The Narcissist in Your Life Wants You to Leave

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Комментарии • 98

  • @jillb7234
    @jillb7234 8 месяцев назад +38

    Going through this now!!! Exactly! Scary because I’m 66 years old. Afraid for financial reasons!

    • @abez6083
      @abez6083 8 месяцев назад +6

      You should be afraid, a narc will decimate your finances IF they can. Get out as safe as possible.

    • @rebekahjette6304
      @rebekahjette6304 8 месяцев назад

      🫂🙏🏼🫶🏼

    • @lynnreid8850
      @lynnreid8850 8 месяцев назад +8

      I'm 73 left after 23 yrs. Found out I have breast cancer and glaucoma. They say your health will get worse the longer you stay.

    • @rebekahjette6304
      @rebekahjette6304 8 месяцев назад

      @@lynnreid8850 I am going to pray for God to surround you with his love and peace🫂🙏🏼❤️ Dear Father, please bless this dear woman as she needs you right now! Please bring people into her life to bless her and bring her joy that only comes from a close relationship with you. In Jesus name...Amen☝🏼

    • @deniselazur8370
      @deniselazur8370 8 месяцев назад +5

      Same here. 65 and facing being broke. But my health is bad and the stress is causing it. Money can’t bring peace or health. My narc is divorcing me because I exposed his sins. His good guy reputation has been destroyed so he must destroy me.

  • @andreathegoosemother
    @andreathegoosemother 8 месяцев назад +30

    The best lines:
    HIM: Dont ask to see my phone
    Dont ask me about my crossfit gym
    If you can do that just let me be
    ME: I cant be with someone who isnt honest with me
    HIM (3 weeks later): I miss you, you are my favorite person, its too bad what happened between us.. I miss you lots xoxo
    ME: blocked him.

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  8 месяцев назад +1

      We're here to support you on your healing journey. Take the first step by joining our free masterclass, where you'll learn how to break free from toxic relationships and much more. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass

    • @andreathegoosemother
      @andreathegoosemother 8 месяцев назад

      @@RawMotivations joined and looking forward .
      Thank you Ben

  • @chrisrendino1529
    @chrisrendino1529 8 месяцев назад +5

    Mine told me to “get out” every chance he got. Then when I finally did. Get out. He changed his mind. Too late after 8 times of this. I left and now he’s financially punishing me.

  • @arsenelupiniii8040
    @arsenelupiniii8040 7 месяцев назад +3

    I was 12 when the movie Wargames came out, since then I have over and over realized " the only way to win, is not to play".

  • @DonnaS-q9s
    @DonnaS-q9s 8 месяцев назад +35

    He pushed me out then blamed me for leaving ok then

    • @EagerHummingbird-do5ic
      @EagerHummingbird-do5ic 8 месяцев назад +2

      Same here

    • @victoryamartin9773
      @victoryamartin9773 8 месяцев назад +4

      Me too, lol. After kicking me out, he told everyone I abandoned him and the kids because I preferred other men. Then he divorced me and remarried within a year and kicked the kids out too. 31 years later I'm still alone and destroyed. I didn't prefer other men. I preferred him to man up and be a loving husband.

    • @laluke4971
      @laluke4971 8 месяцев назад +1

      @donnasoares9141 the same happened to me and I still feel blamed

    • @FriggaRedSkye
      @FriggaRedSkye 8 месяцев назад +1

      Same, even set me up in a sense.. jokes on him I have love, he has himself.

    • @Jenhashadit
      @Jenhashadit 8 месяцев назад

      Same here

  • @sarahgracetruth
    @sarahgracetruth 8 месяцев назад +15

    Yup- my Nex is 50- still an 8 year old CHILD

  • @mcostilla7603
    @mcostilla7603 8 месяцев назад +2

    I was kicked out of his house to many times and when I finally left and didn’t come back he said I willingly left on my own after he kicked me out and wouldn’t let me back in . The point is I was always to blame for everything and I’m the bad person for it .

  • @pink5068
    @pink5068 8 месяцев назад +10

    Damn this is my life word for word exactly my life

  • @victoryamartin9773
    @victoryamartin9773 8 месяцев назад +7

    Ya they want me gone so they can have my house all to themselves.

