When this video happen, it was 3 weeks after Jenny and mike set me up and I spent the night in jail. I bailed out and part of the release was no contact with Jenny. After the jail and with a pending court case, we were broken up. HG got it right.
It is delightful when God lets you watch the outcome. At work, my narcissistic bully surprised everyone by announcing an early retirement. They truly are so insecure that they would rather leave if they can't project their image or when they are uncovered!
Oh dear, Jenny, remove those swear words and you would have very little to say 🤣 I don’t like confrontation, good lord I have lost it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Thank you HG ❤❤❤❤
She cusses more than Brendan Behan but with less artistry. Don't know what Trillian's like, but if she doesn't assault him and then lock herself in the bathroom telling him to "go away" from his own house, she's probably an upgrade.
What an excellent example this has been HG in this series. The detailed analysis of the footage and phone calls gives amazing insight . Thank you HG for the final analysis of her narcissism.
I cut off all contact with my family in 1981. It was a weight that lifted off my shoulders and I haven’t regretted it. A narcissist can make the entire family toxic.
@@tastx3142 good for you. Unfortunately my Mother was a Narcissist as well. She abused me in every way until she, too, committed suicide. I was 40. Now I can recognize a Narcissist is a second and run. Lol
@@jillruben8924and there are so many of them! I run from them, too, and I don't care if they are related. It's to the point that people think you are crazy for seeing narcissists everywhere
Also have a narcissist sister 🤚 Havent spoke to her in years! My immediate family is in her sphere of influence so I had to remove myself. She texted recently, “hoovering”. I don’t know how she gets my number, I ignored and blocked her.
Wow. I can't remember ever having to deal with anyone like her - for me, this had to be heard to be believed. Your analysis, HG, is crucial viewing for anyone who has, or is, though. She seems like a ticking time bomb & it's horrible to think of her as a parent.
Thank you, HG. This has been a superb series - not pleasant, and frustrating that Chris had not understood what he should really do (though I can understand it, and the videos will presumably have helped his case) - but extremely informative and educational. I presume from the fact that the videos and sound recordings are available, that he did manage to finally get rid of her, and hope he manages to keep away.
@@bettym.3996RF are receiving expert advise on how to deal with the matter. Experts with this experience, are more than likely highlighting all of the outcomes, including the one you’ve suggested. Just as HG teaches all of us.
Holistic people are often toxic I agree with that one.also think if the Queen sent the tow.s packing she saw the threat. Probably at the wedding party was the total moment of clarity. No way back for tow.s.
My mother does similar. Rant, rant, rant. Rave, rave, rave. Swear, swear, swear. Then cry, oh you must hold me and make it all better! It makes no sense but this works on my dad.
I've noticed a lot of overlap in pwBPD & Covert/Vulnerable NPD. So much that aside from the pwBPD possessing a larger fear of abando (motive for controlling abuse), it's nearly indistinguishable. It's the most disturbing behavior to witness of a grown person.
Thankyou H.G. Finally i was right ,i thought a lesser ,i had a friend like this ,who followed me up my road saying ‘ marry me ‘ ,knocking at my door at unearthly hours,amongst other things ,which i didn’t answer and cost me my boyfriend of the time , I can’t thank you enough for all your videos 🙏🏻😎🙏🏻💖
I really appreciate the level of detail in this analysis. Understanding the thinking behind the manipulations and the specific reasons for them is fascinating. A young Middle Lesser female is particularly unsettling. The rapid ignition of fury combined with the compartmentalisation and pity playing just makes this individual seem so erratic and unhinged she's actually really scary!
@@kellzbeatz8592 Honestly? Before listening to HG's opinion of the Borderline diagnosis, I would have said Jenny was a Borderline. So now I know. If I was describing someone as Bordeline, chances are I'm looking at a Middle Lesser. The 'acting out' of the Borderline is likely a display of heated ignited fury.
@@lauracox3856 exactly same here! Ever since I watched that video of HGs about borderlines it completely changed my mind about them. He made excellent points. And honestly BPD and NPD nearly have the same exact symptoms. Someone without knowledge of the 2 may not even notice the difference.
@@kellzbeatz8592 Totally agree. I think this series proves how watertight HG's classification system actually is. Each narcissist we watch can be slotted into school, sub school and cadre. There's no grey area. There's no " Oh well this school is close enough, that'll do." You can actually prove the school and sub school. I think that's reassuring to people when they think about their own experiences. Accuracy is reassuring. Give an empath a hint of doubt and they risk getting drawn back in. There is no room for grey areas.
