Love how the bride with the neon dress was completely fine making jabs and comments about the brides mades body but when she hit her back once she completely freaks out
Yeah honestly if the bride had been nice to her I think I’d be on her side. After all it’s her wedding it’s her dress choice. But between treating her maid of honor that way and also making her pay for the dress she clearly hates…
Bet you bride said "its gonna be a green dress" and you could think normal green wedding colors like jade or forest or kelly green even but bright florescent lime green wouldn't be my first assumption. Also, i think she didnt even see the style dress either. I think the bride just ordered it for her and told her how much it was. If i saw what i was getting before i ordered, i would be calling the bride before placing my order.
The whole "you don't go to the bride with problems" is so stupid! Who the heck else would you go to?! It's her wedding! That dress is cute for a night out but it's not worth anywhere CLOSE to $350 and it certainly isn't a suitable bridesmaid dress, especially for a maid of honor!! And I'm sorry but there is absolutely no way that any of my friends would speak to me that way because let me tell you, they would NOT be my friend anymore after telling me to "suck in my hips", how does one even do that?! Definite bridezilla and an insanely crappy friend!
Not to mention wearing that dress in a cathedral! A full blown cathedral it just screams like all the bad things and gives off bad message about the maid of honor. Like people would talk
I think that goes for brides, who are wealthy and bridesmaids and maid of honors who are very wealthy so everybody has all the money to do all the things so they shouldn't bring the stress to the bride..
The girl that commented “agreeing” with the bride about the cost of the dress wasn’t agreeing with her. She was saying that her whole bridal outfit didn’t even cost as much as that tacky as dress and that $350 IS a lot of money
I had an emergency c-section the day before my good friend was getting married. I called to let her know that I was sorry that I wasn't going to be at her wedding (I wasn't in the wedding, just a guest). Not only did she understand, she and her fiance came to the hospital to visit me, with gifts for the baby, before their rehearsal dinner. This is how a true friend behaves. Brides, let's have some love and grace and understand that life happens. Not everything is about you!
It was a guests bday on my wedding day....we sang her a happy birthday and gave her a freaking big bouquet for spending her special day at our special day. Why not share the joy 😮
WOOOAHH… that first bride, is putting her in a dress that is that different from everyone else? She’s doing it on purpose to embarrass her. End of story. That green dress looks like something you would wear to spring break, or Vegas. I would tell her to go to he!!
To me I think they're both acting, if it was real, why would you record it, why would you be so happy, why would you post a fight with your theoretical best friend on the internet for everyone to see. Either that or their both just super immature. But I agree, the dress definitely doesn't look wedding appropriate and would probably stick out a lot
The neon clubbing dress is totally not what needs to be in a church wedding. The bride is not only being a bridezilla but a horrible friend. Proud of the MoH for waking out.
I agree, Proud of MOH for both: Waking up & Walking the f out🤬 No way in hell I would tolerate any "friend" talking to me like that! I don't care who's wedding. Girl you did the right thing.
I thought it was real during the 1st conversation, but the 2nd one made me feel 95% sure it was staged, simply because the bride sounded like she was reading lines off a page and the MOH kept talking to US instead of her, which you’d think would have tipped her off that this was being recorded (which would have infuriated her). My verdict? Not real. I could be wrong, but part 2 just didn’t feel authentic.
That's your opinion. Brides are entitled to theirs as long as they're not telling people to change things that aren't easily changeable like hair or weight
@@Katfall2012 yes but , if the MH does not feel comfortable, just morally, doesn’t give the bride permission to dress them up like it’s Ladies Night. Yeah, so, no.
I feel like the bride wants to make her look bad on purpose. I mean you have to hate somebody to make them - as the only one - wear a short neon green dress in a church wedding.
the woman with the wedding band that bailed specifically mentioned that they hadn’t given her any place to send the deposit to, so even if she had remembered, she wouldn’t know where to send it.
I’m not a bride, but my firm opinion is this: You are allowed to be stressed, cry, vent, get overwhelmed, etc. You are NOT allowed to treat the people around you as lesser than you. Basic human decency is part of the criteria of being a bride
And sure, you can pick the bridesmaid dresses or colors but you cannot make them wear something they feel uncomfortable in. The girl in green brought up the fact that it was in a church and the dress barely covered her butt, meaning she’d be uncomfortable. One of my bridesmaids had a very large chest so the other ones had her choose what would make her feel most comfortable and went with that as their choice.
@@professionalinsomniac8338 Only if no one calls them out. If you let people get away with bad behavior, they'll give you more bad behavior. Someone really needed to sit down with that bride and find out what was really going on, or if she was determined to be a witch.
@@goldengryphon I mean, someone can be self-aware they’re awful and not care. But what those brides need to realize is their attitude is eventually gonna result in them being alone after they drive everyone away :/
The neongreen dress: she's not complaining. She's trying to not let the bride make a huge mistake. But actually i think the bride doesn't want her in the wedding or wants her to be laughed at and brought that disaster of a dress on purpose.
That's exactly what I was thinking. A real friend would listen to feedback and watch out for the comfort of her friend, not try to bully her into something that makes her feel uncomfortable. And NO CHURCH would let her be in that dress without any kind of covering.
That's what I don't get. Skit or not, this whole thinking is very contradictory? People who are upset at a dress are gonna point and laugh at the one wearing it. The one who's gonna wear should have some amount of say, because you can't really make the bride be the one choosing and then the responsibility of bearing the consequences is all on the other person... If the other person is gonna be associated with that. then it's not just about the bride anymore, it's a weird imbalance there.
Yeah, and not only that but she’s the only one that’s wearing the dress? Either she’s being Pranked, which genuinely feels like that because the bride is acting exactly how popular girls do in school when they’re trying to get someone to go along to get humiliated, or she will just be cropped out of the photos later on because she’s quite literally probably the only one wearing such an ugly bright green dress. (in all honesty can barely be addressed. It’s definitely more like a shirt…)
For my childhood best friend's bach, we rented an airbnb on the Oregon coast and stayed in all weekend; played games, threw 2 different party themes (one for each night) since she had her childhood best friend (me) and her best friend she met through her hubby, couldn't agree on a theme lol. Bride's fav shows are Friends, and Sweet magnolias. So we did a Friends party, and then a tea party the next day. We hot tubbed, walked the beach, and just hung out really. Bride to be is an anxious homebody and was close to not having a bach at all. But all of us love & knew her enough to support her in giving her a bachelorette in a way that suited her best! Some people find what we did boring, but it was everything she wanted! Bach parties can be anything you want them to be- there are NO RULES!
The bride is beyond crazy. The dress would be too expensive at Kmart for $12.99. I would return the dress and get my money back, block the bridzilla and never discuss her or her wedding again. There is a saying, " WITH FRIENDS LIKE THAT, WHO NEEDS ENEMIES."
I think the toenail bride was actually even sort of cute with her “you had all your toenails in your wedding” tantrum. It wasn’t mean. It was pure drunk self-pitty mixed with despair and a pinch of sarcasm.
Especially since she once was sober totaly aknowledged it was a silly tanteum and reconned talking to her as if she where a child.... Like there was zero defensivness or meanness in that
@@harveybrown303 yesss lol her personality seems fun cuz even though the she wasn’t having a good time in that moment, she was still providing comedic relief lmao
I hope to God that it's fake because (not to be meeeaan lol) no sane grown woman would look at that highlighter, glow in the dark, nickelodeon slime tube dress and say "Yes. This is the moh dress of my dreams"😂. But if it was real tho I wouldn't be shocked if the bride picked that ugly ass dress and chose to be so rude to op was her way of making a way to kick her out of the wedding.
In story 3 I think nobody listened close enough because in the video she also says that she didn’t know were to send the money. So if she would have known I think she wouldn’t have forgotten to pay them. I mean if she would have known she wouldn’t even have texted the band
I know right, i was like she didnt 'forget' to pay them, she literally couldnt. If she had been given an account to send the money or whatever she probably would have out it in her diary or however she was tracking her wedding dates and payments, etc. she could have even set up an auto-payment with her back for that day, or a reminder for the day before, but she literally didnt get told so she wasnt at all a bridezilla.
I honestly didn’t hear a thing girl number three said! I was just completely fixated on the spaghetti strap tank she was wearing and the fact that her tits are in your face for her entire video. lol. Ucky!
"You chose to be my maid of honor so stop complaining." That's not how it works. That first bride needs a serious reality check if she didn't already get one.
We lost our youngest child a week before a Good friend’s wedding. We had a bakery and were doing the cake as well as my husband was standing up in the wedding. They asked us if we needed them to postpone the wedding to make life easier for us. We did not because at the time doing it was better than not but the fact they were willing to change everything to be there for us was everything.
That is very sad, but I’m glad you have such considerate friends by your side who are understanding. I hope they can continue to help you through your grief.
Green and neon green are VERY different colors. Wearing that in a cathedral will make her stand out and look like she's stumbling in still drunk after a night of partying. I know from experience, drunk or not, having a toenail ripped off is painful af. I have a really high tolerance for pain and it still made me cry. LOL I love how those people thought that since they didn't know the bride she was automatically trespassing on property that didn't belong to them. They probably don't even know the owner.
“Is coming to the bride with problems be respectful?” Yes it is! The maid of honour was being very polite bringing up her concerns. She didn’t insult anyone. The bride had no right to speak to her like that, she’s the one who escalated it!
All she did was ask if that was the right color at first. Given that lots of items are bought that don’t look anything like on screen that’s a fair question. Bringing up that it’s a booty dress in a cathedral (big no no) is also a valid point. Either this is a setup for rage bait (there’s no way that dress closet $350, right?) or that bride hates her.
There’s just no effing way that was a real story. The “bride” was rude *AF* and somehow conveniently never made it into frame. It was so insanely over the top that they were either doing satire or actually aiming for virality. Nobody but 𝘮𝘢𝘺𝘣𝘦 Pamela Anderson marrying Kid Rock would choose that Miami Beach club dress in tennis ball 🎾 green that came straight from Temu or Wish their maid of *honor.* That was so ridiculously one-sided. Ain’t no way. Perhaps @the Jersey Shore…🤔
We donated our honeymoon money to my fiancé's family friend that needed specialised treatment for his cancer. We got married 6 days ago without a honeymoon. But we've got something so much better, the health of a friend. Maybe some brides should try to remember that yes that 1 day might be your special day. But don't you maybe want to still have friends after that 1 day
First story: "don't bring problems to the bride" just translates to "I know it's bad but I don't want to hear it". Why? Because real friends don't let friends make fools of themselves. If you spot an issue and there's plenty of time to fix it before the wedding, you tell the bride (& if it's on the wedding day, you just fix it and tell her later). The normal rules of friendship don't change because there's a wedding.
First story was so fake! I can't believe anyone would believe it, the entire conversation sounded so rehearsed and no bride is picking that dress for her moh. I'm actually shocked Charlotte even put it in the video.
@tuttyfat Whether that particular story was fake or not doesn't really matter, as there are plenty of similar ones out there that are real. There really are people out there who purposefully get awful bridesmaid dresses because they don't want to be "upstaged" by the people who are supposed to be their closest friends and want what's best for them. The term bridezilla is out there for a reason, because far too many people ruin their relationships with friends and family (& sometime even their spouse) over a wedding - it's insane.
With the toenail bride, it seems like just normal banter between close friends when something goes wrong, also she's drunk and in pain. The bride's reaction was more comical and sarcastic than intentionally being nasty.
Seeing that first dress makes me appreciate my sister-in-law. She had us bridesmaids buy $80 plum purple dresses that were so simple but elegant, I've worn it multiple times since then. She also had us wear sandals that we got at Payless for $15 and then told us that if we wanted to switch them for something more comfortable after the ceremony we could wear whatever we wanted once the pictures were done. It was the best wedding ever. She was relaxed and we all had a great time before and during the wedding.
I was a bridesmaid for my sister, who is 8 years older than me, when I was 13. The other two bridesmaids were our cousins and around my sister’s age. It was soooooo drama free. My mom made very simple evening length A-line dresses in hunter green with light forest green accents. Each of my cousins gave her like $50 to help with materials and labor. After the wedding I think she even hemmed one dress to cocktail length because my cousin wanted to use it for a different event later. It was so simple and chill. Also all three of us had widely differing body types. 4’7” and hour glass, 5’6” and willowy and not super busty, and me at 4’10”and already a C cup.
for the first story: im 90% sure that the bride wants to paint the MOH as the villain and be like “SHE WORE THIS TO MY WEDDING!! HOW DISRESPECTFUL! SHE LOOKS LIKE A STRIPPER!!”
