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🌊🤿 Dive into the TikTok Sea: Wear Your Diving Gear for this Drama! 🤿🌊
Hey, TikTok enthusiasts! 🌟 Charlotte Dobre in the house, and today we're plunging headfirst into the deep end of TikTok drama that's so intense, you might need your diving gear to stay afloat! 🚀🔥
In this wild ride of a video, we're uncovering the juiciest, most jaw-dropping TikTok sagas that have the internet in a frenzy. From clapbacks to plot twists, we've got it all, and trust me, you won't want to miss a single splash! 💦💁♀️
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Yes exposing someone on SM for something he couldn't control... then expecting him to still come after u drag him. In this economy, we need our jobs. Especially health insurance. Poor guy
She knew he wasn't coming but still made a video with her child saying how excited she was. He made a lucky escape.
Yea and she left soooo much out like tf, I hope her fanbase turned
@@Felix_hobi omg she’s just all types of loose in the bolts! What a messy human being.
He showed more effort into trying to make a set date/time in showing ACTUAL GENUINE interest!!..😮... I've been married to my elementary school crush since I was 16, n we just celebrated our 23rd wedding anniversary however we've been together for 26yrs,.. n considering the fact that I've lived more of my life WITH him then WITHOUT... I can confidently say that I'd be lucky if my hubby remembered my bday, let alone being able to plan ahead for just "us" time!😮🤔😂 unfortunately I happen to fall in love with an extremely hyperactive,(child at ❤️) mentality with pretty disruptive OCD triggers/episodes, PLUS he hates going to the doctor so ive had to struggle hard with trying to keep up a strong relationship esp after all these years! Anyhoo, if I were the girl from the first story, I'd be forever embarrassed n ashamed of myself for acting out so immaturely n impulsive, yes who else can safely say the guy dodged a bullet, maybe it was the universe trying to warn him, ya know 🤷🏻♀️😫😵💫🤦🏻♀️🫨
There's definitely still some ppl telling her she dodge the bullet. @@Felix_hobi
I find it so disturbing that bartender chick says she "doesnt want to make fun of someone on the spectrum", I'm autistic and I don't want fake niceness when you're dealing with me, if you're not gonna treat other people with basic respect then whats the point? This absolutely cannot be what people think we want 😂
For people like her, unfortunately, it’s really not about what others want but about what she can acceptably get away with socially. It’s performative sensitivity, and it’s sadly very common.
She only doesn't want to make fun of someone on the spectrum because it's not politically correct and she doesn't want to get hate. She's fine making fun of anyone else, and that would include autistic people (with the gross presumption she can tell just by looking at them) if she wasn't afraid of backlash. She just wants positive internet points. Most people have met people who are autistic and not even known. Hell, many autistic women don't know until they're diagnosed in adulthood (speaking from experience). Maybe just... don't make fun of people? Whether you think they're autistic or not.
As a high masking, late diagnosed female with autism,
My favourite lines by ableist a holes is " but you don't look autistic" along with " my family member is autistic so you must be faking because you don't have the same look or the exact same autistic traits as my family member" it's like people's family members get diagnosed and then they immediately forget that Autism is on a spectrum.
@@jordangann7438 Yes! Or when they ask 'what does he do?' & I'm like 'wut' and they say 'You know, like is he really good at math or does he play an instrument? I know someone who has it and they are really good at "_____" So I'm like 'he's really good at minding his business and being completely innocent & happy!' (They don't have to know he's 23 but really more like a nonverbal 3) It's like just cause you watched 1 movie or your family member/friend has it, they aren't all the same! It's called a spectrum for a reason!
That part. I don’t want to hate on people on the spectrum…
• proceeds to hate on the ONE group of people that would rather you honestly rail on us than fake niceness •
Sometimes I don’t understand NT ppl…
Guys who get smeared online should start filling lawsuits for damages. She used his band which could effect his future earnings negatively.
He has receipts he probably could for defamation. Half a million people bullying you and making your mental health bad...
You know gals get smeared too, right?
He definitely has a case for slander.
She gave him all the proof.
Yes, and the revenge pron lawsuits taking down pervert exboyfriends. It's time
You are exactly right. He could and should sue.
The “call me crazy” and then the pesto popping in on the side is SO underrated!! That is peak humor!! A little Easter egg for us viewers! Praise these editors!!❤
I laughed out loud at that!!!😂😂😂
I died laughing when it popped up 😆
Loved this 😂
I _immediately_ called that clip up in my brain when she said "call me crazy" 😆 The little pesto jar was the savory cherry on top!
13:10 "Call me crazy, but I've never liked store bought pesto" Who else noticed that little detail?
Love you editor! (forgot ur name sorry ;-;)
Bar story: Obviously this is a very specific situation but I use to go to a bar or restaurant alone when my ex was being violent so I had people around me . But, sometimes I couldn’t get my wallet before I ran out.
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21:49 😂 MY 8 YEAR OLD LOVES THAT VOICE OF YOURS 🤦♀️ thanks for making him laugh girl ❤
I have a couple close male friends. None of them live near me. I knew them before they got into relationships with their (now) wives. Never once did the gf/wife EVER feel the need to call me out for being close with her husband. One of my guy friends has always been like a brother to me. We give each other advice and provide perspective and feedback to each other on various topics. The other guy friend I was actually interested in at one point in time, but he never was. We remained friends, but when he started dating his wife, I pulled back on communicating with him a bit and ALWAYS made sure to include her in any communications I had with him because she knew our history and that I **used to** be into him, and I didn't ever want to give her the wrong impression of our relationship. It's called respect.
As a non drinker I do still tip my waitress/bartender they did provide a service, especially if I'm there to see a band and she's navigating the crowd back and forth with my water.
Exactly! I just commented basically the same thing.
This ^
The “if” implies that it is conditional, meaning not every case is the same. I used to serve and had tables stiff me on tip for a $30 bill and an hour and a half of table time. Tipping is just a way to allow businesses to pay people less than minimum wage.
Y’all expect way too much for doing nothing.
My drink of choice is Crown Royal & Coke but I will alternate with a glass of water. I tip $1 per drink, including the rounds of water because I like my water with a wedge of lime - so it actually takes slightly more effort to add a lime wedge than to just add a stir straw. 😅 All of the waitresses knew to bring me a printout of the evening’s drinks on my tab at the end of the night so that I could accurately tip them $1 per drink, regardless of what the drink was. I used to be a cocktail waitress and I always take care of them. 💕
Bartender here, and also a sober customer. And i don't care where i am at, if someone get me a glass of water and i am sitting at their table or at their barstool not spending any money, i am still going to tip FOR THE SERVICE and for their seat. Tipping isnt necessarily only for paid items. Thats just MY opinion
agreed. i was gonna say - shes taking up a seat and spending nothing in a seat where the bartender could have a paying customer. plus she has to continue to get those waters
Yes, I was looking for this comment and was going to post it myself if I didn't find anyone else talking about it!! Buying water is fine, but DO tip for the continued service!! And just getting a water all the time does NOT make you a customer; you are loitering if you don't buy anything, and that's wrong.
