CONTROLLING YOUR NEGATIVE SELF TALK - Recovering From Broken Self Esteem by RC BLAKES

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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

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  • @marcellax4556
    @marcellax4556 5 лет назад +66

    When you control your thoughts, your emotions, behavior and actions follow suit. When you have high esteem and strong healthy love for yourself, your life and decision making process will fall in line. I promise you.

  • @a.p4066
    @a.p4066 5 лет назад +60

    Negative self-talk always leads to subconscious sabotage.
    Positive self-talk always leads to subconscious advantage.
    The choice is always in our hands

  • @SharitaHawkins
    @SharitaHawkins Год назад +2

    I praise God for you, Mr. Blakes ! When i tell you, your channel has been so helpful to me, and my situating. I'm so happy that you weren't ashamed of your testimony! Because it's a blessing to so many women and men! I can't wait to meet you. I love you & your wife both ❤️

  • @bridgettejohnson3602
    @bridgettejohnson3602 3 года назад +1

    When a person is broken, people can feel your spirit. They uses your own words to make things easier to make your self-esteem, there power to control you. Essentially make you feel like you are nothing, even though you are being envy, you give your power to others thinking your not good enough.

  • @SandraCDavis
    @SandraCDavis 4 года назад +4

    Yes God Yes!!! Glory!!! Hallelujah!!! Deliverance!!! Wisdom!!! Discernment!!! Renewing of my mind!!! Peace!!! Boldness!!! Courage!!! Power!!! Breakthrough!!! Discipline!!! Manifest!!! Amen!!! And it is so!!! So it is!!!

  • @Candaicelovesjesus
    @Candaicelovesjesus 5 лет назад +25

    I’ve struggled with this ever since I was a child and I’m so deep into a depression that only God can deliver me!!!

    • @staceybarnett1801
      @staceybarnett1801 2 года назад +1

      I'm here with I understand but God got 🙏🏼 🙌🏽 us no matter what

    • @SanctifiedLady
      @SanctifiedLady 2 года назад

      How are you? I pray that you witnessed the power of changed mind…Bishop TDJ has a sermon on RUclips called the “Power of a changed mind” only thing that pulls you down is Satan….he is the influencer of thoughts especially when you speak it…it gets worse he is the Prince of the air… he takes those negative seeds and make them grow…. Just think how Jesus takes the positive ones and make them grow bigger and better

  • @jeanettemeans4099
    @jeanettemeans4099 5 лет назад +31

    We care and glad you're doing so well pastor!

  • @ronaldrogers9243
    @ronaldrogers9243 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Pastor I really needed this message. I thank GOD for speaking through you.

  • @adorablebeauty5219
    @adorablebeauty5219 3 года назад +2

    You just break it down where I can't help but understand... Lord have mercy a real teacher , leader of God

  • @vee2890
    @vee2890 4 года назад +2

    Whatever is going on in your head is going to manifest in your life!! A word!!

  • @1Dynamite
    @1Dynamite 5 лет назад +15

    Thank you so much for this message. I've struggled for years with negative self-talk. I can't even imagine how many opportunities I have missed because of it!

  • @mrs.latoyamelvin652
    @mrs.latoyamelvin652 5 лет назад +17

    Wow while in the midst of having negative self talk this pops up on my phone.....oh my Thanks God for being in the room sending your message to eliminate myself from damaging my mind with my hearing and feeling circumstances, this is precious to my heart and thank you brotha RV Blakes for delivering the good needed news, God bless you, Amen!