She didnt send the deposit late, she literally couldnt send it to them because they didnt tell her where to send it. They didnt give an account number or even an address to post a cheque. They just ghosted her.
The last bride: No NOTES. That response was perfection. She was very very polite to them but did not let them bully her. Did not give them her name. I loved the you have a pet peeve and you needed to stand your ground part. ❤ Perfection.
It was also definitely brighter than their futures in the ACTING PROFESSION, because THAT'S WHAT THEY'RE BOTH DOING.... OR should I say TRYING to do? Yes, because they are TRYING, but they're NOT succeeding! They're really, really bad, though, because they're not succeeding at convincing me that it's real.
OMG!!!! My friend was getting married 2 weeks after my partner was told he had terminal cancer. I felt so bad but i knew we had to pull out of the wedding. My friend was so worried about us and said it wasn't a problem and if we felt up to it we could still come. THATS how friends should behave!
Exactly! Only someone who's a heartless narcissist would react any other way then with true concern and worry for their friends in that situation.. Hopefully your partner is still here, and is either still in treatment or in remission.. cancer sucks so badly ❤
A few years ago I had a friend dealing with cancer also. She told the bride pretty much the same thing; giving her the option of replacing her as MOA. The bride said that they would even wait until 1/2 an hour before the ceremony to see how MOA felt. If she felt sick another girl would be ready to jump into the job. If she felt well enough they would all dance down the aisle to celebrate. Unfortunately she was sick but all throughout the day people were recording get well wishes; she was even mentioned in the speeches. It just goes to show class will always show!
That is beautiful. I hope she is doing well. I am sure she felt loved. (What is 'MOA'? I got as far as maid/matron/mother/man? and "of", but that 'A' has me stumped, with only naughty words coming to mind...).
This! You either love and care about the people around you, or you consider them accessories in your world, to do as you want, when you want. Bridezillas fall into that latter category. The wedding party that your friend was due to be in are in the former category. They sound like the kind of people who deserve a beautiful day and a happy future. I hope that your friend has had a full recovery and is now healthy and happy 🍀💕
That bride that cut her cancer stricken friend out of all those photos, should be praying that this friend isn’t cut out of everyone’s lives permanently. This one really struck a nerve with me. If I were the groom, I’d be thinking very hard about going through with the wedding. That girl has ice water in her veins.
Can you imagine telling your family and fiance the reason you suddenly started cropping your friend out of all of your photos is because they gracefully stepped down from your wedding party due to CANCER? In what way could anyone EVER spin that in a way that makes them look good? I'd genuinely question if she was human, let alone marriage material.
Story with the wedding band, she says that she forgot to send it because they never sent her information to send the deposit in the first place. This band had absolutely no intention of actually playing
On the wedding band one the email from the manager said they were currently in Australia and wouldn't be back for her wedding in september to do it. So that means they had planned the trip (gotten the visa's to spend more than 3 months because that's a requirement if you want to stay there more than 3 months and those visas take at least a couple of weeks at least to get. I know because I lived in Australia as an American for years.) and were already out of the USA. They were never gonna do her wedding and were already out of the country regardless of if she'd gotten her depost in on June 1. This woman isn't a bridezilla at all.
That last bride's response was perfection. She didn't let that bully her, called their bluffs when they threatened her, and sent them off with their tails between their legs. All while maintaining that sweet southern accent. And shamed them for their behavior as they walked off. Amazing.
Some people just have to stick their nose into other people's buisness) Unless you shoo them away like the pigeons they are they wont leave, no use talking to them politely) I had a run in with two grandmas. They were upsed cause...me and my BF were lund in MacDonald's) while odering food at the selfserving kiosk) they literally tried to act like they had the right to teach me manners) and got oh so upset when we both kussed at them) ran away in shame screeching about rude young people. Some humans just have the AUDASITY!
@@Deliar12 Those are the ones you have to give long, confused looks at without responding. I would have told them my grandmother taught me proper manners, and would be upset if you tried to mess them up.
Hillbillies and southerners have a way of making "bless your heart' and "I'll pray for you" sound like the vilest slur anyone has ever uttered without changing tone from sweet and perky.
If my “friend” spoke to me like that, I’d probably drop out of the wedding. Being a bride isn’t a free pass to be a c*nt to everyone. When I was getting married I was so gracious and constantly thanked my friends for taking the time and energy to help me.
It went over a lot of heads in the wedding band story that yes she did forget but they also NEVER gave her the information of where she should send the deposit to…
My dad’s second wife had an amaaaazing bachelorette party the only tears shed were when she broke down crying and said she was so happy to have gotten to get to know me. I love her and she and my dad are so good for each other 8:17
My bachelorette party was super chill. We had sushi, and cupcakes, and played Cards Against Humanity. No fights, injuries, no drama. Was great. 10/10 would recommend.
Mine was nice too! My maid of honour knew that I hate big events and I didn't want everybody to spend a lot of money on me so we just had a really nice day :)
Literally did the exact same thing, except my friends sent me to a massage at a spa first, during which time they went to my apartment and set up. They met me after the massage, we went to a sushi buffet, then to the apartment. Then after Cards Against Humanity, we all went for a long walk before going to our favorite irish pub to meet up with my husband and his bachelor party. It was great! Sushi is my all time favorite food, and CAH really set the silly party-mood for the rest of the evening.
Mine was great! We went to my favorite restaurant, then went bowling and ax throwing. Then the next day, I had my makeup trial, and we got pizza and beer, then did an escape room in the city, then found a couple karaoke bars, and had a great time. Next morning, we had an amazing brunch.
My husband's bachelor party, however, did get slightly messy, but his groomsmen took care of everything and kept it from getting completely out of control.
When we got married almost 13 years ago I searched for dresses that were affordable and appropriate for a late summer early fall wedding ($45+tx), maid of honour bought hers and the bridesmaid refused two days before the wedding and showed up in a black skirt and floral shirt with combat boots, the junior bridesmaids and flower girls mom refused to pay the $15.00 combined for the two dresses the day before. I chose to just let it go. Then we had decided to do a potluck for the wedding reception I sent out a list and asked that people message me with what they were going to bring which they did, we had 100 confirmed guests and with the wedding party we ended up with only 36 showing up. I am a pessimist so I figured something was going to go wrong and went out two days before the wedding and bought a whole lot of stuff to make dishes that would stretch for the expected guests along with tea,coffee,juice and pop (glad I did cause only three people brought a dish). I also had to make my cake cause four days before the person who was supposed to make it backed out. Then my mil had the nerve to ask hubby and I if she could borrow $250 to get home from where we were and where she lived at our wedding reception she knew that my mom and grandma were both not able to be at our wedding due to health so they gave us our wedding present $1200 the day before as long as we agreed to come by the day of the wedding to get pictures with them which we did but had to go to the hospital to get them as they both were admitted my grandma was ill and my mom couldn’t manage at home on her own so they admitted her to and she died there a week later exactly 7 days to the hour of our wedding. Through all this and moving in the process I never freaked out until about two days later after my mom passed away when I just broke and cried for two days. My mil to this day has only paid back $150 of the money borrowed and since 2019 has done everything possible to break us up I don’t go to any family functions anymore hubby goes by himself, I spend the special occasions by myself because I don’t think it’s fair to others to have to endure the tension and hostility that she has towards me especially on occasions that are meant for family. Just some info hubby is the only person I have in this world now everyone else has passed away.
The last one was being actually nice. She didn't allow herself to be pushed around. She never let the rude people make her be rude. Also, the southern phrase you are looking for to end it is "Bless your heart."
Yeah a "Oh bless your heart you think you're in charge." Followed with a sweet condescending smile. That would be a super passive aggressive southern moment.
I kinda wanna see the bridesmaid dresses to see if she's setting up her friend to be sabotaged on her wedding day by making her wear a VASTLY DIFFERENT dress from the others.
Honestly I believe that because some brides have done that before because they secretly feel the maid of honor or other bridesmaids are prettier than her.
See, that's exactly what I was thinking - why did the bride want her MOH in a vastly different, inappropriate dress?? It can't have been for any good reasons
My only thought from the bride's side is maybe she's trying to get her together with someone in the party by "looking better than the bride on her wedding night"
WTF that poor lady with cáncer. I had a stroke in 2021. One of my best friends got married in 2023 when I still had to use a walker. I was living abroad and gwtting to her wedding was a nightmare (travel wise - 1 flight, 2 trains). I called her crying and told her i was so sorry but i couldnt come cause I felt so overwhelmed (plus I would have travelled all by myself). She was so understanding and told me not to sorry she would miss me but i shouldnt worry. She then told me a couple of days later that she could arrange someone to come Pick me Up at the airport and drive me to the venue (a friend of hers Who was also invited) which was 3h away. I was so happy and even got to sleep at her parents House (where the wedding was) so that I wouldnt have to go to a hotel and had a safe space for a breather in case I felt overwhelmed. It was the most beautiful wedding and I am still super grateful that my friend cares so much ❤️
I literally ran and hid in a corner when the bridesmaid said, “at least I’m going to fit in my dress”. I didn’t even realize they were in the same room until that moment. That dress would have made grandma cry, I’m glad she got out of the wedding and that friendship, dude.
I didn’t realize the bride was there, either, just that she could see the MOH. And how many fittings does a bride have? The MOH should have used it as the top it was and put a skirt on with it!
Honestly I was team "just suck it up and wear the dress" until I heard how the bride talked to the poor woman. Girl, that's supposed to be your FRIEND.
I think that final statement is everything I think the bride was going to lie about why she was wearing that specific dress and she would not find out about the lie until she was shunned for it well after the wedding well after all the photos well after all of the humiliation. That's not a dress. It's a slip for a sexy grinch costume.
@@HappilyTearfulshe mentioned that the others were wearing a diffuser dress- I want to see what the others look like. Now I see why she filmed the interactions, too. Unless the bride really had such poor taste (in a cathedral?!) I do wonder if she was trying to set the moh up for ridicule.
That cancer one got me.... one of my bridesmaids 3 year old son got cancer the summer before my fall wedding. I actually went to her and gave her the option of stepping down, and she was grateful bc she didn't want to upset me, but her one and only son had just spent his 4th birthday in the hospital on chemo... I completely understood. I wouldn't expect anything else. That bride makes me sick
Agree. Are you able to tell us any updates on your friend's son? I'm suddenly invested in this total stranger and her family's well-being. Thank goodness she had a friend like you!
@@NatalyaCherry yes! That was a year ago and he's been thru vigorous testing and treatment! He has children's lymphoma. But he's home! And doing well! He's done with chemo and his hair is growing back! He'll be 5 in Sept and I'm so proud of him and his momma ❤ still some of my besties 🥰
The neon green dress story - when she asked why her dress was different to the other bridesmaids’ dresses I thought the bride was going to reveal it was all a prank.
Okay, on the wedding band story: Everyone seems to have missed the fact that the band never sent the invoice for her to pay them in the first place. So she then had to e-mail them so she knew where to send the payment once she realized that she was late and didn't even know where to send it. So, they ghosted her fully. If they were remotely serious, they would've sent far more correspondence beforehand to her so she didn't miss those payments. They would've made damn sure she had an invoice so she knew where to send the money. They didn't. That was all on the band, not the bride.
It seems a little odd that a woman who wanted everything in place-and my presumption is that she was familiar with contracts, etc., as she seemed to be-didn’t get back to them (however she found them) if the contract hadn’t arrived within a week.
People seem to be missing this fact. Bride has a lot on her mind, she's not gonna be reaching out to every vendor so they can send her an invoice, THAT is the responsibility of the vendor.
@@Beanz-on-Toast yes, but this was early-on in booking vendors, and she struck me as someone who double-checks from what she said about being a host. And others of us do it; for my first wedding, I was essentially alone (family and friends on the other coast).
Story 1: This is a classic example of a bride being jealous of the maid of honour and wanting to embarrass the MOH on the day. Her dress was different from the other bridesmaids, and it was basically a cocktail dress. The bride rather 1) wanted her to step down or 2) embarrass her in front of the whole church In regards to Bachelorettes: I just had mine and no one got hurt and there was no crying! It was super chill.
