sar Sar black engineers. You love to see it.

    • @brettharter143
      @brettharter143 4 года назад +19

      @@2LitProduction shes a software developer calm down LOL

    • @TheDiamondSkye
      @TheDiamondSkye 4 года назад +21

      @@brettharter143 She gets paid more than engineers. Though yeah, software engineer kind of a rough way to describe it, i agree with you lol

    • @Theupdates37
      @Theupdates37 4 года назад +15

      brett harter why you mad lol

    • @brettharter143
      @brettharter143 4 года назад +1

      Lmao so many people butthurt from facts.

  • @helenrietta8226
    @helenrietta8226 3 года назад +957

    You make us black folk feel a sense of pride..thank you miss

    • @abdrizakmohamud6164
      @abdrizakmohamud6164 3 года назад +127

      @@Perceptence bruh stop copy and pasting on every comment that talks about race.

    • @FalaqX
      @FalaqX 3 года назад +2

      She's not Black sooooo....

    • @HT-pl8du
      @HT-pl8du 3 года назад +20

      @@FalaqX she's Nigerian I think she said?

    • @darlnekiasiplin3841
      @darlnekiasiplin3841 3 года назад +10

      @@FalaqX then what is she because her skin is sure telling the obvious 🙄

    • @terseandtiny1746
      @terseandtiny1746 3 года назад +1

      @@darlnekiasiplin3841 her skin is brown

  • @120ail1
    @120ail1 3 года назад +143

    Not only is she a big success, but she’s responsible, mature and seems like she is a caring and kind person. She’s a winner and I hope her success continues, and exceeds her wildest dreams.

  • @caitox
    @caitox 4 года назад +4072

    I'm five years older than her yet I want to be her when I grow up.

    • @zusiphesikayi2390
      @zusiphesikayi2390 4 года назад +16

      Ikr

    • @ayodelekolawole3743
      @ayodelekolawole3743 4 года назад +7

      Lol. Same here

    • @Daniel-mq3nf
      @Daniel-mq3nf 4 года назад +19

      You can do it!
      -Rob Schneider

    • @edo153
      @edo153 4 года назад +8

      You can still do it!

    • @nickkaol
      @nickkaol 4 года назад +29

      The irony is amazing, but I understand. Sometimes I think how one is brought up could affect how he/she live their life.

  • @ginandjustice
    @ginandjustice 4 года назад +4036

    I'm literally Nigerian and finishing up my degree in Comp Sci - this is THEE most motivating thing I've seen omg

    • @miorlego
      @miorlego 4 года назад +57

      how can you be ´´literally´´ nigerian?

    • @and-xl2ey
      @and-xl2ey 4 года назад +95

      Mint Lemonade ..it’s a saying have you not heard it lol

    • @ginandjustice
      @ginandjustice 4 года назад +45

      Mint Lemonade ahaha I am what I am :)

    • @nevaehchristopher4600
      @nevaehchristopher4600 4 года назад +4

      Ginika Ume-Onyido I’m a junior and I was wondering how computer science how is it? Can you tell me more about your opinion and what are things you wish you knew before going into computer science.

    • @Sylvie98
      @Sylvie98 4 года назад +19

      Ginika Ume-Onyido I’m a Kenyan/ British girl who’s start taking up comp sci & coding as a side hobby whilst doing a different degree (before COVID 19) GURL it is hard, so well done for making it to the finish line 👏🏾 I wish you the best grades and the dream job you want!! 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🥳🥳🥳💚

  • @khadijatsolebo2537
    @khadijatsolebo2537 3 года назад +324

    As a Nigerian who also moved to the US, I aspire to be just like her when I’m 25...I’m inspired

    • @DARELASISI
      @DARELASISI 3 года назад +15

      It is possible, just develop a strong determination and ready to learn new skills. Knowledge is LIGHT.

    • @kevinngaleu1545
      @kevinngaleu1545 2 года назад +3

      @@DARELASISI absolutely. That's what i understood. I started coding didn't enjoyed well but as a founder i discovered Product Management. Now i'm working to transitioning.

    • @fredericksharon6908
      @fredericksharon6908 2 года назад +3

      A year later now. Hope ur on the right path 😊😊✌️

    • @Chrisxulo
      @Chrisxulo 2 года назад +1

      Hope you are doing good. I'm from Nigerian parents too and I can relate with this story. As a Software Engineer I would say that we leave in our bubble where we have flexible hours, supports and benefits, with options to work remotely, high salary and job offers every day from companies.

  • @Ohh4udumn
    @Ohh4udumn 3 года назад +517

    She definitely just inspired me to become more mindful of my money. I inherited bad shopping habits from my family, but I've at least managed to stay debt free.

    • @08ranaiu
      @08ranaiu 3 года назад +11

      Thats an accomplishment in and of itself for sure!!!

    • @smileyface985
      @smileyface985 3 года назад +9

      This video makes me want to return my Chanel bag 😩

    • @Ohh4udumn
      @Ohh4udumn 3 года назад +8

      @@smileyface985 That’s in the past now, we can only be better moving forward 😅

    • @smileyface985
      @smileyface985 3 года назад +3

      @Arlo already returned it.

    • @AllAboutPurple
      @AllAboutPurple 2 года назад +2

      @@smileyface985 keep it lol and sell it for more than you bought it….i hear Chanel resell value is good

  • @JasonB95
    @JasonB95 4 года назад +4390

    "You can either be a doctor, a lawyer or a disgrace." If you grew up in an Indian, African or West Indian/Caribbean household, that saying you know all too well.

    • @itsmesunchild8805
      @itsmesunchild8805 4 года назад +41

      I swear

    • @gscorp7879
      @gscorp7879 4 года назад +3

      For real

    • @nickelwindow53
      @nickelwindow53 4 года назад +47

      ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿 America Dosent respect us? But us people of color carry this country on our backs!

    • @murrygrace827
      @murrygrace827 4 года назад +25

      literally asians too

    • @DOPEdwarf
      @DOPEdwarf 4 года назад +91

      Exactly why nothing actually creative and innovative comes out of those countries, just well tested worker drones working for some westerner who's parents encouraged them when they wanted to be an artist or scientist when they were kids and allowed them to explore their own interests. I say this as an arab

  • @chrisbruce1137
    @chrisbruce1137 4 года назад +3883

    Shes saving 60K a year. She’s bound to be a millionaire before 35

    • @Warhammer416
      @Warhammer416 4 года назад +68

      That's not how you become a millionaire

    • @sentjojo
      @sentjojo 4 года назад +523

      @@Warhammer416 compound interest. She's not just saving, she's investing

    • @Warhammer416
      @Warhammer416 4 года назад +21

      @@sentjojo for the average person, compound interest won't make you a millionaire. And did the video say she was investing in an account which accumulated compound interest? If so, I clearly missed that part.