Exactly. If they're expecting service, regardless of the cost, they should be tipping.
I was waiting for this. You can be sober all you want but getting water and than not tipping.
It’s crazier to run to the bar and confront someone when no names were mentioned..so she called out “Michelle” and the name of the bar. She said other ppl working there referred to her as water b*tch. And the point seemed to be this woman goes to leave with men, if another man notices it then that is what it is. The spectrum comment was to head off anyone who may say “maybe this and maybe that”.
Here for our thee Queen, thee Duchess, thee Empress, thee Goddess of Petty, Charlooootte Dooooobreeeee! 🥔👑
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@@Crickets_Territoryno clue, is it? 🤷♀️
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Was I supposed to read it in a "wrestling announcer" voice? I hope so 😂
The more I watch RUclips the more relieved I am that I don't do social media outside of occasional Facebook scroll.
You can go to a bar and order water all the time, but you should definitely tip cuz you're getting a service!
i believe that if there is not a specific reason or concern, you can't just say to someone "stop talking to your best friend because they're my partner now". i was a mutual friend to a couple that later broke up, the guy was my best friend and his girlfriend said to him "you either chose me or her" and that really broke my heart. it's so unfair cutting off friendships for no reason. if you're in a relationship with someone, you have to trust them and respect the other friendships that they might had before you. it's only okay to start a conversation when you really believe that something is off, not everyone has bad intentions nor wants to get between you and your partner. 😊
"I ain’t got no buisness having a friendship with my friend's man." Why????? Genuinely. Like that does not make sense to me. If someone that's gonna be with my friend for the rest of their life was incapable of being friends with with me, their best friend, that's a red flag.
She clearly said she can be cordial and “friends” but she’s not gonna be texting her man.
@@deathvvitch Ya, and I don't get it. Unless you have no faith in ur friend and bf, I don't get what the problem is.
I'd HOPE I got along well enough with my friends partners to be able to text them.
The thing is WHY you event want to text them? For what? @monster-enthusiast
@@kurokotetsuya5358 Wdym why? If we're friends then we're friends.
i feel like only cishet people feel this way... because its like demanding that your partner have a Chaperone every time they dare to be in the presence of another! as if friends never text each other?? what else are they supposed to do, semaphore??
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I’m actually with Michele on this.
1. She was pointing out that the person does not appear to be on the spectrum so all you Internet diagnosticians shouldn’t jump to that.
2. It’s not that she’s ordering something non-alcoholic. It’s that she every night takes up a seat at a business without spending any money (bars sell soft drinks, juice, coffee) or sitting with anybody else who’s spending money.
3. It’s rude to not tip someone in a service establishment like a bar when provided a service. It’s the same service if serving water, a soft drink, or a whisky. She should tip on the water.
4. The part about her going home with guys who are then never seen again is just gossip. Yeah it’s stupid and yeah there was an implication that she’s chopping them up in her basement but anybody with half a brain knows they’re not talking about regulars and they’re just not coming back. Could be she scared them off; could be (most likely) they just wouldn’t have been around anyway. It’s stupid gossip. If the previous points weren’t happening then this wouldn’t have even been talked about. It was an odd on to the other not great bar behaviour.
My husband had an incident like the first one. He couldn't get time off and he needed the job and she got pissed and says "you care more about your job than me" lol. He's like "uhhh yea!" Lol
If you always order water, yes a tip once in a while is courteous, you are still getting service.
The bartender video. So being sober is fine. But going to a bar/restaurant and only drinking water and never spending money is the issue. The video was unhinged. But if you aren't going to order anything but water, then you still should give them at least a dollar or two.
"What possible reason could you have to text your friend's boyfriend?" So many reasons. Check football scores. Chat video game strats. Share hiking routes. Girls and dudes can talk about stuff other than s ex, sheesh.
Also, why is he "your friend's man," like property? Why is he not just his own man? If nothing explicit is going on, this kind of jealousy is just as weird and controlling as if the genders are swapped. Just keep it in your pants and everything else is fair game.
At 12:05 I got so pissed because why is the blonde girl treating her like a child who just drew on walls!? Also if she didn’t need to hide anything she would’ve handed the girl the phone.
As a sober person (too many prescription meds that I am desperate to not be on), I can 💯 % tell you that there is no way in the world I would be as lazy as picking up my next basement dude (a la Along came A Spider) when there are multiple witnesses & from the exact same establishment.
Having a relationship with your friends man and having a friendship with a guy/girl who you are friendly with are 2 totally different situations. However if someone comes to you and says your relationship with their _________ is something to listen to and try to fix.
A prime example of gaslighting is Mother Gothel in Tangled.
If you go to a bar and never order anything except water, take up a seat but never tip, you are not a customer. Customers support the establishment by spending money there. Should you tip for water? I guess not but if staff is bringing it to you and waiting on you, you should tip the staff. There are nonalcoholic drinks that you can order if you are sober. If you go somewhere every single weekend because you like the vibe, support it. Don’t be a bum.
I understand that part, but she didn’t need to imply that the woman was a murderer or potentially on the spectrum.
YES
I mentioned this in another comment and I'll say it here too, from those of us on the spectrum, it's not a bad thing to mention it. When you act like someone is being insulting simply for referencing that someone might be on the spectrum, all you're doing is telling those of us on the spectrum that you think that it's a bad thing. Not trying to be a bitch, I just really wish people would look at how they're saying things when they are trying to defend others. It's not helping us, people freaking out over someone saying another might be on the spectrum, like yeah probably, we can pick them out of a crowd, I'm not surprised others are learning how to as well LMFAO
@@B.Harper7exactly! She might have literally been trying to figure out if that's why she wasn't acting neurotypical. A friend may or may not know all their medical conditions either. I have adhd and I've never talked to my family about it.
Never tip for water. Stop being ridiculous.
I've gotta disagree about the 3rd (?) one. If a girl has been friends with your bf for years, I do not think it is ok for you to tell her to stop texting him so much. They have a pre-established relationship that you can either accept or not, but it's not cool to try to change someone's friends because you indeed do not trust something in your relationship. Now if you truly think someone is out of line and going too far, then you talk to your bf about it, and they make the changes they're willing to. If you fully trust your bf, none of this stuff will matter.