I think genuine patients if bpd would be hurt to read those comments...I imagine...as they're unwell. This woman has something sinister going on. The devil was a narcissist. He offered Jesus the world and everything in it. I always thought the film scarface was an allegory of how Satan rules the world. Its my favorite film abd indeed also a documentary. Is narcissism actually diabolicality I'm really relieved at hg tutor. Previously I often felt I was the nutty one. Why is her friend not telling her to withdraw...wtf.😮
Thank goodness you explained this HG. It's not the type of narcissist I've encountered. Madness. I will have to try & watch the earlier parts of this series.
Great series! I discovered your channel a couple of months ago and have found it very enlightening to say the least (honestly I've been binging). There is a girl at my work who I suspected was a narcissist due to various behaviours and interactions with fellow staff. Today I witnessed her completely lose it at the owner because he said she couldn't lay on the floor out the back due to workplace health and safety. She threatened to quit if she couldn't lay on the floor and he said that's ok. She then went absolutely mental screaming in his face, pushing past him and screaming through the store as she stormed out. My brain automatically went to "heated ignited fury". Thank you for the terminology and great content!
The "Chris and Jenny Show" is entirely exhausting to watch - I can really only tolerate HG's analysis following these clips and recordings. Still a good learning experience though - I was struck by the compartmentalization example of Jenny (when she, on the heels of all her nastiness, demands that Chris come and "make right by her") and how it reminded of me of my ex (after accusing me of kidnapping our son, joining a satanic cult, etc ...), then inviting me to come have lunch with him during his access time with our son. Once the manipulations start to become more transparent, they all begin to look very similar...the patterns stand out and are more quickly recognized. Thank-you for this education, HG.
Oh my gosh! 😲This is exactly word for word what I have experienced but by an ex boyfriend!!! 😬What is it about narcissists that they sound the same and say the same words, regardless of whether they are female or male?!!! 🤯 Thank you HG Tudor for this excellent series! One of the best yet!💻
You almost wonder if narcs are addicted to drama and to create a miserable situation in order to abuse. A need to abuse. It’s like the air she breathes, a natural condition, one she obviously is most comfortable. You know if he came to hug her, it would just be a matter of time before she would create a negative dramatic situation to abuse. Like a need to vomit.
Maybe happiness, contentment, stability, love scare the narc. So no matter how good, they destruct the good to show their natural state. Maybe the need to control is really the need to control the environment to allow the narc to do what feels natural, like air to breathe… abuse. Abused become abusers. Maybe she unconsciously creates a situation where she gets to abuse as feels better. To mimic her past where she was abused and so she flips it. Makes her feel more powerful. Natural environment she creates. To play a role. Recreating childhood injuries by creating an environment where she can play abuser. Love she doesn’t know. Abuse she does.
Thank you for this extremely informative series. The clear (and extensive!) list of her behaviors and thought processes in your summary was so descriptive. And fascinating. I hope you'll continue this type of content. It's appreciated.
HG, I guessed she was a Lesser, but a Victim Narcissist because of the amount of pity plays she showed. She turns out to be the same type of narc my stepdaughter and husband are...MLSomatic...I knew her outburst audios sounded like my stepdaughter's audio recording used in court, now I know why. Xx Thanks HG for the education ❤❤xx
While she spews profanity and insults, she is in control of what garbage she does say. She wishes bad things on Chris, but she never actually threatens anyone with bodily harm.
Clearly this narc's volatile, fury anger could escalate to destruction, bodily harm and tragedy.... at which point the line is drawn: psychopathic action , tragedy or ... restraint and no tragedy. In my neighborhood here in hawaii, the police told me in person that the dept is focussed on mainly 2 things: giving traffic tickets and Diffusing domestic abuse. No priority given for " etc" drug activities, breakins. Montecito police could check in for HMs parties. Alas , cannabis is legal 😅
She tries two tacks. Firstly she threats. Then that cold chilling voice referencing s.t.n...that old devil. Certainly a new categorization in narc understanding surely must include somatic occult narc. The energy in her includes vile practices no doubt. Occult leaning narcs sadly use faecal matter and other bodily fluids. I suspect the victim needs hg but also..in 1st instance the police and then spiritual counsel on dealing with a possessed person.
