Surviving Meningococcal: Ripu Bhatia's Story
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- When Ripu contracted meningicoccal septicaemia the doctors put him into a medically induced coma while they fought to save his life. The disease took his arms and legs and his nose. On the first anniversary since contracting the disease Ripu finds himself on a challenging rehabilitation journey. He’s taught himself to play guitar, writes a popular blog, and can still host a great party. But moving beyond the psychological trauma of what’s happened to him is as hard as overcoming the physical challenges he now faces.
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My son, Dan Bailey, died from this terrible disease in 2005..
The disease was so swift, he died within 24 hrs of telling me he had a sore throat...
Thank-you for sharing your story with us..
I am so sorry for the loss of your son. Hugs.
So sorry!
God bless
And thank you for sharing yours and your son’s story with us and with this young man and his family, who as they said, ‘it was good to still have him’, yes, it is the person’s heart that blesses others. You also for some reason are still alive, and despite your pain, thinking in others. Thanks again!
Did you ever find where your son contracted the disease. How old was Dan? I'm so sorry. May God give you peace.
His mother and Father seem like beautiful people. I hope they realise their strength is so amazing.
Totally agree with you Just Pip! Thanks for the encouragement!
His father is love
His sister, too. What a beautiful family.
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His father has one of the most soothing voices ever.
Exactly what I was about to comment
Very true
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His father speaks so elopquently and poetically about this whole situation. You can tell this has been on his mind for a long time. As a doctor he knows what how
It is on both sides and seeing his son go through this is heart breaking. You can just hear the sorrow in his voice for his son and for his patients. What a great father. His son is lucky to have a family who really cares. One line that got me is when the mother said “why is he cold? He doesn’t like to be cold” you can just feel the helplessness in her words. She just wanted to make things right for her son.
He's so lovely it's insane
i find most Sikh men to be like this :) intelligent and peaceful men with good heads on their shoulders
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I'm a 31 year old man and I must say, this certainly got me into tears. To think something we all take for grant can suddenly be taken away in one go.
Thanks for your comment. This was a particularly moving documentary to be a part of and we're looking forward to watching everything Ripu achieves in the future..
idk why but I just suddenly have a profound respect towards Ripu's father.
Doctors should never cut limbs it's criminal
@@curiousgeorge6921 he would have died if they didn't, and the limbs were dead. Those things are pretty heavy and disgusting to drag around when they are all rotten.
@@vsnrm5451 yes but death is better than life without limbs period
@@curiousgeorge6921 what a limited view on life you have. it's pitiable.
@@curiousgeorge6921 No choices; he coud have been saved?? I dont know TIME is essence to save his limbs, right?
A handsome gent before and after. What insane adversity.
Thanks for watching Nya!
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How in the love of Christ did that happen?? Such a nice looking guy. This is proof that you can have your life all thought out, but something will go wrong and derail it. I know the feeling!
@@beverlyledbetter9302 we have vaccinations for most strains of this disease, but they're not part of the vaccination schedule. At worst I've seen them cost about $150 each, not a huge sum, but not small either. The health care system has applied some health economics here and the cost to give everybody all the vaccinations for different strains of this bacteria would cost many more sums than what it costs to deal with the few people per year who get affected by it.
@@DoubtingThomas333 so sad but true
His dad is SO WISE I adore it! He explains it very well
I agree! He's really lucky to have a father like that.
Hope you enjoyed the episode ! Thanks for watching!😀
Well he’s a doctor
I'm glad he was honest, a lot of times I think people who have these horrible things happen to them feel like if they discuss the negatives about their situation then they look less brave or like they're whining, and try to be overly positive when they're being filmed for a documentary. It's nice to see someone explain the honest reality instead of being concerned about putting on a brave face all the time.
Thanks for watching!
Thanks for your comment. I agree - the fact that Ripu is so candid about his experience made this documentary far more powerful.
Late response but you said exactly what I was about to write.
Superbly well said
I agree with you a 100%!
