Wellcast: Coming Out
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Coming out is a big moment. You're letting someone else into a part of your life that few have tread-a secret that you might have carried a long time. Some of you may have lied, pretended to be something you're not. Others may simply have kept silent. If you're lucky, you have an incredible support system built in, made up of people who love you regardless. Today on WellCast, we're talking about that life-changing moment of telling someone that you're gay. We'll help you prepare for that moment, whenever you decide to take it, and give you some resources to turn to, should you need them.
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thank you... i needed this.
Mira Ahrenhoerster Thank you, I am the B and T in LGBT or Bisexual and Transgender and this made me feel better about truely coming out as female :)
Thanks!
Mira Ahrenhoerster thanks!
Mira Ahrenhoerster Great comment...thank you.
casual awkward pansexual idk how im going to come out but this helped me!!
to my parents that is
OK SO I HOPE THIS ISNT SERIOUS
casually two and a bit months later and i'm out to my mum and partially to my dad ( only because my mum read my journal but okkkk ) also thanks ***** aha i think they were just trolling, hopefully
Lara C Im pansexual too. I haven’t told any family member
I'm pan as well
I support all of you! Most of my friends are bisexual and some gay/lesbian, and it doesn't affect my life at all so why do people hate? It really bothers me.
thx
Could you guys maybe make a video about how to deal with racism?
I already have told all my close friends that I'm bisexual, but I'm just not ready to tell my family. Not because they're religious or anything, heck I already have a sister who has come out as bisexual and who has a girlfriend, but because I don't want my family to think I'm just trying to be an edgy teen. I know they won't take me seriously. Maybe one day I'll build up the strength, but today's just not it.
Kassidy Worthington Same im gay but idk how to say it to my fam bc my dad is homophoebic but yea
@kasper Aaron I understand when you mean your not ready to tell your family and how your saying they would take you serious. I didn’t tell my parents right sway either I told my close friends first you don’t have to tell your family or your family I never thought I would tell my parents it’s up to you. I understand you not alone. My family are reglioue and I felt like my mom didn’t believe I am bisexual when I tried telling. I told my close friends too. Some advise I got two years back is follow your heart stay strong come out when you are ready and own it.
that’s me
Same problem with me.. my wishes for when you come out!
its not fair... straight people don't have to "come out" they don't have to go through all pain and the bullying
OH AND THIS ONE OMG I AM PISSING MYSELF IN LAUGHTER like coming out to those closest to you and you don't know if they'll hate you, beat you, or abandon you yeah my favorite thing to do!!
Context?
The way I see it, I don't know my sexuality, but if I'm gay (whether it be lesbian or bisexual) so be it! I am religious but God created us and he loves us and some of my friends are gay, their lives, I don't disrespect them. Love everyone :)
Well God made man in his image and also says 'Love thy neighbour' THAT is the golden rule. Sorry but that comes before all else. Honestly I mean I am religious, so no offence but I probably have more of an experience. :)
Wack. All I can say. Different opinions, some people are stricter, honestly, no-one knows if hell or heaven is real until you're dead so why fight about it. Love is love.
PREACH IT BROTHER/SISTER!!
ToastedBagels I am the same. I am Lutheran (a type of Christian) and bisexual. I believe God loves me for who I am and that he doesn't hate me for who I am, especially something I cannot control.
+ramrabbit westboro baptist church...the worst church ever.
I came out to my bff and she started crying with happiness
My friend picked me up and spinned me around. (She's a lot bigger than me.) 😊
Everybody immediately asked me who I liked and I was glad that they didn't just think I was saying that for attention, so I told them and they've been saying, stuff like, "your girlfriend just gave us the most awkward smile..." XD
The first person I came out as bisexual to was my boyfriend he was amazing
I honestly couldn't do do this if i was gay i get enough crap from my family just being a nerdy straight guy
Wow. I hope you aren't like them.
I don't know where to start because the only person I feel coming out to is my Sister and my best friend
When should I tell my parents, friends, etc. Should I wait until I'm comfortable with them then move my way up?
Is it just me or does the green guy with the text "uh...what?" Remind anyone else of fear in "inside out"?
true
One thing that I don't think people realize, even people in the closest, is that you're never "out".
Each time you meet someone new you have to come out. And each time it's a potential minefield. Especially cause you don't the know their stance.
oh gosh, I wish I saw this before I came out
+sander thomas same though
sander same
@@lowkey.aniyah5519 before I watched this I got a add for bible studies😳 is it a sign the universe doesn’t want me to be lesbian
Same
So I came out as a lesbian to my mom on Christmas. I'm 99% sure she already knew and she was pretty chill.