Omg thank you for saying that so I won't have type all it Lol ! Yep when she said it was a Different dress and with Moh it Usually is but not to this consistency it reeks Jealousy Lol😂
Almost 10 years ago one of my best friends in the world was getting married. The night before the wedding I had to go to the hospital, my appendix ruptured. I sent her a text from the hospital, pictures of me in the hospital bed and gown included, to explain that I wouldn’t be able to make it. That was the last time she ever spoke to me. I almost died and she cut me out of her life for it. She married into a religious cult though and has like 6 kids now. That’s not relevant but it does make me feel better
I got married in 1992. I would have NEVER expected my bridesmaids and maid of honor to do what these monsters do! We didn't have a Bachelorette Weekend - who had that kind of money? We had a girls' day together. We started at the bridal shop, which we booked, and they closed just for us for my girls to try on dresses. We even had a catered brunch there, so we all ate. Any dress they wanted in any color - I wanted them to be comfortable. My girls were sizes 00 through 20. They all chose the same dress and picked my favorite color (purple). Everyone looked stunning in this dress. I had TEN bridesmaids, and they all agreed on the same dress, complimenting each other. Then we booked out a salon for mani/pedis for all of us, including my mom and both of our godmothers (my husband's mom had already passed). Then we all went for an amazing dinner (no one was wasted!). My Daddy paid for our day - it was planned in our wedding expenses. Everyone is still friends to this day! This wedding drama and bride entitlement is ridiculous!
My bachelorette in 1988 was 3 hours, one evening, in a friend's home, potluck, mainly coworkers as my 2 bridesmaids were from out of town, and thankfully... no shenanigans.
My Bachelorette party was a nice dinner at a SF restaurant with my two attendants and then a club. No sash, boa, tiara, or x-rated ring pop. Also my wedding dress cost $800 back in 1993.
That day-glo green dress was NOT a dress for a church wedding! More like a disco or Vegas wedding! And yeah, if the bride spoke to me that way, I’d be exiting…
No reason to stay in that dress, that wedding, or that friendship. "You chose to be..." No hun. I wanted to support a friend. I guess we both lost out.
@@Nico6th Depends on the church, I guess. I haven't heard of any churches that turn people away because of what they're wearing, but they might exist. All of the ones I have experience with use social pressure to make sure people wear "appropriate" clothing like head coverings, long skirts, shoes, etc.
I grew up Catholic, and this will be in the ire of the priest and anyone in that ceremony especially if you are standing in front of everyone in a NEON GREEN SHORT DRESS. if it was my country, you will be refused entry for wearing that
Story 1 (highlighter green dress): That dress looks like something the bride picked out to humiliate her maid-of-honour. Story 3 (wedding band): She did point out that they never told her HOW to pay the deposit. I suppose she could have made an assumption and just done an etransfer via whatever method she was communicating with the manager - but that might have gone wrong too. Last story: All that was missing was her telling them "bless your heart".
I think the MOH was aware the bride wanted to act surprised and blame her on her wedding and exactly why she recorded the whole conversation because even if she made it as MOH and she becomes the villain, she has proof
As a wedding vendor (DJ & Coordination) when someone signs a contract, we email the invoice with multiple options on how to pay the deposit. We also sent automatic reminders and follow up... we don't just get a contract and ghost.
Same, I used to work for a wedding venue and they sent invoices payment 2 weeks in advance with 2 extra reminders. And we will call/email the day before the payment is due because thing can be crazy for them. That band was incredible unprofessional and they had not intent of ever performing that their wedding anyway. That bride had ever right to be pissed because she got screwed over.
I LOVED that last girl, she was so articulate and had a perfect balance of sweet as sugar tone and words of malace. I loved that "youre coming across as a very ugly person." Loved her and how she handled that.
That’s what I did. I gave them a color and had them match the dress they chose to the color. There was a place they could have it dyed at that had the color I wanted. It was 💜but darker.
My friend really wanted us all in strapless mid-thigh to knee dresses. But here's the thing, the maid of honor and the other bridesmaid were skinny with nice body shapes, and I at the time was at my heaviest of 337. I was prepared to wear an uncomfortable dress that would look terrible on me. But we went shopping together for my dress. I try on one strapless dress that goes down right above my knee and she's like..... Yeah, okay, let's find something that's a better shape for you. Neither one of us would have been happy if I had worn that original style. Letting people do same color, different silhouette just looks better for everything.
I had a Traffic accident call a few years ago, where a couple of the bridesmaids and Maid of Honor were heading to the Rehearsal dinner, Maid of Honor called the Bride (her best friend) and explained that they would be late because of the accident (other driver ran a stop sign and hit them) the Bride went ballistic on her friend. I overheard most of the conversation and offered to give them all a ride (3 ladies) after they got checked by EMS , which allowed me to wrap up what I was doing with the accident, long story short the Maid of Honor and two bridesmaids got a police escort to the rehearsal dinner
For the band one: it’s important to remember she signed the contract and then waited for the invoice to tell her how to pay the deposit and they never sent it so it slipped her mind and then SHE had to reach out….she had no responsibility in this at all 😂
Glad someone caught this too, I was gonna mention this. She didn’t even know where to send the money at all, so there was no way for her to send it early, on time or late.
She does have a little bit of responsibility for it. If the electric company never sends you a bill, you still get your electricity turned off, if you don’t pay on time. Believe me, I’ve seen it happen. Not to mention that she could tell from the start that these kids weren’t reliable, yet she waited until the very last second to remind them. She knew they were unreliable and decided to rely on them anyway. Make stupid decisions, and you’re going to deal with stupid results. So yes, the band/manager is mostly responsible, but it is partly on her.
@ILoveYou-rv3pd. Bad example - because it it's possible to send payment to the electric company with your account number/address. Where was she going to send payment if they never provided an address or contact information? Just Zelle or Venmo a payment to the manager’s email address and hope for the best?
@@cobrakai3732 They provided an email for the manager and phone number for at least one actual band member. She didn’t even try to contact them until the day before her wedding, even though she was several months past the due date for the deposit. She expected them to act like an established corporation, waiting for an invoice, when she knew it was just a few kids. Sure, it’s mostly their fault. They signed a contract with her and then backed out without really saying anything to her. She also didn’t pay the deposit, though, which would have probably voided the contract anyway. Yeah, she didn’t know where to send the money, but she also didn’t even attempt to contact them for where she should send it until months after it was due. She made a dumb decision, which honestly is more on her than I initially thought, since I realized that it had been like six months since the deposit was due without her even trying to make contact. Those kids probably forgot she even existed, which it kind of sounds like she forgot they did until the last second.
The woman with the band said in the video that they never sent her the information for her to send the deposit so she had to reach out to them. It also says that they thought they could get back but now can't. So that means they already had the trip to Australia planned so they would not have came even if she paid the deposit. Then she would have had no band and been fighting to get her money back.
Thank you! I was thinking the same thing. You can't send a deposit if they don't tell you where to send it. And why would there not be some sort of invoice with, you know, payment instructions? 😅
At the 8:00 mark... I got married in 1990. My "bachelorette party" was one of my bridesmaids picking me up, taking me to her apartment, and getting me stoned with one of our friends who declined being a bridesmaid (she didn't want to have attention to herself, but she was thrilled to be invited - I miss her so much
The bride doing the video for her husband was just an incredible class act of a person. Handled that situation with so much grace when those people were being so nosey and rude. I love how she backed up the person she had doing the shoot for her too.
I came to find this comment! That's the same word that came to my mind, "grace". She was so classy and kind, yet stern. She didn't swear nor talk down on them. Simply explained what was needed. Definitely humbled me and makes me want to relearn how I speak to others in situations like this.
When your MOH is fighting for her life, losing all her hair and sick af, and you delete her existence from your life, you were NEVER her friend. And you will regret how you treat people someday. It all comes back around.
The last bride was an absolute sweetheart and told the couple where to go with a gallon of sugar. I loved her so much. You are right Charlotte. That was definitely a really good southern "get stuffed". 🤣🤣🤣🤣
"you`re coming off as a very ugly person. So thank you and have good wa-alk, goodby-ye.." This girl is KILLING it - speaking up with the sweetest smile ahaha - this is how you do it ladies 😀
I was in a friend's wedding a couple years ago and she had the chillest bachelorette party ever. All the bridesmaids and a few other friends all got together and had a movie marathon night with a potluck and themed drinks to go with each movie. Super laid back and genuinely nice
I was thinking the same, there's no law that says bachelorettes have to be a certain way lol. For my friend we did a sort of "trip down memory lane" powerpoint presentation, and after that we did a painting workshop and went out for dinner. It was really chill and nice and she was super happy for it.
wedding customs in the USA are always so wild to me like... when you invite someone to your wedding here and have your marriage witness (I think that's the word) all that is required that everyone is wearing something nice/evening wear and no one is wearing white except for the bride. that's it. I often see these posts about US weddings that the bride chooses dresses of her bridesmaids (I guess that's what the word is) and I'm like ???? this is so weird to me 😂 (tbh idk what bridesmaids are)
Bridamaids are the bride's friends/family (usually females) that walk out with groomsman before the bride walls out. It typically goes bridsmaids/groomsman, Maid of Honor and Best man, mother and father of the bride, mother and father of the groom, flower girl and ring bearer, then the bride. The groom would already be standing by the alter. That's how I understand it, I had a courthouse wedding, witch is basically what you are describing except the judge is the witness and the officiant.
as someone who almost completely ripped off their toenail before, it's not the pain thats's bad, it's the healing progress that's horrible. putting on socks and shoes- accidentally nudging the nail- ugh, never again, pls.
idk I suppose everyone is different, but when mine came off it felt like the end of my toe had come off completely. It hurts horribly. There were tears for a few minutes until i got it under control.
Relatable, due to dance camp I’ve lost a few toe nails myself and the healing process is the WORST, it takes so long! I was told to yank it off but I was not interested in bare nail bed + various dance shoes so I left it on until the new nail was at least half grown in and I feel like that was the right move for me
I had almost all of my toenails surgically removed when I was 15 cause I had ingrown nails real bad. And yea the healing is beyond horrible. I was in agony for over a week and the doctor only gave me 3 prescription pain killers. My mom called pleading more cause I was hurting so bad and they refused.
Oh my god I’ve unfortunately had my thumbnail on my right hand slammed in a balcony door and that fell off and my big toenail on my left foot had something huge and heavy fall on it and that fell off both times the pain in the moment was terrible but I agree that the healing process often left an even worse sort of unique kind of pain that often would literally make me feel momentarily like I might even throw up😭
The first girl was so respectful when talking to her "friend" about hypothetical problems and her "friend" was SO RUDE and MEAN. I mean, if my best friend ordered a dress like that for me as a maid if honour I would assume there was some shipping problem/scam and would absolutely tell her!
The cancer one is absolutely bonkers 😮💨😮💨 my husband and I just got married this year and one of my husband’s friends has cancer. He stepped down from being a groomsman for the same reason as the girl in the video and my husband was more than happy to oblige bc he cares more for his friend and his health than he does making sure we had certain people in our wedding. One of my bridesmaid’s younger sisters had cancer and passed away a few days after my weekend bachelorette party. She paid for lots of things such as the Airbnb and concert tickets for me, etc., but before the weekend I reassured her “If you want to stay home with your sister, you’re not going to hurt my feelings. We can always spend lots of time together, but you don’t know how much time you have left with your sister.” And she thankfully decided to stay home! I know she was thankful she stayed home too instead of going. We also put a picture of her sister on the table of our loved ones who had passed at the wedding and she greatly appreciated it! She said she absolutely bawled when she saw it. To be heartless and petty like that in the video really frustrates me
The first one gave off the feeling that the dress was a setup to make her look like she was outstaging the bride on purpose so that all their friends would turn on her.
Or to have her show up on the day, and not be allowed to walk in the wedding, because the church won’t allow it. So, you know, basically using the MOH for all her hard work and money, and then getting rid of her for the big day.
On the first bridezilla, I gave my MOH 3 options to choose from, and they were all under $100. My own wedding dress was less than $100. I just can't comprehend why people think it's ok to spent ridiculous amounts of money on one day! Also, for my Bachelorette party, we just went to a local tavern, drank & ate, & listened to a live band. No destination getaway costs, no strippers, just one fun night out.
I had mine in a choice of two colours and a choice of styles, maybe they will be worn again, maybe not but they matched their body types and personal styles. It’s not hard.
It's perfectly fine to spend as much as you want on a wedding dress. Where I draw the line is making others spend a lot of money because "It's my wedding and you wear what I want"
@@ralfvandeven3155 Of course, if you can afford it, spend however much you want. However, I think it's wrong to ask your guests to help pay for the wedding when you're the host. Or demand the wedding party to spend insane amounts of money on clothes & parties, or else they aren't loyal friends.