Even me being a full bodied able adult, he is more of a man than I'll ever be. The single fact that he has retained a sense of humor is incredible & inspiring. I wish you all the best Ripu, you and your beautiful caring family :)
Thanks so much for watching Michael Panitch
Ripu, I don't know if you'll read this, but you're incredibly handsome. I'm old enough to be your grandmother, but please believe me when I tell you there is a special young lady out there whom you'll meet. It will be at the right time, at the right place. Until then, please continue being strong and confident. Personally, I'm very, very proud of you! You have a wonderful family and friends, too. There are worse things in this life than physical limitations. I see your future as bright. God bless you.
Thank you for your kind words and support
Ripu iam so blessed to have come across your story your a fine human being I know there's going to be better things down the road of life you have been detoured for what reason only the Lord knows I pray you get threw this with your family by your side you can do anything you want. Stay positive bless you .
Honestly, truly he's really handsome and intelectual. And honestly the way he writes and speaks drags you in and makes you wish you could get to know him.
Thanks for your kind words Merylou! He is a really amazing guy and was pretty special getting to know him. Hope you enjoyed the episode!
I completely agree, that is what makes him so attractive
exact same thing happened to my friend. she was a high school cheerleader. now she is an awesome mom who works for the hospital that saved her. and she just got a new pair of awesome legs!
Thank you for sharing your story ! We hope you enjoyed the episode!
A friend contracted this shocking disease. It was discovered very early, so her physical damage was less than yours. However, her intellectual capacity has been diminished. I believe, despite your real and difficult physical situation, you are the lucky one.
I remember receiving the email regarding the health warning that a student at our university had contracted meningicoccal. It really hurt my heart and I had always wondered how that person was doing. I'm so glad to have found this video and to know who this strong and amazing person is and that they made it through. I feel blessed to have attended the same university as you, Ripu!
Ripu, I hope you read this. You are an incredibly handsome man! Honestly, after the first minute or so I totally forgot about your nose, and by the time you read this, you'll probably have that sorted. Besides, you can play the piano with no hands, like a boss! That is just so freakin' amazing to me.
I know that right now you are very dependent, but it's early days still. Over time you will learn more and more coping skills, get your legs, and figure out ways of doing things on your own. It's just going to take a lot of time, strength, and practice, and I know you can do it.
I am sure that when the time is right, you are going to find a girl who will love and appreciate you for the wonderful person that you are. I look forward to seeing updates as you go forward.
Thanks for the beautiful messsage
Attitude 1
I totally agree and I think you are very handsome.
Beautiful family I wish Ripu all the best for the future and hope he finds his way in life bless you ♡♡♡♡♡
So well said
Proud Zionist not only are these beautiful words but also goes to show a lot about the person who wrote it. Cheers
I don't think he would have such a positive attitude if it wasn't for his parents; you can tell that he was raised in a very positive and loving environment. God bless all of them.
"I won't ever be the best."
None of us will be. Everyone has room for improvement. Even people who haven't experienced this type of setback feel the same way at times. I certainly do. But you CAN be the best you that life allows you to be. I think you're getting there, Ripu. You've humbled me today! Thank you for perspective and inspiration.
Thanks for your kind words Whitney!
wow these words struck me
Very impressive man, who has a lot of love and Life to give.
Whitney Hatfield amazing response
Whitney Hatfield o feel the same way
Ripu you are a very attractive man. Don't let anyone tell you anything else! He's is such an inspiration
He is really amazing!
I got twins boys , And was both born with Spina Bifida . Thank God all of these story's gives us strength & motivation , and to continue being greatful for life .
Hope you enjoyed the episode Kay and thanks for watching!
Attitude yes I very much did . U are welcome.
Awesome!
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His dad is so lovely. ♡
Thanks for watching Emmi-Annie; Ripu's dad is an amazing man.
He is still a handsome. I can't imagine loosing your hands as a guitar player myself.
Thanks for watching Livie!