    • @sentjojo
      @sentjojo 4 года назад +261

      @@Warhammer416 she's investing $48k/yr. If she averages 7% return, she'll have over a million dollars by the time she's 40. If she maintains that till age 65, she'll have over $10 million.

    • @sentjojo
      @sentjojo 4 года назад +142

      @@Warhammer416 btw, 7% is the historical inflation adjusted average return of the S&P 500. She doesn't even have to do any fancy investing, she can become a millionaire from basic index funds. And I didn't even include her 401k.
      No idea what math you're doing

  • @nemos422s
    @nemos422s 3 года назад +499

    She has a RUclips channel and it’s fantastic. She’s inspirational af and she’s worked very hard to get where she is

    • @Neesha242
      @Neesha242 3 года назад +8

      What is her RUclips channel?

    • @esoheesther3848
      @esoheesther3848 3 года назад +2

      Deneesha Morgan fr! What is it >_

    • @nemos422s
      @nemos422s 3 года назад +6

      Deneesha Morgan her Chanel is called the come up

    • @sbshortcake
      @sbshortcake 3 года назад +5

      @@Neesha242 Her channel is here: ruclips.net/channel/UC-bFgwL_kFKLZA60AiB-CCQ

    • @sbshortcake
      @sbshortcake 3 года назад +4

      @@esoheesther3848 ruclips.net/channel/UC-bFgwL_kFKLZA60AiB-CCQ

  • @adaokoye493
    @adaokoye493 3 года назад +60

    Before she even said her name I just KNEW she was Nigerian. Making our country proud 🙌🏽

    • @dj7688
      @dj7688 3 года назад

      That's right! She's smart and has common sense. She's milking that 3-month free course for all it's worth!

  • @donjohn281
    @donjohn281 4 года назад +6165

    Shoutout to immigrant parents who left their families, friends, and every person they know and love back at their home country to migrate to another country for a chance of a better life for their family and kids. I have the utmost respect for anybody that does that, especially my mother.

    • @paulinacontreras4160
      @paulinacontreras4160 4 года назад +171

      I’m forever grateful for my immigrant parents. They left everyone behind: friends, family, etc. Just so me and my brothers can have a better life. It definitely pushed me harder in school. Now my parents have me, a neurosurgeon, and my older brother, a nuclear engineer. Now, all their hard work is paid off and they’ll never want to ever work again.

    • @princessjay2497
      @princessjay2497 4 года назад +36

      v. w. Just say you’re xenophobic and go.

    • @nurianimates
      @nurianimates 4 года назад +10

      You’re welcome! -Foundational Black American

    • @ceyciemateo9411
      @ceyciemateo9411 4 года назад +9

      Don John
      Great for you all. Shoutout to the people who didn’t leave their country ever and instead fought back , that takes real courage

    • @xviiibestarot
      @xviiibestarot 4 года назад +6

      Im grateful to my Mother who brought me to the US alone at 5. She was in her young 20s. How crazy is it to take your baby from Jamaica to NH then NC. Crazy climate changes

  • @sidmichael1158
    @sidmichael1158 4 года назад +4753

    Studied four years then quit her job. Studied for a 3 months then find her dream job. That right there is what's wrong with the educational system.

    • @sb_dunk
      @sb_dunk 4 года назад +289

      Why's that a problem with the education system? She could have studied computer science if she knew she wanted to do that at the time.

    • @lloydhardy574
      @lloydhardy574 4 года назад +12

      Facts

    • @shantricejones5830
      @shantricejones5830 4 года назад +419

      @@sb_dunk he parents said doctor lawyer disgrace. She studied political science for law school but hated it. Her parents paid for education. Her problem was pleasing her parents.

    • @sb_dunk
      @sb_dunk 4 года назад +136

      @@shantricejones5830 Yep, that's a problem with societal culture across the world rather than the education system.

    • @shantricejones5830
      @shantricejones5830 4 года назад +4

      @@sb_dunk that's true

  • @arnoldgarcia2379
    @arnoldgarcia2379 3 года назад +149

    she's such a smart girl, I got sad when she said she was stop from entering her workplace because they thought she didnt work in that building, Like WTF it's 2020 give me a break!!!

    • @nefertitifearless8013
      @nefertitifearless8013 3 года назад +14

      It’s sad that she’s only identified by her skin color. Wtf is wrong with people?

    • @RobertMorgan
      @RobertMorgan 3 года назад +1

      My question is, why does she work in a building?
      If she was actually smart, she could do software engineering anywhere, via remote. She could have a 4 bedroom brick home in a gated community here in the Midwest, with acres of land, for a fraction of what she pays in rent, and do the exact same job remotely.
      Every software engineer I currently know, several, all work from home. Covid made office buildings obsolete.

    • @ACommeAnita
      @ACommeAnita 3 года назад +14

      @@RobertMorgan This video was made before the pandemic. *face palm*

    • @pooblock4092
      @pooblock4092 3 года назад

      @@ACommeAnita LOOOOL

    • @skyediver
      @skyediver 2 года назад +3

      @@RobertMorgan "If she was actually smart"... uhh, did you actually watch what she's accomplished? Pretty safe to say, "she's smart". Geeeeezzz....

  • @jg5272
    @jg5272 3 года назад +43

    As a Hispanic women I love love hearing stories like this! Women like you inspire other women to keep growing in our education ❤️

  • @Andolem
    @Andolem 4 года назад +2113

    “”What doesn’t get measured doesn’t get managed”” beautiful

    • @King_SPL
      @King_SPL 3 года назад +5

      That’s like the most common sense thing I’ve ever heard in my life, hardly “beautiful”

    • @Chonchey
      @Chonchey 3 года назад

      Haha ^ king is right 😂

    • @FNDMA
      @FNDMA 3 года назад +2

      That phrase is not hers. Ask google

    • @Beekeeper8011
      @Beekeeper8011 3 года назад +2

      @@King_SPL far from common sense.

    • @s.w.4203
      @s.w.4203 3 года назад +2

      I had to replay that a few times to write that phrase down, INDEED!!

  • @Nextlevelnesha
    @Nextlevelnesha 4 года назад +3472

    As an HR professional, hearing her say she gets stopped while trying to enter her work building makes me cringe. I hope there's an educational training in program because that's sad.

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1 4 года назад +383

      Yeah it was so cringe, and it was the same security guard over and over again 💀

    • @TJBolajoko
      @TJBolajoko 4 года назад +95

      @@Bukola1 sorry you have to deal with that crap. Hopefully your have a support system that helps you cope with a lot of those daily micro aggressions.

