How Narcissists Infect People´s Minds

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  • Опубликовано: 31 янв 2025

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  • @georgeedward1226
    @georgeedward1226 Год назад +92

    This should be taught in schools. It never will be though because the narcissists that run the school system will never allow it.

    • @blueneptune825
      @blueneptune825 Год назад +16

      But most of narcissists don't know they are narcissists.

    • @amyemerson
      @amyemerson Год назад +11

      HA! So true! 💯

    • @sznwlc_9472
      @sznwlc_9472 Год назад +25

      School will almost never teach financial literacy, either.

    • @georgeedward1226
      @georgeedward1226 Год назад +11

      That's true but at least they'll be confused about their gender and require many years of therapy in adulthood to unscrew themselves.

    • @Nicholas_Shaw.
      @Nicholas_Shaw. Год назад

      This world as always been run by sociopathic narcissists and unfortunately to the normals always will be.

  • @sznwlc_9472
    @sznwlc_9472 Год назад +26

    Unpopular opinion: Swifties are just as rabid and devout as the Sugars. The difference being, is that Swifties vastly outnumber Sugars. (And yes, you can still like Swift’s music and know that she is a narcissist.)

    • @Itsbiancabitchh
      @Itsbiancabitchh Год назад +8

      Yup they prey on people with very limited intelligence

    • @rubytroy7756
      @rubytroy7756 Год назад +9

      Not my cup of tea 🫖

    • @piperhurtado4945
      @piperhurtado4945 Год назад +6

      I don’t care for Taylor Swift’s music as it’s terrible, but I understand folks will disagree with me.

  • @celesteakre8494
    @celesteakre8494 Год назад +11

    All your work is fantastic. This particular topic was brilliant! Always raising the bar of excellence.

  • @kauffrau6764
    @kauffrau6764 Год назад +10

    This is a perfect analysis of a case study that illustrates the evolution of a narcissist with an idea into a social movement. Brilliant. Sharing this one!

  • @rubytroy7756
    @rubytroy7756 Год назад +16

    Thankfully my children remained healthy …. Thank you Lord Jesus for your protection of my children ❤

    • @KarinStrong-k4j
      @KarinStrong-k4j Год назад +2

      Do you ever wonder why Jesus protected your children while allowing others to go unprotected?

  • @clairebear169
    @clairebear169 Год назад +18

    My son is severely autistic and his autism set in, around age 2, before any vaccine had entered his body. He is fully vacinated now. Wakefield used a bunch of vulnerable people to latch on to and give them something to blame. Autism comes from a variety of factors, genetics, environmental, the mother passes on her microbiome to the infant. It's never just one reason. Excellent case study, very interesting.

    • @rain7bow437
      @rain7bow437 Год назад +2

      My boy too x Sending hugs ❤

    • @Clarice-rp7mh
      @Clarice-rp7mh Год назад

      Why did you wait so long to start a vaccine schedule for your child, but then chose to fully vaccinate him? Just curious.

    • @clairebear169
      @clairebear169 Год назад +3

      @Clarice-rp7mh a few reasons, number 1 reason is that I had no choice, I was in an extremely abusive relationship and the father of the child took control of all decisions. While I was pregnant, I was extremely ill with Hyperemesis Gravidarum, Hypotension and eventually renal failure. I would vomit and pass out, I would come too and he would just walk around me, not even check on me. Towards the end of the pregnancy I was so sick I asked to be taken to hospital and he would be berated me with this is all my fault. The night I came home from hospital I went into labor, instead of taking me to hospital like I asked, he watched movies for hours until he got sick of my screaming. I think he poisoned me somehow and all of this made me feel extremely vulnerable and I felt I had to comply with everything he wanted. Both myself and baby were ill after and were denied any sort of after care. Eventually, after he wrote on facebook that he sometimes thinks about killing his wife, i knew I had to leave, which was so difficult as I was isolated and had no one in my life. After I did escape, he came after me through the family courts, it started with accusations of abduction of our child. And through the courts, he stated that I hadn't vaccinated our child. So I had to do it on a catch-up.