I use to bartend and as long as ur not hasseling other customer to buy you a drink...ill give you glasses of water all night long...there use to be this older man that would come into the bar as soon as we opened and would get glasses of water and would watch whatever game was on, and he always kept me company and was really sweet!!! RIP Gordan! When we closed for covid when we finally were able to open back up his brother came in and wanted to have a celebration of life for his brother! His brother brought his cane and i put a glass of water on the bar and didnt allow anyone to sit in his spot at the bar for the day!!!❤❤❤ He sure did have alot of friends tho! Because i made a killing that shift! I told everyone it was Gordans present to me. I really needed money and i made well over what i was expecting!
Just want to let you know that gaslighting isn't actually something that people can do by accident.
Gaslighting is when somebody goes on a purposeful, malicious campaign to make the other person doubt their reality.
People who experience gaslighting usually have to go through years upon years of therapy. They have a really difficult time trusting their own senses as well as those around them.
You can gaslight someone unintentionally though, meaning you are not doing it with the intent. People who surround narcs who haven’t seen their “dark side”will often say things like, “oh but she’s so sweet to me. Are you sure you aren’t misinterpreting?” Or “maybe they were just having a bad day?” For the average person, these would be perfectly acceptable comments but cause people who experience narcissistic abuse to question themselves and their boundaries.
@@TheBaumcm you can't because the definition says one must be intentionally trying to make someone doubt their reality and the attempt must be made more than once (it's an ongoing campaign).
Not trying to be rude, that's just how it is. If it's accidental then it's manipulation. It's not gaslighting.
It’s not about sobriety, it’s weird to come in and never buy a single thing on a regular basis.
sober in a bar would indicate that maybe they are someone's DD, which is very noble indeed. 😊
14:47 hear me out:
I (f) once had a really good friend (f) and I introduced her to my male best friend (I’ve known him since we started going to school as kids). The two started dating. I wasn’t happy about that because both of them didn’t make time to see me, do stuff together whatsoever. But eventually I was fine with that. Than this girl started to dislike the fact that I had contact with him via text messages. She said I would flirt with him and shouldn’t text him that much. Remember he was MY best friend… they broke up some time later. He and I are still pretty good friends and his new now fiancé and I go really well together and she has absolutely no problems with me texting my longtime friend and visiting him. The girl and I don’t talk anymore.
So here we don’t know what exactly is going on. And I don’t think that just because his girlfriend dislikes it, you aren’t allowed to have contact with her boyfriend (if he’s a friend of you too and you don’t just know him because of her).
The first to tell the story always seems fair until you hear the other side of it.
I don't think the point was she gets just water. It's that she brings dudes home and they're never seen again 🤣
@@amykean6125True, but I wasn’t much more enchanted with their responses. Here she is suggesting this woman is kidnapping/killing men and they’re mad because she said she might not be on the spectrum. I think being on the spectrum only referred to her blank expression or awkward social behavior but both she and Charlotte were so offended by it. I am so sick of people using Autism as an insult.
Let’s not forget bars a business, if it’s a busy bar and someone is occupying a seat and not spending money it’s pretty messed up when there’s probably someone else who would want that seat ready to spend money.
The fart noises are killing me 😂😂😂😂
Idk how that girl didn't punch the other one in the face. "It's your fault you don't feel secure in your relationship" like what???? That's not what's happening here 😂😂😂
“Time off request” should be a “time off notice”
3:43 he really dodged that bullet ugh. What a psycho
Whatever happened to "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all" ? Its one thing if you knew anything sinister or bad was going on but making a bunch of assumptions about someone you don't know, involving your workplace and colleagues in it, and then airing it publicly... no class. None at all. I wonder how many people stopped going to the bar cause they didn't want a video about them?
The girlfriend shouldn't have to tell the female friend to chill out on texting her boyfriend. He should tell the friend himself. That's what a quality man does. Unless the girl in question was friends/family with the girlfriend first. If he's not comfortable seeing that boundary with a girl he's not into and willing to tell you about, he's not going to set that boundary with a girl he is attracted to and may be nervous to tell you about because of his own attraction and temptation.
The girl in the video should've just agreed to text the guy less, if course. But the girlfriend should be wondering why SHE is telling the girl to chill out rather than knowing her boyfriend can set and enforce appropriate boundaries or utilize the block feature on his phone.
Attitudes and trolling on the internet aren’t real life, just evidence for the police later on when things go haywire in real life.
People think I stopped drinking for so many reasons none ever the actual reason. Dui? nope Fighting? nope. Addiction? nope.
Second story girl should contact that company’s HR dept ASAP!
As a sober bartender, there is nothing wrong with going to a bar & not drinking. However, not tipping .. even just like $1.. idk man I’d be annoyed if you were taking up a seat at my bar from someone who would be paying me. Like I’m still going to be checking on you & refilling your water, taking time away from other guests & other tasks. Then she’s a regular on top of that, that’s a lot of time she’s taking up space & the bartender isn’t getting paid lol. I wouldn’t go online & talk about it, or even say anything to the woman but it would ruin my night every time I saw her walk in lol.
if you are friends with someone, it is rather controlling to have the person that they are dating dictate how often you are allowed to text them. the people you date come and go but friendships, good friendships last.
could not agree more. lacks empathy to think the friend needs to just walk away to not hurt the gf's feelings. all need to be respectful and inclusive but charlotte obv thinks people in romantic relationships are the only feelings that matter
Yeah, this is where I break ranks with Charlotte. By this logic, I can't have one-on-one friendships with anyone who's coupled because I'm bisexual.
Step one: Get time off work. Step 2: make plans. I kind of blame him for not doing the work before planning to meet her.
I feel like shampoo girl needs to contact Blake's company and send them all the correspondence between them. His bosses need to know what he's doing to potential employees
Unless the company is sus to begin with.
More likely there was no "company" to begin with.
Might not even be a real job application… sounds creepy and scammy
@@sowi-reeikuddye5732 Agreed. The phone call thing is a redflag.
So true. Since it was on LinkedIn, maybe she can make a post warning other potential interns, or even contact LinkedIn that there's a scammer. Idk
I'd be calling and emailing the company in the internship company and reporting him for harassment. Hell no
my guess is the "company" is fake. Its not too hard to make up some company or pose as an existing one on LinkedIn. He was definitely gonna ghost her after that 1 month.
This! No way would i put up with that creepy inappropriate behavior
There is no company.
He was the “owner“ of the company
Either an MLM or he was a straight up se* offender.