The narsisist assaulted me in the presence of her secondary supply. She flatly denies it that she assaulted me and said that the secondary supply will testify same.
She is terrifying. Her childhood must have been interesting to say the least. I can't imagine how she treats her children. I really hope they are not in her care any longer.
‘You no longer want to hug me, then?’ I lost it. 🤣😂😅 Yes, honey, he no longer wants snuggles. Maybe because whatever you do with poo, you can’t seem to keep it to you. lmao
hi, HG, i’m wondering if you could make a video about a guy called Lee Hammock (his channel on here is called Mental Healness). he claims to be a “self aware” narcissist who’s been in therapy, but i know you’ve said before that that’s bullshit? like, he either ISN’T a narcissist & only has high narcissistic traits, or .. something. i really only trust your perspective on narcissism, so i want to understand what his deal is.
I believe he’s aware but not in the same way a greater is. I think he’s an upper mid range and maybe borders the greater area. I do believe he’s self aware though.
This means that I’m a narcissist, possibly a psychopath. But knowing about the outcome of the court situation, It appears the legal system did it’s job.
Ievfour decades b4 fenale narc got him...she was inside his flat. Whew. New sympathy for my ex...no wonder he looked ill and ended up in hospital several times after...no full explanations given. ..oh dear...she used dog faeces on his car. This is vile behaviour.
Wow! That was some intense vitriol. Chris has obviously wounded Jenny who shows no control over her ignited fury and doesn’t seem to care if she’s being recorded. Her manipulations are mostly rudimentary: hitting, issuing threats, belittling, and damaging property. She has quite a few lesser traits. She exhibits no greater traits, which rules out Upper Lesser. She occasionally uses pity plays but other than that, she doesn’t exhibit any mid range traits. I don’t know the size of her fuel matrix, but judging by the deep wounding over the loss of her IPPS, I’d guess it’s quite small. I think Jenny is a MLN.
That’s a good analysis I’m thinking the same. I think the fact that she has her own place tells me that she’s not a complete down and out like an L.L.N
@@TheTower73Thanks Knight, hope you’re well. This was a tough one because a LMRN can exhibit lesser traits but, going by these videos, I notice more lesser than midrange with Jenny. I’m looking forward to HG’s conclusion.
I just listened to this, but I question if the 2 of them are narcissistic. Maybe he has cheated on her in the past since she says that he has lied in the past. She also said to him that he called her to come over, than he didn’t open the door. Could he be gaslighting her. Maybe that’s why she is acting as a narcissist. I’m just curious if they both are narcissists. Could he be calmer cause he knows he’s in control of her. 🤷🏻♀️ what do I know, I’m new here plus I didn’t watch the video. I was just listening.
@@ryangrundy4290, Thank you. I actually just looked up reactive abuse. I’m still learning about Narcissist and empaths. Yes, you are correct it appears to be reactive abuse. He may be gaslighting her. He only shows what she does but he doesn’t record his phone calls to her. Since she didn’t know he was going to use her recording, she may be truthful when she said that he called her to come over. Then he doesn’t open the door….. Though it doesn’t matter, they both are not acting right. I would say they are both doing emotional thinking. Well we are all human and no one is perfect. Hopping for the best for both parties.
HG did you ever play the Infocom game Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy? I had to read the books to get through the game (and I'm not sure I got all the way through even so). As to this series, it's priceless. I'm inclined to agree with Jenny on one point though, Chris is stupid. Actually not, but from a logical perspective he sure seems that way. I can't imagine arguing that long. I never did.
Many thanks for this thorough write-up, HG. (If the narcissist does not spy on us after discarding us, how does he know that we have another partner?) From the video it is clear that narcissists do not tolerate being rejected, replaced, betrayed (?), and this triggers an obsession towards the victim who "has" a position as an official partner. While the victims must accept being betrayed, triangulated, replaced, ignored, abandoned, ridiculed, humiliated, physically/mentally/emotionally abused, destruction of personal property, destruction of reputation, being labeled insecure, incapable, non-compliant, usurper, retarded, sloppy, unreliable, and so on. And all this because you tried to love them even though these aspects of theirs were already on the surface and not even very veiled. All this because they perceived something unpleasant in their childhood and did not have the ability to overcome those obstacles then we all owe them a favor, we must please them at the cost of our happiness and sanity, thinking that we are at their mercy or as objects which they can put away at their convenience and pleasure in the most unexpected and perhaps even dramatic moments of life. Okay!