Good grief these bridezillas are something else!! When I was planning my wedding, I kept it super simple and “go with the flow”. I got married during the winter and I wanted my bridesmaids comfortable and warm, so I said they could pick whichever dress they wanted as long as it was navy blue and comfortable for them and would keep them warm. They all picked a long sleeve velvet navy blue dress and they were beautiful!! Kids were welcome, and anyone could sit wherever they wanted. There was zero drama, zero issues with the kids, and everyone was happy. Marrying your loved one is the most important thing going on that day, and you’re most likely not going to remember much because so much is going on. My husband and I loved our wedding and were very happy with the turnout. Theres no reason for all the drama, you have one goal in mind, marriage. Simple is better in my opinion.
A friend of mine got married on my niece's birthday, and my niece had passed away 2 weeks prior. My friend was so sweet and understood if I didn't go. I ended up going, but it was too hard for me to stay. I'll never forget her kindness though.
The first one is a literal skit. It says it right on the girl's profile: "I make skits / it's just for fun / laugh at me" I could tell immediately that her reaction wasnt genuine, and she was really bad at reciting her lines. And the "bridezilla" was being an over-exaggerated bridezilla, conveniently saying aaaaaallllllllll of the things a bridezilla would say. I really wish that whomever picks these for Charlotte would at the bare minimum at least check the profile first. I know sometimes it's hard to tell what's real and what is genuine, but this was was so obviously over the top fake. Either way, I always still enjoy Charlotte's reactions to them, fake or not. It certainly has opened up discussions, especially because things like this do happen. 💜
For the girl with the "highlighter green" dress...there is absolutely no way I would insist on any person in the Bridal party wearing something they weren't comfortable with or didn't like
On the last one the bride missed the opportunity for; 'you're going to call the Police, well bless your heart.' The ultimate southern passive-aggressive dig. And rightfully so.
@@SweetLala25 yeah, that was kind of weird and i have questions...was it a public walking path? Because that's a bit rude to not just be 'no one get in my shot' but to be all "YOU SHALL NOT PASS!" Now, if what the videographer was trying to tell them was 'hey, we're shooting this 30 second spot, can you wait for a moment?' and they weren't listening...yeah. But also they hadn't started shooting yet, so why not just let them pass? By the time someone is close enough for you to tell them 'hey, stop walking because the mic pics up the gravel' well, the mic has already picked up the gravel. I'm not sure how they thought that was going to go. On the other hand, if it was a path on private property that they had rented out, it would be reasonable to expect that there shouldn't be anyone else walking there. So, guy was definitely rude, but I'd need to more context before I give girlie-pop a pass.
Answer to timestamp 8:03 My sister's bachelorette party was the most chill ever. We went to a bungee fun class and then to the maid of honour's house where we ate and drank and played wedding themed games. It was wholesome, it was nice, it was safe. Everyone had a good time and there were no accidents. But the morning after everyone had muscles sore as f*ck and we shared drama stories so there was crying but we cried together, not because of each other but because of sympathy and sh*t. Overall very chill party.
I used to be one of the main hostesses at a popular local restaurant located within a massive historic mansion (really, though, I was basically the floor manager getting paid essentially nothing to do the job of someone who might’ve come upstairs once throughout a busy shift🙄🤦🏻♀️), and I worked with a young woman in her mid20s who had like 8 siblings and they ALL were some of the kindest, sweetest people you’ll ever meet in your life…but as sweet & quiet as Maggie was, she wasn’t going to be disrespected or walked on, either. We had a lot of entitled customers because our owner was the owner of a few major bars, restaurants, and a giant music venue, everyone who knew him seemed to think that they could be loud, disrespectful jerks who made ridiculous demands & thought they could regularly just go seat themselves as tables were getting up, when we were fully booked with actual reservations and/or on a major waitlist, etc. It was infuriating when we’d be slammed, trying to handle numerous situations at once, and needing to step in to help the servers if they needed it too, etc., and then we’d have someone start screaming in our faces, demanding to be seated IMMEDIATELY.🤢🤮 And Mags would just be calm AF, smile at them, and constantly respond to the yelling & demands with, “Oh, I see.” Just that, “Oh, I see.” You really had to be there to hear her delivery of it & see how people responded, though.😂😂 It was definitely her way of politely acknowledging, “I hear you. I see you’re mad. No, I’m not going to do anything about it. Kindly, fu** off.” And it would just THROW people. Because she wasn’t telling them outright “no”, but absolutely wasn’t telling them “yes”, either, and everyone would start to fumble & not know what to do when she just kept saying “I see”. Eventually, they’d give up & storm off, and she kinda became our secret weapon for our most difficult customers, because she ALWAYS stayed super calm and peppy, & didn’t fold to the stress & pressure those people can & do absolutely put on service workers. But nobody could ever really complain about how they were treated, because they couldn’t say she actually did anything to them, she was just too nice. Always died seeing the laughter in her eyes, though, as she was being perfectly sweet & calm to completely irrationally irate people. Sometimes the best counter to entitled, rude, disrespectful people is to simply be & show that you’re completely UNBOTHERED.
First one the bride is a bridzilla. Like I’m sorry that’s how you talk to people. And she was just like are you sure?she wasn’t saying she’s not going to wear it just like hey are you sure? Cause it looks like it was Amazon maybe they shipped the wrong dress
@@carolfield2760 I mean, I like wearing some pretty scandalous styles, BUT NOT IN A CHURCH. I'm not even religious, that just feels wrong. I don't blame her for not wanting to wear it.
@@carolfield2760 The bride will blame her for dressing in fluorescent green. I'm pretty sure it was a revenge dress and not in the Diana way. No one will say "The bride has such bad taste", they will say "That MoH is tacky and an attention seeker". Now, I'm petty so I would've sent an apology text or audio message to every guest I had their number, even an email to the church, like, 15 minutes before the ceremony starts, and I would've shown up with that dress and no underwear. I would've even attached the video to her parents.
Love how the bride with the neon dress was completely fine making jabs and comments about the brides mades body but when she hit her back once she completely freaks out
Fr I’m not sure but I don’t even think she said anything about her just the dress?( the maid of honor not the bride)
Yeah honestly if the bride had been nice to her I think I’d be on her side. After all it’s her wedding it’s her dress choice. But between treating her maid of honor that way and also making her pay for the dress she clearly hates…
The MOH said, “At least I’ll fit in my dress.”
I think that was staged, it just didn't seem real enough to me.
Don't dish it out if you can't take it!!!
That neon green dress looks like a $10 dress from Wish. I would never pay $350 for something like that.
I think the bride is setting her up so people will think she went rogue by wearing a high intensity color and ruining her esthetic.
Bet you bride said "its gonna be a green dress" and you could think normal green wedding colors like jade or forest or kelly green even but bright florescent lime green wouldn't be my first assumption. Also, i think she didnt even see the style dress either. I think the bride just ordered it for her and told her how much it was. If i saw what i was getting before i ordered, i would be calling the bride before placing my order.
Yeah if the bride wants something like that she should be paying the $350
If it actually cost 350 dollars then they got scammed and the bride won't admit to it. Or she has no concept of value-for-money ratio.
It probably was
The whole "you don't go to the bride with problems" is so stupid! Who the heck else would you go to?! It's her wedding! That dress is cute for a night out but it's not worth anywhere CLOSE to $350 and it certainly isn't a suitable bridesmaid dress, especially for a maid of honor!! And I'm sorry but there is absolutely no way that any of my friends would speak to me that way because let me tell you, they would NOT be my friend anymore after telling me to "suck in my hips", how does one even do that?! Definite bridezilla and an insanely crappy friend!
Craziness 💯 agree
Not to mention wearing that dress in a cathedral! A full blown cathedral it just screams like all the bad things and gives off bad message about the maid of honor. Like people would talk
Absolutely! You have to get the bride's opinion and feedback or you can't ensure she gets the day she wants. And that dress was a joke...
100% the bride wanted her to show up like that so she could act shocked and offended
I think that goes for brides, who are wealthy and bridesmaids and maid of honors who are very wealthy so everybody has all the money to do all the things so they shouldn't bring the stress to the bride..
The girl that commented “agreeing” with the bride about the cost of the dress wasn’t agreeing with her. She was saying that her whole bridal outfit didn’t even cost as much as that tacky as dress and that $350 IS a lot of money
I had an emergency c-section the day before my good friend was getting married. I called to let her know that I was sorry that I wasn't going to be at her wedding (I wasn't in the wedding, just a guest). Not only did she understand, she and her fiance came to the hospital to visit me, with gifts for the baby, before their rehearsal dinner. This is how a true friend behaves. Brides, let's have some love and grace and understand that life happens. Not everything is about you!
It was a guests bday on my wedding day....we sang her a happy birthday and gave her a freaking big bouquet for spending her special day at our special day. Why not share the joy 😮
Girl you have a friend to the end! Keep that girl true friends are hard to find believe me❤ you are truly blessed and congratulations on the baby❤
Oh yeah "your wedding is the most important thing for you, not others"
@@tianastapp9854Wait, what? Who are you quoting?
@@kellit6756 idk where that's come from but I've seen it around lots 🤷🏻♀️😅
WOOOAHH… that first bride, is putting her in a dress that is that different from everyone else? She’s doing it on purpose to embarrass her. End of story. That green dress looks like something you would wear to spring break, or Vegas. I would tell her to go to he!!
Exactly!!! She secretly hates her tbh!!
To me I think they're both acting, if it was real, why would you record it, why would you be so happy, why would you post a fight with your theoretical best friend on the internet for everyone to see. Either that or their both just super immature. But I agree, the dress definitely doesn't look wedding appropriate and would probably stick out a lot
It's not even real
@@CarysRI completely agree. It reeks of staged video. This is not genuine and is cooked up for views.
It's so fake
The neon clubbing dress is totally not what needs to be in a church wedding. The bride is not only being a bridezilla but a horrible friend. Proud of the MoH for waking out.
I agree, Proud of MOH for both: Waking up & Walking the f out🤬
No way in hell I would tolerate any "friend" talking to me like that! I don't care who's wedding. Girl you did the right thing.
I thought it was real during the 1st conversation, but the 2nd one made me feel 95% sure it was staged, simply because the bride sounded like she was reading lines off a page and the MOH kept talking to US instead of her, which you’d think would have tipped her off that this was being recorded (which would have infuriated her).
My verdict? Not real. I could be wrong, but part 2 just didn’t feel authentic.
That's your opinion. Brides are entitled to theirs as long as they're not telling people to change things that aren't easily changeable like hair or weight
@@Katfall2012 yes but , if the MH does not feel comfortable, just morally, doesn’t give the bride permission to dress them up like it’s Ladies Night. Yeah, so, no.
I feel like the bride wants to make her look bad on purpose. I mean you have to hate somebody to make them - as the only one - wear a short neon green dress in a church wedding.
the woman with the wedding band that bailed specifically mentioned that they hadn’t given her any place to send the deposit to, so even if she had remembered, she wouldn’t know where to send it.
Exactly! Think that it might have been intentional on their part
This is what I was thinking too! Very important detail
That's probably why she didn't send it right away too, like she was waiting for the info and then forgot because it never came
I’m not a bride, but my firm opinion is this:
You are allowed to be stressed, cry, vent, get overwhelmed, etc. You are NOT allowed to treat the people around you as lesser than you. Basic human decency is part of the criteria of being a bride
Unfortunately it’s not but I wish it was. We see too many of these cases where the bride just abuses everyone around her. 😢
Basic human decency is one of the criteria for being a… human. Brides are (supposedly) human. ;-)
And sure, you can pick the bridesmaid dresses or colors but you cannot make them wear something they feel uncomfortable in. The girl in green brought up the fact that it was in a church and the dress barely covered her butt, meaning she’d be uncomfortable. One of my bridesmaids had a very large chest so the other ones had her choose what would make her feel most comfortable and went with that as their choice.
@@professionalinsomniac8338 Only if no one calls them out. If you let people get away with bad behavior, they'll give you more bad behavior. Someone really needed to sit down with that bride and find out what was really going on, or if she was determined to be a witch.
@@goldengryphon I mean, someone can be self-aware they’re awful and not care. But what those brides need to realize is their attitude is eventually gonna result in them being alone after they drive everyone away :/
The neongreen dress: she's not complaining. She's trying to not let the bride make a huge mistake. But actually i think the bride doesn't want her in the wedding or wants her to be laughed at and brought that disaster of a dress on purpose.
Apparently she does skits on her profile so it's not real
@@MissKairelle you know what That's what I'm thinking too I don't think she wanted her in the wedding... Judging by The bride's behavior oh hell no
That's exactly what I was thinking. A real friend would listen to feedback and watch out for the comfort of her friend, not try to bully her into something that makes her feel uncomfortable. And NO CHURCH would let her be in that dress without any kind of covering.
