These videos are very helpful. We as a species are hard wired to have empathy and emotional responses, it is why we have survived and become so prolific on this planet, because of this it is very hard to stop listening to your heart and start listening to your head, your logic. Thank you Mr Tudor , I now take a step back and try to apply logic when my alarm bells start to ring around anyone. I now feel that I have tools to aid myself, thanks to your work......
One thing about narcs, there is a guarantee of abuse. If not used to it or never experienced it, it’s shocking. You can’t fix it. It’s the air that they breathe.
A shock to the system for sure but yes this does of course make sense. It´s this information that´s missing in our world today. I would go so far as to say it´s the most important information on the planet.
I’ve applied this not just to the narcissist I was involved with, but also to my upbringing and the religious cult I was in. Evidence trumps belief. Logic cuts through emotional thinking. Thanks HG
Thank you, HG! 💜 The teaching from this video applies to the ukulele club I had to leave. This past August were three narcissists that took over the club and decided to replace me as leader. These women showed they were not my friends, but power hungry. They were entitled and arrogant. The woman who led the other two women, used the group text on our cell phones to air out her grievances against me. She didn't want to talk to me privately. Instead, she wanted to teach me a lesson. When I was forced to step down, they were drinking up the fuel when they were given positions of leadership by the woman who led the two other two women. I was treated very badly, so I decided to leave. HG Tudor said in one of his videos "It is not logical to engage with a narcissist... When you know, you go." So, I told the director of the senior center that I was not continuing as the ukulele leader because of the bad treatment from the three women. She thanked me for 20 years of service to the community. I wouldn't be surprised if those three narcissists collided. 😆😆😆
I love you HG. I know you don't care😂. Your videos are so informative. Thank you so much for your help( I know you are not doing this for us but for you) and your time.
I'm starting to think that relationships can work without love, maybe. Love is a fire that never goes out and if it goes out then it wasn't love but passion, esteem, admiration, compassion or loneliness.🐰
But above all there is one very important thing to understand narcissists lie to themselves and if they told you they love you they probably believed it too. The point is that it is a flash love, the narcissist every day is a different person. I think I have only met psychopaths with comorbidity at this point, what I liked was their very charismatic personality. A psychopathic person is similar to a person with autism they live in a world apart.
Thank you HG. In a way, one chooses to live when he implements GOSO just like the drug addict chooses to live when he commits to long-term inpatient addiction treatment. If only us cripple and bastard and broken empaths had a rehab to assist us in our initial GOSO journeys too 🙄😚. HG could be the warden. What could possibly go awry?
This truth. “No one who has abused you, has liked or loved you.”
Your most important video 🙏🏼
I'm so grateful for your presence 🙏🏼
These videos are very helpful. We as a species are hard wired to have empathy and emotional responses, it is why we have survived and become so prolific on this planet, because of this it is very hard to stop listening to your heart and start listening to your head, your logic. Thank you Mr Tudor , I now take a step back and try to apply logic when my alarm bells start to ring around anyone. I now feel that I have tools to aid myself, thanks to your work......
One thing about narcs, there is a guarantee of abuse. If not used to it or never experienced it, it’s shocking. You can’t fix it. It’s the air that they breathe.
Thank you H.G
A shock to the system for sure but yes this does of course make sense. It´s this information that´s missing in our world today. I would go so far as to say it´s the most important information on the planet.
The bad thing is that in order to love yourself you had to pass through the clutches of a malignant narcissist.
Indeed
These are so good they should be PSA information announcements, maybe on sound systems while shopping, to help spread the word. Thanks HG ❤
I’ve applied this not just to the narcissist I was involved with, but also to my upbringing and the religious cult I was in. Evidence trumps belief. Logic cuts through emotional thinking. Thanks HG
So many people need to get this through their head!!! This is the most important fact in my opinion. ❤
Yes, and amen. I thank God for this man. Very edifying!🫵🏾
Lived it,no need to write it down. Truth 💯
Merry Christmas and Happy new year HG! Thank you for your work, Charm and entertainment. Much love to you Sir. ❤
BRILLIANT! And if anyone doesn’t agree or accept that fact, then they never will and ALWAYS be a victim of a/the narcissist.
Thank you, HG! 💜 The teaching from this video applies to the ukulele club I had to leave. This past August were three narcissists that took over the club and decided to replace me as leader. These women showed they were not my friends, but power hungry. They were entitled and arrogant. The woman who led the other two women, used the group text on our cell phones to air out her grievances against me. She didn't want to talk to me privately. Instead, she wanted to teach me a lesson. When I was forced to step down, they were drinking up the fuel when they were given positions of leadership by the woman who led the two other two women. I was treated very badly, so I decided to leave.
HG Tudor said in one of his videos "It is not logical to engage with a narcissist... When you know, you go." So, I told the director of the senior center that I was not continuing as the ukulele leader because of the bad treatment from the three women. She thanked me for 20 years of service to the community. I wouldn't be surprised if those three narcissists collided. 😆😆😆
I know exactly how you feel.
I feel the loss of a community, but it'll never ever be the same.
Great vid.merry Xmas
Important video
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100%
I love you HG. I know you don't care😂. Your videos are so informative. Thank you so much for your help( I know you are not doing this for us but for you) and your time.
I'm starting to think that relationships can work without love, maybe. Love is a fire that never goes out and if it goes out then it wasn't love but passion, esteem, admiration, compassion or loneliness.🐰
They love you like someone might love a dog that they beat.
But above all there is one very important thing to understand narcissists lie to themselves and if they told you they love you they probably believed it too. The point is that it is a flash love, the narcissist every day is a different person. I think I have only met psychopaths with comorbidity at this point, what I liked was their very charismatic personality. A psychopathic person is similar to a person with autism they live in a world apart.
VP: my lack of understanding of what happened to me. my lack of understanding of what happened to me. my lack of understanding of what happened to me.
VOCCABULARY PRACTICE (VP): hoover seeks to reasserts control. hoover seeks to reassert control. hoover seeks to reassert control.
Thank you HG. In a way, one chooses to live when he implements GOSO just like the drug addict chooses to live when he commits to long-term inpatient addiction treatment. If only us cripple and bastard and broken empaths had a rehab to assist us in our initial GOSO journeys too 🙄😚.
HG could be the warden. What could possibly go awry?
True…so True..to the point ..
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Touché!
So true.
VP: arenas of interaction. arenas of interaction. arenas of interaction.
It is no longer appropriate to say fake golden period aka you will be used and abused
You are absolutely right. I followed this advice, and it works. Also, followed by no contact. Thank you, HG. 🦮I got you a Labrador for Christmas. 🐊🎅