Everyone who’s saying life is hard and I’m going through a depression should watch this ASAP. Guaranteed cure ! He’s awesome this chap. 👌👏👏👏👏👏
That’s an understatement, for sure.
I feel so bad how he was in a perfect life and everything just changed in a blink of an eye
Amazing documentary. I was run over by a drunk driver 2 years ago and have had 12 surgeries (a fraction of what you are dealing with) but seeing your positive outlook is so motivating. stay strong Ripu
- From United States
Thanks for the kind words and sharing your story Nick, we wish you well! Thanks again for watching!
Your story is a true testimony your a purpose the creator makes no mistakes he makes something for a reason
He has such a chill personality. He's not all fake and overly positive about his crap situation. And he's still cute. I get a good feeling about his future.
Thanks for watching Jennifer!Hope you enjoyed our channel and keep coming back! 😀
Life can be insanely cruel sometimes....What a brave young man.
Thanks for watching TheBumpy83, he sure is a brave man!
I quite like Ripu. I hope he finds peace in all of this. I know he is searching for that.
thats awsome he can still play guitar
Thanks for watching Chelsea!
Ripu has been blessed in the parent department! Their serenity is awe inspiring! Beautiful people.
The way his father tried to hold his son when he missed the ball was just incredible. Can even imagine what they went through.
I am of course humbled by ripu . But I’m in love with his father. Such a mild mannered and dignified man.
Gosh this breaks my heart. He's so strong. I feel so stupid for ever complaining about anything...
I'm in fucking tears right now...Ripu you're a true warrior!
Thanks Shauna, he is a champion
He is so cute, i'm sorry, it looks impossible. I hope he feels better everyday
Hope you enjoyed the episode Chiara! Thanks for watching!
I checked out his instagram and it's amazing to see how far he has come since this video. Absolutely amazing. Regardless of what people think about his outer appearance, he is a beautiful person.
Yes he is and he's still cute on the inside and out❤❤❤❤
This was great, but I would have still liked to have learned more about how and why he got sick in the first place
Thanks for the feedback :)
Meningococcus is a bacteria.You catch it like a cold - just rarer
Starla Bizarre Absolutely.
There's a youtuber called "Kaitlyn Dobrow" that also had this disease, she has 2 extense videos on the illnes. She is also very inspiring
Starla Bizarre thats not a question most can answer..anyone can get this at anytime.
You are the most determined person I've ever seen. You're getting your life back and doing the work to make it happen. Your attitude is great and I am really in awe of you!
Thanks for watching Sandra! Hope you enjoyed the episode! Ripu is an extremely talented and strong young man!
You are an amazing young man. A warrior. My only child died from this disease at the age of 18. God bless you and keep you strong. The world needs more like you. I hope to meet you in person one day.
Thanks for watching MeningitisAngels, your support means a lot 😊
MeningitisAngels ..if you don't mind me asking. .how was it contracted? Was a vaccine given for college ?
Hey! You are amazing man. Very good looking too. So don't talk smack about that. Lots of love from Canada brother...keep up the great progress.
Thanks for the comment Paul, Ripu is an amazing young man. We look forward to doing a follow up story with him shortly.
I have been watching so many videos from this channel and this is definitely one of my favorite stories so far. Ripu is such an amazingly strong man. The hardships he has overcome are awesome and I can only wish the best for him.
Hi Cayhuff, we're glad you enjoy our channel! Great to hear your feedback and thanks for watching :)
His story is so emotionall, i admire him a lot.
That was a captivating documentary with a very strong and determined young man. I was born with a physical disability so I don't know any other way of life but for him to have known a life I can only dream of and to have it all taken away practically overnight must have been surreal.
His family seem very supportive and loving. His friends still come round and those friendships are great for his mental health.
One day he will meet a wonderful person who will be more than happy to marry him, have kids with him and grow old with him. I sincerely wish him all the best the world has to offer.
Thanks for your feedback and we hope you enjoyed the documentary. Ripu was an amazing young man to film with and we are sure he will go far. Hope you stay tuned
Ripu, you are still a very handsome guy! You are an inspiration and have a lot to offer the world. Thank you for telling your story and I wish you all the best!