  • @shirlbibb2343
    @shirlbibb2343 5 лет назад +2

    MY God I totally agree I am a woman that has faced low self esteem and rejection all my life the negative out weighs the positive it's been a struggle ,it has held me back from accomplishing things in my life that I know I could have done,it leads to anxiety,fear, doubt I knows it's sent from the pit of hell but it's been hard to overcome,I am now finally getting to the point to except myself and to see myself as God sees me He said i am fearfully and wonderfully made ,I know if I can't get this in my Spirit I will never overcome this,but I can say that from the little time that I have been following you I'm closer now with overcoming this than I have ever been,Praise the Lord I thank Him for speaking to me through you I know if I continue watching your videos and listening to you speak that God is going to Bless me mightily to become that person that He birthed me to be to overcome things,thoughts that I've faced all my life..You are God sent and God is a on time God ..God Bless you, Keep up the good work you are such a Blessing. .Thank God

  • @katinaW68
    @katinaW68 5 лет назад +3

    Mr.Blake I really just want to say thank you for being there for us women who are so broken over these lost relationships we’ve been in!I have so much self hate(crying as I’m writing this)!I am so suicidal at this point in my life and I really I mean really I am trying to love myself but every time I try I am reminded in my own head that I hate myself!I am trying to figure out why I even exist at this point in my life!You are such an inspiration to me that it’s what keeps me going at this point!Each morning I get in from work I watch your videos and take notes to read when I get down!Please say a prayer for me!👏🏽

  • @lindaparker6102
    @lindaparker6102 5 лет назад +7

    I thank GOD , for you Pastor ! You are an anointed man of GOD ! So grateful ! Right Pastor, what if, you will never know ! Right !! Pastor this is real deep , the enemy will always show up !

  • @spectacularrichbeautybrilli
    @spectacularrichbeautybrilli 5 лет назад +7

    LOOK AT GOD. The timing of your message is perfect. I just began practicing this today and the results were phenomenal. I must make it constant. I recognize God’s Amazing power and love. Thank You for this. 😇

  • @4doesproductions
    @4doesproductions 11 месяцев назад

    Dear brother. We care and thank the LORD for you, Lisa and the ministry. You never have to say again 'not that anyone cares' - GOD cares and we your family of the LORD Jesus Christ DO!! Love and blessings from Him. Sis Anita

  • @mwright0428
    @mwright0428 5 лет назад +5

    This is so on time!!! I feel like God has been pumping me up to step out on faith and make some moves that I was fearful of. But I’m learning that the fear is somewhat imaginary and it’s my anxiety that’s getting the best of me. Thank you as always pastor!

  • @traceybryan9279
    @traceybryan9279 5 лет назад +5

    Thank you. This is a Valuable Gift.

  • @quaishilithapace2535
    @quaishilithapace2535 4 года назад +1

    I needed this I have struggled due to growing up in a verbally abusive home. I am always working to love and take care of myself, and to stay away from the verbal abusive/controlling spirit of my Mother. Without God I continue to move forward, I want to get to a place of a peaceful existence.

  • @opheliamyall2554
    @opheliamyall2554 5 лет назад +6

    Good morning Pastor Blakes. I am happy to hear you're feeling fantastic and, of course, we care about how you feel. Everything you bring positively impacts us and this topic is no different. Thank you

  • @rayshawnfountain9003
    @rayshawnfountain9003 5 лет назад +4

    Sometimes you have to close your eyes to see!

  • @karenelizabethpalmer4295
    @karenelizabethpalmer4295 5 лет назад +4

    God Bless You Preacher Teacher May the Dear Lord bless you with many more years to come with good health and strength

  • @cecirivera7
    @cecirivera7 5 лет назад +5

    I will be hearing this like 5 to 10 times. Thank you, Pastor.💝

  • @tennescahowell8569
    @tennescahowell8569 4 года назад +2

    I've been told fall back and you will see who your friends and family.💘

  • @kitaevans8686
    @kitaevans8686 Год назад

    I've had this problem since I was young. But I'm doing a lot better with controlling my mind 🙌but I receive this message thank you Bishop.

  • @l.christinejones8164
    @l.christinejones8164 4 года назад +1

    🎶🎵"speak over yourself, encourage yourself.. in the Lord!" that's my song. what a Word!

  • @SAI03
    @SAI03 5 лет назад +1

    Bishop!!! This is right on time!
    I have been blessed with an opportunity to move to NYC and live in an air b&b for free for a month to get settled, transition, find work and networking concerning my dreams and aspirations!
    I have two weeks until I move and almost everyday I've been praying and crying asking God if I have his blessing to move to pursue my dreams and aspirations. Its mentally exhausting!
    I'm just going to take the risk and go! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @keniasharpe1610
    @keniasharpe1610 2 года назад +2

    I definitely had to change my way of thinking

  • @teamjesus864
    @teamjesus864 5 лет назад +2

    I care, thank God you’re feeling great. That’s a blessing from God.

