How Habits of Honesty and Transparency Can Transform Your Life | Jennah Dohms | TEDxWhiteRock
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- Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
- What if there was a habit that could help people break out of unhealthy patterns and into their dreams and goals? Jennah Dohms shares the need for true transparency and accountability with others. She experiences the benefit of this by using an accountability trio which regularly goes through a list of ten life questions together. She emphasizes that hard truths can come from a place of love and not judgement. To learn more about the list of questions visit jennahdohms.com.
Jennah Dohms is a motivated young woman who loves problem solving, empowering others and being a life-long learner. Some learning experiences include working on Parliament Hill, teaching English in the Middle East and China, directing events for different industries and working with Executive leadership teams. She is inspired to use her variety of international and professional experience to contribute to human development and dignity. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
The most honest people sleep well at night
I agree
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Bs most lier lack empathy they care for no one but themselves.
@@HDM-IIImay be
Honesty needs courage
The truth hurts
I also think you need to be able to trust someone to be honest with them. Some people react abusively to the truth unfortunately. I wish that weren't true... :(
Love this
Honesty is dangerous
Honesty. Such a simple policy that if we follow it truly, we can be happy and guilt free.
Despite knowing that, sometimes we unfortunately fail to do even that
people seems to be dishonest because of fear or greediness....if due to fear then it is acceptable..or if the reason is greediness then karma hits back
Being honest requires courage to take the pain you get from being truthful with yourself. If you start being an enjoyer of pain. You will not be deceptive, ever.
And you will be truthful with yourself.
Receive criticism and not be defensive about your failures - that spoke to me
It can be really hard to look at yourself with complete honesty
tes...sooooooo tough
Yes, but well worth the journey, and more worth the freedom of becoming the true you!!
@@wesgh9579yes, you feel good being you, real you!
I agree. Better to be known fully then to believed for a false version of yourself.
Beautiful amazing soul . So true habits of being honest let u live in peace. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.
Truth hurts...but speaking out truth improves your memory power...oru kallam parayan ayiram kallam parayendi varrumennu parayarille.. angane..lie has a beauty only for a short period of time...but the beauty of truth is everlasting
Honesty is the best policy.
I call out my OWN shortcomings .
"...and the Truth will set you free." -Jesus
Sounds a lot like sponsorship as it's done in 12-step groups.
I had never been ok with myself before AA.
So AA helped and not God.
@@abonyfidow9659 no AA incorporates stuff and even if it doesn't incorporate it a variety of things can help and work in synergy.
Great talk!! I will start the process (writing the rules and the reason) for this today. Maybe I will invite strangers to be part of my circle..
something is off about her smile
@In a Universe where Deception halts Progress yeah your right
Kinda ironic because she's talking about honesty but her smile looks fake
I think it’s just that she’s trying to smile at certain points in her presentation to seem warmer….? Like more positive etc? 🤷♀️
I have learned that honesty gets me in trouble, gets a negative reaction, hurts others.
I am trying to be less afraid
Its the approach maybe, being honest doesn't necessarily be to be hurtful, people do understand with few words sometimes...
Listen at .25x faster
Thank you.
Surprisingly she talks normally at .25x faster 😂
check
Yesss
I love the fact that being honest is a good attitude. But sometimes you don't need honesty. You may have a bad attitude that you are aware of it. You just have to work on it and start to leave it. Honesty is good but we don't have to mistakenly consider being haughty with being honest. And after that we need to be honest with ourselves. Because if we don't we cannot be honest to anyone.
I don't understand your comment. Who was talking about being haughty?
This was an amazing talk
i see.. like it says in the bible: where two or more gather, there I am.
so they dont even need to be trusted friends. others reflect us to ourselves in our interactions. if you are paying attention then you can reflect on this. it seems to speak on the dangers of self isolation, physical or otherwise. in this case, self expression.
I call out my OWN transgressions and short comings .
Hey thank you!
I couldn’t watch this because of her breathing
there there is no worse addiction than the addiction to narcissistic supply people will risk their very lives every single day all day just to get it I've never seen any other addiction including drugs or alcohol but a person will literally die for
Good video about truth and honesty. Now I have more truth and honesty instruments to exercise. Thanks!
