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Hey, TikTok fam! Get ready for a wild ride as we embark on a quest to find the ultimate mother-in-law horror story. I'm Charlotte Dobre, and today, we're diving headfirst into the chaotic world of in-law drama!
Buckle up because this is going to be one rollercoaster of a journey. We're scrolling through TikTok, laughing, cringing, and maybe shedding a tear or two as we search for the most outrageous mother-in-law moments ever caught on camera.
From meddling in wedding plans to passive-aggressive comments at family gatherings, we've seen it all. But can we find the holy grail of mother-in-law madness? The one who takes the cake for being the absolute worst?
Grab your popcorn, hit that subscribe button, and join me as we sift through TikTok's treasure trove of family dysfunction. Will we find the world's worst mother-in-law? There's only one way to find out!
Don't forget to leave a comment sharing your own mother-in-law horror stories, and who knows, maybe yours will make it to the top of our list! So, sit back, relax, and let's dive into the hilarious chaos together. See you in the video! 🤣🎬
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THIS HAIR ON YOU LOOKS GORGEOUS CHARLOTTE!!!!!!!!!!!!
Right!!! Loving the Mermaid hair 😍🤩
I thought the same! She's just glowing. ❤
I was just going to say that. 😂
100% agree, so gorgeous!
I was just about to comment this! She looking beauuutiful!
"I'm not passive aggressive, I'm aggressive aggressive."
"I'm marrying your son, die mad about it, we love each other, whatever"
🔥🎼🏆😂
I love this ladyyyyy!!!!
Yes! I told my husband he can tell his mother I’m not going anywhere. I’m gonna be right here long after she’s gone and she can’t do shit about it. He laughed good and hard with me on that one. Then later took her for coffee to have a talk about her behavior.
Same.😂
But WHO gives used lingerie to anyone? Let alone you MIL...🚩
That’s the best sentence I’ve ever heard. Mostly because that’s what my husband to be told his mom. Now they don’t talk because she couldn’t be nice. Lol which is sad, because I absolutely love her. She’s a petty lil mean thing and acts like a middle school mean girl. I think she’s so funny!!
It needs to be on a tee shirt. It’s my new favorite quip.
❤️❤️❤️yes!!!
My MIL told my mom as soon as she arrived to my wedding venue that “any comment about my weight and she will never see me again”. I no longer talk to my mom she did comment on my weight but that was just one of many. Best MIL in the world!
The guy with the fire alarm story at the $9000 baby shower should file a police report. They might not be able to prove it, but maybe they can with video cameras, etc. It costs money for the fire department to have to show up to things. If they CAN prove it, file a restraining order on the MIL. He is really awesome for standing up for his wife.
It's gotta be a fake story. Fire sprinkler systems don't work that way.
"there's a grand total of 0 people who can cuss out my wife"
bro is a KEEPER
I wish all the men were like that.
Absolutely
I’m sure he also knows his mom is just trash
I clapped at that!!!
She sounded awful. My Mum does not even text and would never swear like that. On top of that she would always offer to help and never ask to get paid. It always surprises me that not all mums are like that and what people have to put up with.
The lady that punched the MIL, in the story she was recovering from a C-section, so she (the MIL) hit her stomach (hard enough that everyone heard it) where she had been opened up from it, she punched her as a reaction to the pain.
Wow that's even more terrible..
That justifies the punching
as a c-section mom as well i too would punch
Thanks for this information. MIL was out of line already, but this adds an entirely different dimension to what she did. How disgusting!😮
Well that makes sense!!!
$9000 for a gender reveal that he spent a long time saving for his love because he wanted to do something special is an act of amazing love
9 grand in a college fund would be better.
The fact that you have children doesn't mean you can't do anything nice for yourself anymore. You can't take a vacation, buy a expensive car or anything..
Pftt. His mother should get to come to the hospital and see the baby born either. Hope the mother told the staff mil does not to come in give them her name on black list 😄
18:06 that mil literally needs to be charged false reports to police & fire are a huge waste of taxes, and more importantly takes away resources from actual fire victims! Not to mention the stress and loss of 9k with regards to the gender reveal. Sue for damages
Yeah she should be introuble.
“There is a grand total of 0 people who are ever gunna cuss out my wife” WHAT A MAN! Best husband of the year award goes to him
To quote Charlotte earlier in the video: we find that on Amazon? What a man, indeed!
But he doesn't believe his mother would trash the party? He's in denial 😢
@@jennymoore8509 tbf, if she hasn't done anything of that magnitude before, then it can be really hard to believe without hard evidence. until everything lines up with no gaps, there can always be other explanations, and even when one explanation leaves no holes, there can still be others. plenty of kids don't want to believe the worst of their parents and it's not denial until they are actively ignoring hard evidence... like camera footage.
That man needs to teach others his ways. Men watching, take note.
The fact he put THE BABY OUT TOO would also have me serving divorce papers.
This!!!! Like if you want to clear your head why aren't you the one to leave why do you have to trow your wife and newborn in God knows where TF!
For the wife who punched the MIL: technically, when the MIL made her snarky comment and patted the wife's belly, MIL initiated physical contact and the wife had every right to punch her (in self-defense). In some states, what the mother-in-law did would be considered a battery. ⚖️
She was also recovering from a c section and the mil hitting her opened the wound
@@helenlewis2510yeah I would called the cops then left come back with those divorce papers 😄
Charlotte giving a fake birth and SCREECHING made my day. You sounded like a velociraptor ❤️
Nah she ain’t a sociopath, she sounds like a narcissist if not full on psychopath cause dang. Even sociopaths have feelings for their loved ones, just absolutely nothing for outsiders is all, and that’s her son and grandchildren even if she did hate her daughter in law you’d not wanna hurt your own kid.
MIL punching story: she’s not serving divorce papers for this incident. This is a whole situation and the incident was the tippy tip top of the iceberg. There is so much more information we need.
In this reddit post he stated that his mother already behaved 'weird' to his wife after they announced the pregnancy. He let his mother disrespect his wife for a while
And the MIL slapped the wife hard across the stomach first
There is! MIL hit the new mother in the stomach and she had just had a c-section!!