  • @sheilasquare9594
    @sheilasquare9594 3 года назад +3

    Watching this in August 2021. Thank you so much RC for your teachings. They have been enlightening , encouraging, and informative. I am in recovery from deep emotional wounds. Your ability to come from a biblical perspective is truly empowering. The word of God is sharper than a two edged sword. Truly able to transform if we take the medicine. God Bless you and your wife. All praises to God. I am free to be who he created me to be!

  • @lavitawilliams9246
    @lavitawilliams9246 2 года назад +1

    "Thank you Holy Spirit,Thank you Bishop Blakes, THIS IS SO INFORMATIVE,SO EDUCATIONAL,SO POWERFUL!"

  • @toolboxevolution7456
    @toolboxevolution7456 5 лет назад +3

    WOW, this was POWERFUL! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Ok, I finally reached why people appreciate this ministry so much. It is because it's practical and pragmatic (but HEAVY and INTERESTING). It is how to EMPLOY God's tools to navigate actual life and how to use life the way it's intended to be used. It's the tools for getting through and past the tests with wisdom and a good attitude. Few humans (of any profession or capacity) can even get this material enough themselves to translate it for others in a way they can actually use to live and evolve in a meaningful and measurable way. Few "preachers" even think like that. You bad, and keeping your congregations also CRISP and en pointe! It all makes seamless sense, which is obviously why your viewership keeps screaming upward (so proud). Stay consumed and keep giving us the🔥🔥🔥!!!

  • @honeybuzzard2843
    @honeybuzzard2843 5 лет назад +5

    THANK YOU for calling Prayer over me.
    This spoke to me DIRECTLY
    Thank you so much.

  • @RT-gu3kc
    @RT-gu3kc 5 лет назад +3

    Hallelujah!! Amen. Cast it down IN JESUS NAME!!

  • @tpurdi1
    @tpurdi1 5 лет назад +1

    When I go through bad thoughts, that means I have to renew my mind.

  • @lavernewilliams6905
    @lavernewilliams6905 5 лет назад +12

    Thank you Pastor for this teaching, much needed God bless you.

  • @sarahmoses1910
    @sarahmoses1910 4 года назад

    Pastor RC. Blakes.GOD cares that you're here . Myself and everyone around the world cares and appreciate you taking your time and effort to reach those in need of prayer. And the Lord's purpose for our lives . I feel that GOD has truly graced you.

  • @sherithanorth3960
    @sherithanorth3960 5 лет назад +7

    How can I say thanks.... ur awesome..💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Blessings

  • @marciaheadley9933
    @marciaheadley9933 5 лет назад +8

    Bless you Bishop Blakes. Timely. Instructive. Thank you very much ❤

    • @estar37_liveinspired
      @estar37_liveinspired 5 лет назад

      "the winner's conversation"... love that.. keep connecting and communicating the Word, Pastor. Spirit AND Truth!

  • @UnshakableShe
    @UnshakableShe 5 лет назад +3

    Right in the middle of studying for a Real Estate exam when nothing is clicking I gained hope!! Thank you.

    • @lindaparker6102
      @lindaparker6102 5 лет назад +1

      Todae' Monegan
      Much success !!

    • @UnshakableShe
      @UnshakableShe 5 лет назад +1

      Thank you, I need every bit of encouragement I can get right now. 😌

    • @l.christinejones8164
      @l.christinejones8164 4 года назад +1

      oh, you got that locked Sis. Keep your head to the sky! ❤

  • @davinityt.741
    @davinityt.741 5 лет назад +8

    Thanks Pastor Blakes. What a blessing!