Thank you for watching Nancy!
His attitude is amazing considering what he went through. Man!!
Ripu was amazing to work with, looking forward to what he does moving forward!
Ripu, your story is immeasurably intense and profoundly life changing, and I cannot thank you enough for sharing it with us. Kinda wish I’d get the chance to have a coffee and chat with you and your family. I hope you’re well and that your confidence is soaring high. Because it should. You’re incredible.
Ripu, my name is Roy. I live in southern California. I salute you, sir. You're attitude is the best I have ever seen. God Bless you and yours and your great family.
wow what a mentally strong guy, and to be honest the handsomeness is still there, in your eyes, when you smile your eyes smile with you, lots of love from U>K
Thanks for your comment! He sure is strong!
Im so proud to call this young man a friend ❤ we spend weekends together laughing drinking coffee and loving life despite everything he has been through. He is a really beautiful person and Im so lucky to have him in my life xx
Awesome, thanks for watching Eira 😊
Eira Jones is he gay?
Please do follow up with Ripu. His story is so meaningful and needs to be heard.
Thanks for watching Namita! We'll share that feedback with our producers
He is still such a handsome man, i am his age and he is an awesome guy. I would be lucky to get to know such an amazing person inside and out.
Thanks for the comment Andi - Ripu is amazing!
What a wonderful family. And he’s still so handsome! That smile 😍
he's incredibly handsome and such a good soul
Thanks for watching Kitty Von Katt!
Mr. Bhatia you are an inspiration to others. God bless you!!
Ripu truly is an inspiration, glad you enjoyed Monika!
12:25 That smile, when he was learning to walk.. filled my eyes.
And here I'm watching it again after 3 years. By the way, I searched for it.
Ripu, do not be discouraged! Someone who gets meningococcal disease is meant to die and yet you lived! The universe has greater plans for you...
Ripu is pretty amazing!
Why did ''the universe'' have this disease planned for him in the first place...?
0Megaman0 I totally believes u 💯 on that .
@@enabler2456 damn bacteria and viruses man, why do they even have to exist?
@@EvaLasta Without bacteria, no life.
Without viruses, no life how we know it.
You are not a victim. You are a survivor and a fighter!! So much love from Turkey. Keep going!!
Thanks for your comment Melis! He is a true fighter and he will do great things!
Oh! that guitar skill!
Ripu is so talented! Definitely takes a lot of skill.
Where I really lost it and almost broke down was the bag of chips falling. Seeing him struggle with something as simple as grocery shopping just hit me in a really soft spot. This is an incredible strong person and someone that people should look up to for his determination and perseverance. I hope his future is so bright, he certainly has an incredible family to support him.
Thanks for the kind words of support Camryn! Thanks again for watching!
It's sad to hear that he was just gaining his confidence, he was well on his way to living a great life. I hope he finds happiness in his life.
Your the best at surviving and kicking meningicoccal septicaemia. Ur the best at getting on with it and not letting it define u. Ur the best at adapting to the things that u have always loved. Ur the best at whatever u want in life just keep taking one day at a time and u will find ur way. All the best Ripu.
Thanks for your kind words Lily
“If your going through hell, keep going” - Winston Churchill.
I understand that he has confidence issues... it makes sense... However, I personally think he's GORGEOUS!!!
Ripu...You are no different from any of us,just because uve lost yr limbs doesnt make you less human,I'd call you unique,more gifted than most,you will never be without anyone to care for you,you are amazing,strong and I'd be proud to show you off to people just how amazing you are.
Stay strong and keep on doing what you enjoy.
You are loved by your family and friends,you beat death and that just shows how strong you are,you are unique xxx
I have no words, except to Send my respect and love to this person I never met, watching a video that’s three years old. At 63 years old, I have been through a lot, and experienced much of the good and bad that life has to offer. I often think of myself as a very strong person. This young man’s strength and fortitude has humbled me.......
