i like how this woman has clearly been trying to take care of her disabled son single-handedly and brought him in the minute he was ill but dr manning thinks being hostile and accusatory towards someone who she at best thinks is abusive and at worst thinks isn’t trying well enough is helpful at all
Scurvy takes quite a while to develope. It's not a thing of a mistake. It's weeks and months of not enough vitamins. Yeah, she's overworked and exhausted. No one is nursing that, but she's also neglecting her kid by not feeding him any fruits or veggies for a long time.
@@sammyauscux9529 I'm not sure why but my younger sisters were extremely picky eaters, refusing to even try certain foods. It got to the point every family supper time became an hours long argument. Our brilliant, kind, step mom , came up with an idea - if they tasted everything on their plate they got an milkshake - an can of children's pediaSure. I worked, they gradually started eating an more balanced diet. I had the same problem with my kids when they were toddlers - same solution worked. Both my younger sisters grew up to be lawyers. As a teenager one of my sisters discovered that it was dairy giving her an stomachs all these years. She tried lactose free dairy products - still upset her stomach. She's gone full vegan to avoid dairy upsetting her stomach and not eating meat due to personal mortal values.
Dr. Manning always thinks with her emotions first and when she's wrong, she somehow never gets trouble. I would've asked for a new doctor, immediately.
Sadly this isn’t uncommon. I had a doctor roll her eyes at me when I tried to explain that I lost a twin during my pregnancy because she didn’t believe me. Until the hospital sent the ultrasound showing the lost twin’s fetal pole was still there rotting inside me next to the health twin. 🙄
A child developing scurvy is a sign of neglect no matter the case. It takes over a month minimum. If she didn’t see signs of deterioration before a whole month that then that is very much neglect.
There's a reason for that. Historically doctors kinda sucked how they came off as cold or uncaring. I mean how much medical history is rooted in slavery and experimentation on Jewish people
@@audreybennethum3617 Not much can be done about that. If a person doesn't have the qualifications for a better job, qualifications being a college degree, your very limited on jobs and how much money you can get out of those jobs. I'm sure women in these situations would love to not work constantly, but they have no choice. It's not easy like you're making it sound. The only thing that can possibly be done, which takes a long time to get into, is get the child in a head start program, but all that is is free daycare. So yes, he can be watched and fed by people who watch kids during day, but women in these situations have to make ends meet, which means working a lot, so no matter what he still won't get the nutrients he needs. She can't be with him 24/7, no mom can. But in her particular situations and many mom's situations out there, they have absolutely no choice if they want to put a roof over their child's head. You actually have to look at this situation real closely. If you do that, you will come to my same conclusion.
@@mateak1302 That's not what I was referring to. She needs a nutritionist because her son isn't eating what he needs to grow. You can get money from the government for food stamps and all, but that doesn't change the fact that all he wants to eat is chocolate milk and graham crackers. Money isn't the only problem here. He clearly doesn't want to eat anything else, hence the need for a nutritionist.
Same. Not everyone can afford daycare. Food stamps? I know folks who make a dollar to much for them! My wife and I with covered California it's I'm not kidding 70 cents above free insurance! I'm disabled and can't get SSDI so we kinda homestead. Making our own bread and such
Seriously, all that mother needed was to be told there are nutritional drinks that help parents level out a picky childs uneven diet. It wasn't the mom's fault... she was clearly stressed and trying her best while working 2 jobs. I 100% would've told hospital staff to assign me a new doctor or that the very least that that doctor wasn't allowed in my son's room anymore and I just wanted that male doctor there from them on. I can't believe she even thanked her, she didn't deserve it.
A friend has a child who is developmentally delayed. Until he was 8 he was an extremely picky eater. He was prescribed a drink by hospital nutritionists so that even though he hardly ate anything he still got the nutrients he needed. As he got older they were able to introduce more foods and now at 12 he doesn't need the drinks anymore.
100%. Not to mention that you can't tell me that Dr. Manning doesn't know of some supports to help pay for child care when you have a low income. It's obvious that most of the problem is the babysitters who are obviously not feeding her child properly. But instead of working the problem, Dr. Manning decides it's got to be the mom's fault. Honestly, with how emotional she gets in this show, in the real world she would've gotten fired long ago. Doctors are supposed to help, not blame.
“I worry every day if I’m doing right by my child!” Wow! Doc!!! I’m sure your child is deprived… But then; you do make 5 TIMES what this two job Mom does!
That stressor no respect for whatever job, social status, career, sexuality, or any other demographic. That specific concern happens to everyone across the board. It's not right for you to mock Dr. Manning for asking herself that.
This actually happened to my family when we were kids. Our mother was staying up late and preparing nice dinners so the babysitter could focus on us kids. She took us to the doctor when we became listless and hair was falling out. We were thin kids anyway, but became emaciated rather rapidly. The doctor said it was rather obvious we were starving.Upon further investigation it was found the sweet little granny had been stealing our family meals and feeding us one fish stick and a spoonful of peas a day. She made it seem like she was keeping the house clean. It was because she threw my little brothers (toddlers) outside in the morning and wouldn’t let them inside until our mother came home. Also turned out granny was part of a crime ring of shoplifters who had done time. You might wonder why I, a precocious seven-year-old never told on her. Well, my parents were going through a divorce and everything in our lifestyle had changed. A lot of unpleasant things were happening. The adults were always sad or mad about something. This was the 80’s when nobody got therapy and divorces were brutal and not a lot of help was there for families to navigate. Only the severely mentally ill or very wealthy got therapy for anything. With no internet, it was difficult to do background checks. Bottom line, if ANYTHING seems off with your small child you have in daycare, please seek professional help immediately.
See this is along the track of what I thought happened to the kid. Mom is busy so usual night snack is chocolate milk and graham crackers. That’s not bad. But he got scurvy despite other people were supposedly taking care of him. Really none of them offered him anything else while mom was gone 14 hours? not applesauce, orange juice, lemonade, or any sort of food that wasn’t chocolate milk or graham crackers? Mom is trying her best, the others seem questionable. Manning was right to be mad considering vitamin C is abundant in foods, but she was crappy about it and blamed mom.
As someone with ASD, it’s difficult to create a balanced diet even as an adult. I just had a discussion with my therapist about not eating Frosted Flakes every day, even though I do take vitamins (and vary my lunches)
I'm not "undermining" anyone. A therapist isn't a nutritionist. Even a doctor has less than a couple of hours of nutrition training in an entire 8 -12 years of study. I didn't say anything incorrect. Eating Frosted Flakes everyday isn't bad as long as you meet your nutritional needs and the sugar isn't affecting your health. You can't believe experts who aren't experts in a particular field. Therapists don't know anything about nutrition. They should use the guidance of a nutritionist to cater to the patient's mental health and motivations.@@averagespeedfan
even if he wasn't, i'm sure all children preffer chocolate milk over veggies. basically anyhting else instead of vegetables!!! but, yeah, keep him healthy.
There are definitely ways to put veggies into a kids' diet. There are many foods out there that have hidden veggies mixed in with the food. Meat I'm not sure how to fix, but veggies are easy. Also, there are yogurt bars that taste just like ice cream. My go-to is Yasso's sea salt caramel bars. Doesn't even taste like yogurt.