Those previous videos gave me so much stress listening to her rantings. Had to pause several times but in this one I couldn't stop laughing at her crazy behaviour. Those poor children who are in her care must be so traumatised.
Well i get the hurt n pain bit. But the rest is hilarious. Shes a psycopath. Misery film springs to mind. When my hub ran off after four decades with a narc. I never once went to their flat. Ever. Though a friendly porman kept me updated on their big fibbies...i never once stalked. How can she think he wants to go cuddle her...whew...be like swimming with pirhana kissing her😂 doesnt like confronts 😂😂...shes got a friend with her..what..poor man..whew
Who are these people anyway? Funny that she is trying to tell him that a relationship is about conversations and not lecturing, but what does she do over and over and over?
This is *STALKING.* I wish Chris knew that not all, but some police departments take this very seriously - but even if they don’t, his evidence proves a pattern of stalking, he should’ve been able to get a restraining order early on. But I understand that he likely wants to avoid things like that since she has kids - BUT, someone like this, who’s spending time on stalking him rather than looking after her kids, and who is abusing her kids by allowing them to witness this abuse (allowing kids to witness this changes them forever, stresses them out, stress can affect their endocrine system and make them begin puberty too early, etc, so it IS abuse) he should not worry about her being separated from her kids, as she is not fit.
This is an episode of a series that started earlier about a female narcissist and her male victim . This victim made audio and video recordings and this is useful to teach us about narc behaviours .
When this video happen, it was 3 weeks after Jenny and mike set me up and I spent the night in jail. I bailed out and part of the release was no contact with Jenny.
After the jail and with a pending court case, we were broken up. HG got it right.
He dodged a bullet with this one. She has the ability to kill him in any given situation premeditated or otherwise.
She does. She's dangerous.
It is delightful when God lets you watch the outcome. At work, my narcissistic bully surprised everyone by announcing an early retirement. They truly are so insecure that they would rather leave if they can't project their image or when they are uncovered!
Well said!
...although I don't see what a god has to do with it😅
@@egaaronp He is in control and aware of everything!
Don't have a retirement party for them and when they leave have a celebration party!!
@@No-Name-f8pnarcissistic people are typically agnostic.
She's the light of any man's life, Solid gold.
😂
Oh dear, Jenny, remove those swear words and you would have very little to say 🤣
I don’t like confrontation, good lord I have lost it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thank you HG ❤❤❤❤
I know right? When I heard that I choked on my coffee.
She cusses more than Brendan Behan but with less artistry.
Don't know what Trillian's like, but if she doesn't assault him and then lock herself in the bathroom telling him to "go away" from his own house, she's probably an upgrade.
Chris is in desperate need of a consultation with HG.
Haha! It was finding HG Tudor on RUclips that saved me and got me no contact for 4 years now. HG is da man!
No. Its police he needs. He's in danger so is his new woman.
What an excellent example this has been HG in this series. The detailed analysis of the footage and phone calls gives amazing insight . Thank you HG for the final analysis of her narcissism.
Those millions of calls triggered me. Been there and never going back.
She is a mild version of my sister. I have not had any contact since 1997.
Myself as well. I haven’t spoken to her in over 10 years. My other narcissist sister committed suicide. Both were so damaging.
I cut off all contact with my family in 1981. It was a weight that lifted off my shoulders and I haven’t regretted it. A narcissist can make the entire family toxic.
@@tastx3142 good for you. Unfortunately my Mother was a Narcissist as well. She abused me in every way until she, too, committed suicide. I was 40. Now I can recognize a Narcissist is a second and run. Lol
@@jillruben8924and there are so many of them! I run from them, too, and I don't care if they are related. It's to the point that people think you are crazy for seeing narcissists everywhere
Also have a narcissist sister 🤚 Havent spoke to her in years! My immediate family is in her sphere of influence so I had to remove myself.
She texted recently, “hoovering”. I don’t know how she gets my number, I ignored and blocked her.
Wow. I can't remember ever having to deal with anyone like her - for me, this had to be heard to be believed. Your analysis, HG, is crucial viewing for anyone who has, or is, though. She seems like a ticking time bomb & it's horrible to think of her as a parent.