The first guy dodged a Nuclear Missile. I hope he comes to realize how extremely lucky he is
Oh yeah that was lucky for him cause she instantly showed she’s a nutcase
Oh yeah, came here to say this. He is one lucky mf.
Agreed! She showed her true colors quickly! He’s lucky!
Absolutely. Chick was probably a stage 5 clinger and bunny boiler.
Crazy baby momma vibe, she's psycho. Dodged a major mistake.
4:17 “I picked up some shifts so I had money” So she understands needing a job to have money, yet expects him to jeopardize his job to come see her? The hypocrite.
Yaaassss this is what I was thinking! She literally is a hypocrite 😂
His job and potential his health since he said he has some issues n he needs the health insurance from the job.
That describes most women really
@@maloydonedidit2903y'all like to say "Not ALL men" but loooooove to generalize women, huh?
@@Ana-ho8dy lol 😂🤣😂 riiigghhhtt! Cuz women NEVER do that.... Did you ALSO pick the bear? Take a look in the mirror. I will give you 1 key difference though. Women love choosing the bear and saying how they "don't need men" and 10 minutes later either asking for help from a man or making a tiktok about how they need a man to help them. I guarantee that are FAR more tiktoks, RUclips shorts, Facebook shorts of women whining about needing a man than there are men doing that. Again y'all are independent and strong until it gets just slightly too tough and you have to put some effort into it.
First guy should thank his job for protecting him from accidentally dating a PSYCHOPATH
Imagine feeling SO HURT that you send an army to hate the guy that hurt you unintentionally. This girl is psycho and he dodged a bullet.
I'm not even sure she was that hurt, just attention seeking.
It was more like a nuclear missile. 😂
She'd never even met him, how hurt could she have been? Extreme reaction to what should have been just mild disappointment.
I've had friends like her. Dropped them.
She was NOT HURT.
Those dramas don't need an emergency exit, they need an ejection seat. 🤣
Hahaha! I've needed one few times in my life.
Without the parachute lol
😂God bless you in the name of Jesus Christ, who is the name above all names & the only way to Heaven❤
Ejecto seato cuz!
Omg, so true!!!
First girl could have garnered the sympathy she seems to want without blasting him like that.
Like ending it with "His work denied his time off request" would have still gotten the emotional response without burning that bridge
100% exactly this. I TOTALLY get the disappointment but her posting the video without the reason and ALONG WITH THE BLACKMAIL TEXTING TO HIM was so immature.
More like attention rather than sympathy.
She actually smirking while gaslighting. She knows what shes doing and she is enjoying it
Regarding the girl confronting her guy's friend...
I'm female and, being a veteran, I have a lot of male friends. One of my friends started seeing a girl and she was uncomfortable with our friendship. My friend let me know, so I arranged to meet her. I suggested we go out for lunch, just us two girls, so should could get to know me. We did and, over the course of the afternoon (we got on, so it ended up being a long lunch! 😂), I found out 2 things:
1) She was lovely;
2) She was insecure because her ex had cheated on her with someone he told her was his friend.
I could've told her it was her problem and not mine, but that would have been really disrespectful to my friend and would've shown no empathy to a girl taking time out to get to know me. So, instead, I suggested we find a solution until I'd earned her trust. We set up a group chat. Within a few months, she felt more secure, we all texted normally again, and I had earned a new friend.
Cut to last year and I was very proud to be a bridesmaid at their wedding 😎
Moral of the story: as a friend, it's your job to do right by your friend. If their new partner is psycho and tries to oush you out of the picture, tell them and stand firm. But if your friend really likes their new partner, find a solution (not for the partner, but because you value your friendship). And, you never know, you might end up with a new awesome friend, like I did 😊
Awesome story.
That’s really sweet 😊
You are very mature and this is a great story. Thanks for sharing!
Great story, thanks for sharing. It’s a wonderful way to make sure you still maintained your original friendship as well as making a new one.
I want a friend like you!
They guy who couldn't get the time off clearly dodged a bullet. He should thank his supervisor.
I'm a 41yr old Aussie Diesel mechanic here in Queensland Australia, I'm abit rough, short beard, drive a 4x4 ute, have a custom trike, usually covered in grease and oil and dirt most days, work for a big transport company here as well, have my own work shop and 3 other mechanics beside me as well... but as soon as I get a notification that a new Charlotte video has dropped its tools down, stop what ya doing, and everyone in the workshop crowds around the 70' flatscreen for abit of Charlotte time 😂😂 keep up the good work darl, love ya vids 👌
Hey Pete, you'll have lots of o/s visitors if your not careful 😆 From Nth East VIC 🇦🇺
@@bunyipdragon9499 I dont mind 🤷♂️🤣🤣
@@Mechanic.Pete41 didn't think so, I was being silly 😜
Wish I lived in Australia 😅
I dig the visualization!❤
Here’s the thing about the girl confronting her friend, she should never have put herself in that position. You tell the boyfriend you’re not comfortable with it and he needs to handle it, and if he doesn’t you walk away from both of them. She’s texting HIS phone. HE needs to be the one to tell her it’s not ok. Then the girlfriend doesn’t get her hands dirty at all, and isn’t subjected to any bullcrap the other girl is going to say.
Exactly. He falls to him to address and correct the friend's behavior so his gf isn't left feeling uncomfortable or awkward. Some new gf's will be all "dump your friend". That happened, and I'd only gone out with the girl once. She wanted me to not even hang out with a friend I'd known for years; we called each other brother and sister. New girl never even met my friend and said I wasn't gonna remain friends with "my sis" if I was with her. I told her right off 1) one date isn't a relationship, 2) you don't get to tell me who my friends are, and 3) rest assured, there won't be a 2nd date. Take care!
Exactly what I was thinking... why isn't her boyfriend addressing the situation
as a girl, if that’s if that’s my close friend im going to confront both of them.. especially if she is the one being inappropriate/disrespectful. im mot going to tell him to put a stop to it and then act like theres nothing wrong towards her. especially cause then she could be like “why didn’t she tell me herself”. you are supposed to feel close enough in your friendship to be able to set boundaries w your friends
We didn't really catch the beginning of that conversation. She may have already confronted her boyfriend about it and the friend may have brought it up with her.
Yes. Exactly.
The smile while arguing on the blond's face tells you all you need to know. She's LOVING the drama she's caused.
this
Bro her face is so punchable
Oh so true! I knew someone like this (now ex bestie fooling around with my now ex bf) and took the smile off her face with itching powder, which how I found out she was the other chick he was seeing because she called me thinking she caught an STD and was wondering if I had caught anything. 1+1 = Gotcha!😈😈
@@rustyhowe3907nice tactic I probably would've done a pepper condom deal but that works😂
She never got her ass whipped by other girls
The woman in the first story was giving off major bunny boiler vibes. Dude is lucky that he couldn’t get off work.