IRL a doctor wouldn't confront the parent at all. They'd just contact a socual worker and hopefully refer the mother and son to an eating disorder clinic. The child is clearly on the spectrum and has food avoidance issues.
I'm on a spectrum and I really don't appreciate everyone being an "expert" on autism just because they've seen one or two traits that MIGHT indicate that and are saying that it's "clearly" ASD when it takes a while for medical professionals to diagnose it. ASD shares symptoms with many different diagnoses and you can't cherry-pick a few symptoms and be sure.
@@freyja6360it seems to be a thing now to armchair diagnose anyone who has even the slightest signs being neurodivergent. As someone who actually is neurodivergent (ADD/NVLD), I agree with you.
@@aliceB357 I would so like to see more people not accept this half assed apologizes from charachters. You messeed up, at least have them grovel a bit every now and then
They do. WIC, women, infants, and children supplemental food coupons. If she's under certain income guidelines she may even qualify for food stamps. WIC can assist with helping mom speak with a nutritionist on healthy foods that kids may like. If the child is autistic, there are programs that can help with certain disabilities and these would cover certain types of therapy. It depends on what each state provides.
@m_d1905 Except, depending on how much you make, you might now qualify for WIC. If you make just enough to get by, even after taxes and rent are accounted for, that can still be too much. It sucks.
@beemel5734 My picky eater is 2. She just doesn't want to eat much volume or variety. Her doctor wants her on 2 Pediasure per day. They're $2 each, so that's $120/mo just for Pediasure. I can't really afford that. WIC would cover that and all the fruits and veggies I want to offer at every meal but can't afford to have her refuse to eat and waste. Unfortunately I make $300 a year too much to qualify. So she gets 1 Pediasure per day that I try to buy when it occasionally goes on sale. You're right that the income guidelines disqualify a lot of people just barely affording housing. I know I'm not the only one in this position.
I can understand the mother especially if she's a single mother raising him alone. What I do is just pack my son lunch every night when he goes to sleep and take it with him the next morning. I work 12-16 hour shifts. I do make sure to pack him healthy foods and thankfully he loves eating salad. I am glad my son isnt a picky eater.
How do you do it? I am scared. My son is 4 months as of this saturday. I broke up with his other parent, who sadly doesnt even to care about him at all. I thankfully found a job, right down the street. The shift works for both of us, but I feel like I am already up over my head. I have several people that are able to watch my son on different days. I am just so scared. He's my first.
its normal to feel scared. what's important is that you're doing your best. I would say write down who can watch him and on what days to make easier. just make sure that its someone that you trust. I work in law enforcement and the stuff that I see is extremely sad especially when it comes to children. it will get easier, trust me. there will be several nights were you wont get enough sleep but at the end what matters is that your child is safe and happy. @@summerschultzalso try to pack your babies stuff the night prior so that you can just grab it when you have to go to work and don't have to worry about what you could be missing or not.
Kudos to you, but this mom is neglectful. Scurvy is caused by severe malnourishment which could have been prevented by a simple daily vitamin gummy- which this specific child would likely take.
Im seeing a lot of comments criticizing Dr. Manning's emotional reaction to this case. Ive been in and out of hospital a lot these days and you wouldnt believe how many EMTS and nurses are this way. Havent had an experience with a doctor this way, but thats my personal exp. I was prescribed morphine for extreme nerve pain and i accidentally took them too close together. I deal with severe anxiety and started to panic - thinking i OD'd. An ambulance was called and the female EMT chewed me out, making my panic 100 tomes worse. These kind of people should not be working in the medical profession.
I'm so sorry that happened especially since medication errors are common. Unfortunately burnout is horrible in healthcare, but it's not an excuse to be accusatory or rude, that's not a healthcare workers job.
@@Peridot0000 That's true - she was probably burnt out beyond belief. It was hard for me to put myself in her shoes because I was having a panic attack, but in retrospect I can see why she acted that way.
As a mom with a kiddo on the spectrum, feeding a little kid is really hard. He eats fruit (thank god) but little to no protein. Unless I force feed the kiddo and risk traumatizing him. It sucks.
My mom gave me chocolate and strawberry tasting protein shakes that I really enjoyed when I was little. They were flavored but packed with the protein I needed. Eventually we made our own and it's helped me with protein intake until I finally was able to stand some meats on the regular. As an adult, I still take them when I don't want to eat meat. They were like a milkshake to me, which was quite enjoyable as little kid because it tasted like dessert, which I never turned down. SlimFast has some good protein recipes in their Smoothie section if it helps.
As a nanny (that has cared for an autistic child) and an adult with autism I would say he needs an evaluation. It’s not as simple as put the “right” food informs of them. And there are some resources (not enough) for low income families that should help with child care and disability treatments.
why do every video i see of chicago med involving kids and dr manning always ends with the doctor accusing the parents of abuse ? like its somehow ALWAYS her
i've had an eating disorder called ARFID almost my whole life. it's basically super restricted eating due to sensory issues, irrational fear surrounding new foods, and extreme pickyness. it made so that when i was really little there were only a few foods that i would eat, and even with vitamin supplements, i was still pretty malnourished. i got flagged as a scurvy risk because of my limited diet. my parents are both doctors and they noticed some of the beginning symptoms and brought me into my pediatrician's office. she shamed my parents and told them they were being neglectful and that as doctors they should've known better. it was awful especially because she was the doctor that diagnosed me with ARFID in the first place. she'd also been treating my 2 older siblings as well as me for around 8 years. so she knew my parents relatively well and still immediately assumed that it was their fault. obviously we got a new pediatrician but its not talked about enough how often doctors let their own opinions and judgements overshadow the best course of care or diagnosis for a patient
I think this is based on an actual case; some parents came in with their son and the doctors couldn't figure out what was wrong. The parents initially just said he was a picky eater, but when asked further they said basically all he would eat was chocolate milk and graham crackers. So they determined it was scurvy.
Many people with developmental disabilities have ARFID (Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder) or sensory processing issues, yet we get called "picky eaters." The issue can be way deeper than being picky. Certain foods can be genuinely distressing because of the taste, texture, or smell.
I'd also consider the babysitters aren't doing their job though. Just sticking him in front of a tv with some unhealthy snacks all day could also cause a speech delay and make his picky eating worse.
As a mom of a child with ASD, one of the hardest part is their pickyness with food. My daughter, now 11 years old, has never eaten a normal Filipino food (rice and dishes) since she was 3, she had been eating the same food. French baguette slices, cheese pizza, mcdonalds chicken nuggets and instant ramens. Occasionally she would request for burgers, peanut butter sandwiches, donuts, cookies, icecream, chocolate chip cookies. It is very very expensive. But we make sure that she drinks milk before bedtime and takes vitamins and supplements after breakfast.
This is my biggest nightmare. My autistic kiddo with ARFID doesnt eat anything. We give him pediasure milkshakes - he is tiny and we do everything we can
i know for me, if he can be involved in the process of cooking- i don't know his care level but i am a medium, it helps when i know what's involved, no surprise in texture. I still shake when im trying something new, but i can do it
I have Asperger Syndrome and i understand the food aversions. But thankfully my parents were patient and never forced me to eat everything but would tell me to just try it once and if i didnt like it then we would move on from it
I too have Aspergers and as I grew older I was finally able to try new food and not hold myself back from nervousness. It took time but I know I need to try to find new options to survive with.