    • @kevingalligan2846
      @kevingalligan2846 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@clairebear169​ Wow, so you really believe he was just born autistic? You dont think what you just wrote has any connection to your childs autism?
      You really think abusive fighting, body language, pheramones, violence, disruption of bonding process with mother and father, subsequent abandonment, and further developement with a very vulnerable mother played zero role in the developement of your kids brain? You really think A disorder in which one of the main signifiers is a lack of connection, lack of trust of others, lack of desire to connect with others, and deep fear of being controlled has NOTHING to do with being a baby raised in an abusive environment? You really think you can hide that from a baby? You dont think your body language, fights with spouse, not feeling safe during the most crucial and important stage of development played any role? (ages 0-5)

    • @TruthSeekingElf
      @TruthSeekingElf 3 месяца назад +1

      @@clairebear169 I hope you and your baby and happy and healed now although of course after everything you have been through that´s going to take time. Bless you, I will pray for you. One can only imagine the horrors of what you have been through.

  • @SandraLovesSun
    @SandraLovesSun Год назад +12

    First! They infect mightily the unsuspecting and compliant.

  • @AccioPadfoot12
    @AccioPadfoot12 Год назад +5

    I am always blown away by your lectures, Professor Tudor.

  • @rbarba2751
    @rbarba2751 Год назад +5

    We just saw this with Jacinta Price, with an Australian Referendum which she convinced 96% of non Indigenous Australians that we as First Nations people, should NOT be added to the Australian Constitution OR give us the right to have a voice on community issues, in parliament. It is a very sad day in Australia History today, for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. We are consumed with sorrow with the constant rejection from the Nation. Jacinta Price. I’d love for you to do a video on her please HG?

  • @generaljo78
    @generaljo78 Год назад +6

    This would be so interesting in regards to Tom Cruise and Scientology.

  • @jeynjohnston8085
    @jeynjohnston8085 Год назад +3

    You sound like an expert. Glad you're on our side.

  • @nancyholloway2747
    @nancyholloway2747 Год назад +3

    THANK you, H.G. We finally have answers to burning questions on why/how multiple individuals choose to believe the Narcissist's assertions and thusly provide that fertile ground. Excellent, descriptive video. Very helpful! THANK you for all that you do!

  • @Clarice-rp7mh
    @Clarice-rp7mh Год назад +2

    Every parent in America has the right to ask for those 3 combined vaccines to be given separtley, with a waiting period of your choice in between, weeks to months. Lamblasting the immune system with multiple vaccines at once, causing it to go into overdrive creating antibodies, can create some adverse reactions, including possible autoimune problems. Both of my two youngest grandchildren were slammed with severe eczema within one week of their MMR vaccine. They are brothers, seperated by over 5 years. I am talking many large patches of thick, cracking, bleeding eczema. One is now 12 and the eczema has not made a showing in about a year. The youngest is seven and still suffers from severe eczema. Both of these children saw several pediatric dermatologists, none of which helped. The current vaccine schedule for children is insane in the frequency and stacking of vaccines. They are your children. My grandchildren have suffered immensely. It is very possible, by simply allowing only one vaccine at a time, seperated by a month, might have made a difference in the amount of torture that my grandchildren have had to endure. As a healthcare professional, with over 25 years in acute care, I was a huge proponent for vaccines, until my grandchildren's experience combined with my frequent first hand exposure to the failures of the CDC and the FDA. Autism, other problems and allergies have been exploding since the 90's. Is there a common connection? I encourage parents to proceed with caution towards stacked vaccines. It will require more visits to your baby's Dr. But consider allowing only one vaccine at a time, with a 2 week to one month recovery time in between. Split up any combined, multiple vaccines.
    www.cdc.gov/vaccines/schedules/hcp/imz/child-adolescent.html#table-1

  • @ron1352
    @ron1352 Год назад +2

    Bravo HG!! I’m old school and just used to listening to your content delivered this way instead of the Harry’s Wife content although I’m sure a lesson is in there.