I came out to her by photoshopping my face on a shirt saying "don we now our GAY apparel." xD
I don't care what gender you are or who you love, we are all equal! We are all people right? So why do we have people bullying people for who they love? It makes me sick.. And no one better comment something about the bible because yes I know there might be an entry in there explaining that love is only supposed to be shared with a man and women but hey?!? who cares?!?!?! Its not affecting you so let the person love who they want! Sorry if anyone gets offended or hurt but I'm just expressing my opinion.. Xoxo, Ciarra ☺️😄💘
lol im not saying that for every circumstance.. I believe in love between people..not dogs lmao..
thedarkestcat : I personally think both sides of the argument have valid points. Yes, majority of the population might identify cisgender and heterosexual male or female. Yes, only a man and a woman who are fertile can procreate. However..don’t you think you also love your closest friend, pets, parents and also your child too in each unique ways?? In short, I think love exists in all shapes, sizes and forms. Loving someone in whatever form is never wrong and I think that’s what humans are asked to do: treat everyone with respect, kindness and love.
As for your point about sexuality and moral, I agree with you that it would be wrong to touch a child, an animal or a blood-related person sexually in all cases. But it is equally wrong for a man to sexually touch a woman or for a woman to touch a man sexually when it is clearly unwanted in all cases too. That’s would be called sexual assault or rape, right? I think that goes across the board and it would not be any different LGBTQIA+ or not. I personally think that consent is the most important part in sex and it doesn’t matter which two parties are involved.
Uhhh, wellcast? You posted this same video on February 28th of 2013...
Why must people hate on others? Bringing religion into this is just a sad short way of saying a "I have no better reason to hate you so I'll blame god for you being unique".
In the bible it states that you should treat others respectfully; to love thy neighbor.
The golden rule says to treat others as you wish to be treated.
Why do people feel the need to be rude to others? Because its a coping mechanism for something else they may not even know exists consciously, usually. Otherwise they're just a spiteful person.
Short note, if you say god made women to have children... Then I have no more to say other than you see women as an object to be made use of and I do not wish to ever know you. Also, guess what? Women can be homosexual as well. Don't automatically assume it is only men. Let's see, most people who oppose homosexual men see homosexual women as an object of desire, however they will not act the same to them as they would to men.
If we could understand everyone's reasons for being who they are the world would be a less interesting place.
Also this video works for most " coming out" scenarios such as telling someone your a furry, or something that is outside of the stereotypical social norm.
Kudos to the authors!
Well said!
Very well said! 😃
First off, we don't hate gay people. We just think that homosexuality is wrong. God told us to love everyone, no matter who they are and what they've done. I don't hate gay people, I love them because God told me to.
Coleman Morris While I commend you for standing up for your fellow "religious followers", not sure if that is a proper term for this instance. But I do have something to say.
1:"we" refers to the entirety of a group, and while I know quite a number of people strongly bound to their beliefs, many of them do "hate" homosexuals.
2: I did not point any fingers at any one person or group, it was a general accusation to all members of society.
3: Not everyone believes in your ideology but if they did, maybe everyone would get along better.
Other members of the LGBTQ+ community have to come out, too. It makes me so upset that this is focused around gay people.
i think gay is mostly used as a umbrella term
Koko Posts it was just an example
The first person i told was my Bisexual Transgender Bestfriend that im pansexual. She had a great reaction and was proud of me
When I thought something I told my friend and he said I was weird 😭😭
When you said "coming out" I thought you mean come out of your shell and not be shy anymore.
Tsk tsk tsk
Welcome to the world of acceptance, straight or not, cisgender or not, we are all accepted in this video's comment section
okay???? but what has that to do with anything
When I came out I said "hey people I'm queer and I'm here!"
Hm. I didn't really have to "come out." Neither did my sister. For me, liking anyone has always been normal. For her, boys and girls seemed equally attractive. Our other sisters and mother never acted like it was anything special. It has always been normal for Kervsa to talk about the cute girl she saw at the store. It was also an every-day occurrence for Scånsom to poke fun at my crush on a gender fluid person at school. And at school, we were never treated differently from the other students. But in the last five years or so, I've started to see that the rest of the world isn't the same. It was a serious shock to Kervsa and I when we saw that people like us were...different...from everyone else. Having been adopted to a single mother, we were never instilled the idea that "one man and one woman make for good parents" because our mother does wonderfully with five girls on her own. I found this video and realised that there are people out there that are being discriminated, killed, harassed- all because they love someone. So, for all those people, come to Helvik, Norway. There will always be an open door and open arms for you.