The Wife actually posted her side of the story on Reddit
If someone is punching my mom, I'm asking why..
Report that nurse! Major major violation.
Report her for misuse of her credentials. Do it.
Violating patient request. Placing herself as a caregiver for actual family.
Nursing Boards want to know these things.
I'm a nurse and I 100% agree! None of my colleagues even the most annoying ones (lol) would do this! It's an abuse of her position, big time.
Call hospital legal, it is protocol NOT to care for family. Hubby was useless.
Yeah. I’m really hoping that girl reports her. That’s so crazy.
A few years back my son went to Disney land and a few other fun places with his grandparents. My mother in law wanted to come visit us the day my son was due home. ( he had been gone for 3 weeks ) I told her she was just here 3 months prior and I would appreciate it if she didn't come the same day our son was coming home from his trip. I missed him and wanted the whole day to hear all about his adventures. My mother in law proceeded to have all 3 of her daughters call me and cuss me out for not allowing her to visit. After that didn't end well.... she called my husband and told him to come move back home. Needless to say, he did not leave me to move back in with his mom. 😮 I was shook. This was 5 years ago and they have yet (, her or her daughters) to be welcomed to my home.
You might feel different one day if you're told you just saw your grands 3 months ago.
@donnac2851 it's not that she wanted to visit. It was the fact that she sent her daughters to curse me and then tried to convince my husband to leave me over it that made me so angry. She was here in February. Thus was in May and we literally go to the family reunion in July. It truly would have been fine and it's not like she never saw us. We regularly got together with them several times a year and phone every Sunday. But because she had the nerve to have her daughters call me and explaine how I'm terrible for " loving my son more then my mother in law " (, true I do ) and swear at me. Then to call and beg my husband to just divorce me if I'm " horrible " enough to ask him to make our kids a priority in their own lives. We can never see her again as long as I live for all I care. And before you say anything my husband agrees 100%. He still calls every Sunday. But when they ( mother in law or sisters in laws ) bring up the topic of a visit he shuts them down. Mabey if they would apologize it could be different. But they refuse. They say my kids are not important compared to them because my husband has been on thier lives longer then out kids lives. Ah.. ya... he created our kids... but you are entitled to your opinion. I would never treat my children's spouses with such disrespect.
@@liveyourbestlife143 maybe she didn't "send" them. Maybe they saw how hurt their mother's feelings were and took it upon themselves.
@@liveyourbestlife143 by his grandparents you mean YOUR parents. You are the problem here.
@donnac2851 actually my sons grandparents on my side are dear friends of ours, both of my parents are dead and this couple has no grandchildren so our kids are their honorary grandparents. And it's my husband's mom that's the problem
All these toxic MIL stories remind me to be extremely grateful that I have a wonderful MIL.
The wife punching MIL story!!! The wife found the reddit post from the husband and posted HER SIDE!!!! There were MANY conversations between wife and husband about MILs behavior over the years but husband always ignored her and sided with MIL. The punch really was the last straw and she decided she didn't wanna be in a marriage where she's not only abused by mil, but also ignored by husband. It was so crazy to ready
I think the punch is well deserved. You can't tell a person who is actively feeding two beings to lose weight. She needs that energy and bab needs that milk.
Or maybe I'm clueless because I'm not planning on having kids being disabled and all. Just seems like hard work.
It's sad that there was already a baby by the time she got out but that's hindsight for you 😕
Where can I find her side? I’ve seen his side. Did she make her own post or comment on his?
@@J4d3W0lfyea this, I need her side too! Can’t imagine how much worse it is, he tried making it look better and still looked like a complete assclown
ETA: found it, 76 days old, on r/AITAH, title: My response to my husband’s post “AITA for kicking my wife out after she punched my mom in the face?”
I believe the MIL hit her in the belly a few days after labour and hard enough that the husband heard the hit. The MIL literally assaulted his wife and there was a history of the MIL and niece eating her food.
MIL that took her son's nursing wife's food and then called her fat was literally asking to get punched in the face.
She was also slapping her 7 week post partum stomach
And it wasn't a normal birth. It was a c section she hit the scar.
@@skylordjojo8454and opened the wound!!! 😮
@@skylordjojo8454I heard the story, I don’t think it was even 7 weeks, I’m pretty sure she had only been home for a few days at that point. The woman is lucky her incision didn’t reopen 😢
@@samanthapaige7395ahh it was so painful first week even with the meds to lift my leg over the tub take a shower. My husband had to pick up and over it. 😅
First story, it could've been worse, she could've said "I'm giving you the negligee I wore when your husband was conceived!"😂
22:52 - I have the same with my family! My name was my little brothers first word. For some reason he couldn’t say ‘Sarah’, the S was hard for him, so he called me ‘Rarah’ (like rah rah). My family still call me that and I love it 😌
My eldest daughter was 19 months old when I had my second daughter, whom we named Chloë. She couldn't say her name properly and called her Lolo. My youngest daughter is now 28, but she has always been called Lolo by us! ❤
You need to look up that punched mother in law story. I saw it in Reddit and there was way more to it. MIL wasn’t ‘patting’ her belly, she injured the wife’s C section wounds.
Him putting her and the baby out was the last straw. No matter how upset he was, he didn’t just put mom before his wife, her put her before his newborn.
omgggg this is so horrible :(
I made a comment about stomachs being sensitive right after birth. Let alone c section wounds.
The mil commenting on her weight right after birth is outrageous
Yup! His newborn should be his first priority- newborn’s mumma is a package deal. What a stellar guy 🤨😒
This is disgusting. I don't care how much confusion or commotion there was surrounding this situation, the father's ("SOB") duty is to (1) his children, and (2) his wife. Nothing short of witnessing the wife commit cold-blooded murder should have compelled SOB to kick out his wife and infant child. Based on the facts and circumstances, I'm guessing there was history between the mother ("POS") and the wife, and if this is the case then SOB should have permitted POS to be anywhere near the wife during this time.