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  8 месяцев назад

      We're here to support you on your healing journey. Take the first step by joining our free masterclass, where you'll learn how to break free from toxic relationships and much more. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass

  • @WaterBug46
    @WaterBug46 8 месяцев назад +2

    The old if you don’t like it you can just leave and theme variations. Always said with a superior tone. When they are caught cheating.😂😂😂

  • @SuperReasonabledoubt
    @SuperReasonabledoubt 8 месяцев назад +5

    Wish the narcissist I was with would leave..

  • @beanallene
    @beanallene 3 месяца назад

    The narcissist cares about his image. He does not care about you.

  • @cherylhughes5944
    @cherylhughes5944 Месяц назад

    I have gone thru hell with my hubby cheating and lieing to me 30 years. I findly curt him last night's with the other woman.I am done now

  • @tarayoung7873
    @tarayoung7873 4 месяца назад

    This makes sense when I’m trying to repair, he gets angry and flips it like I do t mean what I am saying ????

  • @ivonkwAn6443
    @ivonkwAn6443 8 месяцев назад +3

    You are a brave guy....thank you for what you do 🙌

  • @brightpage1020
    @brightpage1020 8 месяцев назад +4

    Makes too much sense. Wants me gone in terms of actual relating to one another but as soon as they need money they come around acting like we best friends. 🤣 Whatsamatta’? Ya make some bad decisions there, Honahy? Yeah. Feel you. BTDT… at least I learned to avoid them on this flip side, now. So I wish you the best of luck. About all the fudge I can give your situation at this point. You got this. You can win it, you’ll put in the work or find some other sucker. I know I don’t need to worry about you because you slick. Real slick. So I wish you well with that. I gotta go. My client / agent / editor / publisher / lotto lawyer is calling to help me protect my winnings. 🎉 cheers, man. May your celebration at the end of this struggle be as celebratable as my recent wins since we parted. Phew! May the grass be greening on your side of the fence today. Cheers. 🍻

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  8 месяцев назад

      We're here to support you on your healing journey. Take the first step by joining our free masterclass, where you'll learn how to break free from toxic relationships and much more. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass

  • @sunshine92192
    @sunshine92192 8 месяцев назад +4

    So true!! 100%

  • @sandraleehurst7350
    @sandraleehurst7350 8 месяцев назад +14

    He’s been controlling the narrative for 31 yrs. My divorce will be final July 9th

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  8 месяцев назад +1

      It's never too late to begin your healing journey! Join our free masterclass and discover how to break free from toxic relationships here www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass..

    • @queenofphillyshoagiessubs8456
      @queenofphillyshoagiessubs8456 8 месяцев назад +1

      We will get through this ...30 years for me , we still have lots of love & life in us to live what years we have left in absolute peace .

  • @mseiter6316
    @mseiter6316 7 месяцев назад

    YESSSS FINALLY ...IVE LISTENED SOOOOOO MANY YOUR SO AMAZING FOR MORE THAN 1 REASON...I CANT THANKYOU ENOUGH I THANK GOD FOR YOU, AND WILL FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE. THANKYOU THANKYOU THANKYOU...I GET IT NOW .I FEEL FOR HIM .I PRAY HE IS HAPLY AND FEELS SAFE ONE DAY.YOUR ON POINT 100% EVERY WORD.I CANT IMAGINE WHAT YOU HAVE GONE THRU AND THE HARX WORK IS PUTTING IT LIGHTLY THAT YOU DO AND HAVE DONE DAILY...LOVE N HUGS TO YOU AND YOURS MAY GOD CONTINUE TO PROTECT AND BLESS YOU AND HEAL YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. YOU HAVE LEAPED GALAXIES FORGET MILESTONES.IRION MAN...YOUR MY HERO FOREVER GRATEFUL. A MAN LIKE YOU I BELIEVE CAN BE A GIFT IN HELPINGBTGE NARCISSIST ( I HATE THAT LABEL OR WORD ACTUALLY) TOO.I PRy he finds someone like you to help h8m. Amen.wow you are priceless❤

  • @incognito595
    @incognito595 8 месяцев назад +2

    So glad you Saved Yourself, Ben.