He should thank his boss for the rejection after showing him the video.
Bunny *what* vibes??!
the heck is a bunny boiler?
They're talking about Bunny boiler vibes like the woman in the movie Fatal Attraction who boils the bunny
"I will not be IGNORED, DAN!" 😅
I’m really proud for the last girl who stood up for her friend that had a nasty TikTok posted online regarding untrue, made up, and malicious rumors. I give her a lot of credit for not only admitting her past transgressions but that she’s doing much better and is a kinder person now. Kudos to you girl!
I’m still stuck on the fact that they haven’t seen any of the guys she’s gone home with. Does seem sorta suspicious
"I'm not insecure in my relationship with my man, I'm getting suspicious of your intentions when YOU won't respect my boundaries in my relationship with my man" bring in the man and see what he says.
Good point 👍🏽 I wonder how the bf acts w/ the friend & if the gf addressed the problem w/ him too 🤔
I would of had to be held back from throwing hands at the peroxide piece of 💩
As a man I would of been mad, that's my friendship your messing with... It is your insecurity that you need to deal with, if you can't deal with it, you communicate to me and we work it out or I make a choice between a friend or our relationship... This isn't the way!
@@captainnoname7690 I admit I'm a little confused by your comment. Are you saying if your friend was messaging your girlfriend behind your back, you would pick your friend over your girlfriend? Or if you were my man you would think I was insecure with my friend and dump me bc I'm insecure?
@@carlamarlene2927 sry, I mean I would want my gf to come to me and then together after talking about it, we make a decision about my female friendships and what we do about them together.
Hold up, so you are telling me that she's actually excited about seeing him and when life happens, which is does, instead of rescheduling and keeping things happy and fun, she instead makes a video basically turning this guy into a monster and scaring him off and he's the bad guy? H'wat?
He dodged a massive bullet here
She even sent him a little snippet of her fake “mad face” typing furiously on the computer 🤢🤢🤢. Then she had to reenact all of those happy moments. What a phony weirdo CRAZYYY.
She's definitely one of those manipulative emotional abuser types. They suuuuuck.
The universe was looking out for him, by getting her to reveal she is the type of person who IMMEDIATELY first instinct is to manipulate and create flying monkeys. He dodged a nuclear bomb
😊😊😊@@Lemana28021989
I literally just had to deal with a “friend” who was trying to slid into my HUSBANDS DMs. They like dated when they were in school. He and I have been married for 30 yrs. I find out she’s been trying really hard to get with him. Because of my health she will be a better “fit” for him. And I should step back and let her have him🙄 When she finally stopped hinting and just said it to him. He laughed at her and told her no way. The amount of gaslighting she tried with me and bringing my health into it was sickening. At the end of the day he’s my best friend and husband. And she’s out in the cold. 🥶 Some people though 😑
Props to your husband for his integrity and loyalty. 🫡
I’m very lucky. Also very proud that he stood up for me/us. I think what gets me is how long she tired. And he’s in is own world and had no clue😂. Took her laying it out for him and just saying some toxic stuff. He told her she can go back where she came from…… the past. Because I am his present and future. I’m lucky and she’s nasty. lol
I never understood why people would WANT what i have. Like you think he would feel the same about you?! Why werent yall together in the first place?!
Some people are so lonely and jealous😅
I love how your Husband told this toxic woman to go back to the past. I have a lot of health issues but I know that my Husband would react just like yours did, I'm so happy that I found my forever. X
Unfortunately, the charm works on some people in vulnerable spaces which is why they do it. They can also be delulu and pretend on their world that they were picking up on cues and were being misled.
I'm really proud of that 2nd girl. It took me a long time to realize that some jobs I had in the past were really unprofessional. I was uncomfortable but didn't know enough or better to say or do anything. I didn't want to lose my job or make anyone mad
Girl in the first story is going to be online is a month like 'I don't understand why I can't keep a relationship."
I'm more worried about her little boys. She seems to be including them in her dating/love life as well as posting it for everyone to see. She doesn't need to be dating right now; she needs to be staying off the internet and taking care of her kids.
IKR 😂
@@s.b.sieber2007 I'm worried as crazy as she is that she would or does hurt them!
I was a bartender for a very long time. It's completely normal for people to come in just to relax by themself or hang out with their friends and not drink alcohol.
Yeah I dated a bartender for a few months and he’d invite me to come hangout while he was working. I’d just sit t the bar and talk with him and drink water because I didn’t need to have a drink every time I was there (at least 3x a week) some times it’s just fun to go to the bar and hangout.
yaeh and beeng on the soectrum myselph, I know I have too be carfull with alcohol. it is eseyer for us too becoming adicked and harder to let go of a habit. and some of us have medications to handle serten problems and thy dont mix weii with alcohole. in sweden we have entire alcoholefree coctaile bars
My husband and I used to frequent a local veteran bar and neither of us drink alcohol. We used to sit and drink a pop or two a couple times a week. Nothing wrong with it.
@@Dragonlover33I think it's cheeky to only ever get water and never buy ANYTHING. That seems like taking advantage. No one has to drink alcohol but she could buy another drink.
That story was so unnecessary and disrespectful.
As a former bartender I’ve tipped on water numerous times! I was tipped as well for providing water too. The bartender is providing a service no mater what is in the glass.. it’s a no brainer what the rude server was trying to convey but she clearly isn’t a nice or kind person to bully and post about her clients online..so it makes sense why she hasn’t received a tip! 🤣
Your services should be paid by the bar/company not someone getting water that takes less than a minute for you give them
as someone who is autistic and who has family members who are autistic, I hate it when people say " I wouldn't make fun of someone if I knew they were on the spectrum/autistic" because you do not know. If you think you can somehow sense when someone is autistic, you are wrong
And people need to stop using it as an insult! They all used it that way and I’m so angry about it.
exactly. Also, being "on the spectrum" or any other kind of neurodiverse IS not and definitely SHOULD not be an insult. It's a disability (often invisible) and it's just as disgusting to make fun of it or "speculate" about it like making fun of someone in a wheelchair or with diabetes etc.
My son is autistic and you would never know. Autism isn’t bad. It’s a different way of thinking and all the diff thinkers are the ones who go n do great things. That’s what I told him and even gave examples (when he got picked on in school) now he’s riding a scholarship to be a video game developer n designer. He’s awesome in so many ways and a very interesting n fun person.