    • @VamanosLetsgo
      @VamanosLetsgo Год назад +1

      @ron1352:
      Yeah, I miss those days when HG's content was not consumed by "celebrities". If there are lessons in the 2023 HW's content, it's my loss (I happily bypass those videos). 🤣🤣🤣

    • @ron1352
      @ron1352 Год назад

      @@VamanosLetsgo😂😂 yeah I go back to 2018 where those early videos did one thing….gave me straightforward answers to my questions that never went answered by my narc.
      Wish he had two channels.
      One for celebrity content
      &
      One for videos like this

    • @VamanosLetsgo
      @VamanosLetsgo Год назад

      @@ron1352
      That's not a bad idea. HG already has 2 channels on RUclips. And he reads the comments. 😉

    • @Bobblers07
      @Bobblers07 Год назад

      He does have another channel. It's just called Knowing the Narcissistic and contains older work most of which doesn't refer to 'celebs'

  • @nopereradicator
    @nopereradicator Год назад +3

    An excellent breakdown of the logic behind gangstalking.

  • @mireiacastello7041
    @mireiacastello7041 Год назад +1

    What an interesting video. Thank you, HG.

  • @dontpetthetopofmyheaduinbread
    @dontpetthetopofmyheaduinbread Год назад +4

    Your words give order and rest to my chaotic world of invading narcissists. I can breathe again, thank you.

  • @americaneclectic
    @americaneclectic Год назад +7

    In the sort of Christian cult I dabbled in, we had a group we called the “Fringe” who always questioned and discussed everything rationally that the leaders taught, and all of us eventually drifted away. We were probably normals.

    • @NifftyMelinoë
      @NifftyMelinoë 5 месяцев назад +1

      Free screening tonight! 9:15 p.m. EST Now showing: Against All Enemies - FULL MOVIE | MeidasTouch

  • @dijanaboskovic5251
    @dijanaboskovic5251 Год назад

    Thank you for clearing this up to us ...we were confused for a long time ...🎉❤ I did not believe this of course but you can not fight it with somebody who does...

  • @ivanaveltmeyer6373
    @ivanaveltmeyer6373 Год назад +4

    The most effective misinformation starts with seeds of truth

  • @rubytroy7756
    @rubytroy7756 Год назад +7

    The third was me ….. no vaccine….. in that instance…..

  • @bogumilakitowska-marszalek789
    @bogumilakitowska-marszalek789 Год назад

    brilliant. very helpful for honest examination of ones own conscience, to those who claim to be moral and conscientous!!! while preemtively taking care of their perceived residual benefits.. by aligning with some next 'wonderful/ world saving' ideology. Thank you Tudor. Truth is the most powerful currency - but I try not rely on assessments where truth lies.. from other people. Examin the mechanisms they are describing ..to reasses own biases possibilities, and understand social phenomena.

  • @lucyh4355
    @lucyh4355 Год назад +1

    This is a fantastic explanation & a brilliant example as the doubts about the MMR vaccination remain to this day. 😔 Thankfully, other scientists were able to fulfill their rôle, disprove his hypothesis & speak out back then.
    On a tangent, this brings to my mind Margaret Thatcher & how she's such a marmite character. I've had discussions with people who can never forgive her, as though every policy decision was solely her responsibility. I've always had the view that she was brilliant at making her case, getting a cabinet of ministers to agree & then selling ideas to the public. That's no judgement on the actual policies or their consequences, simply on her effectiveness & that it ultimately takes more than one believer. Now I'm curious about what she was!
    Thanks for this, HG; something to think on some more...lots of tangents going off in my mind right now! 😊

  • @rain7bow437
    @rain7bow437 Год назад +1

    They love bomb you early on, charm personified then they turn on you quick as a flash and you're left thinking sh*t wtf have i done?? 😢 No more of that for me, no way!!!!

  • @marybethk7853
    @marybethk7853 Год назад +2

    Great, thought provoking episode, HG! Question: why is it so important to a self-aware narcissist to not admit it? Don’t imagine they would much care about the social “stigma”, or feel shame or embarrassment about admitting to manipulating people for example? Is it because they are so dependent on others to provide fuel that if people knew they were narcs and backed away that the lack of fuel from others would bring them back to the dreaded psychological place of the lack of control they suffered in childhood? So other people aren’t just appliances or fuel to the narc, but life- sustaining food (psychological equilibrium sustaining and trauma coping-wise). Is that right?