This rang close to home. I did the single mom thing for 17 yrs to a VERY picky eater. I never did daycare & had numerous sitters, but they were caring ones that made sure she ate enough & heathy meals. I was home with her for dinner, & we had some long & sometimes tearful dinners to get her veggies & such into her. I didn't spank, but wisely used patience. I was told they'll eat when hungry, just make sure not to cave on "chocie" & cookies for meals!
Kid total read the doctors expressions and shook a little and the look he had 😢. He literally just knocked over the regular milk. 😅. But still. Even if he is baby sat all day, she should be giving instructions on what to feed him and not give in to a child’s wants then he is lacking proper nutrition. Being a single mom is difficult and stressful but more the reason to take initiative. Cute kid. Did a good job as a little actor.
Yes. And follow up with the babysitter when they leave or you pick up your son to find out what he ate throughout the day and how much. Especially if you know he's picky. But this lady's response was "I think..."
A child who is speech delayed, a very picky eater sounds excatly like my now grown son. It was hard to get him to eat balanced foods was an uphill battle all the time. Fortunately he loves spaghetti, bananas and strawberries. Both my kids loved Carnation instant breakfast. That was their breakfast choice a lot. My daughter liked the kids bottled nutrition drink. I was trying anything and everything to get my picky kids to get balanced nutrition. On Autistic and the other lactose intolerant and a girl. She was so fussy in her teens she ate primarly raw fruits and veggies, cooked chicken or turkey and raspberry yogurt.
I hear y’all about Manning being overly emotionally involved and how she talks to pt’s/parents but she wasn’t wrong in that she was neglecting her child. Graham crackers and chocolate milk for dinner every night bc you’re overworked is insane and there’s no excuse.
I know 98% of these comments are fine, but some of these people forget this is a TV show and it’s made to be realistic, but not an actual insight into a hospital lol
Maybe if she had better wages for her son and herself, she could afford to buy good food. She probably is buried in debt too. She probably can't even afford daycare. But go ahead privledged doctor, blame her instead of helping her.
She did help her. Helped her kid. Privileged doctor? You try studying for those exams and see what its like. Also the lady could afford food. She never said I'm too poor to feed him. She just never asked the kid what he ate when the sitters looked after him. She probably pays them to look after the kid but they failed. And this mom doesn't check in with the sitters either. Lots of ppl are single moms with debts and three jobs. Are their kids all starving?? This lady has jobs. That in itself is a privilege in this economy. How could she not see her child thinning right in front of her eyes? This is child neglect and CPS usually intervenes. If parents can't take care of the children citing excuses then they take them away.
So she works two jobs, and works from 6 to 8 with probably no support from the dad or family she has or they are all dead. And her reward for being such a caring mom is getting yelled at by a doctor that thinks with her emotions instead of trying to be rational and understanding. How is doc manning not fired yet
I saw something similar to this in a clip from House MD. The parents were vegans and fed their kid who was not even a year old almond milk and tofu. House’s response was less tactful than Mannings and the parents lost their kid due to endangerment. Kid lived though.
The House MD episode actually ended with Dr. House discovering that the parents were not at fault. They were raising their kid vegan under the supervision of a dietician and the kid was malnourished due to DiGeorge syndrome. Realising his mistake, he ensured that the evidence of the parents' innocence was passed on to the authorities before he was potentially up for being fired from the hospital (due to an unrelated cause).
I don't want to sound like I have all the answers, but don't they make drinks that are essentially meal replacements with all the necessary vitamins and minerals that taste like chocolate milk?
Yeah my doctor basically prescribed me pediensure as a kid. Still drink it from time to time when I go through these phases where food is just appalling to me. Kinda expensive though.
I'm a really fussy eater and if my mum forced me to eat lots of different foods i would break down and hurt myself. Even know at 13 i still can't eat a lot.
I understand that getting emotional is very hard in these kinds of situations but you can’t get emotionally involved. Yes, have empathy and compassion but don’t twist it into something it’s not. Dr. Charles approaches these issues as if he’s not directly involved in the problem. Like the way you’d talk if you were reading on a case. He sees all sides and goes from there
With that sarcastic approach of doctor manning maybe I could have done something more terrible than just being like I'm waiting for the mother to be more sarcastic... I just don't really approves being misjudged as for me I'm also a single mother... You don't know what another human being with be dealing just because you was born with a golden spoon on your mouth... You don't have any idea being on her shoes... You're just so lucky but for me... You deserve a karma and all the hatred for mistreating this mother
The woman works two jobs? Surprised she had the time to even take the kid to the hospital. In reality, it would have probably been someone else (such as the sitter or a wellness check officer) who did it.
@@francostevo9939 when he's not with her, there are sitters. She doesn't even know what they give him to eat. So yeah that's her fault for not asking them what they have him or telling them what they should give him to eat. When he's with her, she mainly feeds him crackers and chocolate milk. That's her fault as well. I get that she busy. My mother has a time with seven jobs. Obviously not all full time. Full time waitressing, part time waitressing and 4x cleaning apartments for people and one vacation apartment where cleaning was after guests leave sometimes twice a week, others once every two weeks. She was busy, she still managed to feed us proper food even if it wasn't the best all the time, but there were still veggies and fruits.
I understand she’s in a tough situation but it’s not an excuse not to know what’s going on during the day by asking his sitters how he was for them and if he ate knowing he’s picky or has an issue dr manning shouldn’t have gone off on her though she’s doing what she can and she took him in right away
I'm not sure why but my younger sisters were extremely picky eaters, refusing to even try certain foods. It got to the point every family supper time became an hours long argument. Our brilliant, kind, step mom , came up with an idea - if they tasted everything on their plate they got an milkshake - an can of children's pediaSure. I worked, they gradually started eating an more balanced diet. I had the same problem with my kids when they were toddlers - same solution worked. Both my younger sisters grew up to be lawyers. As a teenager one of my sisters discovered that it was dairy giving her an stomachs all these years. She tried lactose free dairy products - still upset her stomach. She's gone full vegan to avoid dairy upsetting her stomach and not eating meat due to personal mortal values.
Manning is emotional when it comes to these types of situations which you have to realize this mother is probably a single mother and she has to work hard to provide for the child so it’s understandable that the kid is malnourished and needs a nutritionist but still it’s not completely the mother’s fault
Doctor was wrong to yell there are bad parents that truly hurt there kids then there are hard working ones that do to provide and can’t be with the child all the time. I don’t blame the parent as in hurting the child on purpose. She should of asked what he ate during the day tho.
I was in pain for awhile now when my stomach feels uncomfortable unwanted unemployment unpaid unacceptable unsecured my personal situation I just wanted to give myself some extra credit for my pregnancy to get better for my first period cramps I have paid for it
My daughter ate those frozen PBJs and Mac and cheese for 3 years! Currently my grandson it's no meat unless dinosaur nuggets and fries. I think he sometimes eats veggies! Mrs Obama should have been more concerned with the fact that for the price of fresh fruit and vegetables is far more expensive than canned
And then you don't understand why people are afraid to bring their children to the doctor. Because the parents are terrified that if they go to a doctor, the doctor will accuse them of abuse and they will never be with their children again! AND YOU ARE HAPPY WITH THAT?