My wife had a relatively rough pregnancy (nothing life-threatening, but she was sick every day of her pregnancy until the very last week), but that didn't compare to what she went through for about 3 months postpartum. It was the happiest time of our lives, but at the same time she struggled so hard just to feel/act like herself. We've been married for 20 years, and it was the only time I felt protective over her, because it was the only time I ever doubted her ability to do so. It is absolutely incomprehensible to me how SOB could fail to protect his wife from his own mother during this time. His decision to ask his wife and infant child to leave just proves that he's an absolute scumbag.
That story was wild. My jaw was on the floor every time I’ve heard it.
As a breastfeeding mom…. YOU DO NOT TAKE FOOD AWAY FROM ME…. Period. The breastfeeding hunger is WILD!!!!
Another aspect to the story was that it wasn’t just a smack to the it was basically a punch as it was so loud that it caught the attention of everyone in the room (Husband conveniently left that part out, Op’s wife posted her side, and he admitted it in an update) but his wife was also recovering from an abdominal split from the pregnancy and MIL knew it when she hit her. (Yet another thing that the husband left out)
It is even more insatiable than the pregnancy hunger. Fr. Leave people’s food alone, let people eat what they want when they want, and do not ever come for a breastfeeding mom. Period. And if any of my breastfeeding babes need help, just lmk. Because I too am aggressive aggressive.
@@HardcoreLevelingBaka I came here to say this! She legit hurt her doing that. Who in their right mind would even touch, let alone smack, a woman's stomach knowing she was recovering from an abdominal split caused during the pregnancy?!
Yes. After my daughter I always felt hungry. It was somewhat annoying 😂
And also, isn’t it dangerous for a woman who’s breastfeeding to not eat? I’m not an expert but I’ve heard that if you don’t eat enough while breastfeeding your teeth can fall out of your mouth because your body is taking the calcium from the teeth to give it to your child through the milk.
So if you are breastfeeding and it being allowed to eat, isn’t that really dangerous for a woman’s health? Please educate me if I’m wrong but if it is, it’s awful to withhold food from someone who’s breastfeeding.
So many options for Grandma. I thought the kids normally picked what they wanted to call them. Nana, Nona, Gigi, Gma, Mawmaw, Meemaw, Nanny, Granny, Gran, Old heifer, what ever works.
All the grandma nickname options never heard until moved to Texas and had kids 😄
That delivery room scene delivered, queen potato 😂😂😂
I’ve read both sides of the MIL punching story. When the MIL was slapping the wife’s stomach, she was hitting the wife’s cesarian wound which obviously would have hurt. It was a classic case of husband kept siding with his mother over the years and regretted everything after wife had enough of his bs
Hell...I didn't even touch my C-section incision. I would expect my husband to tell Mom to leave and not come back.
Did it say she had a c-section?
@@lilu2038 yes, I remember the original posts too... it was definitely way overdue... absolutely horrible MIL and pathetic husband.
@@lilu2038yes it did
@@lilu2038 Yes, the post the wife wrote did
"There is a grand total of 0 people that are ever getting to cuss out my wife"
Dangg. The wife's definitely Lord's favorite! She's blessed with a great guy. 😭❣
Honestly, that’s my husband to be. I love a strong, strong willed, loyal man. Such a king!!!
I love this guy!! So in love with his wife like it should be!
My hubby always had my back. When ever I would tell him of a situation,he would ask: You want me to handle it.
He's a 🚩🚩🚩🚩 he is toxic, his mum is toxic too- if you ghost your mum with no communication for two months then you 10000%% deserve this
My future mil wants to be called “pepper” by any grandkids so, in response to that, fil has decided to be called “salt”. Honestly I hope they stick with it. I think that’s hilarious.
Hah I would love it. Least its fun.
21:10 mom tried this- my sister and I decided "BIG mama" was cool for this kids. My mom hates it, she says it doesnt suit her bc shes not big. but the kids and we love it! Hahaha
Well the two name thing is normal. Grandma "first name" so kids which grandma they are visiting there are two of them 😄. That story hilarious Queenie let mil be called weenie by the kids.
The mother in law who ruined the baby shower ... ABSOLUTELY NOT. Straight to the trash and no contact. Shes so petty she's punishing her son and grankids?! Wild. She TOTALLY did it.
Don't worry, this guy fakes his stories.
@@Rose_Castleseriously?
@@Rose_Castle I remember this exact story from reddit previously. I wondered if he stole it from there or somebody stole it from him
sue her for damages
@CS-ux7mz Well, when I confronted him about his fake stories he defended himself saying that lots of people do it. A very strong argument.
MIL who was a nurse and showed up to the birth should be reported and fired and/or suspended for violating HIPAA. That’s not okay
In my hospital system, you get fired for that. I would not be surprised if it is already in the works.
And MIL being a charge nurse might have made her intimidated the other nurses.
I know nurses are so busy, but it would be nice if all patients could decide who visits, and the staff would take care of that. And women in labor have already conveyed who they want with them.
Apparently it's a fake story.
Exactly
@@loosiluwhere is the story that says that?
I’m a mother-in-law and I’m a nurse. I would NEVER do that to my DIL….and if I did, my son would have immediately escorted me out the door….and it is a fire-able offense and the HIPPA offenses is worthy of federal charges.
The nurse who crossed into another area to attend the birth should be reported. It’s a violation of HIPPA regs to obtain information about anyone not in your own area. She also had no business going into the delivery room.
I’m sure the Hospital staff in the delivery area assumed she was acting on behalf of her daughter-in-law at her request. The daughter-in-law should have spoken up and voiced her objections to the staff.
@@mariabunch3541 She should have. However, unless there was a written release she should have been stopped. I took the chart away from a "friend" of one of my patients when she used her nurse status to get into the ICU. I then reported her. She was disciplined.
Whenever I was in the other room, my MIL would tell my kids she was ‘mom’. “Look what mom got you?,” “Come over to mom?” My kids would look confused and I was angered. One day I overheard her and yelled out, “I’m the only mom they have! Thank you!” She laughed and shrugged it off. My toddlers corrected her from then on and she gave up. I love my kids.