That's what I don't get. Skit or not, this whole thinking is very contradictory? People who are upset at a dress are gonna point and laugh at the one wearing it. The one who's gonna wear should have some amount of say, because you can't really make the bride be the one choosing and then the responsibility of bearing the consequences is all on the other person... If the other person is gonna be associated with that. then it's not just about the bride anymore, it's a weird imbalance there.
Yeah, and not only that but she’s the only one that’s wearing the dress? Either she’s being Pranked, which genuinely feels like that because the bride is acting exactly how popular girls do in school when they’re trying to get someone to go along to get humiliated, or she will just be cropped out of the photos later on because she’s quite literally probably the only one wearing such an ugly bright green dress. (in all honesty can barely be addressed. It’s definitely more like a shirt…)
Girl 1, get a refund, cancel that friendship.
This
But, all she has to do is suck in her hips!
Exactly what I was thinking. I'd never let a friend talk to me like that, bride or not. Crazy.
It's so fake
Absolutely, don't ever let someone talk to you like that.
For my childhood best friend's bach, we rented an airbnb on the Oregon coast and stayed in all weekend; played games, threw 2 different party themes (one for each night) since she had her childhood best friend (me) and her best friend she met through her hubby, couldn't agree on a theme lol. Bride's fav shows are Friends, and Sweet magnolias. So we did a Friends party, and then a tea party the next day. We hot tubbed, walked the beach, and just hung out really. Bride to be is an anxious homebody and was close to not having a bach at all. But all of us love & knew her enough to support her in giving her a bachelorette in a way that suited her best! Some people find what we did boring, but it was everything she wanted! Bach parties can be anything you want them to be- there are NO RULES!
The bride is beyond crazy. The dress would be too expensive at Kmart for $12.99. I would return the dress and get my money back, block the bridzilla and never discuss her or her wedding again. There is a saying, " WITH FRIENDS LIKE THAT, WHO NEEDS ENEMIES."
It would be mire than that at kmart
@@karentucker2161it’s not worth 350 cents let alone dollars.
It’s an insult
Correction enemas 😂
That is the fakest convo i’ve ever heard y’all, u actually believe that 😒
I think the toenail bride was actually even sort of cute with her “you had all your toenails in your wedding” tantrum. It wasn’t mean. It was pure drunk self-pitty mixed with despair and a pinch of sarcasm.
Especially since she once was sober totaly aknowledged it was a silly tanteum and reconned talking to her as if she where a child.... Like there was zero defensivness or meanness in that
Honestly love her for it and I think we would be friends 😂
@@harveybrown303 yesss lol her personality seems fun cuz even though the she wasn’t having a good time in that moment, she was still providing comedic relief lmao
And the girl she was yelling at was clearly trying not to laugh. I thought the whole thing was pretty funny all around
She was hilarious and adorable, poor thing
Story 1: "It's a fashion statement", the only statement the color and dress says is "I am a drug addict street walker"
More like fake AF..... 🙄
Part of me is like is this staged
Or a Walmart shopper.
If it’s real she doesn’t need to be friends with the first one.
I hope to God that it's fake because (not to be meeeaan lol) no sane grown woman would look at that highlighter, glow in the dark, nickelodeon slime tube dress and say "Yes. This is the moh dress of my dreams"😂. But if it was real tho I wouldn't be shocked if the bride picked that ugly ass dress and chose to be so rude to op was her way of making a way to kick her out of the wedding.
In story 3 I think nobody listened close enough because in the video she also says that she didn’t know were to send the money. So if she would have known I think she wouldn’t have forgotten to pay them. I mean if she would have known she wouldn’t even have texted the band
I know right, i was like she didnt 'forget' to pay them, she literally couldnt. If she had been given an account to send the money or whatever she probably would have out it in her diary or however she was tracking her wedding dates and payments, etc. she could have even set up an auto-payment with her back for that day, or a reminder for the day before, but she literally didnt get told so she wasnt at all a bridezilla.
I honestly didn’t hear a thing girl number three said! I was just completely fixated on the spaghetti strap tank she was wearing and the fact that her tits are in your face for her entire video. lol. Ucky!
"You chose to be my maid of honor so stop complaining."
That's not how it works. That first bride needs a serious reality check if she didn't already get one.
That was completely fake u do realize that right??
She secretly hated her "friend", and was looking to embarrass her with that neon streetwalker-core dress in the cathedral
@@carleyminsker5621, even so, it's still not something you'd want to hear.
@@carleyminsker5621 pretty sure is not fake in real life 💁🏻♀️💁🏻♀️, this story might be fake, but plenty of people is like that
@Framokamc lol it could be a narration of a real life event. However THIS actual story was completely fake
The editor throwing the maid of honor in that dress with people clubbing/at the beach and then literally at the last supper had me cracking up. 😭
😂
To bad it was a skit
Me too. That Last Supper picture made me laugh so hard. 😂😂
Let's not forget her using it as a green screen 😂😂😂
Haha! Same! The Last Supper had me rolling!! 😄 🤣
We lost our youngest child a week before a Good friend’s wedding. We had a bakery and were doing the cake as well as my husband was standing up in the wedding. They asked us if we needed them to postpone the wedding to make life easier for us. We did not because at the time doing it was better than not but the fact they were willing to change everything to be there for us was everything.
I am so sorry for your loss. 😢
That is very sad, but I’m glad you have such considerate friends by your side who are understanding. I hope they can continue to help you through your grief.
@@jinx2100 it’s so nice to hear that your friends were compassionate during this awful time for you.
@@bbk2601 I wasn’t talking about myself
@@jinx2100 I was meaning to respond to the OP of this thread. I obviously didn’t do it correctly 😊
i love when people have bachelorette / bachelor parties together, not separate. Nobody feels left out and it was one of the best parties ever!
Green and neon green are VERY different colors. Wearing that in a cathedral will make her stand out and look like she's stumbling in still drunk after a night of partying. I know from experience, drunk or not, having a toenail ripped off is painful af. I have a really high tolerance for pain and it still made me cry. LOL I love how those people thought that since they didn't know the bride she was automatically trespassing on property that didn't belong to them. They probably don't even know the owner.
There are SO many nerve endings in our fingers and toes, so any injury feels much much worse there
That dress is so short as she walks it will shimmy up and show more than she would want to show!! The BRIDE is delusional and TACKY!!
I wore sage green in my friend's wedding last October. It was quite lovely.
@@sunshinerose685 Sage green is a beautiful color!
Sorry, but neon isn't a colour. It's a chemical element and the second noble gas in the periodic table.
Somebody definitely kept the $350 and ordered that shit on Temu 😭
Or from the thrift lol
Yes, it looks so cheap.
100% I thought the same thing...
Yep as soon as she said the other bridesmaids had different dresses
It was a made up story.. Wasn't real.
“Is coming to the bride with problems be respectful?”
Yes it is! The maid of honour was being very polite bringing up her concerns. She didn’t insult anyone. The bride had no right to speak to her like that, she’s the one who escalated it!
Right? She was super respectful in the beginning. It wasn’t until the bride started attacking her that she stood up for herself.
All she did was ask if that was the right color at first. Given that lots of items are bought that don’t look anything like on screen that’s a fair question. Bringing up that it’s a booty dress in a cathedral (big no no) is also a valid point. Either this is a setup for rage bait (there’s no way that dress closet $350, right?) or that bride hates her.
@@TheBaumcm THat dress is so ridiculous I think this must be rage bait. I want to see a link for that dress.
Right?
There’s just no effing way that was a real story. The “bride” was rude *AF* and somehow conveniently never made it into frame. It was so insanely over the top that they were either doing satire or actually aiming for virality. Nobody but 𝘮𝘢𝘺𝘣𝘦 Pamela Anderson marrying Kid Rock would choose that Miami Beach club dress in tennis ball 🎾 green that came straight from Temu or Wish their maid of *honor.* That was so ridiculously one-sided. Ain’t no way. Perhaps @the Jersey Shore…🤔
The last bride should have added in a good ole fashioned, "Well bless your heart!"
We donated our honeymoon money to my fiancé's family friend that needed specialised treatment for his cancer. We got married 6 days ago without a honeymoon. But we've got something so much better, the health of a friend.
Maybe some brides should try to remember that yes that 1 day might be your special day. But don't you maybe want to still have friends after that 1 day
That is incredible and congratulations on your marriage!❤
@@devinfriedman7578 thank you 😀
First story: "don't bring problems to the bride" just translates to "I know it's bad but I don't want to hear it". Why? Because real friends don't let friends make fools of themselves. If you spot an issue and there's plenty of time to fix it before the wedding, you tell the bride (& if it's on the wedding day, you just fix it and tell her later). The normal rules of friendship don't change because there's a wedding.
Yes!
THIS! weird how people let a single day ruin years of friendship.
First story was so fake! I can't believe anyone would believe it, the entire conversation sounded so rehearsed and no bride is picking that dress for her moh. I'm actually shocked Charlotte even put it in the video.
@tuttyfat Whether that particular story was fake or not doesn't really matter, as there are plenty of similar ones out there that are real. There really are people out there who purposefully get awful bridesmaid dresses because they don't want to be "upstaged" by the people who are supposed to be their closest friends and want what's best for them.
The term bridezilla is out there for a reason, because far too many people ruin their relationships with friends and family (& sometime even their spouse) over a wedding - it's insane.
She was the ONLY ONE who was supposed to wear that monstrosity too so what do you wanna bet that all the other dresses were long and a different color
The bride fat, shaming the brides maid, then getting offended when the brides maid throws it back at her is PRICELESS!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Story 2.. love the self awareness!! “ so she was probably treating me like a toddler because I was acting like a toddler”!!😂❤❤❤
With the toenail bride, it seems like just normal banter between close friends when something goes wrong, also she's drunk and in pain. The bride's reaction was more comical and sarcastic than intentionally being nasty.
Also… TOENAIL DAMAGE…. ARGH!! I am getting shivers just thinking about it. That injury… yeah, I’m done, gotta think about something else.
I need 'But you had all 10 toenails for YOUR wedding Alyssa' to be the new clip that everyone stitches to their own tik tok of despair.
Seeing that first dress makes me appreciate my sister-in-law. She had us bridesmaids buy $80 plum purple dresses that were so simple but elegant, I've worn it multiple times since then. She also had us wear sandals that we got at Payless for $15 and then told us that if we wanted to switch them for something more comfortable after the ceremony we could wear whatever we wanted once the pictures were done. It was the best wedding ever. She was relaxed and we all had a great time before and during the wedding.
I was a bridesmaid for my sister, who is 8 years older than me, when I was 13. The other two bridesmaids were our cousins and around my sister’s age. It was soooooo drama free. My mom made very simple evening length A-line dresses in hunter green with light forest green accents. Each of my cousins gave her like $50 to help with materials and labor. After the wedding I think she even hemmed one dress to cocktail length because my cousin wanted to use it for a different event later. It was so simple and chill. Also all three of us had widely differing body types. 4’7” and hour glass, 5’6” and willowy and not super busty, and me at 4’10”and already a C cup.
for the first story: im 90% sure that the bride wants to paint the MOH as the villain and be like “SHE WORE THIS TO MY WEDDING!! HOW DISRESPECTFUL! SHE LOOKS LIKE A STRIPPER!!”
I completely thought so too!!
Thought that as well
That's probably why she recorded the conversations.
100% it’s fake
The first story is absolutely fake.
She didnt send the deposit late, she literally couldnt send it to them because they didnt tell her where to send it. They didnt give an account number or even an address to post a cheque. They just ghosted her.
The last bride: No NOTES. That response was perfection. She was very very polite to them but did not let them bully her. Did not give them her name. I loved the you have a pet peeve and you needed to stand your ground part. ❤ Perfection.
That was youtuber Taylor Skeens and she deals a lot with social anxiety. For her so speak up was a big deal, but she handled that like a pro. 🥰
@@IEATOSI Bro that's the biggest fucking win I have ever heard of!
Nah that green dress was brighter than the friendship's future. Clearly.
Much brighter😊😅
It was also definitely brighter than their futures in the ACTING PROFESSION, because THAT'S WHAT THEY'RE BOTH DOING.... OR should I say TRYING to do? Yes, because they are TRYING, but they're NOT succeeding! They're really, really bad, though, because they're not succeeding at convincing me that it's real.
OMG!!!! My friend was getting married 2 weeks after my partner was told he had terminal cancer. I felt so bad but i knew we had to pull out of the wedding.