1:38 Honestly, this problem could’ve been solved at the cafeteria just had a bottle of Nesquick in the fridge which they should have just in case they run out of chocolate milk and somebody asks for it I’m not saying only serve Nesquick in white milk as the chocolate milk but when you don’t have it, it’s a good substitute for chocolate milk. It’s literally just chocolate syrup that you pour in there and I’m sure the cafeteria must’ve had some kind of chocolate syrup that they could’ve used.
Preventable? Yes. Understandable how something like this could happen under these circumstances? Also, Yes. Or should be. She's trying as hard as she can. She just needs more help. Most parents have given in to picky eating from their kids.
I actually was a very picky kid and still am today my mom and dad were trying to to get me too help me and so they took me too a nutritionist and she explained to me that need to eat other besides junk food even if I don’t like it I eventually will my mom took ideas from her that I had no idea about she started putting secretly putting veggies and meat in my food and fed me a protein shake and it worked i am 15 now and I will eat veggies fruit and meat if it combines with other foods except fruit I will eat fruit alone you can’t blame the mom or dad really the kid is kinda the problem the parents don’t want to hurt the kid but want to get them too eat healthy stuff I regret making it hard for my parents at least they had one none picking kid😂
That kid probably didn't make it any easier. Because she was a single mom, it probably made it easier for him to manipulate her into doing what he wanted by saying if she didn't, she didn't love him.
It was discovered at least two hundred years ago that a teaspoon of lime juice administered every few weeks was sufficient to prevent scurvy in sailors. Feeding him some sour gummy snacks from time to time should give him all the vitamin C he needs to avoid scurvy. Not saying it’s the most nutritious food in the world but if he has such severe sensory issues regarding food, it might be the best way to get some vitamin c in his diet.
All y'all saying, "a real doctor wouldn't judge them like this" hasn't been a woman using NFP or FAM to space her kids (rather than the pill), or a woman who saw a midwife to have her babies, at an OBGYN appointment. OBGYN's can be absolute jerks.
Just look at that documentary "Take Care of Maya" where a hospital wrongly took a girl from her mother and they refused to let her near her until the mom took her own life. From what I've seen, it's not the first time they've wrongly had children taken from their families, either.
Im not a medical profishinal but im pritty sure this dr needs more then slap on the rist holy cow this lady needs to. understand poor peapole cant afford the best food especully when the kid has a disability i grew up in a similer situation my. Mom worked her a$$ off with four kids and a alchaolic selfish husbind on top of that.
This child has developmental issues. Doesn't Illinois have any kind of help for a woman like the mom? I's say that you just don't give in to the chocolate milk and graham crackers demands until the little guy is so hungry he'd eat real food, but I don't know if that would work with him. Maybe those protein/carb/vitamin drinks that come in chocolate.
As a mother myself, I would have noticed my son or daughter getting thinner, and would had made sure that they were eating at least three meals and snacking. This mom was just so busy with life and overwhelmed that she thought he was getting fed and he came down with some thing and that’s why he was so thin and weak.? Assumption is some thing that is overlooked. U can’t assume anything
i like how this woman has clearly been trying to take care of her disabled son single-handedly and brought him in the minute he was ill but dr manning thinks being hostile and accusatory towards someone who she at best thinks is abusive and at worst thinks isn’t trying well enough is helpful at all
Why do you blame it all on her? The other doctor is the one who suggested abuse initially and SHE was the one that said not to go there yet.
Scurvy takes quite a while to develope. It's not a thing of a mistake. It's weeks and months of not enough vitamins. Yeah, she's overworked and exhausted. No one is nursing that, but she's also neglecting her kid by not feeding him any fruits or veggies for a long time.
@@sammyauscux9529 I'm not sure why but my younger sisters were extremely picky eaters, refusing to even try certain foods. It got to the point every family supper time became an hours long argument. Our brilliant, kind, step mom , came up with an idea - if they tasted everything on their plate they got an milkshake - an can of children's pediaSure. I worked, they gradually started eating an more balanced diet. I had the same problem with my kids when they were toddlers - same solution worked. Both my younger sisters grew up to be lawyers. As a teenager one of my sisters discovered that it was dairy giving her an stomachs all these years. She tried lactose free dairy products - still upset her stomach. She's gone full vegan to avoid dairy upsetting her stomach and not eating meat due to personal mortal values.
@@sammyauscux9529it ain’t her fault. She is working two jobs.
@@francostevo9939 that doesn't mean that she can't give her kid fruits and vegetables.
Dr. Manning always thinks with her emotions first and when she's wrong, she somehow never gets trouble. I would've asked for a new doctor, immediately.
But she’s right though
It is a parents job to make sure their children get the best nutrition
Not just give into the kid whining
Sadly this isn’t uncommon. I had a doctor roll her eyes at me when I tried to explain that I lost a twin during my pregnancy because she didn’t believe me. Until the hospital sent the ultrasound showing the lost twin’s fetal pole was still there rotting inside me next to the health twin. 🙄
@@buzzkillington1719Yeah but she was taking him to a doctor who recommended rest. She ignored his suggestion so it’s not like she was not trying.
@@buzzkillington1719 no she was wrong
@@octaviacrowder2419 No she was right
Dr Manning always bugged me with how often she butted into the patients personal lives like she knows all about them
She kinda reminds me of Dr. Cameron actually!
@@Profile__1 As someone who's seen House and has no love for Dr. Cameron, Manning is worse.
@@addisonwelsh Jesus Christ, for real? I've never really seen much of Chicago Med before; how is Manning worse?
A child developing scurvy is a sign of neglect no matter the case. It takes over a month minimum. If she didn’t see signs of deterioration before a whole month that then that is very much neglect.
It's a show buddy, touch some grass
And one more time, a case in which Dr. Manning gets emotionally involved
Of course she does. So annoying.
I feel bad for her actress they always force her character to do this
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There's a reason for that. Historically doctors kinda sucked how they came off as cold or uncaring. I mean how much medical history is rooted in slavery and experimentation on Jewish people
Not much of an apology, IMO
They don't need a social worker. They need a nutritionist. Social workers don't deal with malnourishment.
Well the social worker was also probably there to tell her that if she can't care for her son, they'll have to take him.
How about getting the mom some help so she can be with her kid and not working constantly
@@audreybennethum3617 Not much can be done about that. If a person doesn't have the qualifications for a better job, qualifications being a college degree, your very limited on jobs and how much money you can get out of those jobs. I'm sure women in these situations would love to not work constantly, but they have no choice. It's not easy like you're making it sound. The only thing that can possibly be done, which takes a long time to get into, is get the child in a head start program, but all that is is free daycare. So yes, he can be watched and fed by people who watch kids during day, but women in these situations have to make ends meet, which means working a lot, so no matter what he still won't get the nutrients he needs. She can't be with him 24/7, no mom can. But in her particular situations and many mom's situations out there, they have absolutely no choice if they want to put a roof over their child's head. You actually have to look at this situation real closely. If you do that, you will come to my same conclusion.