This reminded me of a story of a mother who took her daughter’s son while the daughter was recovering from serious health issues. She made the boy call her mom (she was his grandma) and her husband dad. When her daughter, the boy’s real mother, came to pick him up, he was confused and wasn’t allowed to go with her. It was messy, and sadly, the momster killed her own daughter to steal the boy because she couldn’t have kids anymore but her husband wanted to be a father. You should be really careful with your mil. Trying to teach your kids that she is their mom is really disturbing.
@@priscilalondon FORREAL!!?
My mom is like this. She decided to be called “Nana” to my daughter because we love and adore our Nana. It has made it confusing ever since and is now has a negative connotation when heard. She is a not nice person, and we would cut her out but she holds my dad’s love hostage. In a very literal sense, if we don’t see her, we don’t see him.
My kids dad's mom used to tell my kids to call her "mama" the Spanish version of mom because she didn't like being called "grandma" and my first kid got confused so she would call her momma and call me by my first name. My kids dad would correct my daughter everytime she would call her "grandma" but not when she would call me by my first name even though I expressed that I did not want my child calling me by my first name and having her call her basically mom out in public. For reference I'm black and they are white so no one would have known I was her mother because my daughter looks just like her dad. It hurts me that he wouldn't stand up for me at all. She doesn't like us because I made my kids call her by her first name because she didn't want to find a middle ground. He blames me and I don't care. It was the first time I've ever stood up for myself in my life.
It felt scary and kinda good with a splash of regret because I hate it when people are mad at me and they were.
I put up with it for a whole year before I finally said something.
My husband overheard MY mother doing the same to our kids, and not only did it upset me but I was also so confused as to why anyone would do that??? It was so strange. Like make up a nickname if it's because you don't want to be called Grandma. But have them call YOU 'mom'??? Why?! That makes NO sense. I still to this day don't understand that interaction.
I am also on team "report that MIL for violating work code of conduct" but there is also the risk of ruining her relationship with her sister. She's already banned from visiting the nephew over speaking up. Until the sister gets her back up and decides to put a boundary down with her husband, all OP can do is be there as support.
I'm hoping sis is just overwhelmed with being post natal and once she gets more settled and has had time to reflect on what happened at the hospital she will let sis see the baby. And also uphold boundaries against MIL.
Yea I could never do that to my sister especially if she was clearly on my team.
@@nom-nomnami1743 I wholeheartedly agree with both of your comments! Having been postpartum x3, It's an INSANE emotional, hormonal roller coaster ride from Hell! The sis is probably just focused on healing & learning how to take care of her baby. Plus a MIL like that is probably over at their house offering help with household tasks, which for now will feel like godsend. **** However, a MIL like that will always overstep again. Just bide your time, sis will come around. PLUS She will become angry when she has time to reflect on her birth story. It's just all too much right now
I really hope that once she's over the postpartum, that MIL will get reported. My Mom and Dad work in the hospital (one's OR nurse, other's HVAC supply manager) and both of them know how important it is to have the right certifications to do certain things. My mother would NEVER do anything related to ER surgeries or a brain surgery cause that's not her department!
Exactly. Has to go respect her sister’s wishes. I agree with her, but it’s not her relationships.
Honestly, I want a mom in law like the MIL from the kdrama queen of tears. She calls her DIL her baby, feeds her, makes her feel welcome, and listens to her. She’s so sweet. 🥹🩷
I’ve been sick and literally binge watched so many of your videos. I feel like I’ve joined the petty cult
I'm gonna use that line I'M NOT PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE I'M JUST AGGRESSIVE 😂😂
😂❤
Yes!
I've seen a T-shirt with that saying. 😂
We need this on a shirt 😂
@@tracyhale8336 I would wear that for sure
Punching MIL: It's WAY worse than she described. The mother in law wasn't just "smacking" her on the belly like a pat. She was smacking her HARD...in front of the husband...who did nothing.
There is also a whole iceberg underneath as well. Her hitting MIL was fully justified and so was the divorce.
I'm a dude. This is not a black & white, "You must always have the back of x or y" situation." I have the back of the person who's being the most reasonable. Here, it was the WIFE.
and also, she was recovering from a c section
@@draegful Exactly! Her side of the story was genuinely horrifying.
@draegful WTF????? SO SHE LITERALLY COULD HAVE HURT HER?? THATS ASSULT IN ITSELF!!!!! The rage I feel for that poor woman
@@draegfulholy god if my toxic MIL smacked my belly while I was healing from one of c-sections…rage!!! Mega death-metal rage. WTF!!!!
I respect that. Unquestioning, unilateral support is often toxic. Thank you!
Its rare to hear MIL horror stories from son in laws. Its mostly daughter in laws all the time. So sad that woman to woman toxicity is just so common.
"A man shall leave his mother and father and join his wife. And the two shall become ONE." There's nothing lile putting my mother before my wife. You're one.
As an RN, you are not allowed to care for family members. Conflict of interest, HIPPA violations, liability issues. Also, nurses asking for tips is illegal.
A nurse... Asking for tips? It's a hospital not a food place. Is this America?
@@Roadent1241 I recently talked with a friend who was in the hospital. After he got home. He received a survey from the nursing staff. They asked if he was happy with his care, would he like to give a tip to a nurse. Nurses make an excellent wage. This is because the job is very stressful. It is completely unethical. You give your best to every patient every time. I was mortified this was even suggested.
In any department of healthcare, really. All the way down to pharmacy technicians as well (which is what I am)
Others have said that account is satire. That seems more logical cos delivery teams are often very protective of their patients. Even if she could have buzzed in and the mum didn’t yell at her to get out, the birthing team would have thrown her out!
My dear mum was bc a gynaecologist at the hospital where I had my first son
She was with me during first stages of labour rubbing my back tilll my husband arrived then she left
I wanted her in at the birth of my 4th children but unfortunately I had my daughter a few hours too soon so she missed it 😢
MIL wanted everyone to see she was a double zero.
That's exactly what I thought!
Exactly. But what the crap.
🤢🤢🤢
MIL's husband would have had to shake the sheets to find her! 😆
That’s what I thought. Wanted to brag that she was hotter than the son’s wife to be. Which is creepy and gross. Your children are not your spouse nor your bf/gf. That’s your child, and your child is getting married to the person THEY love. It’s no longer about you. Deal with it. In fact, it shouldn’t have been, the second you decided to be a parent, you no longer are the star of the show. It’s all about the kids, their schedules, and what you can sacrifice to provide a better life than you ever had.