My friend was so worried about us and said it wasn't a problem and if we felt up to it we could still come.
THATS how friends should behave!
Oh my heart goes out to you both. There are no words ❤
Right!!
Exactly! Only someone who's a heartless narcissist would react any other way then with true concern and worry for their friends in that situation.. Hopefully your partner is still here, and is either still in treatment or in remission.. cancer sucks so badly ❤
I would never tell anyone to wear the neon green dress even if it was my sisters wedding or my wedding 😂🤦♀️🤦♀️
A few years ago I had a friend dealing with cancer also. She told the bride pretty much the same thing; giving her the option of replacing her as MOA. The bride said that they would even wait until 1/2 an hour before the ceremony to see how MOA felt. If she felt sick another girl would be ready to jump into the job. If she felt well enough they would all dance down the aisle to celebrate. Unfortunately she was sick but all throughout the day people were recording get well wishes; she was even mentioned in the speeches. It just goes to show class will always show!
That is beautiful. I hope she is doing well. I am sure she felt loved.
(What is 'MOA'? I got as far as maid/matron/mother/man? and "of", but that 'A' has me stumped, with only naughty words coming to mind...).
This! You either love and care about the people around you, or you consider them accessories in your world, to do as you want, when you want.
Bridezillas fall into that latter category. The wedding party that your friend was due to be in are in the former category. They sound like the kind of people who deserve a beautiful day and a happy future.
I hope that your friend has had a full recovery and is now healthy and happy 🍀💕
And true, caring, friendship.
That is how friends behave!
@@heidikickhouse-maid of honor.
That bride that cut her cancer stricken friend out of all those photos, should be praying that this friend isn’t cut out of everyone’s lives permanently. This one really struck a nerve with me. If I were the groom, I’d be thinking very hard about going through with the wedding. That girl has ice water in her veins.
Indeed. He should wonder if she will cut HIM out of her life, should he unexpectedly fall sick.
Can you imagine telling your family and fiance the reason you suddenly started cropping your friend out of all of your photos is because they gracefully stepped down from your wedding party due to CANCER? In what way could anyone EVER spin that in a way that makes them look good? I'd genuinely question if she was human, let alone marriage material.
Oh, this would be an immediate rethink in who you’re marrying!
Story with the wedding band, she says that she forgot to send it because they never sent her information to send the deposit in the first place. This band had absolutely no intention of actually playing
Thank you my partner came in sweating because I was talking to the screen. And he said "what wedding band? What wedding???"
Oh, thank you. I thought I had a stroke there for a second!
On the wedding band one the email from the manager said they were currently in Australia and wouldn't be back for her wedding in september to do it. So that means they had planned the trip (gotten the visa's to spend more than 3 months because that's a requirement if you want to stay there more than 3 months and those visas take at least a couple of weeks at least to get. I know because I lived in Australia as an American for years.) and were already out of the USA. They were never gonna do her wedding and were already out of the country regardless of if she'd gotten her depost in on June 1. This woman isn't a bridezilla at all.
That last bride's response was perfection. She didn't let that bully her, called their bluffs when they threatened her, and sent them off with their tails between their legs. All while maintaining that sweet southern accent. And shamed them for their behavior as they walked off. Amazing.
Some people just have to stick their nose into other people's buisness) Unless you shoo them away like the pigeons they are they wont leave, no use talking to them politely) I had a run in with two grandmas. They were upsed cause...me and my BF were lund in MacDonald's) while odering food at the selfserving kiosk) they literally tried to act like they had the right to teach me manners) and got oh so upset when we both kussed at them) ran away in shame screeching about rude young people. Some humans just have the AUDASITY!
@@Deliar12 Those are the ones you have to give long, confused looks at without responding. I would have told them my grandmother taught me proper manners, and would be upset if you tried to mess them up.
She reminded me of a southern Cinderella with her manners. Sweet but strong.
Hillbillies and southerners have a way of making "bless your heart' and "I'll pray for you" sound like the vilest slur anyone has ever uttered without changing tone from sweet and perky.
@@petitmains Yes! The bless your heart from a southerner is the ultimate slam.
If my “friend” spoke to me like that, I’d probably drop out of the wedding.
Being a bride isn’t a free pass to be a c*nt to everyone.
When I was getting married I was so gracious and constantly thanked my friends for taking the time and energy to help me.
I literally said to myself, wow she’s being a c*nt as I passed your comment 😂 like what is the bride’s issue 🤦🏽♀️
That’s what I was thinking. I also think that, if this is real, the bride was trying to set the MOH up.
So true, I wonder what the other bridesmaids thought when they saw the neon green one.
@@bernadettekavanagh9984that’s the thing. It was only her who got the ugly ass dress so I assume that the bride wanted to embarrass her
It went over a lot of heads in the wedding band story that yes she did forget but they also NEVER gave her the information of where she should send the deposit to…
Exactly, that shouldn't be on her!
Came here to say this. It's ridiculous and not her fault.
Yeah, I have a feeling they had no intention of ever playing her wedding in the first place and this was on purpose.
Yes! That's what I was saying to Charlotte but then as much as I would like it she does not hear me when I talk to her through my computer screen. Lol
Yes, she said they didn't even send an invoice
My dad’s second wife had an amaaaazing bachelorette party the only tears shed were when she broke down crying and said she was so happy to have gotten to get to know me. I love her and she and my dad are so good for each other 8:17
The green-screening of Charlotte’s face onto the chartreuse nightclub dress is hilarious to me! I love it!
That’s lime green. Chartreuse is a cross between mustard and bright green.
If the dress was Charlotte’s face, it would be the best
@@Jay-iu5bi It's neon green. That dress practically glows.
Fucking hilarious 😂
My bachelorette party was super chill. We had sushi, and cupcakes, and played Cards Against Humanity. No fights, injuries, no drama. Was great. 10/10 would recommend.
Mine was nice too! My maid of honour knew that I hate big events and I didn't want everybody to spend a lot of money on me so we just had a really nice day :)
Literally did the exact same thing, except my friends sent me to a massage at a spa first, during which time they went to my apartment and set up. They met me after the massage, we went to a sushi buffet, then to the apartment. Then after Cards Against Humanity, we all went for a long walk before going to our favorite irish pub to meet up with my husband and his bachelor party. It was great! Sushi is my all time favorite food, and CAH really set the silly party-mood for the rest of the evening.
Mine was great! We went to my favorite restaurant, then went bowling and ax throwing. Then the next day, I had my makeup trial, and we got pizza and beer, then did an escape room in the city, then found a couple karaoke bars, and had a great time. Next morning, we had an amazing brunch.
My husband's bachelor party, however, did get slightly messy, but his groomsmen took care of everything and kept it from getting completely out of control.
I hope she can get her money back for that dress. Definitely not a $350 dress.
"You had all ten toenails when you got married" had me on the floor 😂😂😂😂
boo-boos get better! 😂😂😂
I need this as just a sound bite! It’s on the level of “Try being my size, Amy” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I lost my big toenail TWICE
When we got married almost 13 years ago I searched for dresses that were affordable and appropriate for a late summer early fall wedding ($45+tx), maid of honour bought hers and the bridesmaid refused two days before the wedding and showed up in a black skirt and floral shirt with combat boots, the junior bridesmaids and flower girls mom refused to pay the $15.00 combined for the two dresses the day before. I chose to just let it go. Then we had decided to do a potluck for the wedding reception I sent out a list and asked that people message me with what they were going to bring which they did, we had 100 confirmed guests and with the wedding party we ended up with only 36 showing up. I am a pessimist so I figured something was going to go wrong and went out two days before the wedding and bought a whole lot of stuff to make dishes that would stretch for the expected guests along with tea,coffee,juice and pop (glad I did cause only three people brought a dish). I also had to make my cake cause four days before the person who was supposed to make it backed out. Then my mil had the nerve to ask hubby and I if she could borrow $250 to get home from where we were and where she lived at our wedding reception she knew that my mom and grandma were both not able to be at our wedding due to health so they gave us our wedding present $1200 the day before as long as we agreed to come by the day of the wedding to get pictures with them which we did but had to go to the hospital to get them as they both were admitted my grandma was ill and my mom couldn’t manage at home on her own so they admitted her to and she died there a week later exactly 7 days to the hour of our wedding. Through all this and moving in the process I never freaked out until about two days later after my mom passed away when I just broke and cried for two days. My mil to this day has only paid back $150 of the money borrowed and since 2019 has done everything possible to break us up I don’t go to any family functions anymore hubby goes by himself, I spend the special occasions by myself because I don’t think it’s fair to others to have to endure the tension and hostility that she has towards me especially on occasions that are meant for family. Just some info hubby is the only person I have in this world now everyone else has passed away.
The last one was being actually nice. She didn't allow herself to be pushed around. She never let the rude people make her be rude. Also, the southern phrase you are looking for to end it is "Bless your heart."
Imagine. Oh sweety. Bless your little heart 😅😂😂😂😂
Was coming to say this lol. I'm from Georgia, US and I probably would've done the sweetheart and "bless your heart" lol
Scot here. 'Aww, bless ya wee self!' It's all in the delivery 😂
Yeah a "Oh bless your heart you think you're in charge." Followed with a sweet condescending smile. That would be a super passive aggressive southern moment.
Both she and the videographer kept their cool. I don’t think I could have.
You can totally see the point at which the first girl had enough and was like “I’m ready to throw a grenade at this friendship, its done”
I kinda wanna see the bridesmaid dresses to see if she's setting up her friend to be sabotaged on her wedding day by making her wear a VASTLY DIFFERENT dress from the others.
Honestly I believe that because some brides have done that before because they secretly feel the maid of honor or other bridesmaids are prettier than her.
See, that's exactly what I was thinking - why did the bride want her MOH in a vastly different, inappropriate dress?? It can't have been for any good reasons
My only thought from the bride's side is maybe she's trying to get her together with someone in the party by "looking better than the bride on her wedding night"
This was a set up , the girl didn’t fall for it, good for her for not playing Kermit
WTF that poor lady with cáncer. I had a stroke in 2021. One of my best friends got married in 2023 when I still had to use a walker. I was living abroad and gwtting to her wedding was a nightmare (travel wise - 1 flight, 2 trains). I called her crying and told her i was so sorry but i couldnt come cause I felt so overwhelmed (plus I would have travelled all by myself). She was so understanding and told me not to sorry she would miss me but i shouldnt worry. She then told me a couple of days later that she could arrange someone to come Pick me Up at the airport and drive me to the venue (a friend of hers Who was also invited) which was 3h away. I was so happy and even got to sleep at her parents House (where the wedding was) so that I wouldnt have to go to a hotel and had a safe space for a breather in case I felt overwhelmed. It was the most beautiful wedding and I am still super grateful that my friend cares so much ❤️
I literally ran and hid in a corner when the bridesmaid said, “at least I’m going to fit in my dress”. I didn’t even realize they were in the same room until that moment. That dress would have made grandma cry, I’m glad she got out of the wedding and that friendship, dude.
I didn’t realize the bride was there, either, just that she could see the MOH. And how many fittings does a bride have? The MOH should have used it as the top it was and put a skirt on with it!
Honestly I was team "just suck it up and wear the dress" until I heard how the bride talked to the poor woman. Girl, that's supposed to be your FRIEND.
I think that final statement is everything I think the bride was going to lie about why she was wearing that specific dress and she would not find out about the lie until she was shunned for it well after the wedding well after all the photos well after all of the humiliation. That's not a dress. It's a slip for a sexy grinch costume.
@@HappilyTearfulshe mentioned that the others were wearing a diffuser dress- I want to see what the others look like. Now I see why she filmed the interactions, too. Unless the bride really had such poor taste (in a cathedral?!) I do wonder if she was trying to set the moh up for ridicule.
😅@@gaudior13
That cancer one got me.... one of my bridesmaids 3 year old son got cancer the summer before my fall wedding. I actually went to her and gave her the option of stepping down, and she was grateful bc she didn't want to upset me, but her one and only son had just spent his 4th birthday in the hospital on chemo... I completely understood. I wouldn't expect anything else. That bride makes me sick
💯 agree disgusting person
Exactly, I would hope the groom got wind of this. He needs to know what he's in for. Let's hope he doesn't get sick, ever.
I agree that bride was a special kind of evil and is likely not a good friend to anyone.
Agree. Are you able to tell us any updates on your friend's son? I'm suddenly invested in this total stranger and her family's well-being. Thank goodness she had a friend like you!