#nomorediscrimination
I had no idea there were plaves that it was just totally normal😱
Hey Wellcast, this video was very nice and applies to a lot of different coming out situations, but you made a bit of a misstep by making it specific to coming out as gay. The same steps apply to transgender and nonbinary people, and with just a few edits, this video could be a lot more inclusive!
I'm going to tell my mom that I'm gay this afternoon or at least try to.
Good luck!
4 years later....
Did it work?
they literally haven’t posted in 6 years, i hope they’re okay.
they legit haven’t posted in 6 years i hope they’re okay
More like 9-
I told my best friend first and when I realised she was going to accept me I cried
I am almost 13 and have come out to a LOT of my classmates and reactions have varied. I'm glad that I might be changing people
I’m not out to any one except for a kid who used to be my best friend, how ever they just so happened to be homophobic
Has anyone ever thought about themselves being gay?
That is how you find out, you start asking yourself who you actually are and you will find out
When i was in in the summer going into 6th grd i thought i was gay. now im so depressed i like 3 girls one of wich is BI and has a bf and i really started to like her and now im really depressed. really sux cuz im obsessing last weekend i cried 5 times 2 of wich was me BAWLING
the only person i have told im asexual irl is one of my mentors
That sucks. Hope something has changed in the past month
i wish i watched this vid befor i came out, cause now my life is falling apart.
Im not gay but I do support it and think this is a good way to make peeps feel good about them selfs if they are
Since around 4th grade kids have asked if I have a crush on anyone but I never had any romantic attractions but I didn't want to be an outcast so I listed a random girl. It backfired and smacked me because they told her and later at 7th grade it happened again but then I didn't respond and I tried dating both boys and girls but neither of them worked. So I became depressed but one day across the Internet I found a group of people who called themselves Asexuals and Aromantics and I fitted right in an now I'm happier than I could have ever been.
+THE DEWTWO SHOW I can't predict your future but from my experience as a gay guy in gr9 who had a hard time in gr7 people will learn to leave your personal business alone when they get to high school (too much to worry about with exams and stuff lol), just surround yourself with the right people. I can't say it goes away entirely, theres a guy im forced to sit next to and he's asked me who i like and I'm just there being quiet but he doesn't matter to me i only see him for 1 class. Just tell them its none of their business who you like but if you know someone well and really trust them you should consider telling them, it may be easier to have someone who knows and supports you.
Im not gay, but I think gay couples or gay people in general are FUCKING ADORIBLE. Is that just me? o.o
I doubt It's just you.
To be honest, I kind of view it as the opposite (not that I have any thing against gays...)
I'm bi, but yaoi and yuri.
I'm quite an extroverted person; so I pretty much was like this:
I was caught catching up with my ex (who I'm friends with), and some popular girls who everyone secretly hates came up to me and said "who the fuck are you talking to?" (I was calling my ex), and I told them it was my ex, just as he hung up. Somehow that got to "how many exes have you had?" I asked: "All of them, or JUST the guys?" Then I had no choice but to come out to them as bisexual, and I stood there for like half an hour explaining what it meant. They said "So it's like... half lesbian, half normal?" and I had to explain it was a whole identity that wasn't half anything. It just meant I liked girls and guys. Nonetheless, they went out and told everyone, and a friend witnessed some guys saying "Ew." to me as a bi person, and then stepped in and said "That's not cool. She's bi, because she's bi. Same with me." Nonetheless, since then, about half of the people in my grade are out as bi, gay, and two of my seniors are out as trans, and my teachers wear rainbow badges to protest all the homo/bi/transphobia in the school. I'm one of the popular ones now, and they treat me the same as a straight student, which is good!
As well as my family, my mom and sister, not too proud of, but my dad, he told me HE'S bi too!
I put this out there for any LGBT+ people who get ripped on, called disgusting, get told your feelings are unnatural, a choice, a disease, etc., let me tell you, as the first student in my school to come out, that things get better. Sending positive vibes!