  • @sailorPinata
    @sailorPinata 8 месяцев назад +8

    Strange considering their fear of abandonment, plus if they decided to break up with their partner they would control the narrative more, and appear "better" then their partner, who appears like "the looser" of the relationship.

  • @nadia6804
    @nadia6804 8 месяцев назад +6

    Your videos have helped me.i would've never known,but your videos are facts and has taught me to see the person I'm with is toxic

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  8 месяцев назад +1

      I'm happy to hear that you're finding our content valuable! I'd like to extend an invitation for you to join our free masterclass. In it, we'll explore methods for breaking free from toxic relationships. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass.

  • @L.RaeHoldt
    @L.RaeHoldt 2 месяца назад

    He tells me "to get out you aren't wanted" just for me to asking to communicate wifh him.😢
    I actually yelled at him to break up with me so I'd have closure and he couldn't play the victim.
    You want your partner gone so you don't feel guilt about cheating on them...disgusting.

  • @mcostilla7603
    @mcostilla7603 8 месяцев назад

    Wow this is right to the point with my husband soon to be ex .

  • @krisssutton4260
    @krisssutton4260 8 месяцев назад +5

    I lived this life for far too long!

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  8 месяцев назад

      are you healed? www.rawmotivations.com/breakthrough

  • @kaydeshong8223
    @kaydeshong8223 8 месяцев назад +3

    Mine told me he want a divorce of 9 years. He already have someone. Go away once a month on weekend since march. Help

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  7 месяцев назад

      It's never too late to begin your healing journey! Join our free masterclass and discover how to break free from toxic relationships here www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass..

  • @Itsmeandthatsok2
    @Itsmeandthatsok2 3 месяца назад

    Married 40 years, he was cheating, on me all along.
    He stayed, because, it made him look good, perfect husband perfect family image.

  • @jaknkee
    @jaknkee 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for this. It helps.

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  8 месяцев назад

      Thank your for commenting, here is the link www.rawmotivations.com/breakthrough

  • @Joy.1111
    @Joy.1111 8 месяцев назад +3

    Lol your telling my reality

  • @INSPIRACJEPracownia
    @INSPIRACJEPracownia 7 месяцев назад

    Can narcissistic people accept the offer of an elegant farewell/goodbye ending a romantic relationship? Is it possible to say goodbye to a narcissist and end a certain stage of the relationship?

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  7 месяцев назад

      That's a great question! You can discover the answer by joining our free masterclass at www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass.

  • @cherylhughes5944
    @cherylhughes5944 Месяц назад

    My husband is truly a Covert Narcissistic deceitful evil wicked man.I gone thru hell and back

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  Месяц назад

      I am so sorry you had to go through that. Would love to help you on your healing journey. Check out this video to see if you connect: www.rawmotivations.com/breakthrough

  • @katrinadenicolo5463
    @katrinadenicolo5463 8 месяцев назад +1

    Can you give this point out in the air for a Narcissist to hear himself he isnt the first to be pulling this way of thinking to himself. Bcs I am not sure it's so bad when they say..never tell a Narcissist they are one. But reality is everything that they pull is clearly written in the text book 101 they seem to think they got it all figured out yet some of us godbless Have Raw Motivations lol and got this hook up that surely help the shit out of us and the choas toddler b.s would be helpful they grasp there ass can just sit down now there nonsense isn't a first to be heard of. Please make a video too the Narcissist explaining the same point Please

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  8 месяцев назад

      We're here to support you on your healing journey. Take the first step by joining our free masterclass, where you'll learn how to break free from toxic relationships and much more. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass

  • @joe7665
    @joe7665 8 месяцев назад +2

    My ex wife is an attending, she was the 1st female partner, she started having affairs with people in the hospital. Now she is the only partner that is divorced, she fought and won 50/50 custody even though she work 70-80's per week and goes on 10-15 conferences per yer.
    now a nanny watches our kid fir days on end when she is gone on conference trips or working.
    All of her partners are family men and now she has to explain how she took her daughter from the father so she didn't have to pay child support, but she pays the nanny more than she would in child support.
    I don't think her male partners or the wife's of her partners respect that... because they all knows she works to much.
    I don't think she likes going to work functions by herself. It's kinda hard first a female trying to command respect and playing the victim at the same time.
    Plus all of the court records are public so I'm guessing they all did a little research

    • @tanyadepoalo4312
      @tanyadepoalo4312 7 месяцев назад

      These people are the most vindictive mean people on earth.