    • @YoungLadyInRed
      @YoungLadyInRed 4 года назад +81

      The Come Up Seriously? I’m sorry you have to experience that. Add going to work to the list of things we can’t do while black without being harassed. 🙄. New subbie btw.

    • @brazaq1
      @brazaq1 4 года назад +18

      I'm also an ethnic minority (female). In our building, everyone gets stopped by security so on this occasion I expect it's just company security protocol...

    • @terriesmith8219
      @terriesmith8219 4 года назад +10

      Not saying it's right but there aren't many Black women in tech, she even stated it, and it's understandable the guard would stop her before entering if he doesn't know she works there.
      I'm not saying it's right but it's understandable.
      When I go to Eastern Europe, i get stop all the time and it's not because of racism it's because there aren't many foreigners like me in that area.

  • @Gross126
    @Gross126 3 года назад +96

    She didn’t even major in engineering!!! She’s so smart! Didn’t waste time or money going back to school.

    • @King_SPL
      @King_SPL 3 года назад +11

      Makes zero sense how she got the job compared to other candidates who actually specialized in it, unless something is being lied about here (likely)

    • @tintocherian7715
      @tintocherian7715 3 года назад +30

      @@King_SPLshe mentioned that she took computer science classes in college and then after quitting her first job out of college she took a sabbatical in order to become better at coding and was part of a program for people looking to do the same. It doesnt matter whether you actually have a degree in Computer Science, employers just care about whether you have the skills to do the job

    • @colorfulcodes
      @colorfulcodes 3 года назад +29

      @@King_SPL there's literally a huge industry of people in tech. Only 36% of the tech industry has a CS degree. The majority are self taught or had other Stem majors. Please research.

    • @mikochild2
      @mikochild2 3 года назад +6

      @@colorfulcodes I'm the same way. I'm also a developer in fin tech, though making way less than her. I was a music major, but all of my experience since then has been tech related and lead to where I am now.

    • @holliaaurora
      @holliaaurora 3 года назад +4

      @@King_SPL My best friend’s husband had a degree in engineering and mathematics, but is a programmer for his career. It’s not impossible. Education and life experience can be weighed the same in the work place and that’s a good thing.

  • @trevorm3680
    @trevorm3680 3 года назад +385

    This woman does literally everything and is only 25. Should I be depressed or motivated at 31? T_T

    • @aphr0d
      @aphr0d 3 года назад +67

      Motivated! You are capable of living a beautiful life!

    • @vlay8371
      @vlay8371 3 года назад +67

      Motivated. Inspiration not aspiration. People often compare another person's achievements by a certain time to their but you have to understand that everyone is different and every person's environment and upbringing is a massive factor into a person's life and the things they can achieve.
      You can look to someone to be motivated and inspired by them but you shouldn't look to someone to aspire to be them. Also never mind age or when you get started. The best time to start was yesterday the second best time is now.

    • @aphr0d
      @aphr0d 3 года назад

      @@vlay8371 beautifully said! I especially like how you ended your comment :) ♡

    • @Aced_Dreamer
      @Aced_Dreamer 3 года назад +1

      @@vlay8371 Your comment is inspiring, thank you

    • @trevorm3680
      @trevorm3680 3 года назад +1

      @@vlay8371 Totally agree. I choose motivated!

  • @chrishewittpiano
    @chrishewittpiano 4 года назад +825

    Wow! She saves $7,625 a month? That's a whopping $91,500! That's absolutely astounding. She rocks!

    • @LMAO2510
      @LMAO2510 4 года назад +18

      Hows that outstanding when she earns so much ?

    • @jimmyjay689
      @jimmyjay689 4 года назад +23

      She has no kids and lives with roommates...do the math...

    • @jimmyjay689
      @jimmyjay689 4 года назад +6

      @@LMAO2510 we gonna sound like haters...but only so much money 1 person can spend

    • @imranhisham908
      @imranhisham908 4 года назад +12

      I can save more if I had her allegedly 210k per year.

    • @Eli7PM
      @Eli7PM 4 года назад +27

      @@jimmyjay689 she lives in NY and doesn't have kids so she's probably paying over 70k in income tax which leaves her with 140k and if she saves 91k approx then that's something amazing

  • @loganmarquis7378
    @loganmarquis7378 4 года назад +1860

    An immigrant African woman making her way in NYC is very inspirational, love this.

    • @H1TMANactual
      @H1TMANactual 4 года назад +33

      What about her accent makes you think she's an immigrant? She's American. Her parents are the immigrants.

    • @ryanortiz5553
      @ryanortiz5553 4 года назад +7

      There are many like her making it big in NYC.

    • @olawaleolatunde7600
      @olawaleolatunde7600 4 года назад +88

      medium.com/@tarunjohn she literally said it in the video, 1:33

    • @H1TMANactual
      @H1TMANactual 4 года назад +4

      @@olawaleolatunde7600
      Yeah she left at 6. So she's been here almost her whole life.

    • @thebizz9512
      @thebizz9512 4 года назад +114

      medium.com/@tarunjohn so.. she’s still an immigrant. Nothing wrong with that.

  • @jeromekone7160
    @jeromekone7160 3 года назад +31

    This woman motivates me. As an immigrant am struggling to improve my English and draw my path to reach the American Dream. If you did it in 3 months, that's means that I can. Thanks for sharing you path.

  • @ovo5686
    @ovo5686 3 года назад +39

    When I saw she donates to Black Girls Code, I instantly had respect because IVE BEEN ATTENDING FOR 4 YEARS NOW even though I’m not black I’m Mexican, it’s a very welcoming place to anyone but mainly there are African americas there but I got to have such a wonderful experience there and met so many friends there. Coolest experience I met a girl there whose eye color changed depending on the lighting 🙃 it was CRAZY anyways that place is amazing y’all should go if u can.

  • @StarRoseAngelic
    @StarRoseAngelic 4 года назад +1367

    "You can either be a doctor, a laywer, or a disgrace"
    As a fellow West African that really hit home 🙃🙃🙃

    • @Lillie839
      @Lillie839 4 года назад +17

      As a fellow African I can relate too

    • @godsfavoursunday9933
      @godsfavoursunday9933 4 года назад +3

      Why did I feel that

    • @sameers1653
      @sameers1653 4 года назад +33

      Indian parents say: "doctor, engineer, or failure" 😅

    • @IcECreAm-sv2qv
      @IcECreAm-sv2qv 4 года назад +6

      Isn’t that stereotype also for asian people too

    • @BXC1990
      @BXC1990 4 года назад

      What about engineering :(

  • @pirtl_turtl
    @pirtl_turtl 4 года назад +1164

    One thing I love about this girl is that she showed that it's never too late for anything.
    She had a degree in PolySci and was working to be a lawyer and ended up not liking it and switched to a field she actually enjoyed. I feel like some people think they are stuck with their decisions and sometimes that's not always the case.