I'm in my 30s and I'm just now potentially being diagnosed with autism after going for a different diagnosis. I've lived what I thought was a normal life all my life.
As a mom who is SICK of hearing “but he doesn’t LOOK autistic”
Like for one, educate yourself 🤦🏼♀️ I know they are trying to be nice, but just stahpppppppp
That bartender being like “well she’s never ordered anything but water from ME”
Yeah girl, she caught your vibe and said “absolutely not”
Why go to the police though? What are they going to do? There was no personal information or anything about the person in question so what does she expect the police to do? She will just be wasting their time.
@@paige8453 because its technically cyberbullying
But there's something I don't understand. Isn't the water free? Isn't a customer that takes a seat, orders only water and doesn't even tip just a nuisance?
I'm genuinely confused about this one because I'm not from the US and I don't know how this works. Most places in my area either charge cover charge that includes one drink (can be soft) or require you to order at least one real drink (not water since it's free, and again, it can be a soft drink).
I agree that the bartender is cyberbullying the poor girl but I don't understand how they're a customer if they're not paying anything.
If it wasn't about her, she wouldn't have made the response video. She deflected saying it was about her "friend" who had never been mentioned in the first video at all, lmao. Also, she admitted she is the water girl, but she's wrong in the fact that to be a customer, you do actually need to pay for things. Since she refuses to do so, she is not a customer. At all. She's a loiterer. But go off boo
@franciscoflamenco I'm not even sure if it's really cyberbullying because no real information was given. Water girl responded and ousted herself. Also, water is free, so she is a nuisance that just takes up space at the bar. 😂
The friend talking to her friends boyfriend is TERRIFYING. All she does is gaslight the entire conversation and it’s awful. I feel bad for anyone that has that girl in their life.
Ex bartender here and I promise we are not all like her.. Most of us appreciate the sober people who come into the bar. I’d never expect a tip for water either. I personally loved my regulars and never cared what they ordered or didn’t order. ❤
In college, the local bars gave free sodas to the designated driver. I rarely drink, but I enjoy going out with friends. I've never had an issue with bartenders or waitstaff.
Agreed. Her entitlement is wild. I worked at a bar attached to a bowling alley and if I cried and moaned every time I fetched a water, I would just be sobbing all day. I did bulk order bottled water for customers, but that's only because I thought the tap water was gross and felt bad serving it to kids. Not for money.
I appreciate how hard the bartenders & servers work. They deal with a lot. I always tip for water when it’s served to me. You take care of me; I take care of you.
Isn't the expectation that a customer purchase something? Like maybe some apps from the kitchen or a virgin cocktail or something? Cuz otherwise isn't it loitering?
also don't care what they order, love regulars, dont expec ttips but appreciate them and me personally I would tip for a water as well but i work hospitality so i know the hussle
Why doesnt she go visit him? When I was dating my husband if he couldnt make it out to me, I would figure out a way to get to him. Been together for 22 years, married for 15. And we still both put in effort for the other one
Because she's crazy.
My guess is the kid. It's hard traveling with a child.
@@ashassassin Fair enough, but that should make her more understanding of his situation, since she also has situations holding her back from travel.
I genuinely think that she thought he would like all of the pr, like he would turn it into an online campaign to get more people to his band page. However I feel like she's a little too caught up in being a content creator and forgetting that those who have to sign in with a manager for a job don't get to just make whatever schedule and do whatever they damn well please throughout the day.
She done fucked up and it's going to be a little bit until she realizes it.
Right? It goes both ways. If it were the case that she really liked this guy, they would have worked on figuring out another way, or she would have offered an alternative. Instead she reacts in the most disrespectful manner , which would be a turn off to anyone that she can't handle a difficult situation with any grace and understanding.
purposefully dragging someone on the internet before even meeting them and then using the hate train to threaten them into seeing you is one of the most entitles, delulu things I've ever heard. dude dodged a death bullet
No it was a major Nagasaki atomic bomb
For real!! She's batshit!
@@twoprayingbuddhas892 ooh definitely!
I would say a bad case of poor mental health but entitled sounds true as well.
My little sister married my high-school best friend. He and I's relationship changed immediately. We get along like siblings still, but my sister is the priority above all. We do not hangout or message without including her. No exception.
That’s so weird to me. My best guy friend has been my friend for almost 24 years. Our moms are best friends and we’ve always acted like siblings, especially because his mom always wanted a girl and so I’ve been her surrogate daughter ever since I was a baby. He came back from college from the states with a girlfriend, which I was so excited for until I met her. We’re European, it’s super normal for a woman and a man to be platonic friends… my boyfriend has no issue with our relationship whatsoever and he also has a few female friends. This girl has had a issue with me even before I met her, she doesn’t want him texting me or calling me if she’s not there listening, she doesn’t want us to hang out, etc. This guy knows all my secrets and so I vent to him a lot, but I don’t want a random girl listening in! I’ve tried to befriend her several times and she’s so aloof. I’m not sure if it’s culture shock but I feel like Americans are very jealous in a relationship.
Oh
PERIOD.
Exactly if I ever text my BIL is because my sister did not answer. I only have his because I watch my nephew sometimes and if it's not about my sister it's about the baby.
That’s weird
The water drinking at the bar story hit home a bit. My husband is allergic to alcohol and only ever likes drinking water. He hates coffee and tea and used to drink juice or sodas but cut those out because of the excessive sugar in them. Therefore, he only drinks water. When he was dating online, he felt stuck not being able to meet people in bars or coffee shops. He felt it would seem strange to girls online to meet up with a guy who isnt drinking at all. He felt it would seem preditory and chose to meet ppl in other places. We met at dinner and it was lovely but it is sad that people feel they can't be in a bar if they aren't drinking.
Doesn’t bars have nonalcoholic drinks anymore? Ours does o.O
I lost my kidney to cancer so I chose to not drink to try to save the only one I have left. Also I’m a terrible drinker I too am allergic and have such a slow metabolism I don’t feel the effects till 12 hours later and by then I have essentially binge drank myself into oblivion because I wasn’t having any effects. So I chose not to drink. I can’t tell you how many times people who claim to be my friends would bully and badger me into drinking when I told them no and it makes me sick and usually I end up in the hospital. People really need to learn what respect is. I learned who my real friends were and who was just messing with me or wanting my stuff “when you die” so essentially I tossed them all and yes I’m alone but I’m so much happier and less miserable every day.
I'm a bartender and we purchase our drinking water, but it's a free service for our guests, so we do prefer customers to actually purchase something, and not just get water or we would be losing money. We do offer non-alcoholic drinks though, also no-sugar ones.