@@audreybennethum3617 the kid already had two babysitters what more could they do other than tell the mom if she has to stop working so much
@@mateak1302 That's not what I was referring to. She needs a nutritionist because her son isn't eating what he needs to grow. You can get money from the government for food stamps and all, but that doesn't change the fact that all he wants to eat is chocolate milk and graham crackers. Money isn't the only problem here. He clearly doesn't want to eat anything else, hence the need for a nutritionist.
I need an episode where she can’t control her emotions and a parent finally slaps her out the room
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same!!
There has to be one somewhere
Same🎉🎉
Same.
Not everyone can afford daycare.
Food stamps? I know folks who make a dollar to much for them!
My wife and I with covered California it's I'm not kidding 70 cents above free insurance! I'm disabled and can't get SSDI so we kinda homestead.
Making our own bread and such
Seriously, all that mother needed was to be told there are nutritional drinks that help parents level out a picky childs uneven diet. It wasn't the mom's fault... she was clearly stressed and trying her best while working 2 jobs. I 100% would've told hospital staff to assign me a new doctor or that the very least that that doctor wasn't allowed in my son's room anymore and I just wanted that male doctor there from them on. I can't believe she even thanked her, she didn't deserve it.
A friend has a child who is developmentally delayed. Until he was 8 he was an extremely picky eater. He was prescribed a drink by hospital nutritionists so that even though he hardly ate anything he still got the nutrients he needed. As he got older they were able to introduce more foods and now at 12 he doesn't need the drinks anymore.
100%. Not to mention that you can't tell me that Dr. Manning doesn't know of some supports to help pay for child care when you have a low income. It's obvious that most of the problem is the babysitters who are obviously not feeding her child properly. But instead of working the problem, Dr. Manning decides it's got to be the mom's fault. Honestly, with how emotional she gets in this show, in the real world she would've gotten fired long ago. Doctors are supposed to help, not blame.
“I worry every day if I’m doing right by my child!”
Wow! Doc!!! I’m sure your child is deprived… But then; you do make 5 TIMES what this two job Mom does!
Don't pork if you don't want the stork
@@shelldie8523 keep that same energy for the guys.
How do you know she's making more than the mother?
That stressor no respect for whatever job, social status, career, sexuality, or any other demographic. That specific concern happens to everyone across the board. It's not right for you to mock Dr. Manning for asking herself that.
@@GirlSmotheredToDeath not only that, that specific question is asked by many people
This actually happened to my family when we were kids. Our mother was staying up late and preparing nice dinners so the babysitter could focus on us kids. She took us to the doctor when we became listless and hair was falling out. We were thin kids anyway, but became emaciated rather rapidly. The doctor said it was rather obvious we were starving.Upon further investigation it was found the sweet little granny had been stealing our family meals and feeding us one fish stick and a spoonful of peas a day. She made it seem like she was keeping the house clean. It was because she threw my little brothers (toddlers) outside in the morning and wouldn’t let them inside until our mother came home. Also turned out granny was part of a crime ring of shoplifters who had done time. You might wonder why I, a precocious seven-year-old never told on her. Well, my parents were going through a divorce and everything in our lifestyle had changed. A lot of unpleasant things were happening. The adults were always sad or mad about something. This was the 80’s when nobody got therapy and divorces were brutal and not a lot of help was there for families to navigate. Only the severely mentally ill or very wealthy got therapy for anything. With no internet, it was difficult to do background checks. Bottom line, if ANYTHING seems off with your small child you have in daycare, please seek professional help immediately.
Can i ask, how did your parents find out tgis woman was stealing from you? What happened when they found out and put things together?
See this is along the track of what I thought happened to the kid. Mom is busy so usual night snack is chocolate milk and graham crackers. That’s not bad. But he got scurvy despite other people were supposedly taking care of him. Really none of them offered him anything else while mom was gone 14 hours? not applesauce, orange juice, lemonade, or any sort of food that wasn’t chocolate milk or graham crackers? Mom is trying her best, the others seem questionable. Manning was right to be mad considering vitamin C is abundant in foods, but she was crappy about it and blamed mom.
That's escalated quickly.
That sounds like it could be the next episode. Sorry you went through that.
Must be nice to sit up on a fucking pedestal and pass judgements like that.
As someone with ASD, it’s difficult to create a balanced diet even as an adult. I just had a discussion with my therapist about not eating Frosted Flakes every day, even though I do take vitamins (and vary my lunches)
I think frosted flakes are fine if you aren't replacing meals with them
@jenm1 bro why are u undermining their therapist
@@jenm1 it’s probably best not to have them for dinner and then have an ice cream tho. You need, like, nutrients. Colors. Vitamins and minerals.
I'm not "undermining" anyone. A therapist isn't a nutritionist. Even a doctor has less than a couple of hours of nutrition training in an entire 8 -12 years of study. I didn't say anything incorrect. Eating Frosted Flakes everyday isn't bad as long as you meet your nutritional needs and the sugar isn't affecting your health. You can't believe experts who aren't experts in a particular field. Therapists don't know anything about nutrition. They should use the guidance of a nutritionist to cater to the patient's mental health and motivations.@@averagespeedfan
They never said it's for dinner, and I literally said if you aren't replacing meals. Why are you guys like this@@scriptorpaulina
As soon as Manning pulls out her "as a mother" routine, it's over
My son is 3 yrs old and autistic...he is very picky...he hardly eats meat, or veggies...so i understand the frustration
Me too Mama
even if he wasn't, i'm sure all children preffer chocolate milk over veggies. basically anyhting else instead of vegetables!!! but, yeah, keep him healthy.
There are definitely ways to put veggies into a kids' diet. There are many foods out there that have hidden veggies mixed in with the food. Meat I'm not sure how to fix, but veggies are easy. Also, there are yogurt bars that taste just like ice cream. My go-to is Yasso's sea salt caramel bars. Doesn't even taste like yogurt.
@@arrowverselover100 those are expensive. It's really not that easy on a budget.
Watermelon and other fruits is a life saver for picky eaters let them have all they want
Literally all she has to say was “they make chocolate flavor nutritional drinks that can boost his vitamins”
They need far more support than that
IRL a doctor wouldn't confront the parent at all. They'd just contact a socual worker and hopefully refer the mother and son to an eating disorder clinic. The child is clearly on the spectrum and has food avoidance issues.
not every child who is fussy is on the spectrum. Some kids just know if they have a tantrum their parents will give them their favorite foods.
I'm on a spectrum and I really don't appreciate everyone being an "expert" on autism just because they've seen one or two traits that MIGHT indicate that and are saying that it's "clearly" ASD when it takes a while for medical professionals to diagnose it. ASD shares symptoms with many different diagnoses and you can't cherry-pick a few symptoms and be sure.
@@freyja6360it seems to be a thing now to armchair diagnose anyone who has even the slightest signs being neurodivergent. As someone who actually is neurodivergent (ADD/NVLD), I agree with you.
@@ChristineTheHippielol, yeah, everybody now is a doctor, psychiatrist and expert in any field. they have after all done their "research".