    • @cyronixed
      @cyronixed 4 года назад +7

      Do you think a white male person with polysci background literally no comp sci experience would land a job of 210k?

    • @xOmniCloudx
      @xOmniCloudx 4 года назад +59

      @@cyronixed As someone in this field, they are most likely to actually. But that's not a lot in the software engineering world anyway. It's good but far from amazing. Top tier people are making over twice that and up to the millions a year.

    • @onegreenenvy
      @onegreenenvy 3 года назад +16

      It’s never too late? She’s 25.

    • @jaimeojeda4780
      @jaimeojeda4780 3 года назад +36

      @@cyronixed what does race have to do with this? I'm pretty sure white people make up a majority of the tech industry.

    • @buffycatnip
      @buffycatnip 3 года назад +8

      same here, i'll be 24 when I go going back to school next year to pursue something else because i'm very unhappy with my current career. 2nd time going to college

  • @pujanadhikari547
    @pujanadhikari547 4 года назад +934

    No one noticed one thing
    "Her parents took the burden of educating her with their money"
    That's the key here.
    Why americans get neck high in debt is because their parents leave them on their own.
    It gives you to start fresh out of college if you are debt free,college debt is the worst western culture,its the duty as a parent to give their children free education.

    • @Loostyc
      @Loostyc 3 года назад +224

      It isn't western culture. It's American.

    • @jas-chi
      @jas-chi 3 года назад +163

      If a parent has the opportunity to pay for a child's education, they should definitely do it. However, the astronomical price of tuition makes it nearly impossible for the average couple to pay for their child's education. As a person raised by a single mother, I don't consider it her duty to pay for my tuition because it just isn't possible. That's why so many Americans continue in the cycle of poverty and find it so hard to climb out.

    • @Shilalabula
      @Shilalabula 3 года назад +46

      Imagine if your parents has 3-4 kids, it is even higher burden for ur parents.

    • @graup1309
      @graup1309 3 года назад +24

      I'd argue it's the high tuition fees, but who am I to say *laughs in paying 0€ for tuition*

    • @rujotheone
      @rujotheone 3 года назад +40

      @@Shilalabula in my culture, the parents pay for the first born and then when he/she starts working she supplements the tuition of the second and so forth.

  • @natalielogan9724
    @natalielogan9724 3 года назад +50

    This video is worthy of a "Love" button

  • @tarzan12345
    @tarzan12345 4 года назад +3189

    when I saw a young black person saying she's a software engineer making over 200K, I pretty much knew that's a Nigerian immigrant or daughter of ones. They are one of the most successful groups of immigrants in this country, highly educated with high incomes.

    • @tingjiang5387
      @tingjiang5387 4 года назад +56

      tarzan12345 also Ethiopian

    • @sandyanderson5698
      @sandyanderson5698 4 года назад +143

      what evidence you have that black Americans are not software engineers? because i have a lot that they are and by the way Nigerians that come here 42 are already educated in their home country and a significant portion live below the poverty line.

    • @sammieolat
      @sammieolat 4 года назад +271

      @@sandyanderson5698 no need to be angry

    • @joberry877
      @joberry877 4 года назад +354

      @@sammieolat She doesn't sound angry to me, she simply stated a fact. Ppl always want to down play successful Black Americans, perhaps shes just not here for that

    • @cardion411
      @cardion411 4 года назад +146

      joberry877, THAT PART! It is almost like she wanted to come off as Black Americans simply CAN'T be that.

  • @shamickawhite9524
    @shamickawhite9524 4 года назад +2002

    She’s the definition of black girl magic 🙏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾👏🏾

    • @jenniferbullett7254
      @jenniferbullett7254 4 года назад +12

      Yes, most definitely.

    • @Diamond-xl1vs
      @Diamond-xl1vs 4 года назад +11

      ihateblackbitches her race is black

    • @user-is3tn2hp1f
      @user-is3tn2hp1f 4 года назад +3

      ihateblackbitches ..???

    • @geo745don
      @geo745don 4 года назад +1

      @Bryce Czirr
      Facts she'll be another Halle Berry , supporting deadbeats

    • @Angela-qz3lr
      @Angela-qz3lr 4 года назад +16

      ihateblackbitches Nigerian is her ethnicity and black is her race. Those are 2 different things. Plus that’s like saying I’m American not black.

  • @chrissalandra7000
    @chrissalandra7000 3 года назад +30

    Wow! This women is the definition of a role model! Younger generation, take notes

  • @VibingTech
    @VibingTech 3 года назад +9

    Africa and the world is proud of you, you have inspired your peers, am also a final year software engineering student here in Russia 🇷🇺 but am focusing on software product management rather than its development hope to get a job after graduation 🎓.

  • @cardion411
    @cardion411 4 года назад +778

    Without a doubt, one of the best episodes I have seen on this series. She is so humble, and realizes clearly the opportunity she has. Powerful

    • @lijie6431
      @lijie6431 4 года назад +18

      This is why immigrants work so hard. They know how bad it is back home.

  • @luvtotrade2009
    @luvtotrade2009 4 года назад +1651

    $7,625 into savings = Graham smiling ear to ear while drinking his 10 cent coffee

  • @somehandleonyoutube
    @somehandleonyoutube 3 года назад +21

    I love her! She seems so humble and grounded, she deserves all the best things!

  • @anthonyriojas8267
    @anthonyriojas8267 4 года назад +24

    Also so dope to see videos featuring women in tech. Particularly women of color in tech.

  • @SekaiiWorld2121
    @SekaiiWorld2121 4 года назад +753

    I'm also a black female software engineer and a child of African immigrants! I relate SO MUCH to you, thank you for sharing this!

  • @njper123
    @njper123 4 года назад +1104

    “What doesn’t get measured, doesn’t get managed”
    Thank you girl. I’m bad at that
    And ps - your parents are absolute legends.

    • @swiftsifu
      @swiftsifu 4 года назад +7

      I paused the video when she sad this and wrote it down.

    • @nameless592
      @nameless592 4 года назад

      AceOfSpades yup am so stealing that. A great thing to live by.

  • @InspiredAlways11
    @InspiredAlways11 3 года назад +9

    I’m so happy for Bukola! It’s great to see black women winning in STEM, both professionally and financially, despite being the minority in their fields and companies! Keep on shining Bukola!