  • @niyavernice
    @niyavernice 3 года назад

    I’ve been held back by this!!!!! But no more!!! Lord you are good!!! Thank you for healing and renewal in Jesus Name!!!!! Thank you Pastor ❤️

  • @rhythmoflove2
    @rhythmoflove2 5 лет назад +3

    “Not that anyone cares”? Bishop, of course we care, even though we are always on the receiving end and stop doing what we’re doing when we get your notifications and quickly tune in to your videos. Thank you for your inspired, motivating and very needed videos. God bless you and your family. 💜

  • @bflores3944
    @bflores3944 5 лет назад +9

    Thank you for your wisdom and spiritual awareness!!!! 💖🙏

  • @latonyamorgan7447
    @latonyamorgan7447 4 года назад +1

    Amen Amen and Amen such a powerful message from God GOD IS REALLY USING YOU PASTOR BLAKES LEARNED ALOT FROM THIS I HAVE TO GET BUSY ON THIS THANK YOU SO MUCH!!

  • @canttouchthis421
    @canttouchthis421 4 года назад

    I care that you and Mrs. Blakes are doing well and please take care with this upcoming storm.

  • @melvoniajohns8772
    @melvoniajohns8772 5 лет назад +8

    I Really needed to hear this teaching ! Thank you Bishop for this message

  • @Raxietrini
    @Raxietrini 3 года назад +1

    WE LOVE YOU AND Lisa too Bishop😃👑🥳💪🏽🥳🥳

  • @iriswilliams2266
    @iriswilliams2266 3 года назад

    It is 12:10 pm ...6/28/2021 ...I knew if I WOULD GO TO SLEEP LISTENING TO ONE OF YOUR TEACHINGS MY SLEEP WILL BE GOOD...I THANK GOD FOR YOU BROTHER BLAKES AND LISA YOUR WIFE ARE INDEED A BLESSING TO ALL OF US....MAY YOU BOTH AND YOUR FAMILY BE BLESSED WITH THE BEST OF GODS GRACE AND MULTITUDE OF BLESSINGS ALWAYS IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME AMEN...

  • @Yassss-rj9zf
    @Yassss-rj9zf 4 года назад +1

    While listening to this I finished a task I’ve been afraid to do for 3yrs. Thank you.

  • @NikkiO2000
    @NikkiO2000 5 лет назад +1

    Yes sir, the Bible is surely a manual for mental health. Delivered me from anxiety and depression.

  • @ericamacari7680
    @ericamacari7680 5 лет назад +11

    Cmon now pastor this was RIGHT on time 🙏🏼 thank u for ur videos you have helped me a lot

  • @ingridbell6769
    @ingridbell6769 5 лет назад +7

    Thank you for such a powerful practical word. The body needs this.

  • @YolandaCruz-h3n
    @YolandaCruz-h3n 8 месяцев назад

    Hey we care that u are feeling well ,and we are blessed that u are speaking to us today thank god for u love u

  • @roselynmarie3931
    @roselynmarie3931 4 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for this! I feel so encouraged. God bless you! 🙏🏼

  • @deanj8870
    @deanj8870 5 лет назад +6

    That's so true, man of God. I enjoyed everything you said 💯

  • @torrihoward9729
    @torrihoward9729 5 лет назад +4

    Beautiful home Pastor, by what I can see 👍😍

  • @lisapurnell2064
    @lisapurnell2064 5 лет назад +2

    Loved it.. ❤ Even though we may have known these things already, sometimes it is so needed to hear it again. I loved listening to this message - teaching. As long as we're alive we always need to be reminded.. teaching & exhorting in the Lord & His word. Knowledge is power.. I can do all things through Christ Who strengthens me. I love being part of the family of God.

  • @joyceburns7637
    @joyceburns7637 5 лет назад +4

    A Word needed for me. For such a time as this!

  • @shantareid2770
    @shantareid2770 5 лет назад +1

    Excellent talk Pastor Blakes,...and what a beautiful prayer. Amen Pastor and we love you. Powerful talk...God Bless!