I have a food related phobia and aren't on the spectrum. Just putting that out there.
Glad she apologized but yeah she’s in the wrong and needs to stay in her lane.
She does this all the time
when a child seems malnourished, doctors are required to notice and enquire about it.
I would of told her to shove her apology and told her to stay away from me and my child.
@@aliceB357 I would so like to see more people not accept this half assed apologizes from charachters. You messeed up, at least have them grovel a bit every now and then
She's not a horrible mother but she's often a pretty bad doctor.
yup
She is a bad doctor. Yelling at patients and jumping to conclusions all the time.
Yes. She was definitely in the wrong. That mother wasn't neglecting her son. She was just overworked.
Yes overworked and neglecting her son by not giving him proper food for months
The mother 100% was neglecting her son. The two things are not toggled conditions.
The doctor is a doctor, surely she would understand of being Overworked... Then again, I don't know that much
They should have programs to help mothers and children like this.
They do. WIC, women, infants, and children supplemental food coupons. If she's under certain income guidelines she may even qualify for food stamps. WIC can assist with helping mom speak with a nutritionist on healthy foods that kids may like. If the child is autistic, there are programs that can help with certain disabilities and these would cover certain types of therapy. It depends on what each state provides.
@m_d1905 Except, depending on how much you make, you might now qualify for WIC. If you make just enough to get by, even after taxes and rent are accounted for, that can still be too much. It sucks.
@beemel5734 My picky eater is 2. She just doesn't want to eat much volume or variety. Her doctor wants her on 2 Pediasure per day. They're $2 each, so that's $120/mo just for Pediasure. I can't really afford that. WIC would cover that and all the fruits and veggies I want to offer at every meal but can't afford to have her refuse to eat and waste. Unfortunately I make $300 a year too much to qualify. So she gets 1 Pediasure per day that I try to buy when it occasionally goes on sale. You're right that the income guidelines disqualify a lot of people just barely affording housing. I know I'm not the only one in this position.
I can understand the mother especially if she's a single mother raising him alone. What I do is just pack my son lunch every night when he goes to sleep and take it with him the next morning. I work 12-16 hour shifts. I do make sure to pack him healthy foods and thankfully he loves eating salad. I am glad my son isnt a picky eater.
How do you do it? I am scared. My son is 4 months as of this saturday. I broke up with his other parent, who sadly doesnt even to care about him at all. I thankfully found a job, right down the street. The shift works for both of us, but I feel like I am already up over my head. I have several people that are able to watch my son on different days. I am just so scared. He's my first.
@summerschultz more power to you dear mom.. you are already doing amazing 💕
@@anubhmk thank you. I don't feel like I am though and I have no people to actually talk to about it. It honestly makes me feel so alone.
its normal to feel scared. what's important is that you're doing your best. I would say write down who can watch him and on what days to make easier. just make sure that its someone that you trust. I work in law enforcement and the stuff that I see is extremely sad especially when it comes to children.
it will get easier, trust me. there will be several nights were you wont get enough sleep but at the end what matters is that your child is safe and happy. @@summerschultzalso try to pack your babies stuff the night prior so that you can just grab it when you have to go to work and don't have to worry about what you could be missing or not.
Kudos to you, but this mom is neglectful. Scurvy is caused by severe malnourishment which could have been prevented by a simple daily vitamin gummy- which this specific child would likely take.
The mom is right
She has no right to judge and she should be fired
i would say her child having scurvy is a reason enough to judge. princesses and their egos...
Yeah she does. When he is vitamin deficient like that she does. That means she is letting it go way to far
What??? Such "mother" should lose her parental rights for such negligence
@@giornikitop5373 ?
@@justynag2492 she has to work why do you think she can do ? Maybe she is a single mother ??
How do you see bleeding gums and not immediately think scurvy?
Im seeing a lot of comments criticizing Dr. Manning's emotional reaction to this case. Ive been in and out of hospital a lot these days and you wouldnt believe how many EMTS and nurses are this way. Havent had an experience with a doctor this way, but thats my personal exp. I was prescribed morphine for extreme nerve pain and i accidentally took them too close together. I deal with severe anxiety and started to panic - thinking i OD'd. An ambulance was called and the female EMT chewed me out, making my panic 100 tomes worse. These kind of people should not be working in the medical profession.
I'm so sorry that happened especially since medication errors are common. Unfortunately burnout is horrible in healthcare, but it's not an excuse to be accusatory or rude, that's not a healthcare workers job.
@@Peridot0000 That's true - she was probably burnt out beyond belief. It was hard for me to put myself in her shoes because I was having a panic attack, but in retrospect I can see why she acted that way.
As a mom with a kiddo on the spectrum, feeding a little kid is really hard. He eats fruit (thank god) but little to no protein. Unless I force feed the kiddo and risk traumatizing him. It sucks.
My mom gave me chocolate and strawberry tasting protein shakes that I really enjoyed when I was little. They were flavored but packed with the protein I needed. Eventually we made our own and it's helped me with protein intake until I finally was able to stand some meats on the regular. As an adult, I still take them when I don't want to eat meat. They were like a milkshake to me, which was quite enjoyable as little kid because it tasted like dessert, which I never turned down.
SlimFast has some good protein recipes in their Smoothie section if it helps.
As a nanny (that has cared for an autistic child) and an adult with autism I would say he needs an evaluation. It’s not as simple as put the “right” food informs of them. And there are some resources (not enough) for low income families that should help with child care and disability treatments.
why do every video i see of chicago med involving kids and dr manning always ends with the doctor accusing the parents of abuse ? like its somehow ALWAYS her
i've had an eating disorder called ARFID almost my whole life. it's basically super restricted eating due to sensory issues, irrational fear surrounding new foods, and extreme pickyness. it made so that when i was really little there were only a few foods that i would eat, and even with vitamin supplements, i was still pretty malnourished. i got flagged as a scurvy risk because of my limited diet. my parents are both doctors and they noticed some of the beginning symptoms and brought me into my pediatrician's office. she shamed my parents and told them they were being neglectful and that as doctors they should've known better. it was awful especially because she was the doctor that diagnosed me with ARFID in the first place. she'd also been treating my 2 older siblings as well as me for around 8 years. so she knew my parents relatively well and still immediately assumed that it was their fault.
obviously we got a new pediatrician but its not talked about enough how often doctors let their own opinions and judgements overshadow the best course of care or diagnosis for a patient
I think this is based on an actual case; some parents came in with their son and the doctors couldn't figure out what was wrong. The parents initially just said he was a picky eater, but when asked further they said basically all he would eat was chocolate milk and graham crackers. So they determined it was scurvy.
I remember that! It was on an episode of Untold Stories Of The E.R.
Many people with developmental disabilities have ARFID (Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder) or sensory processing issues, yet we get called "picky eaters." The issue can be way deeper than being picky. Certain foods can be genuinely distressing because of the taste, texture, or smell.
It’s very hard to make a kid eat foods they don’t like, especially if a disability is involved. A good vitamin can help.❤
I've seen it before... Natalie judged QUICKLY!
Dr. Manning was completely right though, the Mom needed to hear that. She's lucky they didn't report her to CPS or DSS.