    • @joe7665
      @joe7665 7 месяцев назад

      @@tanyadepoalo4312 facts

  • @Pinkchinook909
    @Pinkchinook909 7 месяцев назад

    One month ago, I incidentally heard my husband having sex with another woman in Philippines on his business trip at the end of our phone call.
    After he returned, he denied the whole thing. He would rather tell me that he had lost ability to have sex for a couple of years than admit that he had sex with another woman. He is 55 years old.
    When I asked him what I would gain if I made up such story to accuse him, he said:” I don’t know.”
    He was just like a teenage boy trying to twist the fact and not be responsible. So disappointed.

  • @Joy.1111
    @Joy.1111 8 месяцев назад +1

    💯

  • @attractarattigan3574
    @attractarattigan3574 8 месяцев назад +1

    Narc spouse wanted me gone ... For free :death.. But I didnt die.... Coward.
    Now He has to settle with me......

  • @kaydeshong8223
    @kaydeshong8223 8 месяцев назад +1

    I have no family or friends or money

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  7 месяцев назад

      It's never too late to begin your healing journey! Join our free masterclass and discover how to break free from toxic relationships here www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass..

  • @lovemoonbae
    @lovemoonbae 8 месяцев назад

    Does he want you to cheat? Or would he even care??

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  8 месяцев назад

      That's a great question! You can discover the answer by joining our free masterclass at www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass.

  • @incognito595
    @incognito595 8 месяцев назад

    If she turns over the money she Stole from me, then hopefully, I will Never have to see her again!

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  8 месяцев назад +2

      good luck on that. They will never give it back.

    • @lizlearnedthehardway4663
      @lizlearnedthehardway4663 8 месяцев назад

      Don't hold your breath waiting for him to pay you back. He has no conscience. There is bad wiring in their brains. He's a psychopath. The older they are, the better they are at their wicked trade. If they are young, then they started practicing their trade as children and got smoother as they got older. What is bad is when they incorporate Christianity into their devilish life and scheme.

  • @Imnotyourdoormat
    @Imnotyourdoormat 8 месяцев назад +4

    *"I **_Hate_** You....Don't **_Leave_** Me." That's that "False Self" Sam Vaknin describes "Powering Up" and then instantly "Powering Down." And this "OFF-ON" Cycle bumfuzzels their Empaths brain.*

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  8 месяцев назад

      We're here to support you on your healing journey. Take the first step by joining our free masterclass, where you'll learn how to break free from toxic relationships and much more. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass

  • @JimmyPierce-im9tl
    @JimmyPierce-im9tl 8 месяцев назад +2

    Then I'll leave won't be back this time

    • @JimmyPierce-im9tl
      @JimmyPierce-im9tl 8 месяцев назад

      Thanks for letting me know what you are you too many lies on I know will never talk or see each other again so stay out of my life

  • @Joy.1111
    @Joy.1111 8 месяцев назад +1

    Nah it’s actually healing because I totally know it’s true.

  • @Joy.1111
    @Joy.1111 8 месяцев назад +2

    Ben cudo’s for being a man n stepping up.

  • @Evamandalexx
    @Evamandalexx 8 месяцев назад +2

    You are confusing mythomaniac and narcissistic

  • @idrawpeopleandanimals
    @idrawpeopleandanimals 8 месяцев назад +4

    Your videos are so brutally honest. Like a bucket of cold water in the face. 🪣 But your points come across so clearly and help so much. Thank you. ❤❤❤

    • @RawMotivations
      @RawMotivations  8 месяцев назад

      I'm happy to hear that you're finding our content valuable! I'd like to extend an invitation for you to join our free masterclass. In it, we'll explore methods for breaking free from toxic relationships. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass.

  • @Jerricaxx
    @Jerricaxx 8 месяцев назад

    ❤XOXO