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I know I am gay and have for quite some time now. But teasing and constant bullying for 6 YEARS of school. we couldn't move away, so I had to put on a mask and go to battle. The slurs where always along the lines of.. "we know your gay, just say it you prick!" or something like that. my dad is very opinionated about everything but my parents are divorced and I live with my mum. so really nervous to tell him. The bullying has stopped now that highschool has started and I have actuall friends. dad always talls about girls and that I'm going to have a girlfriend one day, so I just nod and tell him "maybe one day" the only person I told is one person at school. and I didnt even really tell her, I just said I wasn't sure. I am 13 years old and in year 7 in Australia. should I wait to tell anyone else and figure ut out or just tell them? Thank you for the awesome resources.
How to control your anger plzzz
TheLebron6
They should exist if GOD created us all if anything shouldn't exist it should be your comment because it wouldn't stop the Gays, Lesbians, heterosexuals or anything else love is love and clearly God created some pretty awesome people in the world but clearly you weren't one of the
my parents doesn’t believe I’m pan because “It’s basically bisexual, pansexual doesn’t exist!”
I asked them “what do you guys think about pansexuals?” and Idk if they got the hint that I’m pan. I just came out to my best friends and they support me to the max and it made me feel really good about myself.
I have a limited understanding of pansexuality. From what I know: bisexuality is an attraction to both sexes and pansexuality is attraction regardless of gender. Is this correct?
i don't hate gays i disagree with wht they do and i disagree with wht they think. My opinion in not a gay hater just will never disagree with thm
So your homophobic?
EpicWaffleWEEGEE He isn't scared of them, just doesn't agree with them. You can carry yourself respectfully to those that are gay, and talk to them, and work with them without agreeing with what they do.
Righteous Bison Homophobic doesn't mean you're scared of homosexuals. Who told you that?
Not "agreeing" with homosexuals (i.e. not accepting them) is homophobia. It's not a matter of being scared or aggressive to homosexuals either, homophobia is just an irrational aversion towards homosexuals. That's all.
Any way you slice it Raymond here is homophobic, by definition.
Thanks for backing me up,
I'm completely fine with gays but I hate how it's shoved down peoples throats and if someone disagrees people flip out.
The first time I told anyone is a secret for good reasons, but the second time was reeeeaaaaallllly easy. We were talking about random stuff at padminton practice and I just accidentally blurted it out because it had something to do with our subject. My padminton friend ust goes "ok I'm bi" and then we continued talking like nothing had ever happened xDD
Still hiding it from my family and closest friends though :P
The friends have probably guessed
My friends And I are transgender. It is hard but if you stick together, you get through it.
well cast I know that this isn't the place to ask this but you guys don't have a form and I would really like others to see this questions too. so , have you ever woken up for work or class got ready and felt fully awake and ready to tackle your day, until you sat down at your desk and all you wanted to do was go back to sleep. how do I keep that awake alert and ready to go feeling throughout the day, and not crash as soon as you began working?
What about trans?
you just have to be a little saver coming out. a lot more can go rong. stay strong and be who you are
Can I stay with someone? Just wanna make sure I have somewhere to stay when I get my ass kicked out for coming out as transgender.
Hello fellow trans person!
I'm Canadian
One of my friends is an ass and tells every one their secrets.
I not gay but I think I might be bi #gayrights
What about transgender?
can you make a video on how to tell your religous parents your a athiest ._. I'm really afraid of tell my mom
this step kinda work to
lets get one thing straight, I'm not-
im not gay or boi sexul or a lesbin but i support them please dont dislike me
+Nina Stanesic thanks
+harrypotter lover and cheyanneparrish are the same person:-D
+Nina Stanesic What she said.
+Nina Stanesic Haha i feel you all my otp's are gay
when & where should I do this
so I would, but my mom, Bff, are Christian and I'm like, nah fam.
Lmao
Bro don't say that!
Sad but funny!
bruh same case with me dude...
xD if ur muslim its worst not that im gay i thought i was for a while but being gay as a muslim is like phh ur not a muslim so if u say that to ur paretns theyll beat ur a**. Its true though they are so strict
OMG OMG OMG I CANT DO WHAT SHE SAID!!!!! UH UH WHAT DO I DO???!!!!
*30 minutes later*
See I'm so brave....
*Sends ally hills song*......