@@NatalyaCherry yes! That was a year ago and he's been thru vigorous testing and treatment! He has children's lymphoma. But he's home! And doing well! He's done with chemo and his hair is growing back! He'll be 5 in Sept and I'm so proud of him and his momma ❤ still some of my besties 🥰
The neon green dress story - when she asked why her dress was different to the other bridesmaids’ dresses I thought the bride was going to reveal it was all a prank.
That first bride was absolutely a bridezilla, you dont talk to friends like that
Okay, on the wedding band story: Everyone seems to have missed the fact that the band never sent the invoice for her to pay them in the first place. So she then had to e-mail them so she knew where to send the payment once she realized that she was late and didn't even know where to send it. So, they ghosted her fully. If they were remotely serious, they would've sent far more correspondence beforehand to her so she didn't miss those payments. They would've made damn sure she had an invoice so she knew where to send the money. They didn't. That was all on the band, not the bride.
I'm glad I'm not the only one that picked up on that. Something about that situation just felt off to me. Beyond the obvious they didn't invoice her.
It seems a little odd that a woman who wanted everything in place-and my presumption is that she was familiar with contracts, etc., as she seemed to be-didn’t get back to them (however she found them) if the contract hadn’t arrived within a week.
People seem to be missing this fact. Bride has a lot on her mind, she's not gonna be reaching out to every vendor so they can send her an invoice, THAT is the responsibility of the vendor.
@@Beanz-on-Toast yes, but this was early-on in booking vendors, and she struck me as someone who double-checks from what she said about being a host. And others of us do it; for my first wedding, I was essentially alone (family and friends on the other coast).
Yup I picked up on that too. Bride even said she didn't know where to send the money!
Smh
The last bride was so respectfully sassy, it was perfection.
Story 1: This is a classic example of a bride being jealous of the maid of honour and wanting to embarrass the MOH on the day. Her dress was different from the other bridesmaids, and it was basically a cocktail dress. The bride rather 1) wanted her to step down or 2) embarrass her in front of the whole church
In regards to Bachelorettes: I just had mine and no one got hurt and there was no crying! It was super chill.
Omg thank you for saying that so I won't have type all it Lol ! Yep when she said it was a Different dress and with Moh it Usually is but not to this consistency it reeks Jealousy Lol😂
Almost 10 years ago one of my best friends in the world was getting married. The night before the wedding I had to go to the hospital, my appendix ruptured. I sent her a text from the hospital, pictures of me in the hospital bed and gown included, to explain that I wouldn’t be able to make it. That was the last time she ever spoke to me. I almost died and she cut me out of her life for it. She married into a religious cult though and has like 6 kids now. That’s not relevant but it does make me feel better
I got married in 1992. I would have NEVER expected my bridesmaids and maid of honor to do what these monsters do!
We didn't have a Bachelorette Weekend - who had that kind of money?
We had a girls' day together. We started at the bridal shop, which we booked, and they closed just for us for my girls to try on dresses. We even had a catered brunch there, so we all ate.
Any dress they wanted in any color - I wanted them to be comfortable. My girls were sizes 00 through 20. They all chose the same dress and picked my favorite color (purple). Everyone looked stunning in this dress. I had TEN bridesmaids, and they all agreed on the same dress, complimenting each other.
Then we booked out a salon for mani/pedis for all of us, including my mom and both of our godmothers (my husband's mom had already passed).
Then we all went for an amazing dinner (no one was wasted!).
My Daddy paid for our day - it was planned in our wedding expenses.
Everyone is still friends to this day! This wedding drama and bride entitlement is ridiculous!
Same here. What is wrong with these women?
@@jenniferbrown3782back then not really nowadays absolutely
My bachelorette in 1988 was 3 hours, one evening, in a friend's home, potluck, mainly coworkers as my 2 bridesmaids were from out of town, and thankfully... no shenanigans.
My Bachelorette party was a nice dinner at a SF restaurant with my two attendants and then a club. No sash, boa, tiara, or x-rated ring pop. Also my wedding dress cost $800 back in 1993.
That day-glo green dress was NOT a dress for a church wedding! More like a disco or Vegas wedding! And yeah, if the bride spoke to me that way, I’d be exiting…
No reason to stay in that dress, that wedding, or that friendship. "You chose to be..." No hun. I wanted to support a friend. I guess we both lost out.
would she even be allowed in a church in that dress? Isn't there usually a rule about cover your shoulders and your knees or something?
@@Nico6th Depends on the church, I guess. I haven't heard of any churches that turn people away because of what they're wearing, but they might exist. All of the ones I have experience with use social pressure to make sure people wear "appropriate" clothing like head coverings, long skirts, shoes, etc.
In The european ones you will be asked to cover yourself or leave
I grew up Catholic, and this will be in the ire of the priest and anyone in that ceremony especially if you are standing in front of everyone in a NEON GREEN SHORT DRESS. if it was my country, you will be refused entry for wearing that
Story 1 (highlighter green dress): That dress looks like something the bride picked out to humiliate her maid-of-honour.
Story 3 (wedding band): She did point out that they never told her HOW to pay the deposit. I suppose she could have made an assumption and just done an etransfer via whatever method she was communicating with the manager - but that might have gone wrong too.
Last story: All that was missing was her telling them "bless your heart".
That’s what I said too!
Just love that!
Story 1 was completely fake. U couldn't tell that nothing about that was authentic?
I think the MOH was aware the bride wanted to act surprised and blame her on her wedding and exactly why she recorded the whole conversation because even if she made it as MOH and she becomes the villain, she has proof
As a wedding vendor (DJ & Coordination) when someone signs a contract, we email the invoice with multiple options on how to pay the deposit. We also sent automatic reminders and follow up... we don't just get a contract and ghost.
Exactly. How do you pay an invoice that they don't send?
Same, I used to work for a wedding venue and they sent invoices payment 2 weeks in advance with 2 extra reminders. And we will call/email the day before the payment is due because thing can be crazy for them.
That band was incredible unprofessional and they had not intent of ever performing that their wedding anyway.
That bride had ever right to be pissed because she got screwed over.
I LOVED that last girl, she was so articulate and had a perfect balance of sweet as sugar tone and words of malace. I loved that "youre coming across as a very ugly person." Loved her and how she handled that.
The neon dress is exactly why I’m setting a color scheme and letting all my bridesmaids pick their own dress 😂
Hope you said no to a cocktail dress.
That’s what I did. I gave them a color and had them match the dress they chose to the color. There was a place they could have it dyed at that had the color I wanted. It was 💜but darker.
My friend really wanted us all in strapless mid-thigh to knee dresses. But here's the thing, the maid of honor and the other bridesmaid were skinny with nice body shapes, and I at the time was at my heaviest of 337. I was prepared to wear an uncomfortable dress that would look terrible on me. But we went shopping together for my dress. I try on one strapless dress that goes down right above my knee and she's like..... Yeah, okay, let's find something that's a better shape for you. Neither one of us would have been happy if I had worn that original style. Letting people do same color, different silhouette just looks better for everything.
thats my plan too, just pick out a green color dress/outfit they like so my braidsmaids can look like a a cool forest with confidence 😤
That's what I did as well. Shades of pink. Surprise me! They all looked beautiful and I helped when they felt overwhelmed
I had a Traffic accident call a few years ago, where a couple of the bridesmaids and Maid of Honor were heading to the Rehearsal dinner, Maid of Honor called the Bride (her best friend) and explained that they would be late because of the accident (other driver ran a stop sign and hit them) the Bride went ballistic on her friend. I overheard most of the conversation and offered to give them all a ride (3 ladies) after they got checked by EMS , which allowed me to wrap up what I was doing with the accident, long story short the Maid of Honor and two bridesmaids got a police escort to the rehearsal dinner
ITS NOT OK ALYSSA YOU HAD ALL TEN TOENAILS WHEN YOU GOT MARRIED.
IM ACTUALLY DYINGGGGG😂😂😂😂
For the band one: it’s important to remember she signed the contract and then waited for the invoice to tell her how to pay the deposit and they never sent it so it slipped her mind and then SHE had to reach out….she had no responsibility in this at all 😂
Glad someone caught this too, I was gonna mention this. She didn’t even know where to send the money at all, so there was no way for her to send it early, on time or late.
Agree! That band had a “Better” Gig and chose to take that over her wedding. That’s why they never sent her an invoice or reminder.
She does have a little bit of responsibility for it. If the electric company never sends you a bill, you still get your electricity turned off, if you don’t pay on time. Believe me, I’ve seen it happen. Not to mention that she could tell from the start that these kids weren’t reliable, yet she waited until the very last second to remind them. She knew they were unreliable and decided to rely on them anyway. Make stupid decisions, and you’re going to deal with stupid results.
So yes, the band/manager is mostly responsible, but it is partly on her.
@ILoveYou-rv3pd.
Bad example - because it it's possible to send payment to the electric company with your account number/address. Where was she going to send payment if they never provided an address or contact information? Just Zelle or Venmo a payment to the manager’s email address and hope for the best?
@@cobrakai3732 They provided an email for the manager and phone number for at least one actual band member. She didn’t even try to contact them until the day before her wedding, even though she was several months past the due date for the deposit. She expected them to act like an established corporation, waiting for an invoice, when she knew it was just a few kids. Sure, it’s mostly their fault. They signed a contract with her and then backed out without really saying anything to her. She also didn’t pay the deposit, though, which would have probably voided the contract anyway. Yeah, she didn’t know where to send the money, but she also didn’t even attempt to contact them for where she should send it until months after it was due. She made a dumb decision, which honestly is more on her than I initially thought, since I realized that it had been like six months since the deposit was due without her even trying to make contact. Those kids probably forgot she even existed, which it kind of sounds like she forgot they did until the last second.
The woman with the band said in the video that they never sent her the information for her to send the deposit so she had to reach out to them. It also says that they thought they could get back but now can't. So that means they already had the trip to Australia planned so they would not have came even if she paid the deposit. Then she would have had no band and been fighting to get her money back.
Thank you! I was thinking the same thing. You can't send a deposit if they don't tell you where to send it. And why would there not be some sort of invoice with, you know, payment instructions? 😅
I thought the exact same thing. Also when would she have found out that they couldnt make it back on time?
At the 8:00 mark... I got married in 1990. My "bachelorette party" was one of my bridesmaids picking me up, taking me to her apartment, and getting me stoned with one of our friends who declined being a bridesmaid (she didn't want to have attention to herself, but she was thrilled to be invited - I miss her so much
The bride doing the video for her husband was just an incredible class act of a person. Handled that situation with so much grace when those people were being so nosey and rude. I love how she backed up the person she had doing the shoot for her too.
I came to find this comment! That's the same word that came to my mind, "grace". She was so classy and kind, yet stern. She didn't swear nor talk down on them. Simply explained what was needed. Definitely humbled me and makes me want to relearn how I speak to others in situations like this.
When your MOH is fighting for her life, losing all her hair and sick af, and you delete her existence from your life, you were NEVER her friend. And you will regret how you treat people someday. It all comes back around.
The last bride was an absolute sweetheart and told the couple where to go with a gallon of sugar. I loved her so much. You are right Charlotte. That was definitely a really good southern "get stuffed". 🤣🤣🤣🤣
They even asked permission to film.
She just radiated goodness, but she was also fierce AF. Kind of a Dolly Parton energy, and I'm here for it!
I cant stop laughing at 5:20 Oh my god! HAHAHAHAHAHF the editing is top notch. 😭😭
"you`re coming off as a very ugly person.
So thank you and have good wa-alk, goodby-ye.."
This girl is KILLING it - speaking up with the sweetest smile ahaha - this is how you do it ladies 😀
Yes, she's sweet... She's also VERY aware she being filmed. Literally why she's there.
She just needed to add ‘bless your heart’😝
@@heidikickhouse- true, but nevertheless: awesome self-control ! : )
@@tastx3142 😂
I was in a friend's wedding a couple years ago and she had the chillest bachelorette party ever. All the bridesmaids and a few other friends all got together and had a movie marathon night with a potluck and themed drinks to go with each movie. Super laid back and genuinely nice
This sounds so f***ing awesome 😄😍😊😎 I would have loved to be a part of this.
Oh a theme potluck with marathon movies! Hell yes. That sounds super fun. A chill stay inside Bachelotte party. Sounds fun😊
I don't understand why bachelor/bachelorette parties have to get so out of hand. Why does everyone have to pass out and be so wasted?
I was thinking the same, there's no law that says bachelorettes have to be a certain way lol. For my friend we did a sort of "trip down memory lane" powerpoint presentation, and after that we did a painting workshop and went out for dinner. It was really chill and nice and she was super happy for it.