@@SaitoKat92if you’re bar isn’t full, you are NOT losing money. This is a very tired narrative.
I worked in & ran multiple very popular, typically very busy bars & restaurants over the years, and VERY rarely did the water drinkers actually affect business.
Unless they’re taking up a spot in a packed establishment, you aren’t actually affected. Period. You’re just mad someone isn’t racking up a bill. They’re not taking anything away from you, they aren’t preventing anyone who wants to come in from doing so.
You’re choosing to be irritated by someone who isn’t doing anything to you. That’s a choice.
The people that actually, REGULARLY, screw industry workers over are the ones that take up whole tables, buy ONE cheap drink, & nurse it for HOURS & HOURS as they sit there talking, completely aware & unconcerned that the place is packed and there’s a line out the door.
THOSE people have the biggest impact on business & take home.
The water drinkers, by far, are more often than not older people who are just lonely and want to still have some sort of social interaction, even if it’s just sitting and watching others socialize. EVERYTHING is expensive now, and these folks on fixed incomes just want to feel like they’re still a part of things. I have never, and will never, fault people for wanting & needing that. We are isolating these people from being able to have basic social interactions, and we see the impact with the increasing number of elderly folks suffering from severe depression.
Start looking at them as people who probably really need that interaction, & how much it means to them for just a brief interaction with you, & stop looking at it as them taking something from you - especially when that’s just not the case the vast majority of the time.
Also, if you politely bring it to their attention if you ARE packed & need their spot, and let them know there’s people patiently waiting for that spot, 9/10 they’ll move - and they often just are unaware, they’re not trying to cause issues.
More than a few times, I’ve grabbed a chair or two from a back room & put it next to wherever I’m at, and let them sit there instead, so I can free up the needed space. It doesn’t hurt me to do this.
As I said in my other comment posted in the main thread, some of the funniest & sweetest customer interactions I’ve had over the years has been with these exact people.
Stop looking at these people & assuming they’re trying to pull one over on you. If you automatically assume someone is a problem, that’s all any of these individuals are ever going to be for you, even when they’re not.
As someone who has been a bartender & a server, never talk about customers with anyone other than your co workers. No matter what
Why though? Really, is it because itll get back to them?
@@Beepbopboop19 You want people to talk about you behind your back? Well that’s a YOU choice.
You don't need to talk about them period do your job get your check go home and stop talking about others..
As someone who's worked in retail and service for over a decade, I acknowledge that we do gossip about strange customers. But to put it online?? Especially when that person is a regular and likely to find out?? That's just taking things way too far. Plus, after seeing that, I'd be uncomfortable having her serve me, I'm sure a lot of other people feel the same, so she's screwing herself and the business she works for 🤦♀️
Yes! And as someone who worked in restaurants: If you go to a bar or restaurant & only order water & you stay for awhile, you should leave a tip. You're using the server's time & you're taking up a spot in their station that could be taken by a customer who will be ordering & leaving a tip. (And if you're getting a free glass of water, drink it & leave. Most places in the US will kick you out if you're not a paying customer, unless you're with someone else who is ordering.)
I’ve bartended for a number of years, it paid for my schooling. And in those last years I’d get tipped for my waters. It was because I’d always dress it up to look like a mixed drink, and they were thankful for it. Showing a bit of kindness goes a long ways for the most part.
That bartender was insane. She's disgusting. 😂
The bartender in my opinion she’s an asshole, and there’s been a lot of videos as of late that I’ve come out about her and what she’s really about and it’s not being a nice person 😂
Water should be tipped, though. Not exorbitant tips, but leave the bartender something, even if you aren't drinking alcohol. They are still on their feet for a long time & have to serve you & clean up after you. You don't even have to pay for the water, so it doesn't cost much to leave them a couple/few bucks before you leave. But THIS bartender is pretty whack. & the hair is straight outta '93 😅
@@lucycarlisle9120 Absolutely disagree. Why should you tip for something that’s free? And ESPECIALLY tip people who are judging you 24/7 apparently???
If you are there every day ordering a water, you should tip because they are providing a service and asking if you need anything else.
The little pesto bottle when she said "call me crazy" I can't 😂😂😂😂
I SAW
The editing is on point! 😂
Thank you for pointing it out! I cackled 😂
13:30 "...even if you've been friends with him for a long time..." Disagree. If I'm friends with someone and they start dating a person, and then that person doesn't want me to talk to them anymore, idgaf. You don't get to decide who I can be friends with, especially not someone I've known for years.
The girl in the video was definitely being weird, so I agree with you about that.
But nah bro. That ain't a one size fits all situation.
12:00 the grin on the “friend’s” face that pops out briefly at times is duper’s delight. Narcs use it when gaslighting and they think they’re winning.
Yeah, that girl gave me the ick… 😖
I agree!!! That's what killed me
I literally JUST came to make a comment about duper's delight!
It can be nervousness if you come from abuse, etc. Clearly not with the girl in the video.... but yeah
Yeah, she thinks she’s the shit but she ain’t even the fart.
Bartender story: bringing autism into it was ableist as hell and disgusting. Just because we are a different neurotype doesn't mean that we're weird or have a penchant for locking people up in our basements. her excuse for bringing it up was also really weak. Why would she think to bring it up "just in case" people would if she herself wasn't already thinking that it could be the underlying reason?
The responder and Charlotte were worse because they took it as an insult and never corrected it. The first girl may have just been referring to her blank facial expression in the phone picture. Most likely she was being insulting, though, some to think it over… considering her other behaviors.
@BeeWhistler nope. The bartender has a Bee in her bonnet over a customer only ordering water
She said that she’s NOT on the spectrum… sounds like she was trying to clear up that she wasn’t making fun of someone on the spectrum… that she just thought the person was weird… not clinically diagnosed with a condition…
@@Stylestudent, she just shouldn't have mentioned it, period.
@@maggieb4736 why?
Not to mention, likening someone on the spectrum with some serial killer is absolutely unacceptable. My husband is on the spectrum and one of the sweetest men out there. I have friends--male and female--on the spectrum and they do not deserve that sort of trashy sort of connection.
Yes! Pure ableism, and they all did it.
RIGHTTT!!!
a lot of people do that and equate being on the spectrum to violence. It makes me sick!
THIS!!!! When she followed up “serial killer” with “on the spectrum” I actually had to pause. I’m also autistic and literally feel bad if I even hurt a bug. Thinking anyone who is potentially dangerous is autistic is such a disgusting and false statement
I have quite a few friends with autism , and they seem to be more empathic than my neuro typical friends!