  • @floop2935
    @floop2935 3 года назад +89

    Most 30 year olds don’t even make half that 😳 and her donating my biweekly paycheck to charity ? RESPECT ✊

    • @itsDjjayy
      @itsDjjayy 3 года назад

      But for how long does the donation go on for

    • @j.2966
      @j.2966 3 года назад +3

      @@itsDjjayy where’s your donations

    • @itsDjjayy
      @itsDjjayy 3 года назад

      @@j.2966 donation 4 what

    • @KevinQ1989
      @KevinQ1989 3 года назад +3

      Only 10% of Americans of all ages make 100k+ a year and only 3.7% make 200k+.

  • @yvyb.367
    @yvyb.367 4 года назад +2790

    She's smart, attractive, kind and successful, yet she gets stopped by security guards for entering her workplace?? Shocking and sad

    • @neretilderem7029
      @neretilderem7029 4 года назад +79

      Yeah, how sad, a security guard doing his job. But it must be because MAH RACIZZZM!

    • @charliej766
      @charliej766 4 года назад +655

      @@neretilderem7029 If the security guard stops EVERYONE, he is doing his job, but if he ONLY stops the black woman, he's being racist.

    • @LangBellsChannel
      @LangBellsChannel 4 года назад +88

      @@charliej766 Thank you!!👏👏👏

    • @Slopdoggy
      @Slopdoggy 4 года назад +13

      Charlie J he definitely doesn’t only stop black women.

    • @educate3d
      @educate3d 4 года назад +30

      Charlie J if you work in a building that has security it’s common practice. Everything isint racism. You people are small minded

  • @rukiaxo7746
    @rukiaxo7746 4 года назад +2109

    “You could either be a doctor a lawyer or a disgrace” every African house hold’s motto 😂😭

    • @ilikejolofrice3835
      @ilikejolofrice3835 4 года назад +9

      Rukia Xo exactly I second that

    • @luceeps
      @luceeps 4 года назад +10

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 I felt that

    • @taymakhalfeoui5852
      @taymakhalfeoui5852 4 года назад +5

      Facts

    • @Angela-qz3lr
      @Angela-qz3lr 4 года назад +74

      Exactly. I told my parents I wanted to be an actress and they nearly choked, but I’m still gonna do it whether they like it or not. I already do plays and musicals, so I do have experience acting and I love it. It’s my happy place

    • @clivedesilva2041
      @clivedesilva2041 4 года назад +40

      It's a good motto. Tried & tested. Safe and strong. But this is the reason why black and asian people do not invent anything. Too busy being doctors, lawyers or whatever. Real entrepreneurship is about having an idea, investing in it and taking risks, not having letters after your name and earning a steady salary. But I see why parents would want status for their kids. If you spent all your savings emigrating your family to another country, the last thing you want them to do is say they have a really brilliant business idea that could earn millions, but then at the same time could also live them destitute if they fail. Whereas as an employee, you can easily pick up another job if whoever you work for, goes bankrupt.

  • @PrepperFam6408
    @PrepperFam6408 3 года назад +8

    What a role model she is! WOW!!! She's "self-made" and doesn't let anything get in her way. We need millions more like her!!!

  • @expertonmyself
    @expertonmyself Год назад +3

    “….what doesn’t get measured, doesn’t get managed.” That’s a confirming word for something I’ve been thinking about for the past month.

  • @drewconway7135
    @drewconway7135 4 года назад +988

    She’s crushing it. Good for her!

    • @girlsdrinkfeck
      @girlsdrinkfeck 4 года назад

      black privileged girl thats why

    • @keepingcool7510
      @keepingcool7510 4 года назад +12

      girlsdrinkfeck how?? She worked hard and that got her places. She studied hard in high school, went to Columbia which is an Ivy League and gave her many opportunities and works hard at her job. None of her is accomplishments are a privilege she worked hard for each. And truly she’s crushing it.

    • @girlsdrinkfeck
      @girlsdrinkfeck 4 года назад

      @@carolinewn same way people say white privledge

    • @girlsdrinkfeck
      @girlsdrinkfeck 4 года назад

      @@keepingcool7510 I said it because of all the idiots that say white privledge to successful whites

    • @ejiro241
      @ejiro241 4 года назад +1

      @@keepingcool7510 I get your point. However there are people who have worked really hard too and are still not where they should be. But Yea you are right though.

  • @JadeLively
    @JadeLively 4 года назад +758

    She has a channel call “The Come Up,” where she shares the process of how she changed career paths to end up as a software engineer! Truly helpful and inspiring! I’m so happy she got such an opportunity to be heard!

    • @bomber227
      @bomber227 4 года назад +5

      Yes! I thought she looked and sounded familiar.

    • @nela5250
      @nela5250 4 года назад +2

      Exactly what I was looking for! Thanks

    • @kevinortizgomez2775
      @kevinortizgomez2775 4 года назад +1

      Jade Lively thank you for sharing

    • @Martina_E
      @Martina_E 4 года назад +1

      I’m going to check it out & just subscribed!

    • @saraa8264
      @saraa8264 4 года назад +1

      Thankyou for the info!

  • @donnaroberts4513
    @donnaroberts4513 3 года назад +32

    More Black young college students needs to pursue IT that is where the salary is growing.

    • @akos5063
      @akos5063 3 года назад +3

      fun fact: its not always about money, or race

    • @dowanelawrence1136
      @dowanelawrence1136 3 года назад +3

      Yes , but based on my understanding , that takes brains.

    • @MB-nb7yq
      @MB-nb7yq 3 года назад +2

      @@akos5063 shut up. Leave black people alone. Why is it wrong for us to encourage each other to diversify our career paths or choices?
      It wouldn’t need to be about race if white people never made race such a big deal.

    • @Lewdacris916
      @Lewdacris916 2 года назад +2

      @@MB-nb7yq nobody said it was wrong, again blaming your cultural short comings on white people lol

    • @MB-nb7yq
      @MB-nb7yq 2 года назад

      @@Lewdacris916
      Everyone makes a big deal every time black people put each other on or do for self. People tell us to stop waiting for other races to help us. We do that, then everyone gets offended. So while no one says the actual words “it’s wrong”, the comments and backlash are enough. Some black woman was getting cancelled in 2019 for saying she wanted her business to get more exposure to empower black kids to get into business and white people were all in the comments and giving her bad reviews saying white kids need empowering too or she’s reverse racist. She didn’t even mention white people. When haven’t white kids gotten positive representation? Then a black wo man reaches her community positively it offends people. So yeah as I said before. White people made this world about race and that’s how it is. So yeah we’re going to keep pointing out that we love seeing BLACK people doing well or the fact we want to reach out to BLACK people.

  • @Chamsiee
    @Chamsiee 2 года назад +5

    This is thanks to her and this video that I discovered all the job opportunities that we can have when we work in the tech industry. She really inspired me especially because I'm black a black woman that is retraining from communication to Web dev. And few days ago I was accepted to a school to start a formation. I'm very happy that I watched this video!