Third story was a reddit I remember seeing mentioned in another youtube video, Mark Narrations I think. The husband's excuse was that he had a bad history of domestic violence when he was a kid and that he didn't know his mother had kept up with passive aggressive moments. Upon seeing the violence he wanted everyone out and his crying wife didn't know he was including her until he said 'you too, go'. He went onto AITA and had the gall to ask if he was wrong for how he handled it. I don't blame her for serving him with divorce papers.
Oh girl, I win the toxic mil award! She had mental illness, tried to move into our house, she tried to disown us, not that she had any money or things we would want. She would tell us the mafia was after her ect
The mil punching story. The missing context is the wife had a C section and the MIL slapped the wife's belly so hard she literally had to lean on the counter in pain after punching her. The punch was an automatic response to her freshly stitched up c-section belly being slapped hard. And also the MIL smirked at the wife when she did it but the husband couldn't see it. She also included alot of horrible things the MIL had said and done before that.
So… the punch wasn’t just a “Rudi Giuliani-in-a-Staten-Island-ShopRite-punch?”
Oh well way to go to go mama
@@The_Crucible714
🤣tf? 🤣
That was great
I was going to comment about this, but you beat me to it 👍👍 Team Wife!
My MIL, Meg, didn’t want to be called grandma because it sounds old. She made up the name Meggo for herself, all the grandkids ended up calling her Grandma Meggo, so it totally backfired on her.
Meggo. Oh man, that sounds …hefty 😅
Leggo my meggo
lol my late MIL wanted to be called grandma-ma… my kids were like no grandma.
My mom hated the name me-ma.
I don’t understand that . I was so happy to be a grandma! I was 46 and looked about 40 at the time. I jumped up and down when my daughter told me.
About names for grandmothers: When Prince William was a toddler, he couldn’t say “Granny”, so the late Queen Elizabeth was “Gary” for years.
The nurse story just creeps me out. I am a nurse and this woman violated HIPPA and was not in the need to know. Yes you can reach out to the hospital's Compliance Department to report this.
The husband gender reveal guy is amazing! He set that boundary and kept it. He is 110% there for his wifey. We need more guys like this!
Let’s be honest. There are a lot of them but it’s more fun to hear about the stinkers.
@@TheBaumcmyou certainly have a funny definition of “honest” 😂 perhaps the word you’re looking for is “wishful thinking”
@Da_bear-ij9gm my delusional ass thinking that most guys are good, got me into a lot of trouble
Nurse MIL story: Ladies, always always tell your nurses if you do not want someone in the delivery room. They will advocate for you! If the MIL is not part of the L&D department, then even with credentials she would not be allowed in the room. They have plenty of staff on hand to safely care for you without requiring the aid of anyone outside their department. L&D nurses only care about one thing outside their job, and that is YOUR COMFORT through such an experience.
That story sounds fake, no medical team would accept orders from an unrelated department
Well said.
MIL was slapped. That MIL should have been punched and evicted. She had no right to body shame a new breastfeeding mother. The father/husband is an a-hole, and yes I would have divorced him ASAP. A new Mom goes through so many hormonal changes, she is exhausted, and her body is changing. All a new mother needs is 100% TLC. This Mom didn't even get super.
I came to say the same! But also, if she used her credentials to enter without permission, I would report her to the hospital...
Many hospitals have maternity floors that can only be accessed by certain staff members. I’m honestly surprised they didn’t kick her out
For the story of the MIL, a nurse, she should get reported. That was a HIPAA violation! She could get written up and fired!
The video about the MIL wanting to be called Mama whateverlastnameis the whole thing reminded me of when I came up with my different moniker as a grandma myself. My granddaughter was 2ish at the time and I wanted a certain one but she could not say it at all or it was just over her head in understanding. So, I recalled that I was once a little one myself calling my mom's mother Mom-Mom and it stuck with my granddaughter and then my grandson came along and he calls me that too.
MIL Story: Gave her my butter cake recipe, she passed it off as her own, gave it to her daughter and granddaughter. It was actually hand written in my penmanship, listened to her tell everyone at a family dinner (the very last time everyone (4 sons including wives and ALL children& 1 daughter with husband her children,so almost 30 people) about her wonderful recipe, another daughter in law asked for the recipe and she said No! Only family get the recipe. We lived 2 blocks away I left to go get something for my children “I forgot“ I got the same recipe paper I had given her, and my recipe book of my great grandmothers. And I came back and gave all the other daughter in laws a hand written copy.. just like I gave her. We went around the room at the end and were to say what we are thankful for and 2 of the other sister in laws said that I gave them that wonderful cake recipe, MIL turned red,grit her teeth and actually broke a tooth she was so mad, I was later told since I made her break a tooth I should pay to fix it. 🤣🤣🤣
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She earned that tooth all on her own. She can deal with the consequences of her actions herself.
Instant karma!
Lmao.. I'm dying. She can forget her about her stupid teeth
You are a queen of expert-level petty. I salute your sweet delivery of Karma
I love the Dad of the gender-reveal story. He's such a good husband. Sticks to his wife. Wants to do something for her/them. And most importantly: doesn't back down from the boundary he gave.
As a doormat, I aspire to be this consequent.
Growing up, there was a neighbor family who's tradition that the first born grandchild basically 'named' the grandparents. Which was explained to me after the confusion of being first introduced to 'Rangee' with a sound like ring, not ranger. So all the generations had these weird af names from the grandchildren, and it was weird, hilarious, and oddly wholesome.
Oh wow, the guy at 15:00 also did a video about how his toddler dialed 911 while he was playing Fortnite and that brought down the SWAT team 😂. He showed a news article, so that actually happened. What a life wow
I thought he looked familiar!!!
For all of you French Canadians out there. When my sons were preschool, I couldn’t convince them to speak French. But my mother insisted that she be called mémère (French for granny). My older son, who was three at the time and couldn’t (wouldn’t) speak French, called her “Maynard”.