⚠️ When breaking up, never leave your pets with the narcissist. Even if you can’t take them with you. They will be safe at a RSPCA❤
Or temporary Foster placement.
Shocking Serie and very informative. Although it gave me shivers on my spine and made me stopped breathing several times, thank you for this example.
Thank you, HG. This has been a superb series - not pleasant, and frustrating that Chris had not understood what he should really do (though I can understand it, and the videos will presumably have helped his case) - but extremely informative and educational. I presume from the fact that the videos and sound recordings are available, that he did manage to finally get rid of her, and hope he manages to keep away.
HG, thank you for presenting this information together with your explanation of school and cadre.
Thank god, MM left the RF and live across the ocean. She would be a dangerous threat to the Waleses if she had stayed.
She's still a dangerous threat. Harry is on the outs with the RF but RF will still be devastated if MM or her "holistic" mom do harm to him.
@@bettym.3996RF are receiving expert advise on how to deal with the matter. Experts with this experience, are more than likely highlighting all of the outcomes, including the one you’ve suggested. Just as HG teaches all of us.
Holistic people are often toxic I agree with that one.also think if the Queen sent the tow.s packing she saw the threat. Probably at the wedding party was the total moment of clarity. No way back for tow.s.
My mother does similar. Rant, rant, rant. Rave, rave, rave. Swear, swear, swear. Then cry, oh you must hold me and make it all better! It makes no sense but this works on my dad.
My m.in.law did similar things. Why do they turn fake tears on afterwards. It has to go back to being spoilt children.
Absolutely amazing. Many thanks to the reader who provided this incredible footage.
Thanks. It sucked real bad but I had never tangled with a narc before. 5 years no contact! Still see a counselor once a week…
This woman sounds exactly like a former friend of mine with BPD. Her voice is exactly the same, manner of speaking exactly the same. It’s quite eerie.
Is her name Jenny?
Or demonic possession which can present as bad.
I've noticed a lot of overlap in pwBPD & Covert/Vulnerable NPD. So much that aside from the pwBPD possessing a larger fear of abando (motive for controlling abuse), it's nearly indistinguishable. It's the most disturbing behavior to witness of a grown person.
Fantastic explanation.
Thankyou H.G. Finally i was right ,i thought a lesser ,i had a friend like this ,who followed me up my road saying ‘ marry me ‘ ,knocking at my door at unearthly hours,amongst other things ,which i didn’t answer and cost me my boyfriend of the time , I can’t thank you enough for all your videos 🙏🏻😎🙏🏻💖
We have been trying the gray stone method. If you don't feel comfortable leave, and give no fuel.
I really appreciate the level of detail in this analysis. Understanding the thinking behind the manipulations and the specific reasons for them is fascinating. A young Middle Lesser female is particularly unsettling. The rapid ignition of fury combined with the compartmentalisation and pity playing just makes this individual seem so erratic and unhinged she's actually really scary!
Funny thing is she’d prolly be diagnosed as having BPD instead of NPD
@@kellzbeatz8592 Honestly? Before listening to HG's opinion of the Borderline diagnosis, I would have said Jenny was a Borderline. So now I know. If I was describing someone as Bordeline, chances are I'm looking at a Middle Lesser. The 'acting out' of the Borderline is likely a display of heated ignited fury.
@@lauracox3856 exactly same here! Ever since I watched that video of HGs about borderlines it completely changed my mind about them. He made excellent points. And honestly BPD and NPD nearly have the same exact symptoms. Someone without knowledge of the 2 may not even notice the difference.
@@kellzbeatz8592 Totally agree. I think this series proves how watertight HG's classification system actually is. Each narcissist we watch can be slotted into school, sub school and cadre. There's no grey area. There's no
" Oh well this school is close enough, that'll do." You can actually prove the school and sub school. I think that's reassuring to people when they think about their own experiences. Accuracy is reassuring. Give an empath a hint of doubt and they risk getting drawn back in. There is no room for grey areas.
I think genuine patients if bpd would be hurt to read those comments...I imagine...as they're unwell. This woman has something sinister going on. The devil was a narcissist. He offered Jesus the world and everything in it. I always thought the film scarface was an allegory of how Satan rules the world. Its my favorite film abd indeed also a documentary. Is narcissism actually diabolicality I'm really relieved at hg tutor. Previously I often felt I was the nutty one. Why is her friend not telling her to withdraw...wtf.😮
Thank you, HG, for talking about what type she is. That was very helpful.