Yeah no I'm not. *Internally cries*
That was sweet ^^
not gay I'm bi
So I'm bisexual and yeah, the first person I told was the girl I like and I knew she was bi, turns out she likes me back. Don't be afraid. The second person I told was my other bisexual friend, and then the third well, she's bi too and she found out bc the girl and I were acting strange, then I told my other friends and they accepted me. But then the moment came where I had to tell my mum. I decided to tell her at night so if she seemed surprised and angry, she could sleep it off. But then I told her and I said "how do you feel about bisexuals?" She actually said "what the hell?!" And I just told her. I told her I felt like she had the right to know. And I asked her if it was okay and she actually said "I don't think so.." But she's like really religious and all so tbh I'm not surprised. But shortly after she said "even if you are, I cannot just abandon you. You're my child and I care about you. Even if you are bisexual, that's who you are" and I'm just glad. I have yet to tell my father and I'm surprised my mum hasn't told him yet. But basically, it's easier to tell your mothers first. They care about you loads and they were the ones to care for you in your younger years. But basically the message behind the comment is, Just tell them, they're your mother and they will love you no matter what. I hope this helped.. :)
Why am I watching this I'm not even gay.
Doesn't matter, it just helps you to be aware of what other people may be going through. I'm glad you're comfortable with your sexuality :)
I first watched this video when I was 13(5 years ago). I knew I had "strange" feelings since I was around 11 but I never knew what it was until I hit 6th grade. One time in the middle of class a random kid called me gay. I had no clue what it meant but clearly it was a "bad thing" because they used it to hurt me and others laughed. When I got home I searched up what it meant and something clicked inside of me. Of course I denied it at first because I was terrified of what it meant and that people would never accept me so I just pretended it wasn't there. It wasn't until around a year later when I was 14 that I met a boy in my class. We ended up becoming really good friends, hung out 24/7, and we constantly messaged each other after school. I ended up developing feelings for him but didn't say anything for a while. I remember one evening I watched a whole bunch of coming out videos and somehow mustered up the courage to tell him. I was scared about what he'd say but he was fully ok with it and actually came out to me as well. I was so fortunate to 1. Having my first coming out experience to be fully accepting & 2. Having that person know exactly what I was going through. We ended up admitting our feelings towards each other and became boyfriends. Of course nobody knew except us. We had a lot of fear about how other kids would react are school or how parents would respond but we always had safety in each other. Not to say that we were in danger. We just felt better off keeping it just between us. One time after school we hung out at a nearby park with two other friends. Me and him were sitting at a bench and when nobody was looking he kissed me on the cheek. I felt my heart racing and I was so surprised and happy, and anxious at the same time. I pretty much felt every emotion possible in that moment haha. But that really solidified who I was. That felt right in so many ways. I wasn't sad or bothered by it. I was happy.. Very happy. Around a year later he ended up moving away and our messages became less and less so through the coming months. I was definitely sad when he left but I will always be so appreciative of the time we had. I still remember that kiss very well. It was really cold that day and when he kissed me I just felt his cold mouth touch my face. I loved it. Even present day I still get so happy thinking about it. It was very special :)
People need to understand that people in the world are like this. Making a nonsense fuss about it is real rude. That's like saying you are gay and everyone makes fun of you. Now everyone, respect each other! God created us, but that doesn't mean he hates us if we are a little different than others. Now everyone, STOP HATING! And, btw, I'M NOT GAY, I just think it's good to be kind to others.
I thought it said coming soon....-_- wellcast WHEN ARE YOU MAKING NEW VIDEOS AGAIN!!!??!!?!
im bisexual
That's great!!!
Personally I'm bisexual (I think) i havnt came out but I don't keep it a secret. My friends never ask me if I'm a lesbian Ur what. If I like a girl they support me no questions. This is how it should be everywhere
I wish i could tell my mom i was Demisexual, tho i refuse to, she would be so mad and i dunno how she would react
Im still young but I think that Im lesbian (I know) but Im afraid to come out so Im trying to be straight.But ofcourse I cant change my natre so... yeah.Somehow I like boys but just like a persons.I havent told anyone about this. I tryed to tell my mom but I just..... cant.
I just wrote this because it feels so good to take this out of me.I feel the way better now and I think I would be the hapiest person in the world if I could just talk to someone about this. :"(
I've only told a few of my friends that I'm bisexual. I don't want to tell my family. If I tell my mom, she'll think I'm joking. And my dad is already really homophobic.
I don't feel the need to come out but I have an issue... I always used to have gay jokes thrown at Me so I've been very anti the idea that I'm gay... my friends all think I'm helps straight and I can't just be like " yeah i like girls" if it happens to come up in conversation
i'm not gay god dammit!! lol
Not funny... 😐
I rememeber watching this when i was just finding out that i am gay. I was so fucking scared but this did help a litle bit. I still have not come out to anyone irl( other than my bff and my therapist ) but i am out online and much more accepting of myself. Looking back it was so funny how scared i was. If only i could talk to younger me.