It gets better. My younger son who was 18 months old, also couldn’t speak French, called her “merde”.
For the non French speakers, it's French for 💩 lol 😂
That is amazing your kids a legend
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😂😂😂 merde sounds perfect… 😊
Hahahahahha!!! I'm in QC , my mom wanted to be called Meimeille... is that kind of like memere?
Your oldest kid usually picks their name. My mother-in-law wanted her and her husband to be called Papa John and Grandma Lynn. My oldest son couldn't say grandma when he was learning to talk, but he could say papa, so they became papa John and papa Lynn. It's been 28 years, and she's still papa Lynn, and she's proud of it because he chose it.
That is absolutely adorable. I love a wholesome anecdote.
My cousins called my mom and dad aunty Chan and Uncle Bull until they realized that their pronunciation was a little too close to an animal and a different name... when the oldest realized
Jan and Bill
Yep I call my step grandma Honey because I was just copying what grandpa was calling her. Her adult kids hated it because they don't like my family. They tried to get their kids to call her something else but she's sticking with the nickname I picked.
I’ve let it be known to wife that when our sons have children, I hope (and would be pumped) if the grandkids call me Pops.
She needs to be reported!!! People put their trust in us to guard that information and doing something like this is not only morally wrong but it's ILLEGAL!!
23:25 Thing is ... my grandmother (I am german so all of the names will be in german) wanted to be called Großmutter which would be grandmother written out but we only ever called her Oma which is a typical german shortening for grandmother. I only ever found out she hated that term after she died. ... So the point I'm trying to make is that children will pick the names there is not much the grandparents or even the parents can do outside of trying to correct them.
I’ve seen the post and the update to the MIL punching post and there is so much more to it, and the husband SAW and HEARD what MIL did to the freshly postpartum moms belly (because she slapped it hard enough for him to hear it across the room). Trust me if you find it and read the whole thing you’ll be team postpartum mom all the way.
Did they divorce?
I’ll be honest, when I heard that she was fat shaming and keeping food from a new mom, that was enough for me. I don’t even need to hear the rest. Yeah, I would be pissed if someone punched my mom…but my mama would never say or do anything that vile!!! So maybe just don’t be a terrible person and you won’t catch hands, MIL!!!
As I recall the wife found his post and then posted her own update, and yes. She was so done and divorcing him.
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GOOD FOR HER!! 🎉🎉🎉
Fun fact from here in UK: Queen Elizabeth II was called "Gary" by Princes William and Harry as they struggled saying "Granny". She liked the nickname and allowed them to call her "Gary" even into adulthood. That's a secure grandmother 😁
That is so sweet. Thanks for sharing.
Well, she was a mechanic. And a total bad-ass.
Came to the comments to tell the same fact. It's such a good story.
N'awwww!!
My MIL wanted to be called Mawmaw. She wanted her and her husband to be Mawmaw and Pawpaw (they’re southern), when I asked her to choose something else (because Mawmaw just sounded like she was saying Mama), she took to in stride. She picked Nana and was completely understanding. My kids grandparents, to this day, are Nana and Papa.
My sons aunt decided she should be called "aunt pretty" He's is now a teenager, and still calls her aunt pretty, sometimes just pretty for short 😆
egotistical much?
@@nikkiprobert8544 It's meant to be funny, and is more of a joke than anything. We all laugh about it to this day 😆 So, no. But if that's how you want to view it, you go right ahead!
I've worked in 3 different hospitals, and nurse or not, if you don't specifically work in labor&delivery, you cannot badge in. She definitely broke some laws and definitely needs to get fired
Right? Where I work L&D will 100% call security on you if they notice you're not one of them. That unit specifically is the most secure in the whole hospital.
Other commenters mentioned that account is satire, I'm inclined to believe that considering one cannot just walk into L&D without being let in and that would require others to risk their own licenses. One crazy person maybe, but someone letting her in and everyone else not noticing or caring that she wasn't from that unit is a huge stretch.
@@katrinascarlet5637 L&D and the NICU are more secure than Area 51 and Fort Knox! Also, aside from that, HOW TF does she start telling L&D what to do without being eaten alive?! Lol definitely has to be satire
I interned at a couple hospitals, and L&D, Post partum, NICU, PICU, Peds etc- all of that was in a locked wing- all of those nurses had different badges from the rest of the hospital. They even had their own CNA staff, cleaning crew. Once you were in there, you didn't leave. And for L&D visitors, even other staff, the visitor had to be confirmed by the patient . That being said, it is entirely possible that grandma was allowed to be there.
@m.c.3640 I was a float pool tech, I was sent to the NICU as a secretary, and I couldn't even badge into the farkin breakroom!! I couldn't use ANY of their computers or systems either. And if she went in, it had to be as a visitor not a nurse
@@waywardgoddess7219 See? This type of security is why I believe MiL was allowed be present during the birth. It's just too secure for just anyone to key in with their random badge from ER, or Med Surge, etc. Different hospitals, but all are like trying to break into Fort Knox, and many are so secure, going home is like leaving a high security prison.
I love how the husband loves his “beautiful wife”…. That’s so sweet. CC cameras will show who set off the alarms.
That story about the wife punching the mom actually started because the MIL smacked the wife’s belly. It doesn’t say in the story but was hidden in a few of the comments. Sry if it was already brought up in this video or comments.
My little cousin couldn’t say granny and my aunt kept trying to get her to say it. She kept saying gammy and that just stuck. It’s really sweet
Have the hotel pull their video cameras from the false fire alarm incident! She can be charged criminally!!!
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That was the first thing I said too! I'm glad to see this response from someone else as well
That's my first thought!
yup ans sued for damages
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That was my first thought as well. The hotel should automatically check for the source of the alarm. I'm sure hotel guests and staff were also affected by this incident.
The way I screamed laughed when charlotte screamed "get the fuck out 😅" dead
I replayed that 3 times #dead 😂
@@jessicacurrier9576 lmao same dude
Im so impressed with her scream range 😂 the highest scream ever screamt
That was me until the love of my life called Epidural made me human again 🤣
@ally93796 Right, that's some horror movie actress level screm she scrumpt, lol
Oh that Mom DEFINITELY set off the fire alarm. That would have big consequences for me.