Thank goodness you explained this HG. It's not the type of narcissist I've encountered. Madness. I will have to try & watch the earlier parts of this series.
Thank you HG❤ quite an education…. glad it’s over… 🥹
Oh my. The audio and visual is so reminiscent. My ex Narc being a 6’2” amateur boxer added to my fear. I didn’t feel safe till I moved countries.
Thoroughly entertained
Great series! I discovered your channel a couple of months ago and have found it very enlightening to say the least (honestly I've been binging).
There is a girl at my work who I suspected was a narcissist due to various behaviours and interactions with fellow staff. Today I witnessed her completely lose it at the owner because he said she couldn't lay on the floor out the back due to workplace health and safety. She threatened to quit if she couldn't lay on the floor and he said that's ok. She then went absolutely mental screaming in his face, pushing past him and screaming through the store as she stormed out. My brain automatically went to "heated ignited fury".
Thank you for the terminology and great content!
My mother used to swear like that all the time. It was chilling how similar it was to hear this
Invaluable series, sir. I hope that those with the most need hear this and find the strength to escape.
She wants to give him a hug. 😂
Thank you HG jan . 😅
The "Chris and Jenny Show" is entirely exhausting to watch - I can really only tolerate HG's analysis following these clips and recordings. Still a good learning experience though - I was struck by the compartmentalization example of Jenny (when she, on the heels of all her nastiness, demands that Chris come and "make right by her") and how it reminded of me of my ex (after accusing me of kidnapping our son, joining a satanic cult, etc ...), then inviting me to come have lunch with him during his access time with our son.
Once the manipulations start to become more transparent, they all begin to look very similar...the patterns stand out and are more quickly recognized.
Thank-you for this education, HG.
Oh my gosh! 😲This is exactly word for word what I have experienced but by an ex boyfriend!!! 😬What is it about narcissists that they sound the same and say the same words, regardless of whether they are female or male?!!! 🤯 Thank you HG Tudor for this excellent series! One of the best yet!💻
You almost wonder if narcs are addicted to drama and to create a miserable situation in order to abuse. A need to abuse. It’s like the air she breathes, a natural condition, one she obviously is most comfortable. You know if he came to hug her, it would just be a matter of time before she would create a negative dramatic situation to abuse. Like a need to vomit.
Maybe happiness, contentment, stability, love scare the narc. So no matter how good, they destruct the good to show their natural state. Maybe the need to control is really the need to control the environment to allow the narc to do what feels natural, like air to breathe… abuse. Abused become abusers. Maybe she unconsciously creates a situation where she gets to abuse as feels better. To mimic her past where she was abused and so she flips it. Makes her feel more powerful. Natural environment she creates. To play a role. Recreating childhood injuries by creating an environment where she can play abuser. Love she doesn’t know. Abuse she does.
Amazing analysis HG, I think she has borderline personality disorder as well.
Thank you for this extremely informative series. The clear (and extensive!) list of her behaviors and thought processes in your summary was so descriptive. And fascinating.
I hope you'll continue this type of content. It's appreciated.
Thanks for this series HG as it is always helpful to hear about theses things! Thanks for letting us know where she sat at on the scale of narcissism.
This is when you get a TRO, I realize it's not exactly 'no contact' but this is ridiculous. I know...I lived through it.
Please have a podcast about religion (in general) and narsisists.
HG, hearing her messages in your voice is hilarious.
HG, I guessed she was a Lesser, but a Victim Narcissist because of the amount of pity plays she showed. She turns out to be the same type of narc my stepdaughter and husband are...MLSomatic...I knew her outburst audios sounded like my stepdaughter's audio recording used in court, now I know why. Xx Thanks HG for the education ❤❤xx
A lot of victims feel terrible about how they behaved in the relationship. And just why they kept trying..
While she spews profanity and insults, she is in control of what garbage she does say. She wishes bad things on Chris, but she never actually threatens anyone with bodily harm.