I’m gay and I asked my parents if they would love me if I was gay not that I was or anything and they said I’m too young to think about love and being gay I’m 12 all most 13 and they say that I’m too young to have crushes or anything like that it makes me crazy I’m telling them when I’m 16
Its makes me sick to think people don't love people for who they are, even disowning them, my friend (who is lesbian) came out to her friend, lets call her heidi, and she told her that she doesn't want be seen around with her anymore and that she made her feel uncomfterble( Heidi to my friend) I wanted to sucker punch her so hard right then.
Still in the closet, im waiting til i have my own place and even then i know my family wont accept me. I plan to never tell my family, more strangers know than my family. I have my best friends to back me up. It eats me up some days but not enough to tell anyone. Somedays im so close to blurting it out, yet i never do.
ok so
1. told mom (she's the most supportive.
2. asked the guy I've been flirting with for months
boom I'm happy now
This is the Helpful video but I’m not gay but I’m bisexual 🏳️🌈💕
one of my friends found out on accident and her little brother did too. I'm happy that she hasn't said anything about it yet...I think I thank her for not telling and I've learned that I need to keep my stuff secret until I'm ready to come out as lesbian.
My friends were fine with it and were happy with it. Like excited. And after the first time it’s been so easy. When I tell my family I will just be like, hey I uhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Im terretfied to come out. My Ex and her mom that I'm bi and I'm scared that they'll tell my dad. It's stressing.
I'm gay and this has gave some confidence to tell my friend at his party wish me luck 🤗🇸🇨
I'm kinda pissed. You didn't mention coming out as transgender. Transgender is more and very serious compared to being gay. It's so hard to come out as trans that I can yell out anywhere that I want "I'm Gay!" (Which technically isn't incorrect) and be perfectly fine with that because being in the closet as trans is so difficult for yourself that many people consider suicide over it (including me). And there is so much stuff that happens after coming out and suicide still will be right there along side you. Too bad you guys haven't uploaded in 3 years!!
Pixel Bytes - Pixel Artist i agree with you.
I feel like I'm going 5o come out soon. when my mom or her friend or someone assumes I'm straight. my mom's friend has a son and I think I'm coming out at her house
I’m scared of coming out because I know my family will never accept me.
Well I don't know any gay people in general but I surely do support them. :)
Well I don't know any gay people in general but I surely do support them. :)
Hehe, I came out with no plan after getting McDonald’s and a bad math grade.
I'm bisexual and my parents didn't care which was a huge relief
I'm not gay, but I totally support everyone
I think I'm bisexual. I'm trying to date this girl, but we've had problems. But the problem is my parents are very conservative Christians, and I feel like they'll disown me. My friends and pretty much every guy in my school is very homophobic. (All my friends are guys). Girls would be more supportive. But my friends aren't. I've told my sister, who is very supportive. Other than her, I'm scared to tell anyone else. I want to be 100% sure, or at least wait a little while.
Most guys are like that and it disgusts me. But most girls are accepting
It's not their fault, they've been taught to think that. I'm a girl though, so one might be a bit more accepting.
My advice is to have a plan of escape!
From what? I'm 13. I can't just leave the house and move in with my girlfriend. Just wait till college, and if they cant accept it, just cut all ties with them and probably never speak to them again.
If you're friends won't accept you, they aren't real friends. Real friends will accept, care about you and support you no matter what!
As for the 'escape plan' I'd recommend slooowwwllyyyy introducing them to the world of acceptance and then they might stop being horrible, discriminatory people. Sorry.
Here's a little something to help you stay happy. Remember, we are ALL loved and accepted by God.
And if your parents don't accept you for who you are, they aren't very good christians.
Ever hear of the passage that goes something like "man shall not lay with man like he does his wife"?
Funny thing, the accurate translation is "man shall not lay with boy like he does his wife"
It's actually saying that pedophelia is wrong!
What about telling your family you are a brony or a furry and family embarrassment
Thank you for this awesome video. Have a great day to anyone reading :D
I’ve come out befor; my mom embraced me, my dad didn’t he questioned and scoffed
I thought you were *aMeRiCAn*
ooo shit i didnt thought the video was about that,xD good think nobody was aorund whe she said you r gay
i just started introducing myself as gay to other people :D
My coming our story was horrible I have problems now
what do i do if i want to come out but my parents have told me if im lgbt theyll disown me