  • @Alicia-here2024
    @Alicia-here2024 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you I needed this ,this morning..was about to talk myself out of a career I already have..😂😂😂😂

  • @vanitriapinder6080
    @vanitriapinder6080 5 лет назад +4

    Blessings! Thank you Pastor totally necessary and powerful word! Thank You Lord for your vessel here! Amen!

  • @progressovaperfection
    @progressovaperfection 4 года назад

    Posted a year ago but it's still very much alive. I didn't search it per say but it is relating to my life at the moment. Thank you so much Pastor RC. You have been the dad i never had. May God continue to bless your ministry and family.

  • @kimberlycarter5317
    @kimberlycarter5317 5 лет назад +1

    Excellent RC, I firmly agree with you about renewing the mind with God's Word!! It can really heal every part of our being😊

  • @Wildflowerincali
    @Wildflowerincali 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you so much. What a beautiful word of encouragement I needed to hear. God bless you

  • @imanisteel7960
    @imanisteel7960 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you. I feel so much better Pastor.

  • @maryjenkins183
    @maryjenkins183 5 лет назад +3

    Hi, Yes I do care how you are feeling, Glad you are doing find. Hope God continue to bless and keep you. I really enjoyed this video.

  • @cherinalee6399
    @cherinalee6399 5 лет назад +4

    Wow! Right on time for me. ♥️‼️🙌🏾 #thankGod

  • @cooksous
    @cooksous 5 лет назад +2

    This thing right here was SO accurate, on time and even more necessary.
    Thank you 🙏🏿❤️

  • @teetrustyah1849
    @teetrustyah1849 5 лет назад +1

    That's my RUclips pastor Pastor Blake's you my kind of Pastor I love you and Lisa I pray I get to meet you one day on this side of Glory LOL...🤗thank you for those encouraging words

  • @JayYoung1000
    @JayYoung1000 5 лет назад

    Renewing of my mind thru the scriptures amen. Proverbs 23:7 & Romans12:2 amen. Thk You .

  • @tereng128
    @tereng128 5 лет назад +1

    I watched this several times for this information thank you I needed to hear this. All your content is powerful I had my teenage son listen to this he will soon be on his way out to college/military he need to be able to listen to someone like you thanks💕

  • @terryhill1553
    @terryhill1553 5 лет назад +1

    Yes I agree, we must train retrain are minds and spirit. Even the company we keep may tringer an ego trip reaction. When I was breaking up with my narcisses,my friends would say things to tringer my ego. I wasted more of my time. I had to focus on renewing my mind. I'm still working on my mind set. I know its about my mind set.

  • @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect
    @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect 5 лет назад +4

    I really needed this today. Thank you!

  • @Not2008Me
    @Not2008Me 5 лет назад

    Pastor I really love you. The first time I watched your videos I felt like I had the dad I always wished I had even though I'm 32 y/o. I thank you for everything you are doing and I pray that Jesus Christ continues to use you for all of his marvelous works. This word is really speaking to me because God called me out of a high paying job for a prestigious law enforcement organization and he's called me into a creative work, such as an artist (painting) and an interior designer, but I was really feeling down as I go through stages of grief from loosing my dad, granddad, and favorite uncle all within the span of the past 4 months...plus I felt bad for being jobless as I build my business while my husband works. HOWEVER after listening to this word I know that I must combat those negative thoughts in the name of Jesus so that I can do His perfect will for my life. Thank you for this! I need it!

  • @kimberlysanaa25
    @kimberlysanaa25 5 лет назад +1

    Omg. God knows exactly what I needed, thank you. You’re right, it’s takes ME to make the move... extremely powerful word! Can’t wait till you’re back in Atlanta! New follower since May 1st

  • @eagle4god373
    @eagle4god373 5 лет назад

    I had not finished the vid when I commented-You ended up talking about the foolishness going on with these prayer lines-THAT is what I'm talking about. Jesus did physically heal people as he went preaching and teaching-he did not have lines he healed who He chose for what ever reason. Walk with him yourself and know him. The pure in heart shall see God. Come as a child. Thank You Mr.Blakes.I know I needed to be reminded of this. Even when you know, the sneaky devil can get you in a tail spin and your asking yourself what is going on here!!!You sit down and get with God and then ahhhh I see!