The current situations and conditions require endurance and patience .
Her voice is soft ,so deep of honest and respectful. I will be honest one day.😂
I'm trying to do my life beautiful, and beauty is honest
Thank you for the great video
she’s very beautiful and great, deep words!
mutual accountability within a cohort is the most transparent growth builder. Kind collaboration creates an explosion of possiblities. I was so fortunate to virtually meet Ms. Dohms, eventhough it was a short twenty minute group interview, I felt honored to pick her brain.
I would like to know all the questions.
I needed this tonight
You should always be honest. So tell everyone that you are dishonest. 😁
What are the benefits on being dishonest?
@@jesselaaldea3456 to prevent yourself hurting others especially those who close to you
Provided weve been sucessor fvk
amazingly helpful
Says the dishonest people
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Don’t believe in your tense smile. It seems like she tries to convince herself. It looks like a bad playing a role. Especially on 3:10
honestly अभी मैं chanting कर रहा हूँ ओर you tube देख रहा हूँ🙏🙏!!
It's always love ............🙏✊👊👍👋🌞🌛🌱💧
The beginning of this video really didn’t get me, I was hoping for something a bit more upfront instead of a backstory…. I definitely don’t want to come off as hateful, this just wasn’t what I needed at the moment
Let's hope this is instilled in childhood
She had I business being this relatable
What?
@@lyra9988 they meant to type "She had no business being this relatable."
Authentic Honesty Is The Way
Ahem, ahem, I know you are reading this.
I have no friends. Can two chill people adopt me?
wanna be friends?
Well, never know the meaning of trust and misuse the word, total no awareness about word.
I like car. I really do like car. Baby steps.
And yet , I don't condemn anyone .
Honesty needs courage lmao
I was so be honest in school they dropped me
We do anything is not suppose because they are not really on earth, the world is all wrong like majority. It is necessary to do it all wrong to reflect on wrong mindset.
wow...damm true....
Take a look if you got 1 minute.
The sad part of this is that if you have been told that YOUR honesty is dangerous you honestly believe that YOU are dangerous.
(Hugs to you!)
don‘t think like a victim
I’m sure she’s a believer in Christ!
Lost four friends so far.
What about govt transparency? NIH did a grant study on dental white fillings. Guess what study was referring to? Increasing estrogen in body from these white fillings. Shouldn't MALES have a choice before these dental white fillings are used? This study determined whether placement of composite (white) dental restorations (fillings) & increasing the concentrations of bisphenol A (BPA) had estrogenic-like properties that raised concerns about safety abiut . amounts of the chemicals leached out of dental sealants and detected in saliva soon after the sealants were applied. Dental composites also contained some of these compounds? Why wasn't the public made aware of this and shouldn't it had been transparent?
So what is a person to do? Mercury fillings are worse. Also I'd like to see the science that says such levels are detrimental to health. How much worse is concentration of BPA in a composite filling than a plastic water bottle? How much worse is the BPA in comparison to over types of xenoestrogens that are in the environment? Just saying.
Amazing talk!
Amen 🙏 ❤❤❤
🙏💯💯💖💖💙💙💙💙
❤️ the smile
q pro
achingly beautiful
What is the meaning of mutual accountability?
When both parties take full responsibility in their actions with each other.
@@MatthewVoMutual Accountability: if you can be honest and still live, I can be honest and know I'm not going to die.
amazing
What are the other 6 questions? Please do share
I wanna know too!
Thank you :)
Ok, but how do I start?
I suggest start reflecting on who you are and what you do in a daily bases. Now try to say your answers to a person who you are close with. Do they agree? Are you telling the truth?
-hope this was helpful
Diplomacy or honesty
I honestly think it’s possible to do both. It’s all in how you say it.
Really?...
You're not actually looking for honesty. My honesty goes unrequited. And you're simply not worth the compromise (honesty).
Honesty is ruthless. Did you notice the positive effects of flattery? For example: "that was a really great speech. It transformed my life positively. ☺"
Just hard to find a sincere man with much love ❤️💖💖 my opinion🤔
We are in this world. We are🙏🏻