As someone who has had a coocoo for coco puffs mom, I am SO THANKFUL my mother in law is an angel 🙏❤
As someone who also lost their father growing up, I would lose my shit if my MIL stole things out of MY storage unit and sold them, knowing they were irreplaceable.
Mind taking my rage? We've been burgled twice and my dead parents' things have been nicked. That was 4 months ago and they've just arrested a guy and found some of it but the rest stolen is probably gone. Ugh.
@@Roadent1241 UGH that's awful. I know you would want everything back but at least you have some of it
@@ChelseaAnderson Yeah. Some is better than none once we've confirmed it I guess.
For that last story, that’s when you sue.
If you cannot sue, that’s when you take out an ad in the paper informing EVERYONE that your evil mil had STOLEN your deceased father’s things and to return them to you (with a reminder that receiving stolen property is a crime) and if they want a refund get it from mil.
After the ad, threaten mil to repay for the items. And if she doesn’t, press charges (and then press charges anyway lol).
That's what you and I would do, but it sounds like this young woman is deep in narcissistic abuse - she stayed with the guy and everything. It's really heartbreaking, isn't it?
I think the boyfriend and his mom did this together. They split the money because HE KNEW NONE of the items were his. They were having conversations about it without the girlfriend and making plans!
I hope she has some documentation, such as her parents’ old insurance policies, which may mention the furniture. Or perhaps her mother wrote her a note gifting her the furniture (for tax purposes). The whole thing is so painful.
Surprised this one didn't get more attention. That's completely wild. But yeah, ad in the paper, post it on EVERY social media platform, hell take out a billboard. With photos. I'd make sure anyone who knows her or meets her knows who she really is.
@@MP-pp9ndhe was definitely in on it. What possible other reason would he have to give his mother a copy of a key he never should have had.
We bought a house with my MIL. She got upset when I bought a dog, which I had asked if I could 5 times before I got her. After that, she put blankets up in the kitchen so she couldn't see me and my dog going out the back door. We had absolutely no contact after I adopted her. Before this, when I pointed out she left me no room in the kitchen for my stuff, she completely cleaned out the kitchen and drank and slept out in her car for 2 days. Then had the audacity to complain and say her living room (split level home), felt like a storage unit. I literally had 99 percent of my kitchen stuff boxed up under the stairs. We moved states now, still sending our part of the mortgage every month sadly. Hopefully in October we can sell or refinance or something.
I told my mom we were gonna teach our daughter to call her Meemaw like on Big Bang Theory, she got offended and wanted to be Grandma. When our daughter started talking she called her Gamba for a few years till she could say Grandma. 😂
Every nice girl deserves a husband like him! At least so far… the guy who told his mom to never speak to his wife like that... *WE LOVE HIM!*
Not sure I believe the story. Fire sprinklers aren't connected to each other and don't go off because the alarm goes off. They are triggered by heat and triggered individually. What he describes is the way movies show things, but it isn't reality.
Blessed with such a husband! If he wouldn’t have put his foot down or made boundaries with his very narc controlling mother; she would have ruined our lives 😅 I was under her control for 10 years and now I see clear. So thankful 🙏🏼
@@Doesntmatter20 you're very lucky! My ex NEVER put me before anyone in his family. He actually said this about & in front of his whole family, mom, dad, 3 bro, 1 sis "We were all sitting around making fun of you when my dad of all people said 'No... we're not going to do that *ANYMORE.* She's really a nice girl who doesn't deserve this.' CAN YOU BELIEVE *MY DAD* SAID THAT?!?"
My ex was truly SO PROUD of his father and he thought I should be too! Not ONE of them thought ANY of it was problematic! They were all looking at me w big, doofy smiles on their faces like he'd just given me 50K! They ALL thought I would be delighted to hear that bc my F-I-L was AWFUL to me for what I thought was no reason.
CHERISH THAT MAN WHO CHERISHES *YOU!* I'm jealous but I'm loving this for YOU!!!
Kudos to the new mother that not only smacked that woman but served divorce papers to her husband. He didn’t care about her needs, so why should you stay?
My MIL didn’t come to our wedding or reception because she was mad at us for telling her she couldn’t give the puppy that we gave her people food because the puppy then had diarrhea for 3 days and almost died. *the puppy was born from OUR dog so we literally raised it *we told her before hand not to feed the puppy that specific food * she did it anyway as soon as we left *we nursed the puppy back to health and only then did she mention that she did in fact give the puppy the food we told her Not to
Good times.
My great grandmother absolutely hated her son's gf and when she found out they were planning their wedding she got her hands on the bride's wedding dress and burned it 2 days before the wedding. They ended up not getting married at all and my uncle's fiancee left him because she said no way in hell was she dealing with that witch for the rest of her life. I don't blame her one bit. My mom told me that everybody hated her grandmother and I can definitely see why 😂
That monster in-law, that destroyed the party:
1. Police comes when there’s a fire. That’s the moment to tell Them what You suspected. With a little CSI on Her wet clothes and shoes They might find out if She was inside. + the threatening text… and if the police cranks the heat…
2. with those results I’ll sue Her for the the cost of the party, damages, everybody’s dry cleaning and emotional stress. (She wanted to get paid? Now pay up. Take Her to the cleaners).
Plus criminal charges when you falsely trigger a fire alarm
Seems if there was a sprinkler system there would have also been a camera system to review.
also depending on the country but the false fire alarm fines are HUGE. and the hotel insurance will sue too.... the MIL will have to mortgage her house XD was it worth it?
exactly what i said to daughter watching with me
yep. consequences for stupid actions needs to be had.
“There is a grand total of ZERO people that are ever going to cuss out my wife!!!” You sir, are an incredibly amazing husband/man that MANY people need to learn a few lessons from! He must be protected at all costs and if his mom tries to ruin another event, we will ride at dawn to have his back!!!