  • @AN-cy7xm
    @AN-cy7xm 4 года назад +1429

    Here she is guys, the perfect woman. Seriously.

    • @elchucofried5683
      @elchucofried5683 4 года назад +45

      For real. I will wife someone like that in a heartbeat

    • @demilevine2458
      @demilevine2458 4 года назад +36

      So beautiful too

    • @VeritableVagabond
      @VeritableVagabond 4 года назад +27

      Idk bruh... she seems well put together but I still dont know much about her forreal other than she's drippin and presents herself well.

    • @fmo1868
      @fmo1868 4 года назад +12

      I'm sure she's with the perfect man for her. She is definitely up there.

    • @Klarsonium
      @Klarsonium 4 года назад +7

      Totally. What a kind soul. Such a lovely person, so smart and beautiful. Amazing ❤️

  • @Coolbabymama
    @Coolbabymama 4 года назад +3601

    When she said they stop her sometimes as she enters work, that hit home for me. I’m not Black. I’m Middle Eastern and I’ve also had that happen at work and even at my own condo building. It’s a horrible feeling. I’m sorry she goes through that. She is an actual Queen💗

    • @richieyh3211
      @richieyh3211 4 года назад +146

      So are you, you're a Queen as well. And I'm sorry it happens to you too. It's horrible and shouldn't happen at all. Peace and Love.

    • @hak4647
      @hak4647 3 года назад +18

      bbb sss no it does

    • @RomanZolanski123
      @RomanZolanski123 3 года назад +18

      bbb sss uh so... you still gave no good reason as to why she would be stopped more than the average perso.

    • @bonitab6498
      @bonitab6498 3 года назад +11

      Maybe a queen, but not a boss. Why hasn't she gotten her company involved in the harassment she experiences by building security?

    • @larryp3641
      @larryp3641 3 года назад +1

      That's great. What benefits have you had for being black from the government

  • @MercedesVirgo
    @MercedesVirgo 3 года назад +10

    She’s definitely an inspiration and she’s generous with her money. Amazing!

  • @noakruppa8838
    @noakruppa8838 3 года назад +25

    I loved seeing someone with a good job and 6 figure salary live below their means. I am doing the same, and it's so rare amongst our generation, it's like everyone who's getting a decent salary is just getting into more debt. Very inspiring, loved her!

  • @bdrury73
    @bdrury73 4 года назад +1781

    That’s really sad that she gets stopped in her building because they don’t think she works there! 😓

    • @garyoakham9723
      @garyoakham9723 4 года назад +7

      Less Confused this is New York the liberal land of progress. She’s lying

    • @phillyxxx
      @phillyxxx 4 года назад +73

      More importantly to take from her is how she doesn't let those little bad incidences define her existence or day.
      She mentions it in passing and leaves it where it is.
      She does not make that the one thing she cries about everyday. And this is why I love us Nigerian-Americans. Our FOCUS.

    • @frogery
      @frogery 4 года назад +100

      @@garyoakham9723 she's not lying. you have a very naive view of "liberal" cities.

    • @Thepokedek
      @Thepokedek 4 года назад +15

      It's not, if you've actually gotten a chance to see what's like in a IT company most of it it's a bunch of middle aged ugly, fat men.
      One of the things that pushed me away from it after i graduated. I just didn't feel comfortable around such group of people. Yeah they make money but you can make money of other things too and be happy with your environment it's not like there's only one job in the world.

    • @Thepokedek
      @Thepokedek 4 года назад +6

      @Less Confused you got it all wrong for this case and it's sad that the first thing that came to your mind is racism, majority of people that work in such companies are middle aged guys, nerds, losers sonthe fact that they think she does work there really is a compliment.

  • @thebrokecode2790
    @thebrokecode2790 4 года назад +2744

    “You could only be a doctor, a lawyer, or a disgrace”....Only Nigerians would understand this😭😭🇳🇬🇳🇬

  • @irenevera8756
    @irenevera8756 3 года назад +3

    Gosh this made me so emotional because I can relate on different levels. Really loved this!

  • @DredW3TEC
    @DredW3TEC 3 года назад +107

    "I decided to take a sabbatical" sounds so much better than "My job sucked so I quit." :)

    • @israeliana
      @israeliana 3 года назад +16

      She was learning during her time off so it is a sabbatical because growth ensued and she had a goal.

  • @JessicaHicks
    @JessicaHicks 4 года назад +1158

    I’m doing something wrong in life. I wish life was a game that you could just start over when you realize you’ve messed up.
    Edit: Wow! Thank you everyone for the nice and uplifting comments! I’ve received so many kind words from you all. I really appreciate it and have a new perspective on this. Thanks again. Much love 💖.

    • @TiaraWordsfromGod
      @TiaraWordsfromGod 4 года назад +121

      You can!
      God restores time, friend. Remember that.
      God bless you and Jesus loves you! May your future shine.
      - You've got this! #BeSaved 😁

    • @r.a5765
      @r.a5765 4 года назад +121

      You can. Every day is an opportunity to start afresh. Only you are holding yourself back.

    • @kaydreams6051
      @kaydreams6051 4 года назад +46

      If you don't have kids its easier to start over

    • @r.a5765
      @r.a5765 4 года назад +40

      @@kaydreams6051 Easier yes but not impossible. Don't argue for your limitations.

    • @kaydreams6051
      @kaydreams6051 4 года назад +16

      @@r.a5765 I don't have any kids because I don't want limitations.

  • @omegaboostZ
    @omegaboostZ 4 года назад +358

    That salary starting at that age, you're pretty much set for life.

    • @krislatoya7556
      @krislatoya7556 4 года назад +15

      Especially if managed well/handled smartly 👍

    • @rydenseasalt9716
      @rydenseasalt9716 4 года назад +15

      That girl was raised right. If she made nothing she'd still be successful. Her values did it all, regardless of the salary and age.

    • @ayushanand2901
      @ayushanand2901 4 года назад +1

      @@rydenseasalt9716 so true

    • @user-yb6tk1ru6x
      @user-yb6tk1ru6x 4 года назад +1

      I work in banking in the UK and Directors don't even get that much... No idea fintech developers were on so much.

  • @TDOTEMPIRE
    @TDOTEMPIRE 3 года назад +52

    When she said Jollof rice, the subtitles said ‘chilli fries’. 😂

  • @PeaceLoveRainbows
    @PeaceLoveRainbows 3 года назад

    My hero! She’s awesome. Shared this video during homeschool with my kids today :)

  • @GlamGoddes101
    @GlamGoddes101 4 года назад +584

    Her path to engineering is so different, love that

    • @iriemonmon
      @iriemonmon 4 года назад +28

      Not really. A cool phenomenon in the tech space is that a lot of people are switching from non-tech to engineering and other fields to bring their unique perspectives.