You are truly amazing and a handsome young man , I would love to see an update, wish you all the best in life
+anna Love, a lovely young man he is. I tracked down his blog if you'd like to read it, ripubhatia.wordpress.com
He also has an Instagram , RipuBhatia
Ripu you are beautiful inside and out. You have many gifts yet to be discovered. I would love to see updates about your journey. Thank you for this opportunity to meet you. Sending my best from Monterey California. 👋👍☺️
He is incredibly amazing person with strong resilience and a miracle he had survived
I have no idea how I stumbled onto this. So many of us reach a hopeless point in our lives. And if we’re lucky, we stumble across a gem like this man who remind us what we’re made of is what matters, not our circumstances. I hope he’s found peace and joy and is loved dearly for the beautiful soul he is.
What a beautifully sensitive and eloquent father!
I was lead to this story after seeing Ripu's name as the journalist for a "Stuff" article.
Great to see xx
Nice
such wonderful parents
I was so moved when he started to play the piano. Ripu.... rooting for you !!!
His heart speaks volumes, Ripu is still on the rise, clear as can be you will do more than overcome a condition...a dear family friend of mine has ALS, i stumbled on this video after a couple relating to that disease,,,, i wish in her case it wasn't stealing her spirit as it takes everything else
Thanks for watching Tristan! Hope you enjoyed the episode!
I can't get over how cute this guy is. I want to be his friend
Thanks for the kind message Jesus! we hope you enjoyed watching!
Well done Ripu.
Fantastic progress.
Keep it up.
He really is amazing!
Ripu, you amaze me. I feel that I should tell you to keep writing. Your inner self shines through in your writing. Always in my prayers...
Thanks for watching Karen!
Ripu, I too have disabilities but mine are not visible. The psychological journey is truly the hardest part. Eventually enough time will pass and the way you are will be more normal to you than the way you were. The best is still ahead of you, I promise you. You have to grieve what was in order to accept what is. Just tackle one goal at a time. It gets better. You are stronger than you think you are. 😊
Thanks for watching Erin C ,we hope you enjoyed! And thank you for the beautiful comment!
Brother.. I am a guitarist and songwriter and this hit me right in the heart. I live close to Sydney and have heard of many meningococcal cases over the years in our state. You are incredibly strong to survive this.. living through this shows not only physical strength, but extreme mental strength.
To be honest about myself, although I will never understand what it is like to go through what you have been through. I was a Youth Worker. I started my career at 21, but at 23 I was diagnosed with a psychotic illness that slowly ate away my ability to function. By 27 I could no longer work.. and the medication took away my creativity.
Not mentioning it cos I feel sorry for myself. I don't. it's the cards I was dealt. But I am still trying to navigate what that means for life now. I guess what we do have in common is it's hard to see a positive. It's hard to deal with the "you" before disability vs the "you" afterwoulds. It's hard to put down the expectations about where I would be now.
Slide guitar is a great idea.. so soulful. I hope you continue to play and write songs. Music is healing, personally and to the people you share it with. A loop machine might be a good tool as well since you can play multiple instruments.
If you ever find yourself on the South Coast hit us up for a jam :)
Thats awesome thanks Jess R.
Ripu your eyes and smile make you beautiful! Honestly, I see past the injuries and scars and can see the good looks. It's almost like wearing an outfit - you look different but you still have the same essence and good looks. I'm a burn victim so I can slightly relate to the trauma and recovery and then societies perception. But remember that each path is unique and sometimes you need to let go and give in to the universes plan for you. You need to let go of the life you envisioned and embrace the life you have been given ❤️️
Thank you for your beautiful words Amy, I will pass these on to Ripu. Very kind. We hope you enjoyed this episode!
What a trooper, AND he still plays instruments better than I ever will.
Hope you enjoyed Marlon!
strong and brave. but also with a tear.
He definitely has a powerful story, that's for sure!