Dr. Manning is a witch, without her broom. Great character ❤
Speech delay and extremely picky eating? Has anyone considered autism?
I'd also consider the babysitters aren't doing their job though. Just sticking him in front of a tv with some unhealthy snacks all day could also cause a speech delay and make his picky eating worse.
I was thinking about watching this show but that lady Doctor gets on my nerves. It’s sad because I really, really like Dr. Charles
I hate Natalie. She gets way too personal with the patients and the families
As a mom of a child with ASD, one of the hardest part is their pickyness with food. My daughter, now 11 years old, has never eaten a normal Filipino food (rice and dishes) since she was 3, she had been eating the same food. French baguette slices, cheese pizza, mcdonalds chicken nuggets and instant ramens. Occasionally she would request for burgers, peanut butter sandwiches, donuts, cookies, icecream, chocolate chip cookies. It is very very expensive. But we make sure that she drinks milk before bedtime and takes vitamins and supplements after breakfast.
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Kid should have been taking vitamins.
when I was sick and sicker and sickness and sickening to my stomach is still pain for awhile now
This is my biggest nightmare. My autistic kiddo with ARFID doesnt eat anything. We give him pediasure milkshakes - he is tiny and we do everything we can
i know for me, if he can be involved in the process of cooking- i don't know his care level but i am a medium, it helps when i know what's involved, no surprise in texture. I still shake when im trying something new, but i can do it
As a actress she does well to make evryone HATE dr. manning.. na ask for a different doctor 😂
I have Asperger Syndrome and i understand the food aversions. But thankfully my parents were patient and never forced me to eat everything but would tell me to just try it once and if i didnt like it then we would move on from it
My parents would try more than once, but spaced years apart, so there was a chance things had changed.
I too have Aspergers and as I grew older I was finally able to try new food and not hold myself back from nervousness. It took time but I know I need to try to find new options to survive with.
This rang close to home. I did the single mom thing for 17 yrs to a VERY picky eater. I never did daycare & had numerous sitters, but they were caring ones that made sure she ate enough & heathy meals. I was home with her for dinner, & we had some long & sometimes tearful dinners to get her veggies & such into her. I didn't spank, but wisely used patience. I was told they'll eat when hungry, just make sure not to cave on "chocie" & cookies for meals!
Manning rubs me the wrong way.
Kid total read the doctors expressions and shook a little and the look he had 😢. He literally just knocked over the regular milk. 😅. But still. Even if he is baby sat all day, she should be giving instructions on what to feed him and not give in to a child’s wants then he is lacking proper nutrition. Being a single mom is difficult and stressful but more the reason to take initiative. Cute kid. Did a good job as a little actor.
Yes. And follow up with the babysitter when they leave or you pick up your son to find out what he ate throughout the day and how much. Especially if you know he's picky. But this lady's response was "I think..."
Does this doctor not understand that some kids with autism have food sensitivities and some parents are low income?
Easy to be a single mom when you are bringing in 6 figures.
A child who is speech delayed, a very picky eater sounds excatly like my now grown son. It was hard to get him to eat balanced foods was an uphill battle all the time. Fortunately he loves spaghetti, bananas and strawberries. Both my kids loved Carnation instant breakfast. That was their breakfast choice a lot. My daughter liked the kids bottled nutrition drink. I was trying anything and everything to get my picky kids to get balanced nutrition. On Autistic and the other lactose intolerant and a girl. She was so fussy in her teens she ate primarly raw fruits and veggies, cooked chicken or turkey and raspberry yogurt.
Manning is a lawsuit waiting to happen Jesus
I hear y’all about Manning being overly emotionally involved and how she talks to pt’s/parents but she wasn’t wrong in that she was neglecting her child. Graham crackers and chocolate milk for dinner every night bc you’re overworked is insane and there’s no excuse.
In real life, I would hope that a doctor like that would be fired. So unprofessional.
lol, this show is pretty funny with how ridiculously unprofessional they have the doctors be
i love her so much i give her what she wants
I know 98% of these comments are fine, but some of these people forget this is a TV show and it’s made to be realistic, but not an actual insight into a hospital lol
Maybe if she had better wages for her son and herself, she could afford to buy good food. She probably is buried in debt too. She probably can't even afford daycare. But go ahead privledged doctor, blame her instead of helping her.
She did help her. Helped her kid. Privileged doctor? You try studying for those exams and see what its like. Also the lady could afford food. She never said I'm too poor to feed him. She just never asked the kid what he ate when the sitters looked after him. She probably pays them to look after the kid but they failed. And this mom doesn't check in with the sitters either. Lots of ppl are single moms with debts and three jobs. Are their kids all starving?? This lady has jobs. That in itself is a privilege in this economy. How could she not see her child thinning right in front of her eyes? This is child neglect and CPS usually intervenes. If parents can't take care of the children citing excuses then they take them away.
Professionalism has left the chat
If this show was real life, every doctor, except Dr. Charles, would've been sued numerous times.
So she works two jobs, and works from 6 to 8 with probably no support from the dad or family she has or they are all dead. And her reward for being such a caring mom is getting yelled at by a doctor that thinks with her emotions instead of trying to be rational and understanding. How is doc manning not fired yet
I saw something similar to this in a clip from House MD. The parents were vegans and fed their kid who was not even a year old almond milk and tofu. House’s response was less tactful than Mannings and the parents lost their kid due to endangerment. Kid lived though.
I love House😂😂😂😂
The House MD episode actually ended with Dr. House discovering that the parents were not at fault. They were raising their kid vegan under the supervision of a dietician and the kid was malnourished due to DiGeorge syndrome. Realising his mistake, he ensured that the evidence of the parents' innocence was passed on to the authorities before he was potentially up for being fired from the hospital (due to an unrelated cause).
"Those parents are not abusive, they're idiots."
-Dr. Gregory House
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@@TheSongsIlovelistunfortunately digeorgio syndrome is way worse…
I don't want to sound like I have all the answers, but don't they make drinks that are essentially meal replacements with all the necessary vitamins and minerals that taste like chocolate milk?
Yes, but they can be pretty expensive.
Yes, they do. And then you run into the issue: will my kid eat this/drink this? Can I afford it?
Yeah my doctor basically prescribed me pediensure as a kid. Still drink it from time to time when I go through these phases where food is just appalling to me. Kinda expensive though.
I'm a really fussy eater and if my mum forced me to eat lots of different foods i would break down and hurt myself. Even know at 13 i still can't eat a lot.
Maturing is realizing Dr.Manning should not be a doctor
I understand that getting emotional is very hard in these kinds of situations but you can’t get emotionally involved. Yes, have empathy and compassion but don’t twist it into something it’s not. Dr. Charles approaches these issues as if he’s not directly involved in the problem. Like the way you’d talk if you were reading on a case. He sees all sides and goes from there
With that sarcastic approach of doctor manning maybe I could have done something more terrible than just being like I'm waiting for the mother to be more sarcastic... I just don't really approves being misjudged as for me I'm also a single mother... You don't know what another human being with be dealing just because you was born with a golden spoon on your mouth... You don't have any idea being on her shoes... You're just so lucky but for me... You deserve a karma and all the hatred for mistreating this mother
A doctor shouldn’t judge
If your gone for 14 hours a day, your not benefiting your child in any way
The woman works two jobs? Surprised she had the time to even take the kid to the hospital. In reality, it would have probably been someone else (such as the sitter or a wellness check officer) who did it.