  • @Jesusandme100
    @Jesusandme100 2 года назад

    Wow, yes sr that was so good , thank you brother, God bless u and use you for his Glory

  • @elizabethcommons8946
    @elizabethcommons8946 5 лет назад

    with all due respect I just came across these wonderful blessed vidoes I call the pastor the blessed judge Mathis .tough love to real talk .I can't thank bishop blakes enough !

  • @jeanitaellington4252
    @jeanitaellington4252 5 лет назад

    I thank God for you! Right when I think I got this. God gives you a word that replenished me and fills me with a renewed hope. I love you and your beautiful wife❤️❤️❤️

  • @waterwheeling1761
    @waterwheeling1761 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you for ministering to us

  • @trishania7176
    @trishania7176 5 лет назад

    We love u too Pastor. God bless u and Thank u for this video. I've missed many job opportunities due negative self-talk because of a narcissistic bf. He always telling me that I'm not good enough, I don't have any brain and anything I do will never be successful. Even when I landed a job, he always find a way of sabotaging.

  • @dianeoneil5376
    @dianeoneil5376 4 года назад

    What a beautiful talk. God definitely speaks through you!

  • @MegaMela321
    @MegaMela321 Год назад

    Thank you. I really needed to hear this today 😢

  • @nikkilove6128
    @nikkilove6128 5 лет назад

    Thank you so much Pastor Blakes! I think this is something everyone struggles with! I recently took myself out of a toxic relationship & now I realize whats most important about my recovery is renewing my mind! I definitely agree the bible is a great resource for mental health. I am so happy you fought your negative self talk & followed your purpose.... you are a blessing to us all! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @BrittanyLColey
    @BrittanyLColey 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you so much for posting this. I'm sorry I missed the discounted registration. God bless your generosity!!!

  • @tania0070
    @tania0070 5 лет назад +8

    Wow. This one was certainly for me.

  • @toolboxevolution7456
    @toolboxevolution7456 5 лет назад

    PS. Why shouldn't you feel fantastic? I recently read something where the closer we get to God's will, the more our disposition matches His (interesting). You're always either smiling or fiery. That's what sages do, so you're usually how I expect. You frequently start and end with smiles. If I'm NOT smiling, this show makes me feel instantly better. Love it.

  • @awomanreborn8105
    @awomanreborn8105 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you Pastor!! This hit home!

  • @orchidisle1
    @orchidisle1 5 лет назад

    Thank you Pastor because of this encouragement and your personal style of relating to each person, today I did indeed take those negative thoughts captive!❤️

  • @narcabusevictimgermany9687
    @narcabusevictimgermany9687 3 года назад

    That is and has been the biggest challenge for me as my self confidence is extremely fragile

  • @cegee77cg
    @cegee77cg 5 лет назад +1

    That was Blessed...Thanks for sharing!

  • @foxykat8
    @foxykat8 5 лет назад

    Take authority over your mind Amen 😇 thanks for sharing

  • @pn6528
    @pn6528 5 лет назад

    Lol..I care how you are doing internet pop and I am glad you are doing well. Thank you so much for caring for and about us. May God continue to bless you and your family.♡

  • @elisegloria4548
    @elisegloria4548 5 лет назад +1

    Life changing video. Thank you ❤

  • @shirlbibb2343
    @shirlbibb2343 5 лет назад

    Powerful !! love the way you break down what you are saying , lots of interesting and needed info,so helpful and encouraging..Thank God,thank you..God Bless you & your Ministries

  • @croys8608
    @croys8608 5 лет назад

    Thank you!I I search media yept, I enjoy your needed messages for life obstacles

  • @usedabusedandmisunderstood8205
    @usedabusedandmisunderstood8205 5 лет назад +1

    Always a great message

  • @carolgreen7097
    @carolgreen7097 5 лет назад

    Well needed topic, thank you so much for sharing. Im new to ever hearing about you and your teachings but I absolutely love your teachings which are enhancing and empowering me greatly. God bless you Bishop Blake and your Wife.