  • @sheilaking1300
    @sheilaking1300 Год назад

    Thank you , excellent explanation.

  • @EdHosking
    @EdHosking Год назад +1

    Thank you.

  • @kathyvenne8208
    @kathyvenne8208 Год назад +3

    Mind control is effective and powerful.

  • @dianaalyssa8726
    @dianaalyssa8726 Год назад +2

    Great topic!

  • @user-qu6xp3jq4c
    @user-qu6xp3jq4c Год назад +3

    @HGTudor can you please do a video about authors and narcissism, as well as artists and narcissism. I remember you said that most authors are narcissists.

  • @gpparis2023
    @gpparis2023 Год назад +1

    Never again.

  • @rubytroy7756
    @rubytroy7756 Год назад

    Wowwwww extremely interesting…. HG❤

  • @Joa5588
    @Joa5588 Год назад +1

    I am susceptible to ideas and I am a good carrier of them and a dedicated propagator, with the additional function of polishing and adding my own elements (accepted).
    But they must be positive ideas, that strengthen people (although most often they also hide a second meaning, which I also see, but ignore - to a certain stage).
    I testify. Unfortunately.

  • @Laura-dc3vi
    @Laura-dc3vi Год назад +5

    28 years as a medical patient I KNOW that they don't know F-all

    • @TheRoyalTeaHouse
      @TheRoyalTeaHouse Год назад

      28 years as a medical patient almost goes to show you may have been taking advice from the wrong people, don't you think... after 28 years, you'd hope for some sort of recovery by now... in fact, may years back... 28 years!!!... are you for real... being a patient isn't a lifestyle...

    • @theseeker4642
      @theseeker4642 Год назад +1

      ​@@TheRoyalTeaHouseThink Laura's talking about the medical profession as a whole, & many people get referred from one narc to another. They also don't have the time or money to pay narc therapists

    • @TheRoyalTeaHouse
      @TheRoyalTeaHouse Год назад

      @@theseeker4642 Omg, i'm so sorry, i absolutely misread the comment.. somehow my eyes read converted the 'they' into 'you'...really sorry for being a dick!!! @laura

    • @TheRoyalTeaHouse
      @TheRoyalTeaHouse Год назад

      @@theseeker4642 And thank you so much for commenting!!!

  • @ryvirkelley5047
    @ryvirkelley5047 Год назад +1

    I know I've asked before, but I'm not giving up. Please do an analysis of Andrea Yates. It would be fascinating to hear what you have to say.

  • @flippafloppa2961
    @flippafloppa2961 Год назад

    Remarkable video HG

  • @mirandajsummers
    @mirandajsummers Год назад +7

    My son started showing his signs of autism 1 month after his MMR. I know it was a coincidence but it did affect the timing of my other children's MMR vaccines. I guess that would make me a tier 3?

    • @marlareid580
      @marlareid580 Год назад +8

      I consider HG Tudor's seemingly unquestionable support of vaccination and the intelligence of doctors to be a reason we should indeed question further.

    • @Clarice-rp7mh
      @Clarice-rp7mh Год назад

      Every parent in America has the right to ask for those 3 combined vaccines to be given separtley, with a waiting period of your choice in between, weeks to months. Lamblasting the immune system with multiple vaccines at once, causing it to go into overdrive creating antibodies, can create some adverse reactions, including possible autoimune problems. Both of my two youngest grandchildren were slammed with severe eczema within one week of their MMR vaccine. They are brothers, seperated by over 5 years. I am talking many large patches of thick, cracking, bleeding eczema. One is now 12 and the eczema has not made a showing in about a year. The youngest is seven and still suffers from severe eczema. Both of these children saw several pediatric dermatologists, none of which helped. The current vaccine schedule for children is insane in the frequency and stacking of vaccines. They are your children. My grandchildren have suffered immensely. It is very possible, by simply allowing only one vaccine at a time, seperated by a month, might have made a difference in the amount of torture that my grandchildren have had to endure. As a healthcare professional, with over 25 years in acute care, I was a huge proponent for vaccines, until my grandchildren's experience combined with my frequent first hand exposure to the failures of the CDC and the FDA. Autism, other problems and allergies have been exploding since the 90's. Is there a common connection? I encourage parents to proceed with caution towards stacked vaccines. It will require more visits to your baby's Dr. But consider allowing only one vaccine at a time, with a 2 week to one month recovery time in between. Split up any combined, multiple vaccines.
      www.cdc.gov/vaccines/schedules/hcp/imz/child-adolescent.html#table-1