Clearly this narc's volatile, fury anger could escalate to destruction, bodily harm and tragedy.... at which point the line is drawn: psychopathic action , tragedy or ... restraint and no tragedy. In my neighborhood here in hawaii, the police told me in person that the dept is focussed on mainly 2 things: giving traffic tickets and Diffusing domestic abuse. No priority given for " etc" drug activities, breakins. Montecito police could check in for HMs parties. Alas , cannabis is legal 😅
She tries two tacks. Firstly she threats. Then that cold chilling voice referencing s.t.n...that old devil. Certainly a new categorization in narc understanding surely must include somatic occult narc. The energy in her includes vile practices no doubt. Occult leaning narcs sadly use faecal matter and other bodily fluids. I suspect the victim needs hg but also..in 1st instance the police and then spiritual counsel on dealing with a possessed person.
I hope Chris got away from her - she’s dangerous in every way a person can be.
He needs a protection and retraining order against her.
She comes off as desperate, needy. No life. She does everything to push him away.
8:26: well said
Ohhh yeah time for a hug … no wayyyy run away….
Bucket 🪣 of water…. maybe she will melt…. 😂😂😂
The narsisist also told me she hopes I die. Amongst others.
Straight jacket 🧥
The narsisist assaulted me in the presence of her secondary supply. She flatly denies it that she assaulted me and said that the secondary supply will testify same.
It’s so bad …. I want to laugh my head off …. 😂😂😂
She is terrifying. Her childhood must have been interesting to say the least. I can't imagine how she treats her children. I really hope they are not in her care any longer.
‘You no longer want to hug me, then?’ I lost it. 🤣😂😅 Yes, honey, he no longer wants snuggles. Maybe because whatever you do with poo, you can’t seem to keep it to you. lmao
hi, HG, i’m wondering if you could make a video about a guy called Lee Hammock (his channel on here is called Mental Healness). he claims to be a “self aware” narcissist who’s been in therapy, but i know you’ve said before that that’s bullshit? like, he either ISN’T a narcissist & only has high narcissistic traits, or .. something. i really only trust your perspective on narcissism, so i want to understand what his deal is.
I believe he’s aware but not in the same way a greater is. I think he’s an upper mid range and maybe borders the greater area. I do believe he’s self aware though.
Great example ,
I’d be calling the mental hospital to come get her .
She needs help !
I wonder if the police has training to dealing with that.
This means that I’m a narcissist, possibly a psychopath. But knowing about the outcome of the court situation, It appears the legal system did it’s job.
Douglas Adams is the first thing i thought of when i heard the new girl's name! Hope they enjoyed some pan-galastic gargle blasters.
Tricia MacMillan
Ievfour decades b4 fenale narc got him...she was inside his flat. Whew. New sympathy for my ex...no wonder he looked ill and ended up in hospital several times after...no full explanations given. ..oh dear...she used dog faeces on his car. This is vile behaviour.
He needs to file a restraining order
Hahaha !! Her swearing is very enjoyable. She is funny although clearly deranged
Wow! That was some intense vitriol. Chris has obviously wounded Jenny who shows no control over her ignited fury and doesn’t seem to care if she’s being recorded. Her manipulations are mostly rudimentary: hitting, issuing threats, belittling, and damaging property. She has quite a few lesser traits. She exhibits no greater traits, which rules out Upper Lesser. She occasionally uses pity plays but other than that, she doesn’t exhibit any mid range traits. I don’t know the size of her fuel matrix, but judging by the deep wounding over the loss of her IPPS, I’d guess it’s quite small. I think Jenny is a MLN.
That’s a good analysis I’m thinking the same. I think the fact that she has her own place tells me that she’s not a complete down and out like an L.L.N
@@TheTower73Thanks Knight, hope you’re well. This was a tough one because a LMRN can exhibit lesser traits but, going by these videos, I notice more lesser than midrange with Jenny. I’m looking forward to HG’s conclusion.
Aha, she doesn't like confrontation....good to know.🙄
I just listened to this, but I question if the 2 of them are narcissistic. Maybe he has cheated on her in the past since she says that he has lied in the past. She also said to him that he called her to come over, than he didn’t open the door. Could he be gaslighting her. Maybe that’s why she is acting as a narcissist. I’m just curious if they both are narcissists. Could he be calmer cause he knows he’s in control of her. 🤷🏻♀️ what do I know, I’m new here plus I didn’t watch the video. I was just listening.
Yes he’s gaslighting her and also the public. It’s reactive abuse.