23:40 why would someone not being autistic be grounds to slander them online? Like what is she trying to say here lmao.
13:11 that store bought pesto jar peeping through the screen when you say "call me crazy" - GENIUS EDITING!
From a server's pov... if you are asking somebody to get you something- even if it is free- and you are taking up a table that a paying customer could be sitting in, you should leave SOMEthing for that server. They still got you what u asked for, missed out on a paying customer, and still have to clean up after you. Or maybe that's just what I would do. 🤷♀️
Exactly!
Not a server, but I 100% agree with you.
And clean the glass that your water was in!
Well said
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@@CharlotteDobrelol! Us Albertans are so rural we know how to make all kinds of animal noises 😂
PERIOD
@@CharlotteDobreBAHAHAHA
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That blonde girl doing the texting in the third video is so smug. She knows she got to the girlfriend and is doing it on purpose
She is smug because she is right. She can't control the BF so she tries to control the friend. Let them both go.
Were they friends? Or is she the boyfriend's longtime friend?
@@allisonisisif u think the blonde girl is right, ur weird.
@@allisonisis if shes actively flirting with her boyfriend of course she needs to be confronted about the issue.
It was all staged.
I worked in a pub for years and there would be the odd sober customer that would make our pub their regular. People go to pubs to offload all the time or meet up with their drinking buddies or whatever. I took that job very seriously esp my regulars they would feel very comfortable sitting at the bar chatting away knowing they could tell me anything and they wouldn’t be the talk of the town next day. And that’s why some pubs do a lot better than others it’s not because of the other customers it’s the staff.
Right? Imagine someone who doesn’t drink still might crave human interaction. What an idea…🤦🏼♀️
@@KDu400 what??
I'm glad to see a response to that bartender's tiktoks. She's always given me the ick. There was another story recently about her toxicity too, basically encouraging people to commit credit card fraud.
i work in a coffee shop, and sometimes we'll get people come in who maybe dont like coffee or tea, or maybe cant afford our prices (fair) and if they are with a friend, i'll always offer them some water, just so they dont feel left out and so they have a cup to drink from. just ordering water isn't a big deal.
i'd only say it's a big deal if you are a complete ass to the staff, or if it's super busy and you're maybe taking up a table that a paying customer could be using. but if it's quiet, you do you.
I also think it's different if someone is hanging out with their friends versus just coming by themself. But yes, when it wasn't busy I often appreciated having something to do
I had a roommate once that sat me down and asked me not to touch her boyfriend who was also a roommate because it made her uncomfortable. I had one time pulled a piece of food out of his hair that he was struggling to grab after I had pointed it out. She acknowledged that she realized it was her insecurities and it was something completely innocent but asked me to respect this boundary. So because I respect other people’s boundaries I never touched him again.
On one hand, that's nice of you, on the other hand, you are helping her keep unhinged Behavior. I would be very scared to date someone who told my friends and roommates that they couldn't.... touch me. That is severe personal issues of hers that she is throwing onto everyone else's plates and expecting them to uphold. I feel very sorry for your roommate, he is going to lose lots and lots of people and his life. It's not the they can't touch him thing, it's the dating a woman who would tell your friends and roommates that they can't touch you.
@@B.Harper7 she wasn’t toxic and is a really good person. She was going to therapy and acknowledged it was her issue. She needed to feel comfortable in our home and wasn’t like this with his female friends. They’re still together and very happy. I understand the concern but she worked on herself to get better and doesn’t have that insecurity anymore. If she wasn’t actively working on herself that would be a problem but she never isolated him.
As a former waitress... having someone take up your table and then not tip messes up your money. But she did not have to put it online. That's something for management to address
It also seems the responding girl who never gets alcohol does social media for the bar and the girl the video was about does buy drinks sometimes. Also, none of the other bartenders have issues with the girl the video is about but damn near everyone has a problem with the bartender making the video. This isn’t about taking up a table. Especially because bars usually have an empty seat or two even on busy days. There’s more seating
@@lizzyblitz07I’m more so concerned about how they haven’t seen the guys after she’s gone home with them? What’s the chances that each man doesn’t return 🧐
I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again……. If a company asks you to sign a non-disclosure agreement, it’s because they have something they don’t want disclosed. It’s a red flag, do not take the job.
Definitely not always true. Worked for a company where employees had to sign NDAs because we manufactured products for mega corps and Dept of Defense (various militaries around the world). They don’t want you sharing the ins and outs of those products with others. Most company’s who require NDAs do so to try and protect their proprietary products/processes.
It depends. I worked at an ice cream shop and they had company recipes they needed to protect, etc so all employees had to sign a form of NDA.
I worked at a dispensary that made even the lowest level employees sign NDAs. It was horrific.
thank you, captain obvious
As someone who has just realised in middle age that I am on the spectrum. I have always been awkward in social situations by not talking or over sharing and then beating myself up for it. The bartender has just confirmed why I beat myself up and that people do notice my behaviour. Good thing the diagnosis has given me freedom to be me and not care anymore 😊
Good, because it was so disgusting that they kept using it as an insult. Even Charlotte being offended by it made me angry. People need to knock that off.
😊 Good for you! And I'll bet you're totally awesome!
Same, I'm 57 and spent most of my life not getting why I didn't get people and had some interesting times growing up, I finally figured it out in my 40's. It's still weird sometimes but so much better now I can just be me 💜
@@bunyipdragon9499 the funniest thing is I’ve worked in disability for 20 years and I was always told I was a natural with understanding and communicating using body language. It never occurred to me it was because I was neurodivergent 🤣
@@maggieb4736 thank you. I think I’m quirky in a funny way 😆
The gaslighting girl .. omg.. her face just says it all. That little smirk she has 😡😡😡😡
found the girl who wont leave your bf alone after you ask her to stop^@Burger_pants
It's still a weird way to see her mimic throughout the whole conversation.
Yeah she knows what she’s doing. I’d end the friendship all together.
@Burger_pants listen, as Charlotte has pointed out in numerous videos, *we know* when something shady been goin' down. The BF likely isn't entirely innocent, but the girl on the floor is *definitely* gaslighting.
@Burger_pants If she's not doing anything wrong ,why not let her friend check the phone?? She talks to him BEHIND her back. That is where the problem lies.
I’m literally remaking my house, full in paint and dust and just realised I have spent 15hrs just listening/wathing your content!!! You’re turning me into an addicted!!! 😂😂😂
Love to see how much you have grown, specially with the fact that I follow you since you had around 80k or 100k!!!
Go girl!!!!
I can think of far worse addictions lol wtg on the house