"Chokky"
That was so cute
I’m on the mums side she is trying her best for her son.
By not giving him proper food for months?
@@sammyauscux9529ITSs not her fault!!! She is working 2 jobs and doesn’t see her son until late at night! How is this her fault?!
@@francostevo9939 when he's not with her, there are sitters. She doesn't even know what they give him to eat. So yeah that's her fault for not asking them what they have him or telling them what they should give him to eat.
When he's with her, she mainly feeds him crackers and chocolate milk. That's her fault as well.
I get that she busy. My mother has a time with seven jobs. Obviously not all full time. Full time waitressing, part time waitressing and 4x cleaning apartments for people and one vacation apartment where cleaning was after guests leave sometimes twice a week, others once every two weeks. She was busy, she still managed to feed us proper food even if it wasn't the best all the time, but there were still veggies and fruits.
I understand she’s in a tough situation but it’s not an excuse not to know what’s going on during the day by asking his sitters how he was for them and if he ate knowing he’s picky or has an issue dr manning shouldn’t have gone off on her though she’s doing what she can and she took him in right away
i kown how that feels i got a 3 year old of my own
I'm not sure why but my younger sisters were extremely picky eaters, refusing to even try certain foods. It got to the point every family supper time became an hours long argument. Our brilliant, kind, step mom , came up with an idea - if they tasted everything on their plate they got an milkshake - an can of children's pediaSure. I worked, they gradually started eating an more balanced diet. I had the same problem with my kids when they were toddlers - same solution worked. Both my younger sisters grew up to be lawyers. As a teenager one of my sisters discovered that it was dairy giving her an stomachs all these years. She tried lactose free dairy products - still upset her stomach. She's gone full vegan to avoid dairy upsetting her stomach and not eating meat due to personal mortal values.
What a bad doctor
Manning is emotional when it comes to these types of situations which you have to realize this mother is probably a single mother and she has to work hard to provide for the child so it’s understandable that the kid is malnourished and needs a nutritionist but still it’s not completely the mother’s fault
Doctor was wrong to yell there are bad parents that truly hurt there kids then there are hard working ones that do to provide and can’t be with the child all the time. I don’t blame the parent as in hurting the child on purpose. She should of asked what he ate during the day tho.
I was in pain for awhile now when my stomach feels uncomfortable unwanted unemployment unpaid unacceptable unsecured my personal situation I just wanted to give myself some extra credit for my pregnancy to get better for my first period cramps I have paid for it
My daughter ate those frozen PBJs and Mac and cheese for 3 years!
Currently my grandson it's no meat unless dinosaur nuggets and fries. I think he sometimes eats veggies!
Mrs Obama should have been more concerned with the fact that for the price of fresh fruit and vegetables is far more expensive than canned
These doctors are like the most judgemental people in the field.
And then you don't understand why people are afraid to bring their children to the doctor. Because the parents are terrified that if they go to a doctor, the doctor will accuse them of abuse and they will never be with their children again! AND YOU ARE HAPPY WITH THAT?
Bro needs his Chockey 😂
There’s chocolate Pediasure. Also, help her find a nutritionist that specializes in kids like him.
1:38 Honestly, this problem could’ve been solved at the cafeteria just had a bottle of Nesquick in the fridge which they should have just in case they run out of chocolate milk and somebody asks for it I’m not saying only serve Nesquick in white milk as the chocolate milk but when you don’t have it, it’s a good substitute for chocolate milk. It’s literally just chocolate syrup that you pour in there and I’m sure the cafeteria must’ve had some kind of chocolate syrup that they could’ve used.
Preventable? Yes. Understandable how something like this could happen under these circumstances? Also, Yes. Or should be. She's trying as hard as she can. She just needs more help. Most parents have given in to picky eating from their kids.
I actually was a very picky kid and still am today my mom and dad were trying to to get me too help me and so they took me too a nutritionist and she explained to me that need to eat other besides junk food even if I don’t like it I eventually will my mom took ideas from her that I had no idea about she started putting secretly putting veggies and meat in my food and fed me a protein shake and it worked i am 15 now and I will eat veggies fruit and meat if it combines with other foods except fruit I will eat fruit alone you can’t blame the mom or dad really the kid is kinda the problem the parents don’t want to hurt the kid but want to get them too eat healthy stuff I regret making it hard for my parents at least they had one none picking kid😂
Well that wasn't really a great apology bahah
That kid probably didn't make it any easier. Because she was a single mom, it probably made it easier for him to manipulate her into doing what he wanted by saying if she didn't, she didn't love him.
Dr always say abuse its annoying like its obvious kid is autustic snd has health condition
It was discovered at least two hundred years ago that a teaspoon of lime juice administered every few weeks was sufficient to prevent scurvy in sailors.
Feeding him some sour gummy snacks from time to time should give him all the vitamin C he needs to avoid scurvy. Not saying it’s the most nutritious food in the world but if he has such severe sensory issues regarding food, it might be the best way to get some vitamin c in his diet.
All y'all saying, "a real doctor wouldn't judge them like this" hasn't been a woman using NFP or FAM to space her kids (rather than the pill), or a woman who saw a midwife to have her babies, at an OBGYN appointment.
OBGYN's can be absolute jerks.
NFP? FAM?
Just look at that documentary "Take Care of Maya" where a hospital wrongly took a girl from her mother and they refused to let her near her until the mom took her own life. From what I've seen, it's not the first time they've wrongly had children taken from their families, either.
Nurse learned how to fight in Litchfield
I don't really like dr Manning, she always jumps to the wrong conclusions and thhink she is always right.
I was speech delayed too 😮
Nice to see the comments section all agreeing on hating Dr.Manning
Im not a medical profishinal but im pritty sure this dr needs more then slap on the rist holy cow this lady needs to. understand poor peapole cant afford the best food especully when the kid has a disability i grew up in a similer situation my. Mom worked her a$$ off with four kids and a alchaolic selfish husbind on top of that.
It’s what’s called child neglect and it’s illegal in the USA Canada UK Australia and New Zealand
This child has developmental issues. Doesn't Illinois have any kind of help for a woman like the mom? I's say that you just don't give in to the chocolate milk and graham crackers demands until the little guy is so hungry he'd eat real food, but I don't know if that would work with him. Maybe those protein/carb/vitamin drinks that come in chocolate.
It’s so obvious this kids has autism right away. I’d be like, what can we add to the chocolate milk to make it better.
Literally give this kid his safe foods
You can't use autism every time a child acts out
As a mother myself, I would have noticed my son or daughter getting thinner, and would had made sure that they were eating at least three meals and snacking. This mom was just so busy with life and overwhelmed that she thought he was getting fed and he came down with some thing and that’s why he was so thin and weak.? Assumption is some thing that is overlooked. U can’t assume anything
Manning almost never apolozizes even tho she said she was wrong n that it wasn't even about her
Dr. Manning gets on my nerves don't like her