@@ryangrundy4290, Thank you. I actually just looked up reactive abuse. I’m still learning about Narcissist and empaths. Yes, you are correct it appears to be reactive abuse. He may be gaslighting her. He only shows what she does but he doesn’t record his phone calls to her. Since she didn’t know he was going to use her recording, she may be truthful when she said that he called her to come over. Then he doesn’t open the door….. Though it doesn’t matter, they both are not acting right. I would say they are both doing emotional thinking. Well we are all human and no one is perfect. Hopping for the best for both parties.
Complete gaslighting. Many of us have been there. Insanity. Move
Leave your homr
Block and delete
GOSO
HG did you ever play the Infocom game Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy? I had to read the books to get through the game (and I'm not sure I got all the way through even so). As to this series, it's priceless. I'm inclined to agree with Jenny on one point though, Chris is stupid. Actually not, but from a logical perspective he sure seems that way. I can't imagine arguing that long. I never did.
Many thanks for this thorough write-up, HG.
(If the narcissist does not spy on us after discarding us, how does he know that we have another partner?)
From the video it is clear that narcissists do not tolerate being rejected, replaced, betrayed (?), and this triggers an obsession towards the victim who "has" a position as an official partner.
While the victims must accept being betrayed, triangulated, replaced, ignored, abandoned, ridiculed, humiliated, physically/mentally/emotionally abused, destruction of personal property, destruction of reputation, being labeled insecure, incapable, non-compliant, usurper, retarded, sloppy, unreliable, and so on.
And all this because you tried to love them even though these aspects of theirs were already on the surface and not even very veiled.
All this because they perceived something unpleasant in their childhood and did not have the ability to overcome those obstacles then we all owe them a favor, we must please them at the cost of our happiness and sanity, thinking that we are at their mercy or as objects which they can put away at their convenience and pleasure in the most unexpected and perhaps even dramatic moments of life.
Okay!
She sounds just like cyraxx😂
She wants Trillian to have a bad experience with him
Lowest form of existence.
Well She’s Definitely A Keeper
Chris needs to move away!
Those previous videos gave me so much stress listening to her rantings. Had to pause several times but in this one I couldn't stop laughing at her crazy behaviour.
Those poor children who are in her care must be so traumatised.
Well i get the hurt n pain bit. But the rest is hilarious. Shes a psycopath. Misery film springs to mind. When my hub ran off after four decades with a narc. I never once went to their flat. Ever. Though a friendly porman kept me updated on their big fibbies...i never once stalked. How can she think he wants to go cuddle her...whew...be like swimming with pirhana kissing her😂 doesnt like confronts 😂😂...shes got a friend with her..what..poor man..whew
Who are these people anyway? Funny that she is trying to tell him that a relationship is about conversations and not lecturing, but what does she do over and over and over?
This is *STALKING.* I wish Chris knew that not all, but some police departments take this very seriously - but even if they don’t, his evidence proves a pattern of stalking, he should’ve been able to get a restraining order early on. But I understand that he likely wants to avoid things like that since she has kids - BUT, someone like this, who’s spending time on stalking him rather than looking after her kids, and who is abusing her kids by allowing them to witness this abuse (allowing kids to witness this changes them forever, stresses them out, stress can affect their endocrine system and make them begin puberty too early, etc, so it IS abuse) he should not worry about her being separated from her kids, as she is not fit.
This got very redundant and boring and hateful. Good that he escaped, That’s what I am doing now, leaving at 25:08
Oh my gosh, she's lost her mind.
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Sorry probably the wrong response….. 😂😂😂
Lol she’s literally talking to herself.
What a nice girl. Who wouldn't want to date her?😂
Honest to God this woman is a nightmare! But I still don’t get why he keeps interacting with her instead of just calling the police.
He doesn’t want to get into even more trouble with the law
She sounds just like Lorne Armstrong Look him up for a wild ride.
I've never heard the expression, butterface. What does that even mean? lol
Yeah but did he cheat?. Lol
Ugh, this narc is so cringy to listen to. How did she manage to attract the victim in the first place.
I did not enjoy that lady with all those nasty words
First amendment
Who are these people??
This is an episode of a series that started earlier about a female narcissist and her male victim . This victim made audio and video recordings and this is useful to teach us about narc behaviours .
@@elcerlyc ohhh ok ty
I not understand who's da woman
Do you all think TW acts like this?