  • @1WhoCares
    @1WhoCares Год назад +7

    I love this thumbnail.

    • @rubytroy7756
      @rubytroy7756 Год назад

      It’s like a visual of a monstrous infection…. deadly…. none functioning brain…. 😮😮😮

    • @mirandajsummers
      @mirandajsummers Год назад +2

      And me. HG's thumbnails are awesome

    • @1WhoCares
      @1WhoCares Год назад

      @LilithDaydream A superb thumbnail to accompany a super intriguing topic.
      How are you, Lilith?

    • @1WhoCares
      @1WhoCares Год назад

      @LilithDaydream I am doing good. Always good to see your name too Lilith. I think of you whenever my son rocks out to "Invincible" in his room.
      Haha.

    • @1WhoCares
      @1WhoCares Год назад

      @LilithDaydream He does!
      Haha - I do like my coffee.

  • @lionessroarsjohnson2684
    @lionessroarsjohnson2684 Год назад +3

    If empaths see that what looks like others are out to get this person, they feel empathetic towards that person. When an empath sees what they really are, the empathy disappears. Several years ago, I felt a certain politician was being treated unfairly. After awhile I felt something was off about this politician. They aren't what they seem to be. This is a scam. Unfortunately those that follow this politician can't see it. They can't hear of it.

    • @Ikaros23
      @Ikaros23 Год назад

      Most are fooled by the fasade and the masks. The reality of narcissism is also to disturbing for most to even understand. It’s to insane, to mindboogling. And to paranoid. Most can’t see what’s right in front of them because even thinking that selfcenterednes and entitelment on the level even the regular narcissist is on, seems so banal. Even stupid. It’s not « logical». Thats how they get away with it

  • @SkylarK_x_bk_0
    @SkylarK_x_bk_0 Год назад +4

    An excellent example of "conspiracy theories" and 'practices' within the medical field & science that starts a wide-spread panic, only to be disproved later. There may be occasion where the influence of the second tier may have no effect because of previous knowledge of how the first tier "operates" so there may be no third tier ! I enjoy these kind of videos, to give the thinking cells some new 'territories' of knowledge to explore. Thank you HG 🤍

  • @daft4682
    @daft4682 Год назад +8

    I think this everytime I hear of a young person cutting off their body parts to fit in.

  • @Tracy-sj1vr
    @Tracy-sj1vr Год назад

    I understood the caring of children part. But now I have a complete picture. Ty

    • @ebenoit72
      @ebenoit72 7 месяцев назад

      Define woke?

    • @Tracy-sj1vr
      @Tracy-sj1vr 7 месяцев назад

      @@ebenoit72 Don't you mean narcissism.

  • @williampowell9662
    @williampowell9662 10 месяцев назад +1

    One of HG’s best episodes! I teach kids with autism and the vaccine blame game is bunk. 95% of my students are male, and if vaccines were to blame seems equal number of girls would have autism. It’s genetic. Usually see that close relatives (parent/s) have signs of autism.

    • @SydMountaineer
      @SydMountaineer 7 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks for your comment, I appreciate hearing from people who *KNOW from experience.* Knowing and believing are two very different things, beliefs are confidence without clarity.

  • @fiorenzaattanasio4796
    @fiorenzaattanasio4796 Год назад

    Exactly exactly thank you

  • @nangel270
    @nangel270 Год назад +4

    Can this infection be used to positive effect? If so, can you provide an example?