Right I wish my partner had this same kind of energy
I agree! This was pent up aggression. Was she right? I wasn’t there. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
“For Pete’s sake” is now “For Grandad’s sake” thanks to my very literal-thinking son (yay autism!)… and my daughter used to call him “fruh-frag” as a toddler as her speech was so poor, and at the age of 15-next-week, she still uses it when she wants something 😂😂😂
My daughter found ‘grandma Mary’ to be a mouthful for my mom.
She called her Grammary and the other grandchildren followed suit. My mom absolutely adored her special name.
Omg that reminds me of my mum my son could say nan but not nana so he would say 2x nan together nannan and I tried correcting him but my mum said don't I like it lol now he can say wanna he's almost 7 now haha
Love this ❤. My Mom's Mother we called "Mom Helen", because we heard our Mom always calling her Mom 😊.
My Dad was called Papal. His Dad we called Grandpa. But when my siblings and I had our kids they started to call my Grandpa ,
( Their Great Grandpa) " Two Papal" and even Papal 2.0 when got older.
I love when the kids go rogue with names or it just changes to what they say 🥰💙💜💜.
The victim in that last story needed to call the police and report felony theft! WTH? I just cannot with people like that. And they didn't break up? Oh, that poor girl is so gaslit she cannot even see the true.
He was definitely in on the theft. There was no other reason for him to give his mother a key that he shouldn't have had in the first place.
There was a little boy named William that couldnt say Granny and while his Grandma was watching him he fell and hurt himself and the first person that got to him heard him crying for Gary, and when his Grandma reached him the person asked, "who's Gary" and Queen Elizabeth replied, "Me, I'm Gary"
19:40 pretty easy to pull security footage to see if Mom did it. And for ruining a $9k party? I’d sue her.
I really love the husband that supported his wife against his mom immediately.
So true. My MIL said to me right after giving birth to her first grandchild
“Now you can start losing your baby weight. I don’t want my son to have a fat wife.’ I was breastfeeding too, but like a nitwit, I DID start dieting, which caused our baby to lose weight too! Our son’s pediatrician put him on formula, plus put ‘Child At Risk’ on the medical folder! I had to bring him in every day for TWO WEEKS, meanwhile hubby stays SILENT at ME being suspected of starving our son! I may have been humiliated enough to do something stupid but he was a total creep letting me be on the hook alone.
@@judywright4241 oh that is foul! I am so sorry! I understand the pressures from mothers to be thin, but that is a while new low of pressure.
Nurse needs to get reported. It's a massive HIPAA violation. Frankly I'm shocked that the L&D nurses didn't put her ass out, no matter what unit she headed up.
I've been married for twenty years. From day one, till now, I can say that if you have a monster in law, she will never change.
Ot is the cutest thing ever, I'm so happy you shared that! My cousins call their other grandmother Blanno because she was Grandma Blanchard, but my oldest cousin couldn't figure it out. Blanno it is!
On the nurse who used her credentials to get into the delivery room- why did the care team not throw her out?!?!?! How was she not fired over this?!?!?! They would have known at once that she didn’t belong.
The sister doesn’t know the whole story.
My sisters a charge nurse and she said the same thing!!!
@@hazeltulipMaybe... Maybe the sister really wanted to be there, but they didn't want her there. Maybe they changed their minds about the MIL being there last minute but didn't want the sister to know, lots of possibilities
@@hazeltulipdoesn't matter, the MIL nurse violated the code of ethics and she needs to be reported.
Simple. Neither one of them Told her to get out. Never told the staff to get rid of her.
Second story is infuriating! Not only is that a fireable offense but criminal behaivor. She faces jail time, paying a fine, and permanent loss of her nursing license. She wouldn't be able to obtain it in another state.
Absolutely beyond unprofessional. Although , I can't understand why the husband and or his wife didn't tell her to get the hell out! There's no way on earth I would've let her stay.
@@elenawilliams32 TBH as a three-time mom, her mind was on too much during that labor to deal with her mother-in-law. Hopefully It was the same for the husband. With my second, I was in labor for 43 hours. I was getting septic and I'm an ICU nurse. Yet I still didn't clock it because of everything that my body and mind was going through during labor. And the husband might have been too focused on his wife to deal with his mother as well.
Plus as a head nurse on a different unit, His mother had unusual power and sway in that room that another monster-in-law wouldn't have had. So her son may have felt like he couldn't have spoken up in that moment. All of that just compounds the reasons that this was such a violation of trust boundaries and professional boundaries. Literally criminal
@@heatherburnard1805 Jeez, I'm glad you got through such a tough birth! I'm a one time Mum, when I wasn't having contractions... She would've been told!
I understand that it was extra tricky if she was a unit manager for the staff there but like you mentioned... It's so wrong on multiple different levels.
I've seen that girl ALOT on tiktok her entire account is satire
Exactly… this girl just makes up the craziest stories and people that don’t know give her TON of engagement getting mad or giving opinions
Back in the very early 80s I was at Oldham Flea Market and some of the very older ladies were rooting through a box of second hand tights (pantihose for those across the pond) I was gobsmacked 😂
My kids call my mom and dad , Darlin' and Grumpy. Yes, my dad is quite grumpy, even has a them song when they come to visit that he beat boxes and raps. Lol
Prince William called Queen Elizabeth "Gary" as a child because he couldn't say "granny". He once fell and scraped his knee and started crying for Gary. An employee asked the queen who Gary was and she replied, "oh, that's me. He can't say 'granny' yet." 😂
Never heard that story but love it! Especially since she just rolled with it
I heard this story somewhere where prince william couldn’t say Granny so he called her Gary and I think his son did the same thing so she just rolled with it for years!!
As soon as she said it was used I would've dry heaved and dropped it on the floor. Natural reaction. Lol
My doctor when I was going into labor told me to stop over exaggerating and being dramatic in the middle of each push. 😑😑
Also i breastfed exclusively for three years and it was not the most difficult thing I've done in my entire life. It was actually simple and I wasn't the type to whip it out in public, it was easy still to always be concealed and find a place. So no clue why some people make it seem hard.
The story about letting the grandparents choose their grandparent name. I'm so glad I didn't offer that when I was pregnant with my son lol. My son has always called his great grandma Nina because he couldn't say Nana and she's just gone with it so now it's stuck lol