This man is so humble and his honesty is very refreshing to say nothing of his achievements he is very inspiring
i see it now clearly how I was lucky to loose only half of my one leg in similar circumstances. I still can walk and everything. Im so sorry for him. Its not fair.
Thanks for watching Cmielak! Hope you enjoyed the episode and yes Ripu has been dealt a tough hand but he is a strong young man and we're sure he will do well!
This is from 4 years ago, but Ripu’s story is still being seen and I learned today that Ripu is still Ripu, a cool creative guy. I liked his message at the end when he’s looking at the ocean and how he felt good in that moment, not thinking too much about stuff and just enjoying where he was.
Ripu's father's voice is so satisfying and lovely. And it has past to Ripu. I can see Ripu doing amazing things in the future.
I remember having Meningococcal meningitis when at primary school. I recall it vividly : the hallucinations, the dreaded lumberpuncture, the isolation room, the luxosade, the get well soon cards from my classmates;
Processing the fall out from that illness [and the complications] took a long time I wont lie.. It seems to go through phases with suppression of the feelings lasting a good long time.
Eventually the grief seeps out. I grieved the person I could have been but no longer could be.
I feel it is much harder for men to admt they need help, but eventually I did. That was 10 years ago, and after some therapy and implementing coping strategies I've accepted it now. I've adapted and finally, in my thirties though i still dont know how I got the damned disease nevertheless im in a good place now.
Were you vaccinated for it or people still can get it sometives despite vaccine
This broke my heart, what a beautiful soul ❤ God bless you and your family and im sure you are gonna achieve a lot more. Sending you much love and positive energy from Croatia ❤❤🤗🤗
I would LOVE to see an update on Ripu later. I agree with the lady who spoke near the end (his mom?) when she said that he will do great things.
We will be catching up with Ripu in the new year!
Ripu, listening and watching you in this video, I see you have so much to offer the world, your music, blog, wheelchair rugby and personality to name only a few. Life really sucks at times. Go out and make people move for your wheelchair you have a right to space on this earth as much as anybody else.
Thanks for the encouraging comment, Julie!
I had meningitis. I was only 15, I am a survivor! Your son is what is could easily happen to me I thank God for all me limbs.
We're you not up to date on your vaccines?
you are an inspiration ripu! May God bless your heart
Ripu is an incredible guy!
This is the manliest man that has ever manned, man. But seriously this guy kicks so much ass. Inspirational for sure. I hope he gets a good relationship because he deserves it.
Thanks for watching!
public speaking would be amazing for him to inspire other people in hardship....what an amazing man and family
Was just thinking the same thing !
He truly is an inspiration! Hope you enjoyed the episode ! Thanks for watching Vanessa
I love that he plays the piano it sounds like he's using music to express all the beauty that comes from all his battles.
lots of love from Africa,Kenya
You're such a brave guy Ripu .
Thanks for the kind words Agina! We're sure Ripu would really appreciate the support!
I contracted meningococcal when I was turned 6, I remember being in the hospital on my birthday. It came so fast the doctors told my parents to prepare for the worst. I feel extremely lucky to be here and come out of it completely untouched, just a few minor issues but nothing serious.
Thank you for sharing Sav B, hope you stay tuned!
I work in a ECI (Early childhood intervention) alot of kids are not sick and alot of them are and watching this gave me a perspective on how people of all ages that are unfortunately not able to do things for themselves because of so and so reasons. This was so moving and so emotional but most of all inspiring. I hope Ripu is still doing amazing. Thanks Attitude for the story💕
This young man and his family are absolutely incredible people.
I'm in awe by their strength and communication. I stumble and stutter and mess everything I say up.
Keep going you're incredible Ripu.
The part when his mom talks about him from 26:26 to 27:08 is just wonderful, almost gives me chills.
We agree Carter, this was a very moving documentary to be a part of.
Ripu,
Please know that the outside of a person does not measure up to what is inside of a person. Our worth is measured by the love that God has for us, and God loves us unconditionally so our worth has no limits. God loves you so much and he needs you to share you story to give others hope and to build your bridge of strength.