  • @kathyvenne8208
    @kathyvenne8208 Год назад +1

    Its Mass Formation psychosis !!!

  • @empoweredempath
    @empoweredempath Год назад

    The irony is that some trauma therapists think autism and ADHD are trauma responses. So, yeah, add that to the narcissist's lists of damage symptoms...

  • @Pipsvw
    @Pipsvw Год назад +1

    To all the sugars ….. HG Tudor maybe all the things you think he is and worse so much worsethan all that he’s a narcissistic psychopath - so he doesn’t care !
    But to empaths like me he’s a light in the darkness - when someone is gaslighting lying cheating getting inside your thoughts and leaving you an empty shell …..and being told it’s your fault - to know that the evil being you are with is real and your not crazy - well that’s a game changer !!
    So if you don’t like what he says don’t watch but really by watching and commenting he’s inflecting your mind and he’s laughing all the way to narcissistic hellfire x

  • @Rebeccax0x0
    @Rebeccax0x0 Год назад +1

    LMRS was very paranoid about the government.

  • @wazz1154
    @wazz1154 Год назад +7

    Sorry H.G. quite clear you have not read Wakefield’s paper!

    • @Jason-eo1rh
      @Jason-eo1rh Год назад

      Lol is it chilly in that pyramid?

  • @Sky_Writer
    @Sky_Writer Год назад +2

    HG, do narcissists need friends? Do they have actual friends, or just fuel/batteries?

    • @Bobblers07
      @Bobblers07 Год назад +3

      Having no emotional empathy they have no genuine friends, just 'appliances' to make use of.

  • @sheilasmith7991
    @sheilasmith7991 Год назад +3

    This seems to explain the growth of the WOKE movement.

    • @ebenoit72
      @ebenoit72 7 месяцев назад

      Define woke

  • @kimberlywind2418
    @kimberlywind2418 Год назад

    Ok I didn’t wait until the end you say they genuinely believe their ideals because of their narcissism. Why? What about narcissism makes them a believer?

    • @MrBulky992
      @MrBulky992 Год назад

      Isn't it because narcissists believe themselves to have talents they, in reality, may not possess? So Harry's wife believes she is a calligrapher when she only knows how to do cursive handwriting, that she is interesting, engaging, original and talented in producing social media content, children's books and fashion tips despite all the evidence being to the contrary and that, in general, whatever she puts her hand to is destined to be a success (unless prevented by the malice or incompetence of others). So the ideals pursued by narcissists are bound to appear to be true ones to them because they came from the brilliant brain of the narcissist?

  • @juliagetty-gordon2500
    @juliagetty-gordon2500 Год назад +2

    Teal Swan? Ultra?

  • @Strangingness
    @Strangingness Год назад +2

    I think the Liver King internet personality, known steroid user. Who essentially took his sweet time to come clean about it. Who eats a lot of raw meat and animal parts and testicles and bone marrow e.c.t and people bought into his fitness ideals and supplements on a large scale through the internet.
    It's almost like some people are willing to set aside the bizarre, and weird sections of his doctrines his "Ancestral Tenants" because there are some genuinely useful things to learn from him but they can't separate that.

    • @piperhurtado4945
      @piperhurtado4945 Год назад +1

      I’ve never heard of the Liver King. I’m assuming educating myself about him will be relatively amusing and sad at the same time. Sounds worthwhile.

  • @inesborstel5592
    @inesborstel5592 Год назад

    👍👍👍

  • @gardeningnewearth3680
    @gardeningnewearth3680 Год назад

    😂😂😂

  • @juliagetty-gordon2500
    @juliagetty-gordon2500 Год назад

    Trump?

  • @lionessroarsjohnson2684
    @lionessroarsjohnson2684 Год назад +12

    If empaths see that what looks like others are out to get this person, they feel empathetic towards that person. When an empath sees what they really are, the empathy disappears. Several years ago, I felt a certain politician was being treated unfairly. After awhile I felt something was off about this politician. They aren't what they seem to be. This is a scam. Unfortunately those that follow this politician can't see it. They can't hear of it.