    • @YoungLadyInRed
      @YoungLadyInRed 4 года назад +3

      That was interesting to me too.

    • @blinks39
      @blinks39 4 года назад +3

      Where did she say she did her three months engineering ? I could not here her right.

    • @johnlee2238
      @johnlee2238 4 года назад +2

      @@blinks39 recurse center

    • @blinks39
      @blinks39 4 года назад

      @@johnlee2238 Thank you

  • @duffman102
    @duffman102 4 года назад +2617

    As a black male software engineer, I completely get it. I was the only black engineer in my office.

    • @yxiiiu
      @yxiiiu 4 года назад +155

      I’m the only black, female software engineering major at my midsized college 😅 hopefully i will meet someone like me when i get a full time job because this is ridiculous

    • @milwaukeeice2016
      @milwaukeeice2016 4 года назад +44

      yxiiu you probably will, but development is mostly white guys, East/south Asian guys, and East/south Asian women. The demographics are pretty skewed

    • @neverrip6809
      @neverrip6809 4 года назад +17

      As a white male person I get it too... now show me some ID Mr Duffman... I don't think u're really him.

    • @lilypad5017
      @lilypad5017 4 года назад +2

      At least you are not the only man

    • @mariaarriola6329
      @mariaarriola6329 4 года назад

      Congrats 😍😎

  • @Chuubie
    @Chuubie 3 года назад +24

    200K & roommates! Ok there’s definitely a savings plan in action here
    Love her story and drive!!

    • @itsDjjayy
      @itsDjjayy 2 года назад

      Or buy a home and live remote

  • @ChrissyTooPrissy
    @ChrissyTooPrissy 3 года назад +4

    Definitely one of the more inspirational videos I've watched on here; it definitely hits close to home because she looks like me AND like my job, I'm frequently asked, are you the doctor? Bukola, your work ethic is amazing! Continue to shine and bask in your humility

  • @35Ryma
    @35Ryma 4 года назад +1767

    $ 7k a month savings? That’s more then my monthly income 😭

    • @alessandromarino1874
      @alessandromarino1874 4 года назад +126

      That's more than my yearly income

    • @NiaMSnow
      @NiaMSnow 4 года назад +35

      @Kajon Pompey at 5:25 she explains!!!

    • @bgcm1995
      @bgcm1995 4 года назад +5

      I make that in 3 months lmao

    • @JeremicLazar
      @JeremicLazar 4 года назад +24

      That's 7 times more that my monthly earnings in Serbia, and I'm still the "lucky one" in this country. Not to mention that as a freelancer I work a lot for foreign companies and clients, but they usually say "you're Serbian, your people are cheap . We don't want to pay you more than 5 times less that we would pay someone in our country for the same job". Guess there are white people who are way more undervalued than a black woman in America is. Yet I'm still being called racist when I say that in my country it doesn't matter if you are white or black, or a woman or a man. It's only impoetant if you are from a rich family or if you are a criminal working closely with the government officials. 🙄 I'm happy for her, but she just proved that the whole "white supremacy around the world" narrative null and void.

    • @twincherry4958
      @twincherry4958 4 года назад

      @Kajon Pompey what's your breakdown

  • @ssagsavior
    @ssagsavior 4 года назад +397

    “What doesn’t get measured doesn’t get managed” Never heard this phrase before but I’m using it from now on in everything that I do. I really needed that.

    • @KimNguyen-jk5yr
      @KimNguyen-jk5yr 4 года назад +2

      Peter Drucker is the management expert, came from him.

  • @israeliana
    @israeliana 3 года назад +3

    This is so encouraging. I love this.

  • @wenxuanzhang3545
    @wenxuanzhang3545 3 года назад +8

    She is so energetic, smart, and charming. Proud of her achievement and life attitude.

  • @tvdavis
    @tvdavis 4 года назад +597

    Wow! She donates to charities like Black Girls Code AND she is into the F.I.R.E. movement? I ran to her channel! What an inspiration! 👏🏾❤️👍🏾

    • @safidia6444
      @safidia6444 4 года назад +2

      Hi, what is her channel please thx.

    • @sexymonster7667
      @sexymonster7667 4 года назад +1

      Safi Dia it’s call the come up

    • @deeslifestyleloves
      @deeslifestyleloves 4 года назад

      What's her channel

    • @tvdavis
      @tvdavis 4 года назад +2

      Her channel is called “The Come Up” ruclips.net/channel/UC-bFgwL_kFKLZA60AiB-CCQ

  • @sarahgordino6695
    @sarahgordino6695 3 года назад +6

    This girl is fantastic. Love to see black women out there doing well.

  • @lolstephsis
    @lolstephsis 3 года назад +9

    This is such an inspirational video. She made a lot of great choices in her life and looks like she continues to work hard and make smart choices. I wish I could be like that too!

  • @blahblahblahfunny
    @blahblahblahfunny 4 года назад +492

    7.6k/month into savings 😮 She'll be able to retire before 40 at her rate. Good on her! 💪

    • @blahblahblahfunny
      @blahblahblahfunny 4 года назад +71

      can I also add that she's GORGEOUS!! 😍

    • @seriousceez
      @seriousceez 4 года назад +35

      The way corona virus is going hmmm I have a feeling we will all retire early

    • @DraiAKA
      @DraiAKA 4 года назад

      Has he analyzed this episode?

    • @perfectbeat
      @perfectbeat 4 года назад +1

      @@seriousceez lol

  • @jirawatliw180
    @jirawatliw180 4 года назад +428

    She is so classy and elegant.

  • @4our31
    @4our31 3 года назад +120

    Funny how the career that affords her that life she didn’t even go to traditional school for. She took a free 3 month course. And I’m being told school isn’t a waste of time. Not to say completing her education hasn’t or won’t help her at all.

    • @tonyaastarilng5220
      @tonyaastarilng5220 3 года назад +3

      Fr like hmmmmm, is the school system trying to pull a fast one? XD

    • @MiniM69
      @MiniM69 3 года назад +77

      She’s in computer science where a degree isn’t mandatory but I’m certain her degree from an Ivy helped get her in the room. Don’t be naive.

    • @mishael7863
      @mishael7863 3 года назад +6

      @@MiniM69 no joke tho fintech is a lot more strict when it comes to degree. I'm really wondering how she got job and what she does there.

    • @elias8294
      @elias8294 3 года назад +6

      @@mishael7863 because she's a woman, the tech industry always is easier on female hires

    • @sjor3569
      @sjor3569 3 года назад +38

      @@elias8294 yea not always, I’m sure her Ivy league degree is what got her in the door. I’m a black woman in tech and most places aren’t hiring women with a 3 month certificate and paying them 6 figures.