I’m hoping to have a hobbit style picnic
“Oh, you’re calling the cops,” she said, smiling sweetly. “Well bless your heart .. and you have a nice walk” 😂😅❤😂
And you know which Bless Your Heart she meant……..😂
wedding customs in the USA are always so wild to me like...
when you invite someone to your wedding here and have your marriage witness (I think that's the word) all that is required that everyone is wearing something nice/evening wear and no one is wearing white except for the bride. that's it. I often see these posts about US weddings that the bride chooses dresses of her bridesmaids (I guess that's what the word is) and I'm like ???? this is so weird to me 😂 (tbh idk what bridesmaids are)
Bridamaids are the bride's friends/family (usually females) that walk out with groomsman before the bride walls out. It typically goes bridsmaids/groomsman, Maid of Honor and Best man, mother and father of the bride, mother and father of the groom, flower girl and ring bearer, then the bride. The groom would already be standing by the alter. That's how I understand it, I had a courthouse wedding, witch is basically what you are describing except the judge is the witness and the officiant.
as someone who almost completely ripped off their toenail before, it's not the pain thats's bad, it's the healing progress that's horrible. putting on socks and shoes- accidentally nudging the nail- ugh, never again, pls.
idk I suppose everyone is different, but when mine came off it felt like the end of my toe had come off completely. It hurts horribly. There were tears for a few minutes until i got it under control.
Relatable, due to dance camp I’ve lost a few toe nails myself and the healing process is the WORST, it takes so long! I was told to yank it off but I was not interested in bare nail bed + various dance shoes so I left it on until the new nail was at least half grown in and I feel like that was the right move for me
I had almost all of my toenails surgically removed when I was 15 cause I had ingrown nails real bad. And yea the healing is beyond horrible. I was in agony for over a week and the doctor only gave me 3 prescription pain killers. My mom called pleading more cause I was hurting so bad and they refused.
Oh my god I’ve unfortunately had my thumbnail on my right hand slammed in a balcony door and that fell off and my big toenail on my left foot had something huge and heavy fall on it and that fell off both times the pain in the moment was terrible but I agree that the healing process often left an even worse sort of unique kind of pain that often would literally make me feel momentarily like I might even throw up😭
I've done it with my finger nail and that was an absolute pain in the backside during healing time.
The first girl was so respectful when talking to her "friend" about hypothetical problems and her "friend" was SO RUDE and MEAN. I mean, if my best friend ordered a dress like that for me as a maid if honour I would assume there was some shipping problem/scam and would absolutely tell her!
The cancer one is absolutely bonkers 😮💨😮💨 my husband and I just got married this year and one of my husband’s friends has cancer. He stepped down from being a groomsman for the same reason as the girl in the video and my husband was more than happy to oblige bc he cares more for his friend and his health than he does making sure we had certain people in our wedding.
One of my bridesmaid’s younger sisters had cancer and passed away a few days after my weekend bachelorette party. She paid for lots of things such as the Airbnb and concert tickets for me, etc., but before the weekend I reassured her “If you want to stay home with your sister, you’re not going to hurt my feelings. We can always spend lots of time together, but you don’t know how much time you have left with your sister.” And she thankfully decided to stay home! I know she was thankful she stayed home too instead of going. We also put a picture of her sister on the table of our loved ones who had passed at the wedding and she greatly appreciated it! She said she absolutely bawled when she saw it.
To be heartless and petty like that in the video really frustrates me
That last bride forgot to break out her, “Bless your heart.” 😂😂😂😂😂
The first one gave off the feeling that the dress was a setup to make her look like she was outstaging the bride on purpose so that all their friends would turn on her.
Exactly what I thought
I was thinking the same, especially how the bride talked her
Absolutely
It was a skit
Or to have her show up on the day, and not be allowed to walk in the wedding, because the church won’t allow it. So, you know, basically using the MOH for all her hard work and money, and then getting rid of her for the big day.
On the first bridezilla, I gave my MOH 3 options to choose from, and they were all under $100. My own wedding dress was less than $100. I just can't comprehend why people think it's ok to spent ridiculous amounts of money on one day! Also, for my Bachelorette party, we just went to a local tavern, drank & ate, & listened to a live band. No destination getaway costs, no strippers, just one fun night out.
I had mine in a choice of two colours and a choice of styles, maybe they will be worn again, maybe not but they matched their body types and personal styles. It’s not hard.
It's perfectly fine to spend as much as you want on a wedding dress. Where I draw the line is making others spend a lot of money because "It's my wedding and you wear what I want"
@@ralfvandeven3155 Of course, if you can afford it, spend however much you want. However, I think it's wrong to ask your guests to help pay for the wedding when you're the host. Or demand the wedding party to spend insane amounts of money on clothes & parties, or else they aren't loyal friends.
THERE YA GO!! 👏🏻💯👏🏻💯👏🏻💯👏🏻💯👏🏻
SAME ON EACH POINT! Mine was under $200 TOTAL!!!!
Good grief these bridezillas are something else!! When I was planning my wedding, I kept it super simple and “go with the flow”. I got married during the winter and I wanted my bridesmaids comfortable and warm, so I said they could pick whichever dress they wanted as long as it was navy blue and comfortable for them and would keep them warm. They all picked a long sleeve velvet navy blue dress and they were beautiful!! Kids were welcome, and anyone could sit wherever they wanted. There was zero drama, zero issues with the kids, and everyone was happy. Marrying your loved one is the most important thing going on that day, and you’re most likely not going to remember much because so much is going on. My husband and I loved our wedding and were very happy with the turnout. Theres no reason for all the drama, you have one goal in mind, marriage. Simple is better in my opinion.
A friend of mine got married on my niece's birthday, and my niece had passed away 2 weeks prior. My friend was so sweet and understood if I didn't go. I ended up going, but it was too hard for me to stay. I'll never forget her kindness though.
The first one is a literal skit. It says it right on the girl's profile:
"I make skits / it's just for fun / laugh at me"
I could tell immediately that her reaction wasnt genuine, and she was really bad at reciting her lines.
And the "bridezilla" was being an over-exaggerated bridezilla, conveniently saying aaaaaallllllllll of the things a bridezilla would say.
I really wish that whomever picks these for Charlotte would at the bare minimum at least check the profile first. I know sometimes it's hard to tell what's real and what is genuine, but this was was so obviously over the top fake.
Either way, I always still enjoy Charlotte's reactions to them, fake or not. It certainly has opened up discussions, especially because things like this do happen. 💜
First one seemed very skit like, imo.
Please 🙏 don’t start showing us Skits!!!!!
True stories only please
Och ok I didnt know that, but I just got doubt what is she using to record this conversation as phone is in her hands xD
Thank you! I felt crazy for thinking this isn’t real, the acting is better than most skits, but it’s still a skit
"suck in your hips a little bit", I gotta learn that trick 😂
Right? How does that bride expect her MOH to literally dissolve BONE!!! WTH?
😂😂 🎯
thatts why i thinkits fake af
Hips are the new lungs.
For the girl with the "highlighter green" dress...there is absolutely no way I would insist on any person in the Bridal party wearing something they weren't comfortable with or didn't like
On the last one the bride missed the opportunity for; 'you're going to call the Police, well bless your heart.' The ultimate southern passive-aggressive dig. And rightfully so.
“At least I’ll be able to fit in my dress” 😂😂😂😂😂😂 That was so petty- I love it!!!!!
Thank you I couldn't understand what she said!
That shit made me LOL! #SoDeserved!!! 🤡🤣☠️
How could that bride have paid the deposit, WHEN SHE DIDNT KNOW WHERE TO SEND IT?!?
I loved the last one. She handled that situation perfectly, stood her ground, was polite without taking any bs. Good for her.
She should have said 'Bless your heart' :)
Yea but she was kinda rude too expecting them to stop walking because the sound of the gravel will be in the video...umm yea no thanks lol.
@@SweetLala25 yeah, that was kind of weird and i have questions...was it a public walking path? Because that's a bit rude to not just be 'no one get in my shot' but to be all "YOU SHALL NOT PASS!" Now, if what the videographer was trying to tell them was 'hey, we're shooting this 30 second spot, can you wait for a moment?' and they weren't listening...yeah. But also they hadn't started shooting yet, so why not just let them pass? By the time someone is close enough for you to tell them 'hey, stop walking because the mic pics up the gravel' well, the mic has already picked up the gravel. I'm not sure how they thought that was going to go. On the other hand, if it was a path on private property that they had rented out, it would be reasonable to expect that there shouldn't be anyone else walking there. So, guy was definitely rude, but I'd need to more context before I give girlie-pop a pass.
The way I would tattoo pink glasses and the quote “You had all ten of your toenails when you got married Alyssa!” On me if my friend said that 😂😂😂😂
💯 or a T-shirt at the very least 😂😂
The last woman was amazing, perfectly nice yet perfectly assertive. Wonderful to see!
Answer to timestamp 8:03
My sister's bachelorette party was the most chill ever. We went to a bungee fun class and then to the maid of honour's house where we ate and drank and played wedding themed games. It was wholesome, it was nice, it was safe. Everyone had a good time and there were no accidents.
But the morning after everyone had muscles sore as f*ck and we shared drama stories so there was crying but we cried together, not because of each other but because of sympathy and sh*t. Overall very chill party.
The girl at the end just needed to drop a "bless your heart" to put that southern stamp of F'off on it
I used to be one of the main hostesses at a popular local restaurant located within a massive historic mansion (really, though, I was basically the floor manager getting paid essentially nothing to do the job of someone who might’ve come upstairs once throughout a busy shift🙄🤦🏻♀️), and I worked with a young woman in her mid20s who had like 8 siblings and they ALL were some of the kindest, sweetest people you’ll ever meet in your life…but as sweet & quiet as Maggie was, she wasn’t going to be disrespected or walked on, either.
We had a lot of entitled customers because our owner was the owner of a few major bars, restaurants, and a giant music venue, everyone who knew him seemed to think that they could be loud, disrespectful jerks who made ridiculous demands & thought they could regularly just go seat themselves as tables were getting up, when we were fully booked with actual reservations and/or on a major waitlist, etc.
It was infuriating when we’d be slammed, trying to handle numerous situations at once, and needing to step in to help the servers if they needed it too, etc., and then we’d have someone start screaming in our faces, demanding to be seated IMMEDIATELY.🤢🤮
And Mags would just be calm AF, smile at them, and constantly respond to the yelling & demands with, “Oh, I see.”
Just that, “Oh, I see.” You really had to be there to hear her delivery of it & see how people responded, though.😂😂
It was definitely her way of politely acknowledging, “I hear you. I see you’re mad. No, I’m not going to do anything about it. Kindly, fu** off.”
And it would just THROW people. Because she wasn’t telling them outright “no”, but absolutely wasn’t telling them “yes”, either, and everyone would start to fumble & not know what to do when she just kept saying “I see”.
Eventually, they’d give up & storm off, and she kinda became our secret weapon for our most difficult customers, because she ALWAYS stayed super calm and peppy, & didn’t fold to the stress & pressure those people can & do absolutely put on service workers.
But nobody could ever really complain about how they were treated, because they couldn’t say she actually did anything to them, she was just too nice.
Always died seeing the laughter in her eyes, though, as she was being perfectly sweet & calm to completely irrationally irate people.
Sometimes the best counter to entitled, rude, disrespectful people is to simply be & show that you’re completely UNBOTHERED.
And a “have a blessed day!”
First one the bride is a bridzilla. Like I’m sorry that’s how you talk to people. And she was just like are you sure?she wasn’t saying she’s not going to wear it just like hey are you sure? Cause it looks like it was Amazon maybe they shipped the wrong dress
Wear it and if it's wrong that on the bride 🤷♀️
@@carolfield2760 I mean, I like wearing some pretty scandalous styles, BUT NOT IN A CHURCH. I'm not even religious, that just feels wrong. I don't blame her for not wanting to wear it.
@@carolfield2760 The bride will blame her for dressing in fluorescent green. I'm pretty sure it was a revenge dress and not in the Diana way. No one will say "The bride has such bad taste", they will say "That MoH is tacky and an attention seeker". Now, I'm petty so I would've sent an apology text or audio message to every guest I had their number, even an email to the church, like, 15 minutes before the ceremony starts, and I would've shown up with that dress and no underwear. I would've even attached the video to her parents.
The conversation sounds fake tbh. Most likely this is for content.
That dress is neon green and extremely short. I would not be in the wedding nor be her friend ever again. PERIOD