  • @williamwallace410
    @williamwallace410 3 года назад +7

    Just goes to show that the best contribution one can make to society is to be a good spouse and parent. It’s a credit to her parents.

  • @littlegeo1
    @littlegeo1 4 года назад +234

    Hands down, my favorite Millennial Money so far. She is so humble and responsible (especially for her age) and she is a great role model for young women, especially young women of color. Get it girl! 💪

    • @Cortesevasive
      @Cortesevasive 4 года назад

      if u see colour u racist

    • @alohaazzie8462
      @alohaazzie8462 4 года назад +4

      C- if you don’t you’re stupid and delusional

    • @tosinojo7310
      @tosinojo7310 4 года назад +1

      @@Cortesevasive lol cute

    • @CrownofGod
      @CrownofGod 4 года назад +1

      @@Cortesevasive Alaye that's your own

  • @mogarba1463
    @mogarba1463 4 года назад +654

    This is what the “American Dream” looks like. It does not always have to be earning millions but having a good life and being successful 🔥

    • @RocknRollDina
      @RocknRollDina 4 года назад +2

      Its doing better than your parents

    • @nafeesahassan5469
      @nafeesahassan5469 4 года назад +2

      She had good parents

    • @drchtct
      @drchtct 4 года назад +16

      "it does not have to be earning millions" dude she makes 210K a year after a 4 month study? How do you do that? In Europe you study 5 years to start with 40-50k and are lucky to be above 100k with 35

    • @jdlc903
      @jdlc903 4 года назад +7

      Eh? $200,000 is amazing money,she'll be a millionaire soon enough

    • @chegu613
      @chegu613 4 года назад +2

      @@drchtct I'm from Europe too (Southern Germany), nobody here makes over 200k. Few people make over 100k. 30-40k for a single person makes for a solid middle class living situation. I live in a HCOL area. I sometimes feel like American salaries are just exorbitantly high?

  • @Lealeoco
    @Lealeoco 3 года назад +3

    I love this video and I’m sorry that you experienced being stopped in your own building. 😔 you definitely inspire me, I’m a software engineer as well. So it’s great to see this.

  • @candicecarpenter4316
    @candicecarpenter4316 3 года назад +2

    I loved everything about this video and her vibe. She’s going to do big things in her life.

  • @roseaph
    @roseaph 4 года назад +308

    she is SO SO cool. Like actually so cool. She’s only 25 and has all of her life together- so inspiring!!!

    • @thislifetv
      @thislifetv 4 года назад +9

      Ayye I don’t want to be THAT guy but just bcuz you have your FINANCES together doesn’t mean you have everything together...

    • @Gabrosoft
      @Gabrosoft 4 года назад +6

      THisLIFE by MrDaleOG you’re that guy.

    • @Canleaf08
      @Canleaf08 4 года назад +1

      Do not compare yourself with others.

    • @thislifetv
      @thislifetv 4 года назад +2

      Gabs juu right. Somebody had to be it 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @leelsbless
    @leelsbless 4 года назад +443

    Another black woman in tech!! Very inspirational. I’ll have to check out her RUclips channel

    • @Bukola1
      @Bukola1 4 года назад +17

      Thank you!

    • @shenyantheawesomewit
      @shenyantheawesomewit 4 года назад +5

      @@Bukola1 We need more queens like ya'll in tech. Way too homogenous as in, boring straight white men. GET IT SIS :>.

    • @or4089
      @or4089 4 года назад +1

      Brandon Yan you really don't know the tech area, do you? You just know when you see a black person you need to complain about white people to look cool and open minded.
      All the big techs have really a huge Asian representation (specially with Indians and chineses) and they have to match local demographics or they might lose government contracts and/or face legal battles.

    • @Ravage017
      @Ravage017 4 года назад +3

      @@or4089 dont even bother dude. its just another zombie spouting stuff they know nothing about.

    • @geekedmaxx
      @geekedmaxx 4 года назад +1

      But the black men and biracial black men get discriminated against for jobs it's easier for black woman to get opportunities in this world

  • @user-vs1cm8nv5i
    @user-vs1cm8nv5i Год назад +2

    money doesnt give you happiness but being broke gives you unhappiness

  • @mg-by7uu
    @mg-by7uu 2 года назад +11

    You go girl! Awesome to see female programmers. Anyone can learn to code but very few are persistent enough to do it. I went from high school dropout to $450k a year in 5 years so it's definitely worth it...

    • @SussexSquadSpaces
      @SussexSquadSpaces 2 года назад

      Are you self thought? Awesome job!

    • @toxicmaniax5719
      @toxicmaniax5719 2 года назад

      How ?

    • @mg-by7uu
      @mg-by7uu 2 года назад +3

      @@toxicmaniax5719 I taught myself to code at age 29 working at Burger King. This allows me to work remote which opens up lots of options including working multiple full time jobs

    • @duncanbug
      @duncanbug 2 года назад +1

      @@mg-by7uu This gives me tons of hope. I’m 28 and feeling like a failure. Learning to get into tech. Thank you.

    • @mg-by7uu
      @mg-by7uu 2 года назад +1

      @@duncanbug I also felt like a failure and it felt impossible for me to change my situation. I didn't have anyone to help me really but I was able to spend a few months teaching myself through online tutorials.
      Then I started looking for people to let me build them small websites until I had a portfolio to show off on interviews or to paying clients. It will feel impossible until it's done.

  • @FullOffSunny
    @FullOffSunny 4 года назад +835

    You can tell she grew up in a very strict household.

    • @ChanelROETV
      @ChanelROETV 4 года назад +3

      Sunny Abryl yesss

    • @littlem5771
      @littlem5771 4 года назад +9

      not a bad thing imo

    • @FullOffSunny
      @FullOffSunny 4 года назад +25

      LittleM didn’t say it was bad or good. Just an observation.

    • @freshswagga100
      @freshswagga100 4 года назад +24

      Sound like asian household. "Doctor, lawyer, or failure" lol

    • @hannaw193
      @hannaw193 4 года назад

      Yes

  • @chlim8311
    @chlim8311 4 года назад +321

    Nice to see female engineer on FIRE!

  • @erikaherrera9262
    @erikaherrera9262 3 года назад +6

    Such an inspiring young lady. My mom really wanted me to go into the tech space, I just couldn’t get jiggy with it! Her salary is AHMAZING. 🤩🤩

  • @RomanicHopeless
    @RomanicHopeless 3 года назад +2

    I love her!! She’s so focused on herself, her surroundings and family. We need more beautiful souls like her in thus world. ❤️